Nouseriously Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Mainland Chinese girls don't seem interested once on date? whoosh	/r/seduction	12/03/26 10:47 PM
1	Girlfriend (21F) calls me (21M) lustful for asking for sex Yes, people are naturally lustful	/r/seduction	08/02/26 10:33 PM
5	Do women instictively know when you have options? They can tell if you're the kind of guy other women consider fuckable	/r/seduction	19/01/26 01:29 AM
14	conservative vs liberal cities for picking up women There are no conservative cities	/r/seduction	17/12/25 06:19 AM
1	Which US cities have the highest concentration of beautiful women? I need to choose a city to move to. Los Angeles & Miami tbh	/r/seduction	07/10/25 07:42 AM
1	Which US cities have the highest concentration of beautiful women? I need to choose a city to move to. Nashville is very hot & humid in the Summer, women are above average	/r/seduction	07/10/25 01:51 AM
2	This question is for everyone about personal experience what do you consider obvious signals that someone is attracted to you and there's no doubt they want to make out, fool around, have sex with you? If they start unbuttoning my pants, that's a good sign	/r/seduction	13/06/25 03:54 AM
8	Why are women physically attracted to guys with a porn star profile? There's a massive disconnect between who you think you should date & who actually turns you on	/r/seduction	20/05/25 11:38 PM
1	Do you think this boy likes me? That's the spirit!	/r/seduction	19/08/22 08:12 AM
1	Do you think this boy likes me? Then at least you'll know the answer. You really really really don't want to go through life wondering "what might have been". Believe me. I've been there too.	/r/seduction	19/08/22 08:10 AM
4	Do you think this boy likes me? If he likes you & is too shy to start a conversation, he would absolutely love for you to talk to him. Believe me. I've been there.	/r/seduction	19/08/22 08:07 AM
1	Height is a killer for college I'm 5'9" and dating in college for me was amazing. Of course, I was gorgeous. More importantly, I had the confidence of someone who knew he was gorgeous.	/r/seduction	14/08/22 04:53 AM
3	[23M] How to make up for crucial social milestones I missed out on during my youth? You're still in your youth. Everyone has a different path, this is yours. The worst thing you can do is screw up the present by obsesing over the past.	/r/seduction	12/03/22 04:03 PM
1	Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar? Yes, multiple times. I was auper hot when I was young.	/r/seduction	30/01/22 07:22 AM
1	[deleted by user] "Big enough tp get rhe job done, not so big that it'll send you to the hospital" And that's a big NO on the pics	/r/seduction	27/01/22 12:30 AM
1	[deleted by user] Getting approached by a woman was 10x more likely before smartphones & internet dating sites existed. edit: your competition used to be limited to guys who'd asked them out recently, now it's any guy they've seen a pic of on tinder	/r/seduction	19/01/22 03:41 PM
5	[deleted by user] 1) be gorgeous 2) dress well, but not too formally 3) time travel to the 90s	/r/seduction	19/01/22 03:22 AM
8	I think I figured out seducing flight attendants. Rome's major airport I assume any big international airport has hotels that flight crews from all over are known to frequent. If they're near home, they go home. But they often aren't near home, so they stay together in hotels. You better hsve a private room because they won't.	/r/seduction	31/12/21 07:42 AM
45	I think I figured out seducing flight attendants. Stayed at the same hotel the Lufthansa flight attendants use near FCO (maybe other airlines too, but I only met Lufthansa). From my limited experience, meeting at the hotel bar when they're unwinding (or, in my case, meeting in the airport shuttle then again later at the bar) beats the hell out of trying to chat them up at the airport.	/r/seduction	31/12/21 06:25 AM
6	Kind, fun, responsible, yet dangerous. Women are drawn to men with elements of polarity to their personality Call it "able to defend himself & others" then. There's a difference between being peaceful & being harmless. A peaceful man chooses not to be violent but can change if need be. A harmless man doesn't have a choice to make. A woman may dig the peaceful man, but she'll never dig the harmless one.	/r/seduction	22/10/21 03:49 AM
15	You Reject Girls More Than You Think I can think of dozens of times a girl might have been interested & I failed to find out. And I can think of quite a few times when a girl was definitely interested & I failed to do anything about it. I regret most of them.	/r/seduction	19/10/21 10:44 PM
2	There is nothing more attractive than a person who still has a zest for life. "The world is made for those not cursed with self awareness"	/r/seduction	06/10/21 11:00 PM
5	Seducing Their Friend TBH this is something you'd see in a bad romantic comedy, not real life.	/r/seduction	15/09/21 11:23 PM
1	So I am dating this girl for three days now and I really like her and I think she likes me as well. However, in the third day, she confessed her admiration to me and her words changed to more endearing ones like "my love", "darling", "baby", "I love you" etc. Is your name Romeo, by any chance? Seriously, telling someone you've known 3 days "I love you" is a red flag. I'd tell her "I like you, but you're moving way too fast. We don't know each other well enough yet."	/r/seduction	09/09/21 08:10 PM
2	For guys what piece of advice has always worked with you? You miss 100% of the shots that you don't take	/r/seduction	05/09/21 01:11 AM
2	"Excuse me, can I get your number?" opener success rate? For someone who looked like I did 25 years ago operating free of the distractions of current technology, about 70% success rate. Though I would always introduce myself first & use their response/body language to gauge interest. For someone who looks like me now operating in our current environment, gonna guess not so high.	/r/seduction	31/08/21 04:46 AM
1	Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meet In online dating, you'll deal with most women having a height cutoff. But with those who don't you automatically know they don't have an issue with your height. In person, I think this is less of an issue. If they dig you, they dig you. How many women would turn down Tom Holland because he's not 5'10"?	/r/seduction	29/08/21 12:22 AM
12	r/relationships says cold approaching in college doesn’t work out 99% of the time and is creepy… what y’all think? As I've said before women often give advice from the mindset of "How would I like guys I'm not interested in to act?" It's understandable but it sure as hell makes for bad advice.	/r/seduction	25/08/21 07:10 PM
1	Need a smooth answer for when she asks the question "Who do you think you are?" "They treat me like a fox, a cunning fellow of the first rank. But the truth is that with a gentleman I am always a gentleman and a half, and when I have to do with a pirate, I try to be a pirate and a half." If she knows who said it, marry her immediately.	/r/seduction	25/08/21 01:03 AM
2	What are your fastest hook up stories? She wanted me to, so I did.	/r/seduction	21/08/21 05:49 PM
9	What are your fastest hook up stories? Met a girl daydrinking on South Padre Island. She'd just been dumped. I left her ex a voicemail telling him what a great time she was having on Spring Break, then we went back to my condo & had sex. She stole my tshirt.	/r/seduction	21/08/21 01:24 AM
122	DON'T be on your best behaviour on a first date! Don’t be fake, but you should be on your best behavior. There’s a difference. Better that someone learns your idiosyncrasies & quirks gradually over time rather than get smashed in the face with them on a first date. Your date is going to think you’re trying to behave regardless. So if you have too many rough edges she’ll think you must be an absolute nightmare when you aren’t trying.	/r/seduction	18/08/21 12:38 AM
38	DO NOT TAKE APPROACH ADVICE FROM SUBS LIKE r/askwomen Oddly, a lot of advice online is from the POV of “How would I like men I’m not interested in to act?” It kinda makes sense in that most women don’t want the kind of guy who asks online how to meet women, they want the guy who does it effortlessly. But what they really don’t want is for the former to pretend to be the latter.	/r/seduction	14/08/21 07:07 AM
1	How MUCH Does Height Matter? In online dating, height matters a lot since women will set a minimum height & won't even see anyone under it. In person height matters to some women but not nearly as much. No one is turning down Brad Pitt because he's not 6'. Scott Caan is only 5', 5" and most women would gladly go out with him. Take care of the things you can control: stay in shape, dress well, and be interesting.	/r/seduction	04/08/21 02:28 AM
1	Successful short guys - what advice do you have for those who are struggling? I think it's much much worse now, since so many use online dating & women will often have the sites automatically exclude anyone under an arbitrary number. If you're well dressed, take care of yourself & have some measure of charm most women won't get too worried about height in a guy they meet face to face. Unfortunately, it doesn't matter how well you present yourself if you never get the chance to do so.	/r/seduction	06/06/21 03:01 AM
2	"I only saw you as a friend and you only treated me like one" My advice applies, of course, to only the sort of Westernized women I've been around. I did know a Muslim girl in college who dated the same as everyone else, but she never told her parents about boyfriends.	/r/seduction	19/05/21 12:55 AM
2	"I only saw you as a friend and you only treated me like one" If you try to kiss them while on a date? You lean in to kiss a girl & she'll either be into it or not. You're not trying to force a kiss on an unwilling victim. You're trying to kiss a girl you like in hopes she kisses back. If she doesn't kiss.you back, then it's over. If she doesn't seem receptive when you try to kiss her, it's over. Just try to read her demeanor & body language. Again, the goal is to find out if she's interested in dating you. So you'll need to learn to read people a bit.	/r/seduction	19/05/21 12:23 AM
2	"I only saw you as a friend and you only treated me like one" My advice: just ask her out on a date, make sure she knows it's a date not 2 friends just hanging out. You pick the place, you plan on paying. At some point, kiss her. If she's into you, she'll make it known. If she's not, she'll make it known. That's the goal, to find out if she's into you. If she's not interested, don't try to change her mind. You can't negotiate desire. Thank her for her time & drop it. Then go find someone who is interested. Not every girl will be interested in you. Maybe ev…	/r/seduction	18/05/21 11:48 PM
15	"I only saw you as a friend and you only treated me like one" Don't become someone's friend with the intent of making it romantic later. It will lead to you overinvesting in someone who may never see you that way. If you're interested in dating, make that known from the start. You can be interested in someone sexually without it being you "only want her body". Find out right away if she sees you as a possible romantic partner. If not, at least you know the answer with a minimum of time spent. If you decide to be her friend instead then actually be a friend…	/r/seduction	17/05/21 02:48 PM
2	Half a Century and I just DNGAF. 20 years from now, are you going to fucking hate yourself for not giving it everything you have? Is the reward commensurate with the risk? (if you succeed, are you set for life?) If the answer to both of these is YES, then go for it. Most people are haunted more by the opportunities they let slip than by the ones they reach for.	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/16 06:06 PM