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I love this!! My mom's teachings: Get an education because your knowledge is something no one will be able to steal from you. Never go back to the place that once made you happy. You left for a reason. More plants Never give a gift of a quality you wouldn't be happy with You're a challenger, you'll rise up to it. (This is something special and secret that I remind myself that my mom said to me). Never stop learning. Have an escape plan. I really miss my mom now. She passed away nearly a decade a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:14 AM
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Putting away $50 every paycheck can add up, even if you're not thinking of leaving. Every woman should have a secret stash, especially if you're married. Doesn't matter how HV your man is or seems to be, protecting yourself has no downfalls. Ideally, having enough for an emergency flight and a deposit with a few months rent will make any horrible situation seem manageable if you need to get out immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:31 PM
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Hell yes. I'm sending this post to all the younger women in my life. "What do I need you for?" Needs to be a constantly asked question in every relationship. Thanks for writing this up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:06 AM
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As a wife, there's still a lot i refuse to do and my husband has no problems with that. I am almost never in the kitchen. My husband does all the cooking and food planning/buying. I do the laundry. We split the cleaning as needed, though I refuse to mop, dust, or clean bathrooms, so he does those all the time. I also refuse to clean the basement, so he does that since two rooms in there are primarily used by him. He does all the yard work and house fixing. He does all the bills, i manage all our…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:42 PM
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One of the qualities I hated about myself and I think that kept me from being high value is procrastinating. We own a house, it needs upkeep. I'd/he'd say we need to do this or that and it would get put off forever. I decidedly had enough. I said something like "I'm disgusted and disappointed with us and want to stop living this way. We need to accomplish tasks and they need to be done when we say we'll do it. I hate how we are existing and I'm losing respect for both of us." I think since i fra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:34 PM
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I think I had generally decent standards. Married a good man and live a lucky, stable, and peaceful life. Then FDS opened my eyes. I raised my standards for myself. I held myself to higher expectations. I wanted to be a high value woman. And I raised my standards for my husband and our marriage. Things that were acceptable before no longer were. I wanted and demanded better from both of us. He, for the most part, rose to the challenge. He met my new standards and our relationship is so much heal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:29 AM
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I'd say "hysterical" instead of emotional 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:08 PM
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What a piece of shit man. That woman has no self esteem or self respect... How could she justify any of this?!? That man has no love or respect for her. He's literally just comfortable in their relationship and won't leave so she could find better. Instead he convinces her to "save the marriage" by letting him continue cheating - which he would have done anyway. His happiness is so fucking important.... But looks like no one gives a damn about her own - not even herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:15 PM
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What a fantastic green flag! I love it. You're a badass for committing to sobriety! You got this. Thank you for sharing! I hope he stays true to his word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:45 PM
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Same!!!!! I like very specific brands and almost everything I like is hella expensive. My husband knows I care about my skin, and doesn't even bat an eyelash when I order this stuff. Hell, if he sees a brand I buy on sale somewhere he's like, "should we get a few of these?" I want to try something new? Sure. I want to buy extra to have in my office bathroom? Great idea. (The only reason he gets to even comment is that we are under a strict budget and both agreed to review all purchases for the n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:16 PM
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I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself. I'm so happy you see your worth and are aware of the red flags. Thank you for sharing your story. If I was going to engrave something on a ring it would be simple and short: "One" (you are the number one person in your life) "Only me" (you are the one who's going to look out for yourself and make sure you're getting what you deserve) "No" (because we're always taught to settle, accept, and look the other way.... When we should just say no and bou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:02 PM
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Oh same....I dated a man that was such a bad boy.... He was so cold and mean to everyone but me.... Until one day I lost that special "status" and I had all that anger directed towards me with the extra ammunition I provided him of disclosing my fears and hates. Fuck that worm. The best type of man is one who is kind and decent to everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:23 PM
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I'm floored. Wow. This has to be my favorite. I love the raw stone. Wow. Would you mind sharing where you got it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:48 AM
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My soul hurts. This quote never meant much to me until I met a woman I really liked through family. She treated me like family and would say this multiple times at gatherings and she would brag to the moon about her husband. The husband that never combined their finances with her. The only thing she knew is he ruined his credit when we was in his early twenties (somehow in his forties he's never fixed it? Bullshit). She worked a full time job but never pushed for promotions and has stayed at the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:35 AM
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Beautiful ring to end a tragic story. I hope this ring will always remind you to never ever give anyone a chance who isn't treating you like you deserve. You are beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:13 AM
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Please give me all your suggestions! I'm so picky and NEED a female lead or strong female cast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:41 PM
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Hi! I 100% agree with everything you said. I have no interest in those who watch anime, especially gross ones with little clothing, pathetic portraying of women, or sexualizing of girls/women. I do watch the good ones, and there are a few, to keep up with my language ability. One my husband found and we watched together and enjoyed was: AKATSUKI NO YONA. I was so impressed with it (even with my low low expectations), obviously the author is a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:15 PM
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My deepest condolences. I'm so mad on your behalf at the disrespect you faced. I'm glad it's getting better and I hope you are constantly surrounded by love. On your last comment: That's exactly why pre covid I'd only be in the gym at 4am. The amount of fuck boys started to skyrocket at 6am, and dear God, after work? No no no thank you. Now that I have a home gym set up, no way in hell I'd ever go back to a gym. The only person checking out my ass doing squats is myself in the mirror.... And tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:44 PM
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Hell yes!!!!! I'm so proud, impressed, and inspired by you! Great job! Keep it up Queenie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:34 PM
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I love that saying. I'm going to steal it the next time a friend shows off her new trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:33 PM
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Men's perversions are often times laughed off in Japan. You'd think with their disgusting history with comfort women that they'd do like the Germans and renounce and condemn all their wartime actions and imperialism. But they don't. Women don't mean much sadly. I really really hope there's some sort of revolution there because it is a beautiful country with good food, amazing hot springs, and a lot of potential. I did have good memories, but those all involved only women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:18 PM
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Wow....I didn't see that but at the same time - not surprised at all. That's heartbreaking. I feel like protecting children from this type of thing is so important and should be a no brainier. It always felt like protecting pedophiles was more important than the children. Fathers raping daughters goes unpunished many times in Japan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:09 PM
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Same... The world is so cruel sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:04 PM
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Ahhh. My bad. I read the title and skimmed the screenshot. Still a disgusting lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:42 PM
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I lived and worked there for a few years... There's a reason why the trains have women's only cars. The amount of groping is outrageous. I've seen men jacking off with their hands in their pocket staring at women. I've said something multiple times when I've noticed, but the gaijin (foreigner) hate is strong. You'll see grown men reading hentai with images portraying prepubescent girls getting raped (insert incel: "she may look ten but she's a thousand year old dragon in a girl's body so it's ok…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:32 PM
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Lol, that's his bench? Scrawny weak ass man-child. Notice how he doesn't even consider the cost of having a woman as a partner, which is significantly more expensive than a bench, cage, bar, and weights. Like boy won't even make use of half a weight set if he bought it. His imaginary petite girlfriend would only be there to bench. Would he woo her, romance her, feed her, entertain her, take care of her? I bet he can't do half of any of that. What makes him think anyone would stay with him? What …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:04 PM
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The ring is stunning and looks so good on your finger! Your hands are beautiful too! What lotion do you use?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:25 PM
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Having lived in Japan, I'm not surprised. What a HVM, thanks for sharing that tweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:22 PM
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I'm married and it keeps me from getting comfortable. It helped me create new boundaries. I've identified from stories shared on here by other woman as hypothetical reasons I'd leave my husband. A decade ago, when we were dating I had this fairytale love in my head: unconditional forever love. Fuck that. FDS reminded me I have conditions for my love and for my marriage. Thank you. He may be a HVM, but if he proves to be in a long con with me, I'm out. It's my responsibility to be a HVW, and his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:40 PM
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I judge everything nowadays. I judge my bosses, coworkers, friends, husband, and myself. I have standards and expectations and judging keeps me aware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:56 AM
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Such an awesome power move!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:48 AM
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Everytime this gets brought up, it's feels like a new revelation. Men leave sick and/or dying wives at a rate that it's statistically significant. Like, how does that not speak volumes on why women MUST MUST MUST vet. Because when tragedy strikes with cancer or a disease or an accident, you want a partner to help you and love you not a man-child throwing you aside and running into the bossoms of a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:30 PM
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I love all the comments here! Queens queens queens! Everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:51 PM
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And this is exactly why in every single relationship I was in from 14 onwards, no boy/man would find me in the kitchen. Oh you hungry? Me too! Whatchu gonna make me? Oh, you expect me to cook? Nah, I'm out. Gonna grab dinner with my girls, see ya. My HVM cooks 99% of the time. I've demonstrated I can make an egg, sometimes bake something edible, and reheat meals in the microwave. That's the extent of my existence in the kitchen over this decade long relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:02 PM
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When I tried to explain a doctor's appointment to my dad where I was getting an iud put in, her told me: "you don't need a medical doctor, you need a head doctor." So many men believe women are nothing without children as a default.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:56 PM
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What a beautiful man. Thank you for sharing about him! I love reading about proper men treating their woman as a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:58 PM
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Hell yes!!!! You are amazing!!!! I'm so proud of you putting yourself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:51 PM
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My heart hurt from all the wasted food. She could have saved money on groceries and time. How outrageous of him. My husband does all the cooking in the family. I rarely participate and if I do it's making eggs once in a while or baking something every couple months... But even as someone who just eats I have the empathy and understanding of the effort it takes to make meals for someone else. My husband nearly completely caters to my tastes, everything he makes, he makes with my likes in mind. He…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:48 PM
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I've had friends who quit to become stay at home parents. They were in "okay marriages" (not worth it by FDSb standards but in their eyes it was good) but once they stayed home to raise the kids, everything about their okay husband transformed into a monster. One of the women in certain is in an abusive relationship. One woman I'm really close to and sent money to help leave the scum bag who cheated on her HUNDREDS of times has just gone back to him because of money. Bastard gave you herpes and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:12 PM
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When I was dating, over a decade ago, I got so damn exhausted by these types of men. I obviously believed they weren't interested in me, because how could they be? It was a one sided conversation where I asked almost ALL the questions, engaged in active listening, and tried to empathize. After this dates, I remember needing DAYS to recharge myself. They would blow up my phone and, stupid me, would give them a couple more chances because maybe.... Somehow ... They liked me. Then a proper man woul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:59 AM
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Your points are all so excellent and well put. I really appreciate your response. Your comment about your world growing while theirs shrinks is so spot on. I'm going to shift my perspective to that when family stupidly say un-empathetic and cruel comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:51 AM
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When I was telling my aunt that I wasn't going to have kids and didn't care about getting married she was shocked. She wrote it off as the rambles of a young girl with no understanding of the world. But I clearly remember her asking me, "what are you living for?" At 17 I scoffed at that question, I didn't have the eloquence to explain or honest comprehension of what SHE meant by that. I think back on that often. She's not the only woman, and plenty of men think it too. Unmarried and/or unused ut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:58 AM
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It's always going to be too much for men like that. They want to be loved, admired, respected, revered, and worshipped without putting ANY effort in to be a man who deserves that. How dare you not love them as they are?!? How dare you have standards?!? 😂 I can't. They can take their boring sexist broke ass, shit and sweat stained selves, with their unkempt beards and poor skin to Amazon and order themselves a cheap made in China blow doll of their favorite underaged anime waifu because that's al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:51 AM
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I'm so sorry you were in a relationship that crumbled because of porn. I also believe to be married to a HVM but this sub has kept me on my toes. I've shared with him my growing hatred of porn and his equivalent disgust and understanding that it's an industry that prays on and abuses young girls and women keeps my respect for him. If he ever turns to porn, I'll be ready to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:50 AM
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"No" and "I don't want to" should end the conversation. That's not an invitation for negotiation. There's nothing romantic, sweet, or fun about doing something you were forced/coned/coerced into. Before meeting a woman who changed my life (she was a natural FDSer since she was a child) - I used to think my go with the flow was a positive trait but it was something men prayed on in order to get what they wanted. It was "fun" for them to get their way. I have since then learned to say no, and if p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:46 AM
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This hurts my heart so much. Why do so many men get aroused by the pain of women? I've never heard of deadeyes... But for that to be something men enjoy or want to cause in women - it gives me shivers and horrifies me. Like if I ever found out a man that I cared about liked that? What respect could be left after that discovery? This account and my main account only follow stuff that is of interest and brings joy or knowledge to me and I rarely go into the main subs. Without FDS I'd be blissfully…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:38 AM
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!!!! You've just added another layer to my hatred of large age gaps. So so so so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:00 AM
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I'm glad you realize your worth and what you deserve. If you communicate a reasonable need or want for your happiness in the relationship, it needs to be fulfilled consistently. That shows you are valued, cared for, and that he wants to be the one to make you happy. Otherwise, he's telling you with his actions that you're not worth it and to look elsewhere because he won't provide. Listen. Leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:25 PM
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This is disgusting! The relationship is not worth it. I had some stresses regarding my husband's family when we first started dating. It was simple, his father did not like me originally so I just pretended he didn't exist until his conservative overly religious ass realized I wasn't going to convert and that I'm fucking fantastic as an atheist. If my husband, for a moment, had even entertained the idea of forcing any family time or choosing his father over me in ANY situation, I'd make the choi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:40 PM
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He proved to her that he is able to disrespect her, to put her safety and love to the side, and selfishly engage in risky behavior for MINUTES of pleasure. She is worth less to him than MINUTES of an orgasm. She spent months working on herself, on being a better person, on learning her worth to then trash everything for a man who placed and will again place a quickie with another woman over her. I'm so sad. She deserves better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:06 PM
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