NotNihilistic Archive

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7	How to get this girl This might not be the answer you want but: Try not to focus one one girl. You have to at this age go out and approach hundreds of girls. Talk to every girl you can whether you are attracted or not. You can try to get this girl, and it may work out, but likely that would be because of luck rather than skill, and i would assume that over time it would fizzle out. So. The solution is to gain skill. Do the 100 days 100 approaches challenge. Everyday approach at least one girl. Then by the end of tha…	/r/seduction	26/08/19 03:56 PM
3	How to get this girl That's horrible advice	/r/seduction	26/08/19 03:52 PM
2	Hard situation Dude what? This is insane. 2 fucking years and you haven't even met the girl? Move the fuck on. Go out and approach 1000 girls.	/r/seduction	16/06/19 05:55 PM
1	How should I react to such things (Snapchat) No	/r/seduction	16/06/19 01:30 PM
2	How should I react to such things (Snapchat) Dude just ask her out.... no need to waste time conversing for this to go no where. Ask her out, if she says no then go out and approach 100 girls.	/r/seduction	16/06/19 01:57 AM
2	How to get over approach anxiety fart noise Fuck that. I say LOVE THOSE BUTTERFLIES IN YOUR STOMACH. Learn to love the nerves. It makes you feel ALIVE, you'rea human feel the fear of speaking to a cutie pie and love it. Itll make sex with her that much better. Alcohol numbs you. Its death in a bottle. Those nerves are a reminder of your engagement with life. Its a reward. And also, You don't retain what you do when you drink. You dont progress seductively that way. A beginner remains a beginner with booze.	/r/seduction	16/06/19 01:46 AM
14	How to get over approach anxiety Micro momentum. That will be your biggest tool. Go up to random people, old men, homeless people, cashiers, anyone and just ask for the time, or ask for directions, or where the washroom is. Build up your social momentum. Smile, compliment the old guy on his watch. Build up to the hot girl. And then ask the hot girl for directions, then ask the next one for directions and tell her she has an cute smile. Add something for every girl until you are getting numbers setting dates and flirting. Go dow…	/r/seduction	16/06/19 01:35 AM
2	How to get over approach anxiety Don't be angry. Have fun with it. It's just life bro. It's not that serious. Live with a lightness of heart. You have to look within and ask yourself: "am I going to be the guy that gives up because I am scared of women, or am I going to be the guy that faces his fears?" Be the second guy. You can never attain the lightness of heart and have fun with life if you become the first.	/r/seduction	16/06/19 01:31 AM
1	How to get over approach anxiety Dont rely on alcohol	/r/seduction	16/06/19 01:29 AM
2	How to get over approach anxiety Dude. There is only one way. You have to grab your nuts and just do it. Eventually it goes away.	/r/seduction	16/06/19 01:29 AM
2	How to ask out a girl in martial arts class? Dude, I know you think you require some intricate plan but I am telling you, that will likely backfire because of overthinking. You are already overthinking it and that will be counterproductive. First, you should be cold approaching a bunch of girls so that you don't have all this built up tension and expectation for this to go right. She might say no and you have to be chill with that. Second, go up to her after class and with a mischevious smile be like, 'You know, I just realized tonight how…	/r/seduction	16/06/19 01:27 AM