| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 86 | Confidence is HUGE in picking up dates and can not be stated enough | Fundamentals | Not_RZA_ | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 04:04 AM |
| 20 | Tips on picking up girls at coffee shops and libraries? | Fundamentals | Not_RZA_ | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Met a girl earlier this morning at a book store and she said she would be down to get coffee! What kind of text do I send to set it up? | Fundamentals | Not_RZA_ | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 06:14 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Might be uglyGet desirable skills that you then trade for income… | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Man I feel like I did mind control or somethingMaybe put that in your post description...? Tf is the point of your post as it stands | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Overthinking after a bad dateYou don't even know her, and you're in a city of millions. Forget her, delete her number, and move on | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Man I feel like I did mind control or somethingDid you get her number? | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 01:31 AM |
| 12 | 31M still living at home. Should I not even worry about girls right now?I never will get why so many Redditors jump to people's profiles so quickly, weird/stalker behaviour | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 01:07 AM |
| 8 | Thoughts on Uber money?Nope, move on man. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 03:20 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate into a blowjob in a carOh, you're trolling, got it | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 10:45 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate into a blowjob in a carIt is though...you will be paying child support if they decide to have the kid | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Between coed sports and cold approaches which has better chances of success in getting a date or a coffee?Do both | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate into a blowjob in a carDawg you paying all that instead of just pulling out? Lmao | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 09:40 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate into a blowjob in a carDo you make sure they’re on birth control though?? You can’t trust these women bro! But man going raw feels so much better lol I never use them unless I have to and most girls are down that I’ve met, contrary to what you’d think | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate into a blowjob in a carNutting in her RAW is wild bro 😂😂😂 I’ll raw dog them too but ain’t no way im going that far | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?Then you need to work on your SEDUCTION | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?You soy boys need to stop the excuses | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?Right? People on this sub just act like every girl out there is at minimum a 5 out of 10 All it takes is one girl, go find her | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?Last two are huge. It went from being a noticeable, medical condition to now synonymous with weird Now you have people like the guy I’m replying to, using it as an excuse as to why they don’t get girls | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 07:49 PM |
| -2 | How do you sleep with multiple women without feeling guilty?You weak minded 😂 get yo dik wet and move on | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate into a blowjob in a carIt's pretty rare to get one on the first date or two, especially if you haven't gotten one in a normal setting indoors. Most girls don't want to give a first BJ in a car. However, if you're determined, here is what has worked for me 5 or so times in the past. When you drop her off or wherever you guys are parked, continue talking. Then ask if she wants to keep talking in the back seat. From there, get to a make-out session. After a few minutes have her rub that area over the pants to see how har… | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 07:13 PM |
| 3 | How do you stop putting women on pedestal for their beauty ?"I really like how you matched your shoes with your summer dress." This is a fruity ass line lol | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?Excuse after excuse | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 07:02 PM |
| 9 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?Yup! Exactly this! It's how I met my current girlfriend Go places the kind of woman you want to meet is. If you don't go out often and like to read, hit up library events. If you like outdoor girls, go on hikes, to the beach, or public parks | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?Lol this is on you man. Lower your standards, find an ugly chick and get some experience You wrote an entire essay on excuses | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 06:50 PM |
| 9 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?Wtf is with everyone saying they're autistic the last few years. Quit making excuses for yourself and get out there. There are also ugly chicks in public too. Go to an anime convention or some shit | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 06:17 PM |
| 5 | How can I think of non direct opener in these examples?How many times you gonna make this post Mr. Tel Aviv? | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?Damn nothing??? Not even an ugly chick on dating apps? | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Bad at talking in generalTalk to girls the same way you would anyone else "Hey are you liking the concert so far? What are your favorite songs?" "Hey, where can I get a good coffee/tea around here?" "Hey I like that tote bag, where did you get it from?" Don't overthink it, just make an observational comment and go from there | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 05:39 PM |
| 2 | If looks are all that matterYet you had to try and dig through my profile for what? You're insecure buddy | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 08:07 PM |
| 7 | If looks are all that matterAnyway, I can only find posts regarding NBA and LA under your name. so as far as I can see does not apply to you. This is straight up weirdo behavior. You are insanely insecure and it shows | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 07:54 PM |
| 10 | What to say when girls lick their lipsThis is Virgin behavior | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 07:51 PM |
| 10 | If looks are all that matterWhen did anyone say that? | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Finding a decent gf nowadays feels like mission impossibleConcerts are easy! You just ask her something basic like "Enjoying the concert?" or "Favorite song of [insert Artist name]?" Everyone is there for the same purpose and is enjoying themselves, just say something! I joined these clubs outside of school. I graduated 3 years ago and moved to a new city. I joined a small urban hiking group, a chess club, a book club, and attend events at my main library branch. These things have attendance anywhere from 20-100 people. I live in LA so usually it's peo… | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How long?Keep it 5-10 minutes usually Build the attraction, but leave on a high point so she remembers you when you send a text later I typically plan for a few days out. Unless there was very obvious flirting/sexual vibes, asking for a same day date is not going to work with 99% of women | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Finding a decent gf nowadays feels like mission impossibleArt shows, book events, concerts, joining a club centered around my various hobbies, things like that. | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Finding a decent gf nowadays feels like mission impossibleMe, no. If that's your thing though, that could be the move I met my girl at an art event | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 02:56 PM |
| 20 | Finding a decent gf nowadays feels like mission impossibleI met my current girlfriend at a 9am event on a Sunday. I realized years ago that the girls I'm looking for are not the ones at the bars on Friday/Saturday night, but waking up early on Saturday, heading to academic/education related events | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 05:08 PM |
| 74 | Finding a decent gf nowadays feels like mission impossibleGotta put yourself in situations where a girl with the traits you are looking for, will be at. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 04:28 PM |
| 13 | Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it?Formatting my friend. Use paragraphs, ain't NOBODY reading this block of text | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 03:31 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with girl groups in the club?While I agree clubs aren't the move to meet datable women, dating apps are the worst Go out to events, join clubs, etc, where women will also be at | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 05:06 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with girl groups in the club?We call those refrigerators lol | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Help: Trying to start cold appoach for the first time, but feeling insecure and scared afMy height, age and race, in addition to the immigration sentiment around the country right now is making me further insecure You are already creating excuses for yourself before you go out there. You need to be fully confident in yourself before you can cold-approach. Girls will not feel you if you come across as weak, they want a confident, strong guy | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 01:43 AM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissMove on, she ain't the one | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 07:38 PM |
| 2 | How do I initiate intimacy?Definitely NOT normal. Girls need to feel safe, you’re doing a great job if you’ve been getting them to do so | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 01:14 AM |
| 2 | How do I initiate intimacy?There’s nothing mixed bro lol a girl heading to your place is down for something Just go for it! | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Got a date tomorrowHere are my tips for someone who has never failed a first date: just ask them questions about themselves, listen, and ask follow-up questions A sign it's going well is when she says, "I feel like I've been talking the whole time" and then asks you a question At this point, respond back "You're good, haha I like hearing about your interests" and then give a short response back to her questions and pivot back to her The biggest issue with guys on dates is they don't ask follow-up questions, nor te… | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 10:52 PM |
| 4 | How do I initiate intimacy?If they're back at your apartment, they're down to at least make out bro lol Just take a second and stare at their eyes and lips during a moment of silence, and go in for it. | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Responding to Direct Sexual OpenersOverthinking it, you want to acknowledge it, but not necessarily keep that same energy. You want to give off the vibe that this isn't your first time | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you secure a mature lady as a younger man?Don’t bother with a woman that sensitive man, it’ll create problems the enter relationship. I tired that once and it was the worst thing after only a few weeks of dating. Move on, there are normal woman out there who don’t get offended by something so trivial | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 10:19 PM |
| 1 | When is it too late to dm a girl?Yeah that’s a good lead time. I prefer 3-5 days | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Responding to Direct Sexual OpenersLaugh it off, make it seem like you’re used to it and not bending over backwards for the one girl giving you the time of day “Haha so we’re starting like that now? 😂” | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | When is it too late to dm a girl?Should’ve done it right after, second best time is now | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you secure a mature lady as a younger man?That doesn’t read to me as anything you did wrong. Sounds like she was super sensitive for no reason. I would argue that older women are easier to pull because they have more experience and don’t play games. Just make them feel desired and don’t acknowledge the age gap beyond the first mention | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Where do you get the enthusiasm to talk to women?I’m in the US, so that’s my point of reference | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 08:44 PM |
| 4 | Where do you get the enthusiasm to talk to women?Yup, if she’s open to talking to you, a simple “I like the tote bag, where’d you get it from?” Will lead to a conversation about anything you want after she smiles and tells you a brief story about where she got it If she’s not, it’ll be “New York. Thanks” | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 08:05 PM |
| 22 | Where do you get the enthusiasm to talk to women?I don’t talk to ones that don’t seem interested? You can tell from the first 10 seconds if she wants to talk with you | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 07:14 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop feeling nervous around big tiddy girls?In general, you need to control your lust. Girls can see lust a mile away. Acknowledge in your head, yes they’re big. But don’t focus on that and focus on getting to know her the same way you would any other girl | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 03:45 PM |
| 5 | How can I stop feeling nervous around big tiddy girls?Well you don’t gotta marry every one with that feature 😂 they are quite fun in the meantime | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 03:43 PM |
| 10 | Why Do Guys Think That Beautiful Women Are Harder To Pull Than Average Looking Women?LMFAO no women is ever winking at a man | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I'm officially a 29 year old virgin.GET HELP BRO PLEASE | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 06:15 PM |
| 1 | I'm officially a 29 year old virgin.I'm average height and black. Idk where you live, but being white isn't a flex in most major cities. I'm in LA where people are from all over, white isn't the majority here by any means. You need to quit blaming immutable features and get your game up. | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 06:15 PM |
| 1 | I'm officially a 29 year old virgin.1 hour old account with 25 comments already, blaming everything on their ethnicity/height, and an alcohol abuse problem. Dude I think you need to seek some professional help... | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Does a man prefer thongs, boy shorts, bikinis or no bottoms on his gf/wife, or can she choose whatever she wants & you're fine with that?Real answer | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 03:09 AM |
| 16 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItI couldn't agree more with point #2. Unless your literally 6'10 and looks are 10/10, complimenting girls as an opener is never the move. Make them find out about your attraction through the conversation and seeking their contact at the end. There is no reason to directly state it outside of a compliment on something that starts the conversation (e.g. nice t-shirt if it's a band you like) | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Am I cuckmaxxing?Its needy, don''t follow up If she wanted to kick it, she'd hit your line | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How to politely ask a flakey girl to respect my time?Your "wife" has a boyfriend. You are an unserious person | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How to politely ask a flakey girl to respect my time?me and my wife and her and her boyfriend Reading this kind of shit will never make sense to me lol Could NEVER be me | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 06:54 PM |
| 15 | How to politely ask a flakey girl to respect my time?Well you should learn the value of your time and don't give energy to those that don't care. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How to politely ask a flakey girl to respect my time?Know your worth and don't pay her no mind. The biggest flex you can show a girl like this, is that you don't need her at all. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How to move from openers to a conversation?Someone else made a similar comment but thats why I always make an opener relevant to the surroundings. For example, literally today here in LA at the beach, I went up to a girl and asked her what she was doing at the beach on a Monday. She laughed and it was an easy conversation from there because she opened up about her job and what she likes to do. It also allows you to quickly tell if the girl is into you or not. If you went up to her and just made a comment about her appearance, it's up to … | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 12:44 AM |
| 4 | How can I make a girl laugh?Be funny? This is a general skill and should be no different with girls than it is with the homies For the love of God though, do not become a jester | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 11:35 PM |
| 6 | what's everyone's body count here?LA 26M, 15 or so? 30 if we just add BJs lol, some girls I just want top No apps, all in person | /r/seduction | 02/04/26 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Confidence is HUGE in picking up dates and can not be stated enoughI paused for a brief second to gauge her reaction. She took out both Airpods and started talking about where she got them, so I could tell she wanted to talk. We ended up chatting for about 5 minutes. I also said this as I was living that specific area, so it didn't seem like I intended to hover. If all she would have said was thanks, I would've kept it moving. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is HUGE in picking up dates and can not be stated enoughTold her I liked her socks as I was walking away. First time I've ever approached at the gym. Just keep it simple and not weird. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Confidence is HUGE in picking up dates and can not be stated enoughGTFO out of here with your advertisement bro, you ain't slick | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Met a girl earlier this morning at a book store and she said she would be down to get coffee! What kind of text do I send to set it up?Oh this is good advice on changing to "Lets go out" How does this read: "Hey this is [my name] from the book event. Are you free this Friday or Saturday? Let's go out for coffee or drinks? | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Met a girl earlier this morning at a book store and she said she would be down to get coffee! What kind of text do I send to set it up?To me that just seems like too much for a very first text....I want to at least make sure she's actually interested, instead of throwing it all out there on the first message | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Met a girl earlier this morning at a book store and she said she would be down to get coffee! What kind of text do I send to set it up?Is the message I included good? Or too much? | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Tips on picking up girls at coffee shops and libraries?But what do I say to a library girl when we're crossing paths headed opposite ways? Ask her for a book recommendation maybe? | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 06:48 AM |
| 2 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?Yeah but why are you specifically there. You aren't at a convention It comes across as preying | /r/seduction | 19/02/26 07:41 PM |
| 2 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?This might be the worst advice I've seen on here. Getting a SECOND job to meet girls?! Cmon man lol | /r/seduction | 19/02/26 06:53 PM |
| 1 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?What do you say when they ask why you're there though? I feel like there are free reasons to be at a hotel bar other than during a trip | /r/seduction | 19/02/26 06:52 PM |
| 16 | What is the best career to choose where you can "game more often"This is the craziest shit I've seen on this sub in a minute lmao Worry about your future financial situation and what you actually enjoy doing, and not prioritize women within that... | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 07:31 AM |
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