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1	Do you think underlying Peter Pan syndrome is heavily influencing the relationships in America? Treat others as you would like to be treated. Men were nice, now we're increasingly not. It's not just about getting laid, but the functional polygamy we have isn't noice either. This isn't fiction mommy; this is emerging reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 08:52 PM
1	Do you think underlying Peter Pan syndrome is heavily influencing the relationships in America? We want to be treated with mutual respect rather than disposable. You women want equity, but this doesn't look like equity to me. Women seem to have this contempt towards men right now like we're below them. What incentive is there for a regular guy to be a gentleman now? It's so weird to me to see a guy juggling a bunch of women while regular guys are just treated like dirt. Then, when the top percentage men don't want to settle with most of the girls he's getting attention from (which is no su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 08:46 PM
1	Do you think underlying Peter Pan syndrome is heavily influencing the relationships in America? Haha. You don't see what's happening already? It's a whole polarizing political movement. I don't know what's going to happen, but there's plenty happening already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 08:36 PM
1	Do you think underlying Peter Pan syndrome is heavily influencing the relationships in America? Tell that to the other men who'd been treated like dirt in college or even high school., or men who's got a regular job. Keep calling us "loser" and "silly". We'll continue to grow in numbers. We have nothing to lose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 08:28 PM
1	Do you think underlying Peter Pan syndrome is heavily influencing the relationships in America? It's wrong that some men are juggling multiple women at once while guys like me are treated like trash. As long as people like you exist, I will continue building and perpetuating ideas for the red pill community.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 08:25 PM
1	Do you think underlying Peter Pan syndrome is heavily influencing the relationships in America? So, I'm a loser, and how you're treating me right now is evidence to my argument. I thought women wanted men to be vulnerable and open too, but I guess when we do we're called names like "loser". But, it's the truth. I dropped out of college because girls weren't treating me well at all and the boys with cars, looks, and money were getting laid. left and right. I am still am immensely jealous, so here I am adding fuel to the fire and collaborating amongst other men like me. It's wrong that some …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 08:20 PM
0	Do you think underlying Peter Pan syndrome is heavily influencing the relationships in America? When I was in California and going through college, I didn't have a car or money so all the girls just ghosted me or didn't consider me. It was hard to concentrate on studying when your guy friends who are well off are getting laid left and right. I ended up dropping out eventually. It's hard to concentrate in school in general when girls just treat you like dirt. It gets even worse if you're on the workforce with no degree. If a girl finds out you got a regular job, they just don't respond anym…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 08:03 PM
0	Do you think underlying Peter Pan syndrome is heavily influencing the relationships in America? From my personal experience, it's hard to focus on studying when your crush is the popular guy's side fling, or that all the girls won't bat an eye at ya. It's also generally hard to get any type of support as a guy other than from parents as a young boy. So, it's a good idea to make sure you're born with parents that have enough resources to make sure you've got enough resources yourself, such as nice clothes and a car, so you register on a girl's radar if ya know what I mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 07:55 PM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? I just realized the alternative. My framework is secular in nature, but enforcement of the structures that stabilize monogamous relationships and enforce chastity turns out to be ethical and philosophical in nature, but it can only be upheld if there is a belief that there are repercussions for unethical behavior. Turns out it's faith. We got to go back to God. I think the Catholic or Jewish route fits very well, but my hunch is Protestants or others that I'm not too familiar with may work just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 04:27 PM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? Okay, so you're arguing that using artificial intelligence will inhibit me from building my own critical thinking. I think that's a possibility for some people, but I don't think it's happening with me. Outside of GPT, I do study textbooks and take tests and all of those kinds of things and college and all that stuff. I think it's important to have a proper knowledge base to use artificial intelligence and have artificial intelligence sort of magnify those ideas. I do think about what other peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 01:12 AM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? I don't think you understand. Sure, since you know physiology, then you understand where what the neocortex is and what the lizard brain is. I give you that. The truth is, the truth is, you know what I mean? The truth is this. Women are overstimulated through social media validation and perception of accessibility to the upper hierarchy of men. This magnifies hypergamy. On the other hand, men are overstimulated by pr0n and it's creating hypersexuality. Actually, it's causing hypersexuality on bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 12:55 AM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? Oh, my mistake. I thought it was psychology. But you said physiology. But yeah, if you're interested, the civilization-wide problem is rooted in psychology. But that's not your interest, so, but if you really want to know a solution, it's rooted in that. That is IF you want to help bring solutions to the table.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 12:32 AM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? For someone with a degree in psychology you sure don't have a solid foundation in understanding this civilization-wide problem. The red pill is a symptom of the impending population collapse in the first world countries. If you want solutions, you would learn about supernormal stimuli. But I don't think you're looking for solutions. You're looking for a battle of ego. Probably because your ego is pretty large.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 12:30 AM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? Ad hominem. Anyway, buddy boy. I know GPT when I see it. He's practically my second brain, and I know when somebody uses him because, he now mirrors some of my characteristics. You probably don't even know what a neocortex is, let alone what a lizard brain is. If you're too lazy to understand what super normal stimuli is, I highly doubt that you know the different parts of the brain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 12:13 AM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? My buddy GPT wasn't cooperating with you was he? I'm pretty sure you tried to use him. But, your knowledge base isn't cohesive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 11:59 PM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? I’m not using AI to cut corners—I’m using it to stay accurate and grounded in reality. There’s a difference between forming a clear, data-driven argument and just shooting from the hip with assumptions. Even if you used AI, it wouldn’t help unless your thinking was grounded to begin with. Tools don’t magically fix incoherence—they just scale it. Also, about the generalization—yes, men do tend to be more object- and tool-oriented. That’s rooted in evolutionary roles, not dysfunction. It’s not a f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 11:47 PM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? But yeah, some of your previous comments was hard to decipher because it was a lot of illogical things that was talked about and it wasn't flowing properly. So I just didn't want to like, I didn't want to decipher that. So I used him to decipher what you were saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 11:36 PM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? Gpt picked up on some of my personality traits. Lizard brain is something I usually talk about. You definitely used GPT too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 11:31 PM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? To learn a lot of these concepts yes. I'm too lazy to write out everything and deconstruct arguments and then reconstruct arguments based on psychological concepts. It's very dense information, and usually it would take hours or even a day to put these ideas together. But a lot of it is very original to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 11:26 PM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? The solution is to pull away from the systems that distort our instincts. Social media didn’t just "connect" us, but reprogrammed us, feeding us junk content designed to spike dopamine while delivering no real connection or insight. We need to start using the internet as a tool; not a habitat. That means prioritizing high-signal, information-dense content and actively avoiding environments built to maximize scrolling, novelty, and distraction. YouTube, for example, can be used for deep learning,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 11:23 PM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? The issue isn’t that we need to reconstruct human connection, but rather it’s that we’ve forgotten what real connection actually requires. The architecture is already built into us. But modern tools like social media offer synthetic substitutes that mimic connection without ever completing it. For a connection to be authentic and structurally complete, all five core dimensions must be present simultaneously: Spatial contact - We evolved to bond through real-world physical presence and repetition…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 11:05 PM
2	What is toxic masculinity to you? We’re not arguing the same thing. I’m pointing to how modern tech and evolutionary psychology have created a system where most men are invisible, while a small percentage get all the attention. That’s not a “both sides” issue, it’s a structural issue. Yes, women compete, but from a place of abundance. Men compete just to get noticed. Tinder data: women swipe right on 4.5% of men Pew: 63% of young men are single vs. 34% of women Hinge: women get 10–20x the inbound attention Saying “men just need …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 01:17 PM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? Just to clarify, you misread my point. I wasn’t saying effort, sincerity, and emotional depth started paying off. I said they stopped. Men leaned into those traits because they believed they mattered. But in the modern environment, especially with dating apps and algorithm-driven social platforms, that effort often goes unnoticed or unrewarded. That’s the disillusionment I was pointing to. Your response also paints with an incredibly broad brush. Saying Boomer fathers failed, men didn’t evolve, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 12:31 PM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? Sure, pink used to be for boys and in some places men held hands. But bringing that up in a conversation about biological masculinity is like saying “Romans did butt stuff, therefore gender is fluid.” It’s missing the point entirely. Surface-level customs change. You can dress it in lace, paint it pink, or hold hands in a toga, but the core masculine behaviors such as status-seeking, physical dominance, and risk-taking show up over and over again across history and cultures. Why? Because they’re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/25 04:13 AM
2	What is toxic masculinity to you? Sure, our understanding of gravity evolves, but that doesn’t mean gravity itself is a guess. Gravity still pulls you down whether you “comprehend” it or not. Same with masculinity. We can debate how it’s expressed in different cultures, but the underlying biological patterns, such as testosterone-linked behavior, risk tolerance, and dominance displays, are observable and repeats across time and species. Calling it all a “guess” ignores the biological substrate we’re building those cultural inter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 11:19 PM
3	What is toxic masculinity to you? That logic assumes meaning is purely constructed, but we don’t get to define reality from scratch. Biology exists whether we label it or not. You can’t redefine gravity, and you can’t redefine evolution. Our ideas might shape how we talk about masculinity, but the underlying drives come from nature, not just language.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 10:56 PM
2	What is toxic masculinity to you? Masculinity is rooted in biology, and you see the same traits in nature such as dominance, risk-taking, status-seeking. “Toxic” masculinity isn’t innate, it’s what happens when those instincts get hijacked by supernormal stimuli like social media, dating apps, broken feedback loops. It's not masculinity that's the problem, it's the distortion caused by modern technology. We largely didn't anticipate these effects when our modern technology was invented. The real problem is that our species evolu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 10:02 PM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? Calling Romanticism “lipstick on a pig” sidesteps what I was saying. I wasn’t defending it. I was explaining how the disconnect between the ideal and the reality is what broke people. The system stopped rewarding genuine effort, and a whole generation of men started noticing the script didn’t match the outcome. That dissonance is the story and not whether the script was ever perfect to begin with. See, men saw that effort, sincerity, and emotional depth stopped paying off. Meanwhile, women are n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 09:30 PM
4	What is toxic masculinity to you? There’s tons of biological evidence behind mate selection. Hypergamy isn’t a social myth. Women favor high-status, dominant men across cultures, and it tracks with hormonal shifts and evolutionary strategy. You can’t just wish away millions of years of sexual selection because it’s inconvenient. Social constructs sit on top of biology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 09:26 PM
1	Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance. Honestly, this post actually touches on something deeper than people realize. A lot of the old-school purity culture stuff was framed in a way that made people feel ashamed, but what they were trying to warn about is pair bonding, emotional burnout, emptiness. It wasn't totally wrong. They just didn’t have the language for it, and wrapped it in fear instead of science. There’s actual biology behind this. When women have sex, they release oxytocin, which reinforces emotional attachment and bondin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 08:07 PM
0	What is toxic masculinity to you? I grew up through the 90s and 2000s, and I’ve watched the collapse of Romanticism happen in real time. Back then, mainstream culture was still holding onto this idea of love as something deep, something personal. Movies, music, even commercials painted a picture of emotional connection, soulmates, and loyalty. But under the surface, things were already changing. By the early 2000s, you started to see a cultural fracture. The rise of emocore and metalcore, and they weren’t just music trends. They…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 07:50 PM
4	What is toxic masculinity to you? Toxic masculinity, in most cases, isn’t some core defect in men, but rather the behavioral adaptation for a rigged dating market where only a small % of men are rewarded and the rest are ignored or ridiculed. When: 80–90% of women chase the top 10–20% of men The majority of men are treated as invisible or disposable Female validation is concentrated, and male validation is extinct You create hyper-competition, bitterness, and identity disintegration. Men start mimicking what they think women wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 06:14 PM
2	If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex is Oh ya. my bad. I only read the first sentence. I have a bad habit of doing that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 08:09 PM
–	If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex is Yeah man. I'm aware of this fetish. Some guys actually like the idea of turning frustrated man into trans women or just straight up gay. This guy, OP, is definitely one of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 04:28 PM
1	Gen Z seem to be low-key allergic to accountability Of the human animal, if we strip away the ethical framework imposed by our civilization, yes, that is mother nature in her naked form: war, rape, death, and torture. Outside the walls of our civilization, that is the mother nature we send our young men to fight against. Parallel to hypergamy, attraction to young women is no different. It's just something we pretend doesn't exist. It's there whether we like it or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 03:57 AM
1	Gen Z seem to be low-key allergic to accountability It's real historical facts. Look it up instead of trying to just call me names. I date women in their mid 20s still by the way. Some just like older men because we got more money and stability and character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 02:45 AM
–	Gen Z seem to be low-key allergic to accountability I'm not saying I dated minors. I'm saying that attraction was expressed toward me. It's not something I acted on, and I'm not trying to sexualize people. By the way, the human species is estimated to be about 300,000 years old. It wasn't until recent history that we've made the age of consent 16 to 18. In the 1400s, it was common for girls to marry around 14 to 15 years old. The Virgin Mary herself was estimated to be around that age when she conceived Jesus. It wasn't until the around the 17th …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 02:28 AM
8	Believing every man claiming to be baby trapped is wild. Baby trapping is real. I wouldn't say that everyone in Red Pill believe that all men who claim are baby trapped are telling the truth, but I know it's real because I have a relative that married a guy who found out his "daughter" wasn't his daughter after all. There were DNA tests and everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 08:05 PM
1	Gen Z seem to be low-key allergic to accountability Yupp	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 07:33 PM
1	Gen Z seem to be low-key allergic to accountability Yuup. Generally, American women sometimes even complain about how much you spend on them too. Say a first meeting for coffee or like some chicken or something, but they expect ya to go to a nice restaurant or something. Like, why tho? We're just getting to know eachother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 07:32 PM
1	Gen Z seem to be low-key allergic to accountability Yuup. I agree man,	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 07:29 PM
1	Gen Z seem to be low-key allergic to accountability Younger women have less baggage, are generally more attractive, and they often express very genuine affection. Most men would agree amongst each other about this, but we don't openly talk about it in front of women. Women generally get angry about it. I'm thinking it might be out of insecurity or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 07:29 PM
–	Gen Z seem to be low-key allergic to accountability Some young women like older men. I dated a 22-year-old as a 33-year-old guy, and we still hang out as platonic friends. When I was 36, I dated a 19-year-old girl. At 25, I dated 18-19 year old girls all the time, and I got attention from 16-year-old high school girls, but I didn't take action on that because of the law but it was cute. Many girls like older men and some don't and that's just a matter of what you're attracted to. What's strange is that the ones who don't like older men get really…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 07:25 PM
2	Most dating advice given to men tries to turn them into something they're not. I think this idea of men needing to be overtly dominant is addressing the symptoms of the dating dynamics of the market than addressing the root cause of the problem. In the past, women were submissive to their men. These days, it's not the case because women get constant validation now. It wasn't like that before. I remember in the early 2000s and late 90s when females were just down to earth in general and met men with mutual respect. These days, women are attaining constant validation and it'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 12:31 PM
1	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? The fact is that many of us just aren't adapted to this new environment of technology, instantaneous communication, and abundance of information. Those that actually have traits adaptive to this era are just not going to die alone. They will reproduce whether we ourselves do or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 03:50 PM
1	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? You can believe what you want, but we do have instincts and behaviors. Some animals aren't adapted to breed in certain environments too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 03:38 PM
–	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? Think about it. We're very close genetically to chimps. You got blood, organs, eyeballs. You eat, breathe, and we have hair. The difference between us and the chimp is that we can walk on two legs and we have a different kind of brain. We can choose not to partner up and die alone, absolutely. So can other animals. Animals that are maladaptive to their environment die alone all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 03:12 PM
–	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? Hypergamy occurs in nature generally, such as the primates, lions, or any social creature. The top male gets all the attention. The problem we have right now is the magnification of hypergamy through technology and supernormal stimuli. I don't have a solution for that at the moment, but we need to at least acknowledge the truth that hypergamy is a real occurrence and a fact of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 03:03 PM
2	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? I'm guessing you're probably NDP or something. I can't put my finger on it, but I doubt you're pleasant to be around in general life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:42 PM
2	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? I know someone on the dark tetrad when I talk to one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:40 PM
2	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? I can, but there's no need to anymore cause it's already self-evident to men. It's just a fact of life we experience everyday, with no question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:38 PM
1	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? The Economics of Hypergamy" by Ingvild Almås. there's a book published by the Journal of Human Resources. Anyway, my personal experiences and others as well on a day-to-day basis in itself proves it alone. We don't need a book to prove to ourselves that hypergamy is just a regular occurrence because it's self-evident in general. You folks can try to gaslight me or others all ya want, but us men know what we see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:36 PM
1	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? Damn it. I'm too lazy to do research. I got calculus to study. I was hoping you were too lazy to read, Lemme see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:29 PM
3	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? The truth that is revealing itself despite your efforts to occlude it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:26 PM
3	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? The truth that those with eyes to see can see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:23 PM
1	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? Patterns of human mating behaviour are characterized by dissimilarity and similarity of socio-demographic features between partners. The most conventional mating pattern with regard to the age difference between partners consists in age hypergamy, i.e. the man is older than the woman. With regard to education, typically, the man is at least as educated as the woman. These prevailing patterns have been often considered the outcome of a strong traditional gender division of labour, the male-breadw…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:23 PM
2	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? My motive is bringing forth the truth, but I'm willing to accept that the truth doesn't matter to you, so I'll leave it there for now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:20 PM
1	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? Men tend to couple up laterally or downward. Women tend to couple up laterally or upward. That's just the truth, but the truth isn't your objective is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:17 PM
–	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? Hypergamy refers to the tendency of individuals to seek mates of higher social, economic, or genetic status than themselves. I don't think this thread is referring to legal constraints.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:15 PM
1	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? What is it that drives you to deny hypergamy? How does it appeal to your self-interests? What's your motive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:10 PM
–	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? I can state the truth, but it's up to you to accept it. I can't accept it for you or make you accept it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:04 PM
–	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? The question is if hypergamy is real or relevant, and I just proved it is. That's just the reality of things right now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 02:01 PM
2	Why raising men’s standards could change dating for everyone Surprisingly, it was religion that helped society hold up these disciplines, namely Abrahamic religions within the Western world. I think the most notable being the Jewish, Catholics, and Protestants. There are probably others, but those ones are my favorites out of the bunch because they seem to be catalysts to highly productive societies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 01:53 PM
–	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? Let's take into account the real current trends right now: 1) Men are graduating college at a lower rate. 2) Women are having a hard time finding men who out-earn them now. 3) Marriage and birth rates are at an all time low. 4) There is an increased rate of casual relationships. (Not enough high earning men to go around.) That's the short list. There's probably more if I searched more into it. I don't blame women. I think awareness of the truth is key here. If we are not aware of the problem, th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 01:49 PM
–	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? That could be one scenario, but probably not all scenarios.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 01:41 PM
–	If women are naturally hypergamous, why do some women date poorer men? Is it really?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 01:40 PM
1	Why raising men’s standards could change dating for everyone I think men are beginning to wake up to this now. It was a strange time before the red pill type movements, because it was widely just accepted that men are supposed to be gentlemanly and selfless in all circumstances toward women. We just gotta not be simping. Also, men as a whole need to practice self-control rather than monetarily incentivize women to become pornstars or some sort like that. It's men who have no self-control who are to blame for creating this mess. The less men shelling out m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 01:31 PM
3	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. It's a matter of self-interest of those vocal about it: Young men --> don't want to compete with older men. Older women --> don't want to compete with younger women. Feminists --> any power dynamic over women such as an age gap is considered evil... It can be, but that's not always true. (There's probably more, but that's just off the top of my head.) It was only until the 20th century (roughly 150 years to this date) that western society focused on age as a hardline qualifying characteristic to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 12:58 PM