Noted0pin0ns Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Getting Divorced		Noted0pin0ns	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 07:47 AM

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1	Getting Divorced Hey, figured Id give an update. Not sure how to update original post (dont use reddit a bunch). We ended up separating for about 2 months, we didnt see, talk, or have sex with other people (neither of us are lying and showed proof to each other), she flew back after 2 months, we attended marriage counseling and we both made serious steps at attempting to fix our marriage. I enrolled in therapy (got medicated for ADHD and diagnosed/medicated with MDD), helped out around the house more, and actual…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/10/25 08:04 PM
1	Getting Divorced I have started therapy and starting to go to gym. Getting rid of my computer cuz I use it as a coping mechanism to escape reality. I appreciate the advice and will probably break off contact with her so I can get over her. The loving myself part is hard because at least currently, the failure of the marriage looks like mostly my fault.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/24 12:19 AM
1	Getting Divorced I didn't want to make the post too long. The in house issues were me not changing, I didn't help clean or cook as much as I should have, I never addressed childhood trauma and I was unable to properly show love. She said she felt unimportant in my life. I appreciate the advice a lot.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/24 12:18 AM