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You should read the text game posts in the side bar. Basically, there is no text game. You are stressing about texts because you didn't build the initial attraction high enough to begin with and you are trying to optimize what you believe is easiest to optimize. Once you get the other stuff in the sidebar down, you will just forget the whole text game thing and you will be much more effective. Every minute you waste trying to "optimize" when and what to say via text is a minute you should be doi…
/r/seduction30/06/13 02:46 AM
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I found this subreddit a while back looking for an answer to your question. The answer I found (I can't find the link, but hopefully someone else knows where it is) is: When a girl doesn't respond to your text, don't worry about it. Wait an hour or two, then type: "Hey, I didn't hear back so I made other plans, I owe you one!" I don't believe in "text game" but if there is such a thing, that text is it. pure gold.
/r/seduction29/06/13 10:50 PM
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This guy thinks that a relationship is easier to get from a women than sleeping with her. This is innacurate. He needs to focus on getting her to want to sleep with him, which, if he does successfully will end up with him in a relationship. If he goes for a relationship, he WILL fail. Almost no men are successful with women by 'being them self'. I slept with about 15 women and had a few LTRs before finding this sub. My LTRs were with women who choose me. I was getting blown off by a girl i reall…
/r/seduction20/06/13 06:20 PM
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Not really. They require confidence and playfulness. If she shit tests you and you fail a few times, you are cooked
/r/seduction20/06/13 05:45 PM
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Hey, there is a lot of good advice in the side bar, but I think I can help you find the right advice. 1). You won't get a relationship without sleeping with her so focus on that. 2). If she asks you "Do you want a relationship?" DO NOT ANSWER with "yes". This is a shit test, see the sidebar. 3). Read the advice on shit tests again. 4). After the date, follow text game in the side bar, i.e. minimal texting. 5). Don't be yourself unless you are naturally following all the advice in the sidebar. 6)…
/r/seduction20/06/13 05:23 PM
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This looks like onitis. See the side bar.
/r/seduction19/06/13 12:30 AM
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"So i was teasing this girl I've been slightly friends with for a couple years on fb" Have you ever met her in real life?
/r/seduction18/06/13 11:35 PM
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I can say with 100% certainty that giving her an 1 of 3 choices will weaken your position. Not sure what the best move is, but i would ask if you can have an open relationship. My logic would be that if she lets me, I find out that I was already in a really weak spot so it didnt matter. If she doesnt let me, I can then be in the driver seat on the terms.
/r/seduction18/06/13 05:15 PM
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I had to reread your post 3 times. What exactly is she doing you don't like? It sounds like you are fuck buddies without being able to sleep around. That basically sounds like a relationship without a title.
/r/seduction18/06/13 02:32 PM
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I have direct experience with this because I moved to a new city for a new job and I did.t know a single person. Here is what I did: 1). Went on some OKcupid dates, tried to get in the friendzone. 2). Meetup.com some new to xyz city events. I didn't have much luck here, but I did have luck there in another city. 3). Joined a kickball league. 4). Went to the bar alone. Talked to random people. 5). Joined an alumni association. They also have events with entire sports conferences like SEC pub craw…
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:01 PM
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Tell her you are going out after work one night and ask her if she wants to join you. Start slow, initiate kino, don't get drunk, feel it out. Leave if you get drunk. If she had fun, you got another chance. Be ready for the shit tests that will happen. If she is hot, worst case scenerio she has friends who may be attractive. Just don't get drunk so you can maintain control. For the guys saying don't try because it is work, they probably don't understand that the auditor works for another company…
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:23 PM
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Absolutely do not ask for feedback unless you never want to see her again. No matter what, assume it went well, don't make excuses for anything you did. Read the sidebar again on being alpha right before your next interaction.
/r/seduction13/06/13 06:43 PM
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Agreed. Except I think the Game is much less value than MM. But, reading the game first may make someone more open to MM. I'm going to buy the other two books right now. MM is truly revolutionary. Also, the sidebar here is pretty legit and is more condensed than the other stuff.
/r/seduction10/06/13 02:47 AM
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as a 30 year old guy, I confirm this. It actually starts around 28. But, by the time they are 30, they have met so many guys... and so many single guys at 30 are HUGE AFCs. Women don't want AFCs. While this subreddit is benefiting us guys, it is probably benefiting the women even more. Decent looking women have an endless supply of guys who are so desperate it is ridiculous. This subreddit is helping both sexes immensely. Women are chasing the men who will let women chase them. Most guys decide …
/r/seduction04/06/13 01:08 AM
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When I was younger I worked hard thinking that money would vastly improve my situation with women. When I was young and broke, I would get laid sheerly by luck (just like most guys, basically would get laid by not fucking up when a girl is interested). Fast forward to a year and a half ago. I moved to a new city with a very lucrative job with lots of social proof attached... Guess what happened? I got laid... way way less. I commented to a friend of mine at the time that all I needed was some mo…
/r/seduction03/06/13 04:17 PM
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Zappos let you search for shoes with higher soles. (under oxfords), that can easily give you 1 to 1.5 inches. Women now are wearing heals with even the toe elevated so they are basically wearing platform shoes. You definitely should do what you can to even the playing field. Women seem to eliminate guys on different dimensions in their "ideal mate". That being said, when a women meets you, she will judge you independently of her ideal mate. Being 5'2 is going to make things more challenging for …
/r/seduction02/06/13 06:41 PM
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Yeah, I think a lot of guys look at the math like you put it, .53, lowering your chance of the whole group liking you. The reality is, most girls you want to meet will never be alone, so you are far better off learning to talk to groups than trying to only talk to single girls. Once you practice talking to groups, the math actually changes so that your chances are much, much better the larger the group. I think it is MM, that says you need to bring higher energy than the group has, and that is s…
/r/seduction01/06/13 02:22 AM
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Maybe I read it wrong, but it sounds like he is in the same social circle. If that is the case, only damned if he does.
/r/seduction22/05/13 07:41 PM
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I did this when I was younger, and it worked to get other women, then I just forgot about her.
/r/seduction22/05/13 06:31 PM
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Yeah, I agree with you. It does sound desperate. I'd just cancel then. If he goes for coffee I think he will be ultra friend zoned.
/r/seduction22/05/13 06:29 PM
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Then he is fully out of the friend zone and can go right back to the normal sidebar. IDK. I think it is best, but I have never tried it.
/r/seduction22/05/13 05:58 PM
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Question for the group: Would anyone consider doing the following: Writing her a quick text: "Hey, let's cancel coffee, I should have answered your question about wanting to be more than friends honestly. I was definitely considering it prior to you asking. Anyway, I'll see you next time we do XYZ but I decided to do ABC instead. See ya next time :)"
/r/seduction22/05/13 05:56 PM
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Most guys have been there. That was her loosing interest. What you were doing physically resembled kino but it was actually you just being needy and wanting validation. At the end of a relationship which ends in a women initiated breakup, they don't want to be touched.
/r/seduction20/05/13 10:53 PM
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This guy is 100% correct. The only way to build attraction via text is to not text at all.
/r/seduction20/05/13 05:49 PM
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"What conversational techniques can we employ to introduce and build rapport with these new girls without the need to feel like we are picking them up, but merely entertaining our guests and making new friends?" Well, that isn't seduction so why is it here? If you asked: How can I fake it like I am a nice guy and eventually sleep with them, then it would belong here. But the reason you didn't state that is because that is a ridiculous question so you framed it another way.
/r/seduction20/05/13 02:58 AM
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It doesn't seem like you are actually trying to seduce so this doesn't belong here.
/r/seduction20/05/13 02:33 AM
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You know, I saw this earlier today and didn't get a chance to respond. I'd say: 5'3 is tough, but the fact that you are Asian is an advantage for sure. 1st) make sure you get shoes with heel. Zappos lets you search by heal height for Oxfords (going out shoes), so you can add 1.5 inches right away. Now your almost 5'5. Not perfect, but getting there. 2nd) I've dated 2 girls below 5'3 and probably had sex with more so there are definitely plenty of girls out there shorter than you! 3rd) Being Asia…
/r/seduction20/05/13 01:03 AM
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I only think its sad that mine doesn't
/r/seduction20/05/13 12:48 AM
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I just stopped dating online the other day, what I did that worked really well was this: As soon as I get a response from them (or if they message me first), I immediately follow up with this message: (something funny, or just bring up something about the convo), followed by: Hey, I'm not free this weekend, but I could grab some drinks next week. That has worked EVERYTIME. Before I would do that, my success at actually going from a short convo to a date was terrible. They reply... Then I say, gr…
/r/seduction18/05/13 02:20 AM
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I asked myself this in college (nearly 10 years ago), the truth is, your room is not going to be what gets them there. I read your post and literally fell back in time, remembered looking at my roommates rooms, hearing stories "I told her XYZ etc." and I thought that I needed something amazing to show her, that just wasn't true. Here are two examples to prove it: 1) Your room is the most amazing place ever, you have a piece of the moon in a glass case which you can show her. 2) Your room sucks, …
/r/seduction17/05/13 03:14 AM
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I don't really care about the 7, 8, 9 or 10, but it is weird to put "9.5". Why not just put 9, or 10? More importantly, everyone's scale is different. To me: 10) I basically never see a 10 in real life. Successful, intelligent, model/actress etc 9) Really attractive maybe see a one or two 9s a night in a big city (excluding NY where you see more than one or two in a night). 8) Anytime I go home with an 8, I'm pretty excited about that. Very attractive, maybe I'll see 3 or 4 in a big city in a ni…
/r/seduction13/05/13 10:38 PM
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Why would you immediately tell her "you're too beautiful". That is pretty much the only bad opener. If you are complementing a girl's looks without knowing her, that will weird her out. Read the side bar, open with something about the store, what time is it, etc, never about her attractiveness. Once you open, follow the side bar. Try it 20 times, you will see a huge improvement.
/r/seduction04/05/13 12:15 PM
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I just went through that. Years of only dating one girl at a time, then I read seddit and was like fuck it. Here is my advice: 1) Outcome independence will come naturally, if for some reason you start getting attached, just think about one of the other dates you have, then go back to present date mentally. Works awesome. 2) If you start feeling like a scumbag, remember, every good looking women has multiple guys after them, and they are usually actively going on dates. 3) Don't assume they don't…
/r/seduction04/05/13 12:31 AM
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I don't know if it will work, but if it works on your gf, you have big issues. If she is single or singlish, who knows what she would do? The one thing that I think makes no sense about this text is that if you did awe her, why wouldn't you walk up to her. Maybe go with a, "What were you doing in that bus today? Didn't get dui did you? (Assuming that was you)".
/r/seduction01/05/13 01:12 AM
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In my experience, the female equivalent of the alpha male is the girl that has all of the guy's friends saying how cool/great/hot she is and she consistently adds value. Get a guy's friends' approval and you are the alpha female. Being the alpha female does not mean you will get the guy, just like every alpha male doesn't get every girl, but it will HELP BIG TIME. Dos: Be nice to them and talk to them like you are their buddy If his friends are single, don't judge their antics, actually, don't j…
/r/seduction30/04/13 10:19 PM
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I'm just curious, do you live in a small town or a big city?
/r/seduction27/04/13 02:44 AM
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What a neg
/r/seduction27/04/13 02:43 AM
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Go to a different subreddit. This could be anywhere from simple shit.to femdom. Sounds like you need to talk.
/r/seduction26/04/13 05:38 PM
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Dude, don't do that. There is no way they are being honest with you when you text them for feedback. Would you be honest and tell a girl she is too fat? Text game comes down to this. Send a text with one funny thing that happened or you saw with her. When she responds, ask her out. That's it. No needy bullshit in between. You are texting these girls because you want validation. No, no, no. That won't work.
/r/seduction23/04/13 11:34 PM
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I like roberto's comment. It could also be a strategy to get power. or it could be an IOI. You need more evidence than just the touching. Also, stop looking... keep eye contact and see what happens next.
/r/seduction18/04/13 03:45 AM
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Ah... it sounds like you aren't closing much or you wouldn't be worried about it. The advice to agree and amplify works if you are closing, if you aren't closing, you may need other advice. So, are you closing?
/r/seduction18/04/13 03:43 AM
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If your at 5, you are good. I'm at 5'', no girl has ever not wanted to fuck a second time. I've been able to give gspot orgasms to multiple women. One girl who is obsessed with me had magnum condoms from her x. She doesn't give a shit. I have no idea where the line is, but as someone that has been with enough women to know, they really don't care, as long as you are adaquet. Try bending her legs back to her head. She'll love that. Stop worrying about it, if you are losing repeats, it isn't your …
/r/seduction17/04/13 08:40 PM
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Yeah, TheLostOne3 has a better way of saying it. I saw the warning signs too, but it also could be that the mutual friend just doesn't know how to set up a good date.
/r/seduction14/04/13 11:55 PM
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Just say, if she is up for bowling, I'm down, but the movies wont work. I'm sure it is possible to build report at the movies, but it is so unlikely, you might as well not go
/r/seduction14/04/13 10:55 PM
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To be honest, you are right. Guys are never in open relationships, and my answer was bullshit. Likely, the guy that is fucking her once a week, told her "we are in an open relationship" which means she flirts with guys to feel better about herself while not actually fucking anyone else. No one gets Oninities like women.
/r/seduction13/04/13 04:21 AM
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um, so you can have sex with other people while dating someone.
/r/seduction13/04/13 03:59 AM
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Dude, you're average. At least do a minimal amount of research before you freak out. Most guys don't have porn dicks. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size#Erect_length
/r/seduction13/04/13 02:33 AM
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Yeah, that makes sense. Once she figured out you had zero relationships, then she will definitely be curious if you were a virgin. You should assume you are toast at that point and should work on trying to answer the more normal relationship questions to avoid her from getting suspicious. Here is what you should seriously have shit test memorized answers to: Number of previous relationships? What's your longest relationship? I've been out with a lot of girls since I was in HS and College and tho…
/r/seduction13/04/13 12:14 AM
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Hey, this looks like it fell off the page, so I hope you get to see this. The thing with dating is, you have to show full confidence. Part of having full confidence is NEVER, EVER, EVER asking about how things are going etc. I find it really, really hard to believe that she came out of the blue and said "Are you a virgin?", or "How many girls have you slept with". I get those types of questions only when I initiate the topic. Be really careful not to ever mention the topics of: x-girl friends, p…
/r/seduction12/04/13 10:39 PM
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