NothingFrosty2517 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	What’s the FDS-flavoured tea on cold approaches? Advice appreciated. a cold approach that i (foolishly) gave my name and number to turned into a stalker, so yeah, now it weirds me out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/22 06:36 AM
14	Instead of looking for a partner, look for the father of your children Men’s entire reproductive strategy throughout patriarchal civilization has been “coercion”, so confronted with the fact that they have to actually have to be decent human beings when women have a choice about whether or not to reproduce with them, they are losing their collective minds.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 06:27 AM
3	Instead of looking for a partner, look for the father of your children LOL some legacies are better off discontinued	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 06:22 AM
7	Offline FDS Strategies I just try to word things in a positive and empathetic way. Criticizing women’s relationships or dating choices feels like an attack on their identity to them when they’re in a bad place, it’s only possible to gently nudge by trying to build up a sense of self-worth, encourage standards and boundaries.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 05:31 PM
36	having and defining your own standards is a great first step, but keep going!!! don't stop there. Agree so much!! My standards and instincts were so wrong when I was just starting out dating! As in, they were not truly selecting for what was good for me. I learned through trial and error, but also some self-inquiry. One thing I recommend, that I started doing after reading this advice somewhere, is doing a retrospective on each relationship that didn’t work out. List what worked and didn’t work for you, what you want to find again and what you don’t want again. Ten characteristics each. Also…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 05:25 PM
4	This post will probably be removed. I think the root problem is the difficulty of managing growth. I’ve seen the content change over the time I’ve been here too. More meme posts, more man-bashing and negativity. I was thinking of messaging the mods privately so am glad people are bringing it up. I guess they’re aware. I wish them the best, since they’re surely overwhelmed. But I’m hesitant to financially support them because I’m worried this place could turn into something hateful, amplifying too much negativity. Too much negativi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 05:18 PM
2	This post will probably be removed. oh no, why was it blasted??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 05:02 PM
2	This post will probably be removed. agree, this inspired me to try to post something positive! also i wanted to name my account after lysistrata too but i didn’t know how reddit usernames worked and that they couldn’t be changed, lol 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 05:01 PM
125	A Coward Move Many Men Make and I Just Don’t Understand sending them paragraphs = giving them power. a memorialized artifact of your rage and pain they can keep like a souvenir or show to their friends. a testament to how special they are, how they “drive girls crazy”.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 03:29 PM
10	Should I go out with this guy? No. He has not reached out to seek emotional or mental contact to get to know you better. Now he wants physical contact. For sex. Block and delete... If you have good vibes from the phone calls and want to give him a small chance to redeem himself though, say something like “i’m looking for something serious, and would like to get to know you better first.” if he’s actually interested in something serious eventually he’ll pursue. if he’s looking for an easy fuck he’ll move on. also see what he p…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 03:21 PM
86	Ladies: have you ever had a successful walk, coffee, or drink date with a HVM? A guy biked with me to a cool outdoor art installation he wanted to show me once. But I think the problem with walks/coffee is it’s lazy and uncreative unless you’re walking somewhere interesting, and the problem with drinks is it lowers your inhibitions and is dangerous. Don’t drink alone with strange men period.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 12:05 AM
452	The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman. Redpill Red Flag alert!! 🚩🚩🚩 He’s revealing to you that he’s bought into the misogynistic “redpill” theory of dating, where women fuck hot “chads” when they’re young then settle down with “betas”. It’s a very insidious philosophy because it views love as a game of manipulation, it encourages men to not marry, and it teaches strategies to pursue and manipulate young girls into sex. It’s also sad because in this worldview, he’s very insecure and thinks he compares unfavorably to your college bf. I…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/21 12:00 AM
12	Incredible Story. Friend’s Relationship Not What It Seems Well don’t let him cut her ties with you then. Get her out to do fun stuff with you - a walk, a mani/pedi, a movie, whatever. Don’t put her on the defense by attacking her relationship, because then she’ll feel like she has to prove what she’s got is good to you. Just give her a space to have fun with you and maybe she’ll confide in you about her problems with him someday. Then you can gently have her consider her other options.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 11:49 PM
16	Ummm. What? is this legal??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 10:57 PM
34	Incredible Story. Friend’s Relationship Not What It Seems It seems like her life is hard because she made some poor decisions. If you’re going to be there for her, make it clear you wish the best for her, but don’t take her negative remarks to heart.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 10:54 PM
2	Weekly FDS Check-In Stop dating and focus on yourself and your life goals for awhile. Try to envision scenarios where you might meet a guy while on your own path, or while doing something you really want to do in a few years. Keeping your mind on the positive and envisioning these positive scenarios can put you in a better spot.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 09:10 PM
2	Weekly FDS Check-In Libgen	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 09:05 PM
0	Weekly FDS Check-In Not a red flag per se, but kinda awkward and cringe. Maybe he was socially incompetent and way too literal about things.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 09:04 PM
3	Weekly FDS Check-In There are good men out there! But this one isn’t it. Block and delete, it will help with NC.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 09:01 PM
476	Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapists Ugh you paid to be lectured by a man trying to break down boundaries you are within your rights to have. Get your money back.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 08:48 PM
6	Block and delete A great quote from someone on FDS that stayed with me: “let him perish in the cold, barren wasteland of your indifference”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 04:09 AM
2	Gentle men are so attractive There was an interesting study that suggested women in safer countries with better healthcare preferred less “masculine” looking men. testosterone-driven machismo confers some fitness advantages but comes at a cost, so women in developed countries steer away from it. “As the social environment shifts, so may women's mate preferences. While Stone Age forces once wired women to associate strong cues of masculinity with their children's chance of survival, times are changing. The promise of improve…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/21 05:28 PM
1	Welcome to FDS! Can I get a FDS newbie flair? Been commenting for awhile, appreciate this community.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/21 04:22 AM
44	Ladies, I think we found the original FDS member Minoan Crete, a matriarchal civilization which preceded Ancient Greece, worshiped a snake goddess. The association of goddesses and snakes was later demonized by the patriarchal societies that followed, as they tried to stamp out the folk beliefs of the societies they had conquered. In many early Greek myths and plays you can read the transition from matriarchy to patriarchy. The Greek hero kills the woman with snakes in her hair who has power over men. Hygieia, the healing goddess with a snake,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/21 05:52 PM
39	Violent deranged men be like...I just don’t getttt it- why do women stay away from me 😢Our primal instincts & creep radar goes off for solid reasons Listening to these “danger” feelings save people in all sorts of situations. Remember reading about people in dangerous lines of work and how they learned to trust that 6th sense or animal instinct.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/21 03:59 AM
6	Female pick up artists? Pfffft don’t flatter yourself men. Women have been vetting, weeding out men and voicing their concerns since forever! Don’t act brand new. Teaching women how to take out male trash is the equivalent of teaching people not to litter - encouraging trash male behavior by rewarding them with free pussy contributes to a degenerate social environment. Every time a man gets sex through being lazy, manipulative, and selfish, he learns that such behavior is rewarded. And every time a woman has a BABY with such a man - a common consequence of sex - a new person is brought into this world who will grow up with degenerate or absent fathers, an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/21 05:44 PM