Novalid Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Seddit, What's your biggest obstacle. +mini[FR] Escalation. Bleh. I feel like I should just blurt out 'sex' and 'penis' more often.	/r/seduction	03/05/14 01:59 AM
2	Looking for wingmen in Seattle Dude. Yes.	/r/seduction	01/05/14 04:26 AM
2	get in the zone while practicing conversation threading. Hey, cool! I started using this a few years back, when even a face-to-face convo with anyone scared the living daylights outta me. These days, if I've gone a day without chatting to anyone or just want to warm up, I jump on. If you have major anxiety, not just AA but general anxiety, I totally recommend wading through the dicks to talk to random people.	/r/seduction	29/04/14 11:52 PM
3	The Rise Of You v. 0.1: Abolishing Confidence Issues Shoot, dude. That's where you're at now?! Go man(or gal), Go!	/r/seduction	06/02/14 03:29 AM
1	I feel like I've gotten worse since discovering Seddit Yeah, man, I'm a natural, too. Really social, love people, all that jazz. After focusing on seduction for a while, I realized what I was doing wrong: I went into every interaction with seduction on my mind. It really threw off my social grove. My interactions are much more fluid now that I don't focus on PU like I did for a while (If that makes any sense). These days, I'm just myself. That being said, this subreddit has helped me in the closing department. Before, I would be friendly with women …	/r/seduction	23/12/13 09:07 PM
1	first cold approach last night. went terrible. Damn you, I sat at home after canceling plans to go out (again). I can't wait till I start to get rejected.	/r/seduction	09/06/13 12:34 AM
1	I find it easy to flirt and pick up girls who I'm not massively interested in, but turn into a nervous weirdo around girls I really like. Do less!	/r/seduction	18/04/13 03:29 AM
1	I just want someone to talk to me, dammit Pshh, not sure. I am a hardcore gaze averter myself. I don't look at the people I'm talking to unless its in short bursts. I have heard people saying that "smiling eyes" and relaxed eye contact while glancing at their mouth is ok. Personally I tend to fill in the silence with a question about them or I tell a short story. I am not sure what "normal" conversationalist do in those silences.	/r/seduction	03/04/13 05:17 AM
3	I just want someone to talk to me, dammit What does "droll" mean to you? Also, I feel ya man. I was listening to a conversation earlier today and I noticed that there was a lot more pauses and silences than what I usually allow in conversations I participate in. Sometimes being quite and letting the silence kinda hang and grow slightly awkward can get people to say something. ProTip: Use this tactic when asking underlings questions, e.g. Me:"Did you mop the floor?" Them: "Yep!" Me: ..silence.. Them: "Well, I got the front but haven't do…	/r/seduction	03/04/13 12:44 AM