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What's specifically wrong with your relationship you think? If your sex life is great, then what's the difference if he watches VR porn? Is it because of insecurities?
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 03:59 PM
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It seems very important that above all else you should work on your insecurities. It's damaging your relationship all around. So many boyfriends had past lovers that don't look like us, it doesn't mean they aren't attached to you. Is your sex life in danger? You say you think he's thinking of other women while having sex with you but it also seems like you're guessing, I doubt many guys care to do that, they would just never have sex with you in the first place. He's telling you I love you every…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/20 01:59 PM
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I've been a Nanny for nine years now and my boyfriend's have all felt it was a positive. So much so, my current boyfriend who was unsure about having kids when he met me is fully committed and can't wait to have kids with me after seeing how well I can raise them and how much knowledge I know about childcare. He also is impressed with how much professional development I do for my job and fully believes that I'm the best at my job because of my passion. It shows him some amazing wife qualities an…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/20 06:46 AM
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Withholding sex is recommended until you get exclusivity, but it doesn't mean you can't keep him enticed. Flirting, making out, generally coy sexiness is what I would recommended before hand.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 08:49 PM
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The best sex does have comfort and sweetness entwined with the rough shit. Reading Sex God Method explains it in detail and is most likely the problem
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:00 AM
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I think it could be possible if I was lacking in the sex department with my husband and I was nagging, screaming sort of person and he felt so imasculated with me that he need his release somewhere. If we were both at fault and we both were commited to fix it, I'd consider it. But I'm not that kind of girlfriend to nag and my SO and I have a ton of sex so if he cheats that's on him, all my trust would be broken and we would have to go out seperate ways.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/19 03:23 PM
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I think that's something you should work on, you shouldn't be proud you get angry and are jelaous of things your husband didn't even do.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/19 03:20 PM
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So those nine years, you gave him full control of the money and support his decisions until it got too bad and then you took it back? I don't think you have hope for these small little weekend changes where he seems by your description not to care what you do if he also lacks all other areas of leading and initiative which is a bigger problem.
/r/RedPillWives28/06/19 06:01 PM
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Have you read the surrended wife specifically?
/r/RedPillWives28/06/19 05:52 PM
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Whoops, didn't see your second paragraph. You can tell him that you are done doing XYZ and then let him do that whatever way he wants to and not to nag or bring it up. With little things its harder because if they don't actually care about it they won't feel the need to do it but if you are overwhelmed, asking him to take over and see what happens without repeating asking or critizing is the way to go.
/r/RedPillWives28/06/19 05:46 PM
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You want your husband to be a Captain but Captains don't have to plan everything. If he doesn't find it important, it be hard for him to take that over. How about the big things like budgeting and planning for the future? Do you also do these things?
/r/RedPillWives28/06/19 05:41 PM
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I'm slightly confused, are you saying you're taking charge because you're going to the grocery store to get food? Or are you saying you do everything on the weekend and he does nothing?
/r/RedPillWives28/06/19 05:35 PM
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I don't think either of those ideas sounds particularly helpful or fun for him. Where are you going and for how long? Which of your planned the trip? What is he most excited to do?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 10:27 PM
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Oh gotcha. That's true
/r/askTRP15/06/19 08:46 PM
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How can it be a good sign she's wearing a sports bra? I can't imagine she finds a guy worth her time if she's wearing that
/r/askTRP15/06/19 08:44 PM
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They're amazing, Ive listen to all of theirs and eagerly wait for more and a huge recommend!!
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/19 09:59 PM
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No reason to think of plating as using a girl, both of you can get something out of it. No use to fuck a girl you arent attracted too tho.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 08:43 PM
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I do most of the housework, he takes out the trash and usually cooks dinner. He'll help me with other things with no complaint if I ask for it but I usually don't. Its telling you immediately tell us you make more money then him, do you think he should be doing much more then you becasue you bring home more money even though he works more hours? Do you think he picks up on that?
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 02:46 PM
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If you're curious about what women want, this is not how you go about it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 06:24 PM
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That really does suck and I'm sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 03:27 PM
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I think something that will help you and wouldnt cost money would be doing the kodo Mari method, or at least throwing things out you dont need, you'll have a lot more space. I only kept 4 spoons/fork/knives, four plates, 2 bowls, 2 mugs etc by reducing as much as you can it can feel so much less clausterphobic. Why would your parents be mad at you?
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 03:12 PM
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Mine is rented too, its important to spend some time, read articles and see what you are able to do in your small space. Or alternatively think about what is the most important thing for your apartement to do for you. Is it that you want clean up to be 5 minutes at most, is it that you want to have a lot of friends over for board games, is it that you want enough space to draw and paint? What is a struggle for your house right now that you wish wasnt?
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 02:54 PM
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My apartment is really small (550ish sqft) but Ive designed it so it feels a lot bigger. What really helps is separating all the places in my house so each corner feels like a different room and we got a loft bed so underneath where we sleep we have a fold out bed for guest, a couch and a TV set up. We even have a high dining table where we can comfortable sit 6 guests and have had parties in our small space! Please quickly get another chair as the first step and then spend some time reading apa…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 02:42 PM
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Why do you feel completely fit for a steady relationship but also have sex with men too quickly because you are afraid they will abandon you? You arent at a place where you are happy about yourself and it seems you dont even value yourself. You have to start your process by asking what you bring to the table in a relationship, working on your confidence and figuring out how you're picking these guys for dates and why its not working.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 02:14 PM
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I think it's really telling that you care way more about his ex then you do about the fact he's extremely unhappy in NYC and isn't liking this next step. You wrote paragraphs about this ex who doesn't live anywhere near you anymore and who he admitted calling at a low point because of problems with your relationships. Lots of guys don't have people to talk to, they don't build bonds with other guys about talking about relationships and it happens that if they have no good female friends, an ex w…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/19 02:45 PM
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That usually means you need better pictures and a better profile. You should think about what sort of guy you want to attract and write a truthful profile that you think would attract him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 06:00 PM
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There are a ton of dating apps where you can have a first date every day if you wanted, that certainly increases your chance of meeting someone substantially, which is in your control.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 05:50 PM
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I mean with that attitude you won't meet anyone.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/19 05:39 PM
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You have been dating him for a very short amount of time, you are still in your honeymoon phrase. You dont know for sure if your tech start up will make you a lot more money or really how much he could possible make if he becomes a celebrity and is highly sought after. Its a lot of thinking ahead for three months in about something to find bad about him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 11:47 AM
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Stripe is saying a lot of the right things! For more calcification I suggest reading the Surrendered Wife for how submissive works in a marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 01:13 PM
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I dont know what you look like? Is your BMI considered overweight? Do you have nice skin? Do you wear make up? Are you put together? You can start by fixing these sort of things.
/r/RedPillWives01/03/19 03:40 PM
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Usually you can tell how attractive you are by how attractive the guys who would want commitment from you are. You said they were all unattractive. So you should start working to improve yourself.
/r/RedPillWives01/03/19 02:12 PM
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Its vetting. People will show their true colors eventually. Dont ignore red flags. And if there are women who will fake it their whole life, guess there isnt much difference 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/19 04:05 PM
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If you read fatlogic people who are 40+ BMI are always talking about how wrong BMI is because they are not fat, theyre strong! And they do not go to the gym, so while you're right I think its probably more important for people to talk about BMI as a guideline then ignore it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/19 03:55 PM
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Tucked in sweaters, leggings and skirts that flare out flatter me and are very feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 07:13 PM
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I love all her videos and it's amazing she recorded her natural birth! When I watched this, I thought of RPW immediately. So happy you like her :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 03:11 AM
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Yes! I love her! She's amazing.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 02:56 AM
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He thinks people should have the right to choose, prefers Hillary over Trump, doesnt think we should care about what people do in their private lifes but our relationship would be considered traditional in household duties and gender roles and he thinks thats how you should have a relationship even if he wouldnt tell others how to live. His primary concern about political things is from an economist perspective of what we should be doing.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/19 05:56 PM
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You can search conservative on okcupid, you can join a church community or multiple, you can try going to just straight up Republican meet ups. I live here too, it felt a bit hopeless but the SO I have now is conservative in the way of home and private life while campaigning for liberal candidates. So my other advice is dont give up on profiles that seem liberal. Have that first date or two and feel them out.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/19 12:35 PM
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Carole King has been one of my favorites since I was a child! I fell in love with her childrens album and now get all the kids I take care of to rock her music too!
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 05:14 PM
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Both are so good! I listened to this one with my boyfriend and we had an inspired talk after!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/19 06:04 PM
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Have you read the surrended wife chapter on this? Im not married yet but its how my boyfriend and I are planning on doing it. You come up with a number that includes all the things you need and want. So how much grocery is, any clothes you need that month, classes for the kids etc and then let him know. He then chose how much he can give you and the number is not set and is tailored to your marriage, you might have to change the amount weekly or maybe it wont change for months, it depends on the…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/19 04:59 PM
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I do sent them, I enjoy taking them.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/19 04:21 AM
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You've only been dating for 9 months and are already aggressively talking about having kids? Even if you brought it up gently at first, the fact you are already being aggressive about it doesnt sound great. Also, you don't seem to respect him and you have to, to make this work. I would say inteillgence is subjective but it seems like thats not the case for you. You know you should end it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 06:56 PM
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Aw, Im going to read this chapter tonight but I like the third assignment, its good with Valentine's Day next month.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 04:00 AM
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As someone who has been a DM for ten years, its not an ideal dating pool.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/19 09:32 PM
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I don't mean everyone uses it as an excuse, I just mean that so many people are saying I have depression so I ate an entire pizza today lmao gyms suck. And it's like what? ​ But that's why I don't really need to have red flags because it's usually announced. Are people that you're interesting in saying it but then you don't really pay any mind to it- or they don't even know it themselves?
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 06:30 AM
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Everyone I know, talks constantly and exhaustively about their mental illness - using it mostly as excuses. Is that not true where you are?
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 05:29 AM
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25 Things I Like About Myself My confidence My intelligence My ability to comfort children My ability to discipline children My voice when I sing My writing ability My patience I’m not a radical leftist I’m good at being engaging in conversation I’m professional at a job where lots of people aren’t I don’t use my depression and anxiety as an excuse I don’t have debt I like my freckles I like that I enjoy planning and find it relaxing I like that people look to me for answers I like that I have s…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 08:39 PM
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I think this chapter explains that men dont want completely helpless wives otherwise he would have been fine with Dora.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 07:23 PM
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You got to go on dates! Get out there, just have a ton of first dates and dont find reasons to hate them. To find the man of your dreams you got to put in time and effort with first dates.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/19 05:47 AM
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That's great! And thats fair, I dont like being told to do by others but its different for me with an SO. :) Tell me if you find the YouTuber any good or if you want someone different.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 05:19 AM
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I'm a Nanny so I take care of kids all day, I sorta go for expensive looking mom look, at least that's what I go for. So I follow youtubers who are mothers and who are vegan, all natural, minimalistic sort of life styles even though my life isn't really there. Currently I really love Sarah Therese, her self care videos are just great and her make up is envious. I don't know if she has make up tutorials though but she has detailed self care ones that I really love. ​ I think it be great if you tr…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 05:10 AM
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It's really important not to put words in your boyfriend's mouth. It seems like he's blunt and honest, why not just tell you he finds you unattractive then? If he felt that way, he'd tell you. Also it seems he's also just telling you to wear make up when you guys go out together which is more standard then anything else. Have you met his mother? Does she do similiar thing? Is she's always dressed up and wearing make up? Also eyeliner and foundation are simple, I encourage you to look up on youtu…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:39 AM
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Eyeliner and foundation is not much in terms of make up, do you wear foundation to cover up your skin? Is it blotchy or red or uneven in anyway? Do you particularly wear unflattering gym clothes? No one can make you do anything you dont want to but if it makes him happy whats three minutes of putting eyeliner and foundation on when he's visiting you? Is it possible not to go the gym together and just have that as you time so you dont have to compromise at all? I would not like to feel underappre…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:11 AM
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Im sorry, what sort of effort are you making? Im confused, you said you were blessed with good hair which sounds like you dont put effort into it and explain multiple times that people find you attractive and you get compliments but what sort of time and energy do you do to make yourself look how you look now? What prevents you from wearing make up whenever you leave the house?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 03:56 AM
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That's great! You have a good attitude, you see something is wrong and want to fix it. This is the best place to start :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/18 03:29 AM
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Hey, first please be kind to yourself. Your marriage is not doomed, he would have left you already otherwise if he didn't want to work it out. I think it's important for you to initiate sex and have fun with it, make sure it's far from duty sex as a first step. Losing the weight and growing out your hair is good too but that's all cosmetics that will take some time, don't feel like he shouldn't touch you until then. Please read the Surrendered Wife book! It helps a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/18 03:19 AM
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Just because someone doesnt call themselves red pill doesnt mean their relationship doesn't have aspects of red pill teaching. Not nagging, letting their partner lead and being a captain are all red pill things that can be seen in relationships from people who arent considered red pill.
/r/RedPillWives23/12/18 05:55 PM
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So excited! I know my book is wrapped under the tree, cant wait to join this :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 06:44 PM
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Oops, sorry. Obviously you wouldnt have to get a high end stroller, I was looking at prices of them last night and it stuck out. There are a ton of ways to be frugal about money and kids and you have to put in a lot of effort to learn how to do that. I just meant you are going to need more then you think while saving before you have kids.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 03:24 PM
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It's very hard to be a one income family. One child cost around 230k from birth to 17 years of age and thats only a child and thats on top of everything else you provid for the both of you. Of course you dont have to marry the president to make that kind of money but you say money isnt important and you can work at what I assume is minimum wage. So how much are you saving so you dont have to work? Even putting away 100 a month is only 1200 for a year and that barely covers high end strollers.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 12:51 PM
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I think women who don't have any strive to work because they want to be a parent don't understand how hard being a parent is. I'm not a "career focused" women but I'm a Nanny and take my job very seriously, and have been reading about parenting, taking care of kids and general childcare since I was 12 and at a serious level since I was 17. My SO sees that I'm a great Nanny and sees how I'm going to be a great parent and wants to work hard so I can take care of our kids and be a SAHM. It's hard t…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 03:35 AM
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Ive seen that too! I was tempted but since we dont have a boat or care about the ocean I didnt want to get a ton of questions on it. I also like the one where its, whose my sweet potato, and the other one wears I yam. Its really cute but Thanksgivingy so Im resisting.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 09:38 PM
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Its a dress shirt with different fabrics Im excited but I like the captain idea. I really wish I could get me and him couple shirts but all of them are not good. And some are straight up blue pill with the girl wearing spoiled and the guy wearing broke. It bothers me so much haha
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 09:28 PM
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My SO knows my reddit name and I got him a bunch of things. One was a custom tailored shirt I designed and hes going to be stoked.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 09:02 PM
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You want to do this, why not? As a general rule I think you should change your style for your husband not your boyfriend but this doesnt apply because you're bored of your hair and want a change!
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 08:53 PM
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I see this a lot and I think its pretty ridiculous. Whats wrong with being called female?
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 03:29 PM
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Are you asking if you should lower your standards to what you are or do you want validation that guys will date less attractive women and still be happy or are you asking how to improve yourself? Genuine question, Im confused by what you're looking for. Im definitely dating my dream guy and while others might have higher SMV technically then him, he is everything I was looking for in a partner and more and I wouldnt consider that settling.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 03:09 PM
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Hey you wrote on asktrp too right? If you think you are a 7 and you apparently can only be attracted to 8.5s and believe that the only reason is because they wanted someone more attractice then why not raise yourself to a 9 so that you dont have this problem anymore?
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 02:33 PM
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Stop this pitty party. You fat friend is super alpha and you gotta read the side bar and stop complaining.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:14 AM
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If you have a boyfriend you love and both of you are really happy with your appearance and you never feel insecure then to improve SMV you can learn how to apply make up better, learn and understand fashion and find your own fashion look and make sure you always eat a balanced meal for energy. Always have good hygiene, make sure your nails are done and look great whenever you leave the house or just laying around. You should be focusing on RMV as well
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/18 09:58 PM
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Do both of you mostly do vanilla stuff? How about introducing new things into the bedroom? Roleplaying, light BDSM, sexy lingerie, something he can lick off you, tying him up etc?
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/18 05:41 PM
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Just because you had her at one point doesnt mean she's still into you.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:48 PM
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Okay you dont have to clubs to be fun but you told her hanging outside and inside???? Like? Thats super boring lmao
/r/askTRP01/11/18 03:11 PM
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You should be texting for logistics so it shouldn't matter
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:24 PM
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Do you really need to tell him its about that fight in particular? I think a good way to keep things straight forward and to remember in this conversation is to tell him that in no way want your relationship to look like that ever again and you're so happy your relationship is heathly but that this sort of rough play would turn you on because of how safe the relationship is. My SO and I do a lot of roleplay and we hardly ever fight. I'm lucky that he went to school to be an actor because day to …
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/18 02:20 PM
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To be safe, I think you should stay a virgin.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 10:53 PM
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?? You didnt even ask her yet? Ask first and if she doesn't want to, find more plates. It doesnt matter what girls say, its what they do.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 10:50 PM
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Sounds like excuses but do you
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:59 PM
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Idk man do you stay in instead of going out just to jerk one? Do you go crazy if you can't watch porn one day? One week? Look up are you addicted to anything and replace it with porn.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:25 PM
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When it affects your life in a negative way.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:13 PM
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You can talk about it without red pill terminology. The Surrended Wife showcases an ideal red pill relationship for women.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:05 PM
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My SO and I talk about this but she already knew TRP, if your post history is true you shouldn't be thinking about a LTR, you haven't vetted properly.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 01:58 PM
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Red Pill Women are advised not to shit test
/r/askTRP22/10/18 12:28 AM
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I think they're further pointing out that it's a more feminine trait therefore beta, but you are allowed to interpret things as you wish. TRP doesnt aim for beta and alpha traits while RPW does.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/18 03:14 AM
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My relationship is equal even though I am submissive. I trust my SO to make decisions and lead me and my opinions and thoughts on the matter are always considered. Submissive isn't a bad word, we talk about our finances and our budget but hes the one who takes control of it, paying bills and rent on time etc Its not necessary for me and him to both do the same thing, with him worrying about money it allows me to worry about other things.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 04:39 PM
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You want beta traits and alpha traits, they're not saying being a good listener is bad just that its beta.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 06:51 AM
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I haven't cursed at all? Nor have I asked you more about your opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 09:56 PM
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Abuse? Where? Because I said girls want things catered to them? My relationship isn't the most traditional relationship but I dont complain not every piece of advice is for me but you're acting like people telling you that a guy who does drugs is most likely not high value.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 09:33 PM
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If you're married and happy why come in and start fights like this? You're allowed to do whatever you want but its wild how some girls expect everything to cater to them. You can get advice anywhere, what's the point of this?
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 09:29 PM
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So just dont read this sub. You can tell what this sub is like, what's the point of complaining about something that isn't for you?
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 09:10 PM
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All captains, all first mates and all relationships are different. What's the point of posting in this sub? Just do whatever you want. I dont get girls who post here who just like the word captain lmao
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 08:56 PM
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Break up with him because this isn't a relationship. Take a break from relationships. Cut contact with this guy. Next time you're in a relationship do not read their phone. Do not snoop. Do not move in with guys you dont trust. Your life is a mess right now, I've been there and it's awful but you cant fix this and you should leave.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/18 04:18 PM
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Girls like the just got out of work look as long as you're attractive and are generally fashionable
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:42 PM
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I actually found Disney movies help little girls in the sense they want to emulate them by wearing those pretty dresses by staying still and letting their hair get braided and wanting badly to sing!
/r/RedPillWives26/09/18 12:14 PM
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Do you think he'll be upset that you want a ring at all?
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/18 08:39 PM
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Have you ever brought up that you wanted a ring?
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/18 08:32 PM
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No one should do this for you. Be your own fucking man and just figure your own shit out.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:01 PM
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That's not what a plate is
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:24 PM
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I knew I wanted a husband so I took vetting seriously but let the people who can come into my life wide open. My job is very feminine and I dont have coworkers so it meant I took to tinder and okcupid. I made a list of 65 things I wanted in my future husband, they weren't demanding so it wasn't I want a guy who is 6'3 who is a banker and who loves playing checkers it was a guy who is proud of me and let's me know it, one that has a strong work ethic, one who leads and likes doing little things f…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 07:50 PM
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I live in NYC. I'm liberal and a feminist. My boyfriend heavily campaigned for Hillary Clinton, had constantly gone campaigning in other cities and minored in politics in college. We are both extremely red pill and bascially privately live as conservatives. Since really taking a lot of the red pill to heart I've had to distance myself from my very liberal friends because they're so extremely blue pill. I've dated Republicans, some who were and who aren't trump supports and they never gave me shi…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 06:48 PM
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I mean that just sounds like a bad relationship all around so I don't see why anyone would want that.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/18 03:13 AM
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Why is it the complete opposite?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 01:03 AM
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Some girls can be red pill without knowing the terminology just like some guys are alpha without having to read TRP. Finding girls who are naturally submissive, comes from traditional backgrounds good relationship with their fathers, has a good social media are good starting points.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 05:13 PM
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I read the red pill, played around and now in a LTR. Both of us are red pill and we can send cute shit to each other without her thinking I'm a pussy. It's all about vetting and being able to leave.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 05:01 PM
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She just doesn't want you as much as you think lmao
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:58 PM
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Married Red Pill and a Red Pill Women are a thing feel free to read those sidebars.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:55 PM
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She probably didn't want to talk to anyone. But if she really wanted you and you were top priority you wouldn't get messages like that. So don't make her a LTR since you're not her top priority.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:05 PM
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When you are a girls top priority, you'll know. They do crazy beta shit honestly. They don't tell you they don't want to talk. That's very okay from a plate because both of you are doing your own thing but you don't want her as a LTR.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:58 PM
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According to red pill theory it's not okay to cheat. The whole point of the red pill is to be your best self, keep frame and fuck girls. You have to keep them in your frame and if you get caught cheating then you loose frame, also they advise no LTR anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 02:31 PM
1

That really looks like it. DM me
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:25 PM
1

NVM I read your other posts. Your frame is weak. Build up confidence and have a stronger frame, learn how not to care what other people think. You're getting these girls to kiss you on the cheek, you're able to escalate and you're almost there but you gotta just let loose and not care about results and what others think of you.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:21 PM
1

Can you tell you lift? Like is it noticable on your body? Do you look good without a shirt on etc? That's important.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:13 PM
1

Your status was raised because you were in a relationship and seemed off limits. Is there a gym in campus? Have you been to parties?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:05 PM
2

Keep good frame, lift, go out and socialize. Just follow the sidebar. How many girls did you sleep with? Just the one you were with but other girls seemed interested?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:01 PM
4

First off she didnt want you to be her boyfriend and any 25 year old who gets with a high schooler is a loser. College is a bigger pool of men and you're not matching up or your game doesn't work with more experinced women. Or your SMV has been lowered. Or you had a reputation in high school you just won't really get in college. Could be a lot of reasons. I doubt it's because you're short.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:56 PM
13

More options.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:30 PM
6

It's very possible to do make up on the train but in order to be ready for the day and just have an overall better health you need to be getting 8 hours of sleep. Drinking water, watching your diet and taking care of your skin usually gets you to a point where you don't need concealer/foundation. Showers can happen at night so you can trade that for make up time in the morning. Waking up five minutes early gives you 40 minutes to get ready for the day which is more then enough time to eat, get d…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 06:44 AM
4

You are asleep by 11 but can't take ten minutes out of your morning to put on make up? Even if you do it in the car/subway?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 06:30 AM
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Do you get 8 hours of sleep? Do you have a nice mattress? What time do you have to wake up to leave on time? How much time does it take for you to currently do your hair and make up?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 04:23 AM
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What's the problem here? You said you want to lose weight ans that you want commitment so lose the weight. I feel like you're posting so we tell you he's a scumbbag. That's not the point of this subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 08:26 PM
1

Sure but you'll get more if you're ripped.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:46 AM
2

Honestly are you on the wrong subreddit? Lift and these things won't matter. Who gives a fuck if you're nice or funny? That's blue pill shit, girls don't want that. They want someone who gives them the tingles and you can do that with a butt ugly face. Also if you are so successful then girls will at least use you so you aren't as successful as you seem
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:45 AM
1

I think there is a lot more you can improve about yourself before you need surgery lmao
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:33 AM
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Hey did you post here a couple of months ago? No matter, it's not really worth it to change yourself physically for his ideal. Most likely it's not your appearance that is stopping him from commiting with you, it's something else.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/18 12:40 PM
3

Red pill theory doesn't deal with gay relationships because it's all about the natures of men and women and how society has shaped them and how we interact together. M/M and F/F doesn't apply.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 06:57 AM
3

You're upset a kids movie is predictable lmao
/r/askTRP03/09/18 04:36 AM
1

You can give your long term committed girlfriend that you vetted completely the books the surrendered wife and for women only but you can't change anyone. My SO and I talk about the red pill all the time but it's not recommended.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:35 PM
1

Hey! Was wondering if anyone had some interesting red pill philosophy children's book they could recommend. Particularly children's book where the girl is feminine and not made fun off because of it or ditsy. Or ones where a little girls talks about getting married and how fun it would be.
/r/RedPillWives29/08/18 10:42 PM
2

Are you trying at all to have sex?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:24 PM
4

We are not suppose to give our men shit test.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/18 01:38 AM
8

Sure! But it's going to be rooted in the toxic stuff you guys were and people can move past that obviously but it's much better for you if you go out in the dating world and seriously vet and try for others. If you stay friends with him I urge you that you don't get fooled by the fact he's like kinda jealous you're with someone else and really let the new relationships you're starting really grow and really develop even if it means stop talking to him if he's trying hard to get you back. Only wh…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/18 09:52 PM
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The best thing to do in my opinion is not go after this guy. I understand why you would want to but really relationships shouldn't start off difficult. It's very hard to fix someone's initial impression of you. I do think it's amazing that you fixed those issues! That will make the dating game a lot easier!
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/18 09:45 PM
1

Really low SMV girls will shit test you too, sometimes even more then high ones. It's just how they view their worth while they try and figure out yours.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 12:02 PM
3

Lmao at the fucker who says he's the real amorale red Piller because he would cheat. If your girlfriend isn't giving you sex she isn't your girlfriend and you look weak as fuck staying with her. Break up with her and start bringing girls over and show her your real value and it will drive her crazy. Unless you don't have any real value which would make sense.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:18 PM
1

The way you worded it seemed like you aren't dating? Which in that case you don't know how compatible you really are and I'd just forget the whole thing.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 12:09 PM
2

Yes same! Isn't that amazing?
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/18 08:11 PM
1

Yeah don't set up conversation where you talk about another guy and redirect her like she's a child if she gets off track. Also nice pic! Almost sounds beta but I would have gone with just a straight up thumbs up or a "nice" but maybe it just sounds weird to me. What were you thinking for a next move?
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:28 PM
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Thankful I've been under my calorie goal every day this week.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/18 05:11 PM
15

I did it in okcupid, I went on a lot of dates too! I made a list of 52 things I wanted a guy and I reviewed it after each date and it felt good I gave them a second date. I found my guy who fits the whole list (which is crazy! I was expecting like 85% match) and he's also a lot more I never thought of adding.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/18 05:03 PM
1

It depends on how badly you fucked this up. What is the event that you guys are going to? Is your friend someone of higher SMV? Canceling on her makes you seem like a dick but you don't want to ruin yourself further.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:29 PM
1

Nah you failed a shit that and also sounds like she's bored of you not that she is trying to control you.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:11 PM
3

She probably saw some bullshit how girlfriends should know everything about her boyfriend and then got sad and asked you. She was heistant to ask you so that's good, you handled it well.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 12:20 PM
3

Probably she will cheat and blame it on her boyfriend.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:22 PM
9

How well do you feel you can take a joke?
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/18 12:38 AM
9

I had to double check what subreddit I'm in. She clearly doesn't like you. Read the side bar.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 07:58 AM
6

She won't be sexually generous as much as she could be though and it increases wanting to cheat. But some guys don't know what they're missing with sex and can deal with a 60% effort and some cheating partners never get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 08:00 AM
6

Hey if your post history is right, you should not be spending that much money on gifts for your boyfriend especially if he's only giving you cheaper gifts in return- usually that means he's not as invested, not that expensive = invested but cute stuffed animals is very hands off and makes it seem like he's not as committed. It looks like you might want him to pay for all of this because that is what you have decided other people get and it looks like you framed gift giving in a way where you wan…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/18 07:20 AM
3

Yeah totally agree- that's why we don't look at other relationships and say LOOK how perfect they are- why isn't he/she doing this for ME? You have no idea how much Jenny did and you have no idea how much she was putting into the relationship. Also it means nothing the guys agreed with him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/18 06:52 AM
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You don't have to wait for him- get back out there and go on lots of first dates! When someone tells you who they are, believe them. He's not your dream guy if he doesn't want commitment and you're not doing yourself a favor by still dating him after he says that if that's not what you want. If you want to get married then you got to date guys and carefully vet so you can do as much as you can to protect yourself from that exact thing you're sad about.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/18 06:39 AM
0

Why does this matter to any of you? If women want to have babies by themselves leave them alone?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 09:56 PM
1

Have you only been married a few weeks? I think it's fair thats a red sign if you already feel resentful for the chores you're doing. How does your husband contribute to the household besides his income?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 10:14 PM
1

Lmao I'm just answering the question
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:18 PM
1

Oh actually maybe. Well read their sidebar on how they get a man and where they're advised to look and how they vet and about alpha and beta red and green flags and if you want you can DM me and I can be more specific about how you can use their guide for your benefit.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 01:38 AM
1

Honestly ask in RPW Also always try to look presentable out and about. Get rid of all your shit clothes so you have less of a chance of even looking shitty.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 01:35 AM
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Girls want to see your strong frame and see you're high value. Then once they're asking questions they're super attached and want to feel special. You're making them feel super duper special feeding them this fake narrative that you're this strong guy whose only is vulnerable with her. It's more impressive that while she observe you you show no signs of this vulnerability since it's actually non existent. Girls are insecure and now respect you for this and will work harder on their RMV for you. …
/r/askTRP11/06/18 01:32 AM
4

How do you even know she slept with him at all?
/r/askTRP27/05/18 04:51 PM
15

She's trying to get another dude in that public space and using you as bait and validation
/r/askTRP25/05/18 07:35 PM
3

Sure men want women who value themselves but if you lied about that, he clearly saw through it, saw you didn't value yourself and used it as a manipulation tatic. Which are all not good. What's prefered here is really show you value yourself by stop talking to him complete at the time.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 10:15 PM
1

My guy and I weren't matched so high in the question match up, possibly low 80s or high 70s but he had 64/65 things on the list I made myself in who I wanted from a partner so I don't put too much weight in the questions. I just always see what questions we would differ on and then bring it up during vetting to see if it's true.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 02:51 PM
2

Yeah I only split the first date if I didn't have a good time or if it's particularly expensive. Otherwise I offer us going out for coffee or ice cream after dinner and I'll cover that.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 02:06 PM
3

Get over neediness by nexting her, rasing SMV and sleeping with a ton of women.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 01:44 PM
0

Most likely your SMV is too low for her and she's looking to branch swing. Your post even sounds depressive and silly so I don't suggest you use dread. It will just sound needy and creepy from you
/r/askTRP11/04/18 01:42 PM
2

First, don't worry about the ex, similarly with redpill advice, you should just go forward because it's a lot harder to change someone's view of you once you've shown yourself. If you're still worried about the ex, spend some extra time in nun mode, nun mode isn't just about not having sex and dating guys it's by bettering yourself and increasing your SMV. If you feel like you're ready to date then carefully vet these guys you're dating- what are you looking for in a boyfriend right now? Make su…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 12:06 PM
2

If you're getting upset by best friends test (which it's not, it's hamstring so she allows herself to cheat) then you're probably more invested then you're telling which makes sense why you're telling us you were thinking about her as an LTR. Unless you're planning on making her an Alpha Widow, don't even try because she'll just cheat and def spin more plates, it's not okay to just have one around if you're getting feels.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 11:27 PM
2

Do not soft next her, literally stop talking to her today. Tell her you're ending it. Don't explain it and block her in everything. You're fooling yourself if you think your sex life is fantastic if she will disrespect you like that, the fact you said to stop and she said sorry means she knows! You're not ready for LTR and LDR are a waste or time. Why does no one read the sidebar? So many red flags
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:43 PM
7

Obirters will still be there if it was showing she was in a relationship. Girls keep single status to branch swing
/r/askTRP22/02/18 03:38 PM
4

If she didn't dress up for you, you aren't worth it to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 03:16 AM
7

I have taken pictures of nudes of myself for fun when I just look good and I dont send them all to my boyfriend. But if he has cheated before, I would def not believe him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 03:33 AM
2

Dont think you need an amazing comeback everytime, make it natural and even if you laugh and brush off 70% of the negging but give a witty response to only 30%, the guy will remember the 30% much more heavily.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 07:11 AM
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