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Personally I think the reason that men don’t file for divorce, is because there’s no benefit for them. Women can only get better from divorce: getting (at leas) half the guys stuff, custody, child support, etc. For men, divorce means losing everything and gaining nothing.
/r/MGTOW19/05/21 11:57 PM
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I Second this. It’s also the explanation why women don’t like “nice” guys. A man that constantly compromises his own values and standards, to try and please the woman, is a man she can never trust. A man that stands up for himself, and isn’t afraid to hurt her feelings, is much more attractive to her because atleast she knows he stands by his values.
/r/seduction10/04/21 08:34 PM
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Do you include sexual subreddits in this? I definitely have noticed I tend to sexualize every woman. Which is fine because I’m good at it and it gets me laid. But the last few girls I actually tried to date, didn’t work since all I was good at was the sexual part.
/r/seduction28/05/20 04:19 AM
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Learn to dirty talk. Requires confidence but when you get good at it this is the time to get laid. Since girls can no longer use guys for free food/entertainment, they only go after the guys that can talk game and back it up.
/r/seduction19/03/20 09:56 AM
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I’ve broken two sets of glasses in the bedroom. One pair literally 4 weeks ago, currently superglued back together. Highly recommend getting contacts or not wearing them.
/r/seduction18/02/20 11:45 AM
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“Texas teen gets frienzoned 170 times” 😂
/r/MGTOW17/02/20 07:41 PM
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Get your heart broken, badly!
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:59 PM
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I send you a Message, since it was a lot to type on here. I’ve been where you are today, and now I’m doing much better.
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:47 PM
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Agreed. Interview style questions and questions that are ‘yes/no’ based are a sure way to shut down a conversation.
/r/seduction15/02/20 05:37 PM
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Don’t be afraid of awkward silences! I don’t remember which book I read this in. But it’s made a huge difference in my dating life. I used to always be the guy trying to fill silences and trying to lead conversations. Not only do you look very needy, it’s also a bad way to have a conversation. Another point would be to change your questions. You’re maybe asking interview style questions, too formal. So instead of asking, “where do you like to go skiing”. Ask “what’s your favourite ski resort” an…
/r/seduction15/02/20 05:35 PM
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There’s not one way to make it work, I’ve been straight up with women about my intentions, and have it work. But I’ve also just kind of let it happen. Being straight forward about it only works after having a few conversations before hand, you can’t open up that aggressive. Example: girl at the gym I had talked to before told me I should take her number. After texting for a bit we had a phone call in which I told her I was only talking to her because I wanted to sleep with her. She was ok with i…
/r/seduction14/02/20 09:54 PM
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I explained in the comments...
/r/seduction11/02/20 05:22 PM
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How is this focused on a specific situation!? This is a post about taking charge, the picture is merely a real life example on how to do so. This is a terrible mod. Talk is cheap.
/r/seduction11/02/20 04:51 PM
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In your conversations you need to be assertive and dominant. You need to take charge when it comes to dates, especially in the beginning. Women will show that they want a date and maybe initiate it, but will expect you to plan it. Don’t ask a woman out if you have no plan. Even if you’re leaving a night spontaneous, you still need a solid starting point. Be a man with a plan.
/r/seduction11/02/20 09:19 AM
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If this article seems confusing or wrong to you, then your understanding of women and seduction is obviously very little.
/r/seduction11/02/20 09:14 AM
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Clearly you’re not highly valued in the sexual market place lol
/r/MGTOW11/02/20 01:17 AM
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Good dick is harder to find than good pussy. Stop putting these bitches on a pedestal.
/r/MGTOW11/02/20 01:03 AM
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Oh don’t worry, that was a hard left swipe!
/r/MGTOW10/02/20 08:23 PM
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Totally agree, recently an article was published about women saying there’s no “qualified men” for them out there. What they meant is that the men out there weren’t making enough money for them.... https://www.google.ca/amp/s/nypost.com/2019/09/06/broke-men-are-hurting-american-womens-marriage-prospects/amp/
/r/MGTOW02/02/20 12:13 AM
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The mainstream plantation: go to college, get a job, marry a woman, have kids, get divorced and lose half your shit? That the one you’re talking about? Because I’m very very much against that! But I’m also against the idea that you can avoid all female contact at all times. The only way to do that is to live in a cave. To me MGTOW is about always putting yourself first, your own safety, your own security, your own success, finances and health. But as men we do still have needs, sexual, physical,…
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 08:25 PM
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I love that mentality!
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 08:19 PM
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If you know what MGTOW stands for then you’ll understand that “going your own way” is completely subjective. If MGTOW is purely about spreading fear and telling men they should be afraid of women then this sub is shit to begin with. MGTOW to me is about empowering men and growing them. Not teaching them to hide out in corners and fear what the “evil woman” might do to them. Should I avoid my mom too? My sisters? My aunts? No. We need to coexist, but we also need to be armed against the toxic mov…
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 07:46 PM
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Yes, exactly! Because even common law will absolutely fuck you over. Basically the moment you let a women in your castle (home), you risk losing the empire!
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 03:00 PM
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Ok that’s actually fucking hilarious haha, I got a good kick out of that! But on a serious note, I have quite a few clients who are divorced, and literally 0 of them are pretty divorces. From dead through stress, to men having their lives and companies completely being ripped apart. That’s why I’m very much against marriage. I think if a superficial piece of jewelry and a government document is that important to a woman, they should find a simp that’s willing to take that risk, because I never w…
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 01:50 PM
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I run a company, I have clients. Not sure how that’s confusing to you.
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 01:02 PM
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Clearly you have no idea what MGTOW means to a lot of men. Sure, there’s a lot of men that hate women, and they’re vocal, but you have to look at that the same way men hating feminists are loud: they don’t speak for the majority of women. As for the validation, part of MGTOW is being secure and confident in yourself. I can promise you I don’t care about downvotes or online validation from strangers. Clearly your knowledge on this sub is very subpar, and I wonder what you’re doing on this sub. Se…
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 01:01 PM
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100% agree! That’s why I don’t date to get married and I make that very clear to women early on.
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 12:17 PM
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I 100% agree with you, there’s a lot of laws that leave men unprotected, and create a lot of dangerous situations for men! But I also believe in co-existing. And yes, there’s many different ways to practice MGTOW, it’s a personal road we all have to go down and discover ourselves along the way.
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 11:57 AM
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That’s why I take the marriage idea off the table early. I have many clients who are divorced, and recently actually lost a client I was very close with due to a brain aneurysm that was caused by the stress from his divorce. Marriage is a government instituted scam meant to lock and emasculate men, at least that’s what I believe.
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 11:53 AM
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It’s 50/50 in this sub. Some take on the victim mentality that feminists do, look at every woman as a potential evil thread. Others (like me) realize that 99% of women out there aren’t out to do evil to man. We DO need to be careful and protect ourselves against the 1%, but let’s not get carried away, we do still need to coexist!
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 11:50 AM
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That’s fear based thinking. You can’t live your whole life thinking every woman out there is out to get you, because then that would make you no better than the feminists. That’s where the screening process comes in. I make sure that the women I hang out with are conservative minded women and have similar thought processes.
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 10:45 AM
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Can’t stress that last point enough! “Leaving her wanting more is extremely important”. So many guys want to keep dragging things on when it’s going well. I made that mistake myself last weekend. Had this girl that was super into me, and then on the date I tried to stretch it out as long as possible, basically leaving nothing for her to want anymore by the end of it. Leaving when things are going great is actually best.
/r/seduction23/01/20 08:17 PM
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Different approaches work for different people I guess! That’s the beauty of the game, there’s really not just one way that works! There’s plenty of ways that don’t work though haha.
/r/seduction23/01/20 07:55 PM
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Agreed to an extend, once again keep a few things in mind: the guy is rusty and it’s a small town. I grew up in a town this size, and everybody knows everybody. Even in the city I live in now which has almost 2 million people, everybody is surprisingly connected. That’s why I stick with my original advice: practice on others first. Like literally anybody, from elderly people, to the grocery store workers. Just getting into the flow of talking to random people again before actually going after yo…
/r/seduction23/01/20 12:19 PM
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But as the comment below states, in a city of 60k people it’s easy to get a bad rep if you’re failing on 2-3 girls. They all know each other. Before you know it you’re known as the guy that hits on women creepily. And you’re also missing a key point that I mentioned; practice on others first. Being spontaneous isn’t a skill that all people naturally have. Improvising is only a good idea if you have some sort of natural skill, or a trained plan from watching a dating coach. So yes, you’re right i…
/r/seduction23/01/20 12:14 PM
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If you read my earlier comment you’ll notice I say “practice on others before going to your target”. That’s the whole way to avoid getting a bad rep. If you’re a trained smooth talker you’re not gonna have to worry about coming across as a player, same way that good salesman don’t sound salesy. I grew up in a town of exactly that size, 60k people. I never had any issues. Also you don’t really want to get into a “mattering conversation” in the middle of the grocery store. The point of meeting in …
/r/seduction23/01/20 12:09 PM
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Improvising can lead to awkwardness tho, personally I like to be a man with a plan. Like, take a quick look at what she’s standing by and making it a fun topic. It kinda goes hand in hand with practicing on other people first. When you talk to women often it’s easier to improvise. He said he’s a bit rusty so I figured improvising wouldn’t be the best way to do it! You don’t improvise your first car sale, you follow steps. But I do agree that once you’re trained, you can improvise and approach co…
/r/seduction23/01/20 10:09 AM
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Only if you’re inappropriate/ harassing people. That’s why I suggested starting conversations with other people first, so when it comes to actual women he’s interested in, he doesn’t come across creepy.
/r/seduction23/01/20 09:07 AM
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My approach has always been the 2 time eye contact rule. Once can be an accident, twice is intentional. Smile on the second time, if she smiles back, think of something to say. Easy to have a topic in a grocery store as well, since you usually have her and your basket full of stuff. You’re gonna wanna keep a conversation like this short and sweet with the goal in mind to get contact information to schedule a second meeting since a grocery store date is likely not very passion inducing. Lol. If y…
/r/seduction23/01/20 07:54 AM
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Spend some time alone in nature, I find that’s the best way to do soul searching. If you have no answer then it could be that you have some deep rooted unresolved (childhood) issues that need to be worked on! Once you find out what’s bugging you, you can start working on it.
/r/seduction18/01/20 11:22 PM
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Why does other people liking you matter so much to you? If you’re truly confident in yourself, then that shouldn’t matter. The only way to work that out is by finding out why you’re insecure. I’m an outcast too in a sense, I don’t fit in anywhere really. But I stopped seeing that as a disadvantage and looked at it as a good thing. Fitting in means you’re just the same as everybody else, being different makes you unique, special. Use that as an advantage.
/r/seduction18/01/20 10:55 PM
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Go with nicer clothes like long sleeve shirts, button ups, and blazers. No ties, too formal. You want to look well-dressed. Women love a man that’s well dressed! If you don’t have any, spend some money. Most stores will be making room for spring clothes so there should be some sales coming up. Also make sure you have good fitting jeans, a thing that many men overlook. My photographer does fitness and boudoir, finding someone that knows how to take pictures of people and find their best angles. A…
/r/seduction18/01/20 10:28 PM
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Acceptance. That’s the only way to work this out. Accepting he has different opinions, and never go into a conversation to change his mind, rather if you DO have discussions, do it from a position of wanting to learn more about him. Many make the mistake of going into a debate with the goal in mind of changing the other persons opinion. I have many liberal friends, whereas I’m very conservative, we all get along very well because we accept the fact that we will just disagree about things. You ca…
/r/seduction18/01/20 10:24 PM
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You clearly lack self worth and confidence. The only way to fix that is working on yourself and being very critical with yourself (in a healthy way). Take a look at all the things about yourself that you don’t like, if it’s your looks you can start working on that by maybe changing hair, facial hair, teeth, accessories like necklaces and rings. If it’s other things then work on those. The reason girls have so much power over you is because deep in your heart you believe you don’t deserve them. Y…
/r/seduction18/01/20 10:20 PM
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Hire a photographer. Spend $200-$300 on 20 quality pics. Get one who can help with posing and such too. I hired someone (my modelling agency wouldn’t allow me to use my portfolio pictures) and I get matches like crazy. Make sure you wear proper fitting clothes.
/r/seduction18/01/20 10:12 PM
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People will hate on what they don’t understand. Society is programmed to get into the “job, house, wife, babies” bullshit. I’ve never enjoyed relationships, people tell me “oh you’ll just find the right girl and it’ll be different”. But the truth is that I just am not happy in a relationship. Some of us are meant to be free, I’m a serial dater, love dating new women and experiencing it all. Fuck the judgment, people judge everything that they don’t consider normal to their standards.
/r/seduction17/01/20 08:26 PM
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