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They are a public company. You can see all the details here https://finance.yahoo.com/quote/MTCH/ The insane part is the market cap for this company is $24 billion! They are being investigated by the DOJ for scamming guys into paying money for the service with fake profiles of hot women and other deceptive practices. https://www.thestreet.com/investing/match-shares-rebound-as-investors-sense-opportunity-in-wake-of-ftc-lawsuit-15106505
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 04:30 PM
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It's so nice when you get your "boyfriend" to help pay your rent like that...
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 03:54 PM
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It's so nice when you get your "boyfriend" to help pay your rent like that...
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 03:53 PM
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Sadly that is not true. Due to simps being both desperate for pussy in general and algorithm changes the online dating sites are doing to manipulate users into paying, the leading company in this space Match Group, the owners of OkCupid, PlentyOfFish, Tinder, Hinge and Match.com, have rapidly growing revenues and are on track to exceed $2 billion in revenues this year and profits of over $500 million. It is very profitable space that can pay for a lot of advertising.
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 12:59 AM
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Except when your ex moves away 1,700 miles without your consent and then alienates your kids so they want talk to you or see you when you do show up... that is how life goes when you have a borderline ex.
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 12:47 AM
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https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2020/01/22/farewell-for-now-at-least-and-thank-you/
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 11:41 PM
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Let's say she had a genuine change of heart seeing the errors of her ways and wants to live a conservative Christian lifestyle. The big problems is what feminism has done to the family court system to make it so risky for men to have children or be married that only a fool would go down that route with someone of this history. For example in California while you can do a prenup for nearly all financial matters but it can be thrown out partly or entirely if it is deemed "unconscionable" which is …
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 07:12 PM
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Yes that was his perspective from 8 years ago but now he is chasing his unicorn being married with two kids. He just announced recently he is shutting down his blogging site which was loaded with lots of anti-feminist content and pretty much oriented to his beliefs in a traditional religious conservative lifestyle. I'm sure many men here have a view of where this will lead to eventually...
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 09:57 AM
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Um... gay squirrels taking turns?
/r/MGTOW24/01/20 04:53 PM
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Save money by moving into a bedroom in a large house with multiple renters so you get more social contact and then use the money you save to go on international vacations. Central and South America, along with South East Asia is very cheap to visit with amazing sights and activities, friendly people, and its easy to find female company on your journey.
/r/MGTOW24/01/20 04:23 PM
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She looks 15....
/r/MGTOW24/01/20 04:11 AM
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The statistics show that mothers are more likely to kill their children then fathers.
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 04:28 AM
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Make sure your body is prepared well for any fight. I've noticed that when I stick diligently to my vitamin and nutritional supplement regimen that I don't tend to get sick when many around me are and if I do happen to catch something that the severity is never that bad. We live in a world where it is hard to get optimal nutrition from regular food sources.
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 04:24 AM
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All women are prostitutes, it's only a question of whether cash or credit, and if you are paying by the hour, month or year...
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 12:09 AM
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Alcohol is a drug that often dramatically change peoples mental behaviors, lowering inhibition and impulse control all while often ramping up violence and aggression. Women drinking alcohol and hanging around strong masculine men drinking alcohol is just not a smart thing to do. Feminism told them they have the "right" do do that all while staying in control of choosing their chad's because big brother government is standing right there with them to "protect" them.
/r/MGTOW21/01/20 03:02 PM
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Different people
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:51 PM
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This will be great for the environment and in spite of the screaming by the globalists that are always pushing population growth because of the Ponzi scheme of social security requiring more young people to keep propping up the old, but in the end less people means more assets to go around so I think it will work out just fine.
/r/MGTOW15/01/20 03:50 PM
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Given it's such a highly politicized and polarized topic it's near impossible to know what it true and what is not but the one thing I've determined is that a solution to much of the world's problems including climate change is reversing overpopulation. There are simply way too many people on this planet and it's causing too much environmental damage. What I always find perplexing about environmentalists is they always push for more laws and regulations but they never push for population control…
/r/MGTOW14/01/20 04:57 PM
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I think there are many areas of business and industries that were invented by men that naturally leverage the wiring and talents of men and when these women get a chance to compete they run into the reality that men and women are just different. Some women do rise to the top and can compete and win but its an exception and not anywhere near equal. Of course feminism told them they are equal (or even superior) so those indoctrinated as such can only believe the reasons they don't "win" is because…
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 08:05 PM
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What I've learned about many women that want a "poly-amorous" relationship is what they really mean is they can screw around all they want, because they have the opportunity to easily and especially for random hookups, and they except it is much harder for the men, which is true. When they find out you actually got some it totally wrecks their emotions and they go down a path of saying how your method of obtaining sex was not the same as theirs and thus is "wrong", "inappropriate", "hurtful", "n…
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 05:17 PM
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I agree with everything you say but here in the US the "solution" to that problem is to flood the country with immigrants, both legal and illegal, as the historical American populated is replaced with foreigners. That stats in this regards are undeniable.
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 10:06 PM
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He might avoid paying child support but he gave up his entire life so hard to say it worked out well for him. One reality you face in this situation as a high earner is if you are in an expensive metro area like NY or San Francisco making what seems like good money in the US, say $150K/year. You will lose 30-40% in incomes taxes (state and federal). You will lose another 25-35% of after tax income to child support for a single child. Leaving you as little as $58K/year. In places where rents for …
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 10:02 PM
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Well to be fair it's both sexes in America are badly obese and it's getting worse every day. One could say that it's in women's best interests to be more in shape over men given the typical dynamics. Women spend so much money on beauty products to attract men yet obesity for most men is a complete turn off that nothing else they do can overcome.
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 09:46 PM
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There are a few creative suggestions here like the gambling addict one but you need to decide about your ethics. They way you've been saving cash is great and unlikely to ever be discovered in divorce process because it's too much trouble to find proof and I've learned the court does not have the time to really look at such details. If it gets detected because you are sloppy then your ex's attorney could easily chew up lots of legal fees by inflaming her emotions to "catch that thieving bastard.…
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 09:35 PM
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Your portrayal is not quite accurate. Legally any assets or property you had before marriage stays yours after divorce. This is called "separate property". Unless you have a prenup saying otherwise or not in a community property state, any income from either spouse is considered shared equally by both. This is called "community property" How people lose their separate property in divorce is after being married they use "community property" income to pay for one or the others "separate property".…
/r/MGTOW12/01/20 06:49 PM
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Women trying to normalize Borderline Personality Disorder behaviors...
/r/MGTOW11/01/20 05:18 AM
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My 56 years of wisdom comes down to two absolute requirements for the best chances for a "quality" women. If you find either one not true you immediately ghost. 1) She has a great relationship with both parents (even if they are divorced) and talks/visits them at least once a week, and more like every few days. She should honor them in words and deeds in all ways. 2) You never see her lie to her parents. Not even the smallest little lie of any sort. No "white lies". No "I don't want to hurt thei…
/r/MGTOW10/01/20 08:31 PM
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I think is very likely that the online dating app algorithms are intentionally making it so matches happen much less than they used to and also creating fake profiles that make you think you've matched but its not a real person (The FTC is suing over this). They do all of this to "encourage" you to pay a premium level and year after year they keep lowering the success rate knowing the desperate will keep paying even for crumbs. Match Group is now a public company and they consolidated the major …
/r/MGTOW10/01/20 07:02 PM
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Grand wisdom hard learned... You can't change others you can only change yourself.
/r/MGTOW10/01/20 12:33 AM
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For heroin addicts the only success is total sobriety and there is never such a thing as a little. As they say one hit of that drug is too much and it will destroy you and 100 hits is never enough to satisfy. To think that women and heroin are that much different...
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 10:22 PM
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Puerto Rico can be a great value and weather is spectacular in the winter.
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 06:56 PM
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Your points are good although I would say more women do sweatshop manufacturing in Asia then men. My thoughts being that in the high end creative realms of society men dominate in creating so much but at the low end exploited side of capitalism women and men are equally used a fodder to make the richest people even richer.
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 06:51 PM
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The concept of empirical truth is disappearing as those in power bend truth to suit their agendas. This has become incredibly obvious in the political realm and it is spilling out into all facets of society.
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 06:46 PM
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Firefighting is amazingly hard work and they all look in such great shape. Great role models for men and boys!
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 06:42 PM
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I don't disagree with your premise on trust but you are most likely not gonna get very far in the business world for example if you don't trust others as that is a foundation for wealth building to be part of the trust circle for upper tier society.
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 05:56 PM
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This is where hookers seem so much safer. Even if a prostitute tries to play some games like this the police are unlikely to take it seriously given her profession.
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 05:53 PM
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As a cynic I had to test this myself... It's real. To get to this level of "prediction" it has to be searched a whole lot of times!
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 05:50 PM
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Paying child support for alienated kids you have no relationship with is the quintessential definition of "divorce rape". Ryan Thomas video's on Youtube give a good idea of the tactics that alienator's use to turn your kids against you. This guy had zero contact with his dad from 15 to 25 but eventually figured it out and now does videos to help others. Now he says he has an amazing relationship with his dad. This is a good one for example "No-Win Situation | Child of Parental Alienation | Ryan …
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 05:39 PM
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She moved them away against my consent and our court order 2,000 miles away. Yes I could have fought in court and that is what she wanted because she thrives in creating chaos and conflict. At 54 I decided I would rather have peace and serenity than battling her for the next 5-6 years in court and co-parenting hell. I have two kids with another ex that I fought for 15 years in courts and eventually "winning" primary custody. I decided never again.
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 05:30 PM
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I agree on the DNA test. The story of her poking holes in condoms sounds like cover-up for cheating. If the daughter is his and she reached out, it seems she's trying to figure out her identity with a really messed up mom and her dad could at least have some relationship to help her through those difficult teen years.
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 05:24 PM
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I went no contact with my ex almost two years ago. That has been a huge blessing in terms of peace and tranquility in my life but it cost me contact with my kids. For a borderline their biggest fear is abandonment, because deep down their know they are horrible people and being abandoned is absolute proof that they can't deny. Sadly she doubled down on the alienation of my kids and at this point until they are adults and get free of her control it's unlikely I'll have any relationship and possib…
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 03:42 AM
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I know this too well... Two years since I've seen my sons...
/r/MGTOW09/01/20 03:26 AM
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As someone that had kids with a Borderline yes I think you are spot on. Sociopath is probably not the right label for these behaviors. Both are cluster B personality disorders with the other two being Narcissistic and Histrionic. They have some common behaviors but also unique traits. Typically the only relief you will ever get is going no contact with these toxic people.
/r/MGTOW08/01/20 07:49 PM
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And all of it un-taxed and thus not tracked by the government allowing for the continued "victim" mentality of the feminist movement since there are little stats to point out the truth.
/r/MGTOW08/01/20 12:52 AM
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He's also done a remarkable job of not getting anyone pregnant.
/r/MGTOW07/01/20 08:02 PM
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If you want to really go off the deep end in this realm read some of the stuff in /r/Rapekink/ I'm not sure what's more dangerous playing Russian roulette with only one empty chamber or participating as a guy in that world? You will see story after story of women trying to bait guys into raping them because they totally get off on it.
/r/MGTOW07/01/20 07:47 PM
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Seems like blatant sexist discrimination against men by creating quotas that hopefully will get struck down by the supreme court. Or maybe the easiest solution is to just have cisgender males just "identify" as female to meet the new requirements?
/r/MGTOW07/01/20 04:01 AM
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I started out taking what taking what I expected to be a year off. It eventually turned into 4 1/2 years. I was 52 at the time and for me it was the first time I was not in a relationship since I was 17. It was very good for me to finally gain introspection and perspective about life while not being in the clouded confusion of a relationship. Probably my start of MGTOW mindset even before I knew what it was. I'm a business owner so the money kept flowing but I just told everyone at my company "I…
/r/MGTOW06/01/20 07:04 PM
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Is this real? It looks Photoshopped from a real picture.
/r/MGTOW05/01/20 03:29 PM
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I think maybe the most recent big drop-off could because of all the efforts by bigtech to censor MGTOW postings and and de-platform advocates as "hate speech".
/r/MGTOW05/01/20 02:53 PM
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Sounds like this was written by a man pretending to be a female. How many women say "monk mode" or "I have hobbies"?
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 11:58 PM
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It's a good movie in showing some of the motivations for why guys are choosing MGTOW. Since it was created and directed by a formally feminist women it's a ideal tool to get close female relatives in your life such as daughters or sisters a view of the reality of men in today's society against all the feminist propaganda they have been indoctrinated with. It's also a good movie to show young males in your life that you care about to try to open their eyes at an early age rather than have them le…
/r/MGTOW31/12/19 04:50 PM
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It is so awesome when people get caught with undeniable proof of how horrible they really are. She is one nasty women for sure. I imagine this shows her well practiced shaming tactics in arguments with her boyfriends/husbands. She would be a nightmare for sure.
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 04:50 PM
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I think a lot of guys that go to strip clubs are married and this is their way of indulging their fantasies without "cheating" but with what most places charge it seems more like unscrupulous preying upon those guys desperately stuck in a lonely, monotonous, and monogamous marriages looking for a little relief. In my limited experiences I think strip clubs are a complete rip-off and hardly think the women are "exploited". It's the patrons that are exploited for sure.
/r/MGTOW10/12/19 05:33 PM
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My Mormon BPD ex used well honed seduction to lure me in. I rode an emotional roller coaster for nine years and it cost a lot of money. My reward was she moved out of state to marry an ex from high school and she has so successfully alienated my kids that I've not seen them in two years. Your mileage my vary but it was the biggest mistake of my life.
/r/MGTOW10/12/19 05:08 PM
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This report did a great job of showing her seductive dancing and lifestyle to lure the poor guy in and how absolutely evil she was in trying to frame him for domestic violence. She is the poster girl on when you should not "believe all women". She is the worst of the worst!
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 07:23 PM
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Well if "beauty comes in all shapes and sizes" but if that is the line-up at the brothel then only 3 or 4 are going home with much money in their pockets...
/r/MGTOW08/12/19 03:28 PM
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I think this is a nice concise article on MGTOW dynamics in relation to the broader society that is a good read. There are some terms that are MGTOW "inside knowledge" that probably don't mean something to a reader without explaining concepts, such as "the plantation" and "cock carousel". How much articles like this get a wider view remains to be seen in this world of censorship and closed mindedness.
/r/MGTOW07/12/19 08:02 PM
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In America child support has never been tax deductible for the payer or taxed by the recipient but a disappointing change in the Trump 2018 tax law modifications is that alimony that used to be deductible by the payer and taxed by the recipient is now like CS. This means that the typically higher earner gets screwed over in paying more taxes, and more so because it pushes income into higher brackets, and the leach now gets money tax free.
/r/MGTOW07/12/19 07:17 PM
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It's refreshing to see a more thoughtful examination by the interviewer of controversial topics in society examined without the obvious personal opinions or ideology overshadowing the views of the author who wrote the book.
/r/MGTOW07/12/19 06:07 PM
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Women often get a huge amount of non-taxable income in the form of dates buying them food, drinks, entertainment and gifts, and when living together often those same benefits along with the addition of rent and direct cash transfers, and as wives typically open access to most/all income via shared bank accounts and credit cards payed by the husband.
/r/MGTOW07/12/19 04:20 PM
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You have to piece it together as I've not found a single good source. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-Hispanic_whites covers 1990 (75.6%) to 2012 (62.8%). This page https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_Americans shows by 2017 using same stats (60.73%) and in a different section of that page, with different stats, it shows 1970 (87.5%).
/r/MGTOW07/12/19 10:24 AM
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I grew up in progressive California and was indoctrinated to embrace immigrants, including illegal ones. In general my attitude was that most of them seemed hard working, often family oriented, decent people with good values that appreciated the "American Dream" and was sold that they did the jobs that "American don't want to do". But starting in 1991, legal immigration shot way up to around 1 million/year and illegal is estimated be another 500K/year. That means in the past 30 years immigration…
/r/MGTOW07/12/19 05:52 AM
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It's a good read.
/r/MGTOW06/12/19 07:22 PM
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There appears to be plan to push feminism and oppressive family courts to continue the fertility decline and then overrun the country with foreign immigrants. If you point out simple statistics like how America has gone from being approximately 90% white/European decent to 60% in just 50 years as a result of massive immigration, then many a liberal/globalist/progressives will scream at you that you are a "white supremacist". Basically if you point out that whites are being wiped out it makes you…
/r/MGTOW06/12/19 04:23 PM
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I think there are a lot of people that don't want to hear things against their "beliefs" because those beliefs were programmed into them at an emotional level and not with a rational basis with any strong foundation. They can't debate their positions with facts and thus they get very quickly get upset to shut down conversations. With organized religion being supplanted by mainstream and social media, the moral fabric of society is unraveling, and an ever increasing percentage of people are worsh…
/r/MGTOW06/12/19 03:59 PM
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Well it appears that the low birth rate countries (mostly Europe, America, and East Asia) are going to be flooded with migrants from the high birth rate countries which is mostly Africa, the middle East and India. Japanese population is imploding quick and Christian Caucasian's in general seem DOOMED for sure.
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 06:32 PM
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Maybe when she "divorces" them all she can get 4 times the child support because all of them have established "father figure" roles in the child's life... Seems to be the way the courts role anymore.
/r/MGTOW05/12/19 06:12 PM
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Or maybe footprints on a soundstage in Burbank...
/r/MGTOW04/12/19 02:50 AM
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The problem with divorce attorney's is they make money by creating conflict and with his wife already being unreasonable this is the kind of case lawyers love all the way to the bank. A good divorce attorney can work to protect your rights but nothing can help with an unreasonable judge. After 15 years in family court experience, I've see some judges that seem very fair to men and others that are horrible.
/r/MGTOW03/12/19 01:46 AM
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Marriage is supposed to be an "equal" financial partnership that both sides agree to voluntarily. There is no "his" or "hers" unless someone has premarital assets. It was "their" company and as a corporation the only way either got paid is via salary, which is community property anyways. I'm sure as she became the "mom" that Jeff got to focus on the business while she focused on being a supportive role in his life keeping a household and raising kids, etc. That is what a lot of men have traditio…
/r/MGTOW02/12/19 08:56 PM
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I don't think her cut qualifies as "divorce rape". She got 25% of the couples ownership of Amazon stock and Jeff got 75% with Jeff retaining all voting rights of her shares, which is a wise move to keep the continued benefits of Jeff's business skills and Amazon's value for her shares. She met Jeff Bezos when she was 22 and he was 28, working at a NY hedge fund. Apparently he was her boss at the time, but funny how no #metoo backlash on that when it works out well. They went on to start Amazon t…
/r/MGTOW02/12/19 07:10 PM
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The last meme implies that the source of unhappiness is because they have made such great progress in equality that it is gotten them close enough to see how good men have it and if they can just break through that glass ceiling then everything will finally be perfect. Seems like too many women are just like greyhound dogs at the racetrack. The feminist leaders just keep dangling that symbolic "rabbit" that their followers will never catch to keep all those women running endlessly for an unattai…
/r/MGTOW02/12/19 06:45 PM
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I'm quite conflicted on this. I think abortion is a very bad thing but I also believe an unwanted child brought into this world by parents that can't properly raise them creates a lot of suffering for that child and for society in general. For example the research in the drop in crime after abortion was legalized in the US in the 70's, while controversial, is quite compelling. Essentially those kids that would have been born in ghetto conditions that were aborted and therefore did not dis-propor…
/r/MGTOW02/12/19 04:43 AM
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How long before it's priced like the discount bin of DVDs at Walmart?
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 05:58 PM
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With her comment "unappreciative and inattentive husband" and the father being 8,000 miles away did he abandon his kids willingly or did she alienate the kids and chase him out of their lives?
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 05:10 PM
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I don't disagree that getting a degree can open doors to landing a starting job if you want to try to go direct from college into a job in a desirable tech company. But there are alternative paths like musicians where you have your "day job" to pay the bills doing whatever and at night and weekends you keep improving your programming craft creating your own apps, web sites, contributing to open source projects, participating in the gig programming economy with sites like Upwork and freelancer.co…
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 02:04 PM
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Programming is still one of the highest paying professions you can be self-taught in that does not require a college degree to be wildly successful. The Internet provides access to everything you need to learn software engineering for free. All you need is a computer, Internet, and time...
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 01:28 PM
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I was self-taught programming starting at age 12 and that was 44 years ago. You can still make a great living in software development and it's a vast space where there are many directions apply those skills. The one thing I can tell you from experience is you better love the intellectual challenges and problem solving of programming to a level of where you are obsessed with wanting to constantly learn more and it totally drives you, or you probably won't succeed. Being motivated by money is prob…
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 12:29 PM
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Since it's Cosmo they can't come right out and day men think "women are not worth committing to" because that would require introspection of women which does not sell magazines.
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 07:18 AM
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I tend to think more often what happens is police, parents, therapists, and school administrators, etc. all come in to re-educate them on how they were a "victim" since they were too stupid to know they were "groomed" by a "predator"
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 04:58 AM
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And all it costs you aside for the date night is those 216 child support payments... Often between 10-25% of your after tax net income. Sounds like a great deal to me. How can you resist?
/r/MGTOW01/12/19 02:12 AM
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It's worse than that. It can be up to 50% after all standard tax deductions, so it typically ends up at 70-80% of your total gross income, depending on the state. You think you're doing great making $10K/month and imagine how you feel when your check ends up $2.5K? I've been there and it feels like you are in prison. This is why a lot of divorce raped guys have a horrible quality of life until their kids become adults. It also means that many have to earn extra cash under the table just to survi…
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 10:09 PM
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In my experience lots of women are perfectly fine with an "open relationship" as long as that means open for them and monogamous for you...
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 08:52 PM
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Simple solution... just say no and let her deal with it.
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 08:38 PM
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Why can't she at least do the honorable thing of becoming an honest prostitute?
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 06:39 PM
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One tool the American child support "debt collectors" use is to take away your passport if you have child support arrears. Usually you find out when you renew that it will be denied. You have to totally cut ties with the US as they will garnish you wages, take every penny you have from any US based bank accounts, lien your real estate, etc. This is why so many men in this position go the suicide route.
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 06:23 PM
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In the video I saw those men that subdued the guy did an amazing job and were very brave considering he killed at least two people. If more people stood up against criminals the world would be a much better place but I understand all the reasons people don't with so many crazy laws that protect criminals and often punish good Samaritans. Even better how the police put that dude down with three bullets to the head saving all the wasted time and money on a trial and many decades of being fed and h…
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 06:16 PM
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Maybe an unpopular opinion but if back when I was in high school a teacher gave me oral sex in the classroom she would be my personal "Teacher of the Year" and I hardly think I would be scarred for life or need any therapy.
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 05:55 PM
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That would not be a pretty sight of me in drag...but then again I might look better than a lot of women my age.
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 08:34 AM
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I think you can get inspiration here that can keep you strong and happier in a marriage. I learned about MGTOW shortly after I was married for the 2nd time two years ago. I was fairly red pilled already from my past divorce, so I did things like insisting on a prenup, we have no kids together nor plans for any, my finances/assets are totally independent except for a joint account we contribute 50/50 for rent, utilities, groceries, etc., and we each have our own incomes that the prenup says are n…
/r/MGTOW30/11/19 08:31 AM
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Here is a saying I like... Unresolved resentments are like taking poison and expecting the other person to die. I use a strategy of talking to myself when I have angry resentment thoughts with things like “why are you letting her hurt you more” “stop letting her own and control you” “think of her like a hurricane that destroyed everything. Don’t get mad a hurricanes accomplishes nothing. Rebuild and move on with your life” “you can’t change the past so why are you letting the past ruin your futu…
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 10:45 PM
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Betas... maybe. But I think there are a lot of guys with well deserved red pill rage here that have a lot of anger they are working through. For many it's a stage they go through and I've been there for sure. Now I'm more detached from such angry feelings against women because as I better understand how my ex's were wired I've come to realize they were just doing what they were wired to do and my being so angry was because I "expected" them to be different. Radical acceptance makes it easier for…
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 07:42 PM
1

I agree that is a motivation of governments also but I tend to think there are multiple different groups that coalesce around creating these government polices that advance their interests. Globalists have their motivations that I believe resolve around removing sovereignty of nations. Politicians pander for votes giving money away or transferring wealth. Feminists want money, power, and control. I think there are some very powerful people that are concerned about overpopulation and want to curb…
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 07:30 PM
5

One other piece of wisdom. Divorce attorney's make money by creating conflict between the parties. Once either side gets an attorney expect that they will stir up the pot as much as possible to try to fleece you, your ex, or both out of as much money as they can. It's depressing reality. There might be a few lawyers with integrity out there but money corrupts even the best of them eventually.
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 07:21 PM
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Well to be honest I think a lot of guys are also that way as the exciting feelings of a new relationship fades. There is no question that the "infatuation stage" of a relationship usually has both sides swimming in dopamine that is highly seductive and addictive. Over time that naturally diminishes because dopamine is the "peek experience" survival hormone so you only get the reinforcement if you have something better happen. Why this works against women more than men is their biggest asset is t…
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 06:00 PM
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Sadly I have 15 years of experience in family courts as I fought tooth and nail to stay present in my kids lives with an ex that did everything, including two move away's to make my life hell. From my observations of my own case and sitting through many other people's hearings, it totally depends on the judge you get and to a lessor extent the state you are in and the underlying laws that support their decisions. Family court judges have a lot of leeway and while they have to follow the law in t…
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 05:47 PM
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Yea but with all the free meals I get dating it's not a big loss...
/r/MGTOW28/11/19 03:53 PM
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Seems to be designed by globalists to make relationships so undesirable and such a huge economic burden on men that birthrates for citizens plummet so then they can be replaced by poor foreign migrants that flood society with low skilled labor and cultural values that cause great conflicts.
/r/MGTOW28/11/19 03:45 PM
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This type of post by this women has a purpose to demonize and dehumanize MGTOW men so they can use the power of feminism teamwork combined with government power to push for censorship of public communications like this forum as "hate speech" so it can be shut down. They just keep keep pushing the distorted "women are unequal" narrative to continue the push for superiority in all desirable areas of what men have (wealth, power, career success, control) and ignore the undesirable areas men are "su…
/r/MGTOW28/11/19 03:35 PM
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What about all those other men on the committee that just sat there silently and let her talk the whole time and did not challenge her? They are just as bad by enabling such behavior and not sticking up for decent human behavior.
/r/MGTOW27/11/19 01:38 AM
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There is a lot of hypocrisy in women. I've found some women will openly say they are polyamorous to explain their sexuality of banging as many guys as they want but then expect their partner's to be monogamous to them because they can't handle the emotions of them banging someone else.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 12:37 PM
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Lowering the bar to avoid hurting their feelings. Too many obese activist feminists and the mainstream media platforms that gives them a voice works to shut down any traditional models of beauty that are desirable to men because it hurts their feelings that they either are not genetically blessed or won't put in the efforts and maintain the discipline to stay in good shape.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 12:25 PM
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Two of my close friends did the role reversal of raising the kids, earning little, with wives that earn the big bucks. Their deal is sweet and if they ever get divorced the women are so screwed.... It keeps the women in line because the costs are so high for cheating.
/r/MGTOW22/11/19 05:25 AM
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I think the terms "hate groups" or "hate speech" he uses to marginalize those that speak against the progressive/liberal/globalist ideology that he is a part of. Men in general and white men in particular are being demonized by these groups as they push forward the feminist and LGBTQ agenda into mainstream society at all levels.
/r/MGTOW21/11/19 07:37 AM
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Often women that need to post things like this on social media to gain attention as a "victim" are narcissistic minded and probably chased the guy out of the kids life.
/r/MGTOW21/11/19 02:19 AM
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I believe feminism is the root of low birth rates in western countries and that fits the globalist agenda to have low birth countries with declining population become overrun with immigrants from high birth rate poor countries.
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 06:59 AM
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I believe divorce rates would decline dramatically if the financial incentives were not so attractive. A married stay-at-home women with kids would have to be insane not to get divorced after 10 years. With divorce rape, she could then live a great lifestyle and then re-energize her sex life with dating all those simps willing to throw cash as a single mom. Her ex will even provide nice babysitting services for "her" kids so she can take those awesome long romantic weekends with her new partner(…
/r/MGTOW20/11/19 06:54 AM
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Her parents must be so proud of what they raised...
/r/MGTOW19/11/19 12:36 AM
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This is why women invented the term "mansplaining"... Hearing anything a man has to say, especially if they are wrong, hurts their sensitive feelings and we know the world is all about women's feelings nowadays.
/r/MGTOW19/11/19 12:14 AM
13

Very intriguing work. Does anyone know what museum this is at?
/r/MGTOW18/11/19 10:18 PM
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I would say in America, post world war II, it all started downhill with globalism in the late 70's. Before then it used to be possible for single family income to comfortably support a family, so women had pretty sweet deal being a stay-at-home mom in return for being faithful. Of course AWALT some but not anywhere near today. The consolidation of wealth, de-industrialization, destruction of the middle class, 3rd wave feminism, and the flood of immigrants has created such an economic squeeze tha…
/r/MGTOW17/11/19 01:32 PM
3

If you were 10 the last time you spoke to your dad and most of your view of him is what has been told via your mom and her family, then you probably have no idea who your dad really is. I know for sure some of the lies my ex has instilled in my kids that have nothing to do with reality that I hope I can one day fix because I know how devastating it is to feel you were discarded, unloved, unwanted, and the product of the most despicable human on the planet. For example a few years after we divorc…
/r/MGTOW17/11/19 04:47 AM
1

After having a 13 year relationship with a borderline personality disorder ex I can say there is never a way to "set the record straight" or gain any agreement on the reality of nearly any situation you disagree with them on. With these type of people their view of reality if nearly entirely driven by their highly unstable and volatile emotions. They are the masters of using sexual seduction to keep their partners from running away from the endless life chaos they create. It's a never ending emo…
/r/MGTOW16/11/19 02:24 PM
3

Thanks for your comments. I'm sorry you don't feel there is any chance to repair thing with your dad. You might want to watch a video on YouTube "No-Win Situation I Child of Parental Alienation I Ryan Thomas Speaks" to give insight into how your view of reality of your dad may be so manipulated. I own up to the fact that I have some deep flaws as a person and as a romantic partner and one of the biggest mistakes in my life was having kids with my borderline ex. I tried to be a good dad to those …
/r/MGTOW16/11/19 02:05 PM
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Reading the details there is huge dysfunction all around... I don't like this kind of retroactive justice spawned by #metoo movement where people don't own up to their own side. What she did was messed up for sure but that was 14 years ago and he's been an adult for a decade. They have four kids together now and she is 43 and he is 28. It appears like typical bitter break-up tactics and he had the upper hand because of her earlier abusive actions. She's off to jail. That's one way to avoid child…
/r/MGTOW16/11/19 01:51 PM
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Your mom sounds totally like my ex. I choose to give up fighting for my kids after she unilaterally moved them away to Texas and enrolled them in school there against my consent and our court order that says our kids stay in California schools. The Texas police and schools there refused to intervene even with a court order. I don't know what she did to them but I've not seen or talked to my oldest boy in two years now and my youngest son tried for the first 6 months but now it's been over a year…
/r/MGTOW16/11/19 01:15 PM
3

It's all about the money. A lot of times men are forced by divorce courts to get life insurance named to the ex to cover the total of all support payments... They could care less if you die as long as they get the money.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 06:03 PM
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And this report was 10 years ago before social media evolved to the stranglehold it has now. Today everyone's glued to their phones endlessly chasing the dopamine hits from being "liked". Addicts are not happy people.
/r/MGTOW13/11/19 04:46 PM
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As a centrist/independent I agree with your assessment. It seems to me that the mainstream media has been fanning the flames by encouraging division by only promoting and amplifying the most radical perspectives on both sides. I think the richest 1%, or even more so the 0.01% that have consolidated an astounding amount of wealth, have figured out that if you divide everyone in as many ways as possible and as extremely as possible that the "people" can never mount a real threat to the "rulers" si…
/r/MGTOW13/11/19 01:18 AM
1

I heard this author Clint Arthur being interviewed that wrote a book called "The Last Year Of Your Life". The basic premise is if you only had 12 months to live would you keep doing everything you do today? Which is usually founded on the idea you will live a long life, work hard, build your life/assets, and eventually you will get the rewards because life will become easy, or maybe rewards with retirement. The book is more an exercise book on evaluating and changing your priorities but it's mor…
/r/MGTOW09/11/19 05:16 PM
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That analysis also misses all the "free" stuff women benefit from that men pay for or even joint banking accounts where the man's income is tracked, taxed and deposited and then the women gets to spend it. In reality this is "income" for being a wife/girlfriend. Feminists want to only talk about incomes that are generally from an employer that is easily tracked but they don't want to talk about purchasing power which is estimated at 70-80% for women which is about how much women spend. So where …
/r/MGTOW09/11/19 01:20 PM
1

The woman you think you know is not the same one you will know when you are sitting across from her in a courtroom and you are being called the plaintiff...
/r/MGTOW09/11/19 12:21 AM
2

Seems like The Eternal Bachelor is the way to go... What exactly is the problem?
/r/MGTOW07/11/19 03:13 PM
0

This "boy" is not a victim at all and pursued her which is totally believable. She is actually pretty hot. This "boy" was 17 and the age of consent in Iowa is 16. She met him as a short stint as a substitute but was not his active teacher when he pursued her via social media so the argument about power imbalance or coerced by fear is does not apply. So in the end she was punished mostly because it made the school look bad and the general sexual attitudes in America.
/r/MGTOW04/11/19 04:02 PM
2

The word "peophile" is not accurate. "Pedophilia (alternatively spelt paedophilia) is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children. This "boy" was 17 which is hardly prepubescent.
/r/MGTOW04/11/19 03:52 PM
5

The comments are all disgusting view of society's bias against men in family courts. Most basically assume the man is the bad guy and the women who killed her children is a "victim". Nothing in the article even suggests he did anything wrong.
/r/MGTOW02/11/19 05:18 AM
1

Where I live there are a bunch of Asian "foot massage" places that do massages in open public rooms with a dozen or more active massages where often there are many male massage attendants. These places can be a great deal, like $25-$30/hour in California, and the quality is exceptional, calming, and relaxing. The males seem to do a better job than the women. While they focus on foot massage, about 25% of the time is body massage. You are fully clothes in comfortable attire like sweats. There is …
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 09:12 PM
2

This was a good TED talk from her and her movie was solid. I think the part where she talked about the lifelong programming she had received had made it impossible for her to hear perspectives other than her own for a long while. A lot of it had to do with being programmed that men were the "enemy" and that lead to dehumanization. Eventually through a long process she came around.
/r/MGTOW01/11/19 06:04 AM
1

From my 15 year divorce battle I can absolutely say that family law attorney's make money by creating conflict. They definitely are masters of getting women stirred up and they always convince them you will pay. I never filed a single motion in all the time but probably had more than 30 hearings defending my custodial rights, income, and assets. Eventually I got primary custody of my kids but it cost me over $150K in legal fees plus lots more for other "professionals" along the way.
/r/MGTOW30/10/19 01:32 AM
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But the biggest extortion angle for this guy was he was married. If you are a single MGTOW, that unless you are a big wig at a large company or famous, no one would care much.
/r/MGTOW29/10/19 08:43 PM
5

Family courts usually don't end well for dads. If you separate then invariably you will become a spectator in your kids lives ending up with the standard men's custody deal which is every other weekend and a few random holidays. You will also lose 25-50% of your current paycheck after all deductions for child support. You do have one advantage that you are not married so that avoids spousal support, especially given she is a stay at home mom. One strategy if you want to stay a real active partic…
/r/MGTOW29/10/19 04:31 PM
1

Usually this is where a false rape/assault accusation comes in handy to become the victim instead of the slut...
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 05:59 PM
1

Black and white thinking leads to viewing women as AWALT or NAWALT. I think all people's behaviors are on a spectrum and the general "nature" of women that is typically ascribed by MGTOW philosophy is like any collectivist thinking where a statistically a high percentage might have a particular behavior but that does not mean every person in the broad collection has every behavior. For example many men have experienced unjust child support judgments but that does not mean every women that divorc…
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 05:45 PM
1

In general the cities that are the "best" generally are more conservative areas with less diversification and often smaller communities that might include areas like Orange County, the Inland Empire, much of the central coast cities, Sonoma County, in the hills in the Gold Country, almost everything north of Yuba City such as Redding.
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 04:09 PM
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No this sign is true... They key is to outsource the job to different women you don't have sex with. House cleaner, personal assistant, bookkeeper, hair stylist, personal shopper, dog walker, massage therapist, etc...
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 02:32 PM
2

You bring out many good points and perspectives. Not sure about the assessment of "winning". At least in America it just seems like the current model is to wipe out the most intelligent/high status males and their DNA that were previously more likely to pursue marriage/families and to instead replace them with low status/poor immigrants and refugees.
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 12:05 AM
2

He found out he was not the father when he tried to get some custody of the child and the court ordered the child support for years said "prove your the dad" and he did with a DNA test than showed he was not the father. So he had been paying child support for a kid that was not his and he had no contact with because he was named on the birth certificate. The court then says keep paying for a child that is not his that he has no contact with and since he's not the father can't get to be the fathe…
/r/MGTOW19/10/19 08:02 PM
2

Dramatic emotional mood swings of being on an emotional roller coaster are often associated with Borderline Personality Disorder. You might read up on it to see if it applies. It can help you understand why people do the things they but also help you recover from the invariable shame that was hurled on you during fights that can take it's toll on your self-esteem. The prognosis of someone with BPD ever being "cured" is not good and at best they can sometimes learn to manage their triggers.
/r/MGTOW16/10/19 11:45 PM
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You can expect about 25% of your after tax W2 income unless you have extenuating circumstances like supporting other children. This assumes standard dad deal where you get every other weekend which is about 13% custodial time. It also assumes she makes about the same as you.
/r/MGTOW13/10/19 09:18 PM
1

One strategy is to make as little documented/provable income as possible until child support is set by the court. Once an amount is set it will be harder for her to change it even if your income rises later. You can always be a great dad and give more support voluntarily, such as buying things for your child's direct benefit (avoid cash to the mother). But by keeping the mandated support amount as low as possible it keeps you in better control. If you are you providing voluntary additional suppo…
/r/MGTOW10/10/19 07:32 PM
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Of course that most likely means they only get 100x the interest and attention most men get throughout their whole lives compared to the 1000x times their younger peers gets.
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 04:57 PM
2

Yea well I bet Jeff Bezos would be happy if that was his number...
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 04:13 PM
3

I understand why black and white thinking is best for some. For example in 12 step chemical addiction recovery it is clear you are either sober or not so there is no slippery slope. But for behavioral addictions such as eating, sex, work, etc. where you self generate the addictive dopamine there is no black and white. I think all women are on a spectrum for problematic behaviors. Some women might be in the AWALT hall of fame every second of their lives and for others they may never get to the po…
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 04:09 PM
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It's very possible this is what made their marriage work by having summer flings and I too would bet that the father was getting some when he was away. Staying together with kids long term takes its toll on your relationship and if she was a "trophy wife" then being "adored" and the center of attention gets quickly lost once they are a mother. Sadly this probably ends very badly for the husband...
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 11:14 AM
1

As one of the posters pointed out the pair-bonding of sex you had with your ex is powerful psychological attachment. My recommendation is take a sex vacation and have some mind blowing sexual experiences with a bunch of totally hot 10/10 women to do some brain "re-programming". Some of the best places in terms of value are southeast Asia and central and south America. Brasil women in particular are probably the most sexual creatures there are.
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 11:01 AM
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I once did a calculation in my divorce settlement from my 19 year marriage if I calculated the cost of sex benefits it worked out to a little over $1,600 per sexual experience and over three times that amount spent in total on her from my sizable income throughout. I'll be honest to say I had other benefits beyond sex such as companionship, house cleaning, travel mate, social secretary, keeping the family happy, etc. but the biggest advantage was she kept my life together allowing me to focus to…
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 10:42 AM
2

It's hard to go wrong with construction... A lot of different directions you can take it as you improve your skills from being your own entrepreneur or staying low stress working for others.
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 03:26 AM
2

This is an interesting and unique perspective on how and why modern culture has evolved as it has with mass psychology with a little bit of conspiracy theory. Much of it makes sense to me. Breaking it down into digestible Twitter tweets is a strange way to disseminate it. You can also see if directly on Twitter at https://twitter.com/i_am_cattle/status/1174107114576515072
/r/MGTOW04/10/19 10:43 PM
1

A good place for helpful info in this realm is usasexguide dot nl if you are in the US or internationalsexguide dot nl for the rest of the world.
/r/MGTOW02/10/19 03:31 AM
1

Take a nice vacation and go where it's legal and cheap to have an amazing selection of incredibly beautiful women that will cater to your desires for bargain prices. Places like Costa Rica, Columbia, Thailand, Brazil, and the Dominican Republic are wonderful places to visit beyond female company that can make for a wonderful relaxing trip.
/r/MGTOW01/10/19 12:05 AM
1

Go the professional route and then you eliminate most risks and know exactly what it costs upfront to feed your sexual urges. Don't let anyone shame you by making you think you are not "man enough" to get a women without "paying". All women cost... it's just that prostitutes are the only honest ones and invariably who you pay the least.
/r/MGTOW30/09/19 03:47 PM
1

Figure out how to earn some money. Get a passport when you are 18. Travel outside the US. There are great places to visit where there are amazing activities and international travel in general is awesome. Your sexual market value is off the charts in most 3rd world countries as a young American and you will find it way easier to get a super hot women to have sex with you. As a fallback prostitution is typically legal and safe and many MGTOW think this is the "cheapest" route for sex. Great optio…
/r/MGTOW218/09/19 04:20 PM
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