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Field ReportNotUpToAnythingGood/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 03:58 AM
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I do this out of efficiency in my life. I hate it when my time is wasted unnecessarily. I get it, there is a certain amount of "waste" that is a part of every day social interaction. But the "um, let me think" lines while holding up everyone else irk me. They make me think "Why doesn't this person have their shit together?" When I realized that question also applied to me, I made the conscious decision to make sure my shit was together and to ensure my delays for decision making don't negatively…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 04:49 AM
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Here's something to bake your noodle... Demonstrate to her the reason for the insecurities has been corrected and that all is right in the world. You will look good in her eyes because you look good in YOUR eyes.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 04:28 AM
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If it's proven the child isn't yours... I wonder if you can sue for fraud and damages...
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 08:14 PM
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Options 1, 2, & 3 are spot on. Keep doing an be you. More women will come along. For bonus points, after you have another plate or two, you could see about making her a plate as well. She already proved that she's open to sex and no commitment by screwing her ex. If you do this, make sure you don't catch feels.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 08:11 PM
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You can only show them the way. They have to walk it. They have to want to be saved (as it were). They will only appreciate liberty if they want it bad enough.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:14 AM
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I once told a woman I was glad she didn't try to have sex with me. Oh boy, did she ever go off the deep end in retaliation. Anymore, if I don't want to have sex with a woman, I pass by saying something akin to "I really wish I could but I can't because ______". Doesn't matter if the reason is true or not. You politely and quietly let her down, she gets the perfectly reasonable idea that you would consider it but circumstances prevent you. Avoidance, perhaps but a guy should be able to live his l…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 04:21 AM
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Any woman asking for space needs to be given all the space. Why might you ask? She's looking to leave. Make it easy by ensuring she's been launched into outer space. Give her all her stuff back and move on with your life. She will either backpedal and clarify what she meant (usually life has its own demands on her that she's not effectively communicating to you) or she'll flip out that you are gutting her power over the relationship. Either way, you get some useful information about her to choos…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 06:23 PM
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Saying it does dovetail nicely if you intend to leave her wanting more... especially if she has your number. or you've made arrangements for her to get in touch with you at a later point.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 06:00 PM
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I am usually 10+ years older than my plates. As such, I have life experiences they haven't had yet or at least more experience with life's curve balls. One of the things I offer is the benefit of having learned lessons the hard way. So if there is something I can help with, I offer it, if asked (advice unasked for is rarely appreciated). In this particular case, my plate is going to school in a field not dissimilar to my own. So I am versed in several subjects she's taking. This is a sore point …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:42 AM
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She has said she wants to have sexy fun times with me but that she's too busy with school and family to do so right now. Thing is, acta non verba. What she is saying could be true but her actions thus far tell a different story. I also have no problems with cutting her loose entirely. The ball is entirely in her court. It's up to her to change the outcome. If she wants access to my resources/time, she needs to get in line with expectations.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:00 AM
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The last time I had a couple of women doing that to me... I told them the following: Me: Ladies, if you are going to continue fucking with me, you need to make it worth my time. In other words, pay admission to continue this ride. Otherwise go find some other sucker. Result: 1 woman got all butt hurt and stormed off. The other woman gave me her number. I didn't follow up because I wasn't that interested in either because they had been playing games.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 12:08 AM
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Yep. I've got a plate who had become a time sink. She's dialed back the sex she was giving but expected me to continue giving her everything I was. I gave her a few opportunities to change her ways. She declined to do so. I pointedly noted to her that it's a two-way street and as such, was renegotiating my part of the deal as it was no longer balanced & fair. She's not happy with it because I rarely talk to her now, don't give her expert advice, or guidance any more. Quickly became apologetic af…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 11:59 PM
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In laymen's terms.... Pre-selection is having another woman's seal of approval. Therefore, if you are good enough for her, you are good enough for that one, that one, the blonde in the corner, and the brunette at the bar. A guy successful with women must be worthy otherwise he wouldn't be successful with women. It's circular logic but are you going to argue?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 01:10 AM
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Something else to remember is that the person who can most easily walk away has the power. Thing is, correcting things (if the relationship can be saved) isn't difficult. If you want to work out, do so, without her. Let her see you do the things that inspire you but don't invite her. That's subtle dread, especially if those things that attracted her to you involve being seen by other women. More blatant would be chatting up and flirting with other women when she's around. You'll have to gauge wh…
/r/askTRP02/04/17 02:13 PM
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You need to be the guy you were that caught her eye. You likely were living life on your terms, doing your own thing. See the recurring theme? If not, it's you doing you. The fuck up was changing you to suit her. That's a no-no. I'm married. I was going down that same road a couple years in. She made a comment that hit close to home... she said "I miss the you I was dating. I mean you now is pretty nice but I miss that old you." It was the wake up call I was lacking. I took the hint and made cha…
/r/askTRP02/04/17 02:13 AM
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We get to choose... Yeah, the ladies get to choose. But heaven forbid a guy try to choose or have standards... Oh no, that's misogyny... /sarcasm
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 03:29 AM
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They like the challenge of getting that alpha male to settle down with them. It's because they are special and different from the rest of the girls. I mentioned to a plate a long while back that I wasn't too keen on jumping into a committed relationship right away. She was throwing pussy at me in attempt to change my mind. She still messages me every now and then just to say hello and that she is thinking about me, despite her being married.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 11:29 PM
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Sometimes people need to reschedule. That's life. Accept the reschedule if your schedule permits it and carry on. Should she ghost or it not turn out well, you know what to do from there. You should keep your options open and followup on promising leads. You never know what you'll find.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 09:46 PM
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When I have those kinds of discussions with non-RP people, I generally state what I do and how well it works. I will also drop a small nugget of truth which plants that seed. Sometimes it germinates, sometimes it dies. Several of my friends & acquaintances are amazed at how happy my life is despite ignoring the adage "Happy wife, happy life". Like hell if I work my life to make her happy. I make me happy and she gets on that train to join me. That's not saying I shit on my wife, but I do me, she…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 07:22 PM
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Tell her you are done. Then hand her a box with all her stuff from your place in it (assuming she has any at your place). She has not been worthy of your time for some time now. Bonus points: Deliver it at her family get-together she uninvited you from. She may be difficult about accepting it's final/over.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 06:21 PM
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They let you buy them drinks because you are a sucker. I buy my own drinks and they buy their own. If they want more, they need to earn it. I only buy drinks for others when they have earned it. My friends have earned that right. Some random woman in a club / bar? Not so much.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:09 AM
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What I did... Took ice cold shower to reset the mood. I acted badly. Snuggled up to her naked immediately after the shower Hung on for dear life I acted badly during the first time having sex. Couldn't keep it up, got angry and emotional. Without knowing why, I felt compelled to reset the situation. Took a cold shower to clear my thoughts. Then snuggled up to her (still very cold) and hung on. This changed her perspective and thinking from failed sex to ice cold snuggling. Which led to lots of f…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 06:01 PM
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Seriously? Stop thinking. Thinking gets in the way. It happened my first time too. When I stopped getting in the way of my instincts, everything worked fine. Your body knows what to do. Your mind just needs to stop interfering.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 04:34 PM
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Points were given because an EC requested a mod to grant them.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 03:45 PM
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I have mentioned it (TRP) to my wife. Her response was "If it makes you that much more attractive, then why aren't you already doing it?" Oddly, one of her pieces of advice... Don't ever stop being a lovable asshole. Admittedly, that used to be one of my faults. I was always super nice, especially toward women. When I started being selfish, respecting and doing me, I started getting female attention. I mentioned that to my wife and she said most women will milk an easy mark, especially if it's l…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 03:13 PM
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If I was in that position and I knew the others she was doing that in front of well... I'd answer with a smirk "I am what I eat", then ignore her. Otherwise you can safely ignore her, dismiss her, tell her "when you have something useful or constructive to say, I'll listen", or comment that insults only work if you cared about that person's opinion. Just remember to stay cool and level headed. Don't lash out, just politely dismiss her as though you were a king holding court.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 02:38 AM
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I think the saying you are looking for is... It's not the years, it's the miles. Some younger women look as though they were ridden hard by life and others look as though they've cruised through without a single ounce of effort. Some of that is genetics but a lot of it is how they took care of themselves. Is the body a temple or a slum tenement?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 11:30 PM
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Have to use the right bait for the environment you are fishing in...
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 11:21 PM
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The only upside in that sorry scenario is he's trying to look out for his kids and his own peace of mind. Though the timing is interesting to day the least. 3 year old kid and trickle truth about it being a 2 year affair...
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 03:32 PM
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Another answer is that you aren't mad, just disappointed. In her for the disrespect and in your self for falling for her tricks. The last part isn't for her either. You should definitely hard next her. If she's that disrespectful up front before the date, it'll only go downhill from there.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:10 PM
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Perhaps his lover was merely a friend with benefits? I've got one. She just turned 24, we chat regularly,have sex when is convenient to our schedules,but otherwise carry on as friends.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 10:11 PM
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Not much to add that hasn't been covered already but I do have this... Her crying is likely her being upset that she lost (what she thought was) a provider. I had a very similar tactic pulled on me by a plate that came back for more spinning. She was hungry. I played along with her silly game. Now it could have been legit but acta non verba. Right after eating, fun was to resume. She was too tired and was on Facebook 30 minutes after. A couple days later, I mentioned how our evening got cut shor…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 09:14 PM
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She's not bad, just average. If you are paying cash (and at that rate), you should honestly get someone younger / hotter. Remember, buyer's market, not seller's. You're the prize, remember?
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:42 PM
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It's entirely about Power. Such a contraceptive would eliminate a huge source of female power over men. Thus, anything that benefits males is verboten by the female population.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 09:57 PM
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Before someone can be helped or saved, they have to want it and be willing to work for it. It's the same reason we don't try to save every guy. Besides, it would be improper of me to do so because if she doesn't want to be saved, doing so would eliminate her agency. It goes right back to Life, Liberty, and Pursuit of Happiness. She made her choices. It's not for me to gainsay them. I can and did use the results of her poor choices to make my life better. Don't get me wrong. I'd love to have my l…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 09:52 PM
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There is always the route of listening to her break up with you and you respond with "Okay, sounds good" Them wish her luck as you lead her to the door and shut it behind her. She won't get the breakup validation drama. As a point of courtesy, you could make sure you have good contact info to return anything of hers she may have left behind. The big thing is don't be a dick. If you intend on being valuable, behave as though you are. A high value man has no drama in his dating life. It doesn't ge…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:12 PM
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I am a son of a single mother. My two saving graces were... I recognized early on that my mother was an example of what not to do with one's life. I had an excellent male role model in my grandfather (my mother's dad). I know I got damn lucky in catching on to critical lessons early in life. I also benefited from spending a large portion of my early years and late teen growing up on a farm where personal responsibility was the rule of the day (Grandpa makes & enforces law). My mother still hasn'…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 05:56 PM
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Prior military, got quite a bit of education in & out of the military, including BS & MS degrees. Now I install software & servers. Not really comfortable saying more than that.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:59 PM
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Acronyms are in the sidebar material. You can also google most terms to get a definition.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 04:07 AM
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You just described my mother-in-law. Her beliefs are fact and without verifiable sources. Any fact produced by anyone else (particularly a male) is untrue if it disagrees with her "facts", regardless of how many verifiable sources are provided. My wife loves her mother but even she commented recently "I love my mother to death but I can only take her in small doses". Her mother drives her up the wall too.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:54 AM
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I once had a coworker with whom I had a good rapport. I wasn't going to sleep with her but she was around my age and knew the lay of the land (all older guys, 15+ years older), who to ask for what, who to talk to for certain tasks, etc. At any rate, she didn't like a joke I had sent her. She got offended. I immediately apologized and said it would never happen again. I went from talking to her almost daily to maybe once or twice a month. Those times were totally professional, nothing personal. 6…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:43 AM
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I used to work for a company that was divided up into business units. Ours (800+ people) was led by a woman. She was reviled by some of the middle and upper management... because she was able to get shit done. She survived several coups set up to get rid of her but the corporate board refused to fire her because her business unit was the most profitable in the company. To date, she has been the only woman in an executive position that I know was decently effective. Why? Like most good managers, …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 02:59 AM
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She's a plate. You shouldn't care what she is doing except insofar as it could prove harmful to you / your interests. If I was in your shoes, I'd stop dipping into the company ink. But that's me. Beyond that, if she's a solid worker and meets/exceeds work expectations, keep her onboard, and you move onto other pastures.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 09:15 PM
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That describes my doctors (one is a male MD, the other is a female Nurse Practitioner). The NP is a great doc. She listens, checks, and acts according to best practice medical science. She gets that every patient is different but at the same time, also very similar. Both are also very open to the idea that they don't know the answer and will get trusted specialists involved when necessary. The NP likes that we use effective home remedies to treat minor things like colds and fevers. Then again, I…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 08:52 PM
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I got accused of that once... because I brought facts to a rant that shut it down. Because I ran afoul of the narrative, I was accused of mansplaining. The accuser shut up and deleted her comments once I posted sources and summaries from those sources (legit ones, Dept of Labor, govt stats, left/right/center news outlets, things like that). Several people thanked me for giving them things to read and educate themselves on.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 08:36 PM
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For me, it's an avenue to keep in touch with others with whom I have a shared hobby (medieval recreation, fencing, medieval camping). I'd be stupid to turn it off as it removes a major source of information on our world-wide hobby group. Social media platforms can be useful, IF THEY ARE USED PROPERLY! Guess what? Most people don't. Think as you will, behave like others. It's one of the rules in the sidebar... having one saves you a headache and then some, even if it's mostly blank and BS.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 12:51 AM
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How I handle this sort of behavior? Acknowledge his failure and carry on as though it didn't happen (because I couldn't be bothered to give a damn what others do). It doesn't matter how successful he is/was. Ignore him and you take from him the very thing he wants... attention.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 12:42 AM
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You nailed it on the head. I've used this very format for an initial meet and greet in the past to great effect. The more I look back at this, the more I'm thinking she had an entitlement attitude going on. I also noted that some of her language use is remarkably close to a MSN article I read a couple days ago about if a guy does these things, he's bad news and doesn't respect you.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 03:22 PM
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If someone could shoot me a message on how to make line breaks for pronounced, please do. It looks like a huge wall of text even with proper sentence endings & an ENTER key.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 04:01 AM
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Truthfully, that risk is always there no matter how good you are. But yeah, I'd seriously consider upgrading her status if she's been consistently good to/for you & your life.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 09:01 PM
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A few times. The last one I gave this as a response: "Thanks. That's good to know for the day I'm looking for a nice girl." Context: She was playing herself off as a nice girl. She got angry with me for rejecting her with that statement.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 09:48 PM
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I did this with a plate that was becoming distant and unavailable (dread, unavailable, and finding out about other women). Next thing I saw was plenty of boob & ass pictures from her along with promises of more fun once she's back in town (visiting family for the summer). She's rather reliable on following through on promises. We shall see.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 04:23 AM
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Voyeurs get satisfaction out of watching others having sex. Cuckolds, not so much. They are unwitting dupes. They often raise other men's children with their significant other while thinking the child was theirs. Your definition of cuckold is rather over-broad. From Dictionary.com the definition is as follows... - a man whose wife has committed adultery, often regarded as an object of scorn
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 12:20 AM
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That's not entirely too. Modern marriage is a bad idea (from a legal standpoint) and should be avoided because the quality of LTR/marriagable women is so low. Marriage didn't use to be a horrible idea. Today, it is.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 11:32 AM
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Yep, the social aspects of this game are rather amazing. Every time I'm out and about, I see people stopping, gathering, and talking just because they are there. It's a great opportunity to perform pick up or just to work on one's approach techniques. Likewise, I can confirm that people of all ages and demographics are playing the game in Jacksonville, FL.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 10:41 PM
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True, the one single mother I was seeing for a while was very much as described. Though she wasn't mentally screwed up, she found herself having been in three relationships with guys who came out gay. It definitely gave her some self-esteem issues. The two big things she was looking for was a guy to marry and a guy to have crazy amounts of sex with (she felt deprived), preferably in one guy. I was good for one but not both. It was fun. We went our separate ways a couple months later. She got mar…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 02:21 PM
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I didn't cry when my grandmother passed. We were close but there was also a bit of a rift between us, mostly because I was my grandpa's little boy. He walked on water (in my eyes) while she had someone paddle the raft (so to speak). My wife (back when we were dating) after meeting my grandfather, made the observation "He's why you are the way you are now, isn't he?" Yep, we roll over 21 years married in less than a week. I don't recommend it for everyone (hell, hardly anyone). But I found a pers…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 04:43 AM
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The only two times I've ever seen it as being okay to cry in front of a woman is... when you are at a funeral and the person who died was someone important in your life. I'm talking more important in your life than any woman could be. when your child is born. For me, that was my grandfather's funeral. He was the example of how to be a man in my life. He was a pillar in my foundation. My wife understood I needed the moment and stood by in silent support. Would I cry in front of a plate? LOL, neve…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 04:03 AM
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A satisfactorily DGAF attitude lets you do that far more often than one would believe...
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 01:04 AM
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With a shit-eating smirk on your face say... You won't like my other speed... Let her chew on that for a while as you walk away to get something to eat/drink/otherwise occupy your time.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 04:50 PM
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You have the old woman (Tyrell) that is smarter than all around her and controls her House. Now she goes after revenge. Old women can be downright crafty and devious, especially when it comes to protecting their families from those who would take it away from them. Something to consider... men will beat the ever living crap out of you, then be willing to sit with you drinking a beer later. Women will torment your soul, shred your sanity, and make your life a living hell... only to tell you that …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 12:30 AM
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New people show up all the time. They need the reinforcing just as much as the rest of us. There are other links on the first page of TRP that clearly show people who are aware are still getting caught up in the BP fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 12:24 AM
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Hey now, I do the flowers and desserts thing too... But I do them when I damn well feel like it and not because she expects them. I also don't do them often. Give a gift too often and it stops being a surprise and gift... it turns into an expectation. That reminds me... I've been meaning to write up a post on delivery and how minor differences can make or break a gesture.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 12:18 AM
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Honestly... the slut part doesn't bother me near as much as the lack of honesty and integrity. Anyone I'm going to make a long-term or permanent part of my life needs to have honesty and integrity at the absolute minimum. Otherwise, they'll never leave GO, let alone have a chance of think about passing it.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 12:07 AM
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Another rule to live by.... Watch out for the white knights.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 11:57 PM
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Congrats! I've got the same in my wife. She's got my back. Yes, I look out for myself but it's nice knowing that she'll pitch in to cover my backside when I need it. I was diagnosed with melanoma a year and a half ago. My wife took it in stride, called me out on my bullshit regarding it, and made sure my life took the course it needed to so it could bring me to where I am now (cancer-free, in sound mental space, etc). My wife has never been afraid to call me out when I'm acting like Billy Beta. …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 11:47 PM
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I had one plate that was throwing sex my way, every which way she could... just to get me to commit and marry her (which wasn't happening). Though it could have been the fact that she had a dead bedroom for a few years with her now ex-husband. He came out of the closet.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 11:37 PM
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Thing is, it's all perfectly plausible. It seriously could have gone down just like you said. Sometimes life's story is stranger than fiction. If I were in your shoes, I'd say trust your gut, observe behavior, and verify/disprove your concerns. Your instincts can be hella sharp when life demands them to be. I've seen a series of images get sent via text message only to arrive out of order. The only thing that made it believable was the time stamps on the images and the numbering each message had…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 11:33 PM
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It also explains neatly, why I was a social outcast in my early years. I bucked the system. I challenged the status quo. I dared to expect better. I believed (then and now) in merit over status (social, political, etc). I neatly fall into the masculine role because I dare to do my own thing regardless of the social impact. It also explains why my dating life sucked balls. By associating with me, high value women would lose value & status in the group because the group said I was a bad person. Ye…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 04:39 PM
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It's similar to this in my life. My wife is okay with me having sex with other women. I have a few rules to follow so she and our kids don't get hurt but otherwise, the ball is in my court to do as I see fit. Granted, I'm not an asshole about it. I wouldn't be fucking my wife's friends in our house. If I were fucking them, it'd be over at their houses. Our kids are taken care of, they've grown up more or less well-adjusted (given society today, that's a feat unto itself). My wife has a stable ho…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 06:13 AM
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To add to the quality advice given... If you fuck her after this episode, you damn well better be wearing a condom that only your hands have touched. Though, I'd really be looking at leaving her altogether due to her bad judgement. Her behavior is demonstrating a significant lack of respect for you.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 11:37 PM
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Some plates come hard used with plenty of chips and cracks. Other plates are as fresh and new as fine china straight out of the shipping box. You shouldn't judge all plates as bad just because one was cracked and broken. It severely limits your options.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 02:11 PM
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Showing the ladies pictures of me in fencing gear as well as of me fighting on the field in my fencing gear certainly gets their attention. Something about live steel (even though it's blunted) gets them going... I wonder whatever could that be...
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 02:04 PM
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The herd's problem is that they don't want us until we become valuable. Once we do, the herd welcomes us with open arms. The problem for the herd? By the time we become valuable, we have no need for the herd. The herd hasn't proven itself valuable to us.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 02:00 PM
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I did the same thing to a woman who tried to destroy my social standing because I showed my attention to another woman instead of her. I made a couple of quiet inquiries for my own peace of mind and just sat back to watch the shit storm that would come her way due to her actions. I was not disappointed.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 12:19 AM
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FAs? What does that term mean?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 11:16 PM
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That's.... terrifying.... I went to school with girls that were just like that. Thankfully, during that time frame, I was a sexless omega. I didn't register on their radars and truthfully, I was okay with that. I didn't want to be a part of their games. I was unaware that refusing to play was actually playing the disinterest game.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 11:10 PM
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The only way she'd come close to respecting him would be if he pulled a woman that is obviously hotter than her. That would stoke the flames of jealousy and she'd be begging him for attention (because it'd all be going to the new girl) or she'd crack and eject him from her life all together.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 10:59 PM
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Pretty much. The prize does not chase. The prize is chased.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 10:51 PM
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My wife is fine with me having sex with other women. Her rules for it are rather simple... I don't bring anything home. I don't bring anyone home. I let her know where I'm going. Those are pretty relaxed rules. I can work with those. No limits on how often I can see someone or for how long. Hell, if I want to sleep over, I can. I just let her know beforehand. She jokingly gives me crap about the fact that one plate I see was 21 when I first started seeing her (24 now). Told me I was robbing the …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 04:19 AM
1

Thing is, I'm inclined to agree with you about the plus-sized model... The modern "plus-sized" model is generally seen as between Size 6 & Size 12. I hate to break it to the clothing designers, but that's normal body range. IMO, "plus sized" should start around Size 16 or so. You get a lot of normal, healthy women in Size 12 and smaller.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 02:02 PM
1

It's because despite it being the 21st century, the US Legal Code is still very much stuck in a puritanical, anti-sex point of view (unless you are a member of an oppressed group).
/r/askTRP10/06/16 01:55 PM
6

Generally speaking, the more valuable you become to yourself, the more valuable you are to others, especially women. Every time I start working out again, within 2-3 weeks the female attention is on an uptick. I keep my game subtle not out of propriety but because I'm not one for the spot light. It's worked well for me in the past when I combine it with a strong DGAF attitude.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 01:51 PM
2

Based on what he said, I would have walked away if he were talking to me like that. It was boring, uninteresting, and not germane to the purpose of meeting a Tinder match... Likewise, avoid the vegetarians and vegans. They are a little off. Not sure how or why (don't really care either) but every one of them I've dated / seen, has been some form of crazy outside of the usual baseline.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 08:07 PM
2

The fact that she killed two innocent animals in such a way should tell you everything you need to know about her. If it were my wife, I'd be contacting animal control to file a report of animal cruelty charges. Don't be surprised to find out your sister cares more for Team Woman then Team Family. You should be thinking about how your own family betrayed you to her. I'd kick my wife's ass to the curb over something this senseless. She'd get one opportunity to shape up or her ass is out.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 07:55 PM
3

I went the LTR / marriage route myself. We are celebrating 21 years together in July. While marriage is typically a poor deal for guys nowadays, it did allow me to move on plans I had at the time and fortunately, has turned out okay. You have to stay on your game though. There is little reprieve from it. The best one can do is find & get a high quality woman and accept the challenge that comes with going down the rabbit hole. The hardest part of it all is the ever-improvement of my value. I do n…
/r/askTRP09/06/16 05:40 AM
1

It's only inappropriate if you aren't attractive. Duh... Approach, don't approach, doesn't really matter in all honesty. Have a devil-may-care attitude, enjoy your life, and the approach question will become rather irrelevant.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 05:46 PM
2

The last time I checked, an EX has no authority over the relationship. You should have the attitude of "Any say over my actions a woman has ends the moment they become an EX." Think about that for a while and then look at how you screwed up. It becomes plainly obvious, rather quickly.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 05:35 PM
1

Yes it is. It's incredibly easy to run afoul of postal regulations as a good portion of the citizens in the US don't know about the laws regarding the Postal Service. Legally, only you or a designated representative can open your mail. Otherwise, it's a felony.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 05:09 PM
5

I worked for the Post Office while in boot camp years ago. Part of my training there was to learn the laws regarding the Postal Service. Holy crap, the postal police do NOT play around. Their jurisdiction is rather vast too.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 10:00 PM
8

Considering that opening another person's mail is mail tampering (felony), it tends to nip things in the bud damn fast.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 04:39 PM
3

Isn't there a meme about the patriarchy, racism, privilege, etc that goes something along these lines... When you are accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression. This one too... You are not being oppressed when another group gains rights that you've always had. Those two statements (taken directly from Google Image Search) sum it up neatly about why women hate TRP. It shatters the rose tinted glasses and takes away the free pass that women have become accustomed to over the years.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 01:55 AM
2

It's hard to vilify something you may agree with. Thus people refuse to read about TRP and just go by word of mouth. After all, we are bad people, a cult if you will and we will knock down your door and make you BELIEVE! But if you don't read about TRP, then none of that will come to pass. So obviously, making fun of and false claims against TRP is the smart thing to do... /sarcasm with a heavy dose of depressing observation of human psychology.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 01:43 AM
1

Which is precisely why married men get so much attention once they get married. The guy got the stamp of approval from a woman, therefore all sorts of other women want a chance at that action or to avoid missing out on that action. Of course there are problems with that in most marriages (beyond the fact that marriage is often a bad deal for the guy).
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:55 AM
0

Our bodies have two prime biological directives... Live & Reproduce To that end, our bodies have developed very powerful tools to better enable us to achieve those goals. When it comes to smell, not everything smells good to every person. That smell of nastiness is a sign your body inherently recognizes something is a bad thing. For example: I love sauerkraut & think it smells wonderful yet my wife thinks it stinks to high heaven. I wouldn't advise her to eat it. I however can eat it with impuni…
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:25 AM
2

I've known a few actual lesbians. Their "dirty" secret (as they called it) is that even they like to have the D every once in a while, even if it's less than once per year. One that I used to talk with regularly explained it to me that while she absolutely loves pussy, there is just something about a dick that is perfect for scratching that itch.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 06:25 AM
1

You have to blame the opposition most capable of stopping your goals. That's Warfare 101. Declare "God" (whatever that is in your society) is on your side and opposes "Them" (the target enemy group). That neatly takes opposition out of play, especially if that group is unaware of the game being played at that time. It's a dangerous game to play though...
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 03:08 AM
1

"Better" is also contextually driven. One's environment often drives what is better or worse. It's part and parcel of the Theory of Evolution and Natural Selection. The best / most fit to survive, generally will. "Most Fit" is typically decided by the environment in favor of those who can best adapt to it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 03:00 AM
1

She's not yours. It's only your turn. Stop thinking she belongs to / is owned by you.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 09:46 PM
1

This right here. I've never been given crap when I made it clear that a condom was required or I walked.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 09:24 PM
2

That's what I was driving at, you said it better. A man who has his act together makes effective use of his resources, physical and personal (which includes both men and women).
/r/askTRP03/06/16 09:14 PM
1

Or that you will run into the hymen.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 03:09 AM
2

I've got a female friend that would set me up with one of her female friends if I showed interest in her friend. She likes to help her friends who help her. Hell, she even offered to get one of her hot friends for a threesome for her husband. He turned it down. She's the closest thing I've met to a unicorn.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 01:51 AM
2

Adopt total professionalism with her. I had something similar happen to me. I turned to total professionalism and stopped being funny around her, stopped being fun to be around. I was nothing more than a professional person. Two years later, she was still commenting that I was no fun to be around, that I only cared about work, and that I almost never talked to her anymore. I never changed that behavior until after I left that office.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 01:17 AM
3

You did the right thing and answered correctly. I had a plate that was looking for a provider big time. She was throwing sex around like firefighters use water at a fire. She did many of the things you listed. She even wanted me to cum in her every time we had sex. Thing is, I've been snipped, I already have kids and don't want more. After I had my fun (and she had plenty too), I let her down easy and broke it off. She got married to the next guy to come along. It was fun while it lasted but as …
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:34 AM
2

I would think the best response would be... And? insert picture of you getting taken care of by two women Then sever all ties with her. She'll spin up with anger because you already replaced her AND she'll rage out that you don't care / getting women. I had a woman I was seeing do the same shit to me (along with mind games, gas-lighting, etc) and the above is how I stopped it. She saw that I was getting good times from a woman with a significantly higher SMV than her and she was cut out of my li…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 07:47 AM
3

I'm well aware of the stats. The psychology however says that we remember bad things far more easily and really than good things. It's why there are sayings such as "it only takes one screw up to erase 100 attaboys" As for why a man might get married? Perhaps doing so allowed the man to achieve some particular goal. It did in my case. If you check my post history, I'm not an advocate of getting married just to do it. People should only marry if it advances their goals. Otherwise, it's too much r…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 02:26 AM
12

Just remember, military society is a reflection of the country's society. We rarely hear about the good relationships because it's not noteworthy. They are the assumed standard. I'm married military. We've been doing great for just under 21 years. She's never given me any stds, she's up for sex pretty much on tap. I got out, she stayed in. As with most things news related, you rarely well hear about the good things. Mostly due to psychology
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 04:02 PM
11

Actually nurses do a whole lot more than what you said. It's a thankless job that helps to ensure the practice of medicine can actually work. If you take nurses out of the equation, the medical field falls apart.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 02:06 PM
17

I keep seeing dating profiles of single mothers saying their child comes first. Newsflash... If your child always comes first, there is no room for a guy in your life. He's second fiddle. At best, you'll get a hungry beta. You certainly aren't getting any sort of alpha for anything that a pump & dump (and he's likely dumpster diving at the point).
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 02:12 AM
1

Laugh at them... People trying to be serious cannot take it and get really bent out of shape. Plus it doesn't hurt for the witnesses... "Yes officer. She got really angry with him, he started laughing at what she said, and then she went ballistic" Laughter due to moronic ideas isn't assault (yet).
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 02:07 AM
5

Yes
/r/askTRP15/05/16 11:23 PM
35

My wife's sister started hitting on me the day after we met for the first time... I had been married for just shy of ten years at that point. I declined that 'opportunity'. When my wife & I were dating, her female friends were all flirting with me hard too. Though my wife one-upped them by taking my hand and sliding it up her skirt, lol. I've experienced the OP's article firsthand. It's weird but true.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 12:59 PM
1

That's the problem in a nutshell. There is no owner's manual, lol. Despite women all being alike, they are notably different from one to another. That's where people get tripped up. What worked for Girl #1 may not work at all for Girl #2 and may piss off Girl #3.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 12:00 AM
1

Yep because past actions have no bearing on the future. One of the Laws talks to this.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 11:43 PM
2

Yep, it's plagiarism and from my university, grounds for permanent dismissal from the school, never to return.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 11:40 PM
1

You could always be a bit mercenary... "What's in it for me?" If you don't like the answer, decline the offer to work for free. The last time I had to do that, I only had to ask the question twice before people stopped trying to mooch off me.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 11:39 PM
1

That presumes he even gives a damn about the social fallout. He who can most easily walk away has the power in the relationship.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 11:37 PM
1

Thank you! She's a traditional sort of woman. Her parents grew up in the early '40s. Her family is a military family. As a whole they take the concepts of Honor, Commitment, and Honesty seriously. Very similar to my upbringing. That's not to say I've never seen many of the behaviors we attribute to AWALT. I have and it's typically over little shit that is inconsequential. Her only requirement of me is that I take care of her and the kids. Beyond that, I can do whatever I want. Which is her sayin…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 11:11 AM
3

I'm the network admin in the house. I also manage our cell phones. I've seen nothing unusual or anything that would raise any alarms.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 10:58 AM
3

Yes, I do. She gives me enthusiastic sex pretty much whenever I want. I generally want it more than she does.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 10:58 AM
2

If you think about it, the Jedi dealt in absolutes far more often than the Sith did. They were always moralizing about not using the dark side of the Force. The Sith on the other hand advocated using whatever worked, Light or Dark. They embodied pragmatism. As men of Red Pill, I think we would strive to be pragmatic and use what works for us. If it benefits someone else in the process, that's fine. We took care of ourselves. Side benefits are incidental byproducts. Sometimes the best answer is t…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 06:31 PM
12

Seeing this makes me glad that I have the woman I do in my life. Yes, I'm married but she takes care of me. If I'm sick, she makes sure I'm taken care of to get well quickly. She insists that I have my own space and hobbies (her words: that allows you to be more you, which I like) I'm not saying she couldn't do the things like happened to the OP but continued, demonstrated, increasing value presented to a worthwhile woman and she's far more likely to stick around. Hell, she drove 10 hours one wa…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 06:10 PM
1

This was me for a plate I spun twice. She fell the first time and started dating this guy. Two years later, she messages me out of the blue and asks if I'm able to give her some good loving. Talk leads to her not being happy with him, he's cold to her, sex is vanilla/very starfish from him, etc. Two months later, "found religion" (read: realizes she is rapidly approaching the Wall) and broke everything off. I wouldn't be surprised to find her contacting me again. This sort of thing happens if a …
/r/askTRP11/05/16 11:33 AM
1

No, I'm done. My eldest daughter turns 20 this year. Youngest turns 18 the same year I turn 50. Not raising kids after that.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 06:08 PM
1

Girls are common in my family. Something like 3 to 1 ratio. We get just enough males each generation to keep family name in circulation.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 05:48 PM
1

I've got a friend that keeps trying to sell me on the "Happy wife, happy life" idea... I just keep telling him that I don't subscribe to it. I just focus on being a successful, happy guy who is willing to share that success with a worthwhile lady. My wife just smiles because she knows she has an easy life and it costs her very little (and that little bit she rather enjoys doing). He's baffled that someone as strong-willed as my wife would be submissive toward me when I don't appear to be that do…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 02:51 AM
1

I've experienced the rage anger. The vision turns red, I have great physical power, can't really think straight, what little thinking I have is more instinctual than rational. Then I have the cold, malevolent anger. This anger powers me, enhances me, allows me retain my faculties, and physical prowess is boosted (stronger, faster, numb to pain). My nice person social safeguards are removed. My wife and a few friends have seen me go into the second before. My wife did not like it because in her w…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 11:16 PM
4

You are correct, except when it's a rape claim. Then we are all supposed to believe the accuser and the accused must prove their innocence. I might have to check my SJW handbook to make sure though... /s
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 11:01 PM
-3

Incorrect. Pussy is not the goal. It's one of many rewards for being a valuable, successful man. Pussy is not the prize. The prize is being valuable enough that you get to choose the pussy if you are so inclined. Life is much better as a high value man.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 10:57 PM
1

It's more that RP doesn't care about marriage. The theory is more or less neutral regarding marriage. Several of the people here are strongly against marriage in its current form as it gives too much power and latitude to the woman while taking away nearly all the power from the guy. Oh and it (typically) makes the guy responsible for the costs. Given that TRP is about self-improvement and enjoying the rewards that come with being excellent, it's not a leap to extend that toward actions that hav…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:41 AM
1

I came up with NEWITS (Not Every Woman Is The Same)... mostly from seeing that the same situation can have drastically different results from the women it affects. One such minor example is a declaration of favorite color. Women are people too and while they share many traits, how they evidence those traits varies from woman to woman.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:29 AM
3

Maslov's Hierarchy of Needs... We inherently desire the peak of that scale. So as we achieve each level of need, we want the next one. Too damn many people want the shortcut instead of the journey there.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 11:41 AM
1

I'm all for equal under the law, equal in standing (as a person) in society. Those are basic civil liberties and such there. Equal in capability? Capacity? Merit? Outcome? Pay? It's impossible to equalize those as they are individual traits governed by education, skills, interests, aptitudes, and choices. You cannot equalize them. There's a story from a long time ago I read that talked to everyone being equal. It was written by Kurt Vonnegut. The story title is Harrison Bergeron. I suggest peopl…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 02:10 AM
7

Up and down the East Coast in the US, I keep seeing billboards advertising for Divorce for Males. All male law firms advertising for male clients who want a divorce. Some of the firms have a decent track record for their clients with regards to minimizing / escaping divorce rape. Hell, my wife even stated "About time. Too many women are taking advantage of the situation."
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 07:55 PM
3

Yep. Whatever I do in life, at the very least, it must pass the mirror test... What is that? It's me being able to look at the asshole in the mirror and not wilt under his gaze. The bastard knows every secret, thought,and desire. There is no hiding the truth from him.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 07:48 PM
58

You never stop wrapping it if you have live ammunition... duh... Also, is your plate only having sex with you? If you aren't exclusive, she could have been pregnant with someone else's kid. Hell, even if you are exclusive, it doesn't mean she is. There are a bunch of ways strangers could screw up your life. Many of them are completely under your control too.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 07:45 PM
3

No, never got stuck with that. I did have a stint at home as the stay-at-home Dad while she went on deployment. I liked it. The job of raising kids is tough but it was worth it hearing my kids thank me for being there for them. Even now, in their mid-late teens, they respect me, like to be seen with me, and help me whenever I need them to. I don't recommend married military life. It's hard, harder than just being married by a long shot. We've done well though, 21 years together in July.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 06:54 PM
3

The major advantage I saw in getting married was that we both were active duty Navy. To get stationed together either relied on luck or we had to be married to request collocation orders. Beyond that, tax advantages. Otherwise, there really isn't much to advocate for a guy to get married. Only get married if it supports your plans and goals. Each guy will have the evaluate his situation and act accordingly. There are a lot of advantages to staying single nowadays...
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 04:38 PM
12

Like you, married. I get... Morning sex, my clothes laid out, breakfast made to order, and if I leave something at the house that I need, she'll bring it up to my office. Life is definitely good if you run your shit right, especially if you are living up to your obligations as the guy in the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:04 AM
8

I was more than willing to spin that plate up longer term but she was itching for a fast-track Marriage. Not what I was looking for (I'm married already). I spun her down gently and moved on. Plus once I found out where she worked, I didn't really want her to know anyone I knew from there. It's a large school district but still. I prefer to keep my social circles from crossing. So I had my fun and cut her loose. A couple months later, she told me she was getting married and did so in Dec 2015. B…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 03:59 AM
22

LOL, there is that. Most of the time, the tingles will override any rational thought they may have.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 08:26 PM
95

The moral of this story is that women will do damn near anything for Chad. My previous plate was having public sex with me, during the daytime. The kicker? She works as a child psychologist for one of the public school systems in my area and is fairly well known locally. Think about that for a moment... Be Chad Thundercock. Don't be like Bob Betabux.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 08:22 PM
1

Honestly, they aren't much different than a shit test. Call their bluff, agree & amplify (take to drastically silly proportions), sarcasm, etc. I've also used the raised eyebrow with "Do you really expect me to take THAT seriously?" As with most things kid related, you have to adjust what you do to match up with the kid in question. Don't be afraid to be stem and punish when required. Likewise, don't skip on the praise for a job well done or new accomplishments. Kids like to know they did good.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 06:18 PM
1

Not every child responds the same way to spanking. Some will be responsive while others will become hellions. As a parent (four daughters), I had to learn to tailor punishments to fit not only the crime but also the temperament of the child in question. Blanket statements like yours don't do those of us with children any good.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 06:12 PM
1

TRP doesn't require that he stop being that nice, stable, successful, well-adjusted guy. It just requires that he own his shit, stand up for himself, and be a damn man.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 02:18 PM
1

Eh, I play video games by myself, with my kids, with my whole family. It's not just an anti-social avenue. We also discuss things we see in media (pausing the shows as required). I still workout, go to my day job, etc. I have the rest of my day-to-day responsibilities to take care of. Wasting time doesn't get them done.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 01:59 PM
3

Gets even worse... they are gender normalizing all the position titles. Hospital Corpsman is becoming Hospital Corpsperson. No more Seamen, Airmen, & Firemen, they are becoming Seaperson, Airperson, and Fireperson. Can't have man titles because that's sexist, possibly triggering, and not inclusive. o.0
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 01:55 AM
4

LOL, so we are Chad in relation to the other subreddits? ROFL, I love it!
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 06:35 PM
6

He obviously did if he cleaned her up... If you are cleaning the genital area, your hands are all over the place moving things around to clean up. I know, I've changed enough diapers for my kids. It would be significantly more violating for a grown woman.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 04:12 AM
3

Believe it or not but my wife comments about the fact that I'm usually up to no good. It's apropos... Not to mention that good is often influenced by one's perspective and the situational context.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 04:14 AM
5

No moralizing tone. Someone else's relationship is not mine nor anyone else's concern. If the girl's boyfriend cannot keep her satisfied enough to avoid straying, how is that another dude's fault? I've had my fun with married women. Each time, they were missing something from their relationship and I was there to provide. Each time, they sought me out.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 10:48 PM
1

If you've ever had shingles, chicken pox, or any other related diseases, you have the herpes virus in you. There are a great many strains of herpes. A half way decent immune system will keep it in check, most of the time. It'll be nice if science can actually come up with an antiviral that can kill herpes.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 12:16 PM
5

Acknowledging this means owning some level of responsibility on the part of the ladies. Avoidance of responsibility is part of the hymnal for the modern woman according to feminists. Just as they will fight to the death to maintain any advantage they have while denying they actually have the advantage and demanding for more for equality. If you control the rules, you can set up the game however you want. IMO, because of those two things, it's become increasingly difficult to find quality women.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 09:17 PM
1

Being banned / blocked for speaking the truth doesn't faze me in the slightest. Thanks for mentioning the Telegraph. I'll have to check it out more often.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 09:11 PM
9

Just read the article. At points, it's almost like he's able to grasp a glimmer of understanding and then runs away. His hack job of the interview is deplorable. The full interview makes much more sense. I was thinking of saying something but comments are turned off on the article.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 05:45 PM
5

For me, it always comes across as a coppery smell. If I walk into a room with women in it and I smell copper, someone is on their cycle.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 11:28 AM
1

I'll keep that in mind but I've never really had any desire to go to the land of fruits and nuts. I'm not a fan of (effectively) surrendering my rights by going into another state.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 11:21 AM
56

She's not bad looking, but at the same time nothing to write home about. She's average. Obviously by the fact the guy wasn't that into her, she wasn't what he was looking for. Guys can have preferences too. Equality can be a bitch at times...
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 06:46 PM
8

Teaching men to not rape is a power play. It's not about reducing rape. It's about power and domination (not the sexual kind).
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 02:23 AM
1

Learn from your mistakes and move on. If she tags along, plate her and keep moving onward.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 02:15 AM
1

Item number 6... Should be "Kill Your Ego", not "Kill You're Ego" Otherwise, very succinct and solid list of guidelines. I like it!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 06:30 PM
4

I'm the bad example. I've been married for 20 years, 21 in July. Four kids, house, car payment. Yet I spin plates and my wife knows. I spin them when I want to and my time permits. For me, plate spinning got easier once I got into my 30s. I see no real difference now that I'm 41. Why did I get married? I meet a young lady who brought value to my life, I enjoyed being around, and could see myself with decades down the line. She wasn't vapid. She could hold a conversation. She was 21, I was 20, wh…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 12:57 PM
2

Oh I agree with you. If you cannot test drive the car, why would you buy it more or less sight unseen? I'm just noting that it's great at keeping Billy Beta snagged in orbit for a long time. Snared in orbit != happy Billy Beta either. Last year I had a plate (45 yo, looked early 30s). She wanted to give me sex on the first date / meetup. All we did was chat over ice cream. 2nd date, she was visibly upset because she still couldn't give me sex (children logistics). Like any good RP guy, I just ag…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 12:20 PM
1

It's not so much that it's bad advice for snaring Chad but that it IS good advice that keeps Billy Beta around in his orbit. Not to mention it gives the woman the appearance of higher value (her stock value is inflated artificially).
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 04:17 PM
7

Hardly new but women do tell the truth. I hold to the idea that people will act in their own self-interest. As such, women will tell the truth when it suits them to do so or when it's advantageous. The women who choose to tell the truth are hurt by those who choose to tell lies. The same is true for men.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 01:49 AM
19

It certainly makes it much harder for the women who are telling the truth. That's the shitty part. Team Woman is sabotaging itself with bullshit claims.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 11:14 PM
2

I'm not entirely certain how he managed that. I know he made several demands and got them all. Hell, he even got custody of a kid that was his ex's from a previous marriage. I do know that a significant part of it was she abandoned him and their kids.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 11:11 PM
3

This post by the OP is filled with moralizing draped in "maintain your honor for her and yourself". Not to mention it doesn't look at the broad spectrum of relationships that do exist. Not all of them revolve around monogamy, which is the relationship type that often highly benefits the woman. The only part that is useful is the lessons learned section.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 03:27 AM
1

A friend of mine had his divorce done in Florida. The lawyer he had made sure he got a sweetheart deal. Full custody of the kids, no alimony, no child support (to or from).
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 03:06 AM
2

Based on her past behavior, she'd worry more despite my assurances that we would be fine. If it was low enough that I was not comfortable, I'd have been applying to lower paying positions just to have income to meet essentials. I also believe she'd have started looking for some sort of work as well. As it stands now, she's about to retire from the Navy. She still wants to do something work related for 10-15 hours per week.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 04:54 PM
3

All relationships should add value to all parties of the relationship. If it does, it's almost always something "easy and natural". If it doesn't add value to all parties involved, it's going to die at some point. The breakup will be good or bad, depending on how the relationship went. This is true whether it's business or personal.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 07:11 PM
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I was laid off for six weeks. Now I had been married for 18 years at that point. Financially, we were okay. We just couldn't be stupid with money. She was concerned. Almost to the point of panic. She wanted to know why I wasn't. I told her that my skill set won't stay unemployed for long and that when the time was right, an appropriate position would fall into my lap. Six weeks of unemployment I maintained frame. She followed my lead. I talked with a friend and he arranged for me to get an inter…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 06:59 PM
4

INTJ here. I had the opportunity to work with an ENTJ. She had an amazing grasp of IT. Her knowledge filled in the blanks of what I did not have. We made an amazing team. I enjoyed working with her. I have to wonder if some of the details of the personality types vary based on gender.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 01:21 AM
1

Then the women need to stop wanting so much in the way of successful men... /sarcasm
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 11:52 PM
1

If you are going to go down the friends route, it had to be beneficial to both parties, otherwise someone is an orbiter. That's usually the guy when the other person is a woman. I've got female friends I can rely on for various things. They fulfill a niche in my life. I have plates and they fulfill their specific need as well.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 02:11 PM
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I do this and embarrass my daughters by fondling the lingerie and mannequins. My wife thinks it's hysterical while my children blush & facepalm. The lesson here is this... If you must do something that could impact how you are perceived, own it and make it yours. It's the same thing as blowing through shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 10:43 AM
2

Ultimately it comes down to denial of special privileges. If women are accountable for their actions, then they don't get the pussy pass. It was never really about equality. It was always about privilege & power.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 04:57 PM
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Yep, holding to the idea that women are people too, that they are accountable for their actions, and that women have agency is all bad people thinking. That sort of thinking apparently makes us all misogynistic shitlords.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 03:30 PM
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Female equivalent: You can continue to date others at the same time while deciding whether or not to marry her. In effect, if you have to wait for marriage to have sex, she needs to wait until marriage to get your commitment. If that's a deal breaker for her, you know where she has you pegged.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 12:47 PM
5

For some reason this post reeks of beta fan fiction...
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:34 AM
6

That's the same sort of scorched earth tactics I used with my MIL the very first night I was married. TLDR version: she told me I may as well have married her as well, not just her daughter; that I will never come between them. I told her the marriage certificate said otherwise. I also told her that if such a decision ever came to pass, I would choose and my wife would have her mother as I would leave. Why? Because forever after, every time my wife saw her mother, she'd see the person responsibl…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 04:28 AM
1

It's the incremental nature of a slippery slope argument. Start your 'debate' on something innocuous or at least an accepted fact (without its supporting context). Then each statement builds on the previous one until you reach the finale. The finale being something so absurd and outlandish that it's completely unreasonable on its own merits. But because it was reached for step by step, it's perfectly valid and should be acted upon immediately. It's also known as the frog and the boiling pot of w…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 04:07 AM
3

Add a requirement the consent be given via PKI digital signature and the two devices being used must be separated by at least 1000 feet. PKI provides non-repudiation (two factor authentication) and the physical distance separation provides lack of coercion.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 03:59 AM
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Admittedly, if I did something like that to a plate that was lying to me, I might just bring another plate with me for the laughs. But I also like to see people squirm from time to time, especially if they've wronged me but won't admit it. But they really have to wrong me to generate that level of give-a-damn. Simply walking away has a profound statement all of its own as well.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 03:47 AM
2

I actually gave her two tips. The first one was about mid-stay and she had been steadily increasing her quality of service up to that point. I made a single special request the day before I needed it and it was taken care of. She even left me a hand-written note. I saw her that afternoon and gave her my thanks in person and a nice tip. She made sure thereafter that I was always taken care of. Gave her another good tip & good review with her manager when I checked out. I worked in customer servic…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 09:51 PM
1

All of this, especially the parts covering customer service. I recently stayed at a place up in New Hampshire. The housekeeper for my room did such an amazing job of exceeding every expectation, that I left her a nice tip and glowing review in the survey email I got after the trip. Like you, I saw that it was read and individually responded to as well. I've followed (and still do) many of the above pieces of advice in the past and boy do they work...
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 08:02 PM
1

You can get them at pretty much any adult novelty / toy store.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 06:39 PM
9

And a significant number of women nowadays are okay with a harem arrangement for the same reason. They are more willing to share a powerful man than have their own weak one. But as that points out things behind the curtains (you must never pay attention to the man behind the curtains /s), it's not appropriate to say it. Which is precisely why we talk about it here. The man behind the curtain is intentionally trying to keep everyone blind to what is going on.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 02:26 PM
10

I got told the same thing by the lady who cuts my hair. She won't date a guy unless he's at least 6" taller than her and she stands 5'1". She also said that she prefers 6' and up. The thing that caught me was her comment that she doesn't understand why height is so important to her either.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 06:27 PM
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Based on those requirements, my wife actually makes muster. Of course, that's a large part of why I married her almost 21 years ago. She's been very good for / to me. I'm glad to have her in my life. There is definite truth in getting someone early. She was 21, I was 20.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 02:30 PM
4

I've been a stay-at-home Dad. It is an incredibly difficult job. It's definitely not for the faint of heart. I didn't get any respect for ask my effort until I went back to work. That's when my wife found out the hard way that I was actually doing a tremendous amount of work that she never saw. She realized her fuck up and apologized. But yeah, that video you mentioned, that's utter bullshit. Each couple needs to figure out for themselves what is the best work distribution for THEIR relationship…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 10:30 PM
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That actually answers the question of where have all the good men gone. They check out from trying because they got shut down. In other words, women are too often trying to date the wrong way. AKA: trying to fish with the wrong bait.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 09:54 PM
1

I follow the rule that if you have to say it, you aren't. The strong, independent woman statement doesn't do anything for me. If anything, it makes me hesitant to contact them. I have no desire to deal with that drama. Such a person isn't a good fit for my life.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 01:28 AM
1

The rare occasion I get something like that from my wife, I tell her straight up "Now isn't a good time. I'm busy." as I'm typically at work when this sort of message comes up (they rarely do anymore for me). Other good defusers are... k I'll be home at TIME_HERE, we can talk then ignore the message outright It normally works out well.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 01:09 AM
2

Some women simply enjoy giving head. I've been with women who enjoyed giving them, women who would give them when requested, and women who would grudgingly give them. Each woman is different.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 07:48 AM
1

Early 30's isn't old per se. As for whether or not to hit it, that is entirely up to you. If you have the itch and have a means to scratch it, go for it, if you feel like it. If not, thank her for the offer and politely decline. If it were me, I'd decline because I have a rule about not shitting where I eat.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 04:47 AM
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I agree, we need to focus on "is". That doesn't mean we ignore the "should" that needs to be in place. We should always strive for better, in ourselves and in our society.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 01:28 AM
2

While I agree in large part with you, we are in a society that is ostensibly based on the rule of law. Laws should be in place to protect everyone from wrongful actions.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 11:13 PM
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Amused mastery, abundance mentality, lack of mate guarding, outcome independence. Good FR, a tad wordy but hey, we each have our writing styles. The only point I disagree with is being the highest SMV in the room. You just need to be the highest SMV that she has available to her. Yes, this sometimes means you are the highest in the room but not always.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 03:20 PM
3

It generally runs like so.... New -> Standard -> Common -> New Things start off new, then become the standard. After a time, the standard becomes common. This is boring. Therefore something new must be found. It powers the statement of "She was never yours. It was just your turn." The only thing to remember is some turns are longer than others.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 08:07 AM
1

I was present and in-room for the births of two of my children. The other two had emergent issues so H had to stay outside the OR. I was able to watch from the door however. Yeah, I've seen some things. Hell, in one case, I had to choose who was more important (my wife or my 3 months early daughter). historically, it has always depended on the local culture and customs. Hell, I remember cartoons that always showed the Dad waiting outside / in the waiting room for delivery to complete. That's how…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 07:32 AM
1

I'm not going to argue against women staying in better shape later in life. Exercise has been proven to help mitigate the effects of aging. There are some good looking women in their 30's & 40's who look like they are 10-15 years younger than reality. That's not a bad thing. Aging well is one of the signs of good genes.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 04:53 PM
1

It's part of game. You show them a "vulnerability" (that really isn't much of one, they don't need to know that detail however) and then demonstrate how good you are NOW. In my experience, it works rather well. It's similar to the idea that you agree and amplify some bullshit statement they make (EG: the woman says something about you being a serial killer and you say yes but I already ate a bowl of cereal so you're safe).
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 04:13 PM
4

Having signed on the dotted line many years ago because I believe in the dream of this country, I cannot stand by and let it burn. I would sign that line again if asked. Am I okay with stupid being painful and idiocy being just rewarded? Absolutely, some people simply cannot be saved. But at the same time, I cannot just let the house burn. It's not who I am.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 08:01 PM
0

The environment shaped humanity into its current form. The environment is comprised of the natural world and the world of effects that humanity imposes on the natural world.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 07:57 PM
1

There are very few times where talking with the police will help. Most usually revolve around a traffic stop for speeding. I had one such stop. I opened up to speeding (I was). The officer let me of with a warning and guidance where the speed limit sign I missed was at. Anything more serious than a few miles over, you generally don't want to talk.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:15 AM
0

If you spin it right, you can demonstrate your weak past and current success and still win very well. Women do like the ugly duckling tale. Show yourself as being like fine wine works too.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 02:15 AM
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Yes. Rape as I was taught years ago is sexual intercourse or activities performed without consent of all participants. If you tell her to stop the BJ and she keeps going / trying, it's rape. Good luck in getting the legal system to do something about it.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 11:25 PM
0

Yep, you should never smell rotting fish at the supermarket. Either they have an issue with the food (which means you shouldn't buy there) or someone has a hygiene issue (which means you shouldn't stick it there). Either way, you should abort operations and vacate immediately.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 11:18 PM
1

There is such a thing as situational alpha. No one can be alpha all the time. It's a sliding scale that adjusts based on context and behavior. I'm reasonably alpha at home. My wife does what I need. My kids are well behaved. Yet at the office, I'm not THE alpha there. My project engineer is. Yes, he has alphas working for him but we are subordinate to him. Yet by his own admission, his wife runs their household and has him doing his own thing, contributing when he can. I suspect that many of the…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 05:41 PM
1

Years ago, when I was dating my now wife, we were having issues and I mentioned them to a female friend of mine. Her response? She asked me one question: "What do you want?" I said I wanted my wife. My friend then said "You know what you want. You know where you are at. Connect the dots." In retrospect, she gave me very red pill advice. I had to own my shit. I did just that and got the girl I wanted. Interestingly, she didn't tell me how to do the things, just made me recognize them so I could f…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 12:59 PM
1

If someone tells me they are leaving, then depending on the way they are leaving, they will get either... 1. Bye! 2. Don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out. I'd hate for the door to be hurt. I've only used the second one when the woman throws a temper tantrum and refuses to behave in a socially acceptable manner. Those women aren't worth my time. The first one though almost always makes them stay. For the same reasons as cited by the OP, I must have options / DGAF.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 03:41 AM
1

I hear this one but in the frame of "I didn't want to wake you up. You need your sleep." In spite of the fact that she knows I would love to be woke up to a blowjob or sex. She says I look too sweet, innocent, and angelic when I'm sleeping; that waking me up would be wrong. Then again, I rarely initiate if I know she's dead asleep so I don't have much room to talk.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 04:44 PM
1

Some people are just a bit bashful about masturbating, like it's a dirty secret or something. I'd suggest going with that /u/detachedbymarriage said. Help her out with her middle-of-the-night escapades. I've done that with my wife. LOL, talk about a surprise for her. The outcome was fun.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 04:41 PM
3

What I've done in the past... G: <slaps me> M: What was that for? <said louder/deeper than usual with stern look on my face> (this gets attention of people around me, usually friends) G: (insert bullshit reason here) M: You are aware that I have a "If you are man enough to hit me, you are man enough to be hit policy, right?" G: (some hamster reason why she's not going to do it) Those women typically never hit me again. They also don't like talking to me because their actions made them take a soc…
/r/askTRP06/02/16 03:56 PM
2

It's never a bad thing to be polite and courteous to another human being. At work, don't go beyond that unless doing so benefits your plans and goals somehow. Let her make all these comments and such to you. When they roll right off your back without any effect, it'll drive her nuts or she'll decide you are boring (no validation) and leave you be. Either way, it'll make things better for you.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 03:49 PM
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I understand that and agree wholeheartedly. But if you have an organization where advancement through said organization is run through a meritocratic system, the system MUST be fair to all participants. Otherwise qualified people will reject the system and the organization. Think of it another way. Would you play a game if it were setup in such a way that your livelihood is dependent upon you advancing, only one slot is open for advancement per time increment, and if you don't advance in a small…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 07:53 AM
1

I was just discussing this with my wife a few minutes ago. We both agree that with some of the more recent news to come out of the SEAL community (they aren't lowering standards, women are welcome to try to compete with the big dogs for the 20% success rate). Should a woman legitimately make it through and get to a SEAL Team, she's going to be a scary person. You know what? I want scary people in our special forces. They need to be the boogeyman in our opponents' nightmares. I'm good with that. …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 04:38 AM
3

I'm about to turn 41. It's not that hard to pull attractive 20-somethings. Hell, I've got a plate who was 21 when I met her 3 years ago. 17 years between us and she doesn't care. I'm happy, the plate is satisfied and contacts me for more. It honestly depends more on what you demonstrate as value and attractiveness. Yes, money is nice but good looks, well-kept appearance, attitude, and demeanor all play into it as well. My grandfather in his 60s could have any woman laughing and flirting with him…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 03:58 AM
1

I am aware of what a species is. The species that humans belong to is called Homo Sapiens. There is also a thing called subspecies too. These are distinct groups within the species but are still able to reproduce with the larger species set. There are also families, order, genus, and kingdoms too. Now if you re-read my previous post, not once did I say that different ethnicities were different species. I only made a comment on the fact that am example of a given species can be significantly more…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:27 PM
2

I've slept with married women and women with boyfriends/fiances. Hell, in one case, I met the husband and he wished me a good evening with his wife as he left to go play cards. The last time I checked, they were perfectly able to say no. The fact they came back again and again says I was doing something they liked. More importantly, their relationships are their issue, not mine. I maintain mine and keep mine happy & satisfied. I don't expect you or anyone else to take care of my shit for me. Why…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:15 AM
1

I used to think tattoos, strange piercings, weird hair, etc was all signs of instability. Well, until I met a girl years ago that blew that opinion out of the water. Very pale complexion. Long hair to the middle of her back. Dyed purple. She had a nose piercing and a few ear piercings. She, when dressed up, would run a gold chain from the nose piercing up through her ear piercings. Scarily enough, she was actually far more attractive when dolled up like that instead of everyday normal attire. Be…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:09 AM
1

Sometimes you just have to take someone out behind the shed and apply some attitude adjustment.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 03:51 AM
1

While I don't agree with his line about biology either, there are often outliers in biology that are far more advanced than a typical specimen of their species. Then again, I've seen white americans who look AND behave as though their grandparents were neanderthals... I served with one such individual in the Navy.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 03:50 AM
1

The right amount of sarcastic, cocky attitude can make this work. It also requires the right context to work well too. I've done it but it's always left me feeling a bit sketchy on whether I did things right. It's definitely not for the faint of heart to do unless they are certain.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 03:28 AM
4

LOL, it works... Not sure how, but damn, it works and well. Been doing this a long time, especially if I'm in the kitchen.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 03:25 AM
14

Personally I would love to see a Bernie/Trump ticket... If for no other reason than to watch the political establishment have a collective meltdown.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 03:14 AM
16

In other words, the SJW crowd got played and they don't even realize it...
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 03:06 AM
1

Lady took a car and drove onto the sidewalk to run people over. Lots of news links on it. Do a google search for the following terms: car driven on sidewalk nevada
/r/askTRP04/02/16 01:58 AM
1

It's referred to as crabs in a bucket mentality. You are experiencing it. You are changing for the better. This bothers people because they now have to re-evaluate things, including themselves. Change scares people, especially when said change might lower their own valuation of themselves. Thus they work to keep people from changing so they don't have to change. Like others have suggested, I would make another change and look at other employment opportunities. The only people who may look out fo…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 01:55 AM
1

Straight up, out of the main sub, it's been clearly stated that the red pill is an amoral guide. It has no moral compass to speak of. The only morality involved is what the practitioner employs on his/her activities. This is a large part of why there are rules against moralizing. Some examples of moral/immoral/amoral: driving a vehicle - amoral activity, neither good nor bad, just doing. driving a vehicle to the hospital with a hurt passenger - moral, helping people is a good thing driving a veh…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 01:38 AM
2

Not to mention that if you next her, she may come calling due to the implied dread of not talking with her. Plate worthy maybe. Otherwise, she appears to not be that interested and therefore, it's time to next.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 01:27 AM
2

Minor nitpick but it's amoral, not immoral. Amoral - to act without any regard toward morality. Actions are neither good nor bad. Immoral - to act in a manner that is against the community moral norms. Typically indecent acts/actions.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 01:24 AM
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One thing I would consider doing is the following... Ask her if the both of you can go to the pool party so you both can enjoy the eye candy. Any answer other than an enthusiastic yes or her saying she'd rather do something with you instead, I'd strongly consider pressing the next button on.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:50 PM
2

Anything you do that improves your status, self, or value is sexual strategy whether or not such things were your goal in the first place. Plain and simple, the valuable you are, the more sexually attractive you become.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 05:29 AM
1

Absolutely! But honestly, how many true IT professionals do you see? I'm talking the kind of people who leave a lasting positive impact on a place, even after they left. It's hard to find people of that quality. Too many go into IT because "duurrr, it's computers. I iz good at 'puters". But yeah, many of the women I see going into IT are in the HB4-6 range. Not many above or below in my experience. I've seen more than a few HB6-7s crash and burn because they thought their good looks would give t…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 08:01 PM
2

The ones who truly want to be there are great to work with. That's the group the ones I had a great time working with were in. One was a HB5, the other was HB7. The 7 thought I was trying to get into her pants until she saw how I behave around others and realized I'm just a genuinely courteous person. Both were very down to earth, sensible people. The kind of reasonable person behavior that almost anyone would get along with. The HB7 had issues with some of the guys though. They were constantly …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 07:56 PM
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The few women who truly want to work in STEM because they enjoy the work make a noticeable difference compared to their peers. I've had the pleasure of working with some really talented women in IT. I've also had the "opportunity" to work with way too many women who could barely press the power button on a computer. The really talented women were great to work with. They made a point to know their shit. I became friends with one and she explained to me that for her get fair treatment alongside m…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 05:17 AM
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The women will let themselves go insofar as their guy will tolerate it. If the guy sticks to his guns, she'll follow suit. If he caves, so will she. Typical leader-follower dynamic in action.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 05:09 AM
1

The only two things of good I see in your story are as follows: You learned a VERY valuable lesson and didn't get tossed in jail in the process. You did your dad a solid. There is no wrong in doing another person you care about a solid. I hope he capitalizes on it. As for you, take what you learned, live well, fuck that. Live great to where step-sister has to beg you. Then tell her "Sorry sis! I don't owe you anything. Have a good one!" I learned much the same though with a hell of a lot less vi…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 05:05 AM
1

I would add to that simply be polite and courteous. you don't have to say much to do that and it costs you next to nothing. Plus if you are polite & courteous but say little, it adds mystery because no one knows much about you. Not to mention it is a hell of a lot more difficult to get in trouble if the worst thing that can be said is you are polite and courteous.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 04:05 AM
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When contextually appropriate, yes you should go to her but only for matters where she is an expert / knowledgeable person. But on the same token, would you ask her for plumbing advice if she's not a plumber? I had a college professor who is an absolute super star when it comes to anything English Comp / APA format. She (yes, she) is a bona fide expert. If she can't find it, it almost certainly doesn't exist in APA. I went to her regularly for proofing my papers & advice/guidance on composition …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 04:03 AM
1

Wow, that's a pretty good summary of what I would tell myself at the same age... except I'd add to talk with my grandfather more. I spent too much time as a kid not listening to him and taking his advice.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 03:57 AM
2

All the bennies with none of the drawbacks...
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:27 PM
1

It's called 'no-scalpel vasectomy'. I put up a post a few weeks back about having mine done 8 years ago. Start to finish was about 20 minutes. The biggest pain was the initial numbing (aimed for a nerve along the penis between the penis and the ball sac. Felt like I was licking a 9 volt battery for a short while, then nothing. After that, all I felt was some tugging. Seriously, avoid the scalpel version. More problems can occur with that one than the NSV version.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:11 PM
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Not likely. Too many people nowadays fail to look more than a few seconds ahead. Those of us who look weeks/months/years are able to see the writing on the wall. That level of self-awareness is a learned trait.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 04:46 PM
7

Anytime I was ever given the 'You need to leave these people alone' spiel, I always made a point to ask the people if I was bothering them or if they needed me to leave them be. Of course, I added sarcasm and exaggerated facial expressions / tone of voice. Not once was I told to leave by the people I was talking with. They typically would defend me against the 'PC Police'.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 05:37 AM
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Nah, they'd charge him with harassment. We are 'supposed' to know our places after all... /s
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 06:17 PM
6

Bear in mind that nearly all mass shootings (and all school shootings) are in so-called "gun-free" zones. These are places where people are prohibited from carrying / possessing firearms. So the people in those places were sitting ducks (soft, easy targets). Yet when rampage shooters run into armed resistance, they typically kill themselves in short order instead continuing on to kill others.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 06:16 PM
0

The above advice is the way to go. I've been in that situation before and while it blew up in my face, it clarified where I stood in people's perceptions. It resulted in two people being cut out of my life entirely. You may even want to throw in that you feel as though you are being taken advantage of / your goodwill is being abused by your ex-group member's / ex-friend's actions. Be careful with this last part though. Girl abusing guy is smiled upon in some circles.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 02:23 AM
4

I do much the same. I'll ask if they need me to give them something to cry about. Interestingly, they always decline and the water works ends instantly. Makes it hard for me to trust tears from a woman.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:11 PM
7

Not really. They are going to be on the internet and seeing tv regardless. Imo, use tv and internet as teaching tools. The best impact I've had on them was being a stay at home dad for a few years. It allowed me to directly instill my values and viewpoints. It's why my 3rd daughter is onboard. She's watched my life and how I've made it successful. She wants that same success. To that end, she sees things as a guy typically does and as a woman does. She is different from her sisters. My older two…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:08 PM
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It's a chore. I've got four daughters. The older two (19 & 18) have fought me tooth and nail about responsibility for their actions for the last ten years. Daughter 3 is reasonably responsive at 14 years old (amazingly enough). I suspect that's because she's the most like me of the four kids, especially in personality. My youngest (8) fights me hard as well though she at least recognizes where she is supposed to be responsible but chooses to ignore it often enough. What I found that works best f…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:42 AM
2

No, it's not too much to ask, if that's one of your requirements for LTR. But you are exactly right on my point. Each one of us has our different requirements and criteria for a woman to qualify as LTR. What works for me may or may not work for you. As each woman is different, so are each of us guys in our likes, dislikes, and preferences.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:00 AM
1

That is a very good point. It goes right back to why you have to vet your LTRs very carefully. But also as I've said in other comments, no two people are the same. As a result, what works for one guy for qualifying for an LTR may not work for some other guy. If you stop and think about it, just as Alpha and Beta are shades on a gradient, LTR and non-LTR are as well. As such, each one of us put that marker on different parts of that line. To one side of that marker, they don't get to be LTR. If t…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:00 AM
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Each person had their own criteria for what makes a good LTR. My requirements for one may not ever come close for what you want. Or they might exceed your requirements. Also, not every woman is the same. Some women are simply better than other women. They may be able to have a higher partner count and still be a great candidate for LTR. Partner count is but one metric to measure on. There are many other metrics that need attention beyond partner count. Ultimately, you will need to decide what yo…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 08:12 PM
5

Ah yes, because THIS time, she'll do it the right way to make sure he earns it... Because she was giving it away for free before.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 04:22 PM
2

That's what happens when you apply a decent amount of dread and she's not prepared for it. What you do with it from here is really up to you. You could have her any way you want (she'll want to try and 'keep' you), you could pump and dump her yourself, you could keep her and stay willing to walk, or you could keep her. The right choice is up to you. We cannot make it for you but we can give you advice on a given path. My advice? I would not have her as a GF because she's demonstrated insufficien…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 02:24 AM
1

Yep. Every one of the "don't do this" rules is supposed to be broken when doing so makes your value rise in accordance to your plans, needs, and desires. If buying her a drink seals the deal for me, then damn it, I'm buying a drink for her. If not buying her a drink works in my favor, then I'm not buying her a drink. These aren't hard and fast rules. They are suggested guidelines with known exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 04:00 PM
2

If it makes you feel any better, I have four daughters... For the past two years, the older three have all been teens. Nothing runs a person through a grinder quite like three teenage daughters. Thankfully my wife & I are on the same page and team. It's made dealing with the emotional outbursts easier and a fairly rare occurrence.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 09:28 PM
2

Got mine 8 years ago after the birth of my fourth daughter (no sons unfortunately). It was a no scalpel vasectomy. Got a local anesthesia right where the penis and ball sac meet. Almost painless needle stick until he placed it just right. Felt like I had stuck my tongue on a 9 volt battery. About five seconds later, totally numb. The needle used for the procedure was maybe 1/8" in diameter. Through there, he used a hook to pull out the vas deferens. I had mine tied, cauterized, and snipped becau…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 04:26 PM
3

The response I would use... For those close to me: "I enjoy my life as it is so far. I haven't met someone worth changing it for. Before you ask, I don't need any help meeting anyone." For everyone else: "I enjoy my life as it is. I see no reason to change it." If people get pissy about it... "I live my life how I want. Stop trying to control it."
/r/askTRP18/01/16 06:47 AM
3

What they said . While you may have some infinitesimal chance of sleeping with her in the future, it almost certainly won't happen until after she's taken many rides on the CC. Don't sweat it. Happens to every guy at least once. When that last happened to me, my response was "Well, that's too bad." and I stopped talking with her. Now she wonders why I don't say anything to her. She hasn't asked yet but I've heard through the grapevine that she is curious. Won't matter though, I've already nexted…
/r/askTRP18/01/16 06:09 AM
2

True but sometimes for one's own peace of mind, one has to finish the walk across the coals. I've done similar things. I've followed things through the to end instead of bailing out because I needed to understand the context so I could get the whole lesson. I'm not going to skip the last 5 chapters of a novel just because I know how it ends despite not knowing the details. Sometimes you have to treat life the same way. If doing so makes him a better man, then he should follow through.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 06:54 AM
1

And if you are one of those guys who doesn't give a rat's ass about females being on the team, everything goes smoothly (for the most part) or all hell breaks loose (because you aren't chasing after her, you shitlord). I had the opportunity to work with a lady my manager said was the female version of me. I didn't believe him. After working with her for a couple of months, she proved she was a valuable, hard working asset to the team and carried her own weight. We became great colleagues and hav…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 06:48 AM
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Hence the "issue" being reported by women of 'Where are all the good men?" It's obvious to anyone who cares to look. The 'good men' have all said fuck it and checked out of the dating/marriage scene. For good reason too. It's hard to find a quality woman nowadays to stick with long-term / in marriage.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 06:35 AM
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It's why my wife & I immediately call out bad behavior from our daughters. We do not let them get away without learning a lesson about their behavior. Given that some of the family hobbies involve activities that require honor, courtesy, and grace (historically correct medieval re-enactment), it's easier to get them to choose to behave better.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:17 AM
2

Ultimatums work so long as you follow through on them if they are set off. Tell her not to go to that party with her three exes out else she will be moving out and she goes anyways? She gets kicked out. Then follow it up with a great party the next weekend.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 06:18 AM
2

Thank you for this information. I'll definitely look into this and see what she thinks about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 02:48 AM
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I fully plan on getting my wife some plastic surgery. She's given me four daughters and that took a huge toll on her. I want to undo some of that and get rid of a nasty scar she ended up with. Maybe a lift on her chest too, since kids made her go from A to D. Then again, my wife is worth it to me. She lives rather red herself and has demonstrated her value to me.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 09:38 PM
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You should have said "Sorry, it's policy to not date customers" and leave it at that. If you are a resident of a one party state (with regards to voice recording), have that running when you answer the "call me" request.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 07:34 PM
1

I think you might have misunderstood the quote... The facts that feminism is most likely 'adjusting' is that women have the same opportunities as men. That becoming mainstream would cause feminism to implode due to irrelevance. So if you look at the quote with 'feminism' playing the role of 'the very powerful', they've already adjusted the facts to fit their views and they have a vested interest in never letting any un-adjusted facts get airtime.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 04:05 AM
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A quote from Dr Who is relevant here... The very powerful and very stupid have one thing in common. They don't adjust don't adjust their views to fit the facts. Instead, they adjust the facts to fit their views, which can be uncomfortable if you are one of the facts in need of adjustment. One of the laws says something similar with think as you will, act like everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 04:24 PM
2

This is what I envision MGTOW as being. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 11:24 PM
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I disagree. If you are a man who is putting self and interests ahead of others, you are indeed going your own way. Whether or not you are having a woman or two in the sack every so often doesn't really matter. Your example is one of the archetypal alphas. MGTOW doesn't care if a woman is in his life or not. They are all about themselves first.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 11:16 PM
1

My plate is 17 years younger than me. How did I manage that? We got to talking and she never asked my age. I brought it up one time and her body language indicated that bringing it up was a no-no. I quickly moved the conversation elsewhere and she's not had an issue with it since. When there is a large age difference, they generally don't want to be reminded that you are (close in some cases) old enough to be their dad. Thinking you are similar to Dad and involving sex will kill attraction. Sex …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 10:58 PM
2

I've heard horror stories about virgin women getting psycho level attachment to the guy who they give it up to. It's part of the reason I'm okay with not having a virgin as a partner.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 03:01 PM
2

And she'd be a hell of a lot hotter if she worked on improving herself a bit. But she's a poster child for the typical American woman, somewhat over-weight, out-of-shape. I've seen before and after pictures of women who lost 15-30 pounds, got in shape. It's amazing how much more attractive women can be if they choose to improve themselves even a little.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 12:50 AM
1

You cannot negotiate attraction...
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 12:46 AM
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Any smart man will follow this unless he's covered all the bases on how it could blow up. That's no small feat. I've only ever seen it work once for someone. I've seen it fail countless times. I even turned down an enticing offer because I didn't want the workplace drama (HB7, athletic, hint of crazy, gossip monger).
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 12:45 AM
1

If your hobbies make you happy, then keep enjoying them. Keeping stress at bay in your life is good for your health. Being red isn't just pumping iron and approaching women. It's about being the better you. Having hobbies you enjoy is part of that, especially if they are shareable with others.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 05:04 AM
1

How I choose to spend my time when not at work is my business. I am an avid reader and have found that exercising my mind is incredibly useful, rewarding, and fun. Being red isn't just lifting iron.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 04:32 AM
1

To be fair, if you read any of the novels and any of the role playing game books, you'd see these sorts of things being used in the written content. Why? Simple. The written universe has much more detail. There are families of Force users that have different abilities and inclinations within the force. Skywalkers tend to be exceptionally powerful in the Force and will often manifest their powers untrained when under duress. I think you may be looking just a bit too hard for bad things. Then agai…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 05:47 AM
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Her: Are you horny again?!? Me: Again implies I stopped at some point In essence, you see the BS for what it is and let it amuse you rather than get angry about it. Generally best responded to with humor and some Agree & Amplify Her: All you want me for is sex! Me: Not true. I also like your cooking and cleaning. But those aren't important at the moment --or-- Me: Yep! So what crazy, freaky thing are we going to do tonight? It just needs to be equally over-the-top as her BS and it helps to make …
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:52 PM
2

Some people do not want to be saved. Remember the movie... Some cannot be unplugged and if attempts are made, they will fight it tooth and nail.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 07:19 PM
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This is directly contributed to by society failing to ensure that up and coming additions are ready to perform as a functioning member of society. Too many people nowadays fail to learn how to function without some big daddy govt there to help them. Because personal accountability is gone and participation deserves a trophy...
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 10:17 PM
4

I would avoid brandishing altogether. Depending on the jurisdiction, it can be a violation of law/statute. Here in VA, brandishing is a no-no (as it is in most places). Besides, you don't want fruit or veggie stuff on your firearm nor transfer gun oil/powder residue to things people eat.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 09:12 PM
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Open carry is not brandishing. Brandishing is presenting your weapon in a threatening manner, such as waving a gun around in your hand. It sitting in the holster isn't much of a threat to the public. It's at rest and contained.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 08:48 PM
2

I did have fun with her until she caught a case of the feels and wanted me to become her husband. I gently let her know that was not something I could offer and we broke it off. Last I heard from her, she found someone to marry. They are apparently planning on tying the knot next year.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 09:26 PM
2

The few Tinder dates I've been on have indicated the same. They were all about raw-dogging. Only went raw with one because she had a clean bill of health from her doctor (dated a few days prior to our date) and I'm snipped. She was concerned at first because she was unaware that I was snipped.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 07:21 PM
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The best revenge one can inflict on his enemies is to live well. Should you be lucky, karma will let you watch your enemy's meltdown. After experiencing this in the past, I made a pact with myself to live well and to always smile at my enemies. The world will sort itself out.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 07:48 PM
1

That's what "Agree and Amplify" is all about. I'm still amazed at how often people buy it. Doing it feels like a scam on my part, lol.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:21 PM
1

I apologize for doing things like that... Don't lynch me. I do it with a self-serving, shit eating grin. It's plainly obvious I'm not the slightest bit sorry and would do it again just because. Funny thing that... I never seem to get in trouble for it.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 10:37 PM
1

Should you change your mind, be sure to be safe. Make sure you use a condom you provide and that it's safely disposed so she cannot make use of it in any way. Frat charges in the military can be used to end careers.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 10:14 PM
2

For a more general answer, FramedInRed has it correct. For specifics... My wife was in the Navy and on deployments. She didn't want me to deal with not being able to have sex for extended periods of time because of her military obligations. From that, it turned into me having one or two plates on the side. She knows about them as I don't hide them from her. If she feels one is a problem, she can tell me and I'll fix it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 04:27 AM
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I've got a wife (42) and a plate (23). My wife knows. She's okay with it. She likes knowing that I'm desired by other women yet I still come home to her. Interestingly, my wife got a whole lot feminine once I started pursuing plates back in 2012.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:14 PM
2

It really depends on context of the circumstances but I do every now and then have to take the drama, out it in front of an audience for what it is (bullshit), kill it, then send it straight into the circular file. Some folks will call it nuking it from orbit or some similar extreme response. My level of investment and resulting actions depends on how the drama interacts with my plans and goals. Usually I ignore it with amused mastery or agree & amplify. Sometimes I have to get gasoline and matc…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 02:34 PM
1

By and large, it comes down to respecting yourself such that you do not become a doormat to anyone. If you can respect yourself, people will respect you. I know what kind of guy my wife wants. I see him every day when I look in the mirror. He's also pretty good at giving me crap when I don't live up to my expectations.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 11:59 PM
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Raised hand here... Every one of those items I have experienced first hand either from my wife or from my daughters. Though if you stand your ground, you can reinforce the idea of not using those tactics against you. I've taught my wife & daughters to not use the tears to garner sympathy route. I've watched how fast the eyes can go from the flooding Nile to the driest parts of the Sahara faster than a blink of an eye. Hell, I've flipped the script on the "Not worth the effort/fight" and used it …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 11:53 PM
2

Walking after saying 'No' might not have saved him anyways. She could have always decided to get some revenge by claiming rape/sexual assault. Voice recorders work great for giving you some escape room, especially if your jurisdiction allows for single party consent.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 10:59 PM
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It is a chargeable offense but the pussy pass all but negates it unless she's a real bitch and makes the police's job difficult.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 10:53 PM
4

Pretty much. Plates fall. I had an old plate tell me I belonged back in the friendzone. I told her to have a good day because I am not stupid enough nor so desperate as to exist in the friendzone. The last I heard (a couple months ago), she's had her awakening to wanting a 'real man' and get her shit straight. Care to guess her age, LOL? I'll give you a hint. It rhymes with 'Hitting the Wall' (29).
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:44 PM
2

Most likely, if the school can be proven to be in the wrong (in the legal system) or the tarnish to the school's image to great, they'll offer a sweet settlement to make the problem go away. It also neatly avoids setting a legal precedent. You can see such things in lawsuits about EULAs, contracts, etc. These are things an RP man would be wise to be knowledgeable about as it's an easy way to be sent up a creek without a paddle. We pride ourselves on being the best version of us. No sense is maki…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 09:49 PM
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Honestly? As with anything RP, own it like a boss. If these things bring you workplace satisfaction, then pursue them. It's a variation of Outcome Independence. You don't need other people to approve of your decisions. Live life for you and invite those who add value to your life along for the ride.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 06:47 AM
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The last time I checked, any law in violation of the Constitution (and the Amendments) is an unconstitutional law, therefore cannot be enforced. Title IX cannot abrogate your rights. It is patently illegal to do so. Which is why several guys are pursuing Title IX lawsuits against the schools which violated the law by enforcing Title IX against them. The Supreme Court has made it clear multiple times that negative speech, including that which makes people uncomfortable is protected speech. It jus…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 05:00 AM
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In this case, the student should look at what recourse he has the school as the school is violating its own policies of supporting free discourse and first amendment rights. Yes, the school swore to uphold those things in its contract with the students. It's supposed to be something to attract the students.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 12:56 AM
3

When are they going to make women register for selective service? I'll wait over here and get old while the question gets an answer in a few thousand years.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:37 AM
4

An old plate ended up friend zoning me. She actually told me I needed to crawl back into the friend zone, that she didn't want old men like me. If you guessed, yes, she is running head first into the wall. She even gave up a well-paid, successful BB too. I told her three things... I don't live in the friendzone I was disappointed to see her be that disrespectful to me And to have a good one She went off the deep end, threatened me with a lawyer, etc. I went radio silent. Two days later she apolo…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 05:58 AM
0

I don't subscribe to the idea that explaining your thought process to a woman is a bad thing. It CAN be a bad thing, if done at inappropriate times. I have a wife. When needed, I explain my thoughts to her. It's so she can see things from my perspective or at least have a better understanding of where I'm coming from. For a woman, she's exceptionally rational most of the time. I also understand that I'm doing things a bit different than most here by being married. I do know that women often do n…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 09:03 PM
1

When I got married (yeah yeah), my new mother-in-law made it clear, in no uncertain terms that I will not come between her and her daughter; that I more or less married her too. In a stellar moment for myself, I told her that should circumstances ever come to a point where my wife had to choose between her mother and me, I would choose for her and she would get her mother. The MIL smiled, but that is when I told her it would be a cold, pyrrhic victory because forever after, every time she looked…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 04:25 PM
0

I used to hold to the idea that if there is grass on the field, play ball. As I now have four daughters, I don't hold to that ideal anymore. I watch out for my daughters and give them good guidance. At least two of my daughters are looking to be turning out good. The eldest is looking to be a lost cause unfortunately. Hopefully she'll wise up quick.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 11:24 PM
2

I'm 40, look as though I'm in my late 20's / early 30's if I'm clean shaven. My wife is 42. My plate is 23. Have had her around since she was 21 (interestingly my wife was the same age when we met). It happens in the US, just not terribly often. Most of the women I've slept with in the last three years have been between 21 & 28 years old. You are spot on that American women are different and test drastically different than others from different places. There's definitely an overinflated sense of…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 08:23 PM
2

That page neatly describes a woman I know. I nearly got caught up in her schemes but she played her hand too early. I turned around and noped right out of that train wreck.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 03:30 PM
7

You put into words some of what I did to an old plate. She melted in my hands and damn near cried because circumstances prevented us from having sex until the third date. I'm still amazed at how easy this is.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 01:29 PM
1

I got one several years back. I was done having kids (I have four daughters). Best thing I ever did with regards to sex. If anything, my testosterone went up. Sex drive improved noticeably. If you are getting one, talk with your doctor about a 'no-scalpel vasectomy' or NSV. It's much better than the old way. According to my doctor who performed the procedure, there have been studies that show about 20% of guys who get a vasectomy have an increase in testosterone but the results were not conclusi…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 04:48 AM
1

That agenda works for me too. Have a wife and a plate. Best of all? The wife approves! It's a lot of work to maintain though.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 11:40 PM
13

Just a tad? I've read quite a few of those original stories. They were downright terrifying to a young kid. Hell, they can be uncomfortable as an adult. They are not for the faint of heart. One that sticks out for me was the story about the Hen that worked all year to make sure she had food. She succeeded and had food for winter. The rest of the barnyard animals did not. They went begging to her and she told them no. They starved to death. The sanitized modern version has her sharing her bounty …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:30 AM
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Must be a pansy Girl Scout Troop then. My daughters are all in Girl Scouts. They do all the same things the Boy Scouts do though their troop has more of a focus on community service rather than survivalism. Might have something to do with the Scout Leaders all being military husbands and wives. Just noticed it's in California. I'm not surprised. The founder of the Girl Scouts (Juliette Gordon Low) would roll over in her grave over the miscarriage of her work.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:26 AM
2

Things women have said about me to other women: He's my guy. Look at my catch. He's my boyfriend Hands off bitch. He's mine. Those statements are rather possessive in nature. Not only does modern media make them but women do as well in the real world.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 05:13 PM
1

My experience is they don't want to take responsibility for making the decision so someone else can be blamed if it goes off the rails. Honestly though, both are intertwined. It's taken a lot of work on my part to get my wife and daughters to the point of rational examining the problem and deciding on a solution that wasn't "let's wait for Dad."
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 05:07 PM
1

Men and women should be treated equally by the law and society. Such that both are treated equally as citizens, get the same social benefits, etc. There should be no legal distinction as far as law is concerned (14th Amendment). Beyond that, what you get is what you earn. Because no matter how "equal" people are, some will have advantages due to quirks of nature and genetic variation. You can't equalize that.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 04:50 PM
4

I do something similar with my wife and daughters. I make it clear they cannot and will not confront me while their emotions are raging. I'm well aware they work well with emotions unlike us guys. Never fight a battle on someone else's battlefield of choice. When they are calm, then we can talk and resolve things like civilized humans. Oddly enough, it works really well. In the end, it brings them into my frame of rational thought and behavior. Which is something we stress here; bring others int…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 07:37 PM
0

You commented look to be shadow banned. I see two the message of two comments but no posts other than the OP.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 09:32 PM
2

I'm not fooling myself. I also know what kind of person she is. AWALT considered, she was/is remarkably non-promiscuous. She also didn't exhibit any of the red flags that would disqualify a woman from being a quality mate. Nor did the 'gut feeling something was amiss' ever show up. Lastly, if she was getting railed by every guy, she's never admitted to it for over the last 20 years. I know very few people who can keep a charade going that long. As for women on subs, yes there are women on a sub …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 04:35 AM
-5

They aren't always a failure. As with any relationship, you must select a high quality person that is complementary to you and your lifestyle. I was in a five month long LDR after only having dated her for 3 weeks. We got married (gasp!), spent the next seven months geographically separated (we both were active duty Navy at the time), and have lived together ever since. We did see each other during the LD parts every 6-8 weeks though. We just rolled over 20 years together. Amused mastery, stoici…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 09:30 PM
1

I love to cook. I don't get to as often as I'd like. As such, my wife & kids will typically make the meals. If I mention I'm wanting to cook, they'll (wife & kids) go get the food for me to cook. Then again, I've taught them all how to cook. They understand that it's a treat and a labor of love on my part. That's what it should be for you. You enjoy it so you do it. The fact that others (or a certain other) get to enjoy it with you should be viewed as something special and noteworthy.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 08:52 PM
0

My thoughts exactly. Those quotes are damn near identical to RP suggestions I've seen here.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 10:44 PM
12

Outstanding write-up. The part about the friend zone really hits home. That was me for a very long time. I was only ever able to break out of it by having a couple of shitty breakups. The most memorable was the girl going all character assassination mode on me. Telling lies, slander, and every sort of bad gossip she could muster. All because I got a plate and the attention went to her instead of the girl. But that helped seal the deal on staying out of the friend zone. It's a scary place with no…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 03:43 AM
3

The OP just shows me how much more we as a community have to go to purge all the blue pill ideals from our systems. The things that were called out are indeed blue pill and serve to hold us all back. We came here to get better, not more blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 02:55 PM
13

Sure thing. A few things to consider: I am that asshole who does know the answer more often than not. I also know how to find the answers I don't know Both of the above were demonstrated from the beginning I've only started going down the RP path during the last couple of years though I've demonstrated quite a few RP aspects over the last twenty years. So what I did may not work for you (or anyone else) without adjusting it for your personality/demeanor/preferences. What did I do? The short answ…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 01:12 PM
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This very reason is why I have trained my wife & four daughters to make it clear when they want sympathy/empathy or a solution. They initially fought me on that but after some failed attempts to clear communications, they got on-board fairly quick.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 09:48 PM
2

Unless you are snipped and have certainty you are shooting blanks. I had a plate I think was trying to get pregnant off of me. I didn't tell her I was snipped. Ended up dropping her for getting too clingy.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 12:05 AM
7

Enjoy her settling for you. Reap whatever benefits you can. Don't invest heavily in her. Besides, you are 19. You have your life ahead of you. You still have options. Most people aren't really ready / grown up enough for marriage at that point. Hell, I wasn't ready for marriage until my mid 20s and I had been married since I was 20.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 03:12 PM
1

I would have done the same. It's horribly disrespectful to take something without asking first.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 02:20 PM
6

Which is why you will see brothers and sisters fighting each other right up until done outside attacks a member of the family. Then you see them fighting together against the enemy. I always picked on my brother. Anyone else picked on him, they had a problem with me. That was my exclusive right.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 11:34 PM
2

I have a chatty plate... as in chats every single day via text with me. It took me listening to her for a while to figure out what made her tick, what I needed to listen to, what was safe to ignore/not respond to, etc. Unfortunately, there is no one true answer that works for all of them. It's something you have to figure out for her. Just be aware that what you learn with regards to her, may work wildly different (good or bad) for someone else.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 02:26 PM
2

I understood what you meant. It's just that in many cases, it's a situation where the People are not holding their elected & appointed officials accountable or taking them to task for over-stepping their boundaries. Where I am from (Ohio), the judges were elected by the populace. Obviously you had to know how to be one but there were a couple of judges who let their continued re-elections go to their heads. They started bullying people in their courtroom and in public. Rural Ohioans tend not to …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 01:08 PM
1

Twenty years as of last July.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 11:08 PM
1

True but it's less likely to happen in other courts due to them being a bit less "IT'S FOR THE CHILDREN AND THOSE POOR DEFENSELESS WOMEN, SHITLORD". Not to mention they tend to have more accountability than family courts.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 11:04 PM
2

By regulation/law, they are supposed to. Who runs those systems? Humans... who are known to look the other way to take a shortcut to get work done within budget. Do you always follow the rules no matter what? I don't. Some things aren't that important. Some people feel the legal system can absorb some 'fast & loose' playing around. Generally speaking, people look out for themselves. If someone gets burnt in the process, so be it. I've seen this behavior all too often.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 12:19 PM
3

I'm one of the few that ran this gauntlet and made it out okay on the other side. I joined the Navy, intending on staying for twenty years. Had been in for nine months, had a horrible breakup with my girlfriend. Took on the attitude of "women were unfit to breath the air I exhaled. They held less than zero value to me or my life". That epitomizes (to me) the IDGAF mentality. So a couple weeks later, I'm going crazy in the barracks. Got to get away. Ended up over thirty minutes away from base at …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 06:32 PM
6

I've done that very thing before... It never hurts to get an uninvolved point of view on a troubling topic.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 07:57 PM
42

Good Lord, that's a hefty laundry list. I hope she's ready for the crazy cat lady part of her life because any guy that meets that list of requirements, isn't going to want to date her. He's going to look at the younger 20-somethings.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 07:52 PM
2

I love her writing. Suitably dark fantasy, strong male main. She also wrote the Magister trilogy. Excellent characterizations. Gail Z. Martin is also another good author (Necromancer series). I wish she'd write more. Kristin Britain and her Green Rider Series. Yes, it's a female main, but overall a good fantasy series as well.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 07:08 PM
3

I'm going to have to use that line the next time a woman tells me that men just want to have sex. I want to see the meltdown.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 06:56 PM
2

This shit is funny! I enjoyed it. I'd be highly tempted to join a bunch of guys doing this.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 12:12 PM
6

My wife periodically complains about being in charge. She doesn't like it one bit. I require her to take charge every now and then. She needs to learn / practice and it's nice to have a break knowing issues will be taken care of properly. Every time she complains about being in charge, I offer to take total control, make all the decisions, etc. Oddly, she doesn't take me up on that offer. Probably because of the lesson she learned the first time she demanded I take total control (I don't take an…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 04:46 AM
10

90 partners by age 22 isn't that far of a stretch. She started she lost her virginity at age 16. So that's 90 partners over six years of sex. Also known as 15 partners / year. That's roughly a new sex partner every 3-4 weeks. Not a stretch of the imagination at all. Now, per her statements, many of those partners were at orgies, trains, etc. It's also likely that many of her partners were repeat flyers which also accounts for her statements of having sex every week or so. As a guy, I could do ro…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:48 PM
2

I used an example of computers coming from a factory a long while back as part of an explanation of NEWITS (Not Every Woman Is The Same) and how it interacts with AWALT. Look at it like so... Every computer leaving the factory is the same. Hardware, software, etc. Woman are much the same (guys too in all honesty). Yet are two computers ever truly the same after they've been used and running for a few years? No. Their drivers will be different, software will be installed in different places. Hell…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 01:54 PM
2

The beauty of the red pill comes down to just a couple of points... It holds to the radical idea that women are people too; that they are in possession of agency and free will. It's about self-improvement through diet, exercise, and learning of human interactions, social environment, & social dating rituals. The rest is context and window dressing. Each person will take away different things from the same lessons because we are all different people. Sounds kind of like AWALT, doesn't it. We are …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 01:35 PM
1

Understood. It's just an interesting correlation of descriptors that have been used to describe me currently and in the past, long before I ever heard of a Sigma. In other words, an interesting and curious observation on my part.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 01:20 PM
2

Damn... That description of a Sigma describes me almost to a T. I hate social posturing. I don't mind being led so long as leadership is achieving my goals. It also keeps me from needing to step up and lead. It's eerie just how accurate that description is...
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 03:23 PM
5

Correct, the person that changed was him. He now knows what she is. She never changed. She merely showed him what she was.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:19 PM
-3

My wife despairs taking me to the grocery store. Why? Because I do my own thing and get the items I want regardless. Thing is, she rarely gets anything fun. I balance my seriousness with fun. So snacks and treats are a staple in my mind unless you do something to make me say no more. She does admit that everything I get is something that will be eaten by everyone in the house too.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 11:09 PM
-6

I was upset because of the confusion and lack of clarity, not because "wahhhhh he fucked me and didn't buy me roses and marry me and text me every day". Guys, just spell out what you want in clear sentences, it's not that hard! Unfortunately when guys do that, we tend to get shit on. Why? It's simple. Women aren't attracted to guys who are straightforward, supplicating, etc. It's not in the female DNA to be attracted to those qualities. You ladies are far more attracted to the confident dirt bag…
/r/ExRedPill22/10/15 04:06 AM
6

I was a product of a single mother though I also had my grandparents available to me. My mother ended up being an example of what not to do with one's life. Every one of her screw-ups and fuck-ups became an object lesson in failure. I chose to be a success. Haven't stopped since. Sadly few boys realize that they have power of self determination. They are afraid of it.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 02:07 AM
1

Your description parallels modern day market economics in the United States to an uncanny level. Most of the country's wealth is in the hands of a few, comparatively speaking. Feminism is doing the same for alpha cock. Only a small number of women are getting / keeping it while the rest struggle to get it.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 11:12 PM
2

Because I've taught her properly. For the lessons to really get committed to heart, she's got to have a few failures. It would be remiss of me to prevent her from learning first hand. Besides, I have three other daughters. My chances for a legacy are good, especially with Daughter #3. Also don't forget... many of us here were that "beta phaggot" as you put it. Like us, there's a chance he will see the light and grow out of it.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 10:42 PM
8

I have a feeling that if my eldest daughter (18) gets married to her boyfriend (3+ years long) that he will take her (my) last name. The boy is so beta that my wife & I agree that our daughter only lets him have his balls back when she goes to work. Not entirely sure if she gives them back then.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 04:07 AM
0

It really depends on the woman. Sure, meeting someone from Tinder is sketchy, but occasionally one does get lucky and find a pearl in the mud. Doesn't happen often though.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 02:27 PM
1

I used to work with a lady that wanted to knock boots with me a couple months before her wedding day. She made it bluntly obvious that if I wanted it, I just needed to say so. I told her that even if I did want to, I would not act on it because it broke one of my rules. I won't date or otherwise sleep with co-workers. The only way out would be for one of us to no longer work at the same place. She got angry I turned her down and stopped talking to me. I was okay with that. HR at that place was n…
/r/askTRP20/09/15 06:03 AM
0

Very true! I'm all for feminism where women are on a societal equilibrium with men. Egalitarianism is a good thing. But that's not what we as a society received. It's something far worse and malicious.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 12:31 AM
1

Hehe, my wife has often said I'm up to no good. I neither confirm nor deny anything.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 12:29 AM
1

I would think it works both directions based on my experiences and observations. What works for one woman may not work for another. A beta for one woman may be the right kind of alpha for another. That's why you may be running perfect game, applying the right chat, kino, etc and still be unable to close. Your mix of things while technically perfect, might not be the right mix for that particular woman. Yet another woman may interrupt you to close the deal herself =) That's the problem. While wom…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 12:27 AM
12

I've said it before and I'll say it again... Not Every Woman Is The Same, yet AWALT. They each have different likes, dislikes, and preferences. What one finds attractive, another finds disgusting. One woman's alpha is another's beta. Remember, we hold to the radical idea that women are people too.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 12:13 PM
4

It does happen though. My current plate started off that way. We were chatting intermittently over the course of a few weeks via email. **Side note: Yeah, I know, not the best way to get someone but my work and school schedule at the time didn't give me much in the way of opportunities to meet people I didn't work or go to school with. At any rate one afternoon, she emailed me to see if I was interested in doing something fun later in the week (on Friday). I asked her what she had in mind. She r…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 06:15 AM
10

The issue as I saw it was he failed to act on his statement of not wanting to stand in her way if she felt she could do better. In that regard, he's blue pill as hell.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 09:11 PM
2

A fail for one person can be a success for another. Not every woman is the same. Remember, we hold to the radical notion that women are people too. As such, individually, they are different from person to person. Marriage is significantly harder than spinning plates. Sometimes you have to do things to further the long-term goals at the expense of the current battle. Given that she makes my breakfast every morning, provides sex on demand, and so forth after 20 years, I think I have a good read on…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:24 AM
0

It's perfectly fine to skip out on having sex if something feels off / not quite right. Hell, I've turned down sex with my wife before (yeah, yeah, I'm married) simply because I wasn't feeling it. Ended up having a discussion with my wife explaining that while I enjoy having sex a lot, just because I'm a guy, it in no way implies that I always want sex all the time. With a first time partner like you described, if something felt 'not right', I'd skip it too. I'd also play it safe until I was cer…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:36 PM
21

Correction: You cannot retroactively revoke consent unless you are a woman. This has been shown by multiple instances in the news and media.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 09:02 PM
3

Which is why prostitution is illegal in most localities. To allow it, devalues the need for marriage to permit guys to obtain sex. There are numerous things wrong with society nowadays. This is just one of them.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 03:39 PM
3

This is where the term I used a while back comes into play... NEWITS. Not Every Woman Is The Same. As noted, different women respond to different things in different ways. One might be wooed by music while another gives you the "Is that the best you can do?" expression. All women are capable of branch swinging (AWALT). What determines when that occurs is based on the individual variables of that particular woman.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 06:38 PM
3

For me, it was just one partner until Feb 2012. Since then, I'm up to 13. I've been steadily applying RP principles and improving myself. Each of us is a different story and the context of our successes (or lack thereof) are wildly divergent.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 04:25 AM
1

Sounds like some 'Agree & Amplify' (yup dear, I'm really beta) was in there too... He turned up the beta to absurd levels and then flipped the script. I find it useful to get a woman fired up angry, point out the absurdity, and then make her laugh. It works.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 03:16 AM
2

He said why. Her body language went from DTF to insecure in the time it took for him to lose his pants. Therefore, he opted to play it safe and decline sex. Hell, I've declined sex before because something didn't feel quite right. That nagging little voice in my head is always telling me the right things to do. I listen to it.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 06:25 PM
0

My wife says that very rarely. When she does, I tell her "Yep, but only when you are sucking my cock and swallowing." We both laugh and carry on.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 02:02 PM
5

Go read Patrick Henry's "give me liberty or give me death" speech sometime. Our founding fathers would be branded terrorists by today's standards. I also find it remarkably ironic that it's illegal to overthrow the government, yet this country's founding document was declaring an overthrow of government. I had a female government teacher. She was awesome. She encouraged us all to research and learn for ourselves. She, like yours, did much of the same that you listed. She was one of my few favori…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 04:09 AM
0

Don't forget Adm. Grace Hopper and her contributions to modern IT. Brilliance and capability know no gender limits. There have indeed been some amazingly intelligent and capable women. Society needs them just as society needs amazingly intelligent and capable men. Instead modern society wants to discourage such innovation, brilliance, and capability.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:37 AM
1

I like that response. A heavy helping of agree & amplify, a dash of negging, and some amused mastery. Certainly leaves no ambiguity.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 04:49 PM
2

The "no scalpel" version is simpler. You just get a shot with numbing agent. If it feels like a 9 volt battery on your tongue but inside your penis along the pelvis, he got the nerve numbed. After that, a hooked needle is used to pull the tubes out one at a time to tie/cauterize/cut (mine did all three). All I felt was gentle tugging and a sense of coldness (a small amount of blood ran down the inside of my leg). Once done, a single dissolvable stitch was put in. The resulting mark is smaller th…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:19 AM
2

Generally yes. I know a guy who had the regular scalpel version and his recovery was over three weeks. I was good to go and the bruising / swelling was 100% gone in under two. Also only needed one stitch instead of a whole line of them like he had. The NSV is the way to go if you decide to get a vasectomy. Faster recovery time, less discomfort, done in under 20 minutes. It actually took longer to prep than it did to do the procedure.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:03 AM
3

A vasectomy doesn't damage the testes. It's merely a disconnection of the tubes (vas deferrens) between the penis and the testicles. Think traffic analogy... The bridge is out. No one can cross.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 04:16 PM
7

Considering that sperm make up about 0.5% of what you ejaculate, ant perceived reduction was more likely in your head. Also, if you did see a real reduction, did you go get checked for proper glandular function for the prostate and cowper's glands? There's a whole lot more going on in ejaculate than just sperm.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 04:14 PM
15

No, not me. Though it was a concern because I heal exceptionally well. I rarely scar even when I have stitches. My body strongly believes in restoring itself according to manufacturer specifications. Been shooting blanks for seven years now. Made life much nicer on the sex front.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 04:10 PM
36

I had a vasectomy done seven years ago. The vasectomy was a no-scalpel version. In short, a needle is used to numb you, then a needle hook is used to pull the vas deferrens out (through the hole from the numbing needle) to snip/tie/cauterize followed by pushing the two ends back inside. Took about 20 minutes and was done in the doctors office (minor procedure). I was one of the few who had complications. My complications were swelling and bruising. Not bad mind you, but walking was uncomfortable…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 03:41 PM
0

It's just demonstrating the current state of things...
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:13 PM
3

I've dated a single mother (divorced). Met her ex (he's active in his kids' lives and on amicable terms with her). Met her kids. It was never like you described. She was always trying to figure out how to arrange her schedule so I could be in it. As a parent myself, I understand that need to arrange schedules. It's called being a parent, not an irresponsible teenager. A adult will make time in their lives to accommodate the wants, needs, and responsibilities. A child will not.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 02:56 PM
5

In here, we are men. Men typically show honor and will generally attempt to repay kindness and generosity. It is another aspect of Red Pill. How? You are being / becoming the best you. There is no harm or foul in saying thank you to someone who helped you on your way.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 01:14 PM
2

Not only can I not reply or post to /offmychest, I'm also unable to subscribe to the subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 05:28 PM
24

If he's escalating into assaulting family members, perhaps you should involve the police... Part of the Red Pill is about sexual strategy yes... but it's also much more. It's core tenet is to be the best man a guy can be. Along the way, success in other aspects of male life will come, such as with women & dating, work, recreation, education, etc. From what you described, he's angry & resentful (aka: anger phase). It happens. What's not acceptable by any civilized measure is him assaulting his fa…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 04:44 AM
3

As a dad of four daughters, I find the design to be interesting and potentially useful. It is a pain in the ass to care for a child in the backseat when both adults are in the front or if you are by yourself with said child. Would I consider such a car if I had infants? Yes. Why? Because it might be useful to me. I would have to examine the rest of the package to evaluate the overall benefits though. Sometimes a rose is simply a rose. Not everything is a feminist agenda item. Sometimes things ar…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 01:42 PM
3

I happen to agree with your reasoning. I've made the same argument with a lesbian friend of mine. When I said it, she stopped for a few moments and said "I never looked at it like that before, but damn, you're right." One of the dissenting Supreme Court justices also said this decision & the means it was achieved opens the door to polygamous marriage.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 01:39 PM
3

You were fed some bad information then. Your body uses and abuses the anus far more than most sex acts will. Bowel movements are common and regular. Those sphincter muscles will contact and relax millions of times throughout your life. Periodic anal sex only adds a small number to that. Also consider the strength of those muscles and that they work well into old age without issue for most people too. In my experience, every woman with whom I've had anal sex with, their ass & rectum had no snappi…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 05:30 PM
8

Yep. I made chili one night. Lots of jalapeno and habanero peppers. Despite washing my hands repeatedly with Dawn dish soap, when my wife and I got busy that night, I still managed to warm her up and not in the good way. Spicy pepper oils are a bitch to get washed off well.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 01:07 PM
1

Honestly, I don't know. I'm not there yet. I'll probably keep spinning plates until I get bored of it. Thing is, I'm fairly lucky in the genetic lottery. I don't look anywhere near my actual age if I put any effort into cleaning up. Most people put me in my late 20's to early 30's. Many of the guys in my family are like that. My grandfather didn't look a day over 60 when he passed at age 81. So I have that working for me. I might have aim a little higher in age once I'm in my 50's, but I'll cros…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 06:50 PM
11

I'm 40. I've got a plate that is 23. I started spinning her a couple of months before she turned 22. You just need to make sure your game is good, you demonstrate value, and take the lead... IOW, be a RP kind of guy.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:30 AM
2

Happened to me late last night are 11pm eastern. Unsub & resub fixed it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 11:41 AM
2

That is some impressive circular logic. I like it!
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 04:33 AM
1

I think some of you are missing the point of the article... His point that "women believe we value them having a PhD because THEY value us having a PhD" is spot on. It relates to the idea that you don't ask a fish how to catch one. Yes, many of us do value certain types of achievement in our wives/girlfriends/LTRs/plates. But you also need to admit that a PhD is not near the top of the the list.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 04:17 AM
2

It depends on the woman. Remember, while AWALT is true, each woman is different and will respond to different comments.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:23 PM
1

BTW, you don't want rope. Bondage tape works better. If you have to use rope, get silk.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 11:57 PM
2

I had a plate that was agitating for exclusivity, knowing full well that I am married. (Yes, my wife knows and is okay with it) I ended up telling my plate that exclusivity was not going to be an option I could or would entertain. Gave her the choice to live with what she could have or she could leave. She chose to leave. Sad to see her go (she was awesome in the sack, willing to do anything I told her to) but she wanted something that wasn't available.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 10:49 PM
3

Hell, my wife will ask me do this to her if I even give the slightest hint I want to. She loves it. When you are alpha enough for a woman, she will ask / let you do some pretty amazing things to her.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 02:22 AM
1

That law as proposed (as indicated in the article) violates the 14th amendment's equal protection clause. I would think it's a potential payday for any guy prosecuted under it and gets a decent constitutional lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 12:40 AM
13

There is an addendum I would like to add to AWALT... NEWITS or Not Every Woman Is The Same. Now many of you will just say that NAWALT is the same thing but it's not. NEWITS recognizes that while AWALT is always true, the exact implementation of AWALT varies from woman to woman. NAWALT tries to sell us the idea that some unicorn out there IS indeed a special snowflake completely and totally different from the others; doesn't do the bad things that all other women do. Think of women as being simil…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 04:24 AM
3

I'll give a mea culpa as well. I did not intend to come across as the jerk that can be read from my message. I'll admit to distraction from having some issues with my eldest daughter (of four daughters). She's been driving the disrespect train lately and she's really grinding my gears this weekend. It was never my intention to let that bleed into a post here. This is one of the things I love about this place. We can disagree, discuss, and move on calmly. Male dominated spaces are nice :) Edit Be…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 08:35 PM
-1

I don't how acceptable it becomes in American society. I do not smoke weed, have no interest in doing so, and will NOT under any circumstance tolerate it in my house. If that offends any of my friends, then they really weren't my friends in the first place. Likewise, if it offends any of my family, they can go pound sand. It's a respect thing for the rules and law of the land where you are at. If you are staying at my place, you will be expected to abide by my rules. The OP is staying in a place…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:32 PM
6

I don't how acceptable it becomes in American society. I do not smoke weed, have no interest in doing so, and will NOT under any circumstance tolerate it in my house. If that offends any of my friends, then they really weren't my friends in the first place. Likewise, if it offends any of my family, they can go pound sand. It's a respect thing for the rules and law of the land where you are at. If you are staying at my place, you will be expected to abide by my rules. The OP is staying in a place…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:32 PM
1

Generally speaking, if you are going to talk with the cops about an incident, you want to be the first person to talk with the cops. In several firearms rights forums I read, they also state you don't want to talk with the police as the baseline. But when you do have to call the police, be the first person to talk with them. It often weighs in your favor for the very same reasons.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:14 PM
2

I've got a plate (age 23) that absolutely loves the fact that I'm good for 2-3 rounds in the sack @ age 40. The first time I pulled that on her, she just about lost her shit with excitement. It was obvious her previous partners were not nearly as lucky / capable. You are right though. It's not hard to be a good lover in the sack. One just needs to pay attention, learn what works, and be willing to fail (never going to be bold if you fear failure).
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 06:31 PM
1

The best possible version of "you" would assuredly use family connections and resources. A smart person always makes effective use of resources they have available, regardless of the source. Sometimes the best use is not at all.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 09:14 PM
1

There's a Doctor Who quote that comes to mind... "The very powerful and the very stupid have one thing in common. Instead of adjusting their views to fit the facts, they adjust the facts to fit their views. Which can be rather uncomfortable if you are one of those facts that needs adjusting" People in general don't want to know the truth. They want validation of what they believe.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 05:30 PM
2

The big issue with chewing tobacco is that you can get some nasty cancers from using it. Yeah, it's gross. You end up with a dip can. It can make your smile look like crap and do nasty things to your teeth and gums (beyond the cancer chances). But hey, it's your Red Pill realization. Ultimately, what is right for you is what you decide. My red pill implementation works for me. As my grandpa always said "Lead, follow, or get the hell off the pot". You have to decide :) Good on you for learning fr…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 07:41 PM
1

If you like to cook, then cook! If you are practicing some quid pro quo, cook! If you want to cook? Cook! Demonstrate that you are so awesome that your cooking is just as good as you are. BTW, there is no harm is being a decent human being and sharing some of the load. Just make sure you own it! My wife is a good cook but at the suggestion that I might be cooking dinner, she'll surrender the kitchen without a second thought. I'm damn good at cooking.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:57 PM
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I tell my wife every now and then that since she is in her 40s that I should replace her with a pair of 20s. Her response? "You can't handle a pair of 20s" I tell her "Maybe, maybe not... but I'll have fun trying!" Though with regards to the OP... the last time my wife said anything about me, masturbation, and porn... my only response was: And? Seemed to work rather well for me.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:48 PM
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Do yourself a favor and do what you have in mind. Break up with her and live your life. You and you alone are responsible for yourself and your happiness. Other people may contribute to it but in the end, YOU are responsible for YOU.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:38 PM
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Depending on your relationship with your brother, you might be able to tell him to be careful and to pay attention to what she is doing. Might being the key word here. If not, then just be there for him when things hit the fan. Unfortunately, the love chemicals do strange things to a person's brain.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:30 PM
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The only things I like on social media are those that make me laugh out loud. Good looking women, not so much. I like having good/funny jokes and memes served up by Facebook.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 11:23 PM
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Yeah, I was going to suggest the same. If I'm asked by a friend for some of my time to help / go out / etc., I make sure my wife and I didn't already have plans. If we do, then we either adjust the plans or the request, depending on weekdays going on / context of the situation. That's just being a decent person. Checking with the wife for permission? Chewie, that's no Alpha!
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 01:42 PM
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I would be the guy who posted a video of babies laughing and clapping. Then when the people complained about 'triggers', loudly exclaim "It's just cute and adorable little babies! How can you be against cute and adorable little babies?" Yeah, I'm that guy at the office too. :)
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 04:16 AM
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That's why one of my chosen criteria for a girlfriend / wife was someone with whom I could hold a conversation. The looks may fade, but the brains will still be there.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:27 AM
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The Army Rangers have opened up their ranks to women. According to several articles I've read, they are NOT reducing the standards to enter the Rangers. One article went into detail about the process. Apparently there is a Pre-Rangers school that you MUST pass in order to have a chance at being selected for Ranger school. Men have about a 1/3 washout rate. Women have IIRC, slightly higher than a 50% washout rate. Both genders have an opportunity to try the prep school again if they did well enou…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:11 AM
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I've come to the conclusion that while AWALT, not every women does that. There is a decided difference between 'Like That' and 'Does That'. Otherwise I completely agree with you. My wife admits to being just like every other woman but at the same time, different. Which she is. She's an individual. So while she has the same base course code as other women, her life experiences thus far have made her different from the rest while still being a member of that very group. It's almost as though it's …
/r/askTRP23/03/15 03:35 AM
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I am so glad my wife does not buy into this drivel. That post makes me want to claw my eyes out... She's not even all that either.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:40 PM
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There are women who became insanely hotter as they got older. Biology supports this as not everyone is the same. Different people physically mature at different rates. Hell, the dress shirts I bought a couple years ago don't fit anymore. Why? Apparently my body has decided it's not done with physical maturity yet... my shoulders increased in size (width and muscle mass) despite not working out appreciably. You would think at age 40, that shit would stop happening. Physically I was the same from …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 03:11 PM
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When it works, it works well. It's amazing what happens when you go beyond reading the words and move into understanding/executing them. You sir, have the proof right before your eyes.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:17 PM
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A good leader always makes sure to take the time to talk with his team to make sure there aren't any issues that are interfering with the team's mission. If my wife seems a little distracted / distant (or otherwise throwing those comfort tests), I straight up ask her "Hon, what's on your mind?" I've framed it in certain ways often enough that she knows she cannot weasel out of the question when I ask. Amazingly, if I show that I'm not concerned, she stays unconcerned too. But I also ask her for …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:04 PM
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I would have to say that both apply to most women, just in varying amounts. Some women care a LOT about how they are perceived while others DGAF what others think in their pursuit of cock. Most of the women I have slept fall firmly in line with the first view with a control aspect applied by the second view. So as a result, the women I have slept with have all been reasonably low count. My wife has told me (and shown me often) that when we have sex, she just wants it more and more from me. I'm q…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 01:41 PM
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Prisons are gender matched. You don't get to choose. Women who have sex with underage males are going to jail/prison. Maybe not as long as a guy does with an underage girl, but it's still not that far out of whack. Women have the right to remain silent. It's just rare that anyone (regardless of gender) intelligently uses that right.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 01:46 PM
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Another tack you may want to try... Don't face her beliefs. That's often an unassailable position. Instead, challenge her to prove to herself that they are true. Disagree with her premise. Then ask who the position benefits and why.... along with telling her to follow the money back to the source and destinations. Propaganda and lies cannot stand the test of truth when you go searching for the dirty laundry. Money nearly always leads to the dirty laundry. I did this a long while back when it cam…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 01:41 PM
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I see your point but I am coming from the perspective that a guy can only be alpha if he meets two criteria... He has the genes necessary to be alpha Society didn't force him to... ...a. skip learning how to be an alpha ...b. learn to be beta I also come from a different angle as my wife (yes, I'm married) would happily take an 'artificial' diamond because no diamond looks good until it's polished and made pretty. The fact that I bought it for her is enough.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 01:25 PM
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Don't forget though... Title IX means schools that pursue this course of action will often find themselves on the wrong side of the law by following these asinine rules. More than a few guys accused of rape / sexual assault sued the school under Title IX violations and won. The big one from recent history is the guy who had that situation with the Mattress Girl.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 10:16 PM
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But if the guy can learn to be an alpha, doesn't that mean his genes support him being an alpha male? I've never quite understood the idea that females hate betas learning to be alpha. What about the natural alpha that was taught to be beta from day 1? Every alpha out there had to learn it, apply it, and prove he was indeed an alpha. It's one part genes and one part knowledge. Half-assing it won't get you there.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 09:29 PM
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I've had people on Reddit and in the real world ask me why I read here. Some of the things I've said / commented on have had people inquire if it had anything to with 'that Red Pill' subreddit. I tell them "It's a place of open discussion regarding the truth of society's treatment of men and how inequality favoring women has driven to that point". It's at this point I get the statements of "but men are treated better", "the law doesn't favor women", etc. I point out a handful of news articles, l…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 09:25 PM
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Knowing what women want isn't a bad thing. In fact, knowing your opponent helps you know what to do in order to get them to do what you want. That's basic conflict 101. Every game, every mating ritual, etc is a test to see how the opponent reacts and operates. Both sides do this. Do shit tests exist in a vacuum? No, they are a test to validate worthiness of foe (typically you, the guy). Besides, if you know female strategy, you can adjust your strategy to make their strategy do most of the work …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 02:28 PM
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I forgot to shave my legs! Well, what do you know, I didn't shave mine either!
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 01:38 AM
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Which is why you have to research your state's laws regarding recording audio/video. I know that I can do so in VA without much issue.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 12:51 AM
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This also feeds abundance mentality. Once you are having your cake and eating it too, she might take notice and do something to get your attention back. Then again, it wasn't uncommon (in recent history) for marriage to be a business transaction rather than romantic one. Each party would still have their lovers discreetly but publicly put the face of being together. Ultimately, as my grandpa used to say... "You have to shit or get off the pot" Decide what it is that you honestly want and make it…
/r/askTRP24/02/15 12:28 AM
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Depends on the person and context. Me? I will always show basic human courtesy. Then again, I tend to help people who need it, regardless of whether or not I'm having sex with them. If I'm having intimate relations, yes, I will show some extra courtesy. The whole idea is to give the woman the 'feelz' (as some will put it). You make her feel good in bed and follow it up with making her feel safe as she's leaving? She's going to want to go on that ride again and again. With #1, I would have walked…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:06 PM
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Your FR reminded me of an almost identical situation with a (now ex-) friend from a couple years ago. She insisted on taking care of me to the point of mothering me. This was in spite of knowing full well that I didn't tolerate it from anyone no matter who they were. I got rather pissed off and in my 'depths of evil' command voice I told her "Back the fuck off". She immediately complied. Side note: Mastering command voice is useful. People will obey without thought if there is a hint of percepti…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 01:49 AM
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IMO, a couple of things... Sounds like a case of oneitis. You didn't take advantage of your chance. Don't sweat it. I've often found that 'opportunities' I've missed ended up being missed for VERY valid reasons in hindsight. I wouldn't get too worried about her. Go get another woman and move on. Or look at it this way... she chose someone else. Good for her. You need to do the same. She wasn't yours in the first place. Agency and all. Second... Don't believe memes. While they are often witty and…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:40 PM
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It should be illegal to broadcast information about suspects unless there is a conviction from hard evidence. I agree, but, it should be applied to more than just rape / sexual violence. The only reason they post the accused's name is that being charged is a matter of public record. That being so means it can be announced via the media. Perhaps they should include the accuser's name in the public record as well. But we can't have that as it'll be viewed as damaging to the victim. Since we are al…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 08:39 PM
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This move here is NOT a clean solution to the problem. Short of recording your conversation or signing a contract, how would one prove consent? You've been accused of rape, so the partner is not going to corroborate anything you say. There is another wrinkle... even if she and you signed a contract, who is to say that consent wasn't withdrawn after it was signed? Honestly, audio & video recording with time stamps are about the only sure-fire way to avoid a false charge and even those are problem…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 08:34 PM
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Note the key passage here.... "anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law" AGAINST YOU! Not for you, or to help you.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 08:23 PM
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Sorry, I don't see it as white knighting. I simply told her the truth of things and went on about my business. What she did with the advice was up to her. For me, I always make a point of helping my friends because a long time ago, my friends at the time helped me without reservation when my own family let me twist in the wind for giggles. She was one of those friends who helped me.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 06:49 PM
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If she is your friend, be her friend. Tell her what you see. I had a similar situation many years ago. This guy was dating a good friend of mine just to get at me. (I have no idea why even to this day). I told her what he had said to me about it and what he was bragging about to others. She told me I was wrong and that I was jealous. I pointed out to her that not once during the entire time we had been friends did I ever lie to her. I also told her that she was my friend and I am doing as honor …
/r/askTRP27/01/15 03:18 PM
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