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| 93 | If you needed another reason to avoid hiking with men. This older man was posting looking for a "female hiking partner," but at first seemed well-mannered and talked about mutual hobbies. Then this happened... I am assuming he's a predator luring women into the woods.Because it’s close to all his other shrines. Likes to keep his ’females’ close….. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:25 AM |
| 9 | FDS angers Reddit at large, and that's how you know it works.I personally love the ones that go along the lines of “I showed my wife/girlfriend/fleshlight, and they agreed with me. FDS crazy/bad”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 08:13 PM |
| 131 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsI also think he’s slightly aware, feels she’s pulling away and that’s the cause of the tantrum online. He’s too shallow and self centred to have an adult conversation with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 07:47 AM |
| 39 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsMore than 1/2 is my guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 06:23 AM |
| 51 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsDivorce settlement. She supported his career, he will have to support hers one way or another. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 06:20 AM |
| 246 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsI’d put money on it. The 2nd degree is the give away. To my mind, it shows she’s thinking of her future and supporting herself without him. She turned down the opportunity of a small business, she has larger goals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 03:52 AM |
| 524 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsMy take on it is she’s getting ready to leave him anyways. Her own income, upgrade on skills and no doubt already has the emotional and community/social support she needs. This guy didn’t become a jerk suddenly, it’s been years. Kids aren’t at home any more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 02:00 AM |
| 87 | This is why we block and delete, it’s as much about preventing our own harmful acts in a moment of weakness.Stories like this is one of the reasons why women get labelled as ‘crazy’ or ‘emotional’. This women needs psychological help not a news story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 08:57 PM |
| 24 | Even in a best case scenario with a seemingly “ok” man, age gap relationships still suck“ It’s okay to admit that you’re no longer attracted to someone that’s aging before your eyes “ - this is spot on. At 36, I married a man 10 years older than me, (so almost 50), and it only took a few years to realise this. He was needing naps and not interested in going anywhere while I felt like life was passing me by. I still wanted a life. Obviously we are now divorced. Edit: I just want to add, I thought at 35 yrs the 10 year gap wouldn’t matter. We’re both adults right? It still mattered . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 09:49 PM |
| 26 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡Long gone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 11:03 AM |
| 69 | Just recently found out that rock n’ roll LEGEND Tina Turner was cheated on and abused multiple times by her LV husband Ike. Can’t believe guys actually pull shit like this and then swear up and down they don’t abuse women 😑😡Interestingly (or maybe not), When he died he apparently had a networth a trifling $500,000 . When Tina and Ike divorced, all she got was 2 cars but she’s currently got a net worth of approximately $250 million. She absolutely showed him in the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 11:02 AM |
| 35 | (TW: SEX, VIOLENCE). These are texts men sent to me when I used to engage in BDSM. Even when they hide behind a "nice guy" facade, this is their true nature. Looking back, I I can't believe I ever accepted being treated this way. BDSM is not liberating or empowering, it's ABUSE.This comment should be stickied. I wish I could upvote you more than once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 10:19 AM |
| 6 | Lessons learned. Replying only feeds the fire. Can you spot the manipulations?Not only did the trash take itself out, it put a lock on the bin it resides in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 12:12 AM |
| 69 | Seen on Facebook. No, teach your sons to stop murdering their partners.So important. I was just on the Gabby P sub and someone has loaded a video thats been edited a video to only show her. It made me think about her parents worrying about her on that trip, worrying about danger from others or accident etc. never thinking for a moment (from what I understand) that the danger was right next to her. How many other parents or friends family feel the same about their loved one? How often does any ask “do you feel safe” . For mental health here in Australia we have the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 10:34 PM |
| 76 | My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted.Girl you should be mad. Being mad and staying away is what will change all this for you. Let the anger for this manipulative fool carry you away, far far away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 01:54 AM |
| 20 | Oh shit here’s another one😆 Scrotes big mad about this sub and my activity on it. See my last 2 posts in this sub for more context.I’m using Apple (IPad), in setting under ‘Profile’ there is an option to turn off “allow people to follow you”. Unsure about android, maybe it’s similar layout. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 11:04 PM |
| 213 | "Men protecting other men" and why you should keep you standards sky high cause of it.And if he is on your side,….he’s waiting to get into your pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 10:02 PM |
| 33 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.What ANYONE says about my life tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:16 AM |
| 180 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.Couldn’t agree more op. Mid 50’s and CPTSD going back to almost birth and added trauma of a life lived badly due to this. Finally got the help I needed and life is getting better literally every day, ands that’s during lockdown in Melbourne. I’ve been doing many things I couldn’t healthily do in my younger days and I’m not dead yet. My life isn’t over so bring on the living. It is truly possible to heal and start living at any age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 75 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himSuch cognitive dissonance, their heads must be spinning. Women can’t go for looks but they can. The confusion is real with theses guys. edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 08:44 PM |
| 121 | Yesterday I noticed my 11 year old son manspreading…Solidarity. I have a young adult son who I’m proud to say is emotionally mature for his age, respectful of everyone (with obvious limits), has a basic comprehension of issues women face and is not afraid to speak up calmly when needed. For example, if I walk my dog in the early evening, he will say to me “I’ll keep my phone nearby Mum”. I don’t ask for this, he just recognises that this little exercise may be dangerous. He doesn’t invade my space, but I know he’s there in the background. It’s no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:51 PM |
| 64 | Expose them early and often!You did well. He was trying to manipulate you. High five! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:51 AM |
| 79 | Learned the reality of male friends the hard way todayI would have sent him one back first, ensuring that it’s bigger than his. See how he likes it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 12:34 AM |
| 25 | The "Rising Threat" of Incels - Daily MailTruth. This is where real, systemic change will come from. It’s fine to look at individuals and point fingers at media portrayals, this can go backwards and forwards for millennia, and it has, but these hate groups need to be cut off at the knee, sts. Take away their oxygen tubes of hate to the outside world. Edit: apols for the rant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:08 AM |
| 6 | This is what LVM do to women…they break and push them to the point of suicide. Can we help this woman?I agree, it’s very difficult to read or hear for sure. I have a background in MH and DV and my first thought on reading this was that her partner has pushed her not to go to hospital. This is more common than you’d think, as the perpetrator risks losing control of their victim in the hospital setting. They risk being ‘outed ’. It’s really important to ensure she continues to have family and friend support and to get either/and a good therapist and dv support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 03:58 PM |
| 170 | This is what LVM do to women…they break and push them to the point of suicide. Can we help this woman?Whilst I agree she needs some help in the future, I think atm, this is above FDS pay grade. This woman tried to commit suicide and although she has rejected hospital right now, she absolutely needs professional help from a mental health specialist. I hope she has some family and or friend support. Maybe send her some links for MH and DV support in her area. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 09:12 AM |
| 209 | He absolutely despises her.SLAVE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:11 AM |
| 171 | I don’t know anything about this family. But this video is absolutely heartwarming.It may not be enough. My ex husband was a fantastic dad to my child, even including him in his vows. My son has some severe issues and he has been there more than his bio dad, and we’ve been divorced for 14years. As a husband, he was manipulative and abusive. Cried victim and lied when we separated. Still there for my son though in a genuine way. They have an amazing relationship. Go figure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 02:31 AM |
| 94 | Poor Britney. There’s not much else to say.So, if her father (Jamie) is her paid conservator, then in essence, is Brittany actually paying for both sides of this case? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 12:01 PM |
| 97 | Preach.Yes, apparently he took a deal to forgo the 5th and admitted to everything, thereby assisting the women to win a civil suit. Then prosecutors turned around and convicted him anyways. That’s why the overturn. I’m I Australia, so this is quite 2nd hand simplified as I’m not up to speed with the legal system over there. What shits me most is his now claiming he’s innocent. Ah, dude, you admitted to it all already. It’s on the records, signed, sealed and delivered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 02:15 AM |
| 130 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢Underrated comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 10:12 AM |
| 20 | I’m home free!Kudos to hour mum for hanging in there. Drawn out custody battles are tough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 02:50 AM |
| 9 | So true. 😍 👑Fairly sure there’s a non negotiable list involved lol edit: fixed autocorrect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:46 AM |
| 147 | So true. 😍 👑The ‘Art’ lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 10:25 PM |
| 27 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂#metoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 08:53 AM |
| 69 | I am losing faith in humanity, and by that I mean the “man” part of it.I wish I could upvote you more than once. This comment is so underrated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 10:41 AM |
| 25 | Maybe I'm old, but I just don't understand. Why send nudes?When I was a little younger and better looking, (early 40’s), my ex asked me a few times for nudes as he worked away. His excuse was, it would make him less likely to cheat. As a former pick me, you can imagine how that messed with my head. I didn’t send any, and he eventually cheated, though I didn’t blame myself at that stage As I was ready to leave anyway. These types of scenarios are possibly prevalent. He was a piece of work and I haven’t dated etc since him, and now never will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 11:52 PM |
| 17 | I was reported for a comment here..to RedditThere’s a sub for these. Not sure if I can share the sub, but it includes fragile, redditor and a certain gender. Sad to see so many women going through this on Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:14 AM |
| 60 | Comments from a thread about a Tik Tok video talking about how hard OLD is for men. "Your nightmare is our dream."Right? Make his dream come true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:56 AM |
| 122 | Pregnancy and Its DiscontentsYep, good call. parenting doesn’t stop at 18. A good person will be a parent for their entire life. If you don’t want that, don’t do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:56 PM |
| 35 | Pregnancy and Its DiscontentsThanks, that more than I got from my ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:48 PM |
| 205 | Pregnancy and Its DiscontentsAnd, inability to bond with your child after a dangerous pregnancy and birth and the lack of understanding and hate from family, partner and friends leading to depression, suicidal thoughts and regretful parenting, affecting so many people including the child. First hand experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 09:45 PM |
| 27 | FDS Podcast Goal: 15k downloads in our first 30 days, which would put us squarely in the top 1% of podcasts. 2 weeks in and we're almost halfway there! Help us smash this goal by sharing the podcast with friends and family! 🙏played on my Samsung galaxy phone (android) and iPad (so Apple) and I just ‘add to queue’ and it repeats. It’s found in the 3 little dots. Scroll to find Queue. There’s also an option when you go into the episode, there’s a little moon to the right, tap on that and it gives a sleep timer option. Edit: This is via Spotify | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 11:59 PM |
| 40 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape PornThis. Edit: Adding, keep up the good fight when you can, rest when you need to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:22 AM |
| 129 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape PornNo, we should hold our ground and go on to break more ground. Never give up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:05 AM |
| 16 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape PornTruth. Can’t upvote this enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:01 AM |
| 389 | I went on a walk today and a man spit in my face2nd this, we had this happening here in Australia and the guy was doing it to lots of women, it escalated to physical abuse. Police got him after a number of reports. Edit: OP, you may not be alone in this. I so sorry this happened to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 09:02 PM |
| 41 | Why are “Sexperts” always claiming women that DON’T have sex on the first date 1) have internalized misogyny 2) are sexually repressed or 3) are worried about being “girlfriend material”? How ‘bout it’s because we JUST DON’T FUCKING KNOW HIM AT ALL 🤯And....the author is a copywriter, not an expert on the subject, writes advertising really. It’s a shame she doesn’t use her powers for good, not evil. this type of advice could be very dangerous for young girls. https://muckrack.com/brooke-sager/articles Edit: I want to add, I also don’t condone shaming women for their choices, just keep safety in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:24 AM |
| 5 | Yep...Are you sure the cameras work? Not all cameras are connected and often aren’t being saved anywhere if they are. often not manned either. A lot can happen in 5 minutes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 11:33 AM |
| 94 | If men are "biologically" attracted to teens, they need to stop being teachersIt’s why men are extra protective of daughters etc. THEY KNOW IT ALREADY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:31 AM |
| 4 | I was so inspired by the ladies who bought themselves rings, I started searching the internet immediately for a diamond one. I finally found one I loved, waited for Black Friday, and scored an amazing deal on a ring originally priced at $1500!! Don’t wait for a man to make you happy :)Looks so pretty, I love it, go you! I did the same a few years ago after getting out of a 6 year abusive relationship., where it took him 5 years to put an engagement ring on my finger and then decide at the last minute he didn’t want to marry me. I was such a pick me and had no self confidence. It felt so amazing at the time to buy a gorgeous diamond ring for myself. My ex chose my engagement ring, I chose my next ring. 2 months ago I bought another one for myself on my other hand. It’s so empo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:43 AM |
| 39 | Probably one of the most thoughtless gifts to be given, and absolutely rampant around the holiday season. No thank you! ✋I was hoping for a happy ending, like, she dumped him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 10:51 PM |
| 38 | Probably one of the most thoughtless gifts to be given, and absolutely rampant around the holiday season. No thank you! ✋“one year”....... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 10:10 PM |
| 39 | Look at this incel bullshit, they've put "sex" under basic physiological needs. Normalizing rape logic as "education" 🙄🤮Absolutely right, I think there is a term for it though......give me a minute...oh yeah, sexual desire. It’s a desire NOT a freaking need! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:43 AM |
| 24 | Same 😞I think that was the point of the post. OP agreeing that nope has ever liked them enough to do something like this. Go to this much trouble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 08:38 PM |
| 28 | My boyfriend destroyed my 7 year old Bonsai treeDefinitely abuse. And it absolutely would have escalated over time if OP had stayed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 10:30 PM |
| 29 | Guys asking to come over for cuddles?I can’t upvote this comment enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 09:58 AM |
| 1 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾Love the support in this sub, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:29 AM |
| 6 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾As an older woman who’s been married and divorced twice and trying to date again, I was having trouble admitting to myself how bad the dating pool is for older women. I thought it was just me as other women were getting dates and partners etc., and I was wrong for thinking none of these men were worth my effort. They were often divorced themselves and looking for another woman to step into the role of housewife, income stream and bedroom porn star, etc that their ex wives didn’t or wouldn’t do. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:12 AM |
| 11 | Quirks, Flaws, Traits and Red Flags - Let's discussThis is so well written I’ve saved it to come back to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Please help. This was the first person I dated after my divorce. He knew my husband had cheated and he did the same, all while promising he'd love me better. I need a brutal response befitting his scrotacity. All I can do is clench my jaw in silence.DO NOT ENGAGE! It will drive him bonkers. Block and delete. edit: re read the handbook. You’ll feel better and empowered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:39 AM |
| 189 | Let’s look up to great inspiration!And she has a HVM in her fiancé Clarke Gayford who is the stay at home parent without making a deal of it for being a male. They both get on with it without a lot of fuss. This is the value of making better choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 06:05 AM |
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