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Doesn't take much. We're simple creatures. Generally, smile, laugh if he's joking, listen, ask questions, invite him to things / accept his invitations if you can, and when you can't express gratitude for the invite and ask for a raincheck.
/r/seduction04/08/13 10:27 PM
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But he DHVed by mentioning specific things about me, being attentive even in front of all of his friends, and I felt important. He demonstrated high value by... paying attention to you?
/r/seduction03/07/13 02:18 AM
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Depending on your school / woods / fire, there's a big fucking difference between "hey, we're going to a bonfire, wanna come?" and "hey, we're going camping, wanna come?"
/r/seduction18/05/13 02:55 AM
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I like where you heart is at, but if you already have a girl agreeing to go camping with you (evening event + sleeping + morning event), you don't really need seddit's advice/help. That's all but closed at that point.
/r/seduction18/05/13 01:56 AM
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Ever see really ugly or out of shape guys with attractive girls? TBH, not really without extenuating circumstances (money, disability) Doesn't happen all the time, because most guys that aren't traditionally attractive dwell on it, but the ones that get past it are rockstars. Just take my word for it that it happens. It used to confuse the hell out of my in high school and college because even though I wasn't the best looking dude, I was a hell of a lot better looking than the guys that were get…
/r/seduction13/05/13 06:01 PM
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Get over yourself. Not to be a jerk about it, but that's the answer. We're all dealt a mixed bag genetically. I have had forehead wrinkles since I was 16 and permanently oily skin that I still haven't figured out how to manage. My nose is bigger than I'd like. My hair only looks good for a week after I get it cut and I'm too frugal to get a haircut more than once a month. The left side of my chest is literally bigger than the right side. These things and others about my body that are out of my c…
/r/seduction13/05/13 03:32 PM
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1) Practice, it's the only way you get better. 2) Have fun and make fun. Stay goal-focused but don't forget to have fun in the meantime. If you're not having fun the people around you won't be having fun and you won't be successful. 3) Relax. Your body language and general level of anxiety/comfort matter infinitely more than the wording of what you say. The more you can loosen up the better it will be all around. 4) Don't let your failures slow you. Everyone fails. Everyone. The people that are …
/r/seduction13/05/13 05:03 AM
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Recently I have begun to try and use this app as a way of creating social proof by sending pictures of being at a party having a good time with other girls Personally, I'm not a big fan, but I'm also not too big on taking and sending photos to people (it detracts from the experience of being out with, you know, the people you're there with). If you can find a way to make it seem innocuous or fun, sure. But if it's a photo of you posing with girls out some place... just why? I mean, obviously to …
/r/seduction12/05/13 08:45 PM
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What are you doing? Relaxing my muscles. 20 minutes later... What are you doing? Relaxing my muscles. Still? I have a lot of muscles, dude...
/r/seduction12/05/13 08:34 PM
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Last week i told a girl that she has a really nice smile, but when i said it something just did not feel right. I felt like i was giving off a nice guy vibe Probably because you thought about it too much or tensed up when you said it. If you're comfortable enough you can get away with saying almost anything.
/r/seduction12/05/13 08:15 PM
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you should stop following anything anyone says here Including you? I'm so confused!
/r/seduction12/05/13 08:07 PM
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What are you hungry for? A nice piece of kelp. Oh, ok. And if some shiny spinny rubber thing were to come by, would you be interested in that? God, no! Didn't you listen? I said a nice piece of kelp. Five minutes later, the fish is chasing past kelp to catch some shiny spinny rubber thing. That's why we don't ask the fish. edit: That said, OP's post is solid. Nothing groundbreaking, but good points and always nice to hear things from the ladies.
/r/seduction12/05/13 07:47 PM
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Not to be a dick but, do you have anything else? What you just said (and what I gathered from that article) isn't really anything groundbreaking, and it doesn't apply strictly to women. One of the first lessons taught in persuasion/marketing/sales is that people, not women, people, decide emotionally and justify logically. What you pointed out and what is espoused in that article is absolutely true; it's also very old news. As men our initial emotions about whether or not we want to pursue a wom…
/r/seduction10/03/13 10:10 PM
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I don't know what the name for the technique is, if there even is one, but faking agreement and empathizing with something you very clearly have no part in because you're a guy works well in this spot. I can't think of an example that I've done lately, but say they're talking about how bras from one brand fit too tight and they have to size up you'd interject "Oh my god, I know! Whenever I wear one of those I have to go up at least two sizes!" in what sounds like a very honest and earnest expres…
/r/seduction10/03/13 09:52 PM
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Anyone care to try to venture a few stabs at how this is helpful?
/r/seduction10/03/13 09:38 PM
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Cliche and overused quotes aside... this isn't love. It's attraction/infatuation.
/r/seduction10/03/13 04:32 PM
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How old are you? How old is she? You said shift. From all this I'm guessing you're in high school / early 20s? You have to understand what she's feeling. She's new at work. She's probably nervous about the job, her coworkers, etc. You're being nice to her and going out of your way to help her out. Right now she's thinking "Oh, I met this really great person at work. This person is really nice and friendly to me. This person is asking me questions about my life and seems generally interested in m…
/r/seduction10/03/13 03:55 PM
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HOU? Or the Mike Jones reference?
/r/seduction10/03/13 02:39 PM
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As an opener, it is very creepy, actually, haha. That inconsequential point aside.. Although not original, "hi..." is good. Of the guys I know (that don't study pua) they try to open with some dumb joke or something cheesy. Of the guys I read about here, they think 'hi...' is too boring / plain to use and try to us something routine they heard / read about, or some observational humor, etc. If you'll indulge me, I'll explain a little why I think it's good. It's short, it's direct, it's honest. (…
/r/seduction29/12/12 06:36 AM
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No but it's honest and what a person says when they want to introduce their self. And it's not gimmicky or cheesy or creepy or long or canned.
/r/seduction29/12/12 02:42 AM
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As stated, most of us would assume you're blowing us off and be pleasantly surprised when you text. Alternatively you could just give your number and explain that you don't like talking on the phone and he should text you, or you could just screen his calls and text him back after he calls and explain your idiosyncrasy then/later.
/r/seduction29/12/12 12:51 AM
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I use it as "pain in the ass" and afaik that's the general usage. "Thy" works too, except it's needlessly dorky :P
/r/seduction04/12/12 03:19 AM
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Realistically, anyone who's spent any time dating / hitting on women should see that some of the advice is awful. So much of this advice is in a vacuum / without proper knowledge of both parties, and also occasionally from guys that have only read up on the subject and haven't spent enough time in the field applying it to see what works, what doesn't, and how to make the decision about what to do in the moment. (Not surprising, I mean, most advice in general is terrible because it lacks proper b…
/r/seduction04/12/12 02:49 AM
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Yeah. I mean, I totally get the value in that style and I do incorporate a lot of it in what I do and how I do it, but a lot of the time I think it's somewhat awful advice. The trouble with taking an ultra alpha approach is that it can easily set expectations that the guy has to be the one always driving the dates / conversations / relationship. If I'm interested in a girl and she's not interested in me, sure, I need to be the one doing the work in the beginning, that's fine, that's how it shoul…
/r/seduction03/12/12 09:48 PM
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Not sure I can deliver on that one. Only so much of seddit plays into how I approach dating / relationships. I've posted FRs in the past and they're generally met with little to no reception or easily foreseen criticism with no useful feedback. This isn't to say that I have a better method or that seddit's general advice is wrong by any means. It's more that I take some advice from here and incorporate it into my game but my game isn't the style seddit approves (fast, flashy, instant f-closes, e…
/r/seduction03/12/12 05:44 PM
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thanks for a solid answer.
/r/seduction01/12/12 09:14 AM
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thanks :)
/r/seduction01/12/12 09:14 AM
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Not sure if this has been covered by a broader discussion already, but, why are you here? I don't mean to shoe you (and other ladies in general) away... I just don't get it. I'm honestly curious. How did you find seddit, why do you like it, why do you stay, etc?
/r/seduction01/12/12 04:22 AM
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Haha, well said. I think your post is kind of shit (as evidenced by my snarky remarks), but I upvoted you anyway because I did enjoy it and what happened in this thread :)
/r/seduction26/11/12 12:34 AM
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"I'll have a beer, hun" "OK, we have Bud, Bud Lite, Miller, Miller Lite, Coors, Coors Li--" "I said I'll have a beer, hun." "But which one, sir? You have plenty to choose from." "I SAID I'LL HAVE A BEER, HUN!" "You are the sexiest man I've ever met. Please, have sex with me now. Please. Pretty please, you studly hunk of a man. All the men I've ever met pale in comparison to you. You've melted me with your order for beer." That's how I imagine it went, anyway.
/r/seduction25/11/12 06:40 PM
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She was instantly turned on. Stopped reading there.
/r/seduction25/11/12 04:27 PM
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"Don't believe everything you read- did you know there was a professor in the sixties who wrote a book about how women were incapable of sexual fantasies?! I know right?! Then this woman called Nancy Friday wrote a response called My Secret Garden- she interviewed hundreds of women about their fantasies and put them all in a book! A girl I dated read it, she told me her fantasy was...... and no, we never did end up doing that!" That feels canned. With any luck the girl should then start describi…
/r/seduction22/11/12 01:34 AM
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brb, moving to Norway...
/r/seduction06/11/12 12:26 AM
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I really don't know much at all about the culture there so pardon my ignorance, but are you sure that goes for the whole population, or more just the scene that you hang out with? It just seems so strange to me.
/r/seduction05/11/12 04:32 PM
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Where's here?
/r/seduction04/11/12 11:17 PM
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Season 12, Episode 7, Super Fun Time, 23 Apr. 2008 - http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1220462/
/r/seduction25/09/12 01:17 AM
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I started to respond to each statement. And then I realized I was saying the same thing over and over. You have serious self-esteem and emotional stability issues. Until you're OK with you being you... you won't get anywhere good with any women worth getting anywhere with. I don't mean to be too harsh, but seriously, read what you just wrote. No one in their right mind is attracted to someone that acts like that. Flip the situation. Say she invited you out and you said "Well, my friends and I ar…
/r/seduction21/09/12 01:24 AM
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It's hard to give advice in a vacuum, sans stories or examples. If you could provide a description of the events, we might be able to help you work on tactics/strategies/etc. To your point, inner game isn't something you work on by itself. You should be practicing your social skills at the same time you work on your inner game. It's good that you're going out and trying. That's huge. However, you need to understand that what you're trying to do is be attractive. People that don't see the value i…
/r/seduction20/09/12 03:17 AM
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This question is for the benefit of those that still have AA - Ballpark, how many times you you been shot down? Now that you're experienced, what's your #/kiss/f close ratio? Where do you run game? What places do you seek out to run game? RE: Stories - Indulge us with a few?
/r/seduction19/09/12 01:31 AM
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most of all having crushes on some hot girls in my school. I tried to talk to some of them but failed every single time, just because I was thinking nah they don't like me. This is an inner game problem. If you don't feel like everyone you meet should enjoy your company and whatever else you can provide, you need to work on you inner game. Until you fix your inner game, the issue you're running into* until won't go away. edit: missed a word.
/r/seduction19/09/12 01:25 AM
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How long have you been practicing? How did you get started? Why did you get started? Any best/favorite/weirdest stories for us? Feel free to combine answers.
/r/seduction19/09/12 01:13 AM
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The more real world experience I have gotten the more I have learned that everyone has something interesting about them. I have to disagree. I've met a lot of people that have no interesting hobbies and are generally lame. For instance, shortly after I graduated college, I had a roommate who had an unimpressive /unambitious career, would only watch reality TV / trashy shit, didn't read anything aside from super poppy books (ex: Twilight) and couldn't contribute anything in any substantial conver…
/r/seduction17/09/12 03:37 AM
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i thought it was hilariously pathetic from her end. she didnt make it the first week of college without a one night stand You have a terrible outlook on sex.
/r/seduction09/09/12 09:13 PM
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