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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Just found out she’s cheating You’re right op nor I deserved it. I’m just saying now that I’ve been over the shock of it all I can look at it objectively and see why it happened. Out doesn’t excuse her actions as she did it on a sober mind which makes it even more diabolical. Marriage is hard. It breaks people when they clearly married the wrong person.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/24 04:08 AM
1	Just found out she’s cheating While cheating was my number 1 reason I ended my marriage, I do acknowledge her commitment to our kids and will respect that right and never speak ill of her around my kids. If they want to know why we divorced I’ll tell them later in life or mom can tell them. Cheating sucks man but it’s not worth enacting revenge. A lot of the time cheating is a symptom not the cause. In my instance it took a lot of self reflection to see I was not providing the affirmation she was needing. I partially blame t…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/24 01:00 AM
1	Divorce in Virginia I don't have child support payments neither does my ex and I have my kid full custody. We talk about expected expenses coming up for the kid and split them 50/50.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/24 05:59 PM
2	Ultimate fear and shock is reality Doesn't have to be hostile but you should absolutely stand your ground and don't let them walk over you. My divorce was like shooting nerf darts at each other rather than bullets.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/24 05:24 PM
1	Ultimate fear and shock is reality I was mad for a week but then I looked at it from her side and realized I was a piece of shit too. If you can see yourself in the mirror it helps a lot. Got sober, worked on myself. I am better for it now.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/24 05:22 PM
2	Divorced at 28, together 7 years and she cheated. Healed well with therapy and trying to date again, is this a big turn off or flag for women in mid - late 20’s? Never again for me too.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/24 04:58 PM
7	Just found out she’s cheating Going through the same thing man. This is kinda the step process I went through. First, breathe... that lump in your chest stays around a few days. Dump out all the alcohol in your house. You need to face this head on and not drown it out. Second, you're now in the chess match of your life. Gather evidence you need don't tell anyone you have this evidence(which you have done a great job at). Back it up on a computer and a thumb drive keep it at work. Talk to the lawyer find out your options... I…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/24 04:39 PM
1	Single mother of twins about to pop, just doing some shopping for a beta mop. Can confirm	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/11/18 12:08 AM
4	The main sub Was quarantined don't know for what though	/r/askTRP	01/10/18 03:57 AM
34	"Why so many women cheat on their husbands" Be careful in the military dude you can get a discharge for adultery and forfeiture of benefits. Your wife could easily take you to the cleaners over it too. Seen too many people get fucked over for cheating.	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/17 05:30 PM
3	In South Carolina 13% to 16% of the jailed population are lower income father who cannot pay child support. An alpha takes ownership of his situation. An alpha doesn't take fucking handouts. You should reassess your thinking of what an alpha is. The kids aren't worse off with him, they'd obviously be worse off with her. He knew this, made the choice for his children and owned it. He can always find another woman.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 09:31 PM
8	In South Carolina 13% to 16% of the jailed population are lower income father who cannot pay child support. Since when has showing respect for a women you know would be placed in hardship had you gone through with requesting child support beta? Turning down child support and taking care of your kids yourself is pretty fuckin alpha imo.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 04:03 AM
0	In South Carolina 13% to 16% of the jailed population are lower income father who cannot pay child support. THERE IS NO UPSIDE TO A MAN GETTING MARRIED. I disagree. Having two incomes and the tax write offs can boost your retirement/financial goals exponentially. Problem is men not getting on the same page as their women and keeping themselves in check. There is no reason for the woman to stay with you so you have to provide a reason.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 03:54 AM