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Physical touch, tickles, butterfly kisses, initiate cuddling then most importantly see how they react to it, if they are receptive they do a lot of the work themselves at this point one thing leads to the next
/r/seduction08/06/24 07:42 PM
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Confidence is a side effect from other things that you are doing to improve your life. Confidence for me came when I learned the mentality that I am going to enjoy life to the fullest as I only have one and im completely fine on my own, i dont require approval from anyone except those I care about and lets say someone wants to be my partner that would be great to have someone to enjoy life with but not necessary whatsoever. Just straight vibin, the confidence comes. I learned to feel this way wh…
/r/seduction28/04/24 08:26 PM
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When I was a student studying abroad I started to get to know this one Italian girl in one of my classes, she offered to show me Rome and we spent a few weeks there and it was honestly the best time of my entire life. We tried to make it work out but I was just so young (this was over 10 years ago). We travelled back and forth but the magic wasn't there after a while. I don't regret a thing, things like this make my life feel cooler than Hemingway's. Anyway go for it man, enjoy every moment whil…
/r/seduction03/04/24 12:34 PM
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Even though I fucked as a teen doesn't mean it was a good experience. Having sex at that young of an age was actually quite miserable. I grew out of that phase and raised my standards. A lot of drama and bullshit happened from it since I was a dumbass kid.
/r/seduction17/03/24 10:45 PM
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Yes, as opposed to non-social events
/r/seduction05/03/24 08:06 AM
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I honestly see no problem with it as long as you diversify and spend your time with other women too
/r/seduction18/11/23 06:36 AM
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This exactly, also the girl tells each guy different stories, eventually the cheating girl will pit each guy against each other
/r/seduction18/11/23 06:28 AM
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Love being who you are and learn to recognize that people would enjoy your company. Confidence will come when you are feeling worthy of affection.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/23 10:12 PM
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Happened to me and we actually fought and I beat him down.. he proceeded to cry at that point and was really upset that he was losing his girl. I really felt bad for the guy cause he was at a real low spot. I still worry he will come try something cause i know he has a gun and he knows where I live, it's been years and nothing has happened yet
/r/seduction02/11/22 03:36 AM
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"HI I'm autistic nice to meet you!"
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:05 PM
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I think mysterious is one of the best traits for seduction so long as it is evenly balanced with familiarity
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:04 PM
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Johnny Depp is only attractive from the perspective of the viewer because as a viewer we have familiarity with him but if it were from the perspective to the characters in the films he isn't attractive to them because they don't have the benefit of familiarity that we get by following his story around
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:02 PM
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Exactly, seeing races as though they are different "flavors" is derogatory and in itself racist
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 04:29 AM
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I think I get your point though that "value" is relative and isn't concretely based on money, BUT I do want to point out that some women might be happier with a man who has an office job and makes more money and comes home with more energy than someone who is a blue collared worker who makes less money and comes home tired. But also some women might be happier having the house to herself for 8-12 hours a day while her blue collared partner works, they live on little but they are happy. Again eve…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 06:13 AM
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Not defending him but I think that in this instance he means high value purely on income and not contribution to society. Income is mentioned only because it's what he feels is the main priority for women in dating world (it's not)
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 05:35 AM
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Yeah, rather than sympathize with women going through a hard time they use the few women who are in deteriorating health as "examples" of women hitting "the wall" when in the end they lost their health for other reasons other than age
/r/ExRedPill23/04/22 02:08 AM
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I smoke lightly each day There was this one girl I really vibed with and we went out a couple times but each time we did she would always want to smoke first. So she smokes a hell of a lot more than I do, so we would both smoke blunts together and I would get so high that I wouldnt be able to keep up with conversations and I would start to just overall feel like I'm acting weird, eventually I stopped seeing her because I just cant keep up with her pace 😅 she's a friend/acquaintance now though
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:34 PM
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Yes and make your intention clear with why you want to get her contact Introduce yourself get her name and then something along the lines of "I think you're very beautiful/cute/interesting and I'm interested in getting to know you, would you like to go out sometime?" I wouldnt waste time casually trying to get her number, she can give that to you if she accepts the date. If she appears uncomfortable or gives something along the lines of "maybe" dont take the number and just genuinely and kindly …
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:12 PM
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What do you mean by the clearing throat?
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:01 PM
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Thanks for this, this was a lovely quick and motivating read I will 100% take your advice and I really needed someone to tell me to hold gazes better. I'll start working on that!
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:00 PM
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Thank you! Such cringe to see people on here all the time asking if they should approach. Just do it, if its creepy then so be it, shoot your shot
/r/seduction20/01/22 12:54 AM
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Very interesting, I guess I get excited and I dont usually back off since the girls usually seem to encourage aggression but I assume I should take it easy, it just never occurred to me to calm myself down though and I havent had a problem yet
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:06 AM
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Can you elaborate on #4?
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:59 AM
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In the end it's about exposure and tinder doesnt help men get that much exposure
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:37 PM
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Use condoms man, once you get someone pregnant half your game is gone
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:02 PM
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Agreed, context is most important. Depending on the context of a situation a good opportunity can happen almost anywhere anytime
/r/seduction25/12/21 10:38 PM
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Sick of hearing shit like this, "dont talk to a woman while shes at work/at a grocery store/studying/pretty much doing fucking anything" there are no rules like this, do what you want when you want
/r/seduction25/12/21 01:21 AM
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You can be an incel but not a virgin and vice versa, my brother is a virgin and not an incel They aren't one and the same
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:51 PM
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Involuntarily celibate, this can happen whether you're a virgin or not
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:21 PM
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I'm referring to the kind of people who would read the comment above and get upset, and it's a stereotype on this platform that the incels are the kind of people who get upset from reading that kind of stuff Also I think it's important to mention that there are incels who have had sex before
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:01 PM
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I didn't mention virginity?
/r/seduction09/12/21 02:57 PM
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I'll take your word for it 😁
/r/seduction08/12/21 05:41 PM
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It's true though, I feel so much for OP, I've never been involuntarily celibate but even those of us who get laid once in a blue moon it's so god damn frustrating But at the very least in not a neckbeard incel 😁
/r/seduction08/12/21 04:21 PM
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Also I'm sorry to say it so flat to "leave him", I'm out of line in saying that but I'm sure you understand my rhetoric that he is making a relationship impossible
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 01:06 AM
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The only benefit for you about him being a red piller is that it should be easy to break it off with him. I mean really, he is giving you 0 reasons to stay, your advantage here is that you have an easy choice: leave him Note: if he is such an "alpha" he should be able to handle a breakup pretty well
/r/ExRedPill06/12/21 11:59 PM
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Good points, maybe I'll try this IG thing, I just hate messaging first and ive still had a lot of luck so far
/r/seduction18/11/21 01:36 AM
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Yes me too, but not on purpose... sliding into DMs of strangers can be kindof weird if done excessively
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:49 PM
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Where are you getting this idea that IG is some kind of dating app? First off all the girls I've ever gotten laid with on IG messaged me first, I dont even waste time sliding into DMs. Instagram is simp territory you're just sliding into an inbox with hundreds of other guys
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:32 AM
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I'm gonna kindof give an alternative thought that you also want to limit your possible failures because rejection does in fact lead most people to feel discouraged. So I would take calculated risks still, but still make sure to take risks
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:04 PM
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Why not use your foreign charm to pull girls overseas instead? It's way easier than building a long term thing with this young woman, and theres a very good chance she will ruin your entire trip if you bring her. Dont do it
/r/seduction27/10/21 11:51 PM
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It sounds like 100% he wont change, this isnt your fault hes obviously holding on to red pill for his own ignorance and self reasoning I think you might want to distance from him he sounds like a bad friend too
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 02:41 AM
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I mean I get your concern, but you were the one who showed him this and you dont really know the full details of his relationships, best to just leave this to him. Interfering now will just piss him off. Let him seethe
/r/ExRedPill17/10/21 11:04 PM
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How so
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 11:19 PM
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But this is also a result of their parents raising them with traditional mindsets. In a way toxic tradition pushes the idea that a traditional wife is the ideal when actually it's just impossible and unreasonable to expect a wife to stay at your house like some bird locked in a cage. As a result we have a large population of incels angry that they cant lock a wife away in a tower. Yeah so I blame traditional parents
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 12:42 AM
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Meeting more women who are more innocent has really changed my perspective on this, it really is easy to get caught up in just generalizing things but it's important to realize that in generalizations begins hate for groups of people. Some women really do have trouble with their self esteems, and most women at some time or another have been rejected by someone they really liked
/r/ExRedPill08/10/21 01:16 AM
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Yeah exactly, also both women and men have no idea what they want so take what people say about themselves with a grain of salt anyways. This in no way proves TRP correct though, they are just cynically delusional
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 04:08 AM
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I wouldn't even consider it an ideology and more of rage material shared amongst angry men None of them really agree with a full amount of material to be considered an ideology, like what everyone else is saying though its definitely not a praxeology
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 09:08 PM
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Creepy fantasies..
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 06:29 PM
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Also many women don't end up hitting a wall at all, I have no idea what this fascination trp has with the "wall"
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 08:37 PM
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you said it better than I did!
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:48 AM
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Chad right here
/r/seduction28/08/21 03:55 PM
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Just try not to have sex tbh the less you try the more she will want to
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:20 AM
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Shes just explaining and this is honestly the most honest comment on here so its not really cool to call her out here
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:44 AM
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Pretty much right? I mean you're gonna get upset when they stop sleeping with you/start seeing someone else. We get the feelings of attachment even if we didn't agree to be exclusive
/r/seduction09/08/21 10:12 PM
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Cum in your hand, dip two fingers into your cum and brush it across her forehead and say "Simba"
/r/seduction24/07/21 09:31 PM
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Despite popular belief this is truly the correct answer
/r/seduction24/07/21 09:29 PM
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Just be cool, don't give her attention. Blow her off from time to time don't give her the attention she wants. She probably will make even more effort to get your attention and you should just keep letting her do that. The more you pull the more she will push
/r/seduction20/06/21 09:41 PM
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Shes playing, play right back. Shes giving you attention and affection, enjoy it but don't get used to it. Shes playing around
/r/seduction20/06/21 09:01 PM
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Enjoy the attention but just blow her off, shes playing with you
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:58 PM
0

This is literally the beginning to "get out"
/r/seduction20/06/21 01:08 AM
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Well of course she wants that but its also literally the definition of "simp"
/r/seduction17/06/21 04:29 PM
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Thank fucking God somebody said it, bullshit how the fake chads make it seem like they are chatting up beautiful women everywhere they go
/r/seduction02/06/21 12:30 AM
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