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1	How do I hook up with girls in college? I’m also in college and here’s my advice: you actually have to be in a situation where escalating to sex is appropriate. So like alone in ur dorm or at a party. Most girls don’t have sex on their mind right after class, club meets, or events so it’s hard to escalate from that.	/r/seduction	05/12/19 12:41 PM
1	Daygaming in College for 1 year It seems like you really enjoyed Models by Mark Manson, I did too. That book was really an eye opener. However, Mark did not mention this in his book but he did say that if you had to approach hundreds of women in order to have success, then you're doing it wrong, While I think cold approach is a great way to learn social calibration, I don't think you'll have much success doing it. It's not effective in the long run. I'm also in college right now, so I can somewhat relate to your situation. I t…	/r/seduction	10/06/19 05:35 AM
1	Trying to get my summer fling going. Is she into me? Mixed signals Just go out a lot and you'll figure it out	/r/seduction	03/06/19 06:31 PM
2	Trying to get my summer fling going. Is she into me? Mixed signals Don't over think what girls say, it rarely reflects what they want. The girl I'm currently sleeping with initially said she doesn't wanna do anything sexual till marriage. Yet two weeks later I'm sleeping in her bed with her. Girls want sex from the guy they like, but they are not going to initiate it because they don't want to be viewed as a slut. Girls expect the man to make a move first. Next time you guys hang out I would recommend to physically escalate on her, (i.e. hand around her waist, …	/r/seduction	03/06/19 03:33 PM
10	STOP ! with all the "SEDUCTION" TEXTING. Be a man. Texting or not texting depends on the situation. I'm in college right now and I think the most important factors for seduction depends on three factors: Proximity, frequency, and game. If you see the girl frequent and you have decent game (i.e. not acting like a bitch) then there is a good chance for things to escalate. In this case texting is not needed. Only text to set up meetups. I often see a guy text a lot because he doesn't see the girl as often, but these guys never have success. The gir…	/r/seduction	29/05/19 03:30 PM
25	How do I make sure that it's a date and not a friend hangout? Be more assertive and get more physical. Dude you got girls alone in your room and you're not making a move, that's telling the girl you're either a pussy or you're gay. If a girl trust you enough to be alone in a room with you it means she's comfortable enough to have sex or least getting sexual. A girl is most likely not going to initiate sex, she expects the guy to do it. So be a man and do it. Why I stress sex so much is because the best way to avoid the friendzone is to ask for a relationsh…	/r/seduction	18/05/19 01:41 PM
6	Guys in college, how are you meeting girls on campus? Of course you show romantic interest. How much interest you show depends on the girl. Some girl are more conservative while others are more open. Showing too much intent right off the bat can backfire dramatically. Plus, I highly recommend having a lot of female friends. You can learn a lot about social dynamics from it. I used to think the direct approach was the best way, but it's not nearly as effective as the social circle approach. I met a chick in a club meet once, she was older than me an…	/r/seduction	12/05/19 09:23 PM
14	Guys in college, how are you meeting girls on campus? I’m also in college right now, my best advice is to go to club meets and expand social circle. In club meets girls actually want to meet and make friends. Just be cool and fun, get their contact and set up meet ups.	/r/seduction	12/05/19 06:31 PM
1	How can I master seduction? Fuck the books, go out.	/r/seduction	11/02/19 03:35 PM
0	Texting to get a girl out on a date? If a girl wants to see you then making plans will be easy, usually a simple yes or no. It seems like she’s giving you a lot of resistance, I say delete the number and move on. A lot of girls will text for the sake of texting but it doesn’t mean she will hang out with you. There are girls out there who will be excited to hang out with you and make meeting up effortless. Don’t waste time with the ones that doesn’t respond or flakes.	/r/seduction	04/02/19 02:52 PM
1	Dating at college [Specific Question] Bro this is nothing personal but why is a senior dating a freshmen. I’m also in college right now and I only date girls who are same age or older than me. These young girls are constantly looking for the next stimulus that entertain them, they are only as royal as their options. Date older girls who are mature. No games and honest communication. Makes life so much easier and better.	/r/seduction	31/01/19 02:06 PM
6	How to work on text game I hate theories so here are my actual experiences. I’m currently in college and all I do is study, gym, and date. I’ve experienced and seen what works and what doesn’t. I studied from dating coaches that are controversial like RSD and those who are very credible like Mark Manson. I’ve boiled it down to basically this: Fuck conversation, just ask to hang out. Maybe send one text of “how you doin” or “it was meeting you” but that’s about it. Just ask to hang out, if she says yes, ask when she’s fr…	/r/seduction	24/01/19 02:16 PM
3	Struggle of texting with girls DMs and texting Truth about DMs Social media myth Controversial topic but true (mostly) Take the videos with a grain of salt, but the general principles are solid.	/r/seduction	04/12/18 11:29 PM
8	Struggle of texting with girls Look, don’t use text as conversation tool. Use it to set up meet up. Here are practical reasons: I’m currently in college. I’m pretty close with a few girls, just friends with some, and have some that are just study buddies. Point being, I hang out with cute girls pretty consistently. Not bragging here, cause trust me, I’ve come a long way. Anyway, I see the girls getting texts from guys ALL THE TIME. Girls invest very little to zero effort into their texts for 95% of the guys. By that I mean th…	/r/seduction	04/12/18 07:06 PM
9	Girl asked if I wanted to go to the movies with her and said she’ll pay. What’s the protocol here. The posts in this sub are getting a little ridiculous honesty. Why do you need advice from random strangers on the internet about going to the movies with a girl? If you wanna go then go. If you don’t wanna go then don’t go. If she offers to pay, say thank you. If you end up paying then pay. If you feel things might get sexual then make a move. If not then move on with life. No “protocol”, no games, no bullshit. Don’t make things more complicated than it is.	/r/seduction	01/12/18 07:42 PM
2	Freshman in College I'm also in college so I speak from actual experience. Social circle/social media game is king, period. Highly recommend checking out RSD for this topic. Look this up on YouTube: "Modern Game Revealed: STOP Using STONE-AGE Dating Advice To Pick Up Girls And WIN". Also check out RSD Luke's channel for videos he did with Owen on the topic of Social Media. (seriously, learn this shit.) Like I said I'm also currently in college and I'm applying their teaching (to the degree that's appropriate for co…	/r/seduction	18/09/18 06:06 AM
2	This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you. I'm 18 years old, in college, gonna try your method out. Engage and turn her on but hold off on the sex, got it.	/r/seduction	13/09/18 02:04 PM
1	She won’t brake eye contact I think this is called common sense. People make eye contact when interacting with others and it’s perfectly natural to not break it until conversation is done.	/r/seduction	26/07/18 11:53 AM
3	Mini-golf dates. Do you like them? Any tips on what to wear, what to do, and logistics? You are over thinking this. How are u going to have fun when u have all this mess in your head. You can’t enjoy the moment if you’re always worried about the future. Just go with the flow.	/r/seduction	12/06/18 05:22 PM
7	I got my crush's Snapchat! ...now what? [FR] Too much analysis, just ask her to hang out sometimes and avoid having conversations on Snapchat other than to make plans.	/r/seduction	10/06/18 09:25 PM
1	Book suggestion on having a more "alpha" mentality? Relentless by Tim Grover. This guy does not fuck around, he trains world class athletes.	/r/seduction	03/06/18 09:39 PM
1	I want to sleep with beautiful women because I was bullied in high school If these books didn't help maybe you should find some Tony Robbins videos on happiness, I suggest watch it at least a few times over.	/r/seduction	15/12/16 12:42 PM
1	I want to sleep with beautiful women because I was bullied in high school Read Models by Mark Manson or No more Mr Nice guy by Robert Glover. The only "pick up" books you need to read, in a very healthy way.	/r/seduction	15/12/16 11:03 AM
1	I seduced a 24 year old girl I have no questions, just wanted to say congrats!	/r/seduction	21/07/16 11:27 AM