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Exactly. Besides, if she is marrying a rich older guy, you should be feeling sorry for him instead of jealous. Focus on your own happiness man and with your gf.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/25 01:04 PM
2

I think you already know what is going on, my friend. It's time to cut the cord and move on before more of your dignity, time, energy, and health is wasted on this woman.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 02:27 PM
3

As well as a majority of the assets like the house, most of her 401k, most of the savings, etc.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/24 05:44 PM
10

You can never trust her fully again. She is not sorry she cheated. She is sorry she got caught. She is now in damage control mode. Get a lawyer ASAP. Give them the evidence, and when you are given the ok, share with the family and friends everything so she cannot manipulate the situation to her advantage. You deserve better than a cheater and if 10yrs did not mean anything to her so much that she can cheat, she doesn't love you nor deserve to be in the marriage anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/24 11:47 AM
2

So what's the problem if they are guilty?
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 02:46 PM
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I really wish false DV claims would be treated as felony charges and that women get more punishment for them. Otherwise, we are looking into a world where men are constantly watching their every move to prove a point.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 09:31 AM
5

This says it all. Get an attorney. Even if you are on civil terms, you and your stbxw are on opposite ends in divorce and until you have professional advice look over and ok it, don't sign anything that could end up screwing you in more ways than one.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 02:35 PM
10

This definitely. The truth is: it is less expensive to be single than to be married along with less risky If you marry someone, as a man, you risk your mental, physical, and financial well being if she so much as cheats on you in any fashion. Not to mention the time and energy you have to do in order to date as well. It's just not worth it in today's age. I hate to say it but at the rate we are going, we are heading into an age where traditional marriage and relationships will be non-existent. I…
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 12:22 PM
3

Two words: Marriage counseling
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 12:02 PM
1

Judging by the community you post this in, you are divorcing her right?
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 11:49 AM
2

Good. Keep it that way and with any other means of communication she tries to throw at you. She's a big girl and can handle herself now
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 12:36 PM
13

I hope you blocked her and did not send her any money
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 12:34 PM
2

I agree. Let's face the facts: we are biological creatures that have instinctual needs. No matter how hard you try to deny or suppress them, they are still there. Eventually it is going to come out. What you can do is control them on your own terms. I honestly think you should just try looking for fwb relationships if you are hesitant to go into another relationship. Personally, I think this is the way to go for now. That is until the law starts to really equalize the consequences of marriage in…
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 12:33 PM
10

Exactly! My philosophy is that she is willing to let you see her in her birthday suit and you are married, there should be no secrets between you two.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 08:05 PM
1

Did you have your own separate account before the divorce talk?
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/24 05:31 PM
2

Look into it on your end with a lawyer and make sure no money has been moved around or that she doesn't have a secret account. I may be paranoid but when a spouse acts "nice" on the verge of divorce after still having an affair, something doesn't feel right IMO.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/24 02:39 PM
2

Have you guys discussed on how you want to divorce yet? Like assets and such?
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/24 02:07 AM
4

Yeah, I agree. I'm just astonished that people say that men come out of divorce more better than women after hearing something like this.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 05:32 AM
1

Personally, I would have gotten my revenge and released my anger in a more subtle way to avoid getting put in jail or simply just disappear. Serving it hot is not as rewarding or great as serving it cold.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 12:27 PM
1

First of all, NO ONE is the perfect husband/wife. Everyone makes mistakes. What she did though was make a choice. She chose to cheat. She chose to disrespect you and your family. So never think that this is your fault, ever. Second, regarding your daughter, just talk to your lawyer about wanting a safe environment and how she is unfit to be a positive influence on your daughter. If you can document her behavior and such, that might work in your favor. Best of luck.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 02:03 PM
13

She's cheating bro. Get a lawyer, document her neglect and actions, and get out of this marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 07:26 AM
1

Yep, just say no to marriage! It brings nothing and since you already have the kids, why bother putting a noose over your neck a 2nd time? Regarding your assets, you should talk to a lawyer and/or a financial advisor on how you want to protect your assets and how you want them to be distributed.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 12:48 PM
3

I think you should talk to a lawyer about this but if you guys are already doing 50/50, it might not change anything
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 03:48 PM
5

But she hasn't really been doing much with the kids though according to his post.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 09:29 AM
8

Where I store my computer files? A computer
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 01:18 PM
4

Yeah I agree. And also I would fight you being locked up as well since martial property is community property. You had a right to it, and I think you should look into that as well as getting the no contact order taken down. Go nuclear man and get full custody of your kids.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 10:26 AM
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Here's the truth about breaks: in essence, there are no breaks in a relationship only breakups. You are either in it to win it or you are out and about.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 04:22 PM
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Yeah I agree man. Get your lawyer to double check and make sure you get what is yours. She is playing you to come out of this more whole.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 04:12 PM
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No worries, and just remember that women like her are like cars; the only good asset about them is their looks which depreciate in value every second of every day. So why bother caring about what she does so long as your kids are ok? In the end man, you need to remember that you won; you are the prize; you are a house [something that will get better with age the more you invest into it]. She is the loser and she is on borrowed time. Keep remembering that, and I guarantee you that you will reach …
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 01:14 PM
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Ok, that's good. Yeah for now just show that you don't give an f about them. Indifference is the key here, and keep your interactions purely on business related to your kids. And I would say so long as the guys don't harm your children or affect them negatively in anyway possible, just leave them alone. More than likely they will be gone after some time after dealing with your ex.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 01:00 PM
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Why don't you guys just swap the kids at a public mutual location then or have them not come into your house during swap offs?
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 12:50 PM
1

Yep. I was thinking this exactly. Op needs to move this whole communication with her through a coparent app and block her. Indifference is the best course of action right for him.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 01:49 PM
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Yeah I am also inclined to think that. I also have a feeling she may be trying to test the waters with the guy while also trying to be more present in the kids lives to get a better deal on custody and child support. Talk to a lawyer asap Op, move half of your joint accounts to an account on your name, get a PI, and whatever you do, DON'T MOVE OUT OF YOUR HOUSE.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 01:00 PM
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THIS! Also, the way she reacted when you talked to her about the money shows she is trying to manipulate you to come out of this more intact than you. Get a lawyer man. Fight for your rights and what you are entitled to.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 03:47 PM
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I think this comment alone says it all.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 04:57 PM
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And if you try to date women overseas, women in the West start crying foul. To that statement, I would tell the women here to up their game and simply not cheat and be faithful. It's common sense. If you want a man and to keep a man, be a good wife and be faithful. If they can't handle that, we will go elsewhere. If you want to get marry again (which I don't recommend), your best bet is to find a woman outside of the US but be careful. Some play that con game as well so watch your back.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 11:52 AM
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Maybe he can refile the divorce papers now that he actually did sleep with her. I remember that judges don't count the divorce petition if spouses sleep together during the time frame as they view it as reconciliation. Maybe he can use that and file a countersuit against her restraining order.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 11:51 AM
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THIS! 200% This! Going forward, record all interactions with her and keep everything documented. Definitely try to go for majority custody of your kids by proving her false claims.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 11:50 AM
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Just don't get married dude. Don't get legally committed to them since the laws favor women over us. That's the key to making sure you don't get too screwed. That and to not invest or white knight women.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 06:03 PM
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It's all about turns with women today. That's what I have learned. It's just your turn until she decides to go after the next attractive man in their eyes. Honestly, it's just better to stay single. No mingling finances. No alimony in case of separation. No shared assets. Just enjoy your turn "safely" without any commitments, and move on with your life. Don't try to legally bind yourself to them. Especially when the law will not punish them.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 06:02 PM
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I didn't say not to date. Just don't get married. IMO, having fwbs is probably the best solution in this day and age since loyalty and fidelity is slowly trickling away.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 03:15 PM
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I got a better idea: why don't we just not get married? I mean c'mon. Why even get into something like this when we are not going to get appreciated? That's my solution to the whole matter.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 02:26 PM
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Yeah I agree with this. Best to initiate first on your terms. Also, is it just me but the phrase "needs to find herself" sound like something else is the reason for her decision?
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 11:45 AM
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Happy Birthday I recommend that in the future, just do something you really want to do on that day. Make it your own. Celebrate it for yourself. I'm sorry about your family btw. I would definitely remember these times in the future for when you kids start coming at you for handouts.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 02:44 PM
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I agree, definitely. I mean the most a guy can get regarding custody is 50/50 unless he proves that the woman is an unfit mother. WTF?! Yeah the system needs to change big time. Until it does, I just encourage all guys to just not marry anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 09:55 AM
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I'm glad as well. I also hope you rebuilt your finances as well and that your kids know the truth of everything.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 12:17 PM
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Honestly, there is no benefit for marriage, IMO. For men at least. It's just not worth it. And yes, I agree that in the end they will want to settle down, but I see a future where more women will start to be old and alone as men wise up and not take care of them. The laws for divorce and marriage need to change or the actual traditional family will become extinct for good in the future. That's my opinion though.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 12:14 PM
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Yeah I hate to say it but that's just what it is with women these days: its just turns. It's a sad but true reality we live in.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 12:09 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you. Sigh, the courts are so unfair to men.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 12:08 PM
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You would be surprised how many immature women there are that do that crap. IMO, just because a person gives birth to a child, doesn't make them a mother if they act like this. It just makes them an egg donor. You have to earn the title of mother and father through actions and feelings.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 12:06 PM
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Yeah I agree. I kinda wish though that the courts treated men and women equally. Instead they always favor towards women more.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 12:03 PM
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Yeah that's what I am thinking. Usually a person only leaves like yours do when they have a replacement lined up.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 12:02 PM
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I personally don't recommend getting married again. It's not worth it. But dating, definitely don't give up on it. Just don't try to white knight them and pay for their bills.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 12:01 PM
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Yeah, this situation is further proof that guys should not white knight girls. It's not worth it. Women are becoming even more devious players than guys these days. It's just best to be with someone who has their crap together, and definitely get a prenup if you choose to marry (although I highly recommend men don't marry anymore though).
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 11:58 AM
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This!
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 10:23 PM
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Yeah I agree. She is not contributing to anything in the household aside from looking after the girls but that is why you can hire a babysitter/nanny for that. You need to let her go, and find another partner. She wanted out, and she got it. She doesn't get to still benefit from you unless you want her to do that. Plus, you need to set an example for your daughters by doing this. If you continue to let her stay, you'll give them the wrong impression of what divorce means in a marriage and that a…
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 11:48 AM
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I agree. Plus, if your spouse says they need "space", it's usually a hidden message of putting you on the self while trying things out with another person (or trying to find another person). Even if she did come back to you, you would have to accept the fact that you are plan b to her, the last option, the safe option until another potential suitor comes along.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 11:32 AM
2

Congrats!
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 12:24 PM
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Some places tend to acknowledge long term cohabitation as common law marriages though. I think the US doesn't do this but I know some places in the European countries do it. Besides, many people would try to exploit the legal system to get what they want. I remember one story where someone try to get palimony payments (basically alimony payments for non committed partners). It's crazy I know but the legal system can sometimes bend to women's whims on even the most ridiculous claims. That's why I…
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 07:48 PM
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I honestly think we are heading in a direction where we are going to need lawyers just to date let alone to get married. Just to draw up contracts with no loop holes detailing all responsibilities along with the dos and don'ts just to make sure we don't get screwed. It's just not worth it, IMO.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 01:44 PM
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I agree. Which is why my friends advised me to not get married at all no matter what. I've since taken that advice to heart, and encourage other men to do the same until things change.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 11:44 AM
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Ok, if it was me, and I found out that my wife cheated while on vacation, I would do the following: Get evidence of the cheating on my phone Get a DNA sample of my daughter and stash it away for later Book a ticket for a flight back home for my daughter and myself discretely Get back home discretely and contact a lawyer Separate the accounts and hire a PI Get a DNA test on my daughter and change the locks on the master bedroom door That's for starters of course. Honestly, after a multi year long…
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 11:20 AM
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I agree. The time for talking is over. Actions need to happen now. Do it discretely and also, get a recorder. Record all interactions, conversations, and etc. with her. Get your finances in order, and start divorce proceedings.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/24 08:24 AM
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I agree. A marriage will only survive if both parties put in the work. It sounds like she is not willing to fight and is just doing the minimum from her responses.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 07:00 AM
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My question is why should you leave the house? Why not just make her leave?
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/24 08:07 PM
9

I agree. Your daughter will adjust and if you prolong this it just means more pain for everyone. File for divorce and expose her.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 05:10 PM
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No. Do not take her back. She is probably wanting to wait for the lifetime alimony payment to be eligible to her before leaving. Face facts bro: you are nothing but an ATM for her. Divorce her and move on. The woman you love is no more, and who you are staring at now is an empty shallow materialistic selfish evil and cruel woman who is wearing her skin.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 06:58 AM
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I third this. Get the evidence and burn your cheating stbxw man
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 09:55 AM
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I think you should remind her that all of this drama and such could have been avoided if she didn't open her legs like a 304 to another man and tear the family apart. I would also ignore the therapists advice and just coparent the kids via the app. You can't be the best parent ever to them if you cannot heal yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 10:31 PM
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I've heard stories though where judges ultimately disregard prenups at times though. Personally, I just think it is best to not get married at all. Blended families are starting to become the norm and even now, single parents are not so uncommon. Why bother going through all that hassle of marriage? Why bother spending tons of money on a honeymoon, wedding, and etc? Why bother committing yourself to a person who clearly only is giving you a "turn"?
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/23 10:19 PM
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DO NOT MOVE OUT OF THE HOUSE Get a loan to finance a lawyer RECORD EVERY INTERACTION YOU HAVE WITH YOUR WIFE
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 05:02 PM
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This big time. OP you are essentially plan b and she is running back to you. Best advice for you: run. Run hard and fast away from her and start the divorce
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 10:17 PM
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Marriage is not worth it in this day and age. I guarantee you that the next 2-3 generations, the concept of marriage and everything related to it will be almost non existent in the US at least if not the world. Men, stay single and work on yourself. There is not such thing as a forever partner, soulmate, love of your life, etc.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/23 04:29 PM
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Just make sure she pays you out of your half of the house man.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/23 02:25 PM
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My dad didn't tell me not to get married until after I graduated college, and I had the same initial mentality as you, but reddit kinda reinforced what my father told me. Plus, after thinking things through, there really is no point to actually getting married IMO. Guys, if you want to stay committed to someone, just do it, and do not involve things such as marriage. It serves no purpose, and if you want a ceremony to celebrate your love without marriage, do a committement ceremony or party. Sim…
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/23 02:44 PM
1

Do you want your kids to think that they shouldn't stand up to bullies then?
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/23 08:35 AM
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I would also make note of this with your attorney as well. This may impact custody arrangements in the end in your favor
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 04:51 PM
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Document this behavior and take her to court for primary/full custody of your children along with child support. Your kids deserve better than a negligent parent like your ex wife.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 11:00 PM
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If someone doesn't even respect you, she doesn't really love you IMO.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 05:32 PM
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I agree. Real peace is found within yourself. You do not need a wife to be happy. Your self worth is defined in yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/23 04:20 PM
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I agree. Marriage is just the government acknowledging you as a couple. You don't need it. You guys are already a couple, so why not stay that way? Marriage didn't work for either you the first time, why risk it the second? Just stay together as bf and gf and do the plans you wish to do with her, IMO. If you guys want to unofficially get married, hold a commitment ceremony or something, but NEVER OFFICIALLY MARRY.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 05:02 PM
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This is the best solution OP. She is more concerned about her career than the marriage. If it was me, I would send a copy of the evidence to the lawyer, back up the evidence on in area she has no knowledge of, and make a show of deleting them in front of her to lower her guard. Then serve her with divorce and during the trial bring it up and watch as she sweats like crazy. Then after it is finalize, send it to HR and to everyone in the family and maybe her friends.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 04:35 PM
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I agree. You don't have to cover for her lies. Tell them the truth and show them the evidence.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 09:39 PM
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Dude, record ALL interactions with her going forward, and get that agreement IN WRITING ASAP.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/23 06:05 PM
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I agree. Something doesn't seem right, and the child may not be yours.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/23 03:25 PM
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Dude, ignore your ex-wife's pleas and move on with your life. You said it yourself that you fought for your marriage and she didn't. She only used it as fuel to validate her cheating. She doesn't love you. She just wants her safety net back so she can cheat again but come to you when things go bad. Also, you need to stop saying you love her. You love who you thought she was, but the current her, you don't love her because she is a liar, a cheat, and weak individual easily swayed by others. She d…
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 08:04 AM
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That's good that you acknowledge that your faults and roles in causing the divorce, but there is a reason why she is your ex now. Do not help her. You can't save people from life, my friend. You should only worry about yourself. Just wish her the best, and move on. If you dwell on the past again, you will only hurt yourself and probably her.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 03:04 PM
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I agree
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 03:46 PM
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Yeah unless you want to count bedroom activities as such
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 03:41 PM
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Solution for all guys is to just don't marry at all. It's just not worth it. It's high risk and low rewards.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 01:44 PM
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She probably wants to slin a narrative saying you are the bad guy and that she never wanted it to gain supporters and sympathy points. IMO it's a cowards way out and shows how much of a POS that person is.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 02:15 PM
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This further pushes me to not marry at all and to have cameras in my home at all times.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/23 02:12 PM
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I agree, but I also think that you should tell your daughter the truth of why you guys split when she becomes of the appropriate age to decide which parent she wants to spend time with.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 11:35 AM
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I honestly think alimony should be paid out to the betrayed spouse from both their cheating spouse and the AP who wronged him/her. I really think that should be ideal, and in a perfect world it would be. However, that is not the case. Honestly guys, I just think because of the bs like alimony, family court, paternity fraud, and etc, its just not worth it for a guy to get married in this day and age.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 11:08 AM
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That list is one of the many reasons why even today men have to protect themselves with cameras, recording interactions, and getting tests done. Tbh though, it's not even worth marriage anymore if you have to think about these threats
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 05:43 PM
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She wanted a divorce and she got it. She's not your problem anymore and so long as she pays support and it doesn't damage the kids, I would say leave her be. You can't nor should you save this woman from life and her choices she makes in her life.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 03:47 PM
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Wise man. Keep it that way and have fwbs
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 08:10 PM
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IMO, women are like luxury cars. Just like when cars deprecate in value the moment they are driven off the lot, the same can be said about women every second of every day; their beauty detoriates and its their biggest asset. Men on the other hand are like a house. If done and treated well, their value only increases in time like houses if kept right. In the end, men are the winners at the end of life's race if done right while women tend to be more of a lost. Also, men are starting to wise up an…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 02:39 PM
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Thanks. This just further solidifies why I SHOULDN'T be dating. it's just not worth it.
/r/seduction17/04/23 08:18 PM
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I agree. Also, I would go after her 401k as well.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 04:07 PM
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Can you get evidence of your wife cheating before and refile based on adultery?
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 02:56 PM
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THIS! Once you have the money in your account, then sign big time. DO NOT TRUST HER!
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/23 03:31 PM
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Dating apps scare the crap out of me after the Tinder Terror incident in Colorado. Not to mention the catfishing online as well.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 06:26 PM
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Tbh my friend, I would not if I was in your shoes. Marriage serves no purpose for us guys, and we have more to lose than women IMO. My best advice is to just continue dating girls till you find the one who is the ideal fwb for yourself
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 06:19 PM
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Honestly, I think in the 21st century, guys should not get married IMO. I see more cons than pros in this day and age despite with medical professionals state. People are just too tempted to cheat and with the advancements in tech, it has become alot easier to do so and hide it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 08:56 PM
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The truth is you can never really truly trust anyone other than yourself. Marriage today is not a guys best friend at all, IMO. My advice to you is to stay with the fwb situation. It saves alot of headache and turmoil for you in the long run. No lawyers. No legal battles. Its just not worth it dude to be in a marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 07:30 PM
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Which makes you the better parent and more guarantee to find a better and more suitable partner while she is forever doomed to being another thot on the street.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 12:37 AM
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I agree. Best solution is just not marry period. On.a sidenote, OP: That new bf of hers won't last long I would wager.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 02:10 PM
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Merry Christmas everyone.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 01:38 PM
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Yep I would say you have compared to most guys. Congrats man! Now take your winnings and invest it in a better life for you going forward and maybe perhaps find another more compatible lady to spend it with. Also, remember to protect your earnings as well going forward. Take care!
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 01:01 PM
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Wow. Your father really sucks at being a parent by supporting your STBXW instead of you. Makes me wonder if there is something more to their relationship than simply former FIL and DIL.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 10:12 AM
1

This is not playful banter but full blown cheating. Definitely file and expose her. What you have been subjected to is classic cheater behavior. You deserve better than her
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:22 PM
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Shows she is the architect of her own destruction. Destroying her marriage, her family, her life, her reputation, all in one swoop. Dude, just give her what she wants: a divorce and tell everybody the truth. If you can get any evidence from her phone and such, do it and show to everybody so she cannot wiggle out.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/22 05:10 PM
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That's good that you are going to work on yourself, but take my advice: DON'T DATE ANYONE JUST TO DATE AND BE DONE WITH IT. It's disrespectful to not just you but the other person as well if you don't have any real intentions of dating the person. I wish you well.
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:27 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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