NotEvenRemotelyLisa Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
45	Today in 'having a kid together won't fix your relationship' Abusive/controlling parent —> Abusive/controlling partner You have to get trauma therapy to break the cycle	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/21 05:27 PM
7	As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies??? This is why prenups are absolutely required. You can spell out things like this, and you can also avoid taking on someone else’s debt. Another good argument for being self supporting in your own right, no matter what. Don’t become economically enslaved to a man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/21 02:24 PM
6	FDSers who are married to or dating HVM, what brought you here? I came here during my recovery from a truly terrible marriage then went on for twenty years. I knew by the day of the wedding that it was a mistake. All my instincts yelled at me for two decades. I wish I’d had the strength of self to listen to my instincts. I sent my daughter and my sister here. I remind them all the time to expect more. When I found someone who seemed HV, this sub reminded me to go very slowly with him. To give him time to reveal his true self. To not get too wrapped up in my …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/21 04:55 AM
30	The bar is in hell and I am so tired of it So she married someone like her mother and now they work together against her. Great. If you have any trauma or unresolved issues from childhood, you will marry it. Be sure you’re healed before you date, is the first thing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/21 04:39 AM
11	An empowered class of people does not have to beg and scramble to maintain control of their means of survival like this. Have you great of horseshoe theory? In this case it’s feminism bending so far away from patriarchy that it starts to harm women just like the patriarchy. On my alts I get frequent bans from the dating subs. Once it was for suggesting that women (or men) should not feel bad about not liking violent kinks. Recently I got banned for pointing out the statistics about how often men leave women when they’re sick, as something to think about for a woman considering dating a much younger man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/21 06:23 PM
44	Never take your freedom to choose to avoid LVM for granted. My heart is broken for our sisters living under Sharia law. I hope this situation will finally wake up feminists to the truth about Islam (practiced in this form). I lived in a country with sharia law for several years. It is actually considered one of the most free Islamic countries in the world. But women were not allowed to own property, could not initiate divorce, could not have custody of their children if their husband decided to divorce them. When they were given the right to get educated, they stopped getting married by the droves. They immediate…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/21 01:30 PM
17	Again. Single dads will use younger women for childcare. I’m glad to see this here. I just read that post and was so disgusted. That subreddit is full of young women who got manipulated into marrying older men to take care of their kids for them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/21 03:42 AM
26	Never trust dudes who have the female “best friend” in adulthood. Normally this woman is someone they strung along for years as a back up hook-up. 90% chance he is already sleeping with her. If you or anyone reading this finds themselves in a similar situation: It is absolutely illegal to create a work atmosphere like that, and you can sue for sexual harassment. It is sexual harassment to have to see/listen to inappropriate behavior and conversations at work. Also, yes, you are 100% correct about the first part being triangulation. It’s a manipulation tactic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/21 07:15 PM
2	Say It Louder For All The LVMs/NVMs & Scotes In The Back 🗣 I believe this is a cultural problem in the US, deeply ingrained. I lived for years in Scandinavia, and it was so nice that you could be in a group and have a fascinating conversation with a man who would listen and take you seriously and respond intelligently, but not give off any hint of sexual attraction or innuendo. In the US, straight men usually only pay attention or take you seriously if they find you attractive. It’s gross. You’re always walking a fine line with them if they’re in a posi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/06/21 05:32 PM
26	I have no words She can say whatever she wants. It won’t change the fact that he doesn’t care about her, besides her being a vending machine for sex.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 07:51 PM