Not_a_robot_baby Archive

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1	Love songs by women are about revenge, while love songs by men are about heartbreak and rejection. The comments do indicate the video was altered. So that supports that there is some intolerance within society, and a little bit of progress. I am sure you are right that there are women who do this stuff to men and get away with it, also some men get away with it, if they don’t escalate to a more extreme level. I haven’t heard the song previously, it does state that the actions did not actually mend her heart. And without condoning such actions, the story relates to finding her partner cheating…	/r/MensRights	11/02/21 04:03 AM
1	Love songs by women are about revenge, while love songs by men are about heartbreak and rejection. I don’t think it’s fine for anyone to sing it. I think if you survey people on the specific language and ask them to actually listen to the words of the lyrics most won’t think it’s fine either.	/r/MensRights	11/02/21 12:48 AM
2	Love songs by women are about revenge, while love songs by men are about heartbreak and rejection. I think it’s fine to call out the issues. I feel that the comparative structure of this post of men vs women with the examples chosen is poor.	/r/MensRights	10/02/21 11:57 PM
4	Love songs by women are about revenge, while love songs by men are about heartbreak and rejection. Again, you cherry picked 2 examples from the cherry picked examples at polar opposites from the classic love songs selected to represent men. They aren’t an appropriate choice to generalize from. I’m pretty sure there will be something equally painful somewhere in rap if no where else. I am so over women vs men. All women are this, all men are that. It takes away from the fact we are all human.	/r/MensRights	10/02/21 10:10 PM
2	Love songs by women are about revenge, while love songs by men are about heartbreak and rejection. There are whole Quora discussions about Taylor Swift’s narcissism, of course it is the other person’s fault in her songs. She’s not a good representation of women.	/r/MensRights	10/02/21 03:27 PM
11	Love songs by women are about revenge, while love songs by men are about heartbreak and rejection. Pretty biased selection as usual for this forum. Broad generalist statements that have a lot of cherry picking. What about some Mariah Carey, Celine Dion, Whitney Houston.	/r/MensRights	10/02/21 12:54 PM
2	What is The Wall ? Who hits it and why ? A short analysis ! Thank you for letting me know I am not simply post-wall I may be able to position myself in another market. I have never really cared about those 6s, always a woman carving my own way.	/r/MGTOW2	18/10/20 02:00 AM
1	Thought experiment: What if men started marrying "up"? I think there may always be some difficulty around calculations taking into account child birth but I would like to see a future where marriage is seen as a partnership and if a divorce occurs there is a more equal distribution that factors in that the lower earner, or the person who stays at home raising the family, contributes an enormous amount to the success and well being of the family, and recognises that they may make sacrifices in their career opportunities and future ventures to be able…	/r/MGTOW2	15/08/20 04:18 AM
1	Thought experiment: What if men started marrying "up"? Marrying higher as in a career woman with self-made funds, or family money? Perhaps a side step from the experiment but how many fathers will support their daughter “marrying down”?	/r/MGTOW2	14/08/20 09:41 AM
4	Why do people tell me to stay away from MGTOW? Hate is a strong feeling that is not too far from love. It often is associated with pain. You did adore them once...? Now if you said MGTOW is disinterested or if the movement seemed to post more about how their own way is going without needing to reference women at all, then I would be more inclined to believe their is no hatred or bitterness. So perhaps not all MGTOW hate women, but the community seems to have quite an invasion of very vocal views that contribute strongly to the perception. Ma…	/r/MGTOW2	14/08/20 09:24 AM
1	Why I left the mgtow movement I will never know why my ex started dating me with the views he held. I was very definitely “post wall” when he met me, apparently enjoyed my company meanwhile declaring to the community that I was probably infertile and nothing serious would come of us. Yet he was the one who initiated discussions of having children and took me to a view of a serious relationship that would overcome obstacles. I’m not sure if he was trolling me all along.	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/20 09:02 AM
1	Progress is possible. I spoke up at a union meeting about paid paternity leave, got a groundswell of support, and now it's on the negotiating table for next year. The 2 that come to mind first are that women are nothing more than incubators, and his main barrier to employment is diversity hires.	/r/MensRights	27/07/20 10:59 AM
4	Progress is possible. I spoke up at a union meeting about paid paternity leave, got a groundswell of support, and now it's on the negotiating table for next year. Why does it have to be about what feminists want? If a woman supports this is it because she must be a feminist, or could it be because she wants the father of the child to be able to spend time with it? That she wants the child to spend time with its father and be able to form a bond while it is a baby? I don’t think this topic really has anything to do with making a man less employable?	/r/MensRights	27/07/20 06:08 AM
4	Progress is possible. I spoke up at a union meeting about paid paternity leave, got a groundswell of support, and now it's on the negotiating table for next year. Thanks for explaining. I’m a female but don’t consider myself a feminist. I came to this sub looking to better understand men’s issues and some of my ex’s extreme ideas. I do think I might need to educate myself a little more on feminism to better understand this sub. I am often concerned about splitting issues across genders, I hope genders can work together to address issues inclusively.	/r/MensRights	26/07/20 11:39 PM
8	Progress is possible. I spoke up at a union meeting about paid paternity leave, got a groundswell of support, and now it's on the negotiating table for next year. Humanists want parents to be able to spend more time with their infants. Care and bonding as an infant is critical to the child’s personal development.	/r/MensRights	26/07/20 10:22 PM
10	Progress is possible. I spoke up at a union meeting about paid paternity leave, got a groundswell of support, and now it's on the negotiating table for next year. Why should progress not be feminist compatible? I think it is human compatible to be able to spend time with your baby.	/r/MensRights	26/07/20 10:12 PM
2	The men's rights movement is helping to solve misogyny and the "incel problem" by addressing the root causes of that hatred In response to the original post I think that MGTOW is definitely a big problem. And it is a bigger problem because it gains attention and draws focus away from broader MRM issues, thereby compounding the problems.	/r/MensRights	09/07/20 02:37 AM
2	The men's rights movement is helping to solve misogyny and the "incel problem" by addressing the root causes of that hatred The sub MGTOW is extreme & toxic af. Having just dated someone who I now know was involved in that movement, the advice and guidance he was given was ridiculous. The parts I saw simply do seem to encourage hatred of women. Perhaps I’m an exception to the rule but I was trying to understand the issues he faced that I hadn’t been aware of and be a very loving and supportive girlfriend. It felt bizarre that I am a person who is pro-active in thinking of a reasonable pre-nup, who would put in place …	/r/MensRights	08/07/20 09:16 PM
1	Real nice subtle way to shit on men right? By deleting an image?	/r/MensRights	28/06/20 06:19 AM
1	Sometimes I feel people make weird analogies just to prove that they are being suppressed I changed my Siri voice to British male as it was the only one that I felt patient with when it gave me wrong directions.	/r/MensRights	23/06/20 09:21 PM
1	Happy father's day It’s a shame that this is all the implied positive vs only negative. As a transition out I’d like to see an alternate version with Venn diagram, some reframing of words (yes framing even just at the self talk level matters), and reframing to “I’m going to be fine”. Female here so perhaps my input is not what you guys want to hear, but I have always tried to allow for open and supportive discussion with my partners as I don’t believe in bottling things up, and I know my relationship with my fathe…	/r/MensRights	22/06/20 09:23 AM
5	People claim this sub is full of hate and sexism but twox has posts like this hit front page. Agreed, it doesn’t seem like it should be a competition between genders but more a statement that people on the internet can be horrid.	/r/MensRights	16/06/20 11:24 AM
1	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men Thanks. I don’t have a reference to back this but I have found it interesting to discover that men will tend to swipe right to almost everyone, yet women will spend a considerable amount more time examining a profile in detail before deciding to swipe, and after more consideration is more selective. Men will wait for a match then decide whether to investigate further. It would be interesting to know what the comparison stats of OkC’s match vs search look like, and what the difference is in time …	/r/MensRights	08/06/20 11:33 AM
1	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men Please provide references for studies on “averagely”	/r/MensRights	08/06/20 05:23 AM
–	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men You mentioned average men, are you saying is that not average appearance? I feel like I need a defined list of terms. Long hair does not suit my face shape better, and my hair is fine and thin and it doesn’t look better long, it never has. I think it may just be softer. Women also need to adjust who they are to be found interested in.	/r/MensRights	06/06/20 10:47 PM
–	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men I guess for me I think less about whether the person is textbook attractive/stylish and more about whether I’m physically attracted to them, I may find myself attracted to someone isn’t particularly visually spectacular, but is quite average in their appearance and style, because whether or not I am physically attracted to someone is a personal thing that is not just based on visual appearance but their energy, mannerisms, smile, the way their eyes light up when they are talking about their pass…	/r/MensRights	05/06/20 03:28 PM
–	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men Interesting debate as if a man is only viewing a woman as fuckable based on her appearance she might be less likely to view him as fuckable. Not trying to be abrasive here just considering perspectives. Attraction is complex. Thank you for sharing your view	/r/MensRights	05/06/20 11:16 AM
1	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men And is this attractiveness important to just be around someone, to screw them or establish a long term future together? Just trying to understand your view?	/r/MensRights	05/06/20 10:21 AM
–	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men Just *fuckable.	/r/MensRights	05/06/20 10:11 AM
–	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men Most women don’t want to be “fuckable”.	/r/MensRights	05/06/20 09:49 AM
–	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men As you are writing and I am replying I am acknowledging and becoming aware that perhaps society is forcing me to “settle” without me consciously thinking of it. But I don’t think that an Instagram image can capture all the things that go into making someone attractive. Sometimes I have met people professionally where I’m not even considering their looks, I’m captivated by how they talk about their work or solve problems and I feel very attracted to them. This is the stuff that doesn’t get captur…	/r/MensRights	05/06/20 09:47 AM
–	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men I don’t think it’s settling. Certainly as I approach this middle age hill I will take a good personality and character over appearance. And maybe I am having to settle because our society implies I’m now “out of the dating game, too old to be attractive to men who are seeking breeders/incubators”. I had no idea that I would start becoming invisible at 31, I thought for sure I was just coming into my prime ready for adulting. I can 100% guarantee that if I won’t have long term happiness with some…	/r/MensRights	05/06/20 08:17 AM
–	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men I guess there are always exceptions to the rule. My ex was quite concerned about my shape maintenance, whereas I hardly noticed his. He was fairly slim but his overall muscle tone and belly certainly fluctuated quite a lot if he didn’t maintain diet/exercise. I have also dated someone who was very lean but super buff as they did 2x box fit classes a day, it was nice but it certainly wasn’t a primary attraction factor, it was the sparkle in their eye and their ideas that drew me in. Maybe it’s be…	/r/MensRights	05/06/20 07:46 AM
1	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men I guess biologically it’s important that women’s bodies are accepted as being attractive in a few different forms as they will change with pregnancy. I have recently been considering how opposites attract when you are younger, and from a biological/instinctive core construct not the current societal construct, the ability to attract is more important because a woman is seeking genetic diversity and ability to provide/care. At more middle age, similarity can be more attractive, the ability for st…	/r/MensRights	05/06/20 04:36 AM
3	It's so much easier for women to be considered conventionally attractive than for men Is this in terms of first glance attractive or long term attractive? Are wit, intelligence, curiosity, adventurousness, attitude, passion not important for a woman to be considered attractive? These are where I stand out, but I don’t feel I’m conventionally attractive. Female body takes a fair amount of discipline in diet to stay in form but I guess with weight gain we often get bigger boobs as a bonus?	/r/MensRights	05/06/20 04:19 AM
1	r/MensLib is a horrible sub full of men who are ashamed of themselves So I know these subs are for men, but at the same time I’m a female trying to better understand men, how men feel and place themselves in an ever evolving society. After stumbling across the toxicity in WAATGM, I saw MensLib and thought it maybe was a healthier place. WAATGM seems to be full of men who are bitter, twisted, full of hate with some definitely telling embellished stories seeking validation from other bitter men. Is MensRights a more balanced sub to explore?	/r/MensRights	27/05/20 03:30 AM