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Huh? I have no idea what you're talking about. Are you saying I could start a very successful porn channel with all the hot girls I fuck? I mean yeah, I guess, but it could affect other career opportunities for me should I seek to try something new after a while, so I'd have to give it a lot of thought first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:35 PM
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We get it, you’re a loser creep who harassed women and you’re proud of it. Nope, I'm proud that I get to fuck them even though they had no interest in me when I first approached them. That's the part I'm proud about, not harassing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:19 PM
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Nope, never said I only approach attractive women, I talk to anyone, of any gender, for whatever reason I feel like. Its funny that you bring up the idea of only approaching women for sex, because its when I approach hot girls for sex and companionship that I usually get what I want. Its when I approach women for a platonic, neighbourly relationship that I have a much harder time making it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:36 PM
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Headstrong, secure women don’t feel the need to entertain random street males who aren’t worth our time. Well its a lucky thing for me then that "headstrong" and "secure" are not common qualities in the women I tend to find attractive :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:32 PM
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Maybe YOU are unattractive to the women you approach. It's a possibility. But then that begs another question: why do they put my dick in their mouths? Doesn't seem like the most sensible thing to do with a guy you find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:37 PM
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Overall, its extremely telling that 99% of commentors saying there is nothing wrong with this behaviour seem to have either a cognitive or social impairment(possibly both).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:57 PM
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It’s a weird conversation to have I'm tired of saying it at this point so I'm not gonna say it this time. Since you seem to have read my other comments you probably already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:49 AM
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I posted this in response to another user, but you could probably benefit from reading it too, seeing as you're so worried about why I made this post: No woman is obliged to give you the time of day, period. And yet they do anyway, and a lot more. LOL I didn't realize this when I made the post, but now that I think about it, I was actually throwing women a bone here. I'm already getting everything I want from them, so I don't need them to act a certain way or do anything more for me. All I was d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:17 PM
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No woman is obliged to give you the time of day, period. And yet they do anyway, and a lot more. LOL I didn't realize this when I made the post, but now that I think about it, I was actually throwing women a bone here. I'm already getting everything I want from them, so I don't need them to act a certain way or do anything more for me. All I was doing by making this post was allowing them chance to convince me that this behaviour isn't really rude, and that I was being too quick to judge. Too ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:14 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:22 PM
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if your “approach” is so effective then why complain? You actually hit the nail on the head here. This is what I was trying to explain to these MFs, especially the OP. My tactic is, as you say, effective, so I have no reason to complain. I have no personal reason to care how willing women are to talk to strangers. Once you understand that part at least, then you're one step closer to understanding why I made this post. (I've already outright stated the reason multiple, so its obviously its not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:19 PM
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Meant to say it should teach him that fucking a lot of hot girls does not make him invincible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:10 PM
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I don't know why you think I would care about upvotes or any of that. I made this post to discuss something, and that's what I'm doing. I asked this hoping to be convinced of a different viewpoint. Unfortunatetly not a single user has managed to provide remotely sound reasoning for why this behaviour isn't rude. Just a ton of "no one is obligated to talk to our neighhours", when that wasn't even the question. And that's completely fine by me of course, I was hoping that women were more multiface…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:09 PM
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Of course you would not state that outright Ok, so your concerns were that I "would never state that outright". I hope then that I was able to adaquetly address those concerns by straight up contradicting them when I said: "I talk to anyone, of any gender, for whatever reason I feel like." So there you go. Forget "not stating it outright", I have now said the complete opposote.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:15 PM
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You seem to think that this post is about people talking to me. Lol, does that mean you think they'll talk to you? Seeing that you're nice and respectful?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:35 AM
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I see...I understand your condition now. Now I feel bad because I feel I've been way too harsh on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:54 PM
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Basically, it can't possibly be about me and what I hope to get out of it, because I'm already getting everything I want from women. I gain literally no additional perks as an individual from women being willing to talk to guys they don't know. Calling people entitled on the internet is nothing new, but in this case it is actually backward thinking? Why would I want to be entitled? What would that entail? How would things change for me as an individual, if I were actually entitled to that? See w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:32 PM
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oh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:15 PM
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Maybe its best to just speak for yourself. You don't know what the other commentator said, because they have been talking about things that only exist in their own mind, not even realizing that I had already explained away all their theories, just kept on and on spouting insane garbage. And while I guess it makes sense that insane people think alike, you don't know whether the figments of your own imagination is the same as theirs, so its still better to not speak for other users. MF is really s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:52 PM
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No, man, I was using a metaphor. Metaphors generally are not 100% similar to the real thing, its the core principle that is focused on. You see, this is exactly what I'm talking about. Its one thing to not realize when someone is speaking metaphorically; even the most socially astute of us slip up on that count now and then. But when you lack the basic social awareness to even know how metaphors work, then you have no business deciding what is and isn't appropriate in social settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:22 PM
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Nope, they're the ones who make the choice whether to talk to me or not. Its like saying I'm coercing an employer into hiring me by doing well on my interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:32 AM
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Also - if she sees no direct benefit, why should she? A comment like this is very telling, and exactly the kind of attitude my post is kinda about. Its almost hilarious how they come to me with the most predictable "if I don't see any benefit in doing something, why should I do it?" Zero self-awareness. Indeed, why should you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:20 PM
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I see. Sounds like you've got it all figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:41 PM
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Ok, so people are crazy. Wouldn't having your neighbours watching your back then be particularly helpful for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:19 PM
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Nope, never said I only approach attractive women, I talk to anyone, of any gender, for whatever reason I feel like. Believe me, this would be a lot easier to figure out if the issue was really to do with me as an individidual. I've been very successful in my personal pursuits of approaching hot girls for romance. Its my arguably more noble goals of fostering a sense of community in my neighbourhood, that I've been having a hard time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:01 PM
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oh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:53 PM
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Ok, so if my complaint is personal and its all about wanting women to speak to me. In that case, how would that outcome benefit me, and why would I want to make a post about it? What would I stand to gain from that, that I'm not already getting from women in abundance? Some of yall say the dumbest shit without thinking first, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:49 PM
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No, it's not rude at all. If she doesn't want to talk to you, she doesn't have to. Well now I'm utterly convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:45 PM
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What are you talking about? She literally did not even tell me no. I hadn't even asked her for anything to begin with. But sure, keep believing your own narrative. After all, that's what "normal" people do, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:43 PM
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You're the insane MF that I told after your first insane comment that your verbal output is too insane to respond to. What exactly do you think has changed since then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:42 PM
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When did I say they were obligated to speak to me? Not once. I just walk next to her and try to get her to start responding. My tactics may work for me but its still ultimately up to the woman to make the choice whether she responds to me or not. Never said she was obligated. To any normal person, I keep trying to tell yall, normal people don't worry about being normal. We are not bothered by that shit at all, we're just living our lives. Its only weird, quirky people who make a conscious effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:59 PM
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This right here is why women don't want to fucking talk OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:50 PM
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That you look at my post and perceive somebody talking about how women should fulfill the socialization needs of men suggests that your worldview is so distorted that you probably can't even see rude behaviour for what it is. Now I'm genuinely curious as to how someone like you would go about forming relationships in a "non-rude" way. Its sure to be an interesting read.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:01 PM
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I see that you're responding to a lot of my comments. You've demonstrated from your first response here that we are not two people who can even agree to disagree, so I think its better if we both do things how we see fit and not worry about the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:42 PM
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This is not the way you make friends or find a partner. This is the way you make other people uncomfortable and alienate them. Hey man, if you think that's not how you find a partner or make friends, then you know, don't do it. You don't need my permission. You live your life how you want to thumbsupemoji
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:39 PM
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Never said I can't undestand any of that. Nowhere did I say anything resembling that anywhere on this post. Seriously, why is it always the most batty individuals who are the first pull the old "See a therapist" line, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:12 PM
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Fair enough. I don't know if it was you I told this to or someone else, but even if the woman isn't attracted to me, and my advances will ulitmately fail, I'd personally still rather her not cut the conversation short because I'd rather walk away respecting her as a person than wondering how I might have offended her. Not saying you have to do this of course, I'm just saying if that is the primary reason why a woman doesn't wanna talk then she's looking at it the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:52 PM
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Yeah, she owes me nothing, but imagine she start actually doing more than the bare minimum instead of only what she's obligated to, god forbid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:21 PM
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Yeah, I have actually been trying and you're right, it seems like many people don't value community, which is a shame. I feel like its only common sense to foster a society where we watch each other's back. Like it might not be "a thing" these days but I mean, individual people can still think and act for themselves. Its funny you mention the guy only striking up a conversation to make advances, because its when I'm approaching a woman for that reason that I'm usually successful. Its when I appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:48 AM
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I already do talk to other men as well but I can't really call it being neighbourly if women are excluding themselves. Yes I can still enjoy being on good terms with the guys in my neighbourhood but its not a real community then if the women are only interested in talking to people they're already friends with. Anyway, you're looking at it the wrong way, as if all that matters is your level of romantic interest in him. If you're not interested in his advances, then just turn him down when he mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:40 AM
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You are definitely entitled to do that. Should teach that fucking a lot of hot girls does not make him invincible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:05 AM
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The sad part is I wasn't even stating any opinions of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:35 AM
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This isn't about me, its about you. You said that you have no problem with wanting people to fuck off sometimes when they talk to you and that there is nothing rude about having that attitude. I can definitely understand how perceiving basic conversation as "privileged access" can result in having a different view of politeness toward others. Maybe this is a cultural thing; here in the Western world, it is not uncommon at all for men and women to intermingle and it definitely isn't seen as some …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:31 AM
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thumbsupemoji
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:18 AM
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I'm not talking about "privileged access", I'm talking about basic conversation. But hey, you do you. If its been working out for you then keep at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:17 AM
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And is there a particular reason why you so badly needed to know why the women in my particular community choose rudeness in response? You could have just asked me, I would have told you right away; no need to spend all this time trying to figure it out on your own. Glad we could clear that up! thumbsupemoji
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:56 AM
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Hey man, you're all about the mgtow lifestyle and I can respect your decision. Leave women alone if they don't bring you fulfillment, focus on your wealth, etc, you do you my friend. I get that having relations with women is not for everyone, and I don't judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:13 AM
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I actually don't disagree with you; its a lot easier than many guys think to get a cold and aloof woman to stop and talk, and I wish I could show a lot more guys how I do it so they are better equipped to deal with this behaviour. I'm not saying these women should fuck them, I don't care about that. But being non-responsive when someone tries to strike up a conversation with you is unnatural behaviour, and ts only right that more guys know how to "fix" this behaviour by knowing how get such wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:14 AM
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Completely missed the point, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:09 AM
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From another comment where I addressed a similar concern: I started dating girls in my early teens, and that's when I started noticing this, albeit subconsciously at first. I noticed that girls who I unsuccessfully tried to make a move on when I barely knew them, seemed to be open to possible advances after they got to know me a little, and were indeed overjoyed when I asked them out a second time. It's happened this way countless times now throughout my life, which is why I've preferred to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:05 AM
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"I desire an opening" LMAO. Funniest comment here. Then he/she proceeds to tell me what most women are thinking :D
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:59 AM
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I know, but there are big differences in your comment and the ones that I made those responses to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:57 AM
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Don't really know what you're talking about in first paragraph but yes, being polite is not a requirement. I am however interested in the morality itself here, not whether said morality is required. I would also argue that being rude to the people one lives in general promixity to is much more likely to cause problems than manage them, but what do I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:53 AM
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Lol, this is so funny because it seems to me like shitting where you eat would be to cause ill feelings toward you in among your neighbours by being rude to them and acting like you want nothing to do with them. You do you, my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:50 AM
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Huh? I'm not even disputing any of that. I was addressing a specific issue some of the women here seem to be having. If you don't have that issue yourself, then you don't have it. No five-page tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:47 AM
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Yep, I'm not surprised to hear that at this point. Many women who responded to this post have talked about only ever getting attention from very low-value men, to the point where they can't even fathom that there are attractive guys out there who are successful with women. They probably think all the attractive guys are stashed away somewhere, geographically inaccessible. So yes, I'm sure that you highly doubt that. But that's the sad part.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:44 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:19 PM
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If it helps, I always thought guys who say that kind of shit are so dumb. I don't assosicate with myself with them at all, and think that they probably just aren't very smooth if they don't get success approaching women this way. Either way, more for me lol. Go tell the police how she didn't you enough time to change her mind and see how that goes. I have connections with in the local police so I probably wouldn't even need to tell them that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:09 PM
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You should do what you think is right. If they do something then good for you, it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:04 PM
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Men and women have the prerogative to ignore strangers Yeah, they do and sadly so many women in particular choose to do the bare minimum. or tolerate you ignoring social cues Social cues is something very different to what you think it is. With a guy going up to a woman and she choosing not to respond to him? Its very obvious she doesn't want to be talked to. There's no reading of social cues happening there. All he's doing is giving up prematurely on a woman he might have still had a chance wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:42 PM
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Well yes, of course you have every right to do what you want with your time, that's obvious. So obvious that I didn't feel the need to make a post discussing it. But I'm trying to talk about morality here, not about basic human rights. That would be a very boring conversation topic. You don't need any reason, justification or excuse to do what you want to, but god forbid you actually start doing more than just the bare minimum to survive. I made the post because I wanted to hear peoples' viewpoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:36 PM
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You seem to have diverged somewhere from the subject of this post. I'm not really talking about me or what I think people should do for me or anything like that. I'm here to discuss women not responding to guys in their neighbourhood that talk to them, and the morality behind it. I knew there'd be people who see nothing wrong in it so I'm interested in hearing their point of view. (At the very least, I knew women themselves would disagree with me because saying that there is an issue with this b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:22 PM
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Yeah, maybe I do fall into the trap sometimes of subconsiouscly seeing women not unlike NPC's, especially since many of them do behave like NPC's in a game. I go up to them, I do so and so, and they give me what I wanted. So I guess in that case I'll let indivdiual women prove me wrong and show me that are not like NPC's at all but actually have a mind of their own. In fact I have been doing that all along, I just haven't spoken of it in those terms before. why women don't want to waste their ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:18 PM
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Well yes, of course you have every right to do what you want with your time, that's obvious. So obvious that I didn't feel the need to make a post discussing it. But I'm trying to talk about morality here, not about basic human rights. That would be a very boring conversation topic. You don't need any reason, justification or excuse to do what you want to, but god forbid you actually start doing more than just the bare minimum to survive. I made the post because I wanted to hear peoples' viewpoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:11 PM
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I've felt that way about some people and they turned out to be pretty cool when I ended up talking to them. I've never dated someone like this but I was glad I got to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:25 PM
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I am indeed sorry, I've noticed this pattern with multiple women who have responded now. They all seem to be getting hit on non-stop by men who are of such low value that they find impossible to imagine getting approached by a guy who is in any way attractive or cool or interesting or has any qualities that would cause you to want to at least get to know him as a person if you don't reciprocate his romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:22 PM
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and it seems to me you're confusing civility with an active desire to have much deeper relations with people. Nope. Civilness is just being polite and respectful to others on a basic level. Not being rude to them. Not telling them throughts words or actions that they aren't worth your time. My post is about women because when I see this kind of thing happen its almost always a woman doing it. I very rarely see guys not responding to someone trying to talk to them about something. If I saw it in …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:18 PM
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No, but I've dated many women, been friends with many women, and talked to other guys about women a fuck ton. I probably know the experience of women better than the experience of men at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:11 PM
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If you know who he is and he's known for being a sketchy dude or something like that and you don't even want to be passing friends with him then that's kind of a different issue to what is being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:08 PM
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I'm sorry that you seem to have experienced being hit on by a non-stop stream of guys who are such losers and so unattractive that not only are you not interested in them, you know right away that this will never change as time goes on. From my own experiences dating women, being friends with women and talking to other guys about women, I know that many times when a woman is disinterested in a guy's advances, she might at least think he's a cool dude and doesn't mind having a friendly relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:07 PM
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Lol I've definitely gotten cursed out in doing this. I take it in stride.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:05 PM
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Oh believe me, I hate that I have to resort to those tactics. I never said that it was ideal. I would much prefer it if we could both just treat each other from basic civilness throughout.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:02 PM
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If you want to argue some esoteric viewpoint then maybe its better to put it in your own top level comment rather than piggyback off someone else'.s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:01 PM
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No, never said that at all. The very idea of being more selective means seeing less people you come into contact with as a potential date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:45 PM
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Again, if you're only getting approached by men who just want sex and don't care about you as a person, this is a you problem. Not saying its necessarily your fault, but that its to do with you as an individual. Whereas I'm talking about the general experience of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:39 PM
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Do you throw haymakers at men who try to talk to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:37 PM
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What is their safe space?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:35 PM
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If she doesn't want to speak to him so what? He likely won't gain anything from their interaction if she isn't engaged or interested. You're still looking at it the wrong way, as if all that matters is her level of interest in him. If she's not interested in his advances, then just turn him down when he makes them? Even if he fails, its better to walk away still respecting her as a person than wondering how he might have offended her in striking up a conversation. Speaking for myself personally(…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:33 PM
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I talk to anyone for various reasons, and respond to anyone talking to me as well - unattractive women, men, old people, children, doesn't matter. However this post isn't about me and what I want people to do for me. I'm here to discuss women not responding to guys in their neighbourhood that talk to them, and the morality behind it. I knew there'd be people who see nothing wrong in it so I'm interested in hearing their point of view. (At the very least, I knew women themselves would disagree wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:25 PM
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I have civil relationships with some of my neighbors, meaning that we acknowledge each other with a nod or a ''good day''. I also have friendly relations with some of my neighbors, we stop to chat, talk about what's going on with each of us, and then after a few minutes, we go on with our days. But its not really a civil relationship if it hinges on the condition that they never ask for more than a minute or two of your time. WIll this "civilness" go out of the window if they actually want to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:23 PM
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Yeah, I get that. Like I said, I'm talking about normal circumstances where the woman isn't mentally drained or doesn't have shit to do or anything like that. She just doesn't wanna talk to the guy because she feels she doesn't have anything to gain from doing so. Like human interaction has to be transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:12 PM
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So yeah, dont worry so much about what you would do if you were a woman, you seem to lack emotional intelligence for someone of your own designated gender, let alone the other one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:58 PM
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Yeah, but having thoughts of "I'm not interested" in response to fundamental human interaction stems from having a messed up perspective in the first place. To each their own I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:55 PM
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Completely different issue to what was originally being said. You/they were talking about people having shit to do, not people getting to spend their time however they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:54 PM
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Huh, are you on the wrong post? No one said anyone's demanding anything. The guy is just striking up a conversation. He's not demanding that you stop and talk. You're free to ignore him and go about your way. No one is obligated to show basic decency to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:53 PM
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That would be where our opinions differ. From time to time I try to picture myself as a woman and try to envision not responding to a guy who tries to make conversation with me, and try to imagine it not being rude as hell, but I'm just unable to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:51 PM
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Lol, "drop what they are doing". Its funny because I've dated many attractive women and you'd be surprised how much time they spend at home just doing nothing. And these kinds of women are supposed to be socially in high demand compared to average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:47 PM
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Interesting. Edit: Don't know if you're being ironic but yeah, if she had been keeping a distance from me and I was never able to get her to open up then pretty much, I just let it play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:46 PM
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Yeah, but this idea of seeing basic human interaction as being "held hostage" comes from a super messed up perspective in the first place. I would argue that not keeping a civil relationship with the people one lives in general proximity to is just as likely to "cause conflict" at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:45 PM
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If you're "not feeding the conversation" with this idea of "I just want him to stop talking to me so I'll keep giving curt, one-word responses to everything he says" then I'm curious as to why you feel that is less bitchy than straight up ignoring him lol. Lol I have to admit, if it weren't for women, I would have never realized that interacting with another human being was such a terrible thing to be subjected to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:43 PM
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So far I would say it is female neighbors who often approach male neighbors for help, so far that has been my case. Yep that is what I've been noticing as well. For instance, I always see girls from my neighbourhood during my commuting, and they get harassed by random dudes a lot. When this happens, they look at me with this "please help me" look in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:40 PM
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Its literally what you told me in you first comment, just not in so many words. Though you may not see it, the reason you have this impression of the men who come up and talk to you is because it seems like you're exclusively getting romantic attention from very low-value men, and I'm wondering why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:38 PM
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I see. Thanks for your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:36 PM
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This shit is too insane to even respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:35 PM
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Because maybe it will lead to you being able to be more selective with your friends and more importantly, with men you date. I'm still wondering why you even seem to run in these circles with all these low value men who mistake basic kindness from a woman as romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:35 PM
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Yeah I get that, I'm not talking about specific cases where the woman has urgent stuff to go do though. I'm talking about normal times. In general, a woman will not respond to guys who talk to her just because she doesn't think she has anything to gain from doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:31 PM
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That's exactly what I was thinking. I find to be terribly rude, but its such a common thing that its completely overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:31 PM
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this doesn't mean all women do. Indeed it doesn't, and I'm asking if it conveys signs of a bad attitude in how one sees other people if they don't care about things like community. You did answer my question though so thanks for your honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:29 PM
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I'm sorry that you seem to have experienced being hit on by a non-stop stream of guys who are such losers and so unattractive that not only are you not interested in them, you know right away that this will never change as time goes on. From my own experiences dating women, being friends with women and talking to other guys about women, I know that many times when a woman is disinterested in a guy's advances, she might at least think he's a cool dude and doesn't mind having a friendly relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:28 PM
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Well its not mutually exclusive. You can be romantically interested in a woman while still being interested in community. Ultimately you don't know. If the woman fears the guy is only trying to make advances then she's welcome to turn them down when he makes them. I'm talking more about not even responding to him on a basic conversational level. Judging from the tone of your comment it seems your issues go a lot deeper than the topic of discussion though, so its not right to say "if I was a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:24 PM
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