NotKevinS Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Can't ejaculate during sex		NotKevinS	/r/askTRP	17/01/15 09:39 AM

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1	Can't ejaculate during sex I thought about that as well. I don't think there is much on my side. Girl #1 wanted a relationship with me, and she saw it was clear I didn't want anything serious, so called it quits. Girl #2 said she loved me, but I don't feel much. I guess I am used to her presence, and think she's alright. She's cute and everything, but there's just not much there. In terms of looks, she's actually better looking and younger than the other 2. And with girl #3, it happened really quickly, right before she le…	/r/askTRP	17/01/15 11:13 AM
5	Aspie male who's taken the red pill Right on the money man. It's the same deal with me. I'm definitely somewhere on the spectrum. Same with ADHD. Dwelling on it never helped. Accepting my condition, and learning to function in spite of it is what helps.	/r/askTRP	17/01/15 10:16 AM
2	Can't ejaculate during sex I drink quite often, so maybe that's an issue. It's much less than before now though. In both frequency and volume. Like, once or twice a week, and I don't necessarily get drunk. That said, I've fucked while sober before multiple times, but same deal.	/r/askTRP	17/01/15 10:12 AM
1	Can't ejaculate during sex I tried jerking off in her presence, but couldn't do it. I stay hard, but nothing happens. I don't feel anything. It's worse when she jerks me off. Or at least, tries to. There's almost no sensation. There's likely some performance anxiety at play here. Or I feel uncomfortable around her. I figured more sex would help, but it hasn't changed anything as of yet.	/r/askTRP	17/01/15 10:10 AM
1	Wtf is happening? Dude. You've gotten some good advice here. Read it well. I wanted to expand on what /u/tepper2 said. You gotta be proactive about this. Go out to bars and talk to people. Say hi, comment on something happening (say, a football game, or something funny), and take it from there. Rambling, when used correctly, can be a good skill. Some people just need some time to warm up to you. At the same time, take notes on what works and what doesn't. Notice the body language of people who are receptive to yo…	/r/askTRP	17/01/15 10:07 AM
2	Need help on getting a chicks number! I made this mistake before. It was the best date I had been on in forever. Finally, I met a hot girl who I actually shared a connection with, and could just hang and shoot the shit with. This is rare for me. But she didn't care as much, and has other priorities. The mistake I made was I kept on trying to set up another meet, even though she never responded. This is an expression of a scarcity mindset. If, instead, I had gone out to a bigger city nearby and talked to a bunch of cute chicks, I wou…	/r/askTRP	17/01/15 09:58 AM
6	how to be more of a positive person? I struggle with this. You need to keep engaging yourself in activities that give you an urge to keep moving forward. Here's the catch: I don't think you even need to "love" said activity. You just need to "like it a little". You're a man. You need progress to drive yourself forward. No shortcuts here. Put in the work. Possible ideas: exercise, academics, career, musical instrument, writing (creative, technical/informative, poetry), etc. Elliott Hulse and others have talked about having a vision …	/r/askTRP	17/01/15 09:51 AM
2	First time I've ever had two plates. Both want LTRs. Need help. Dude, you really gotta work on your self esteem. And there's no magic pill for this. It will take hard work. When you have the security of knowing you CAN get laid, and with hot girls at that, you won't care about a girl who's a 5 in your books acting out. And you certainly won't feel insecure about other men hitting on your girl. If she's hot, guys are gonna want to bang her. You don't need to derive any meaning from her. You define yourself on your own terms. You live on your terms. If she wal…	/r/askTRP	17/01/15 09:44 AM