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literally not the same oh wow really
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:46 PM
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What a time to be alive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:32 AM
0

sorry whyte bois
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:31 AM
2

Make higher quality posts please.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:10 PM
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everything before validate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:42 PM
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still seems shitty you can't have a leg shaking orgasm getting railed from behind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:59 AM
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such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:13 PM
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suddenly they all like getting their cervixes beat huh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:03 AM
4

How bad does evolution hate most women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:01 AM
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No I just incorrectly assumed she was only showing face pics or something. I believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:37 AM
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Assuming both situations last decades, most guys would be pretty split honestly. Truly don't think we're a monolith on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:39 PM
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when you get your mommy issues sorted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:36 PM
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I didn't say she should show her body off. Just not hide it. Like so guys know she's a pear but dressed conservatively, in a photo with friends or something. Nothing salacious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:42 AM
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Believe it or not the guys she wants will appreciate her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:18 AM
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When did I say she should show her body off or cover it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:38 AM
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I understand the impulse to want to hide your body from guys who are only interested in that. But you will definitely have no problem attracting your type if you just simply don't hide your figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:14 AM
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That's not a nice silver lining imo. The study had the women rate the men as either attractive or unattractive. It wasn't a number system. Would you want to be with a woman who thinks of you as unattractive from the jump?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:21 AM
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anti-depressants and certain “happy drugs” were less regulated and tracked in the past. 2) Even if you don’t question the data on women’s happiness and take it at face value it’s bold to assume not pairing up with average men is the cause and not a myriad of other social problems like stagnating wages and inflation. All those things cause ripple of effects that can make people miserable. Working long hours yet still not being able to afford to buy home, paying out the ass for expensive insurance…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:14 AM
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They’re not doing it for delusional reasons. They know they’re not getting what they want and are settling for being single instead as that makes them happier than anything they’d get from dating. A woman dating a man she’s not attracted to will cause more hurt for her and the man than her simply not dating. She’s either not going to want to have sex with him and that will cause him to feel rejected and resentful towards her or she’ll force herself to do it then start feeling resentment towards …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:48 PM
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Having a primary partner confers a lot of benefits. If you really love someone you wouldn't put monogamy on them, as you wouldn't tell your best friend they could only be friends with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:32 AM
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where my ladies with pcos at they always insatiable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:28 AM
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They’re being realistic and honest with themselves and simply not dating men hey don’t find appealing physically or personality wise. Nothing wrong with that. There is when they're doing it for completely delusional reasons that will hurt them in the end. Do you think that low of average men? Are you an average modern woman or do you just think like one for some bizzare reason? No one “deserves” anything but their human rights. Average men don’t deserve women and women don’t deserve men. Women f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:59 AM
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It's false. Women and men become attractive at that age though. Most are socialized out of acting on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:16 PM
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Don't need to. They know what it feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:04 PM
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You're treating men as a monolith. Those men who believe women should accept being discarded should be okay with being disposable. Women who think of men as disposable should accept being discarded after their youth. People should be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:55 AM
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Why is this always the go-to? Yes, some guys want someone to manipulate. And those experiences ruin the aforementioned characteristics of women. But that doesn't make those vulnerable qualities any less attractive to kind, good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:39 AM
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Thats why early 20s are the most attractive ages to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:26 AM
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People should be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:25 AM
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Nah secure is good and inexperienced is bad, but unfortunately experience correlates with being jaded, carrying baggage, and a low ability to pair bond. Bad guys want to control. Good men want to be loved the way you loved the bad guy despite his control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:19 AM
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much of what you think is naivete-seeking is actually just less-baggage seeking and alpha widow avoidance. older women could be appealing to youth chasers if they retained their ability to pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:09 AM
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lmao no. on average, average women don't want average guys, because their unrealistic standards don't allow them to enjoy average guys as partners, even though average is what they deserve. sorry but imo something being commodified has an inherent negative value. ie a "cuddle buddy"? a therapist? a hooker? please. that void still exists for people who have good platonic relationships. the void is love, something you can't buy. and sex is more than orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:56 AM
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Only if you view romantic partners as sexual objects. There's real value in a romantic partner outside of sex. And a lot of it is biologically hardwired into us, it's not just cultural. Also, sexual frustration is a valid complaint when one gender has completely unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:52 PM
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You seem to be under impression that the person you originally responded to was talking about shaming, and not about loneliness being "the problem". Otherwise, you're losing sight of the thread we're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:45 PM
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Loneliness isn't shame lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:14 AM
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The subjective experience is unhealthy. People get into relationships for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:28 AM
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You said that's ok--with who?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:03 AM
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Ok with who? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:31 AM
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For them it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:06 AM
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Incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 01:01 AM
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And still, a lot of guys won't do oral, or cut their fingernails, etc. Yeah, some women have zero passion or seductive ability, so I can understand why that guy is thrilled with her. It's probably as rare as a guy that gets and stays hard for a long time, gives enthusiastic oral, does foreplay and tender affection, and knows how to hit the right spots with his fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:51 PM
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Of course it's media, culture, and now OLD apps. And people truly believe their attractions are "natural". The environment is worse than ever, but men are forced to be introspective on this issue lest they be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:40 PM
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According to many women, most guys can't even get hard or last longer than a couple minutes. So yeah, believe it or not there are a lot of female disappointments out there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:22 PM
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Most men know you can in fact alter what you find attractive without feeling like you're settling. It's also how kinks and fetishes develop in adulthood. When we're like 13-14, most of us have really high or specific standards like women, we just grow out of them more often, as there's more pressure to "unlearn" our cultural programming. Ethnic women preferring a specific type of white guy has very little to do with "biology", for example. And OLD has made this difference in the sexes even more …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:05 PM
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its still fun and they like to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:03 PM
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p much. I enjoy a nice, cool fat girl's company, but they're always way more turned on during sex than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:42 PM
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A tiny, tiny percentage of men or women can enjoy/afford that lifestyle on a single income before age 40 regardless so its moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:59 AM
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OP only refers to child support payments which as I said is not everything there is to parenthood imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:12 PM
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That doesn't negate my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:08 PM
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Generally speaking. Also gotta think of who generally speaking has the $ for your lifestyle preference. Either way, it's working for people in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:10 PM
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Well that all but guarantee's all responsibility will be on one parent, but yes I agree it should be their choice. Just hopefully not to the child's detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:07 PM
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I feel like there's so much more to parenthood than mandated financial support and that it should be the child's choice ultimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:33 PM
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Not slaying it. He was asked out by young women in his 70s a couple times and politely refused as he was married. He died with a full head of thick hair, had a sexy Southern European accent, and a smiley personality everyone liked. He crushed until his late 40's when he settled down with my young mom. Sorry about your parents' one-way relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:50 PM
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The people in age gaps relationships in the thread we're in fell in love. They're not viewing their partners as people who are taking things away from them, because they're in love. It's not a relationship of convenience. Marry someone who suits your lifestyle. An athletic guy older guy can travel the world better than an obese or chronically ill 20-something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:54 AM
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Resentful towards your own husband for dying lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:42 AM
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Who wants to do it at 75? Any age? Don't get married if you're not prepared for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:24 AM
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They wouldn't be just some old fart though in this hypothetical. Yeah my mom runs her business at 70 and has fun. After cleaning my dads ass for a year before his death too. Now she's dating. It's great. Would have been a lot harder for her to deal with his death in 15-20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:23 AM
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My old dad was a hot sex toy for my young mom too tho. He had 20 somethings chasing him until his 70s. They had a bomb sex life. You're hilarious if you dont think women are getting something out of these relationships be it sex or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:45 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:42 AM
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Thats going to happen regardless you know? Easier to deal with at 60 than 80.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:35 AM
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I don't get the point of the 2nd one. We shouldn't allow mothers that give up their children for adoption to reconnect then either? Who does that help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:29 AM
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Alluring take but not true imo. Men are socialized away from BDSM shit. We have our own slut shame going on where we're only allowed to express our sexuality in safe and pre-approved ways lest we be seen as dangerous or weak. And women are plenty poetic and romantic. I think you just haven't encountered enough female artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:26 AM
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Only if your definition of love is commitment to an ideal. Some people are just built different and have too much invested and too much to lose when they get to that point where they need more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:42 AM
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You can love someone and still get bored or tempted if you're not the lifetime monogamous type.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:39 PM
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I think people get into relationships before they understand their needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:38 PM
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Some people just aren't built for monogamy. Has nothing to do with love imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:55 PM
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ffs shovel dick is completely debunked pseudoscience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:37 PM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:24 AM
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As long as you're consistent wrt things like 50 shades of grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:53 AM
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Just the men though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:29 AM
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"You're not entitled to a relationship" is usually a snippy quip around here that isn't applicable, but that's actually it right there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:15 AM
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kinda ingenious tbh. how m and w mirror too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:12 PM
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vicepill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:19 PM
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Grass is always greener innit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 03:50 AM
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That's changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:08 PM
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Nah I'll pass. My first gf/hs sweetheart turned out to be violent af and fucked me up. I get super turned off by brash hood rat behavior. With all due respect, I think women and men (not you) that like that shit are fucked in the head. Yeah being brave and capable is pretty nice, especially if they seem like they want to protect me. I can imagine that would feel nice. And women are probably attracted to that as well. But I don't find meekness a turn off either. Unless it's so bad that they're bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:32 AM
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Honestly orgasms feel shameful and selfish for me. I can't lose myself in one, so they don't feel that good. I don't care about getting off. I do have a super high libido and want to get my girl off though. Makes me feel valid and useful to be wanted sexually. I could live quite happy without ever having an orgasm if my girl likes sex and using me to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:16 AM
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I'll be honest I think a lot of minority men seek validation from white women. It's a terrible, racist thing, but it could explain why someone in his position could become or remain a sex addict beyond the normal biological drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:58 PM
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Is/was that hard to find?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:54 AM
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); <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:38 AM
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And you're risking your life lol. Fucking hell. Thats probably why its attractive to them smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:29 AM
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if they're not smashing your window in why even live
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:17 AM
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underrated post. most passions are "ew" rather than sexy for mostly arbitrary reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:15 AM
2

Are they allowed to have sex with other women during the waiting period?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:03 AM
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So stop buying something that hurts most men to sell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:51 AM
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🐐 comment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:36 AM
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Yeah, I'd agree with that. As are women that withhold and weaponize sex acts that they actually enjoy when they've convinced themselves you're a Disney prince.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:45 PM
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Quote me where I said women are the superficial bad ones exclusively. Blanket statements are childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:39 PM
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What? Someone projecting their fantasy onto you is their problem, made yours. And doesn't make you insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:36 PM
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And sometimes we're that "anywhere". And when they come off from cloud 9, realize you're human, and the energy changes, you realize you were used. Served a purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:24 PM
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You said "that's not a real thing". So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:55 PM
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Yes it is. When she is using you for validation, attention, money, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:39 PM
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Settling would still be awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:23 AM
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But I thought dick size dont matter??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:54 PM
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No yeah I have a few, I'm just very much the "woman" to everyone in my life including the women. It's exhausting sometimes. Just felt like offering a counter to your point that men aren't like that. Also side tangent but male bonds are very heady and can't replace female companionship. I endured an Amber Heard type woman for over 15 years because the moments of cuddling and delicate touch were so fulfilling smh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 04:29 PM
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All the men in my family are dead and my older sisters have ignored me my whole life. I'm the only one who reaches out to try to bond and they're nice enough, but if I didn't check up on them they would never even think about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:36 PM
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I'm not NT either, far from it. And I know all about masking. I have no reason to believe you'd make excuses for being single after age 30 but I know this dude is. I have seen less functional people with ASD than this guy charm women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:38 PM
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Yeah that's generally how everyone becomes aware of the weird shit they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:34 PM
0

I dont buy that. You're obviously self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:53 PM
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Don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:35 AM
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Damn old head that must be that old-school testosterone level. I'm jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:10 AM
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Yeah, maybe its the people I attract or seek out, but I couldn't keep up with them sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:00 AM
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Like 3-5 times a day for the first year with a new partner but easily 5-10x a week 15 yrs in. But I have trauma, cyclothymia, don't jerk off or watch porn, am a severe hopeless romantic, and a pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:21 AM
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And yet its somehow the most bluepill shit I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:27 PM
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You can keep the first half.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:22 PM
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because it sounds like you're saying that men who want relationships will pursue women they aren't attracted to. Lol maybe gay men in the closet. Most men find most women perfectly attractive and if they fall in love that attraction gets taken to the next level. that's impossible lol. you can't read men saying things and then just say "well that doesn't count" and not let it affect you. everything men say and do affects how women feel about men and men not speaking out when men do evil shit is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:06 PM
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i literally said "i dont think" not "this is what happened" "I don't think that's what you were saying". Right after I said misleading women is wrong. never would have gotten that from what you said I literally said "Those who can [be picky] and are just looking for hookups will be more shallow. Men who want relationships will go for personality and be more flexible on looks." How is that unclear? most men are. go to literally any sub on reddit and listen to how men talk about women. maybe they …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:47 PM
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Well thanks for telling me what I meant. You read into it something that wasn't there. Elsewhere in the thread I'm literally debating a guy who says what you're accusing me of saying. All I said was simply, guys who want relationships don't care about looks as much as guys who just want to hook up. And of the guys that just want to hook up, most of them can't be as picky as OP was implying in the thread topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:01 PM
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No. I'm saying misleading women is wrong too. I never said it was our MO. Get better reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:34 PM
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Who said you weren't? You think all women are transparent? Girls are out here in droves using guys for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:13 PM
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When you love someone they are the most attractive person to you. When you date someone you entertain the possibility of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:51 AM
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Men can do this exact same thing too. I never said anything about pretending to be interested in anyone. This whole discussion could have been avoided if you didn't put words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:12 AM
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Maybe you forgot the OP was referring to looks only? You're telling me if you saw your 5'4 fat man on the street without knowing him you'd find him more attractive than anyone? Listen to yourself. No. You overlooked his less than perfect appearance because he was attractive overall. It's bizarre that you think men aren't capable of this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:03 AM
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You're a strange bird if you what you got out of my post is that men go for women they don't like. Or that our MO is to be misleading. You don't have to be the hottest thing on the planet for us to still be attracted to you. Wild concept, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:34 AM
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If you're lucky, a depreciating sex object is all you'll end up with if you don't work out your daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:37 AM
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He's so dumb he might actually be a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:28 AM
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Literally what does that have to do with my post? I said nothing about being misleading and you will find liars and users in either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:25 AM
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Boring vanilla sex addict confirmed. There's these things called open relationships for people who can pair bond and require novelty you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:16 AM
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Confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:08 AM
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Or you're just too emotionally stunted to pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:00 AM
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As if women are any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:56 AM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:36 AM
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Definitely. I live in the Los Angeles area so everything is a fucking act here. Nobody's real. I hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:20 AM
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Guys pick what's available to them. Most can't be too picky. Those who can and are just looking for casual/hookups will be more shallow. Men who want relationships will go for personality and be more flexible on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:18 AM
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Sure, but not to most women. My natural confidence for example is too easygoing for most women in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:10 AM
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To put it differently, natural confidence isn't the same thing as an attractive confidence. We just make it look so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 12:08 AM
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I've never read RedPill tbh and I know what he's talking about... having to think about how much vulnerability is okay, trying to have "natural" confidence, all of what you're talking about, it's the mating dance and it's not just not fun. It's an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:55 PM
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Are you making the first move?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:11 PM
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Jesus Christ. I'm emotionally drained just reading that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:11 PM
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It's pretty soft. A completely western invention. Not emergent among and intuitive to all populations. It serves a purpose and has its uses but should be taken with a huge grain of salt. The replication crisis in the field is severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:30 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:05 PM
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I vibe with this. The beginning feels degrading as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:10 PM
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Making his point for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:48 PM
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rip monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:03 PM
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Yeah that's actually one of my techniques to fight cravings for sweets, lol. And intimacy, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:37 AM
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You guys are weird. One night stands would bother me way less than if she actually loved 10 whole dudes before me lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:27 PM
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Me. It's like you forgot "you can't turn a hoe into a housewife" was a lament.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:17 PM
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As long as she can still pair bond hard and not make you feel like a silver/bronze medalist, it shouldn't be a problem. Billy beta shouldn't slut shame a woman with a past that treats him like gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:09 PM
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Its just teenage infatuation. You don't need meaningful relationships with this kind of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:13 AM
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Hes saying it like you're superhuman though. Don't sweat it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:57 PM
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Get you that Tony Soprano energy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:57 PM
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I did say that. You cherrypicked one word out of my whole post, desire. lol 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:31 PM
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You're the only one talking for all men you sensitive goofball. No, a charismatic woman with a good personality is a special one to me. I've had women want me and it's not the same as someone with good well rounded personality. I'm not talking about career or any of that shit. Looks are not the end all, and you learn this once you stop hanging around basic Becky's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:25 PM
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Yeah no. We'll tolerate a boring or lackluster personality but we're not fooled into thinking she has a good personality. Thats you bud. I agree with OP that a lot of guys have never had the pleasure of running into a woman with confident, killer charm and the romantic ability to make us feel desired. Awesome in bed, etc. Once you experience it, looks matter a lot less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:13 PM
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extremely what men? sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:09 PM
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I was young and couldn't say no or hurt people. I let her take my virginity and the next 17 yrs. Fond memories of our honeymood period but she ended up being physically and verbally abusive and a serial cheater. She broke me. She did a lot for me too though so I wish her all the best. She deserved someone more attracted to her I think, maybe I would've exuded some kind of energy and she wouldn't have been so crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:49 PM
1

Nice. Now would that list be as extensive were you over 35 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:23 PM
1

Harder to "bond" and "become each other" yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:15 PM
1

Self-employed craftsman. But "masculine" men chafe me. The good ol' boy types anyway. The illegal Mexican guys I've always worked with are solid. It was being raised by and around women though that kinda "pilled" me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:39 PM
2

Yeah but when I think about it, its because I want that innocent teen love feeling with her, not because of how she looks. Some women legit aren't finished developing, body wise, until their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:25 AM
5

See, honestly it pisses me off that guys in this thread cant be happy with that. We're not all like that so let me just chime in and appreciate you. I can get pretty despondent and resentful like a lot of guys in this subreddit but if we can't even recognize your worth what the fuck is even our messaging and what fucking hope do we have. I think your guy is super lucky. Guys that obsess over youth instead of a youthful "spirit" (and this basically just means she doesn't get complacent) are cance…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:14 AM
5

Based. Sounds like you're giving him your best and I hope he's doing the same for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:03 AM
2

you're based. very rarely do I read posts from people here that help me understand men or women better but a lot of what you're saying is making it through. so thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:57 AM
1

What sort of deep emotional wound?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:44 AM
-1

Oh thats interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:29 AM
2

Because people have developed negative associations towards makeup, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:17 PM
1

It's subjective as to whether "masculine" or "feminine" features look better. Short eyelashes are feminine, long eyelashes are masculine, for example, and long eyelashes are pretty much universally considered more attractive on women. Eyebrow thickness tends to be trending this way as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:13 PM
-1

Did you grow up around whites? I guarantee you racism against minorities was pretty cool, trendy, and funny for more than a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:50 AM
3

Some didn't even build society on their backs. Just sent white boys to die for the right to enslave blacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:48 AM
2

Which Native societies did Colombus build?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:45 AM
2

I definitely have more anxiety, visceral fat and surely low T. Sounds like hitting the weights again is a good cure. Thanks man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:24 PM
1

You were saying in a different thread that you've been married since 19. How are you talking about dating while educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:38 AM
1

Is this a hormonal thing like puberty thats initiated by working out? Or is it an individual muscle thing? I ask because I got pretty hench shoulders, triceps and chest in my early 20s from newbie gains and good genetics I guess. But I never touched a dumbbell really so I have pretty average biceps and forearms. Could I now, a decade later, go all Curl Bro and experience "newbie gains" on previously neglected areas of my body?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:44 AM
7

Can't tell if this is satire lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:20 AM
1

That's hotwifing I think. There's kind of a... festive... attitude about it lol. Cucks enjoy feeling inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:57 AM
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I think some of us more big/masculine looking dudes who are actually not savages are kind of doomed in a way. I've had the same experience, seemingly too brutish for the nerdy and quiet girls and not rapey enough for the ones that show interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:32 AM
2

Not a bad place to be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:25 AM
3

Even when they don't say it, in my experience they distance themselves in some way, often sexually, until you get frustrated, and they can find a reason to break it off. It's exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:23 AM
0

Heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:57 PM
1

The body parts don't matter. What turns us on is different, shrouded, and ultimately what keeps us different creatures with different incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:46 PM
2

Wouldn't those with that instinct reproduce less
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:35 AM
1

Are we secretly repulsed by liberated women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:43 PM
2

damn you got shredded
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:44 AM
11

no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:34 AM
13

"It is only the man whose intellect is clouded by his sexual instinct that could give that stunted, narrow-shouldered, broad-hipped, and short-legged race the name of the fair sex; for the entire beauty of the sex is based on this instinct. One would be more justified in calling them the unaesthetic sex than the beautiful." -Arthur Schopenhauer "It is lucky for the adult woman that men do not consider themselves beautiful, since most men are beautiful. Their smooth bodies, kept trim by hard work…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:31 AM
2

Allergies? Lmao. Fucking can't even have the sniffles now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:00 PM
1

Fair point about the STD's, but the ones that hurt the most were the online emotional cheatings. Relationship therapy > leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:55 AM
3

Being a prude after the "spark" calms down is a form of cheating. How about leave the person and stop using them if you feel your sex drive dying. Or better yet, how about both people grow up and realize relationships change and evolve. Maybe someone needs to change their behavior, maybe you can open the relationship up. It's never gonna be what it was in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:56 AM
3

In that case there is. It evens the score. Ball is in her court to re-evaluate her behavior. I'm a guy who was cheated on and I've come to accept, nah, maybe I did get complacent and deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:52 AM
3

It's selfish but it's also because of needs. If you NEED, for example, emotional support in a relationship - the ability to be vulnerable, and that NEED is not met, and you can't communicate it, or you can and it's ignored, you die a little inside. Your need isn't met. People justify it to themselves because the selfishness isn't just coming out of nowhere, it's a 2 way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:32 AM
2

day ruined
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:48 PM
7

Knowing I'm not supposed to get an erection could make me get one when I otherwise wouldn't. Idk if they could control for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:22 PM
1

story?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:22 PM
5

It just sounds objectifying because it's a response to being objectified (for everything other than sex).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:24 AM
1

I don't understand what point you're trying to make. Why would you tell me you like eating pussy? lol. Yeah of course I do, because it gives my woman pleasure. When you love someone, that's what you naturally want to do. That was my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:13 AM
1

Most girls like oral sex, so you'd be pretty forgettable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:51 PM
1

Well then you'd be nobody's best lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:22 PM
0

"You suck a pussy you'll suck a dick."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 02:16 PM
4

Unless you're a psychopath, I bet you're dissociated. Sign of major trauma but unable to identify how because its all "normal". I used to be like this and honestly I miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 03:53 AM
2

Yeah of course I'm not advocating for unwanted consensual sex. I agree with everything you're saying. What I'm interested in, and what I thought people were talking about in this thread, is how some people can go from truly enjoying something sexual with one partner to the "NO" without a trauma. You can't tell me there aren't some chumps out there getting (newly) complacent women just like there are women getting the layabout gamer trope of a dude that takes them for granted and won't wash a dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:39 PM
1

I mean, I'm not a hypocrite. I would let her peg me if it turned her on, even though it's totally not my thing. I could get into it because she's so into it. Mutilation? That sounds painful no matter how much lube you use, so that's probably not for me. But if I was legit into mutilation with an old girlfriend and simply didn't want to do it with the new girl because the pleasure of doing it with her or for her didn't override the pain like it did for that old girlfriend? Um yeah, I would totall…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:43 PM
2

How would him leaving not be out of the same insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 06:24 PM
2

These men want to feel equally desired. That's the free choice to do things to him she did for someone else. The opposite of rape. This sort of woman settled for a man she does not desire sexually and doesn't even love him enough to go through the motions. Just leave the poor sap. My ex got fat and unattractive and you know what, I still ate that stanky pussy like a soldier and did it well because I loved her and loved making her feel good. All these hypotheticals and anecdotes in this thread so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:53 PM
2

Why shouldn't he be insecure after that happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:08 PM
1

L
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:01 PM
3

That's called the honeymoon phase. There physically can't be the same amount of pursuit when you're labeled and living with him. Courting that worked in the beginning stops having an effect on you after a while. Seduction doesn't work the same when you know all his tricks and know what to expect. A guy can't provide novelty forever. The least you can do is not blame him for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:32 PM
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We eat box for her pleasure. Sour tastes and smells be damned. SoOo cRaZy. Actually yes, you don't love your partner if you're not willing to be sexually compatible with them--and there's nothing wrong with that. Just don't pretend that you do love them just because you care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:07 PM
1

I would respect your preferred nomenclature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 02:45 AM
1

That shit grew on me quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:49 PM
2

Not down for calling women vaginas, but fyi "woman" sounds matronly, and "girl" feels patronizing, so a lot of men will say "female" because it's neutral and unassuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:26 AM
2

It's usually the lying. The history doesn't matter to most guys if the girl keeps the same sexual energy with him. Most girls don't have insane n-counts anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:19 PM
1

Nothing to hide - nothing to fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:16 PM
2

Nothing to hide - nothing to fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:14 PM
3

I've heard corresponding beliefs - dominatrix's accounts of many of their clients/partners being high power men who get off on feeling the loss of control they otherwise don't experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:01 PM
1

But you should have enough self-awareness to know you're in the minority. The vast majority of even Americans support decriminalization, especially younger people. Giving you the benefit of the doubt, you're being an edgelord by acting like that's reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:44 PM
1

Not any negative consequences. You quoted specific ones, and they are extremely harsh and unnecessary. It's like asking why it's a problem if someone gets raped. You can never justify it, so it's not a good question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:35 PM
1

Because you asked why rape is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:48 PM
1

Because its rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:32 PM
1

That's attractive imo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:52 PM
0

Yeah but he didn't define it. She did. Unless you think he just magically saw the light the precise moment he found out she cheated emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:15 PM
0

He had an issue with it and what did he do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:32 PM
9

He is very obviously uncomfortable with her fucking other guys. Agreeing to open relationship status at her behest doesn't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:13 PM
6

How about you read past the first sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:15 PM
2

we know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:21 PM
3

As a kid I smiled through physical abuse like Chris did but honestly no, I've never mindlessly laughed at a joke I haven't processed or find funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:57 PM
4

Epic crying emoji won't change the fact that your brainless post could be summed up that neatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:07 PM
2

I think you're framing it like he was intentionally joking about something she can't control. I agree you shouldn't do that, making fun of someone's weight or race can, of course, go really wrong. But we don't know that he didn't think he was making fun of a fashion statement. Especially when she has a history of rocking that cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:43 PM
6

Cool means "okay" in this context. I'd like to see him try that against someone his own size.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:36 PM
2

How does that mean Chris knew? Most people didn't know, regardless of how open she was about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:33 PM
4

And with that you just proved who is the intelligent one between us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:30 PM
3

Why was he laughing at the joke then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:26 PM
3

I never blamed it on women in general, goofball. That's like saying broader female obligation to be compliant is men's fault. I'm pointing out that he felt obligated to do some honor defending bullshit which she MAY have influenced because he was literally laughing at the joke at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:18 PM
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What if it was a woman on the stage? Still cool? No. Bitch move. The only reason to pull that shit is to look tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:01 PM
1

Fucking kinda wife you have that can't take a joke and makes you Muh Honor for her. Enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:59 PM
2

No condition was made fun of. GI Jane SHAVED her head, she didn't lose her hair. And Jada has been rocking bald hair since before she had alopecia.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:58 PM
3

Pull your pants down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:56 PM
5

Definitely toxic something. I think it's possible she gave him a look and he felt obligated to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:55 PM
9

"It's okay because he's black" What a shitty take.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:50 PM
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And attacking a little guy like Chris makes you look less tough not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:46 PM
1

Depends who you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:44 PM
1

What you are is an honest hypocrite, which is better than the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 07:29 AM
1

Straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:05 PM
1

That's what he's describing. That's what it feels like to be attractive to women without being Chad or a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:53 PM
1

I mean I don't personally mind if a girl doesn't rush into things for me as long as we end up with a healthy sex life. Men never put sexual chemistry on the backburner when pursuing relationships like you seem to imply women do. I think a lot of men run into women who seem interested in what they provide but aren't as interested in them sexually as he is for her. This then causes him to fixate on his inadequacy in stoking her raw sexual desire upon learning about her past ONS. Cue men shaming an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:28 PM
1

Your analogy doesn't make sense because ostensibly the beer and the cocktail represent man for sex and man for relationship respectively. Why would you get mad if the cocktail isn't a beer? The cocktail is mad because it wants to be treated and enjoyed as casually as beer sometimes in exchange for you being able to enjoy it as a cocktail. Here's where you can be honest and say, honey, a cocktail can never taste like a beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:50 PM
2

I think men hide clinginess in public better but in private there's a lot of girls who like being mommy as much as there are guys that like being daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:09 AM
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I've always said, and I mean it in a positive way, co-dependent people deserve each other. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:59 AM
9

Lists a bunch of upper class WASPy hobbies and acts like its the hobbies that are attractive lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:37 AM
1

Both are as shallow as you can get. People just can't admit they're shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:45 AM
0

Heritable doesn't mean genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:36 AM
10

You're more concerned about people pointing out how fucked up those preferences are than the reason those preferences exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:33 AM
3

Lots of guys use PED's to get ottermode.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:26 AM
3

RIP your dms
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:39 PM
1

I can't separate the two. Some of the most wild passionate sex for me has been with women that weren't so conventionally great looking. We had a good connection and/or they were really into me, which turns me on a lot more than a nice figure on someone I don't like or have much rapport with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:33 AM
1

Honestly, those faces are repelling. I'm with the other guy, I was tricked by the ridiculous bodies for a while but after some time on r/instagramreality, I'm even put off by those body types too now. We, at least a lot of us, are attracted to real and subtle beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:37 AM
1

imo, that's not difficult if you're just being the best you that you can be. dating older women can be a lottt of fun and net you reciprocal feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:45 AM
1

What made you ask that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:59 AM
2

You just enjoy them while the iron is hot and lock down the one that doesn't stop treating you like she treated Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:40 AM
1

Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:37 AM
0

Also another element to it is they're probably resentful that they were passed over by younger girls in their youth and now their main options are "older".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:36 AM
1

"The one" is a lie friend. You can still find and be "The most important one" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:47 PM
1

Their idea is that you should be mad that hotter/better guys plowed through her, she couldn't keep the one(s) she wanted, so she settled for you. Not my thoughts but that's the redpill energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:29 PM
1

They probably think she settled, devaluing you. Or you settled for a sullied harlot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:16 PM
3

Well you're asking me now that I've done the work as an adult to get rid of my prejudices and preferences. I'd wager its more difficult to force an erection than spread leg. Guys don't always do it for their own sexual pleasure. And sometimes we do some mental gymnastics to stay hard and make it happen. The orgasm may be subpar, but the pleasure derived from the bonding experience makes it worth it. I have talked to girls who mentioned having to "concentrate" harder to orgasm with certain guys v…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:58 PM
1

Because there are no more low n count girls lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:41 PM
1

I have 20 full years of relationship experience, I think I'm all good pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:40 PM
2

The eye color I didn't like was blue. And no. Eye colors don't make my dick hard. It simply disqualified the girl from even being seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:32 PM
3

You sound mad, and jealous of sex toys lol. Imagine a guy seething this hard about a dildo. You okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:30 PM
1

Says who? Some outliers with mental issues and no real human prospects could understandably resort to that sort of fantasy. That's not a biological thing, any more than women fucking dogs is biological. Most men are jerking off with their hand, without any "additional help". And when they do upgrade to a fleshlight or doll, most of the time its for the additional stimulation as well, just like a vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:23 PM
2

But it's true for men too that there's more than superficial appearance to physical attraction. We are absolutely capable of carnal desire from an emotional connection, just like you. And sex dolls are analogous to dildos and vibrators, so I'm not even going there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:06 PM
7

Even the nicest women think of men this way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:51 PM
0

tons of chads never reproduce and many betas do. what do you want, is it really to have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:10 PM
1

That's a reach buddy. There's a long history of using "stats" to oppress people. I just think you're shooting yourself in the foot if you're going to expect a woman with a promiscuous past to inevitably cheat on you. Sounds jaded as hell and like it doesn't serve you any good. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:45 PM
2

And that's why you're miserable lmao. You don't see women as people. If she was treated poorly by men in her past that just makes me better by comparison in her eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:28 PM
3

Fair enough but can you edit it then? The crux of it is about physicality and sex, in your own words.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:12 PM
2

y'all 🤠 Why would you provide all your resources to a woman in this day and age lmao tradcuck. Stop stressing so much about someone's past and maybe you'll enjoy the opposite sex a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:09 PM
1

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:02 PM
2

OP is literally talking about physical attraction. I don't think women broadly are any more shallow than men. OP is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:49 PM
1

Instability doesn't really follow less births though does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:00 PM
6

I remember being a 12 year old boy and only finding a very small percentage of girls who were my "type" attractive. If you had the wrong eye color I'd be "settling". I guess you never had to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:59 PM
1

The way its being suggested to apply them here is dumb, yes. Smoking is a terrible analogy because you don't need to smoke. You do need sex and companionship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:52 PM
2

Are you an animal? Humans know how to see through generalizations that don't serve them. Otherwise you're a dumb cat that won't be saved from the tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:50 PM
1

Stats are often used for bigotry. Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:46 PM
1

My comment doesn't contradict the OP, goofball.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:45 PM
1

What's the alternative, a dead bedroom? Keep your slut full of dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:43 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:39 PM
-3

You wouldn't care if you had any self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:47 PM
0

But projecting broad stats onto individuals is dumb. That's just bigotry, not to mention just makes your own dating life worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:46 PM
6

Strange how that behavior happens to be how you catch cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:40 PM
-1

What makes you feel inferior to those other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:30 PM
-1

Promiscuity and cheating are not the same thing. One can be over a promiscuous phase never having cheated and not want to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:25 PM
0

Women love Tony.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:17 AM
1

that's really mean. there's a lot of good natured but struggling people that aren't HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:43 AM
10

Gem of a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:01 PM
1

Your wife is racist, lol. #10 and #11 are a lot better looking than she's giving them credit for and giving white guys halo points.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:42 PM
9

Good boy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:29 PM
6

Let's give women soldiers testosterone then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:17 PM
1

You haven't paid attention to much of life outside of the first world then. Places with tribal conflicts. Men are insanely competitive and yes in the worst parts of society most analogous to captivity, to the point of violence. I don't think its an immutable biological certainty either. It's just what happens when animals are taken from their natural environment or under prolonged stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:04 PM
1

Nothing was disproved lol. Humans are not analogous to wild wolves. If anything our environment is closer to that of captive wolves. That actually makes the case stronger for alpha humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:45 PM
-1

So basically it wasn't debunked. It was just shown not to be true in wild wolf packs. Still true in captive wolf packs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:49 AM
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This is how it should be but slut shaming needs to stop for it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:51 PM
1

So how did you react? How did the relationship break down?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:01 PM
1

Presumably you guys never gave each other a reason to dissect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:56 PM
2

Sounds like she takes care of you where it matters. 99% of guys would not care about a girls past if she was honest about it and was equally as giving. But many women lie about their past to hide the fact that they aren't that attracted to their new guy, and stay because they obviously still extract some sort of benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:51 PM
3

and a new cold war now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:45 PM
2

he a bonobo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:28 AM
1

Men are superpredators. Not humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:55 PM
5

👑
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:22 PM
4

A drug "user" and when you can find free time away from your busy and awesome life, you go on reddit dot com purple pill debate where you let everyone know you're definitely not an incel. Yeah I'm sure you're a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:12 PM
3

just light a spark bro
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:07 PM
1

And what do men offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:48 PM
2

Yeah actually you're right about that friendship love. I have definitely fallen in almost a kind of mental love with childhood friends. I do believe that's just a function of relating so well to another person and bonding through shared experiences. I hope that men and women can work to study and understand each other intimately in the future so we can remove the emotional barriers between us. That's why I see the deconstruction of gender as a good thing too - it blurs the lines between us. Imag…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:53 PM
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No, thank you for posting! I too can understand feeling like the guy who my wife cheats on me with undermined me. My partner is no longer, as you said, wrapped around my finger and mine alone. What good is her love if she's a hoe? This is the wounded ego and it happens to both genders. I definitely think you're onto something. I would just add that it's the same for men, and what you're saying applies to people with narcissistic leanings. So yeah, some groups of women value a "dad" type with his…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:45 PM
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Yeah fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:02 PM
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Yeah, honest sluts are awesome. Traditional culture and its shaming bullshit definitely plays a part in their rarity. But I'm sure you agree its such a turn off when they're "scared" of you. It doesn't allow for close bonding. So what do you mean theyre slutty for bad reasons? What's your experience there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:35 PM
2

So may I ask, do you not think sex is an expression of True Love then? I remember from a past discussion with you, you were railing on LL's breaching the monogamous contract, and that they should be held more accountable by society. Persuasive argument, by the way. If it's not too intrusive, is the sex with your partner understood by both parties to be more of a "maintenance" of monogamy than the lustful passion that I assume is what you guys seek outside of your relationship? Just really curiou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:27 PM
1

Why is it, in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:38 PM
1

Dogpill was the most hilarious pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:20 AM
3

The fact that you would imply I'm white knighting for telling a woman to stop lying because you're insecure further proves how insecure you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:43 PM
1

New guy definitely shoots himself in the foot with insecurity. But when he's cool and the sex still dries up after being so good, that's when a dude rightly start getting insecure because he's still as horny as ever and can't understand what happened to her. It doesn't comport with her promiscuous past. Male ego can't deal so it goes to degradation. Then women think guys hate promiscuity. Even guys think that's what they hate. But I think it's actually the drop in her libido (which is responsibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:06 PM
2

My ex cheated on me repeatedly, knocked my tooth out, slapped me in front of my mother, punched me, choked me, dumped food on my head, body shamed me publicly and emasculated me on a regular basis. But she gave me her first love, her virginity, massages any time I wanted, cuddles, companionship, sex which was never withheld or weaponized, and took care of me when I became disabled for several years. She was my worst enemy and my best friend. I miss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:25 AM
2

Cheating is bad because it's lying. But my point is its dumb that you would even have to lie in order to not breach this outdated social contract because your partner can't control their jealousy and would love you less for being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:05 AM
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not with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:00 AM
1

Killing someone is bad though. Why is having sex with someone inherently bad? Like, its troubling you think your being attracted to women is in the same bucket as murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:18 AM
1

Nor should you. They're natural thoughts. I don't see why we criminalize the natural actions either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:01 AM
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The thought of cheating is the "bad" part. The rest is just follow through. This is why I hate unopen relationships, its built on a lie. The social contract only exists because people didn't understand or couldn't cope with jealousy in a healthy way. There's no reason why you can't commit to raising a child with a partner and have feelings for other people. Some people even purposely have kids with platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:35 AM
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Hmm.. when I'm in chemical love, other women are are just... meat bags. I have zero sexual desire for them. Only for my woman. I only get cheating thoughts after resentment builds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:25 AM
2

I love wholesome PPD posts 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:15 AM
5

Is it possible women lie because they know their guy deserves as much sex and love as she gave for the hot guy from her past? And she knows she can't fake that desire for the new guy, even though he's what she wants in her life. I can't imagine a guy caring about your past if you guys have a bomb sex life up until that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:08 AM
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Thats how I know you've never had and probably never will have good sex. Get the whore to love you and you win life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:05 AM
1

It's called retroactive jealousy and its nothing a little OCD therapy cant fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:04 AM
1

Insecure fucks like this guy shouldn't make you women lie though. You should see it as a way to weed out this type of dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:58 AM
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I literally am the sex positive liberal man until they show me they're liars. Then I'm the sex positive liberal man with someone else. Current gf was really honest and I find her nymphness hot actually. Lately she's clamming up and failing my honesty tests about details though, so I think I'm out. Stop fucking lying. Honesty is so attractive and if there's no trust there's no love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:53 AM
2

Seriously, what's wrong with you? Every single thing you post is absolutely shocking in some way I can't even articulate. Someone should interview you or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:19 PM
1

Jesus. So based.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:01 PM
3

They wouldn't dare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:00 PM
2

oh snap
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:55 AM
2

Jokes on any guy who would believe she's attracted to him. Still, provided she's not being exploited by a pimp, it is a job she chooses to do, like a waiter or waitress.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:46 AM
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Lol what I've gathered from this thread is that some poor disabled, possibly very ugly sap is "low value" and doesn't deserve ever having an orgasm with a woman. Even though all men ultimately "purchase" sex with something or another, if this guy dares to get his pp wet with a sex worker, he's an exploitative, fundamentally evil piece of shit who hates women and sees them as a commodity. Well then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:38 AM
1

Poor babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:51 AM
1

Blackpill did always acknowledge "thugmaxxing"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:32 AM
1

Disagree. "Higher end" coffees are those that have simply balanced out the bittnerness and people mostly like Starbucks because its convenient and a social phenomenon. Craft beers drive my point home even more. They are more bitter than Michelob Lite but people still love them. Why? They've acquired the taste for bitterness despite it being an evolutionary danger signal to avoid consuming that thing. I'm arguing the same can be done with chubby women. Chubby chasers do really love chubby women, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:53 AM
3

Do people truly enjoy the bitter taste of beer and coffee or is it a means to a chemical end?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:09 AM
3

agoraphobia is a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:06 AM
1

LatAm too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:29 PM
1

You're right. I was in my own head about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:19 PM
2

Unfathomably based
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:09 AM
1

Whats wrong with that kind of woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:49 AM
1

Just search the funny quote in YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:04 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:24 AM
2

Based. I was cheated on and thought it was bad. Hated cheaters and cheating. Now being with a LL I realized a DB is even worse and I deserved to be cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:02 AM
1

OP asked privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:11 PM
5

The blatant misogyny even here in liberal California. My parents have a mom & pop shop and when my dad died I saw how even "respectable" people talk down to her vs this stupid undeserved admiration my dad received. Race plays a part in this too. Women and minorities receive less respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:02 PM
1

How does that figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:41 PM
2

I seriously don't get why guys care about sluts, if she sluts it up with you, that's all that matters. Only thing that would piss me off is if my partner chose to be with me despite not being turned on by me, so I get less sex than their exes got. Yeah that would make me jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:36 AM
2

How long do you think it takes for a woman to become "good" enough for you in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:34 AM
1

Sure but I also think a lot of guys struggle to control the control freak inside them, and that's what leads them to seek out "traditional" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:57 PM
1

They're capping. They would actually tradsimp hard for an actual HVM that showed interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:59 AM
2

Nobody is dropping out of shit. We still have to feed ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:22 AM
27

I just want a cool girl who I vibe with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:58 AM
9

That dick shovel theory has been thoroughly debunked btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:35 AM
1

white and handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:39 PM
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You are butthurt someone doesn't like your daddy Peterson. Thanks for the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:00 AM
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Wasn't asking your permission
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:23 AM
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Nah you sound fine.. but more muscle tone doesn't hurt most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:44 PM
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Both are trash
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:15 PM
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Why do an easier diet when you can do this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:11 PM
2

Okay wrinks, and caring about what consenting adults in happy relationships do isn't at all about making your jealous insecure self feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:39 PM
3

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:30 AM
8

Is there effective therapy for this ego shit? It's exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:29 PM
2

Big cringe acting like you don't spend your sad life on this pill subreddit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:06 PM
1

You're shocked by life if you're just now learning most people are blue pilled. Definitely try and keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:03 PM
7

Yea, black pill should be common sense. Thank you for catching up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:03 AM
1

Good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:55 PM
7

You just proved how racist you are lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:03 PM
1

Its not a myth. Young people can see your age better than you. Don't you remember having that ability?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:52 PM
2

Are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:13 AM
0

They develop other skills. The new-poverty millennials didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:37 AM
2

:)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:19 AM
2

rip
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:03 PM
2

Like insane fucking rushes of oxytocin. This feeling of connectedness and bonding that requires emotional vulnerability to get there, but can feel something like molly when you do. Even a mild version of that can lead to enjoyable sex. In that state, all physical contact feels amazing, and having an orgasm is almost something you don't want, because it can bring you down a bit from that headspace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 10:14 PM
2

Believe it or not, there can be way more to sex than just orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:04 AM
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