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Something a lot of these “manosphere” guys are thinly veiling and Tate is way open about: their body counts are with sex workers and OF women. Myron Gaines talked about having “3 girlfriends” but was describing sugar babies. A lot of these guys are exchanging money/exposure/social media followings for sex. Dig into how they make their money and many are invested in or managing sex workers in some capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:55 PM
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That I totally agree with. One of the more powerful moments for me was when the group of young, young fans was yelling inflammatory things about women and gay people, when they saw a manosphere creator they looked up to. Just in the street like it’s totally normal to behave that way. It could have better explored the aftermath on young impressionable minds, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:52 PM
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The documentary was clearly not “for” people who are already deep in RP/Manosphere territory. I agree that it could have been more thorough in exploring the positive sides and diving into why young men get sucked into that kind of content. But that wasn’t the point. It was for the average person who isn’t super familiar with these toxic, predatory corners of the internet. The message wasn’t intended to be positive or offer solutions. It was “life sucks sometimes; listen to anyone but these clown…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:13 AM
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Absolutely. It’s dark, but just look at genocides. Dehumanization is the whole thing. It’s a lot easier to do harm when you view someone as less-than or even sub-human.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:52 AM
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I wouldn’t say “don’t want to be associated with.” That feels like strong language. But I don’t agree with the notion of “just be nice.” A) Telling people who aren’t nice to just be nice is a great way to end up with people who are only transactionally nice. B) If you’re really just not all that attractive, niceness is not enough, for men or women. Especially if one’s preference isn’t their looks-match (and let’s be honest, that’s a lot of people). Sure, women may more easily get sex, some may e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:59 AM
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Not offended at all, and it has happened more than a few times. If people are going to be friendly, they have every right to shoot their shot. I’ve only been creeped out when people are actually creepy. For reference, that has looked like: Not taking no for an answer and continuing to circle back to my friend group throughout the night, a fairly whacked out tangent about how nobody wants to sleep with him and he understands why men just commit SA, being followed into a bar bathroom, and having t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:37 AM
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Hahaa this was supposed to be a comment reply. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:37 PM
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“Juvenile females” is the way they phrase it. Is this counting girls who “self-victimize” by making CSAM of themselves? Because I can 1000% see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:34 PM
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I’ve seen stats floating around online that Gen Z is, regardless of gender, having less sex. And let’s be honest, I think that’s what a lot of men mean by lonely. Men report more sexlessness (31% vs 19%), but women are creeping up there. That said, still a clear discrepancy. Women can get sex more easily. No argument there. I would like to point out that sex alone isn’t all that fun for a lot of women. It can be really lonely to think a person cares about you only to learn they just wanted your …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:03 PM
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Even therapists? What crappy therapists. I’m so sorry that’s been your experience. All SA needs to be taken more seriously. I get it, it’s “difficult to prove.” But it’s under reported and under prosecuted. Male victims undoubtedly have it worse in terms of being believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:22 PM
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I recall reading somewhere that male-perpetrated SA tends to be more violent, while female SA tends to involve longer periods of grooming, psychological manipulation, and a lot more confusion for the victims around things like emotional intimacy from a person that is both their “caregiver” and abuser. Emotional incest isn’t something we talk about enough, and I suspect there are some connections between it and female-perpetrated CSA.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:59 PM
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All CSA is disgusting. And all SA is disgusting. My point was not meant to differentiate male vs female victims, but perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:53 PM
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Does it? Because you’re right, victim surveys show the rate is much higher than criminal conviction stats (my bad). But it looks like a jump from 2.2% to 11.6%: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/305384459_The_Proportion_of_Sexual_Offenders_Who_Are_Female_Is_Higher_Than_Thought_A_Meta-Analysis Do you have other numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 08:31 PM
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I might be inclined to agree if women made up remotely even numbers of CSA perpetrators. The breakdown is sub 5% female vs 95%+ male, depending on country. That’s a very large discrepancy despite adult women being just as capable of overpowering a child. One could argue men are perhaps more prone to pedophilia, accounting for that number. But that’s not a solid argument in their favor either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:03 PM
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Same! Even my most crappy ex in all other areas put in effort in that department.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:28 AM
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Addiction and mental health is infinitely more complex than whether or not a man is getting attention from women. My birth dad had a plethora of partners (and kids) before 21 and he still turned out a drug-induced schizophrenic. My best friend’s husband is basically a reformed coke head. Also had a bunch of experiences (and 2 baby mamas) in his teens and early 20s. The common denominator is they grew up with crappy parents and no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:11 AM
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We aren’t as wired towards hierarchy. It’s there, but not nearly in the way it is for men. I’ve worked in male and female dominant spaces and they’re objectively different in terms of social structure. In the male dominated spaces I’ve worked in, there was a very clear pecking order, almost rigidly defined responsibilities, top-down decision making, communication moves up and down the ladder without skipping rungs, etc. Women still organize by role and respect authority, but things are more flui…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:29 AM
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One just got married at 28. Super happy for him. He didn’t date very many people before deciding she was the one. It was long term, lots of school, moves, and jobs. Took a while for him to really grow into his adult self and for both of them to be ready for marriage. The other is in a new-ish relationship. He’s had a couple short lived, puppy love type relationships. He’s only 19, so nothing crazy serious yet. He hasn’t seemed to have issues in that department for his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:54 AM
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I would be willing to bet that it’s highly individual. Do I know a few very active women with IUDs? Yes. But, even IUDs aren’t 100%. I know of a few IUD babies. Heck I also know 2 women with tubal sterilization that didn’t work (they had the less effective clip-off kind). Most women know no contraception is 100% effective and will still be selective. Not to mention IUDs don’t help the risk of STDs and encountering crappy men. If you’re already interested in casual sex, a highly effective method …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:49 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with podcasts. I enjoy many podcasts. Even podcasts discussing issues men face. I’m referencing specifically the ones who can’t seem to help themselves from bashing women for sport and it’s half their messaging. Sure, call us out on our bullshit. Men and women both need a good dose of that. But I don’t find incessant hatred to be a productive outlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:41 AM
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“Likes sex” = “promiscuous thot who’s seen miles and miles of dick?” I was married a good chunk of my adult life to someone I met as a teenager, and have a long term partner now. Not a whole crazy lot happened in-between. People can do kinky things in committed relationships. But, whatever fits your worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:59 AM
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Unassuming nice girls (who often have private profiles anyway) aren’t generally the ones the internet algorithms feed to single dudes who like looking at scantily clad women. But I promise you a lot of us travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:52 AM
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No, they largely aren’t. For context, I’m in the US. This may be something of a “hot take,” but women are used to only some men being truly desirable. For a long time, they were needed not wanted. Now, we’ve taken the need away. Men self-selecting themselves out of the running isn’t on most of my friends’ radars. Every single one of my great grandparents were born before women could vote or be viewed as legally more than an extension of their father or husband. All of my grandparents were born b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:01 AM
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Lack of engaging conversation. No interest in new things. Not curious about me. Not curious about themselves. Overly stoic. Completely fine with going to work and rotting on the sofa. Limiting conversations to how was work, how’s the weather, and what’s for dinner. We only get so many days on this floating space rock. Some people are okay with a monotonous life. I want to experience more life than that. Even if it’s just a walk around a park or a new book or a trip to a new coffee shop. Most men…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:53 AM
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I hear this a lot. Why do men say this? Is it projection because you’d be trying to have sex with everyone you meet? I can count on zero fingers the number of times I’ve had sex while traveling without a current boyfriend/spouse. As a safety measure I generally don’t even socialize beyond necessary communication with people like AirBnB hosts, grocery store staff, or museum attendants. And I’ve travelled a lot. In some rare cases, like the time I was staying in the same AirBnB for 2 months (colle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:32 AM
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Family pics would definitely be weird 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:46 PM
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Oh trust, I found one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:34 PM
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As a freaky girl, there is still a limit to the freak lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:08 PM
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I don’t actually know many guys who can’t get women who check off all of those boxes, except the “ugly” part. Dating is still a looks game, especially in the world of swiping on a few photos and a short blurb. This is extra true if he doesn’t approach women in real life. I do know a few of those - perfectly friendly and social, could get a woman if they really wanted to, but they are oblivious to the fact that women are flirting and they definitely don’t try to flirt. That said, most men who do …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:33 AM
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Definitely not gross. Just kind of… unusual to admit out loud. I’ve definitely looked at photos of men I had a crush on before. Though rarely while doing sexual things. I don’t think I’d ever tell them that before sleeping with them, though. “I was really enjoying that photo you sent, last night wink” just hits different than “I was getting off to/ogling/showing my friends your photos months before we even friended each other or you gave me the time of day.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:20 AM
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I’m generally a pretty sex positive person who understands that people do weird things in the privacy of their own home. Was I harmed by someone jerking it to a photo I publicly posted? No. Would I have even known had they not said something? Also no. Are there way weirder things to look at than a person you’re interested in dating? Absolutely yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:01 AM
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I feel like putting photos out for the public to see means knowing people may do things with them that we don’t intend, especially as a woman. But I’d find it kind of an odd thing to admit to. Not sure I’d be 100% put off, but would definitely have to take a minute to regain composure. People masturbate. They masturbate to all sorts of things. I guess it’s more flattering and less horrifying than “I used to jerk it to xyz disgustingly taboo borderline psychopathic sadistic thing.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:53 AM
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I just don’t like them. Always ended up a little (physically) irritated when a partner wears one. The material doesn’t seem to make a difference. But, I’m also not sleeping around. Perks of having one partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:47 AM
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Well dang. I really thought this was “worst case scenario.” There’s actually a substantial gap in use of SNAP and other benefits between men and women. Granted women are also way more likely to be single parents. But I’m legitimately surprised by how many people of both genders are using assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:41 PM
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There’s a big difference between preference and resentful angry shaming, though. My partner likes my body, but he doesn’t spend his time shaming women who don’t look like me on every video he sees online. I love his handsome face, but I don’t go around shaming men who aren’t my type. I don’t shame him for being a bit shorter than me. He doesn’t shame me for having partners before him. We don’t shame each other for choosing lower middle class careers. Neither of us resent the other gender as a wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:09 PM
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A) Paying for sex is not the same as paying a stripper to perform for a group. B) I don’t know anyone who has paid for male strippers. My town doesn’t even have this. The closest business is 4 hours away. C) I’m going to guess the majority of people who aren’t cool with female strippers aren’t going to pay for male strippers, either. D) Even if the cognitive dissonance did exist and someone hated men who pay sex workers but hired a male stripper - men haven’t been exploited by the sw industry in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:28 AM
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My friends are very open. Probably too open. It’s a small sample size, but we all agree too big hurts and too small isn’t as fun as it could be. So, 0% size queens, 100% care about size to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:17 AM
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Not married, but it’s been 10 years (neither of us want to be married again). Yes. I still check him out regularly. I also checked out my ex husband regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:01 AM
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“Mental labor” would be more accurate, in my opinion. Men and women both do a lot of mental labor. All the time. Just to live life. Managing your own household and your own emotions as a single person is mental and emotional labor. People complain when they get into a relationship and find that their partner now wants to just go to work and come home. Leaving them to go to work, come home, meal plan, keep the house clean, budget, pay bills on time, schedule all the appointments, keep the cars ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:22 AM
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She’s rejecting keeping in contact but not good at ending the conversation. Or, the conversation is good but not good enough to want more at a later date. She may just be trying to be polite and hope you get the memo to exit stage left. A lot of women are legitimately scared to reject a man too hard. Also- I’d prefer to just be asked to hang out again than be asked for my social media. Maybe that’s a bit old school. But my socials are pretty locked down and I don’t use them much. Plus it removes…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:31 AM
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It’s both genders being able to listen in on each other causing the decline, I do believe. Sadly, I don’t think a lot of people realize their resentment and negativity is keeping them off the dating market. And that’s true for both genders. Nobody wants to deal with a Negative Nancy or Ned for the rest of their lives. Men are pretty terrible online, too. (“Not all men,” I know). But the amount of body shaming, slut shaming, victim blaming, get back in the kitchen, misogynistic crap that I see on…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:14 AM
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It’s not just about size, but that’s certainly a factor for many women. My “best d” is the d I currently have, so I may be biased. He’s average (5 in). Something about the way he’s shaped and how hard he gets just hits right. He lasts long enough that I finish from penetration, sometimes multiple times. He can and does go multiple rounds regularly. We share similar kinks - nothing crazy, but enough to spice it up. He takes charge without being insanely rough, which I always find hot. He knows ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:30 PM
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While I have a couple “I can’t leave, the d is too good” friends, the vast majority of the women I know want connection. Connection makes the d better. But, the d also has to be good. I won’t lie and say connection will make up for terrible game or compensate for incompatible size/shape. But it absolutely can take good d and make it great d, if that makes sense. Especially when drives and sexual preferences are also compatible. The “I can’t leave” friends are frankly a little messed up (trauma, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:15 PM
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