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Gosh y'all really hate women. Get that checked you guys
/r/MensRights09/10/25 01:23 PM
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You're giving me woman-hating lmao. I know many women on a deep personal level and we share what we want both in terms of values, of partners, of lifestyles and no one says anything of that sort. I have friends, men and female, who share their personal thoughts; and no where they are as you describe. Good try at invalidating my experience by saying the women I know are not truthful to me, but I am not basing my reasoning on what I read on groups full of anonimous profiles where you couldn't real…
/r/MensRights11/06/25 03:41 PM
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You claiming is accurate, does not make it accurate. We can all throw numbers up, man. Also, I don't know where you live but I'm out and about quite often, got many, maaany girlfriends, and that's the trend I see: they want a super man, someone who will have the traditional abilities plus modern dynamics. They find appaling to not be invited 100% free for dates, they don't think women should take the initiative, they would be comfortable being a stay-home wife but wouldn't want to be the only on…
/r/MensRights11/06/25 01:56 PM
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Where does the "80%" statistic come from? This is my take on one part of the issue: Culturally, women have historically not been taught to be independent or self-sufficient. For much of history, survival often depended on relying on men—sometimes due to natural constraints, but largely because of societal structures designed to maintain that dependency. With modern capitalism pushing for gender equality in the workforce, both men and women face new pressures. But many men today are struggling un…
/r/MensRights11/06/25 11:55 AM
-2

But the conversarion should be geared how to change that. No one talks about how to restructure the systems that place men in unfair and unjust positions. It's not only women doing it, it's men doing it to other men.
/r/MensRights11/06/25 11:20 AM
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I feel this gets like a sub for hate too. Some people don't want to improve men's rights, they just want to shit on women. I feel like we all need lots of empathy.
/r/MensRights11/06/25 11:13 AM
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You've really hit the nail, bro
/r/MensRights11/06/25 11:06 AM
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Just so I understand you well, what you're saying is that the only acceptable way is to keep the traditional balance of the nuclear family? I can only think of how can most people afford to be in that position in this economy nowadays? Intergender dynamics have changed also for material economic reasons that escape the power of entire communities.
/r/MensRights30/04/25 06:31 AM
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So we just complain about very real stuff online? Ok.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 12:34 PM
0

I don't understand why men don't get organized to talk about these issues, gosh.
/r/MensRights30/03/25 12:03 PM
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Everything this dude has said is a well known and tested fact. Birth control does all sorts of crazy shit to women's body and it's the only reason why we don't have similar things for men. The reason we don't have a pill is for possible side effects. It'd be easier to have pill for men than it is for women. Name your favourite source of academic information, I will be HAPPY to provide research. There's plenty my dude.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 03:00 PM
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Mmm, I don't think so. Not everyone in the family needs to procreate to ensure the next generation. With human babies taking so long to be able to feed themselves, raising them has always been a village's work. Having a few gay siblings a few thousand years ago would have come extremely handy if you yourself had children; more adults per child necessarily increases their chances of reproduction and longevity. Also, if your sibling reproduces, then you're set. They passed on 50% of your genes jus…
/r/MensRights13/03/25 11:14 AM
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Well with that mentality you've just set yourself to such path for your own marriage. Doesn't it seem a bit narrow for you? It looks narrow for me, for both men and women, such a perspective
/r/MensRights13/03/25 11:09 AM
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Bro are you mad for recognizing that Birth Control affects women? What's up with you lmao
/r/MensRights13/03/25 11:07 AM
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Good luck ugh
/r/MensRights05/03/25 10:56 AM
1

Said no one ever.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 09:58 PM
4

So on point. And then they do it to use about women, the queers, the immigrants, the children... They want us all against all.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 04:53 AM
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100%
/r/MensRights18/02/25 05:39 PM
-6

You have hardly met most women in your neighborhood. It's too early on this side of the world to spew nonsense and hatred. Thanks
/r/MensRights05/02/25 01:00 PM
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idk why I can't figure out how to post an image on the thread, so I'll just dm you
/r/MensRights05/02/25 12:07 PM
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It is certainly complicated. I say, treat guys almost as if you had a hidden erotic-emotional for them. Meaning, treat males you don't know with the niceness and reserveness you would do if you were talking to a girl you liked. If the guys are friendly (and not a very flirty homo/bi), they'll probably just think you're friendly and you'll notice if they return the interest on having a conversation. Females, I treat them almost as if I were their gay friend. It makes me uncomfortable that they th…
/r/MensRights05/02/25 12:03 PM
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Idk about that, I feel like most programs in NYC are tailored genderless or especifically for men, because as you say, they make up most of the migrants.
/r/MensRights05/02/25 11:33 AM
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Do you want to fk other people too? We all hear constantly how difficult it is for everyone to keep it monogamous. We hear it in songs, we see it on tv, we see the neighbours fight. It is such a common theme and me, personally, cannot understand how people continue to not want to be honest and forward with this topic. People in committed relationships, fking other people? Happens, it is super common. So find someone who seems open and transparent with their communication and values, someone who …
/r/MensRights04/02/25 04:44 PM
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Right, because they all just accept the closest male to them? You make it sound like the willingness of men means they don't struggle to find someone they like as much as a guy. Key word: like. If it wasn't about just being with a guy, any guy, then you're correct, women would have it easier to have a relationship, or sx, or both.
/r/MensRights21/01/25 01:33 AM
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what? Idk where you're from but it definitely sounds weird here.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 10:39 PM
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Thank you, whoever the fuck you are, your comment added nothing. Here, a gift: 🎁
/r/MensRights20/01/25 08:56 PM
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Yeah, we do not possess that fear because we don't suffer public sexual harassment from strangers, as our friend duly noted in his extensive link-sharing. Some people would say that having the space, having the possibility of walking out without fear, is a privilege. Let's say, for example, Mexican streets vs American streets. Is the fact that Americans can walk out and feel safe in their streets when compaired to mexicans, a privilege? I'm not going to argue that with you; some people will see …
/r/MensRights20/01/25 06:39 PM
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Thank you for your extensive list. As said many times, I don't disagree. I'm saying something specific, among all of our fears, going out at night alone, as a men, doesn't include the fear of being raped. That's it. Going out, leaving your house, a party, your job, any place, and going somewhere else; we, men, are not generally afraid of being raped in the public space. That's it. Why does that fact bother so many people? It's crazy.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 06:22 PM
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That's if you amalgamate all of the categories under which you can be considered a "victim" and see them side by side, which, as said previously, I don't disagree. I'm citing one specific scenario. We, men, when we go out whether during the day or the night, we're not afraid that we will be raped. That's it.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 06:15 PM
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Again, you're right. But to make all of those points you have to include so much more than what my original idea is: going places at night.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 05:52 PM
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Of course. People love victimising themselves and invisibilize other people, it takes a high level of consciousness and awareness to break free from those insticts, or at least to not let yourself be controled by it
/r/MensRights20/01/25 05:43 PM
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I'm really not saying the opposite at all. We're not even disagreeing about anything.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 05:40 PM
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I know, and I'm not saying the opposite, but we know who we're expecting the violence from: other men. Women, usually, are not afraid that other women will fuck them up in the street and neither are we; we're all weary of the males out there trying to pray on whoever, for whatever reasons.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 05:38 PM
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Me neither, but I'm not surprised. If you don't straight up say you hate women and men are the apex victims of the 21st century, they'll disagree with you.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 05:37 PM
-15

Oh, right, you think men have it worst. Somehow is always a competition with you guys. I often see the same comments from some guys which seem like ragebait to me. Those are not accurate depictions of reality. Go out and talk to actual people.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 05:35 PM
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Don't resource to feelings now. Keep it at the mathematical level like your first comment, who's most likely to end up with something introduced in their holes by walking out alone at night?
/r/MensRights20/01/25 05:33 PM
-1

That might be true. But we're usually not afraid we'll be fucked against our will as we go or come places.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 05:23 PM
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Clarify further, please
/r/MensRights20/01/25 03:50 PM
2

All apps nowadays track your use of other apps. That's why you may even be talking on the phone with someone about something and then you find an advertisement for it on another app when you open it. I know it is sort of the focus of this sub, but people focus way too much on the ''misandry'' of anonymous people on the internet. I see constantly misogynist content, I see anti-christian stuff. I even see anti-human content, there are people who literally want us all to get extinct.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 03:40 PM
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It's of bad taste, yes, but they think they're being funny by duplicating the comments guys make to female victims of SA. An eye for an eye is a terrible practice.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 03:36 PM
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I often hear that men get to go out at any hour of the day and rarely do they ever feel they'll be raped, whereas women try to avoid going out at night, and when alone passing another men, they get tensed/afraid. Which doesn't surprise me. There are some creeps out there.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 12:42 PM
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You have intrinsic value too. Women don't hate you, the algorithm may have been feeding you horrible content because that's what it does, once it detects that something keeps you watching, it will send more your way to keep you on. Feel free to reach out if you ever want to chat, even just to make space between time.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 05:18 AM
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A lot of energy into it. Sit down, you're on fire. Such a badass.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 10:15 PM
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And it itched you enough to come and let us know how it makes you feel. Sarcasm, irony, a bit of swearing, and try "make fun" (idk how to describe your little cry there) of someone else to make a point. Atta boy.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 08:46 PM
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Right. We're purposely deciding to ignore societal pressure and expectations because they're not legally required to and we won't recognise that people do take actions against others when not following standards. We could say the same about men. Military service is not an issue because in most of the west, men are not obligated to. Mental health is not an issue among men because no one is legally forcing them to not go get psychological help. Men don't have stress problems trying to support thei…
/r/MensRights17/01/25 05:29 PM
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I don't know where you live but that's a big lie. Women are expected to look their best, especially in the west. Nails, hair, toes, shoes, makeup. Few places are more pressing for women (and men) for their physical appearance than the west. Maybe Korea is worst.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 03:45 PM
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It will stay that way until men change their narrative and force the women who don't want to enter the 21st century to confront the reality. Unfortunately, many men do think it is their responsibility to reproduce a model that is just unsustainable in this economy. Society still expects men to be gentlemen, to pay for the date, meals and much more if they want more, but it is because females are still taught to be pretty, to be delicate, to be performative for men's taste. We can't have both, no…
/r/MensRights17/01/25 02:21 PM
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You say that like it was women who forced that on you and not other men. Sorry, god itself forced men to have that role. Thank god modernity killed providence and now you're free from it. You do have value only for existing too, don't let anybody else tell you otherwise And you're worthy of protection too.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 01:44 PM
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I hate to break it down for you, these people hate women and refuse to recognise anything that goes against that view even by a fraction.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 10:43 AM
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That sounds like revisionism lmao. I'd think that Abrahamic religions continue to this day, reproducing the idea that men are head and must lead on top of women. I notice people barely talk about religion or historial political rights & representation in this subreddit.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 10:41 AM
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No one is complaining and I feel that I'm explaining quite clearly what I'm saying. Have you ever worked a physically demanding job? And just like you, I'm guessing, you are not an athlete. Female athletes are a thing too and many of them are stronger than you. The fact that some females are stronger than you doesn't mean every single woman is, and the same applies to men. You might be stronger than most females, but you're not stronger than all of them. How many of your male friends work in con…
/r/MensRights17/01/25 10:25 AM
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I did not say anything about eradicating natural differences. Why are people so focused on the strength difference? When was the last time that made a difference in your life? Last time I checked, American and Israeli girls were killing people by the hundreds from the comfort of their control room, via non-tripulated drones. What exactly do you need strength for in the 21st century?
/r/MensRights17/01/25 09:17 AM
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but that's something that hopefully changes. Think about it, a woman would have NEVER been able to take care of the children by herself for several reasons: Human babies are born super prematurely and aren't capable of even feeding themselves until 5ish years old, but still need a lot of care for another decade; human females are among the few animals that survive long after their reproductive life is done. When animals can no longer reproduce, they usually die short after; a human female can li…
/r/MensRights16/01/25 02:09 PM
-4

I don't think he does. People on this subreddit are very "different-opinion-phobic", so I doubt that they talk to many women who self identified as feminists. Just my opinion, no way I would know for certain.
/r/MensRights16/01/25 11:05 AM
1

You guys talk as if there was not a system of oppression we inherited from our ancestors. The morality of our laws are based on religion, and religion is quite clear and arbitrary about gender roles. "Different incentives" but who gives those incentives? I ask you to just go to any video platform and type "children toys" and you'll see that for men it's all about action, cars, fight, being active, while for girls is very related to taking care, cooking, fashion... Nurture or nature? I'd say nurt…
/r/MensRights16/01/25 10:48 AM
-17

Sounds like an echo chamber
/r/MensRights16/01/25 08:26 AM
0

This is nonsense. Is this in the US? there's no reason why he should be giving her no tax information. For all we know she could have bought herself a big new house. If he doesn't know where she is and they do not have contact, he can file for an unchallenged divorce claim. It may vary from jurisdiction to jurisdiction, but you don't even need her to be present in any way because that's abandonment. Crazy.
/r/MensRights16/01/25 01:01 AM
1

I didn't see it coming, if it were a snake, it would have bit my nose
/r/MensRights16/01/25 12:30 AM
2

No criticism here. Everyone is allowed to be with their favorite consenting type of adult. I was just shook.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 11:50 PM
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Did you see they compared it by fields and only with full time workers? "The government is feminist" laughing my ass off. What a meak excuse to just keep saying anything.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 05:26 PM
-4

I am shook
/r/MensRights15/01/25 05:20 PM
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This is one of them: https://www.bls.gov/opub/ted/2024/womens-earnings-were-83-6-percent-of-mens-in-2023.htm
/r/MensRights15/01/25 05:19 PM
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That's really not what the The Department of Labour Statistics of The United States agrees with. not saying you're wrong, just that the gov of the USA disagrees with you.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 05:14 PM
-4

It's real. Charturbate and OF is full of guys too.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 05:10 PM
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No. Evidently we're talking about the same job. You can't compare medicine practice with bridge building. You're generalizing at a level where it is even difficult to grasp the idea. Saying that men in general work more hours in jobs that are riskier is assuming that every single man works those jobs and that women do not, which is silly. The majority of men don't do high risk jobs. Accounting, engineering, medicine, bank clerk, shoe seller. We're talking about regular jobs. Females get paid les…
/r/MensRights15/01/25 03:45 PM
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Your comment sounds like misogeny. If someone said the same about women regarding men, you'd openly say that it is misandry. Please do share your sources about men being paid more because they "work harder". I'm eager to learn.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 03:37 PM
1

You're right. And it's a shame some guys still want to turn the blind eye and not recognize that women are active abusers too.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 03:00 PM
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Well, it's a spectrum. The fact that some women have privileges doesn't mean they all do or exercise it; the same way that the fact that male could have privileges doesn't mean that every single male has them just for their genitals, and doesn't mean that you exercise it even if you could, there are other tags that might make you less or more privilege, money, education, etcetc. Also these women that want the benefits without accountability are still that way because other guys keep showing them…
/r/MensRights15/01/25 02:35 PM
1

But well 2 loonies don't make the rule. That's not to say there are not blue haired non binary fluid parents in NYC. But that doesn't mean that it's the reality of even one third of the people
/r/MensRights15/01/25 02:09 PM
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Sounds like Yellow Press, tbh. Here in NYC, we're blue and liberal af, people would fuck you up if you dressed their son as a girl without consent. If the parent agreed, do you want to escalate the case to Child Services? I know it doesn't sound ideal, but there are also children going to islamic school in America, little girls made to wear hijabs because their religion hypersexualizes them even before they have their period. There are Amish kids that do not get to go to school and remain analph…
/r/MensRights15/01/25 01:55 PM
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What? Not to discredit your comment, I just didn't quite understand it. I really don't know where you're from, but I've never heard anyone being targeted in high school only for being males. I'm not saying there's not a case or a report about it somewhere that I'm sure you've saved on your cookies But it wasn't my experience, it wasn't my family's and I personally don't know but 2 guys that have been fucked by their spouses. Am I saying that there are no laws unfair to men? No, I'm not saying th…
/r/MensRights15/01/25 01:40 PM
-16

None of the qualities you named are inherent to males only. Females possess all of that, and can definitely get stronger than you with the right training.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 01:31 PM
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Women couldn't even fully participate in the work market until the 60s bro. I am confident you will disagree, but I insist that what we see now as female privilege is just the result of the gender roles society has imposed on us, that we have inherited from the past. Not until long ago, women weren't allowed in many fields and wouldn't even get to keep the children if they separated. Nowadays, society wants to keep them on the tag of weak, victims, unequal to men and what not, while still keepin…
/r/MensRights15/01/25 01:28 PM
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I don't blame them. They'd probably have done the same a couple of years back if you asked why there's a program for white people and not black (or vice versa even today). I feel you did the correct thing at voicing out that concern. A single father still needs as much help as a single mom. Hopefully these gender divisions get to disappear sometimes soon within a couple of generations.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 12:39 PM
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We men deserve more attention and resources? Thank you for your complement, but I don't understand your comment.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 12:30 PM
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Statistically speaking, men still make more of the workforce and make more money than females. Maybe they should be included in more jobs overrepresented by men. It'd be good, for example, if there were laws/policies that promoted female registration in the army or other fields of high risk where malea are overrepresented.
/r/MensRights15/01/25 12:29 PM
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I strongly disagree. You can sell feet pics and farts on OF. You think only women are on OF? You should take a look
/r/MensRights15/01/25 12:21 PM
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It's not a competition. Comparing our suffering to hers is like trying to say women suffer more because they bleed painfully once a month and then give birth, which is a feeling we cannot even come close to understand. Men have their issues and that's it, and we're here for it. No need to establish whether one suffers more than the other because they also play that game and it leads to little to no cooperation. How is everything gonna get any better without cooperation?
/r/MensRights15/01/25 12:19 PM
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You can't really say "not always a woman but usually a woman" where men still make the majority of sexual abusers. However, I do believe that the fact that people think of women as "weaker", makes stupid people believe that women cannot abuse; maybe because they might not be sensationalistic on the press as it happens every so often with that 1 male psycopath that gets on all the news at intervals (just talking generally) I think that it is that conception, that because women are not "actively" …
/r/MensRights15/01/25 01:56 AM
-2

Yall really hate women, don't yall
/r/MensRights13/01/25 04:14 PM
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SHARE PROOF.
/r/MensRights13/01/25 03:24 PM
-12

Stop victimizing.
/r/MensRights13/01/25 03:20 PM
0

This dude is 100% right.
/r/MensRights13/01/25 03:14 PM
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Masculinity has to be redefined.
/r/MensRights13/01/25 03:13 PM
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No, it is not be quiet males talk. It is more, focus about what the actual issues are. The freaking link you shared focuses quite well on the issues affecting Black Men, it's not focusing on how women are actively making our lives worse. You don't see the difference?
/r/MensRights11/01/25 04:11 AM
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That's what I talk about all the time!! In this community some guys love to talk very poorly about females, but turn the blind eye to the other men who actively support the injustices men suffer. It's not uncommon to see a man publicly shame, mock or attack an idea or case that would actually advance his own rights. Proof? This comment.
/r/MensRights11/01/25 04:05 AM
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Let's not forget about that shame comes often from other men. There is a lot of inner misandry in a lot of men, who willingly judge, loath or even harass these guys who are clearly VICTIMS. The conversation is violence is not generated by sex and can be suffered by any gender.
/r/MensRights11/01/25 04:03 AM
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Well, being against these "western" "ideology" sounds like an emotional stand more than a recollection of personal experiences. Not complaining about people sharing their experiences or what bothers them, but people do seem to enjoy just talking bad about women. These feminists that people here love to talk about are very critical of other women that enforce/support what they're against I see next to nothing of criticism towards the men that make other men's lives miserable, and most of it, it's…
/r/MensRights11/01/25 03:57 AM
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Common sense is the least common of all senses. Many like to just complain and blame the other sex, while not only taking little to no responsibility; but also advancing little to nothing the conversation about men issues, men rights and overall societal wellbeing.
/r/MensRights11/01/25 03:34 AM
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It's giving victimism.
/r/MensRights11/01/25 03:32 AM
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What a fucking sad post. Are you sad you are not on the front line or that your mom is on OF? It almost sounds like you want your mom in the front lines and you want to do OF, but guess one, you can do it if you want. Don't be envious
/r/MensRights10/01/25 09:41 PM
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I'm not worshipping western civ or white people, your criticism is critical and in the west we have open spaces for such disagreements, and people fight their fight against censorship and discrimination left and right. In the west we at least have politicians in their relative local administrations who exercise their right to disagree with and challenge what they can view, for example, like an an unfair cultural/ideological imposition of the group dominating in control of the national government…
/r/MensRights04/01/25 04:57 PM
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You're full of propaganda. Any one of your points doesn't discredit the fact that: the west did it, it wasn't China or Russia, and maybe it wasn't destined to happen because imperial China nor imperial Russia didn't want to modernise itself like countries such as Japan did. The whole communist block proved that their organization strategies sucked ass and China had to open up and copy Western strategies to get ahead in the game once again. Homophobia and even the term "homosexual" was coined by …
/r/MensRights04/01/25 03:22 PM
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Homophobia as we know it also came from the west, but so did democracy, liberalism, capitalism, technological advances key for our world. You speak a western language and use a western site. What's the option to the west? Authoritarian states and ethno-religious states? No thank you. I'd rather live in a place where voltaire's words make sense: "I disagree 100% with everything you say but I would die for your right to say those things" (paraphrasing)
/r/MensRights04/01/25 02:15 PM
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you're not pro-west?
/r/MensRights04/01/25 01:18 PM
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Evidence of russian bots? Yeah, we spoke to them and they said "we're russian, and we're bots" which is totally a thing they would say
/r/MensRights04/01/25 04:54 AM
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"I don't think it has ever ocurred to most women that men even have any issues at all" Is that venting???? Wow. That's victimization and deflection of blame on to half of the population (which he evidently cannot know, not even what "most" women think or feel); and it's an attitude we're sick of to hear from females so I'm not gonna cut him any slack. We ought to take responsibility for own emotional states and what happens to us. When I say to take responsibility, it's to take charge of either:…
/r/MensRights29/12/24 12:07 PM
0

I don't know, y'all are the ones who want to blame women (which I fail to see how this advances male issues), instead of focusing on our responsibility and our capacity to change what we don't like in our lives...
/r/MensRights29/12/24 11:58 AM
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You're saying it like females forced us to go to war and to stay home. It's almost like feminists keep screaming they don't want to be relegated to the home/kitchen. Let's give you that. Yes, men are the main victims. So what? what after that? Do you want to do anything for men or do you just want to blame females? Because I fail to see how us being the main victims of all sorts of violence has been caused by females. Women don't send us to war, they're not the ones shaming guys who seek assista…
/r/MensRights29/12/24 11:55 AM
1

That's not what they're saying, they say that one explanation for the results in women vs men could potentially be that men are not willing to report initiating conflict with women. It is definitely not excluding one for the other, it's giving the possibility of other explanation and possible biases of this study. That's like the basics of research my dude. Are you intentionally being foolish?
/r/MensRights29/12/24 02:01 AM
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What's your point? That women can be bigots too? I think that's a taken, we know. there are other groups who lobby against minimum wage or renewable energies. Do you want to point another group and select example to equalize it with the entire State Apparatus ? I feel like your point has no point. Whataboutism isn't a stance.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 08:31 PM
1

Why are you talking about it extremes? Step it down a bit and get on the ground with me. We have also had a black president, does that mean racism ended all together? That's what your rationality makes me think of. Under that same logic, any man that has got justice from any perjuries made by a woman whether false accusations or even alimony on children that are not his, or in any of the matters that people complain about in this sub, would proof that we have reached equality in justice! That ju…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 07:42 PM
1

Sure, tell that to the Department of Labour Statistics of the United States of America. LOOOOL Edit: Good one dodging all points!!
/r/MensRights28/12/24 05:51 PM
1

WILD TAKE.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 05:46 PM
1

Females are overall the bigger group everywhere in the world, there are more women than men in general. If we were being ''fair'', they would have 51% of representation and decision-power, but that's not the case. Being able to vote doesn't mean equal representation nor means that your vote is worth the same. In the United States senators are elected by the states, some states have dozens of millions of people and others have a couple hundred thousands, and they elect the same amount of people t…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 05:42 PM
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Men, still, statistically, make more money per the same jobs than females. It is gender disparity and it is measured by many standards Bureau of Labor Statistics - 2023 info. - This is not to say that we have it all great and that we do not need more and better conditions; men get barely any time to be with their newborns but are socially expected to be the provider for a child they sometimes barely get to see. This is not a war against women, and that vision benefits the elite, not the generali…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 05:32 PM
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I did. You wrote... extensively. So will I, so bear with me. I tried to answer to different points to made, individually. I tried We do talk about gender roles in schools and every single State (at least in the US) that tries hard to be at the bottom of the education standards is trying very hard to expel anything with the word ''gender'' in it. I don't know where you live, but here in NY people do talk about gender in the classrooms. We go to war because it has been a self-imposed belief. Women…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 05:32 PM
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Yeah, the elite, the male elite that doesn't give a fuck about the non-elite people, including other males. You may include females and children if you want, but that doesn't exclude the males who help create the system. Let's take American Active Military Conscription, it was ended in 1973, but since 1940 it had been forcing men to register in the service system between their 18 and 25 years of age. It was signed into law by Franklin Delano Roosevelt. Who took that decision? Here a link with Fr…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 05:04 PM
-1

I'm not assuming anything. We classify violence and crimes by types, because the motivations behind also count, and we take it into account when imposing punishment. Neglect and intent are not the same thing and we don't punish them equally. When majority of men are killed by an assault with some sharp object or firegun, who kills them? A relative or a stranger? Sexual related violence or was it to steal an object? was it a fight among gangs? All of this matters. Men die mostly at the hands of o…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 04:54 PM
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It is certainly an interpretation, I wouldn't annex it to my core ideas but it is definitely a reference. I think it is unjust to expect men to be in the front when nowadays physical strength is not the determinant anymore; anybody can (and they already are) flying drones and missiles. You are complaining about the current system like it just appeared out of the blue just now. It is the result of history bro, we cannot talk about this and ignore what has brought us here. Even if I agreed 100% wi…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 04:38 PM
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We men control the public space. Women do not walk out at all times of day like men do. Men are more likely to be promoted and make more money for the same job. Men are more likely to be elected to office than women, and a bunch of other stuff that doesn't really make our lives necessarily any better Just like what you think it's female privilege doesn't really make their lives easier either. It's just unjust to the other
/r/MensRights28/12/24 02:47 PM
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I mean, you're right. But this is how I see it: Us males have been overrepresented in every single aspect of society, especially in politics. The world as we know it today was indeed made by men, not always for the consideration of the people (regardless of gender) that didn't make it to the decisionmakers. You could make the reading that men have always forced other men to fight or that men have put the depreciated the value of men's lives; you could also say that it is not all men, but men in …
/r/MensRights28/12/24 02:44 PM
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In an aspect, yes; but as adults, we men have plenty of privileges. It's all about how we are unfair to each other.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 02:34 PM
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Thank you.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 12:46 PM
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I hear you, men are indeed more victims of violence, in general. I don't think that dying because of a war is an androcide, they're not killing you because you're a man, they're killing you because you're the enemy. Most women, when murdered, do not die for the same violent reasons most men do.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 12:45 PM
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Somehow the focus is taken from men to give it again to women. I certainly don't see the need to hyperfocus on them when we're supposedly advancing conversations and rights of men. Women are individuals with complex lives just like us, under different influences, just like us. If you want a good woman, it is the same as saying "find an individual who's not an idiot". Somehow lots of people here think that women = evil. I know plenty of females who are not idiots towards men nor expect injustices…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 12:43 PM
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"Women and their true nature" MY GOD. This is sick.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 12:37 PM
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Sure thing my dude. What a few women whose judgement I'd deem "off" won't change the fact that I'm not more of a potential rapist than anyone else's, no need to feel insulted for their opinion lmao.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 12:36 PM
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No, I don't want to be associated with them; that's why I don't do anything that can relate me to them. Never felt insulted by those arguments because I genuinely feel they do not apply to me; nor does it apply to a vast number of men. But well, you're entitled to your feelings ofc.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 12:33 PM
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Thank you. It is a really nice piece and I have saved it for future reference. "Our findings that half of relationships with violence could be characterized as reciprocally violent are consistent with prior studies. 8,9,11 We were surprised to find, however, that among relationships with nonreciprocal vio- lence, women were the perpetrators in a ma- jority of cases, regardless of participant gender. One possible explanation for this, assuming that men and women are equally likely to initi- ate p…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 12:14 PM
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I have no idea how you related all of that to the previous comment; but sure dude. I'd love to reply further but I genuinely did not understand what you said.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:56 AM
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Bro, just read it, and no where it says that females make 70% of the abuses. The post constantly points out not only the lack of research and data (for sampling or under reporting issues), but only points out that females DO perpetrate abuse and that up yo 80% of male sexual victimization is made by females who force to penetrate. Is that all? That women can rape? I think we had already stated this.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:49 AM
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THANK YOU. See? Much easier that way.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:45 AM
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Oh, I did, but if your expecting ME to find the numbers YOU/Y'ALL claim I'd just tell you to straight up stop being lazy. There is a lot under "IPV" and Idk which one should I look to find the claims of this thread, should I read every single one and get back to you in 2026??
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:45 AM
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No one is saying men cannot be victims or that women cannot be perpetrators. I just feel they want to overload female's fault for a system men themselves helped to create. Men continue to be overrepresented in every aspect of society, whether positive or negative, so it cannot be so bad for us unless we're shooting ourselves in the foot. I think we are.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:41 AM
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Thankfully is not a "single answer serves all" kind of question, but I can only imagine what it is that was meant by that; I wonder why you have issues just using plain language.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:38 AM
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Yeah, keep watching closely. Attention is the only thing you have.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:37 AM
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I'm not saying I haven't seen it or ever heard of it. I have. I'm saying that claiming that 70% of abuse is perpetrated by women and that homo relationships have higher levels of abuse is pretty big and bold, and just as they* did previously, I'm expecting sources.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:33 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but most men do not die because of being men (like when a partner or a relative kills them for anything related to their position as husband/father/son/guy), but more for the type of risky situations they get in or are targeted in (robberies, kidnap, war, jobs, etc). On the other hand, most killing of females are not due to robberies or the same type of violent assaults that kills most men; females are murdered in higher rates for stuff related to their position as a mot…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:30 AM
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I will need you to drop your sources because those are BIG claims, but words remain words.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:23 AM
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Nah dawg, not mad. If anything, entertained. Y'all are mad when we tell you the victimization is not it.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:17 AM
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As a person, a bunch of fucking stuff, possibly as much as any other person could, depending on their persona and what they know how to do; so I do not know what you think married women provide in support of a marriage, but in my experience, seen anything from total home presence to total income input. Why don't you answer the question instead of responding with another question
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:16 AM
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No, I wasn't he explained really well he/they think men only give money. What is the wife's services?
/r/MensRights28/12/24 11:02 AM
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I notice a lot of people in this sub take anything they disagree with like a furious attitude. Not mad, just pointing out a behavior.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 10:55 AM
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Do you know of any organizations or groups pushing/lobbying for this or similar legislation? We can't definitely leave the conversation at "we suffer, society doesn't care for us, females are at fault/have it better" because I don't see how that attitude advances men's rights.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 10:43 AM
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Controversial take: it's men's fault?
/r/MensRights28/12/24 10:37 AM
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1- I sincerely asked you to explain to me because as stated, I didn't quite understand what you said. Now I do, and I agree; most men (at least the ones I know) don't get off on non-consensual stuff. 2- You're probably right too about the legal context; I'm inclined to think there have been way more precedents where females are the victims and that's why nowadays we have a bunch of laws and rules that didn't exist 20, 30, 40 years ago, regarding non-consent. I wonder if there are organizations p…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 10:28 AM
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I have never understood this thought, and I have never understood the reaction it causes on some people. I, as a male, understand that the majority of rapists are males. I, as a male, understand I have a higher chance of being an abuser, than let's say, your average female, at least just statistically speaking. That does not make me a rapist. That doesn't make you a rapist, and that doesn't mean that all of us are rapists. We cannot obliviate that there are a bunch of guys out there literally ge…
/r/MensRights28/12/24 10:23 AM
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I continue without understanding the relationship between what was posted and what you're commenting, my apologies. I wondered if you were being apologetic for the "rape culture" ?
/r/MensRights28/12/24 10:13 AM
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what's the wife's services?
/r/MensRights28/12/24 10:10 AM
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I'm so curious as to why I do not see it that way. I feel we talk a lot about men issues, in general.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 10:02 AM
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I'm entertained by the mental gymnastics some people use to miss the point here, and somehow, deflect it on to women. Entertaining.
/r/MensRights28/12/24 09:58 AM
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Apologist much?
/r/MensRights28/12/24 09:57 AM
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No.
/r/MensRights26/12/24 02:21 AM
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I mean, you could potentially find articles about gender disparities in every single country on the world. Does that mean that people are making a big fuss about it as you hear in places like Argentina or France? No. And the articles you provide show no major “fuss” about gender disparities in Israel. 3 out of 4 are about indexes, which are measured using macro-data, not asking people what they think or feel. The feminists would tell you that the gender disparity is a consequence of patriarchy. …
/r/MensRights24/12/24 03:36 PM
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I have articulated no ideology and if anything, international score ranks about women rights would just add to the idea that there is a patriarchal model we’re fighting against, doesn’t it? As in, some organisation thinks that there are gender gaps and unless I’m misunderstanding you, that’s what you’re claiming does not exist?
/r/MensRights24/12/24 03:25 PM
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Too many assumptions and dispersed ideas, my dude. I don’t have to feel offended, the words you used are offensive, regardless of who/what they’re directed too. No one is whitewashing anything, I shared the most general definition I found and as such I stated it. Yes, men are the people who force other men to go to war and forced women to stay home. Israel has obligatory military service for all citizens regardless of gender; you don’t hear israeli men or women making a big fuss about gender ine…
/r/MensRights24/12/24 03:11 PM
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I don’t want to say “you’re wrong”, and I respect your opinion, but no need to get offensive here, buddy. The most general definition I find is: “Patriarchy is a social system in which positions of authority are primarily held by men. The term patriarchy is used both in anthropology to describe a family or clan controlled by the father or eldest male or group of males, and in feminist theory to describe a broader social structure in which men as a group dominate society.” (Wikipedia). That doesn…
/r/MensRights24/12/24 02:47 PM
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They’re not gonna like your comment. They just want us to criticize females haha
/r/MensRights24/12/24 02:17 PM
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I do agree with their statement, it’s patriarchy. Now, I don’t know to what extent we can blame everything on it. Patriarchy is a thing, we use it in sociological and anthropological fields to define certain characteristics of societies. Don’t fight it, be curious about it.
/r/MensRights24/12/24 02:16 PM
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No battles, just conversations. Y’all see disagreements like a fight, are y’all ok? I knew subreddits could be echo chambers but that’s a metaphore you guys, you don’t have to make it so, it’d be pretty much impossible.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 01:39 AM
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Silly
/r/MensRights20/12/24 01:01 AM
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Yeah, it’d make sense to talk about physics in a subreddit of physics, just like it would make sense to talk about men in a subreddit of men’s rights. Maybe you’re so offended that your reading comprehension is compromised, but I’m not telling anyone else what to say or think; I’m sharing my opinion to the post and other comments, just like you and others. Now breathe, can’t stay tight that much time my man, not good for you.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 02:19 AM
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Doesn’t change the reality. This sub is full of people who want to talk more about women than about men.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 01:58 AM
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Sorry, we would make it the lower rates of the third world*** i should have said.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 08:40 PM
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You’re just assuming AND projecting. We can both point fingers at each other, except I recognise I know nothing about you and Idgaf either, but you do seem to think you know about whoever you’re talking to. Get your head out of your ass, man
/r/MensRights18/12/24 04:18 PM
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Wouldn’t minimize such a complex array of issues by saying“seek therapy”. And I do agree with plenty of feminists that many of these issues stem from what they call “toxic masculinity” maybe that wasn’t the case in your house, but lots of little boys get from very early in their lives, from both Dad and Mom, from Grandma and Uncle, that your feelings as a guy are not as important. Bottling it up, giving up your safety while others don’t have to, having the responsibility of other people in your …
/r/MensRights18/12/24 04:15 PM
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Y’all keep insisting that I’m offended. I’m not offended buddy, I’m not a female, I’m not taking personally anything that we are discussing in this threat because I’m not a female, and I’m not a gun user, so it’s definitely not me we’re talking about here. Are you offended? I think you are.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 04:06 PM
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You can’t just mush together different crimes. If there are 1k deaths of females, you categorize them by reasons. 40 killings out of jealousy, 40 homicides would be 100% done by jealousy reasons. Then you’d need to see in what rates people kill for jealousy, how many men died being killed by a jealous lover/relative and how many women and you see whether the “jealousy violence” affects disproportionately one population or the other. / most females die from heart-related diseases, that are, stati…
/r/MensRights18/12/24 04:04 PM
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How many females out of 577? So we can get on the same page, at least. 80? 13% is significant indeed, but I fail to see how that advances the conversation. I acknowledge that it is IMPORTANT to point out, in that case, that 13% of cases are made by females and that it would advance the solution if we knew whether the reasons for females are the same as for males. However, if we solved the issues with males and were only females doing mass shootings, we would still be slightly over the general av…
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:59 PM
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Well, there’s definitely something affecting males disproportionately in this issue, like, why wouldn’t it be closer to 50-50? Why is it 80-20? 85-15?
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:58 PM
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No bro, the problem IS that we don’t do enough for males mental health. Definitely mass shootings aren’t worsened by feminists. Again, focus less on females and more on males. Just an advice
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:45 PM
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Your example is messy. But if a community accounts for less than 5% of a type of crime, then yes, it is statistically silly to focus on that 5% as much as we would focus on the 95%.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:41 PM
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I guess we don’t live in the same planet, because it’s definitely not a feminist issue and bold of you to assume anyone’s position on every domain. A girl shoots a school every 730 days, a guy every 4 days. Bro, like… focus less on the feminists, focus more on men. That’s my advice
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:38 PM
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Bro, there have been steadily mass shootings in this country. They always pass the 10 mass shootings per year, with 2016 being the first year in the new millennium with more than 50 school mass shootings. Even if we said there were only 10 mass shootings a year, over a span of 20 years (23, if we start from 2001), that would make 230 mass shootings in the last 23 years. 10 mass shootings is not the 10% of all mass shootings. I don’t know where you have math at, but it ain’t here. The number is W…
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:34 PM
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Yes it does mean that they are not as important since they are not statistically meaningful. There have been 83 mass shootings in the United States in 2024 ALONE. Pointing out that there are 10 females who have done it since 2001 is not a conversation starter, it’s a fact and nothing else. It doesn’t help us to talk about what we could do to end violence, it doesn’t help us to talk about the problems that males face and take them to do these shitty things, it does nothing for males. 10 females s…
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:21 PM
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I literally do not understand your point. It doesn’t get us mad to say females commit crimes, the law isn’t there by gender, it is there for people alike. However, when in a field there is no statistical significance for a certain population to be equally considered in a issue, it just seems SILLY to want to include the minority into the calculations. It’s like affirmative action, but for crime reporting? It’s just silly.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:09 PM
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Not at all, but they don’t make a significant statistical difference. Like if we had had only 10 mass shootings since 2001 (meaning, counting only the females) we would be at the same level than any other industrialized society on this planet…
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:04 PM
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No tantrum my dude. I think you’re projecting.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:00 PM
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It’s somehow missing what we could do for males. A lot of this subreddit is not about men but about women.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 02:58 PM
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They will REFUSE to see it. There have been 83 school shootings in 2024 ALONE, in the United States, but let’s all not forget that 10 mass school shooters have been females since 2001!!!!
/r/MensRights18/12/24 02:51 PM
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Thank you! Message doesn’t vary, the h didn’t stop you from getting the message tho. Should I write “though”?
/r/MensRights18/12/24 02:48 PM
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We’re not conveniently leaving anything out regarding females, y’all are trying to overfocus on it. We’re all like, we know a female did it, we all saw the same news
/r/MensRights18/12/24 02:43 PM
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It’s so crazy how y’all want to point fingers at females non-stop. It is a nice eco-chamber in here
/r/MensRights18/12/24 02:07 PM
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It’s a psychological biases. Men with baby-like faces have less opportunities professionally than other males; except minorities. If you’re a minority, then having baby-face is good because people from the majority group will think you’re not a threat. It’s well documented. The justice system has many flaws, like for example that the people seeing a judge before lunch have a super high rate of appeal denial or harder sentences, while being in front of a judge that just came back from lunch gives…
/r/MensRights18/12/24 01:54 PM
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They just want to be seen as the victims of the story :(( Poor us men, we have it so hard!!!
/r/MensRights18/12/24 01:21 PM
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No shit, in India? Literally there are rape gangs in India. Maybe if raping females wasn’t so common in India, it would be less likely to blindly believe anybody accusing of rape.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 01:20 PM
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No, I literally just don’t know any guys who would or have been accused of rape.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 05:30 AM
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Revenge is an interesting idea. Don’t know many guys who would get accused of rape tho.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 05:20 AM
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Yes it is so sad that the bad guys are making us all bear the burden of possibly being accused of rape, what a shame
/r/MensRights18/12/24 05:12 AM
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Whatever it is that you’re saying has to do with the girl and the shooting?
/r/MensRights18/12/24 05:08 AM
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Bro yall make me laugh so much with your takes 😂😂
/r/MensRights18/12/24 04:55 AM
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Yes they can and do, some, very few. We know about them when they make it to the spotlight
/r/MensRights07/12/24 10:23 PM
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This is such an interesting reddit. Yes, men, stop raping. You as well, minority raping females, stop raping! Men are the ample majority but hey, do not forget about women! They also can!
/r/MensRights07/12/24 06:56 PM
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It’s easy to hate. Segregation laws and imperialism wasn’t carried out by the niceness of White Men, but rather their scorn towards other ethnicities; including non anglo-protestan white communities like the Irish and the Italian. Nowadays, when you cannot legally reprimend people for complaining, it is easy for those who hated what happened, to hate in the present now that they can. However, I don’t believe that we hate White Men and it’s not that we do not appreciate that they bring on to the …
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