NowISeeTheFunnySide Archive

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2	first post by lurker. long Success story with pic proof! thank you seddit! i am a rather shy guy Through this out the window. Are you shy around people you know, when meeting new people in a situation where you are comfortable/have control (like work), or someone knocking on your door at home? It's approach anxiety and you can overcome that through getting out there and approaching. Shy is a label most likely placed on you by family/friends and reinforced over time, by yourself even. Fuck labels.	/r/seduction	01/07/11 05:07 PM
6	What are your favorite white lies you tell girls when you flirt with them? Girls fall all over me when I tell them LOL.	/r/seduction	30/05/11 06:11 PM
26	Cross Post from F7U12 - Don't by girls drinks It's manipulative? The guys in the comic are pissed because while trying to manipulate someone else's feelings, they got played themselves. I'm still learning here, but I use the "guy friend" test. If it's not something I would do for a guy friend or to help out another random stranger, I don't do it just because I think the girl is attractive. I would much rather just strike up a conversation on my own merits instead of doing something "nice" for a girl to get her to talk to me.	/r/seduction	28/04/11 10:02 PM
8	I can't do this... This has helped me a lot. Start with your everyday interactions, make some eye contact and think of one or two extra things to say. Notice something about them or the situation and you'll be surprised how often they smile are glad to have someone talk to them like a person. "Long day huh?" "Busy in here right now, evening rush?" "First time I've been here, didn't know this place was here." etc...No pressure, they'll be on to their next customer in 30 seconds. They might even remember you next ti…	/r/seduction	09/02/11 10:59 PM
1	I'd like to thank this community Awesome, cause I'm in a similar situation. I'm still a bit younger than you but I'm on the wrong side of 30. Nice to know age is not a limiting factor.	/r/seduction	14/01/11 02:35 PM
3	I'd like to thank this community I'm gonna jump in here since I'm pretty much a lurker. This subreddit has been awesome in how it's changed my perspective on life and relationships. I still have a long way to go, but I also want to reinforce what the OP said.	/r/seduction	14/01/11 12:49 AM
0	Inside the mind of a hot girl - Vary rare insight. Only now can I truly understand the importance of negging / hiding interest. [AskReddit post] I just realize now that they are just as shallow as I am. You attract to yourself that which you are in vibrational harmony with, not that which you long for or even deserve.	/r/seduction	14/12/10 06:49 PM
1	how to make conversation... Practice. Ask open ended questions, not yes/no. Listen. Key in on points they mention. Talk about how you can relate, if you can. Practice. Be prepared to carry the majority of the conversation at the beginning for quiet people. Don't stick to one topic for the whole conversation. If you can't find something else, you aren't listening. Practice. Be genuinely interested in the other person. Smile. Did I mention practice? Make conversation with as many people as you can as you go about your day. N…	/r/seduction	10/12/10 04:41 AM