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| 4 | I'm afraid of alienating or weirding people out when the topic of music comes upIf you love music you love music, so I wouldn't avoid talking about it cus that's just gonna do you a disservice. Although you might not like the music someone else likes, you can still engage them about it though. Don't talk about what you don't like as much you can talk about what the other people do like. Ask them why the like the music they like, get them talking about what aspects of those 'top 40' songs they like and you might find that you can relate a lot of the things you like in your f… | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Hey guys, i'm 5'6 and i was wondering is this a deal breaker for a lot of women?Speaking from experience: yes and no. It's a fact that I was told a couple of times when I was younger that I was too short for chicks. But I also sucked at life then so who knows... I think a lot of women do prefer tall guys, and for a few it will be a dealbreaker. For those few: don't fuck with them, you can do better. For the rest: Just be an incredible guy, and don't give a shit you're not tall, and then your height won't matter. You'll be fine buddy, just be confident in everything that you… | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Its been a while. Going out tonight with lots of intention and not lots of practice.Just be yourself, yo. I know it can be weird being single and trying to pickup after being in a relationship for a while. Don't focus on anything but just having a good time as yourself, whoever that is now. You'll be great man! | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Guides to improving social skills in general, especially during interviews/networkingYeah this is on. Everybody gets nervous, or at least you should if you give a shit about what you're doing. Just take a moment before the interview and just breathe and know that just cus youre anxious doesn't mean that you can't perform. Another good one I use is to sort of let the exitement/nervous energy pump you up and use that energy to get you going. | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Advice for male struggling with holding conversationDon't worry about it man, what you're going through is pretty normal for a lot of guys. Aspergers or not, its nothing you can't work on. | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Ongoing lack of matching on Tinder with relation to my photos/profile. Help.This might seem like shitty advice but if Tinder isn't working... maybe it's time to move away from Tinder. Maybe its time to start doing some cold approaches? | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 09:09 PM |
| 7 | Girls I date constantly say I need to stop being mean.Well, bud, there's a fine line between teasing/poking fun at someone and taking it a little too far. If they're telling you you're mean, its cus you probably are coming across as mean. Think about how exactly you're teasing, what you're saying, how you're saying it, and then think carefully about how they're reacting. What you see as a positive reaction may just be a defense mechanism for whoever it is you're talking to, to laugh off being hurt or threatened. Now, don't take this too far, I don'… | /r/seduction | 11/05/16 12:01 AM |
| 8 | Can't get over that girl? Do you feel obsessive? Have a friend who is obsessed with a girl? Can't get over something in life? Here's my advice.Yeah man, it's hard all around. It's like a combination of feeling like you've been lied to and led on, but you had a good time and its pretty fucking confusing. Basically, right now, my thought process is that if she didn't make the choice to love me, if she expected all romantic spark all the time forever and that it would happen naturally, then what the fuck kind of relationship is that? If she can't love me the way I deserve to be loved then she is not the girl for me. I made a choice to dat… | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Can't get over that girl? Do you feel obsessive? Have a friend who is obsessed with a girl? Can't get over something in life? Here's my advice.Thanks for this man. I got dumped over some "I love you but I'm not in love with you" bs about a month ago and this is some solid advice. | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to take girls to the same place?Well, as long as you don't get sick of the place... Shit there was a month where I took four different girls to the same art museum. It was all good, but I started to get bored... | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 02:24 AM |
| 5 | How to Kill Neediness in 3 Easy Steps (updated)Damn man, I just broke up after a year, I needed this read. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Tips on how I should go about this?I wouldn't play it like that. My current gf is one of those super busy people (although we're amid some troubles and I'm sure how much longer we're gonna go, beside the point but I gotta vent) and what you have to do is be their chance to chill out, not in a do nothing sense but in a do something they don't normally do sense. Take her to an art museum, change the pace a little. And don't beat around the bush, she's too busy to try and hang out and try and get close, straight up ask her out, or '… | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 04:55 AM |
| 1 | What to say to a girl in class who likes you?Actually anything. I'm not kidding, anything would work, just make a conversation. Shit you could even open up with a joke about how you keep seeing her look at you, just gotta be yourself with it. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Help!End it. Sounds like she likes keeping guys around her finger, don't let her do that to you. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 04:50 AM |
| 4 | Struggling. Just turned 24I was in your boat a couple of years ago. I was really lost, I had no idea who I was, my friend group consisted mostly of stoners (which isn't so bad in itself - I fucking love those guys - but not the best crowd for building ambition and passion into your life) and I could not initiate conversation with anyone. At all. I was pretty sad. I focused on my shittiness for a long time until I realized that all I was doing was just reinforcing my unhappiness. So I did some searching, figured out who I… | /r/seduction | 07/11/15 09:52 PM |
| 1 | If any ex-girlfriend wants to "catch up" what does that mean?Solid advice. It's all about what you want. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Guys who were never good at "talking" their whole life, how did you change/improve?Gotta just be yourself, but a little more vocal. Chances are there is a lot of interesting shit going on in your head, and you might be surprised to hear that people actually like to hear what you're thinking. I used to laugh all the time in my head at stupid little jokes or absurd shit that I would think up just while walking down the street. Then I decided to try talking to someone using that and then I started to make a lot of really cool friends really quick. The most important thing to reme… | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How can one remain awesome for a longer time?People have already mentioned the whole 'escalate to a date pronto' point. That's key. Beyond that, you're actually going to have to be that person you are, for lack of a better word, pretending to be. The person that the chicks fall for shouldn't be a version of you, it should just be you. | /r/seduction | 10/06/15 12:13 AM |
| 8 | Advice on dates in small towns where there's not much too do?This is actually good advice. Different settings are for different people. People who want lots of 'things to do' should go to a place where there's lots going on and lots of people to meet, such as a city. | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 03:26 AM |
| 1 | To Call or Text?Texting is best used for simple communication, like next day letting her know you had a good time. Calling I avoid because I think it's weird and awkward unless you know somebody super well but it can be good for setting up dates. And remember, there not really a such thing as texting game. Anything you want to ask her/talk about should be saved for when you see her. An what's alpha doesn't matter. She's not looking for a guy who's alpha she's looking for a guy that is confident and that she can… | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 11:19 PM |
| 1 | How to induce girl-girl jealousy?There are two ways to deal with the friend zone, accept it or move on. And manipulation? Man that's some shit you don't want to get into and something seddit isn't about. We're not sociopaths. Just focus on your interactions with one girl. | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 11:12 PM |
| 3 | 21yo, no car, live with my parents - what to do?Listen to this dude, that's some solid advice. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Creative first date ideas on a College campusIf your campus has a downtown area, take a lady there and just walk and talk. Use the scenery, shops ect. as conversation starters. If you're on a larger campus, chances are your college has an art museum. Art museums are solid because chances are they're free for students, you can come and go as you please, and there's plenty of chances to get close when looking at pieces. If your college has a music school, there are probably performances going on for free, you have to be careful about what ki… | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 12:35 AM |
| 1 | For how long did you faked it before you got confident?It's a process. For me it took 3-4 months of intense focus on the mechanics of confidence, like posture and eye contact. Then when it comes time to start really applying and building confidence in real interactions I don't have worry about where to look or how to stand. These things come naturally to me now and I am free to focus on the interaction at hand. From there it's a matter of doing what makes you happy, and not focusing on how many people are around to see you do it. When I'm really enj… | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Someone needs to say itTrying to avoid being seen as creepy really interferes with your game, and is the epitome of a lack of confidence. | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 02:20 PM |
| 2 | How to navigate the college scene as a freshman?Board games, yo. Seriously, board games with small groups are a good start for building a solid social rep as a pretty fucking cool dude. Parties, especially big, alcohol laced parties are a tough place to game if you're not the one in charge of the party. Go for smaller groups, or more specific events. At a big state school there are cute, interesting girls just about everywhere, you'd be hard pressed to find a place where there aren't any girls worth chasing. | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 03:22 AM |
| 5 | Tips for college orientation?Talk to everyone, and get everyone's number - this will help you branch out even after orientation, knowing people who know different people from you. At orientation most people don't know anybody, introducing yourself is as easy as walking up and saying "Hi, I'm ____" and then asking some pretty basic questions about them and just rolling with where it goes from there. This is a chance to reinvent yourself, you have a clean slate, no matter who you were before. Sorry for kind of just shotgunnin… | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 07:50 AM |
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