NotSoStraightArrow Archive

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5	It's always one straw that breaks the camel back... Shut it down now. I assume you’ve spoken to her about your feelings, and it didn’t matter. Go grey rock. Get a good lawyer, and keep it to yourself. If you must confide in someone, make sure it’s a trusted friend you’ve known a long time. You didn’t say how long you were married or if you reside in a marital property state. Again, consult an attorney. If you can do this without raising any suspicion, start focusing on her behavior and patterns. Write them down. This may help later when you do me…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/23 09:00 PM
4	Why does she text like this? She is sick—it is a mental disorder. It’s called NPD. There is less than a 1% chance of curing it, and the person has to acknowledge the disorder and want to change it. This will not happen. So, learn the grey rock technique. Do not answer her. Do not engage her. Isolate yourself from her as much as possible. Do not talk about her to your son. He will figure out who and what she is when he is old enough. If you give her any type of supply, positive or negative—either, it won’t matter to her—that…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/23 06:57 PM