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I've never heard of this. Most people I know use multiple forms because some people will be die-hard for one app and that's it. Or ones like Zelle won't connect to certain banks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:04 AM
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It varies, it really comes down to whatever their set of moral values are, and some people certainly aren't above hypocrisy. I've had both low n and high n partners; neither cared, but I also go for types that wouldn't care to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:51 PM
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Sure. Some pop culture programming, some narcissism, some biological preferences. I generally like people more the closer they are to me, because I love myself. My partner is the same racial mix as me, same skin tone, hair color, etc. His personality is different but we both share a lot of values and past phases in our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:13 PM
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I stand by my statement: They both seem like unstable assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:06 AM
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She just like me fr
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:21 AM
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I don't think I'm necessarily that. I was pretty nerdy for a chunk of my teenage years. I just think it's concerning that anyone would stake so much of their worth on how the opposite sex sees them. It seems unhealthy. I care what others think to the extent I need to, (like making sure I'm professional to employers or loving toward my partner) but it worries me that the book seems to validate that chasing other people's praise and desire is "normal". I some a lot of people are like that, but it …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:49 AM
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Honestly they both seem like unstable assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:57 PM
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I have zero idea why these passages and the "cool girl" one is quoted so much. It's kind of sad if women really put that much stock in men's perception of them, imo. I feel bad for people who relate to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:56 PM
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I will talk about anyone's appearance any day in proper context, critically or otherwise. I'm part of the reason my childhood friend was able to get a gf. No one else was helping him refine his tinder photos or telling him to hit the gym, given a lot of his other friends are overweight alcoholics. Being able to be critical of appearance is generally how people improve their own. It shouldn't be so frowned up as long as appearance isn't equated to being more or less moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:04 AM
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Yeah, I was curious snd googled this too. They just look like normal people, honestly a bit more masculine for some of them. None of them seem to stand out as super attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:13 PM
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His hair, his arms, how he dances, his smile, his eyes, his legs, his ass, his chest, his voice, his beautiful dick, the sounds he makes, the fact I know I can tease him or just mention sex and he's ready to go in seconds. That he likes being playfully bullied and controlled, that I can tell him what to do in bed and when. I plan to propose to him in the future and he knows that. I love him madly and deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:08 PM
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Nope. They're exes for reasons, even if they were decent guys. Two things I believe you should never go back to: exes and old jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:21 PM
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Yes. I think most people do if they develop normally. Especially if you have better or more compatible partners after them. People also grow and change, so the person you loved when you were younger may not be the same as the person you love as you age. Also I wasn't in love with the guy I chose to lose my virginity; I just didn't want to be a virgin anymore and hooked up with a long time friend. It wasn't a big deal at all imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:39 AM
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I feel rude when I just straight up jump to "i have a partner/i'm too old for you/i'm not interested" out of the gate but men looking for platonic friendship seem to be kind of rare so I just assume. That's on me to rein in my bias I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:27 AM
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No I have an iphone. I just think they're ugly ig
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:18 AM
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I think the situation is resolving itself as we speak so it should be good now. I just have a really difficult time differentiating men's intentions because 8/10 times guys try to approach me unprompted, it seems to be about dating stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:18 AM
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I don't really think that's defensive, just offering someone a way out if they want. Either way I dropped it in there, so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:17 AM
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Honestly he just gave me an opening to do so, so I took it. I wish I could also let him know it's okay that if he doesn't want to keep talking/he's not looking for friends. I'm busy as is and I've also just dropped someone when they weren't interested in me. It shouldn't be so frowned upon. Time is a valuable resource and people shouldn't feel about about being greedy about their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:06 AM
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Is it rude to upfront tell a guy you have a partner when it's not relevant to the conversation? I recently did a class for something and exchanged numbered with some people, and one guys has been hitting me up to make conversation unrelated to the class. I essentially need a polite way to tell him I have a partner because he could just be looking for friends and I don't want to make him feel bad. But I also don't want him wasting his or my time texting because he thinks he has a chance when it'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:59 AM
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depends on the emoji and emoticon. it took me forever to use emojis because i thought they were ugly as fuck. but i adapted because people respond well to it. also there are some cool ones now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:56 AM
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He is truly a handsome man but not my type. He's conventionally good looking though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:23 AM
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Doing activities that you have interest in. Mixed sports or classes for example, ones more focused on team dynamics or socializing than actually working out for gains only.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:22 AM
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Respect for all this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:20 AM
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hawt
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:18 AM
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This is honestly. Really hard to tell. That's like she could be into you but knows it's wrong so she's just dancing around it playfully with no real intention to follow through. She may just be genuinely bubbly and flirty without knowing it. Lmfao good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:18 AM
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Go for it if she's interested. It could be a win/win from the sound of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:16 AM
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Anyone who complains about a date being inexpensive is an ass and worthless anyway imo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:11 AM
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Some people are just naturals. Throw some condoms in his room if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:09 AM
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I've definitely met women who try to use sex yo get relationships, and others who are seeking genuine connection and enjoy having sex for sex's sake. I do think the women who try to use sex to get someone to date them are actually a minority and tend to have self esteem issues; if you have healthy self esteem, you're not going to feel the need to "make them like you", you'll trust they'll like you if you're compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:06 AM
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I did. It's just because they were prescribing so much during the pandemic. Trust me, people still have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:46 PM
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Not exactly, but it is in the sense I've had partners flip from "bad boy" to "reformed bad boy". It's a more of a tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:29 PM
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Marijuana and adderall. The hot, smart ones, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:28 PM
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Generally whoever is the most fit/least fat and has the most money is "winning", assuming they have a partner or are single by choice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:25 PM
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I'm known for reforming "bad boys". Because I have an edgier style, they think I'll feed into their hedonism (and every once and while I will) but what they're really getting is someone who will encourage them to workout, go to bed early, make them go to health food restaurants, force them to try green juice, and cut back or stop drugs entirely. I have a really good track record. I have old flames who hit me up and thank me for what I did for them even though we haven't talked in long periods no…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:15 PM
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It may be time to take a walk and revisit irl society for a moment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:26 PM
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Honestly this doesn't sound like a bad idea. Though I'd say people pay attention to the type of club they go to. I've gone to some with friends and the two that stood out the most to me were night and day. This girls at the first ones never smiled and look dead-eyed. They danced and never interacted then gathered any bills and went backstage. The second place had girls who seemed to be having fun, smiled, laughed, interacted with the audience, etc. Not all strip clubs are created equal, and some…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:22 PM
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hawt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:16 PM
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I'm supposed to be one of the gamines, can't remember which. I think it's flamboyant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:14 PM
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No, but I have had female friends send and show me nudes asking how they look lol. I don't really send nudes. I've gone to a spa with female friends and seen them naked. I've seen friends nude at kink and bdsm events. But no, I don't exchange nudes with my friends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:10 PM
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what the fuck. no that's not normal. at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:07 PM
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Do whatever seems right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:14 AM
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honestly i would assume this or that they're just queer somehow. idk about in denial for all of them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:38 AM
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at least it's protein and not something empty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:29 AM
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I think it's algorithm stuff. I think found this place when I fell a Reddit rabbit hole one night, and then I visited enough and decided to spar, then I realized sparring with a lot of people here is pointless given like a quarter of people just want to confirm their world view and commiserate. Now I just say whatever I want and don't worry about if others get pissy because it doesn't match their narrative. I'm mostly on here because I have a boring office job. I'm partnered to a great person so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:15 PM
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Basically this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:46 AM
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spoken like a truly experienced person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:03 PM
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The idea is that life is divided into 3 stages: the aesthetic (early life), the ethical (middle life), and the religious/spiritual (late life). Key idea is that early on, you are focuses on "aesthetics" because you are figuring out your identity and role within social structures. You care about appearance and more superficial things. You are inclined toward hedonism and beauty. Mid-life, you begin to care more about ethics and giving back, because you are now old enough to recognize that aesthet…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:45 PM
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why would you even value most people enough to care? real question. like do they actually contribute anything to your life or
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:27 PM
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Congrats on hitting Kierkegaard's "ethical" stage of life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:23 PM
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Stop right there! This post is far too sane and reasonable for this sub! 🚔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:09 PM
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Could be a kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:01 PM
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Ngl, you can't. Most men won't go until it's actually causing them massive harm/rendering them a degree of non-functional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:01 PM
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dear lord lol i had my fair share of casual sex and enjoyed it, but i can safely say i have never, ever been in an orgy. i'm not aware of anyone who has been—and i have friends who do sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:58 PM
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Interesting. I went to college in the midwest as well. That context regarding the professor makes sense though. My mother still warns me about sexism in the workplace (which is true for some, depends on the industry and your peers) but she thinks it's everywhere, because when she was my age, it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:48 AM
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Good for you, hopefully you can feel better about the things at hand and reach your goals. Some radfems can be a hoot. Others are 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:06 AM
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That's surprising. I went to a very liberal college and nothing of that sort was discussed. Out of curiosity what area do you go to school in? I went to college in a city and grew up in the southwest, I've never heard it spoken about in any contemporary sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:05 AM
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Making a slutty friend is not a bad idea if you want to desensitize yourself to the topic of sex. Yeah, putting women on a pedestal is a 100% certain way to be let down; I've known women who had that expeirence because they really believed Disney prince types are common lol. It could help to try to have no expectations of others. While it's pessimistic to expect the worst from others (I often to) it has led to me being pleasantly surprised and shocked when people show me that they can be good an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:39 AM
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The glass ceiling isn't really discussed as much at this point; I haven't heard it discussed at all since I was a kid. I don't know about other countries, but at the point the only thing that is discussed as far as workplace "oppression" is the pay gape, which is really primarily a gap that exists because women decide to mother. It's their choice, so it's not inherently oppression imo. Nothing is forcing them to be mothers and leave the workforce/surrender opportunity. Glass ceiling was more of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:35 AM
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No worries! No harm, no foul. All good :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:06 AM
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Some women do like men, some do just put up with them—same as men engaging with women. The important thing to remember is never 100% of the group, even if it feels that way, because it can generate a cycle of negative experiences because of potential self sabotage or unwillingness to even engage. Which is okay, no one had to engage if they don't want to. Is it not more encouraging to think some women exist that like sex enough to where they'll have sex just to have sex? I would assume that means…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:02 AM
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I wasn't implying you said that. I'm adding a comment on the thread of ways people will suggest men are oppressed. It's tangential.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:57 PM
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My main confusion is why men think not being chosen by individuals is someone equatable to oppression. Someone not choosing me for a job because I don't qualify for it doesn't mean I'm oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:43 PM
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is it more the topic of sex or people who just have regular sex? because there's definitely people who have a lot of sex and don't talk about it, since it can be a private topic. you may interact with people like that and not even realize it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:39 PM
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I feel like context is important with that, though. Women are work there's no way to tell, same with women at the store. I guess you could assume if she's partying or dancing with a bunch of other women that may be the case since that's more "available" lady activities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:35 PM
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High ones look bad on me too. I think the ones in the video look good on me, though, since it leave the front hair as usual so the hairline isn't so prominently featured.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:30 PM
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That's good to specify. Most People only picture the childish one that tends to look bad on almost everyone but there's a lot of variants that can look very cute if you find one that works. People are more open to the look than they realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:16 PM
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Pigtail braids. Pigtails implies two. You can have a singular braid or two braids in a pigtail style. If you just google "pigtails" one of the first images is actually pigtail braids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:11 PM
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the irony of ur icon lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:39 PM
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I used to do spacebuns but they were an insane amount of effort for me. I do think these are like a pigtails variant. They look fairly adult compared to the classic ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:40 AM
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respect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:37 AM
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I get it. I honestly need to get my ends cut because they're starting to get really dead. I'm trying to grow it out to my knees first because I'm really close to that goal. But I'm getting really sick of the tangles that are beginning to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:36 AM
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i did just add the example if u wanna see
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:35 AM
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My hair is very long so doing any hairstyles is a pain—this is the first one I've been able to do within 5 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:32 AM
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I can see that. Do you think that even for braided pigtails? Like wednesday addams style?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:31 AM
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Ngl i do think certain styles of pigtails cater to that. I think a lot of it has to do with aesthetic and body type, too. I'm pairing it with an edgier look so it doesn't look childish. I think it looks appropriate for my age/20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:30 AM
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perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:29 AM
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Nah it looks majorly cute on me. This style is less traditional kid ones and more understated. I think they look really nice for young adult women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:28 AM
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Ngl, all the bad first dates I've been on have been dinner dated. I did not end up with the guys, and they also came on crazy strong. One guy made me take a picture with my food because "that's what all women want" smh. So awkward lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:58 AM
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No, they'd be roughly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:56 AM
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What's everyone thoughts on pigtails? There's a lot of variants on them and some look weird on adult women but some look really cute. I tried this korean pigtail trend and it actually looks adorable, I might where it work tomorrow. Edit: It's this style.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:56 AM
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No, it's the same. It only changes if they get persistent or rude/follow me/demand "why not?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:53 AM
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Interesting comment about the shorter height. I get approached a from time to time and I'm between 5'2-5'3". I get approached more when I'm either in nice office attire or dressy really cute (think knee socks, mini skirt, cute top). If I dress boyish I almost never get approached (unless it's a lesbian lmfao). I've seen all types of women get approached, from fat to thin to glam to bohemian. Though many do seem to be shorter than 5'6"; this could be simply because most women are shorter than tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:49 AM
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Good news for hot and pretty women, then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:25 AM
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All the men I know who have vasectomies (sans one) are in relationships/married. They're definitely getting laid to some extent. My partner and I have discussed what we'd do if birth control did get restricted and he essentially volunteered to get one. Even if it's not restricted, he may get one since we don't want kids anyway. The one single guy who got one is in and out of relationships. He has a new gf every year and then the relationships implode, rinse and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:24 AM
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Interesting, personally I've wanted to get a Bellroy wallet but haven't bothered yet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:18 AM
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it's my shit now, come take it from my small girly hands
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:16 AM
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not a man but i love men's bifold wallets. women's wallets are bulky for no goddamn reason. i refuse to part with my slowly dying bifold wallet until i find a new one i really like. i had a money clip for a while but i don't carry enough cash to warrant it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:25 PM
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Pretty sure the majority of couples are looksmatched. If someone can't get someone above them or can only get people below them, that's their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:16 PM
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In that case, yeah, like 3 times a day, easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:52 PM
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Are we subtracting physical issues like soreness, exhaustion, etc? If those were gone I'd arguably be having sex more than eating some days. Like 3 times a day. If those weren't gone, then about where I'm at right now of 4ish times a week. I'm 24F.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:13 PM
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I grew up in a very stable and loving household. I had everything I needed and was always supported and cared for. My partner did not have close to the same experience. He is still amazing, caring, sweet, and incredibly empathetic. He's more empathetic than I am, and just as smart, though I am more educated. I will say he did a lot of healing before we met due to a traumatic life event that happened a couple years before. He was required to take therapy due it and he's taught me some helpful tec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:05 AM
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E. mostly. I've never had and OF and never plan to have one, though many guys have rudely suggested I do it (it was the default answer when I was looking for work during the pandemic—personally I found it disgusting to have men just suggest I get naked and sell cheap photos for what's essentially nothing in an oversaturated market, one that often damages people's mental health). My partner and I joke about making one for femdom/bdsm content but we'd never make one for just regular sex, it would …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:27 AM
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It's moreso to practice having confidence—the paradox is, how do you have confidence in having confidence when confidence comes from experience? You practice it by putting it on the best you can, aka faking it, and eventually you will realize it becomes easier, isn't as scary as it seemed, then become genuinely confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:41 AM
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temporal illusion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:39 AM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:38 AM
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30-35
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:10 AM
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All problems are personal problems until they're big enough issues to legitimately stop enough societal gears from turning. That's the only point societal issues. Personal I don't expect anyone to care about issues that don't impact them. I'll hope that people will care about others, but expecting it is naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:08 AM
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bro what lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:06 AM
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They probably prefer it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:51 PM
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Most clubs are like this, from what I've heard and seen. Gen Z is not a clubbing generation. They're too introverted for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:51 PM
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Gen Z is heavily introverted and socialized online way more. I think they prefer to hop on discord and game or livestream on tiktok. Clubs seem entirely outdated imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:50 PM
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Certain types of minimalism are expensive. Minimalism it's isn't inherently expensive; nice and comfortable minimalism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:49 PM
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I've gone to clubs a total of twice and it always seems like it's primarily gen X and older millennials desperately trying to look young and like they're having fun. I never hear gen Z talking about clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:57 AM
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Implies you are cheap/extremely minimalist/don't care about comfort/can't provide/don't appreciate aesthetics. Aka it implies traits most women don't like. At least have a boxspring or some wood pallets to put it on. Mattress on the floor only works if you're leaning heavily into bohemian stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:54 AM
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I read it in a study forever ago. I think I was 19 at the time and I thought it was interesting because I always believed relationship that happen post 21 seem to have better bets for healthy, long term than those who get together earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:18 AM
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Not really. The only thing I ever took into account is that, statistically, you don't find your long term partner until after age 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:39 AM
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I've never been in an abusive situation but a lot of my friends have. The common thread is the abused partners have terrible self esteem and/or are threatened/coerced into staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:34 AM
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With all due respect, I have no interest in masculine men and find them sexually worthless. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:26 PM
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Those are shitty women, then. I've had partners and male friends discuss body image issues and cry in front of me. I met the first guy I loved while he was crying and asked him in for tea. The issue isn't feminine men. It's that some chunks of society want to punish femininity because they think it's synonymous with weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:25 PM
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I like feminine men so I fail to see any issue with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:36 AM
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Hopefully America can get with some semblance of a similar system but god knows at this point. I feel like we've slowly had increasing issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:31 AM
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Because most western women lean liberal and that tends to include the hot ones, whether people will admit it or not. Men will go for the hottest women when they can, regardless of their political stance, unless they're at extreme odds or politics is very important to them. Conservative women are less common unless you're in a very conservative area, and then they may have more traditional or plain look aesthetics, whereas liberal women will lean into racier aesthetics or alternative or edgy look…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:00 AM
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Not sure where you're getting those numbers from, but even if they're accurate, the issue is no one wants to be the bottom rung of society. People will scramble, kick, push, and claw to be above others and have more power and comfort. If you open the doors to paths of betterment (education, birth control/family planning) people will take it because everyone wants the best quality of life possible. To restrict access to these things would be to imply certain people are simply not worthy of such t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:39 AM
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This. Kids are basically not worth it unless you really, really want to be a parent. The amount of energy, resources, time, and labor they take to raise properly is inane; doing anything less, imo, is unfair to the kid. If you want to be a good parent, you as essentially agreeing to sign over your around 18-25 years of simply legally raising them and being semi-accountable for them, helping them, etc. As someone who wants way more than most people I've encountered, I can't imagine ever being at …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:34 AM
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dang i didn't know u are musical lulll
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:53 AM
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A bunch of glazes for ceramic pieces, a bluetooth speaker for my sister, fancy candles for my mom and my partner's mom, some cool stackable crates to store my glazes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:52 AM
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No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:49 AM
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As a queer person who's been involved with both sexes, anyone can be toxic, and anyone can be great. People just have confirmation bias and have incentive to vilify demographics that personally cause them grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:47 AM
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He was the first person in like 4-5 years who made me nervous and excited. I knew I was very attracted to him out of the gate, and when we discussed that the feeling was mutual, it went from there. I wasn't nervous until he walked in and I saw how attractive he was. Apparently he felt the same way, and our opening conversations were endearingly awkward where we talked about a lame picture book for Grumpy Cat that was on the table (coffee shop). I was a little more comfortable than him and once I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:24 PM
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While I never plan to kids have kids, if I ever changed my mind and decided to adopt, I would hands down choose a girl, since I know what growing up as one is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:20 PM
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Nah, no more than it's heterophobia for me to filter out straight people. There's nothing wrong with filtering out people who don't fit your lifestyle and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:16 PM
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We're both 24, actually. I dated a guy in his middle/late 30s when I was about 20/21. I'm fairly active and have been since college, but man my body does not heal the same it did when I was teen, and it's slowly taking longer and longer to heal from injuries if I get them. (I have a tendency of pushing myself too much.) Health starts to seem to nosedive, or, at minimum, deteriorate for people once they get toward 40. If they don't get themselves in check or take care of their health, it is very …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:04 AM
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This is interesting coming from you. I'd definitely put her in "chubby/fat" but she does have a cute face.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:58 AM
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Not a guy but I love these fit types of women. GainsByBrains is another ig fitness lady I think looks stunning, beautiful face and body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:57 AM
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As someone who dated older: physically capability does diminish with time. Almost no one is as fit or limber as they were when they were younger, unless they ramped up the intensity they exercised as they got older. Even then, your healing factor isn't the same. The career thing is a valid point. It's different to be a jobless college student dating vs. adult with a full time schedule. Sleep schedules are often different too, but sure, none of this stuff is inherently that way, but it often is. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:30 AM
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Yes, but not all individuals are, and many are not capable of healthy expressions of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:17 AM
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Hopefully the culture shock of going back into the world isn't too rough lol. If you're done well before, you'll likely be able to do it again. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:16 AM
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Yes! It is like an "inner child" aspect. It's someone being able to suspend judgement (whereas younger kids are still developing their judgement) about social rules and being able to just be primally silly, strange, and fun. I've never quite found the term to explain it fully, but people who have close ties (partners, siblings, friends, children) tend to understand. Humans are weird, and while it's normal, people seeing that side of you as an adult becomes an intimate thing because of expected s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:02 AM
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That's a discussion for each couple to have. My partner and I both use porn, but lately we've been using it less and doing a lot more prolonged foreplay. I don't consider someone using porn as them being "disloyal".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:53 AM
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Honestly being able to be weird and strange is an underrated part of relationships. My partner and I say weird shit to each other a lot and jump around sometimes, make nonsensical sounds at each other. I don't do that with anyone else, except maybe my sister. There's something about being very close to someone that enables you to just be weird without them looking at you funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:51 AM
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It was only creepy if they tried to follow me to my car or train stop. This had happened a about 4-5 times. Men who just take a no and move are fine and even pleasantly surprising. There was one guy who tried to hit on me moments after telling me he was in the area because he had to take a course on domestic violence because the court ordered it. I genuinely cannot explain how he thought that would work. He wasn't my type either way and had a strange energy but that was just mortifying and insul…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:46 AM
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Currently, in America, who you can and cannot date is not determined by legislated. Has it been in the past? Yes. Are certain relationships illegal in different countries? Yes. But we recognize such restrictions as outdated and unnecessary, and the majority of the country does not want to go back. People don't respond well to the country saying they can only be with certain people or they must have X person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:40 PM
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Always
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:36 PM
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Because dating is a specific realm that hinges on individual actions and isn't legislated by politicians or strangers. When men are somehow turned away from jobs because they're virgins or single, or lose their right to vote, then that's now something that needs help. But having trouble with women in your personal life is not something that can be legislated away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:33 PM
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I don't want to be pregnant at all, ever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:28 PM
1

Yeah. It just happens to be most men aren't pretty enough for me. That's just the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:28 PM
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Nah. Well, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:26 PM
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Obviously? This doesn't have to do with approaching, unless you'd validating the fact that you should only approach or date people you really like. Personally I've found 2 of my longer relationships on OLD. My current partner and I met on tinder when I was looking for a relationship and we hit it off out of the gate. We've been together a handful of years and live together. It's as simple as only accepting partner who meet your criteria and being a good partner back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:26 PM
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I have approached guys and gals. Works for me. I'm partnered so I'm not exactly looking to approach people. But I've only ever found 3 guys work approaching. Most don't appeal that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:20 PM
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That last part 😬 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:17 PM
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Nope lol. But they'd likely be fine with that given I would ask to put things in their butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:10 PM
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The guy I dated in college and I got coffee and went on a walk by the lake. We ended up dating for like 9 months. Idk why some people are afraid of cheap, casual dates. Maybe it's being younger, but they're completely acceptable imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:09 PM
0

we do, the ones who are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:08 PM
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You don't have to be the best, just passable or good enough. Just don't be the slowest animal in the herd. Personally, academics are insanely easy for me, but ngl I am an awful worker. I'm on reddit a lot, on my phone, doing work for my personal projects and side job—and the reason is because my day job isn't something I care about. You have to find something you either enjoy or care about, and wanting to be better or good at it will become a strong desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:34 AM
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Pretty much this. I was fine with not dating and easily avoided bad dating situations, and eventually found a partner who I'm very happy with. Good partners make life better. Anything less is typically a detriment or will become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:20 AM
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Again: I would be insulted but realistically it's something that should be standard at hospitals upon birth or something. The only people worried about that are people who have something to hide or have a sort of unique situation. (I remember seeing something about a mother that was assaulted and got pregnant from it; her husband knew, he knew the kid might not be his, and they jointly decided against testing because they wanted to have the kid. The guy's mother got a DNA test for the kid years …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:17 AM
1

"Myth of SissBitch by Alballs Canoe" this is my new favorite book
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:46 AM
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You can be insulted and also recognize an action as intelligent. It's intelligent to consider the possibility someone, even someone you love and who loves you, has the potential to mess up your life. Am I insulted when people don't trust me? Yes. Is it smart to fortify for the worst case scenario just in case? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:34 AM
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So to women do you expect the man to: • ⁠Work extremely hard on his looks What constitutes "extremely hard"? I expect him to not get fat and not dress like a slob, have a nice hair cut. • ⁠Have a well paying job Define well-paying. He just needs to be able to comfortably support himself. Anything else is a bonus. • ⁠Approach and pay for the dates No. • ⁠Be more decisive and confident than you No. I'm typically the more decisive and confident one. I could because considered arrogant to some. • ⁠F…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:32 AM
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many people do this. it's cognitive dissonance and not certainly exclusive to one sex. it's just more recent we're seeing it occur in terms of asset protection. i told my partner hands down i would be insulted if he got a prenup, but wouldn't mind because it's better safe that sorry. you should expect someone to clean you out if they can. it's dog eat dog out there. i'd certainly get a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:24 AM
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Texas is where broke people move from what I've heard. I know a couple of people who moved there with because COL but they're basically living in a trailer with a newborn and have a lot of land and chickens or something. Not personally my thing, living with slow internet and not in an actual building.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:01 PM
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Flirting's alright. Personally I'm not a "people person" and get irritated when I have to socialize past my goals, but I would faux flirt with people for entertainment sometimes, usually if I knew I was never going to encounter them again. Never actually had the intent to do anything with them or substantially engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:58 PM
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I have a friend who grew up around that area and he does have some interesting stories. I hear it's being gentrified now but idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:20 PM
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They just wanna whine fr
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:13 PM
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There is a reason I am happiest with pretty, bisexual guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:12 PM
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i never hated men, i was simply drawing erotica of them kissing each other
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:06 PM
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That's why I said dating. Relationships and sex are both part of that. OP asked a question, I answered. Simple. If people want to feel defensive about it, that says more about them than it does about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:03 PM
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I feel like it's som weird lingering of religious rhetoric where you can't praise yourself without being regarded negatively or like you're bragging, but you can confess your sins.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:01 PM
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It's both L and El. Chicago is not scary. I was just there about a month ago. I lived there for years, went out plenty as a young, petite woman with no mace, no knife, took plenty of trains all over by myself. No offense to her husband but he should just try to look less professional and more sketchy if he's afraid of trains. If I went out alone at night I never had a purse and always looked more tomyboyish (beanie, layered jackets, nothing distinctly feminine) and like I wouldn't be someone wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:43 PM
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Because it' the correlation of getting bigger/fitter and more women is not consistent. It will help but if you start getting too ripped it will have the opposite impact—that's the stage those people are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:37 PM
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This is basically the correct answer. Unless you're eating a lot and lifting a more progressively, getting big takes a ton of effort. It's not accidental.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:33 PM
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Honestly I've thought this too. I don't really like amateur porn because a majority is so poorly filmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:31 PM
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To answer OP's question. Also no one said people who struggle with things are losers. I'm surprised how quick people here are to get defensive about admitting they have a hard time with something. A lot of people have hard times with various things. Success or lack of in dating doesn't inherently make anyone a winner or loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:08 PM
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Honestly I'm kind of shocked I haven't seen more about this. I always kinda knew it was a thing there but I never knew it was to that extent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:22 AM
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That was one of the most interesting vice docs i've seen in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:09 AM
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wtf lol. tell him to go back to his country.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:44 AM
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Basically this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:44 AM
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Now I really wanna know what band this is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:43 AM
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French musicials. I don't know French past pointing at a menu and saying "This, please." Alan Watts lofi.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:41 AM
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are you fr i figure that guy is 100% a troll but now i really hope so lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:39 AM
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Holy shit. Dang.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:36 AM
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I'm thin but that doesn't mean everyone finds my body type attractive. I'm sure some men here would say I have no curves and that I'm flat. Me being thin/fit isn't an inherent of indicator of my attractiveness, just of my ability to workout and eat a certain way, which some people may find attractive. Some men will take women with big boobs and a fat ass plus a belly over me any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:35 AM
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I will say coastal area have better looking people. The more inland you go the homelier everyone becomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:32 AM
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This is a good point. I don't think anyone likes being second banana.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:31 AM
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It's something I started to notice in college and when I'm around other women who are bigger than me. They seem to take me being thinner as an insult or get upset if I don't have the same lifestyle as them. I work out for my own benefit and mental wellbeing, I prefer bitter food and eating excess sugar makes me feel ill; that they see my choices as an attack on who they are and their behaviors is their own issue. It's unfortunate when people's insecurities keep them from enjoying company, especi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:29 AM
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Lmao how is this misandry. Take one look at many of the guys on this sub and the primary shared trait is that they struggle with dating. Men who are successful with dating aren't going to look for help with dating, that'd be like someone who's never drank or done drugs going to AA.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:23 AM
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I feel like a lot of media is being created "for women" but it's not actually what women want. Women want vampires and sexy, evil women with a lot of power. Or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:41 AM
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Because they don't tend to have super similar lifestyles to thinner/fit/healthier women. Bigger gals do not want to go get green juice, hit the gym, shop at stores that don't carry XXXL sizes, etc. One of my struggles trying to make friends is actually size, in a weird way. So many American women slowly get bigger after they turn 22+ that you become an outlier if you're thin or fit. Especially as people begin having kids. Some fat women will have a complex about their size and not want to be aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:37 AM
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At least you have self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:35 AM
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Yeah OLD does not generally look like that. Region is also a factor, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:33 AM
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Mental illness is a common one I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:25 AM
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The common thread is that it's just men who struggle with sex, dating, and attracting women. Men who are too busy succeeding with those things rarely seem to know or care about rp stuff because they don't need it to begin with. They're already satisfied and getting what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:23 AM
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8/9. I really liked a boy and I asked him meet me at this one wall after school and I kissed him. I remember his lips tasted like dirt? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:02 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:59 AM
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No. I've had guys like this ask me out. I turn them down because it's obvious what they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:59 AM
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This seems accurate. I have coworkers who would benefit and have their children benefit from things like student loan cancellations and they don't want it despite being buried in credit card debt, loans, and working jobs they loathe. What really confuses me is when they reject help for their children. It seems like a poor parenting move. Life doesn't have to be a struggle; shouldn't you want your children to have it better and have more opportunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:54 AM
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Honestly I didn't even hear about it. I don't go to the movies either way but apparently seemingly marketing is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:52 AM
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Guess it could be as simple as saying "you can do better" to my female friends, but I only say that if I firmly believe it. I have seen women stay with shit boyfriend who abuse them simply because they're fit or have money, which is sad and pathetic in its own way. The common thread with those gals is that their self esteem is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:50 AM
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Pretty much. Some women do approach but it's only if they really want the guy. They're not going to approach an average guy that's barely clocking as an npc. I've approached men and women and I only do it if they're extremely appealing to me, a type that is rare to encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:46 AM
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Love an dating will always carry risk, and while wanting to avoid as much as you can is understandable, don't let it keep you from pursuing something that may be good and real. Trust your gut, yes, but trust your critical thinking as well. A portion of rp of manosphere rhetoric thrives off of and literally capitalizes on male anxiety and upset in regards to dating, and it benefits those content creators when it increases mens' anxiety and fear because it's more clicks, views, follows, and ultima…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:27 PM
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Trust fund kids really be like that. I briefly had a thing with a guy who inherited a massive amount of money (never needing to work ever type of money) and he assumed I would just date and live with him if he agreed to pay for everything we needed. He didn't seem to understand that money is not the only thing needed for a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:54 PM
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It has minimal to no impact unless you're dating someone who is literally microcelebrity and has thousands of them funding her existence. A simp who bought me lingerie years ago or sent me money ob my birthday is not going to impact anything. Simps are honestly less common than men here would imagine, unless you actively cultivate that dynamic and keep entertaining the men. It's why it's so common for sex workers, ig models, or internet personalities to have simps. Women with a lot of simps usua…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:49 PM
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Fuck it, jump ship now if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:32 PM
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If it's something you know you can't get past, you should split up. Retroactive jealously is an ugly beast if it consumes you. Someone partying isn't a 100% guarantee they're going to a bad (or good) partner to you. Same as marrying a virgin isn't a 100% guarantee to be good or bad, either. Assess the situation based off your individual contexts and connection, not just off of dry statistics. Then do what makes sense. Risk mitigation can taper into not being nigh phobic of relationships or other…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:31 PM
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Not in my experience or for the women I know. I've known more women with boob jobs than those who use extensions, actually. But I live in vegas so idk how that impacts my sample. Women do spend a fair amount on their hair but it's typically dyeing and styling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:50 PM
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Not that I'm aware of. Most women don't. Many dye their hair, though. Hair extensions are typically a celebrity/"glam" thing or a black thing. I don't know a single woman close to me who uses them. A google search says 34% of women use them. I'm not sure how this is distributed throughout various demographics, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:46 PM
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I feel like the lying about a physical trait would be more of an issue than the actual baldness. I'd feel the same way if a woman lied about having extensions or had a boob job. I understand why people try to hide traits they dislike, but makeup isn't an accurate comparison because the only thing that is truly changing someone's facial structure is surgery...you can tell when someone doesn't actually have cheekbones or a small nose. You literally just have to look at them at a different angle lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:42 PM
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I think a lot of the selective outrage has to do with the people who are unhappy when they experience age gap relationships. Men make up the majority of sexual abusers, and heterosexuality is the dominant sexuality. If we assume a large amount of sexually abused youth or young adults are women experiencing it at the hands of men, then there's likely going to be more women who have bad experiences with men of all ages, including older, which could even play a role in the abuse. The anger is proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:37 PM
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I think media brings up men who so it because they know it will garner clicks/traffic/attention aka money. Personally, I roll my eyes every time people think celebrities' personal lives, matter but I do think the behavior is more common amongst men. Only age gap couple I can think of with an older woman and younger guy is MGK and Megan Fox. But it's Megan Fox. I think people want to date her regardless of age. I know I would lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:15 PM
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People who are naive and don't have good critical thinking and pattern recognition will always think they've been lied to. I've never believed society "lied" to me about dating, sex, or love. You just observe and deduce from there, then figure out how you want to play your hand. It's not that difficult if you pay attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:12 PM
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because madonna is irrelevant and so no one knows or cares. i certainly had no idea. i don't care whether or not people have age gaps, though. If it's legal and consensual it's not my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:09 PM
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who
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:08 PM
5

Honestly micorplastics dropping T levels and sperm levels may fix this first or something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:50 PM
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Pretty much. Marriage is a legally bidding contract that incentivizes and holds you accountable to your partner; it's intended to solidify your status as a pair rather than just individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:45 PM
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Because bodily decay is awful and unavoidable. I'm not excited to be creaky and possibly on meds at 80 for whatever aging problems may occur lol 2 doesn't scare me at all. My partner and I both have options; we want each other; "options" are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:27 PM
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Move somewhere you both enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:26 PM
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No. She just sounds like a clown for staying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:49 PM
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this place is full of degens anyway, at this point I just come here to scoff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:46 PM
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Personally I'm just more attracted to feminine or model-eqsue androgynous features. Masculine men tend to be the opposite of those, so I find most guys who lean that way less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:44 PM
2

I'm a chronic nail biter since getting my office job. I had really nice, natural nails when I worked retail. I wear fake nails sometimes. A pack of nude nails at sephora is like $8 and then you just glue them on and paint them. They last about 2 weeks, 3 if you want to reglue them on. I've never gotten my nails done professionally but will do these semi-often. My nails are natural right now because I've been sculpting and need them short anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:42 PM
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because shaping my pubes into hearts or stars is fun /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:37 PM
2

I think if men don't want to listen to women, that's fine. If they do listen to women, that's fine. Whether they fail or succeed has zero bearing on me so I don't personally care what they do. I know listening to certain women over men helps. I'm part of the reason my childhood friend was able to get a gf because I was only one who told him directly to hit the gym hard and I actually helped write his tinder profile and picked pictures for him. What works for some may not work for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:10 PM
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Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:01 PM
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I get hit on randomly by men both older and younger than me, but it's not an everyday thing. Granted, I don't go out everyday. I usually just go to work and then home. Maybe out to run errands. Ime orbiters tend to be a thing in younger social circles. Most adult men and women will quickly leave if you don't show interest in them; it doesn't make sense to waste time pursuing someone not interested or partnered. I do have exes or guys who try to pop into my DMs once or twice a year, but my (male)…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:55 PM
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It's people hoping they'll change your mind or thinking they're an exception. This foolish behavior happens on both sexes; every other mf seems to think they're special.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:06 AM
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No, he looks below average imo. Height doesn't compensate as much for other things as people think. Or maybe it does for more homely ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:00 AM
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To an extent. I may be no true scottsmaning it. But feminist women I know aren't as you described. Some may let or enjoy guys paying for dates but none expect it. We are in a very blue region though and most women I know make as much as their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:40 PM
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Niche. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:38 PM
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This dude is like a 4.5 from a glance. I honestly just skimmed the video looking for him so I'm assuming he's the asian guy with short hair? Height doesn't matter much to me so that could be why. The 5'4" guy I dated was way more attractive than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:38 PM
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Feminist women are supposed to be 50/50. If it's rooted in egalitarianism, that's the goal. I personally think it's unfair to put the entire burden of paying for dates on either side. Everyone should expect to pay their own way. People who don't are users or actually more traditional than they'd like to admit, or hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:15 PM
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Is this not close to your brand because from the little I've gleaned these seem close to what you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:13 PM
1

good hair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:12 PM
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That's not necessarily true. My partner and I left leaning and I could be considered very feminist depending on who ask. We both pay for dates; we take turns, we split things, etc. Granted, I never let men pay for first dates and go for low stakes stuff like coffee. No one's going to die if they walk away unsatisfied with six less dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:11 PM
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No, because I'm in a stable relationship, but getting my birth control was actually difficult for a while. I actually had to sit down with my partner and talk to him about if anything worse happened, I'd understand if he'd want to break up if all birth control got banned, because I would go full celibate before allowing myself to be pregnant. He said that he'd just get a vasectomy if anything. I'm really careful about my birth control in general and never had real issues or concerns with it, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:52 PM
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I posted a bunch of photos from google one asking if they were good examples of average and no one replied. This was ages ago and I figured it was either because no one agrees entirely on what's "average" or because it does vary by location.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:42 PM
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White couple, the woman looks like she could be more attractive but it's hard to tell with her attire. Older couple looks matched, they look like they were both good looking when young. Black couple looks matched. Gay couple looks matched (for gay men who age gap date, definitely matched). Ironically I don't think any of the couples are attractive except the older couple. If you look at their bone structure and imagine them young, they'd probably knock the other couples out of the ring. Those la…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:39 PM
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I always ask for sample pictures of "average" and no one has ever provided an example. Idk why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:53 AM
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Planters, ashtrays, incense holders, tiles, containers (baskets, cups, vases, etc.) I might try to make wall shelves next time and see if I can inset mirror into them like a vanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:51 AM
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Sleep is what's next on the schedule. I gotta do a bunch of editing tomorrow and this weekend has been working on things all day long so far. Tiring but good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:47 AM
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I've been treating sculpting as a second job and pulling full shifts in an attempt to make 25 hand built pieces in 48 hours...feels good to be exhausted from satisfying work rather than just rotting at an office. Progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:34 AM
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No, because I already have aggressive desires and thoughts and if testosterone was on top of my personality I would be in prison. Would want to see what it's like to have a dick though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:18 AM
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It's obviously an evolving defense against increasing housing costs. Seriously though, I don't think it's going to cause any sort of downfall of society. Many people prefer monogamy for various reasons (less concern about stds, more obvious ways to pool resources, less people's emotions to consider, raising children, etc.) I've known a handful of poly couples and they are often a mess. Granted the parties are usually not on the most stable ground to begin with, for some reason. I don't think pol…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:01 PM
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Because a lot of people feel the urge to bang in their youth and with as many protective measures and contraceptives that exist, you can essentially do so with minimal to no consequences, assuming you're not someone who's emotionally driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:47 PM
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Working out isn't unnatural. I specifically didn't mention that because it is natural. We should probably all be a little more lean if we're talking OG natural. I will say cosmetic surgery is big with female fitness influencers, though. I'm fit and follow a lot of gym women for inspo and motivation, and a some will go get boob or butt jobs because they're not happy with their very fit and hot bodies. Gym culture carries its unique dysmorphias for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:42 PM
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Because some people find certain looks are not naturally attainable for themselves and dismiss them as unnatural. The rise of cosmetic surgery and its advancements have made subtle work more difficult to pick up on, though. Extremely attractive people are somewhat rare and a good portion of them sink money, time, and energy into their looks which has some overlap with enhancements. Since that's becoming more common, natural people get dismissed as fake or unnatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:24 AM
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Because some people like each other as lot as individuals and sometimes that happens to align with both their sexual preferences and they fall in love. This sub will make you paranoid even if you know better. The bitterness and hatred that seems to be dumped here is not the norm irl, and there are couples of the opposite sex who adore each other and treat each other well. It usually has less to do with their sex and more to do with that they like each other as individuals, not just "You're a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:19 AM
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i second this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:56 AM
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No. That's my plan with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:03 AM
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Fucking rip
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:04 PM
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i'll sometimes get on when i have weird gaps of time on weekends, but there is a massive exodus every Friday after 6:00pm pst then everyone comes back on monday lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:03 PM
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sounds like american politics
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:02 PM
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Ignoring acne, he's probably a bit above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:59 PM
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Doesn't bother me. Ngl I likely wouldn't even notice or give it much thought, especially if it was subtle like 1"-2".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:08 PM
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Not for people who aren't in religion. I'm not religious but would auto "no" anyone who is. Other than that, it doesn't impact anything. Religious people tend to socialize and date within their communities if they like those values.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:05 PM
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Are you the shorter ripped guy? I think there's another shorter ripped guy I may be confusing you with lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:46 PM
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I've likely never seen them, ngl. I know what a handful of people look like on here but not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:07 PM
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Do my best to find a partner who makes me happy and who I make happy. If we're not happy we shouldn't be together. N count isn't a determining factor for happiness for everyone. For some, it can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:06 PM
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i could be telling you to do zumba classes, you never know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:52 PM
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I don't think anyone's denying that, but correlation us not causation and having a lower body count doesn't exactly keep someone from bad marriages, divorce, or cheating. Guys here act like people with lower body counts are somehow safe options when in reality all relationship are a risk. Biggest determining factor is whether someone will have a bad marriage/cheat/divorce is likely happiness and not n count. And people of any n count can have a happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:51 PM
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become a gym guy and women like this will probably like you. women who look like this are typically gym ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:48 PM
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9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:41 PM
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I'm not white, have no tattoos, and am dating another queer man...idk who you're coming at or why you care but your bitterness shows lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:28 PM
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I have gone to bars alone, but only with the intention of either keeping to myself with a drink or maybe seeing if I can get a free drink out of a guy. I've never gone out with someone I've met at a bar nor slept with them. I'd never go to a bar with a goal to meet a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:27 PM
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I don't use tiktok but i think it's a youtube thing. i could just be horrendously out of date at age 24 tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:54 PM
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this is the funniest thing i've read all day ty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:39 PM
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That last line alone puts him above average because he's not saying some "sigma grindset" nonsense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:32 PM
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That could work. I still believe there should be a cap at 65/70z People who are only going to live a fraction longer than those who are yet to be middle aged shouldn't get such a heavy say in the future that will continue to impact others long after they're gone. The future belongs to the young more than the old, and always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:43 PM
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It's additional legal incentive to continue to function as a unit. Seriously. Subtract all the romance and frills and feelings and it's about a bidding contract intended to remind people they agreed to be a unit and team. Whether or not it is good for people, it is a legal declaration that "We are one". It implies you are not just individuals, but something larger, and you are willing to risk things like the hardships of life and that you want splitting up to be difficult, not a flash decision w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:38 PM
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It's anti-choice so I'll always be against him, personally. That simple for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:34 PM
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Not super often, other than my boss is 60 and I interact with her near daily. I feel people over 65 tend to be more out of touch with current events and than people who are 25-60. People younger than 25 may or may not be aware of things but often lack the life experience. I do think if there's a minimum age to be president, there should be a cap, especially if there's common ages (65+) where people start to have more health issues and there's more generational gaps between them and the current a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:32 PM
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When I was younger, and while I'll sometimes background watch some with my partner, having a bunch of funkos on a shelf is a little different lol. Also funkos could be of anyone from any show, not just anime. Personally, I worked to get away from nerd aesthetics and then slowly lost interest as I got older, so it could just be that. I'm middle almost 25 and my partner is going to be 30 next year, so we're hitting that age where having a lot of merch for things is seen as immature or kitsch. My p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:28 PM
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I've always waited for someone to seriously use the ageism argument but there is a good reason retirement age is 60-70. Idk why that's ignored for politicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:02 PM
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He certainly views women as inferior and disparages any feminine traits as if they're inherently bad. That's basically the minimum to be a misogynist. If he's not a misogynist (which he is), he's incredibly misogynistic. Either way, there's no way in hell I'd date anyone who consumes his content. That's a hard boundary. I already have incredibly specific standards and never bent on those; I would never make an exception for someone who likes him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:01 PM
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There's plenty of ways to get political info and be informed about society. I read political philosophy and various news sites, for example. I don't need an internet personality to keep me informed, neither does anyone else. Also plenty of people and places to find motivation that are not him. Extreme is a matter of opinion. I personally find watching any of his content as extreme, it's deeply concerning and not a good sign, especially with the way algorithms will spoon feed you more content and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:53 PM
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Yeah I'm with you on these points
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:45 PM
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For us, it's highly unlikely. Our relationship isn't traditional and it'd be a major red flag to me if someone consumed his content.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:45 PM
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I would drop him an instant but he's a queer millennial man so he's not really in that target demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:40 PM
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this was savage holy f
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:37 PM
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honestly these last 2 presidencies make me hope it somehow becomes illegal for anyone over 60 to run for president but i doubt that will happen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:36 PM
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cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:35 PM
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Yep. It was fun and I don't regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:02 PM
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mmm emo heartthrobs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:59 AM
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Can we get an example of what the average woman and average man are supposed to look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:57 AM
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i keep trying to do too much at once and lately i've felt like i'm being drawn and quartered, so i likely do need to chill with my online time wasting lol i did manage to do some sketches tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:17 AM
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Do it. I'm on the fence of doing the same since I don't gain a whole lot from here. I should be oil painting or sketching right now but I'm sorting through replies instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:10 AM
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Hey, as long as you don't have a micropenis you're probably doing better than someone, somewhere. I have slept with short guys (5'1"-5'5") and dated a short guy (5'4") so nothing's impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:07 AM
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Somehow this is comforting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:05 AM
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Just go slow and point the biggest craters toward the gravitational pull without getting roped into it. You can do it. I believe in u.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:13 AM
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Because if everyone we reasonable these things would be discussed and decided before a third life is put on the planet. Parents don't exactly get to fully tap out one the kid's born. Personally I think financial abortion should be legal. No one should be forced to have or care for a child they didn't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:12 AM
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Ngl, I once thought I might be trans when I was younger but upon realizing I would never be tall or have a decent sized dick I literally threw out any thought of it having a tangible reality. I kill it as a 5'2" lady with a nice strap on. I am 100% certain it's better this way then being a 5'2" guy with a micro penis who's balding from T.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:09 AM
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i can parallel park a moon between planets easy peasy. they're not so special.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:02 AM
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very doubtful imo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:01 AM
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Same here. My partner and I are both bi and I'm a little more masc for a lady and he's kind of feminine for a guy. We're both straight passing and conventionally attractive so there's never been any real issues with dating and we split almost everything 50/50 proportionately. Deciding I wasn't going to date straight men was one of the best decisions I ever made.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:00 AM
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Ngl, I'm not going to comb through that right after getting off work. In this document, does it equate individual with person?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:49 AM
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I don't think they're considered an individual in the sense they are not autonomous nor fully separate from the mother. They're human, sure, but not a person nor individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:40 AM
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*you're
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:24 AM
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This is my experience. Some are rightfully labelled and for others it's unwarranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:23 AM
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Here's hoping. Honestly it wouldn't be as bad if there was more organization and systems for work. They need to hire people who know what they're doing and not just family because family.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:17 AM
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Only in the sense that you are killing the same type of organism in different stages of it's life cycle. That's exactly what it is. Something being made of human DNA does not inherently grant is personhood. Tumors have human DNA. A dead fetus or stillborn infant has human DNA, as does an adult corpse it medical vegetable. We do not generally consider these "persons" because they lack autonomy and evident consciousness. Having human DNA does not equal having personhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:15 AM
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I'm not exaggerating when I say I am one of the most professional and detached people here. One coworker is so stressed he's having heart and gallbladder issues and he's honestly who I'd consider the best employee. Management here is very poor, the company is family run which just translates to simple nepotism and jobs for family without any degree or real experience, and they don't need to worry about being professional because they're not going to get fired. Because family. I've had a brief ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:10 AM
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I would've personally regard very earlier stages as "human". Human DNA, yes, but not exactly human in the sense we know. Digging a seed out of the ground before it starts to really take root is different then cutting down a whole tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:26 PM
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Everyday I am shocked my boss still expects me to keep up the facade that I care about work. Everyday I come closer to cussing everyone out and throwing a computer at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:14 PM
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I think a majority of women care because it's something that they would potentially have to deal with even if they've never been pregnant before. I've never had an abortion and am very responsible about contraceptives, but it's terrifying to me that someone would want to force me to have a child on terms that aren't mine, regardless of if I or my partner want it. Or if for some insane reason I decided I want a kid, then found out there was a medical issue or it was dead then forced to carry and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:10 PM
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honestly it's impossible for me to separate trolling and seriousness in this sub sometimes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:19 PM
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I've never experienced this, most men I've interacted with are massively hung up and want to make women cum because they think it's an impressive thing to do. Maybe not for older generations, but younger millennials and older gen z have seemed fairly invested in mutual pleasure, ime
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:42 PM
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There's more than people on here would imagine, and many who do want relationships, the issue is the women either don't want them back (for various reasons) or they can't land the person they want for whatever reason. People should stick to whoever has compatible values to them. I personally don't think N count is always reflective of that, but it can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:28 PM
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A woman imitating or putting the moves on a guy is usually a pretty positive sign, yes lol. I do think people making others wait a prolonger period before having sex when that's not what their previous behavior shows can be a yellow or red flag. I do think the wait period determines that. Like I didn't sleep with my partner on our first date because I wanted to show him I had self control, but I did let him know I was very into him. By date 2 or 3 were getting frisky and now we're here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:45 PM
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i've never heard anyone try to spin them like this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:33 PM
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Personally I've found for the majority is a phase. The issues occur when people settle instead of dating someone they're actually crazy about. I'd personally have chosen to be alone before seriously settling, and I know my partner would not be this invested in our joint wellbeing if he saw this as temporary. We did discuss early on that we could talk to each other if we ever craved novelty, and we did try things with a couple we're friends with, once, (since we're both bi) but we actually both d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:19 PM
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My partner and I are both high n and not like that. Sure, we both had phases before we met when where we were banging certain people for novelty, and then when we showed up in each others lives we wanted to be together and have no desire for others. You can really enjoy sex and just be waiting for an actually compatible person to come along. We both dated here and there but he and I basically had the same experience: we didn't like any of our partners enough to view them as long term, they were,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:59 PM
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what someone's actual best interest is and what someone thinks their best interest is are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:50 PM
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I personally don't think he has enough support for another presidency but never say never i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:40 PM
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Will ponder this while I wait at the printer hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:40 PM
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Dang, and here I was thinking nuclear winter and obliteration might be festive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:39 PM
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i'm not really concerned about nukes, i'm more curious if more countries will get involved, including the US. Right now it looks doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:39 PM
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good point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:38 PM
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Anyone think there's any real chance of a bigger scale war in europe or nah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:29 PM
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I ask the same thing of most men, it's why I never cared about irl guys when I was about 14. Everyone's fugly compared to anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:26 PM
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I didn't say it was, she's just not remarkable to me. I'd likely glance at her and think "oh she looks nice" but i'm not necessarily looking again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:01 AM
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I would encourage people to do whatever makes them happiest. If you want a relationship more than you enjoy being alone, that's an individual's call. Personally I think being alone is better than settling for most people regardless of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:58 AM
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She's like a 5.5 or 6 at best
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:40 AM
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Being relying on a single other human being to control your financial well being is incredibly risky even if you trust them and are happy with what they can provide. Even if all is grand, all it takes is a sudden recession, accident, job loss, etc. for it all to become destabilized. If you both work, it's much harder to financially decimate a couple and the other can potentially compensate for the other's loss for a bit. A team is generally stronger than a solo player. For me, I love expensive s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:38 PM
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Women who put too much energy into wanting to be perceived as nice or good or pleasant. I want someone honest about their flaws and bad behaviors—anyone with an interesting life and personality is going to have those; acting like you don't either means you're boring or lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:31 PM
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i went on a bumble friend date last night and it actually went decent but idk if i'm gonna be lifelong friends w this girl. Meeting people in general seems to be difficult/odd in this era. She was nice so we'll hang again and we have common interests, so. Friends are always out there somewhere, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:30 PM
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You gotta get into something else. I got into this connect the dots game and now I'm like the candy crush moms where I do that instead of being on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:14 PM
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honestly i'm surprised at how many "regulars" have moved on but i guess that's that and likely a good sign
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:02 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:55 PM
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It's the same for me, and then I'd say 1/3 or 1/4 guys I know (about half that is male on male, the others female on male). Obviously we'll probably never have truly accurate data for that, but having it would likely dispel some myths that it's not common. But it is true that it's likely to be someone you know/met vs a stranger in the bushes who grabs you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:54 PM
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I am curious what the real data on make SA would look like if we had 100% accurate info. Both sexes underreport, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:47 PM
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rip do better bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:42 PM
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Probably not the best thing to celebrate but it shouldn't because an issue if we get splitting resources and pollution problems under control. I doubt that'll happen though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:42 PM
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I think part of this is even assuming the guy was assaulted by a women. Most men I've met who do have SA trauma or something usually had it happen to them very young (like under 15) and it being another guy assaulting them is more common than people will let on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:40 PM
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tragic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:10 AM
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sniff panties and become enlightened
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:10 AM
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I'm glad someone shares this love for scent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:09 AM
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Not a fetish, but I love sniffing my partner's armpits, crotch, etc. He thinks it's cute and funny but I will literally try to pin him down or try to smell him when we're having conversations (at home, not in public lol). Some people have such nice, natural smells that it evokes something visceral. I am also an underwear sniffer because again I just love smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:24 AM
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Few hundred by the hour, depending what they're expecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:18 AM
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The phrase "duty sex" exists for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:12 PM
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Wouldn't you it track that acting out and being bitter would just continue to drive potential love away? I understand that bitterness could be reasonable to develop but I still don't think it's an excuse to act out it do things that may be violent, which seems to be an MO for some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:09 PM
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Lol you think an opinion is correct, okay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:07 PM
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Aborting in a certain stage is nowhere near aborting "someone". The argument returns to "When is someone a person?" and part of what makes someone a person IS consciousness. If something cannot feel pain, shows no signs of cognizance, cannot live on its own, we don't tend to consider those things people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:02 PM
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Depends on the context. I'd say I have feminist values and beliefs, yes. I talk about equality often with my partner but we're both queer, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:59 PM
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I've always understood patriarchy as male-dominated rule. Never really believed they ruled "for" the rest of men, just themselves, screw everyone else at the bottom type stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:58 PM
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And some may not want it. That's why no one should be inflicting their desires on masses and people and things should be left to individuals, not governments and strangers. You're a libertarian, that shouldn't be hard to grasp. Your opinions on what's better is not 100% shared. Acting like it is not productive nor factual. It's just a viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:14 PM
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I don't think it's "most". There's different schools of thought regarding it different types of feminism; some view it as overall damaging, others view it as an important, justified path to income and that it should be seen as a valid work choice and not illegal. I do think it's damaging to women ad a group, but I "support" it in the sense that people are going to do it anyway, and I want them to have legal measures to protect themselves and not have to operate in ways that make them additionall…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:08 PM
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You are often forcing them to make a conscious choice between then suffering and others suffering. If someone is not conscious and lacks many of the social connections already autonomous individuals have, there is minimal to no suffering in them not being alive. They do not have to risk suffering or causing suffering, and they may not even be aware that would have ever been a thing, may not even feel pain. There's yet to be concrete answers regarding the abortion issue. Acting like forcing peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:58 PM
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Being upfront, I am not empathetic in general (my coldness isn't limited to this group, I'm just not the most empathetic person overall.) I don't ever expect others to see things as a real issue until it impacts them. (Using the recent threat to abortion rights in America, I was upset that men didn't care much about it, but realistically I didn't expect many to be concerned, especially single men, as it hardly impacts them.) The thing is, we can't force anyone to feel for us or love us. Love can…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:55 PM
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You're the just the flip side of the coin. It's cruel to make someone be alive and then have to kill themself when they simply could've been spared all of that. Saying, "They can just die then." moves the burden onto them when they didn't even have to bear such a thing. They didn't have to have connections with others and choose to suffer or makes others sad. There is no distinctly right stance with this. They're both valid. Your fear of death is not 100% shared, nor is the idea that quantity of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:42 PM
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The longer I'm away from this sub the more people on here sound like fringe groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:34 PM
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They're certainly trying to, but as long as majority is doing fine, it's unlikely to be one, especially if there's no solutions that don't involve subjugating others or gov-mandated gf type shit. Legalizing sex work could maybe help. Or other things. It's to be seen if anything needs to be or will be done, and what that path may look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:32 PM
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We can't know if someone who can't consent would want to live or not. I wouldn't have cared at all had I been born or, precisely because I wouldn't have even been here to care. Viewing maximizing quantity of life as "good" is not objectively good. It is a personal viewpoint. You can argue it all you want, it doesn't make it objective. You're entitled to your stance but a fair amount of people on the planet will not agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:30 PM
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Sounds like hell. Your stance is not objectively good, sorry. Idk what else to say other than your opinion is just an opinion. You can't force it on others because it'll just make them miserable and dislike you/people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:26 PM
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why did you make the weather so cold lulll. wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:24 PM
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Ripped guys. Blond guys. Men over 6'. Blue eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:22 PM
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I'm always going to be a quality of life > quantity of life person. If I was vegetable, I'd want someone to pull the plug asap. I want a DNR in case of emergencies. Not everyone views things the same, that's why there's debate. Your beliefs are not more or less valid than another's, and no one should be dictating what others can or cannot do with their body or life. And we come back to the issue with abortion: who do we prioritize and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:13 PM
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this honestly tracks from my time in the bdsm community
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:27 PM
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Sex and relationships are new required for minimum survival in any western country. All our base needs are typically met. They are needed for a higher quality of life, sure. But the truth is that the majority of people are still dating and having children. (Disregarding whether or not these people are happy). People not getting sex or romance is not a major issue. It's partially why it's seen as an individual struggle and not a straight out societal one; it only impacts a small segment of the po…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:12 PM
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I'm happily partnered but if he passed I'd like want to be in a lesbian relationship or just stay away from the dating pool entirely. Most people in that mess aren't worth having a relationship with, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:06 PM
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It is bodily autonomy, because deciding at which point something is alive partially determine if we need to determine it's autonomy or not. It's clear that it's alive in some regards, but then it's also about how alive it is. A vegetable in a hospital is also alive, and we still pull the plugs on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:05 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:01 PM
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I'm not having children and would be voluntarily be celibate in a variety of situations. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 07:00 PM
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Only patriarchal religion appeals fits the claim you suppose. Anything pagan, new age, or matriarchal doesn't tend to demand gender roles how you describe. People tend to hate anything that forces them to do something that feels "unnatural" to them. Not everyone is going to fit in to an conservative, patriarchal religious community nor does everyone need to. If it works for you, great.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:33 AM
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Mirror neurons are thing. So is empathy. Some people are more prone to follow and mimic than others. It's not something exclusive to one sex. It's more of a personality trait or learned thing imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:06 AM
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Bodily autonomy is literally relevant to both the fetus and mother. The crux of the debate is really about who's bodily autonomy should be prioritized. Like if info one day comes out that a fetus or baby has no sense of pain or consciousness, we are all going to look like ignorant apes for prioritizing their "rights" over those of someone who's already living and clearly has consciousness. Your statement about bodily autonomy being "nonsensical" is straight out blind. The entire thing IS about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:56 AM
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Groups of people not having sexual relations (that can lead to children) is actually a good thing, especially if these are people who seemingly weren't able to compete in the dating/gene pool. It's not an actual problem unless those demographics try to make it a problem. It's natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:50 AM
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Honestly the moment abortion became an issue, there was likely no chance of a red wave. The right went WAY too extreme by trying to run on an anti-abortion platform. Even people in rural, red states don't want to ban it. Republicans really thought people, specifically women, were willing to put the economy and inflation before their own bodily autonomy...lol. Inflation and economy mean jack shit to people when they feel they may lose rights to their physical form and future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:45 AM
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Damn. NV really did it. Our dem senator is very likely to stay incumbent. Thank fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:40 AM
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The first one. That's not a hard question at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:50 AM
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lmfao "the recipe for mexican" 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:54 AM
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I remember all my hookups' faces but not their names. Some I do, some I don't. Certainly would not have saved their numbers in my phone. If I ever had to recall them, I'd label them by their features and personality: "Blond with a NY accent and nice eyes", "Ginger from Michigan who wanted to be a youtuber" etc. They weren't important enough for me to remember past that. I don't think that's uncommon for people who engage in casual sex. I remember hearing jokes about not remembering women's names…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 06:20 PM
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Most people here seem average imo. Some are a but above average but no one here that I've seen is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:57 PM
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People in Kentucky literally blocked a state constitution abortion ban. People don't want to regress. You know when mfs in Kentucky say no, it's too much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:51 PM
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Because then those guys can feel better about having rape fantasies. If it's normal and common then it's somehow more acceptable or justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:50 PM
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I'm a partnered woman and never "killed a baby" but damn fucking straight did I turn out to vote for my sisters, queer friends, and family. My state may actually keep the senate blue! I'll be crazy proud if the efforts I put into educating my friends and providing them resources for voting info pays off and helps keep others safe. "Red wave" my ass LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:22 PM
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Guess that's the magic of hollywood and camera angles!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:19 PM
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Go to the outskirts of Vegas and it's legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:27 PM
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I don't think they do. Most older women have been nice to me and sometimes momish. I actually just got done talking to some work contacts who were visiting, and one was a woman who's at least 60 and she looked stunning. She was very warm and nice to me. Women don't really "compete for dick" like that, ime. Especially partnered ones. I don't feel resentment toward women younger than me. I feel an urge to guide and protect them. I want them to have it better than me, if possible. I want to help th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:10 PM
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Most sane ppd group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:59 PM
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Because they don't want to give away all their limited downtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:36 PM
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I assumed it was the seasonal shifts. My work got busy and I got addicted to brain teaser games and now whenever I step into this sub I realize how insane it is lol. Not worth debating people here, they fr just want to be mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 04:35 PM
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I think it is, or it was due to inaccurate poll projections. Gen Z turned out heavy for the dems and I highly doubt any of them were answering "who are you voting for" type polls that news sites have. I know I wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:19 AM
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Not certain on that one, I'm not from PA and have been more focuses on NV since I'm here and it's a swing state. I had and still have a feeling the state may go red, but I think we stand to keep some dems in the house. Our mail-in ballots won't be fully counted until the 12th, I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:16 AM
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Things are tight in swing states but there was certainly no "wave" that media and news kept proclaiming. If dems keep the senate this will actually be one of the few times, historically, that the active President's party does well during midterms. I think more people are against regressive policies than media recognizes. Conservatives are often just one of the loudest groups in the news, is all. Especially post-trump. Extremists feel their regressive ideals are permissible when even red states d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:26 PM
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PA is the biggest surprise. I seriously thought they were screwed after Fetterman had a stroke but they really don't want a tv doctor as a senator lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:20 PM
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Honestly, I am surprised at how tight these midterms have been. It's restorative to see even red states doing things like blocking abortion bans in their state constitution. I'm still waiting to see if NV does me proud or not but my partner's home state really held it down for the dems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:56 PM
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No, but I once said I wanted a "rich" family when I was like 5 and my dad held open the front door and said, "Okay, go find them." and I stood there giggling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:02 PM
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Depends. I don't go for "High-T" type men. It would never work for me, as I'm intense and aggressive, and we'd likely fight/argue a LOT. I get along better with people who are more empathetic, calm, and less prone to aggression. Just being with my partner (who is empathetic, calm, and generally in control of his emotions, as I've never seen him angry, but I have seen him cry) has made me a calmer, more patient person. I work to be better for him. If I was with someone I didn't care about (for so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:52 PM
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24, my first "love" was around 18. Had to split due to moving and a difference in what we wanted. My current partner is my love who I want to go long term with and I love him much more intensely than the first guy, and we have more in common. He's 29 and didn't expect me to come into his life, but I'd been looking for someone like him for years. We lived together and have been together a few years, now. I remember seeing a stat in college about how most people don't meet their long term partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:53 AM
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Removes dead skin. Sugar lip scrubs can do the same thing and often taste good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:48 AM
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rip
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:47 AM
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Strong ex-emo/eboyish type vibes. Some women really like it, others don't at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:44 AM
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Yeah. Girls my or my partner's male friends have bene courting have literally switched interest to him and acted like the original guys were barely there. He's niche but most millennial and gen z women love his look.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:31 AM
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ty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:22 AM
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None of these match what i'd hope for lol I guess 7 is the closest for both
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:55 AM
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Literally whatever tall, ripped white guy (gosling, hemsworth, depp, that younger guy who played spiderman, etc.)with facial hair is trending for the month. It's generic and I'm almost appeals to a broad type of generic woman as well. Imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:12 AM
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Women find her hot. I think she's amazing looking. What women and men typically find attractive on women is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:09 AM
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I made lists of criteria/traits I wanted in a partner, traits I could compromise on, and things that were a hard no. Worked for me. I'm happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:46 PM
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There are NP sample ballot guides that a sent in the mail...I'm registered independent and the official sample ballot covered questions about amending the state's constitutional language, minimum wage increase, and if we want to change to a ranked voting system. It explained what things and clauses would be effected by these hypothetical changes and wasn't biased. But there are biased guides parties send out, yes. I got a conservative one because I'm independent even though I've never voted cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:59 PM
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reading ballot guides is a helpful thing, but some info can be disturbingly hard to find...i feel like it's by design :/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:28 PM
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Young voter turnout is ass in my state, but i did make a voter guide for me and my friends, and we're all middle 20s, so. We're likely outliers but there are some young people who want to be more aware, they just don't know where to find info. I've been informing my friends about early voting, polling locations, and that they are legally allowed to have paid time from work to vote if they meet certain criteria. But I doubt that's the norm, and voting details are not taught in schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:27 PM
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Fashion cycles. 00s styles are back and that means thin/slim bodies are going to be "ideal" again. It'll likely go back to "curvy" or something in another 20 years. Or be something else. Usually it shifts every decade or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:11 PM
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Because it wasn't necessary for me to consult a male person to know my personal value, desires, and complements. Maybe it was because my parents did a lot of teaching early on but there was never anything I felt I had to worry about aside from people outright lying to me, which is easily mitigated by simply having people earn trust v. giving it to them right away. I didn't need others to tell me what I was looking for. The only think my parents really told me it to make sure it was someone who m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:57 PM
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No lol. Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:32 PM
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I had the option for relationships and sometimes entered into them, but I mostly wanted to see what was out there. It was a decent time. I never viewed it as "devaluing" myself nor do I feel like I did now. Nor did I ever lower my standards with finding my ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:31 PM
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It's average but imo like 4/10
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:28 PM
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Yeah. I had it figured out a while ago, finding the partner just took time. Found the partner I wanted, now we live together and have join long term goals, are looking to travel to decide where we want to buy a house, etc. I'm 24 but I've had a really good idea of what I wanted ever since I was a teen. Nothing's really changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:24 PM
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Lmfao I have a massive queue of books and this nonsense wouldn't even come close to making it in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:48 PM
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Me too. If it doesn't, it doesn't. I just need one, quality, female friend and I'll be solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:48 PM
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Nope, I just unmatched. I've never had someone do that to me before, even when I've gone out with women. If I've ever flaked I tell people why or let them know in advance that something came up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:35 PM
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No, not really. Like 70% of women on there seem to be partnered, queer and straight. Women looking to date or hookup will just use the dating setting or find something organic irl. The options I see are like 99% women and maybe 1/3 of those are queer women, the rest I assume are straight or just don't mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:34 PM
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We are on to Bumble bff 3 now...we'll see how this pans out, may try to meet up this weekend if messaging goes well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:11 PM
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Yes, but I also have some long skirts. I love miniskirts though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:08 PM
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I'm always surprised STEM people don't like philosophy more. My sister is a STEM major and loves philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:06 PM
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Yeah, I honestly do. I look good and I like to use it to my advantage sometimes. I also dress more conservative at times or just straight out tomboyish. Depends on what I'm doing, who I'm with, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:05 PM
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I think it helps guys in that sense, also because of the cultural expectation of monogamy, it makes sense to want people to court only one or few people at a time. But for the platonic thing, I think it doesn't work well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:29 AM
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i like worm down the street day a lot, that's my favorite
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:55 AM
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you always gotta bring it back to size huh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:52 AM
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Nope. I'm working on other matches but this weekend seems to has worse response time than usual because of halloween events. people be busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:52 AM
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There's a setting specifically for friends/platonic meetings. They also have a business networking setting but I've never used that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:50 AM
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this is fine art wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:37 AM
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Bumble's expiration feature is ass. Even though I'm just using it for platonic/friends, this is the same feature that made me stick with tinder for when I wanted to find a partner; not everyone has notifs turned on or is checking an app daily—especially many women. 24 hr window to respond or expire is so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:35 AM
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Go for the juniors and up and you'll be fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:32 AM
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Nope. You may be a bit older than some but there were people up to like 30 something in my college classes, especially if they were grad students who were there for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:32 AM
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that is kinda weird as a "hobby" but i could see it if someone is majorly tatted or is a tattoo artist piercer themselves. That shit is its own subculture.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:29 AM
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they just don't do em like this anymore!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:27 AM
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Easier to kiss, to do certain sex positions, etc. Physically functional for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:35 PM
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Pretty much this. I've dated a 5'4"/5'5" guy and I actually enjoyed him being shorter because I'm short, too. It was way more functional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:57 PM
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No, but my partner is bi and I love that about him, so. I did ask about sexuality and stuff out of the gate, but I'm open about my own experience with queerness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:52 PM
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Uh. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:13 PM
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Some people like debate, banter, and discussing their worldviews—this is true of both sexes. Certain topics can heated because they involve subjective truths. There's also people who work in office, remote, or other jobs that give them free chunks of time but tie them to their computer. Reddit is something they use to kill time, and this sub is frequently active.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:31 AM
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I think this was the most jarring thing about this place overall. Some people will truly obsess in front of you, real time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:27 AM
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Yeah. There's a lot of products for people of both sexes to care for their looks, but women tend to be the biggest buyers of those products; it's not like it's exclusively for them, though. Some men use those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:21 AM
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I will try again! Honestly I just want one close female friend because all of mine live far away/out of state.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:19 AM
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Option 1. I do not want any children. I'd give up sex entirely before I'd ever have a child, and I love sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:33 AM
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For a platonic date? Sure, if I had other stuff to do, too, as I did here. I like to work at coffeeshops so it's not uncommon for me to show up early to work before meeting people for things. I waited longer than 30 mins because I was just working at that point. No use wasting a perfectly good latte and atmosphere because someone bailed. For a real date? Maybe—if I had stuff to do. I'd think it was rude either way and expect a good reason, but I always bring things with me to do to cover weird g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:24 AM
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I never believed this behavior was exclusive to women doing it to men, but something does seem to make it more "acceptable" for some women to think it's okay. idk. like at least send a text? 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:07 AM
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? I'm not on antidepressants and personally would never take them, but I have a strong feeling women on antidepressants are on them for way more reasons than "men" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:54 PM
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Yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:45 PM
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That's the thing though, not all women are picking like that; a good amount are doing fine. I've never been involved with a guy remotely like that. I know women who have but there's less of them than there are women who are in normal relationships with decent men. Some people have awful judgement, but most are doing fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 09:44 PM
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Mm I think you might be right. She hasn't responded but I guess I'll just do some work here since I got this bigass latte. So sad. Pour one out for my dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:41 PM
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Bro I am always the "cooler" friend, she's hella missing out. I was gonna smoke her out and everything. Welp.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:38 PM
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I think I might. I think being this late is a little strange
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:33 PM
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I've gone out with women before and been ghosted online or had dates show up a little late (i'm typically early) but this is just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:32 PM
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Bro I know. She didn't have the address for where we're meeting because it's a new spot and it's not on apps yet, but I sent it to her when I got here. I'm likely just going to go over some editorial stuff for a meeting i have on sunday but it's real weird to be stood up for something platonic lol. She could just be mega late but if it hits an hour I'm gone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:31 PM
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I hate it lol. I've been ghosted (but have also done the same 😬) once after exchanging numbers and this is the first time i've gotten to the point of trying to meet up irl. I have no idea if this girl is gonna show up but it's going on 30 mins late now :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:27 PM
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It truly is the small things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:21 PM
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I am on a bumble friend date for the first time and she is 20 mins late. gang, i may have been stood up let's seeeeee Update: Got stood up. The weirdest thing is this is just a platonic thing and she responded up to the point of actually having to show up. Not sure what happened but we are officially an hour from the time we were supposed to meet up and she's neither shown up nor responded. F.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:19 PM
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ppd melee i think i want a flail or big axe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:15 PM
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Not unfair to be upset, lying is lying. At least she told you and valued coming clean about it. Next move is your call, whatever it may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:14 PM
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hypergamy is eve listening to satan because he's more op than adam
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:11 PM
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Varies depending on body type and cut imo. thong tans are mega sexy though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:10 PM
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I will make always offer to make bets on how long people will last but no one will take me up on it because it's typically pessimistic bets that are accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:09 PM
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Damn so my partner humoring my pictures of cool pigeons i see a good sign, as is me letting him show me memes i don't understand. neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:08 PM
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Personally, I outgrew it. I enjoyed it but I saw all I needed to and am very happy with my partner and we want to be together long term. He also had his fair share of fun and feels similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:02 PM
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Some piercings instantly elevate some guys. YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:23 AM
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Male. I'm assuming I'd still be bi so I'd get with another queer dude and then we'd aim to make good money with white collar jobs and bang a lot, never have kids, and travel a ton.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:09 AM
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fucking rip lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:32 AM
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unfortunately i do know who he is but like i said, i assume he's on there because media personnel. maybe he drives user interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:30 AM
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Most of my friends and I have drifted apart or live in other states so I don't see them often. I want like 1 female friend here who I can smoke with and make art with or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:29 AM
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I agree with this, she's very pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:34 PM
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Bro you and me both. I have a friend "date" tomorrow with this girl off the bumble bff thing and all I am hoping for is that we are similar enough that she doesn't find me to be too intense or dark. I don't like to tone it down much because it feels like living a lie; a facade is bound to drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:33 PM
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This looks good, nice job 👌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:30 PM
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I am not hip enough to know who is and is not in twitter but I assume it's be he's a media person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:30 PM
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I have yet to get an object stuck but I have gotten close. I usually manage to swat it down because I hate asking for help lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:22 PM
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This is kinda what I was trying to explain about having gay friends the other day. Gay men are similar with this role sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:21 PM
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i second this. i want most social media platforms dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:20 PM
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I think a lot of it about illegal content or advocating for violence. Some fringe groups will dance around those types of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:20 PM
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What kind of cheesecake? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:18 PM
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no i am going to get stoned and oil paint.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:18 PM
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This one. One "wrong" move isn't always damning it she's interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:18 PM
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I feel like that's the nuance that is often ignored. It's only the shitty jobs struggling to find workers. Most of the workforce has been back and active for a while now. The only places I see understaffed are retail and like food service. Maybe some customer service jobs here and there. All the underpaid stuff where strangers are likely to yell at you and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:13 PM
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i'm 5'2" and that's when you climb or use another object to slap that shit off the shelf. U gotta be adaptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:11 PM
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My experience with a larger age gap was about a 16 year difference so it was much more palpable than if it was, say, a 7 year difference. Even now my partner is a little less energized/limber than I am but it's an incredibly subtle disparity. I was active and trying to do things like skateboard with friends do, well, young shenanigans. So that's part of where my take comes from. Maybe I'm wrong in assuming people get more tired as they age, but I'm certainly less energized than I was at 19-20. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:09 PM
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I had a response typed out and just lost it rip. Overall I agree with this, but I do think there is some validity to "the wall". But the caveat is that it hits everyone differently and at different times, but most people, male and female, are past their physical prime by the time they hit 35+. Some people arrive sooner, some later. I think what annoys some people is the weird blackpill type emphasis that looks are all that matters and once those go, you're fucked. It's simply not the case. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:59 PM
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People get to judge what they want to do with a potential life they're creating. Partially because, like you said, we have no way of knowing what this potential person would want. There are some people who wish they were never born; there are some who are indifferent; some love life. Also some people do help. They donate time, money, energy, resources to help the less fortunate. There are social programs that everyone's taxes feed into. Our society cares when it can afford to, but the issue the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:44 PM
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Never tried tinge but tinder gave me one a partner in colleges and then helped me get my long term partner, so I can't complain
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:36 PM
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Me all day today. I'm just waiting for my supervisor to bounce
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:00 PM
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Being poor is not the inherent issue. It's forcing people to be subjected to circumstances where it's basically guaranteed they're going to suffer, when they would not have suffered in such a way had they never been born.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:00 PM
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All parents who are bad parents should be shamed imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:57 PM
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well my body count just dropped drastically by this standard lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:57 PM
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Bumble is ass across the board imo. their expiration feature sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:56 PM
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Basically this. Something else is likely to come out and bump out the old platforms. I eagerly await all their demises.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:38 PM
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I think the 20ish women liking 30ish men is hit or miss. People can change a lot physically between 20-30, especially if they're not maintaining their fitness. Like I have some coworker who are 27/28 who I swore were older because they look like full on dads. (Overweight, thick facial hair, balding). There's were's people who are 28 and get mistaken for being 22. There variance is intense sometimes. For me, any guy who looks like a dad is off my radar, as I'm not looking to date a dad type. (Or …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:37 PM
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I stopped using snapchat in 2019 but apparently some people still use it. BeReal is one I'm familiar with but I only have a few friend who use it, I've debated making one but eh. I'm waiting for a new platform that's photo and text based. I really hate the push for everything to be videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:21 PM
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I'm Gen Z. I do think older guy who are exclusively looking for young or barely legal women often err on predatory. Those same men were sexually invisible to me until about 20ish. I didn't register them as potential partners because the age difference seemed insane to me. Even when I started seeing older guys, it was to see what the big deal was. They're still just guys, only older. There wasn't any distinct difference between them as people, but they did try to leverage their advantages, but no…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:07 PM
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They're attracted to certain intentions. In being dishonest about your intentions, you're acknowledging they're attracted to the intent, not the dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:56 PM
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No. Most people I know don't use twitter, facebook, and have slowly been quitting things like snapchat and instagram even. The platforms have all started aging and going the way of myspace imo. Unless they revamp they'll get old and dusty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:30 PM
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So, too advanced athletically, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:27 PM
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lol rip
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:27 PM
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Every relationship is transactional. Every single one. Even friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:25 PM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:23 PM
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I have no idea who Austin Butler is but Kaia Gerber is pretty and so is Vanessa Hudgens. Idk what the issue is here. Also why do you care so much about what other people complain about, especially if it's older women you have no interest in? People getting concerned about "hypocrisy" are typically hearing different stances from different people. And even if people are hypocrites: who cares. If it's not interrupting your life, why do you put so much energy into something? Truly baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:22 PM
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Laying doggy and missionary variations 👌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:16 PM
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That's too advanced for most of these folks, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:16 PM
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How so? I've dated a like 2 guys who were 10+ years older than me. I've been there, done that. Just calling it how I see it. My partner is 4.5 years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:13 PM
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I agree, unless they believe they're witnessing a distinct power imbalance. You could have two people the same age, but if one partner is being very aggressive and dominant over the other, people may get concerned about an imbalance or abuse. Age gaps are simply one of the most immediately visual things, you can't hide it like bruises, financial dependency, distinct difference in intellect or life experience, etc. When I was dated older guys, I did have some older women who didn't know me show m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:09 PM
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Some of them, yes. I believe this about people of both sexes over 35ish who haven't found a long-term partner, assuming they want one. Anyone left post-35 either didn't want a relationship, is divorced/left a LTR for whatever reasons, or is a "leftover". They're not necessarily LQ people, but the people who were never able to secure anything good when they were looking for were either vetted into failure by others or decided they didn't like their options. I do think LQ people tend to be leftove…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:27 PM
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This some Jolene shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:55 PM
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I've never "made my own misery" but I was never too concerned about if I found a partner or not. I wanted one but acknowledged I'd perhaps never find someone I liked. I did struggle to find someone I thought was worthy of my efforts, but it's not like it depressed me, led me to settling, or making bad decisions with dating. Everyone's got their own paths, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:52 PM
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Depends on the people, but my rule of thumb is any gap of 5 years or less is pretty acceptable assuming everyone is a legal adult lol. 5-10 years can be touchy but still work if the people are very compatible and the older guy genuinely looks younger than he is, or the woman older. 10+ is going to be seen as a little creepy even if it's a perfectly healthy relationship. The age gap is probably notable, and people will judge you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:48 PM
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Is the implication here that a 10/10 woman would not be superficial or that attractive people don't struggle to find others they think are worthy of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:38 PM
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Idk if i'd call them entitled or lazy, but they did mess up the economy and societal landscape to some extent. People being lazy and entitled is less about generations and more about certain types of people that have always existed regardless of when they were born.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:30 PM
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This is an opinion, but you're entitled to it. I personally find boomers the most annoying because some of them seem legit fear-brainwashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:04 PM
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Ngl, if you are conventionally attractive in a traditional manly way, I feel like that would attract more superficial people; same for a woman who's very conventionally attractive in a feminine way. People get obsessed with aesthetics, especially if their abstract self if not well developed. The only people I see having a bad time dating as the dumb, ugly, or severely "damaged" folks, mean as that is. I've never seen a smart, hot, put together person struggle past finding who they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:02 PM
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Yeah. People just seem to complain about younger groups like clockwork every time they start to come of age. Millennials come to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:55 PM
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Because they're coming of age and moving into the college/adult/professional world slowly. People are getting more interaction with them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:48 PM
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I think most people are shit at vetting from what I've seen. Men aren't generally deceptive with me because out of the gate I'm already discussing even taboo shit if I'm interested in them. I don't think many guys want to lie to me about whether or not they like taking a strap on in their butt. Or about if they're submissive. I love getting to that stuff early in because it is fr one of the fastest ways to knock people out. Hot guys who are into that stuff are crazy rare, took me years to find m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:45 PM
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Pregnancy is why I never had sex until after graduating high school. The idea was terrifying and still is, because if I don't catch it in time it either means I'd have to abort somehow or kill myself; birthing a kid is not an option for me, to me. I'm the only woman in my friend group who is super strict about birth control and never had a scare. I used to bring my own condoms to situations I thought might be sexual because I didn't trust guys to do it or know how to put them on right (some did …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:35 PM
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I used to read ao3 fanfiction (only m/m or f/f, idk hetero couples never interested me) and most was bad but some was well written. I actually think it's a good and safe way for girls to explore their sexuality without actually doing anything sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:01 PM
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Preselection is people becoming more interested in someone because others are into them, they're "preselected" by the group. Technically, gay men could do this. You yourself mentioned sometimes gay men find straight men attractive or at least will evaluate a guy's appearance. Who's to say womrn wouldn't also be interested in the guy for the same things? What if they both like brunets? Or people who like x-type of music? More friends is usually good for socializing and meeting people, and there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:48 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:55 AM
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half the people at 6 a.m. are somewhat sleep deprived lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:53 AM
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Leading on? That's not even the topic here dude. Someone asked for others takes on if befriending gay men helps you meet women; in my experience, it does. Some guys here bow to argue the importance "preselection" and gay men trusting a straight guy enough to introduce them to you is technically a facet of that same idea. The difference is it's just a different demographic than other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:51 AM
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They both look like people I could find in a 30-40 group in a corporate environment. Neither are ugly but I wouldn't consider either super attractive. Neither are my type though; I have a bias and I am sure some people would find them very good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:51 AM
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I had to google these people and they both look barely above average
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:25 AM
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it's my queer bias showing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:21 AM
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Bro gay men do not auto find all men attractive just because they're men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:16 AM
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it was clearance back massagers at target when i was 15 and now i am a hitachi lady. shower heard somehow got bypassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:22 PM
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the answer to the last one is obviously a yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:48 PM
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Honestly this could be good if you're into liberal women. I have a ton of gay friends and would be way more open to men they introduce me to or hang around than men who are only around straight dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:48 PM
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Class is partially determines by cultural norms and etiquette, too. It's a big overlooked facet that can instantly out someone who's not from the same class.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:35 PM
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honestly i straight up missed this joke until now because i never used a showerhead in that way lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:34 PM
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I'm wearing all black right now (I guess my skirt is dark gray technically, it's plaid) and no one here seems to regard it as weird. It's just a style choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:32 PM
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honestly i could become a sports person if all sports required people to be in fun sexy outfits
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:31 PM
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As them to go to a bar with you and make up some excuse about gas or needing to be closer to home for something the next morning
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:29 PM
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honestly i just like sniffing my partner's underwear and even my own. if they're generally clean it's where all the good musky and sexy smells are potent. that and armpits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:28 PM
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Then no. I've personally dated guys below me in socioeconomic class but they always have good manners, are respectful, and are hard workers and usually seeking to elevate through education or profession. While it's less common to share values when there's distinct class disparity, it's not impossible. I think women will date a little down or up depending on what they're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:47 PM
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some tubs are big
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:41 PM
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fresh after a good shower is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:39 PM
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Like you mean socioeconomically or in behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:37 PM
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drawing a bath?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:37 PM
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are you joshing me rn fuck you're right i just thought of Spanish. i don't know other languages but damn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:36 PM
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The pro move
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:32 PM
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Lots of things are sad, unfortunately. But that is the reality of it. A male friend and I have been trying to convince a mutual female friend to leave her abusive boyfriend and she won't do it. She won't get a job so she can have her own money to leave. He's cheated on her in their own bed, given her STDs, broken her trust repeatedly. We've offered her our places to crash if she needs, offered to help her get a job so she can be independent—she won't do it. This guy isn't conventionally good loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:31 PM
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I fr feel like it's fear mongering. Also, we're all responsible adults who are accountable for our own dating choices. If people date those who mistreat them, that's on them, whether they like it or not. It's no one else's obligation to get them out of a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:11 PM
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"Oh no, I slipped on a banana peel, watch out!" [pantses someone and accidentally eats their ass] Like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:56 PM
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We change it up from bald to bush so pubes don't exactly scare either of us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:55 PM
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given the context of butthole, the idea of a long nose is somehow concerning here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:53 PM
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til: toes = fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:49 PM
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i thought you were like 5'9" or something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:47 PM
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if he's down to eat my pubes too, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:46 PM
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god also gave you fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:45 PM
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then it's the dick/bedroom skills
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:40 PM
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most radfems i've met are closer to 30-40 than adolescent. I suppose it's a revival, though. Millennial women have different feminism it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:38 PM
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I hate salad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:35 PM
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Honestly, I have to agree with this. Accidents do still happen and I support abortion rights for many reasons, but people need to use contraceptives more and correctly. I've never had a pregnancy scare because I'm religious about my birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:25 PM
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Nothing. I kinda started getting them on my arms from workout out and while I'm proud of them I don't like them aesthetically. My partner likes them , ironically. As do phlebotomists. They be complimenting my veins when they steal my blood for the vampire elites in Washington
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:23 PM
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It's the money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:21 PM
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Sure, some
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:50 PM
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Yes. I'm not even in my late 20s yet but I already know I'm gonna be hotter than I am now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:56 PM
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Yes. I grew up in the southwest and I don't care for much sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:52 PM
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The PNW or maybe Paris. Spain, maybe, but I've never been. Coastal Mexico if I was on a budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:02 PM
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If I had stayed in Chicago I likely would've ended up in a place just like this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:01 PM
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First for sure. I don't fuck my job or share a bed with my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:19 PM
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Dunning-Kruger effect?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:17 PM
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not necessarily old but u do like some dangle. they're fun to play with. i enjoy when it's warm and they're all just comfy n hang. i hate the cold making them hide >:(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:11 PM
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who's saying current busecmi ain't a crush, that's rude 2 him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:06 PM
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?...because steve buscemi?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:04 PM
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bro wtf. i have never seen this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:58 PM
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I don't think women have ever denied it, it's just not the norm. You have to be kinda broke or weird to be going on dates just for food.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:55 PM
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Over many, many years, yes. They likely won't be as bad as they were before but shifting of teeth is normal throughout everyone's lives, braces or not. It's why they have you wear retainers for a period after having your braces off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:52 PM
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I'm not trying to convince you of anything dude, just do what you want be aware exceptions exist. I do think it's weird that people get hung up on if someone wouldn't have liked their younger or past selves less than their future selves. I was nerdy and didn't know how to dress or wear make and never worked out, I would never in a million years fault people for thinking current me is better because she is. Most people are not up to par for anyone with much substance until at least their middle t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:50 PM
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TikT@rds, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:55 PM
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I either say fuck it or google recipes and click whichever looks good and follow that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:54 PM
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Fucking rip lol You could probably learn to cook one. Pan searing is surprisingly simple but it does make the kitchen smoky. I have to open the patio door to air things out because the stovetop vent's not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:20 AM
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🫀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:18 AM
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🌞
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:03 AM
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yeah it gets me going a bit. that and eating a really good steak. i just made my best ribeye yet and that shit was only on par with an orgasm. My partner liked it too which was surprising because he doesn't care for steak much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:43 AM
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ngl now that i've been without braces for some years i somewhat miss my freakishly straight teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:10 AM
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You don't have to, though. I usually did one day on, one day off. Or in the early stages 1 day, then a 2 day break, then back to it. You can start slow too. Just run around the block once or twice as a steady speed until you have the urge to push farther/faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:43 AM
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You can desensitize yourself with too much exposure. I do like some heavier bdsm stuff but I also like more vanilla stuff here any there, like pretty amateur couples (there's a girl called Coconey on PH and I like her stuff.) Butt stuff, MMF, femdom, general rough stuff. Some of the kinks I have are less related to sex and more in the SM realm which isn't inherently about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:42 AM
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I used to do way more cardio because I genuinely find running to be meditative. I used to workout then run around the neighborhood for 30-45 mind and just zone out. It was especially fun to go as fast as i could for as long as i could in the middle because there's rarely serious reasons to push your limits like that irl. I do use some dumbbells but i am gentle about setting them down because i hate drawing attention to myself. hence going to the gym at odd hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:16 AM
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ngl i watch harder porn that my boyfriend so i get a little shy when he comes over like 👀 because he's going to see me watching some hard stuff probably. he knows but i still feel weird because i've never had a partner i've lived with before; none have ever seen the full extent of my porn usage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:12 AM
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Do it. That's what I want to do. I look decent as is but if I can get more if an ass it's gonna be game over 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:10 AM
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I have the toned flat tummy but need to do glutes more. a girl tryna be at build-a-butt-workshop, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:55 AM
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"Brown Stud TAG TEAMED and DESTROYED by e-couple!! 8K"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:54 AM
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Not even close lol. More like ratty t-shirts and I'd do at 2am so no one would have to see me be all nasty and sweaty and i wouldn't have to wait to use any of the machines. i just workout from home right now because i haven't bothered to pony up money for the gym, and now I know the January crowd is pending in the wings :/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:51 AM
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I used to do that but ended up realizing I do better alternating days. My main issue is I need to get more calories in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:44 AM
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supposedly there has been 1-2 ppd couples but they were before i joined this shitshow so it could all be myth
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:42 AM
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me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:39 AM
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me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:37 AM
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i am because i am slowly going through my workout. i took a week off and now it's harder than before 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:37 AM
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l can offer one but it's non pc as of the 2000s so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:55 AM
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I personally don't trust myself with that because every time I've jumped into something, I have actually injured myself and it's slowly taking longer and longer for me to heal so I'm not taking chances. Plus I don't have the money to drop on a whole bike right now anyway. Or insurance. (This I may skimp on for a while?... 😶) Calculated risk only lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:50 AM
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The only way to do it there. Or pinstripe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:36 AM
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HOPE YOU FEEL BETTER FOR REAL U DONGLE (u like em toxic huh)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:36 AM
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honestly you and i are both some kind of brown, and if we take it to the right white people they actually might lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:29 AM
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I don't know if my partner counts since he's originally from PA, but whatever it takes to start a crime ri—I mean book club. Perhaps we will breath the same art gallery air one day, unknowingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:27 AM
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money can buy success, yes it can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:25 AM
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on a real note, hope u feel better fr
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:24 AM
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BAHHH NAG NAG NAG YOU POOP FACE
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:16 AM
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I want to say it was at a place called Sideshow Gallery. It was small and for some Chicago tattoo artists who do traditional art as well. Nothing too fancy. Patron Gallery does look my speed, though. Also hello as a fellow desert dweller!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:14 AM
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ngl this is the urge i feel when ppd type stuff goes on irl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:11 AM
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I'm 24, parents are 60, and I think 55? 56?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:09 AM
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As someone who's going to take moto riding lessons later this year and plans to get a motorcycle in 2023, do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:09 AM
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Holy shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:06 AM
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Dang. If you where somehow at the Temple of Angels/Narrowhead show we may have actually breathed the same alcohol-scented air for moment haha. I'm from the southwest myself, a few hours from Cali, so we have a lot of west coast transplants here. Chicago men and women tend to be a little more homely and "natural", which I don't dislike, but it does pale in comparison to the regimented, cold pressed-juice types from the coasts. Terrible tattoos tracks. The attire seems to vary depending who you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:03 AM
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I was, went to college out there. I actually popped in for a visit a couple weeks ago to see a band play at Empty Bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:53 AM
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I'm literally partnered and we live together but okay. Note: Also, you don't need a degree to be academic. My partner doesn't have a degree and is very smart. You're seemingly making assumptions based off of things that bother you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:43 AM
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Precisely. It applies to men, too. Midwestern guys have nothing on coastal men, imo. The closer you get to monied areas and cities, the most attractive the populations tend to become. Class plays a role too. The mf who can afford organic, fresh cooked meals and has a 1 job, is likely to look different from the person eating fast food 2-3 days and works 2 jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:42 AM
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So, I can't know where my partner would rank as far as if it's 1st, 5th, of 25th most compatible with me (I'd say he's between 1-5 lol) but I have about 95% of what I was looking for with him, and I would never throw that away because of some "missing" percentage. He meets all the most important criteria. I'm sure he wishes I was slightly different, too, like that I gamed so we could do that together, or that I preferred cats to dogs, that I liked soda, but that is so far from damning. Maybe the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:36 AM
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if i was single oh fuck yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:17 AM
1

who
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:17 AM
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Yup. I'm nothing special in LA or NYC but Chicago would have mfs chasing me down the street and stairs begging for my number. Region is a major factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:15 AM
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No, but i do think there's mathematically a "most" comparable person somewhere, who you may or may not know exists. but there'd still be other very compatible people. But if you're happy overall, those things don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:12 AM
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I'm not inherently talking about women who went through a party phase. Some women never have that and just don't want to settle down with someone until everyone us done with that stuff because it can make some people into messes. They want to see who made it out stable and isn't "damaged". If you don't want to settle, that's fine. If you end up wanting to, that's fine too. You seem to have enough self awareness to know what you're about. I'm just saying don't 100% assume you're going to stay sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:54 AM
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I'm not trying to discount it. I'm saying it's just general advice that some people have repackaged and then dropped into a group that tacked on evopsych and a lot of misogyny and anger. That's the main reason it gets a bad rep these days. And spawned other shit like "blackpill".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:46 AM
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My stances aren't that different from what I'd say irl, but I have talked about said friend on here and I don't think that'd be appreciated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:39 AM
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Ty! I was worried a close friend of mine was going to try to find me on reddit so I nuked my old account and here I am: v2.0.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:27 AM
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my homework is me working out and i'm lowkey procrastinating even though I know I'll enjoy it about 10 minutes in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:22 AM
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Ah I thought this was about an earlier thread. I did watch that clip and ngl I thought it was amusing. 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:21 AM
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Hmm. I was thinking teleporting but I'll pick flying now. Thanks for the clarity lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:11 AM
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You're 22, yes? It's part of the age. People don't tend to start getting more serious about love/relationships until around 25ish. As 30 encroaches more people will likely look for a long term partnership and want "real" love. Many people in their 20s haven't given much thought to what they're looking for; I only had to because my tastes were so niche. And even then that's a little early depending in where you live. I was actually an outlier in my friend group for intentionally looking to commit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:10 AM
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None of these are in the context of clubs, it's specifically stores or spaces where people run errands. I've looked for rings on people before out of curiosity but it's not something I really take note of. I'm also at that age where few are married or in committed relationships so it's assumed that no one is that serious right now, or is in the early stages of being serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:05 AM
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No lie, it was a likely a lie. Most things people grow up on are lies or candy-coating situations to keep from showing how dismal some things can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:38 AM
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It's not news. It's general life stuff most productive people of either sex know. Be fit, be put together, bring value, etc. Like I've known that since I was a grade schooler and so have others. That some people didn't figure it out earlier makes me wonder if those are the people the "bigger fish" were meant to eat, in a Darwinist sense. I am counting people who believe in a just-world, too, because if you believe in that past the age of 10, you're probably blind and the bad folks are going to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:36 AM
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i recall that but most of what i've heard about Turkish men is that they've pretty tradcon so i would assume they're likely difficult to full-on date if their default is traditional stuff. that's just my take tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:31 AM
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maybe he's worried their connection will be ruined if something goes wrong. if they've known each other that long it could be a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:29 AM
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what was the point, i missed context here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:26 AM
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No they were shipping sherlock and watson and the angel and one brother from supernatural. I promise you there was never a mention i say about any of the men above because women don't like men like that UNLESS they are pretty. Not manly, pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:17 AM
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I think 8 is attainable but it's going to be making your life about looks, basically
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:14 AM
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I had to google him to confirm but I already knew which guy you meant despite not knowing his name
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:14 AM
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I don't think anyone thinks this. I think it's people who are either upset because they're insecure or because they've gotten a lot of shit repeatedly and potentially been mistreated for it, which is considered wrong/bad. Most people just want to be able to exist without being harassed. I'm not physically big but I imagine if I repeatedly heard bad things about being thin when it's mostly about preferences (sometimes health, sure), not facts, it would make me irritable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:12 AM
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out of curiosity why would you assume this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:08 AM
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am i still bound by normal human bodily concerns because if i fly at 100mph that might not be good for my corporeal form
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:05 AM
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only if one lacked bravery
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:43 PM
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no but i do name them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:42 PM
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i wear sundresses and sun hats and water my plants while stoned. i think this is considered libertarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:23 PM
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what's she look like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:22 PM
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Accepting isn't chasing, that's what you keep misunderstanding. Accepting fires exist and can happen at any moment doesn't inherently mean lighting things aflame.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:08 PM
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i get it, facing fears is hard. but as long as you own the fear. because it is a fear. and a common one at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:00 PM
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only cowards fear death
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:56 PM
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That's kind of a straw man. There were a lot of comparison posts because that generally is how oppression starts: slow and politically. You disliking fans and the political stance it takes doesn't make it cheesy, though. Cheesy is a narrative that is not novel or well thought out, and has poor/minimal production quality to it. It's okay to dislike something because it doesn't align with your world view or stances, but it is an award-winning show based on a well-written novel by an intelligent wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:53 PM
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It's not really cheesy, it's just addressing a topic that comes up a lot because it's unfortunately relevant a lot. You can tell a lot has been done to make it a quality production, and the narrative is relevant in current America. Cheesy is like B-horror films.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:41 PM
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Physical: fat, bald, poor physical proportions, facial hair, a lot of body hair, stockiness, being "ripped", blond, aggressive looking facial features, clean cut styles, sloppy styles. Non-physical: Loud, overly emotional, undisciplined, lazy, unacademic, sports fan, overly cautious, arrogant, controlling, disloyal, disrespectful, conservative. The list could go on but those are off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:36 PM
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As a woman I have never consumed any of that. That's like heavily outdated female media. That's what boomer moms and gen x women like. The Handmaid's Tale is something I'd consider female media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:27 PM
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same ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:24 PM
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yah. haven't we all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:23 PM
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Oh yeah, at least 2 and then there were at least 2-3 nude men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:06 PM
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I may have a bias because the men I pick out are heavily unlikely to lean conservative. Queer 00s guys with longer hair, piercings, who are sub-leaning switches are not usually conservative and certainly not traditional lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:05 PM
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Lana Del Rey is a trip because she's got a semi-ironic caricature of a daddy's girl going on, and a lot of layer to her persona. I have a strong feeling it'd go over most guy's heads because you can't take her at an immediate surface level.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:01 PM
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Depends on the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:57 PM
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Basically. It's really not that hard to figure out if people are lying or not. Or if you live in a predominately X state it's probably fairly common for people to be X.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:55 PM
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I had collages, drawings, and then various cut outs of stylish or attractive women from magazines. Or photos of friends/cool places. Old concert fliers. Had a big grim reaper flag above my bed all through college. I think my sister has it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:46 PM
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I feel like inflation and housing costs are likely aggravating things like this. If someone was down bad before they're likely down even worse now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:44 PM
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Sure. Some will hide it with varying success, otherwise will actually change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:42 PM
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I do get curious/concerned about how your daughter is going to turn out, but I hope nothing but the best and happiness for her. She's not my kid, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:57 PM
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No one's saying they need specifically female friends or male friends, just that they do better with friends. Plenty of men and women who have sex often yearn for a legitimate connection with someone they like. Anyone who's had a lot of sex will know it's still lonely when the people you're banging don't actually show up nor care past dick/pussy appointments. I know men who were/are getting laid regularly. They often want a girlfriend at some point to build a life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:50 PM
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I don't believe the average member of either sex knows how to fight well. Context would be important. I do think teamwork is an overlooked element. And even terrain, I guess. Lots of factors. I think 4-5 is doable though. If we're saying American averages, that's like, what? Four 5'4", 170 lb, v. one 5'9", 197 lb dude. It's highly unlikely any of them workout or know how to fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:46 PM
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Also depends on team work and if the women are average 20s themselves. But I think 4 is good because they could break into duos lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:12 PM
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Dude the amount of men who have assumed that anyone using the term "dominant" automatically means "aggressive/violent" is disappointing. I once had a debate with some guys here regarding active v. passive dominance and had two tell me I was construing dominance as violence when I had explicitly stated aggression and violence aren't necessary to be dominant. The projection and misunderstanding is strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:05 PM
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That is hilarious. I can see why. I'll take it when I have a lot of work to do in a short period or if I am at a deadline and behind. I know it's bad for your health in the long run so I do my best to limit my usage. A lot of people seem unable to do that because of the way it impacts dopamine levels; if they're on it consistently for a period it makes stopping really difficult. I think the way I use it is very stable and safe, but I also can't speak for people with ADHD who may actually need it…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:00 PM
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People here who have never full-on dated will try to give dating advice. Frankly it's hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:54 PM
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I find this reductive given the amount of lonely men here who crave social interaction and genuine affection on top of the listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:50 PM
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I have a legal prescription (I don't have adhd though) but I take maybe 1-2 pills in the span of a month, and I do feel them and notice a difference. I'll stretch a month prescription like a year and some change because it's not necessary for me, it's just like a boost. People who sell them illegally are likely selling to recreational/non-adhd users.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:49 PM
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Everyone's allowed to say what they want, you and others. But yeah. It's gross. And I say that as someone who's dated much older guys. It's gross lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:44 PM
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People are also allowed to apply standards to different things. A gay couple is not equivalent to an age gap couple or even sluts. It's a false equivalency.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:38 PM
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No that shit's still weird. People are allowed to do whatever they want but that doesn't mean it's not weird and a little gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:34 PM
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This sounds almost identical to my experience. I've been attracted to submissive guys ever since I was very young, and then struggled to find a compatible partner and was 100% at peace with being single. It took me about 4-5 years of looking for before I lucked into finding my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:17 PM
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her chad coulda died doing chadly things mayb
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:06 PM
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As a domme I have fucked male subs, but I am genuinely attracted to submissive men. I suppose I'm switchy with a heavy domme lean. I do view submissive men as superior to dominant men; that's just the case in my worldview. Submissive men serve me and bring value to my life; dominant men do not. 100% agree that dommes are rare. People in the community always assumed I was a sub at first glance because: 1. Young. 2. Female. Because that is the norm. I was informed out of the gate that I would prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:01 PM
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I suppose I could try being positive. I tend to be neutral or uninvolved; I have different values than my coworkers since there's a 15-25 year age difference between me and most of them. They're in the stage of having scary health problems, miserable marriages/divorces, and mid life crisis stuff. I know their upsets are valid but it's dismal as someone who's 24 in good health with their whole life ahead of them. I feel like they dislike seeing me do well/better because it reminds them of where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:41 PM
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This is usually my default. Neutral and short. Works sometimes but I've got one of those coworkers that groans and huffs until you acknowledge her again. It's weird because she's like 40 and should be past that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:37 PM
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There's nothing wrong with that. I'll banter with strangers from time to time, men included. I just always have a guard up and assume they want something from me. It doesn't mean I'm going to scream, "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!!" then mace them or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:29 PM
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I think they don't notice, honestly. I'm assuming they'd think to check so they're not needlessly wasting time on a woman who's partnered. But I am likely overestimating their attention to detail. I'm also in my middle 20s so it's uncommon for people my age to be married, and I look younger than I am so many guys probably don't even think to check for a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:28 PM
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How do you guys deal with miserable coworkers? (Assuming you aren't the miserable coworker yourself lol.) I work closely with some folks who seem to bring nothing but negative energy to the work place. They're only happy when others are stressed or sad, and the moment they walk in the place becomes loud, stressful, and irritable. I'm trying to switch jobs but any recommendations on dealing with people like this is appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:10 PM
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this is the most correct response
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:27 PM
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the human libido
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:25 PM
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Yes, I'd still think that in that situation. Any guy that talks to me outside of a work setting I assume wants something. I assume that about women too, but not always sexually (unless I know they're into women). Like maybe they want to be friends. It's not always an accurate assessment. But many women default to it because that's one of the primary reasons men will try to interact with women they don't already know through more platonic means. It doesn't mean a guy shouldn't talk to them; if he…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:25 PM
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because it gives me tingles to see male fear
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:19 PM
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Or now you have a special needs baby with really nasty child support payments if you split.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:18 PM
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I kinda figured. Maybe I need long, neon fingernails to drive them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:15 PM
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is this a reference to MYoRaR because probably true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:10 PM
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Honestly, yeah. Strange men approaching me either means they're trying to sell me something, want money, or think I'm attractive. If it's not the first two, it's the last one. While I'm not married, I am in a committed relationship and have been wearing a ring my partner got for me in place of a wedding ring to try to stave off guys. It seemingly does not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:07 PM
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they're more the equivalent of PUA stuff but for money instead of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:44 PM
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100% They're like a female flipside to the incel stuff. Which is probably why so much of their content got banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:40 PM
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no lol 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:32 PM
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They're not. I think frat/sorority stuff is stupid but I also never went around that stuff sans once with some friends, where we sat outside smoking weed the whole time and watching everyone else be drunken idiots. It was underwhelming. Generally my train of thought is let the stupid be stupid in their designated spaces. Whatever keeps them away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:32 PM
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That was my friend for a while but he got one eventually. He was picky about his options and tbh that's his prerogative. The dating pool in my hometown is subpar so I get what he means lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:24 PM
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Because adulthood has more freedom but also new, more serious restraints and consequences. Looks appealing to many kids because they see the positives but not the negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:03 PM
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You're right. This is why we speak and read exclusively in emoji. Only the pictures make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:45 AM
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god i love when you pop in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:40 AM
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Because it makes them feel better. It's that simple. They want to believe those who have what they want aren't actually getting anything worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:39 AM
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Because if this is the case, it means at least part of the problem is unrelated to their averageness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:38 AM
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And yet you couldn't figure out how to insert a link in a tidy manner
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:37 AM
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Honestly yeah. If any term becomes overused inaccurately it essentially loses meaning. Like "curvy".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:22 AM
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Why? They're solid films. I do like Fury Road a lot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:06 AM
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I think if you do it enough they'll cough up a new tube but idk if it'll be the same color. Gotta try it and see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:24 AM
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Old Boy. Enter the Void. Thelma & Louise. The Handmaiden. Hereditary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:22 AM
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You gotta take the flowers and kittens and lipstick out and dust it then put it back in your noggin
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:21 AM
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Respect and thanks 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:20 AM
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dang u eating tates cookies like a simp huh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:43 AM
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👅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:43 AM
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You get angry easily and tend to be reactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:41 AM
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honestly knowing that you're him makes way more sense as to the emotional quality of your comments. it all clicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:30 AM
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🌞
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:27 AM
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like none.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:26 AM
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you're the mentally ill dude who used to post rants on here huh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:24 AM
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honestly some of the comments had me thinking this a while ago because i've never seen women use the type of rhetoric they use before lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:22 AM
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dark chocolate or bittersweet things in general. like some tart fruity flavors too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:11 AM
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He just thinks anything that's not super conservative rhetoric is "woke". Because that's what they've been told to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:06 AM
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this is a flavor by them? I don't think I've ever seen it. Will have to look now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:59 AM
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Their vanilla is good. I'm fucking love their dark chocolate ice cream bars with chocolate ice cream. They once has a limited edition dark chocolate mint one and it was incredible. I'm sad it was limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:59 AM
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which häagen-dazs tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:45 AM
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Honestly even shaving everything is not necessary depending on the guy. Lots of woodsy libertarian types enjoy women they can take on camping trips that won't be bummed about not having makeup/razors/etc. I have a coworker who's fairly good looking and is dating a woman as described because they have shared values and hobbies. This is good general advice but 100% of it is not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:40 AM
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dang now i wanna know who this is lol. i have a guess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:38 AM
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have you tried poking around conservative spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:28 AM
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the president of my fan club confirms this 100% legit fact
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:32 AM
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it's mega weird when it's married dudes. i see where the "work wife/husband" idea comes to life but sometimes people be weirdly close.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:30 AM
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i can appreciate some curves but i lean toward thin for both men and women. maybe it's a product of the 00s. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:28 AM
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Definitely a divisive look amongst men. Some hate it and some love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:13 AM
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women who carry weight primarily in their stomach area. they'll have a large midsection but thinner arms/legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:11 AM
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i'm assuming this means the traditional "fashion model" look
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:10 AM
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it's ok, i will remember u are a cool fella deep down
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:01 AM
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rip 2 miss blu
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:59 AM
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"Who"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:37 AM
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"delivers the package so sexily" sent me. ty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:19 AM
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bro you are too reasonable and healthy minded to be on here, wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:17 AM
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i had to look this mf up. So that's your type, huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:12 AM
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Same here. It's seems like anything from "white with a tan" to "medium brown" is very common. Mixed people do especially well everywhere I've been.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:09 AM
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poppy? i don't know where she went tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:08 AM
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who tf is john seed?? when you first brought him up i thought it was a made up name
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:07 AM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:56 AM
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🤦🏻‍♀️ Bro you're fine, height wise. I can see it being a struggle but plenty of guys that height end up fine. One of my long term relationships was with a 5'9" guy who I only split with because I was moving. Your height is far from damning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:39 PM
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Go for it. Again, you weren't the direct addressed of this. It was...what's his name, tate and bugatti pilled lad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:38 PM
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So you think it's important and new to them. You think you can change things. Which you can, and so can others. All I'm saying is many people are having similar trains of thought. It's not bad. But making stable income off of it is generally not recommended because it's a saturated market. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:33 PM
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what height are you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:31 PM
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Given you weren't the direct topic here but are apparently seeing yourself in this archetype, I would evaluate why this resonated. There's nothing inherently wrong with trying to influence or help others, but recognize it is a common thing many people 18-25 seem to fall into. It is a competitive market and many people are all thinking the same thing: that they're special and different and have something important to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:12 PM
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As a woman, no most women do not wear heels daily. Maybe little 1" ones on boots or something. Idk why you seem to care if some women like shorter guys or if a short guy is confident. It's not like it's hurting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:58 PM
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Most women are not taller than 5'6". Not in America, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:46 PM
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"Good" may be subjective. Influencing people you give you money is what most businesses, marketers, capitalists, etc. do. It's very every day, standard. You're likely pandering to an oversaturated market given it seems every other young guy thinks he's the next big thing, but go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:43 PM
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Is this supposed to imply that 5'6" is ugly? I've dated a guy who was like 5'4"/5'5" and thought he was hot. People have different preferences. The only older guy I ever thought was hot is like 5'6".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:30 PM
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I feel like 5"-7" is generally what most women are fairly happy with but I do think that could be considered erring on the side of bigger. I also think the preference correlates to the size of their booty but I could be wrong w that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:29 PM
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100%. That or they're aspiring to be some sort of weird motivational influencer for defranchised guys despite all being under 20 themselves. Some think if they assert something with enough aggression or confidence, it becomes true regardless of other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:21 PM
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• ⁠Eats fast food every week • ⁠Terrible job • ⁠Masturbates regularly Money one is debatable though. I could be smarter with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:17 PM
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good bod, i see why you can pull
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:12 PM
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is this u
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:02 PM
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Didn't even consider this, interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:02 PM
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Most people do ime or volunteer is as bragging (both sexes). Others are simply private. And some people don't have an exact number lol Doubt I'm a good sample for that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:45 PM
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rip 2 them i suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:44 PM
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weekly virgin sacrifice, huh? sounds like a hot new cult. get some balloons and wine and wear masks and dance. maybe we'll summon something and get powers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:37 PM
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Yes! This was basically the consensus we had: fun, but not necessarily sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:06 PM
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High sex drive, prefer closer to 5"-6" if anything. Had no issues with anything from 4"-6.5" but once it hits 7"+ it's not going anywhere near my orifices lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:05 PM
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I gotta chime in as the token contradictor because this is not the case for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:55 PM
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water is wet; people hate unflattering truths
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:54 PM
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The one time I did nuru, my partner an I filled up a kiddie pool and writhed around in it. It was so cold and messy, we had little heaters set up but even those didn't help too much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:52 PM
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Honestly my instinct was 1 but realistically I'd prefer somewhere between them both. Some of the best sex I've had was with a 4" guy so it's not the bad thing everyone claims it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:35 PM
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This is true for most people, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:34 PM
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nuru weird as fuck and slimey lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:25 PM
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Ironically I don't own docs, but I need a pair of sturdy boots. They're the first brand that comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:54 PM
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Interesting. When I lived in the city is was a ton of Tims and Docs. I wonder how those would work for riding. I appreciate the suggestion!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:33 PM
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100% untrue. Ripped guys would have a much easier time. Anyone can kill anyone, though. There's more than just bare-hands methods
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:27 PM
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Anyone here have any recommendations for boots with sturdy outer soles? I need to find some for my moto riding lessons. Only thing I can think of is Docs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:20 PM
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Dramatic lifestyle changes could certainly be traumatic to a child, especially young ones. Suddenly you go from a suburban house where you're home with mom after school and go to a nice school, to maybe being in a 1 bedroom apartment and mom now works two jobs and now you're zoned for a different school and leave all your friends because dad didn't want to help cover the cost of you existing. I think this is an extreme example but not unheard of, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:11 PM
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I disagree. Some people have heavy internalized shame or shame themselves, or it happens privately in homes sometimes. Personally, shame has never worked to make me not do things. I just compartmentalize to keep people from knowing my business so I don't have to deal with the inconvenience of their thoughts, or more wild people mistreating me. It's not because their thoughts or opinions themselves do anything. It's the physical actions that may manifest from it. But opinions alone do not do much…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:08 PM
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Weigh the risk v. reward. Make a pros and cons list of the experience. Depending on your disability, it could be good or bad. If you can brace yourself for potential obstacles snd anticipate what struggles may occur, maybe you can have some plans on how to compensate in those situations so it's not as bad. I think you should take it. Going to a new city is intimidating but can really help you grow as a person and will offer new experiences. Get all the details about where you're staying, check i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:02 PM
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I suppose it's because the idea is that if both parents were doing the expected, together-family thing, the child would ideally be getting money and benefits directly proportionate to the dad's income. (Which isn't inherently true; you have wealthy men with families who gamble, are stingy, don't want to spoil their child, etc.) It's likely to give the child what the court thinks they'd have gotten if everything was "typical". Or men who make nothing. If you make next to nothing, is $20 child sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:58 PM
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That's not hypocrisy unless she's engaging with sex work. Me thinking being X job should be legal but not wanting my spouse or child to engage with that industry is not hypocrisy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:52 PM
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I literally do not find large men attractive due to those features. There's nothing attractive about men who'd have a very easy time killing me. I've felt that way my entire life regarding ripped/big guys. There are zero men like that in my dating history.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:50 PM
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They're likely feeling attacked then. That's their business. People being insecure is not limited to either sex and them getting mad because of it is not unheard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:48 PM
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100%. I do think the things people are ashamed of are something they learned was shameful for whatever reason, it doesn't typically come out of nowhere. I think the only time shaming needs to be publicly addressed is when groups are going it to the point it impacts someone's ability to function normally in s community or environment. Like if pol are throwing drinks at you or screaming at you, stoning you to death, etc. That's an issue because the shame has now turned to violence. But if it's jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:44 PM
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This isn't a statement on whether I think it's okay or not. All I'm saying is we don't have control over other people's actions or opinions and should discard ones that do not serve us. Ideally no one shames anyone for anything. But obviously people are not that peaceful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:03 PM
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I feel like PPD in general is a bunch of people burning through accounts and continuing in with their...whatever it is we do here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:38 AM
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I nuked my OG account for privacy reasons. This is v2.0.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:17 AM
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A vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:16 AM
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Basically. They want to stay angry and just marinate. No clue why. I certainly don't envy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:12 AM
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No one likes it. That's why various demographics have petitioned for legal changes and done protests. That's literally the process. If you want to, no one's stopping you. If this is an issue: change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:58 AM
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Head pats 4 u
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:51 AM
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okay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:47 AM
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Whatever floats your bitter, little boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:47 AM
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This has nothing to do with cucks specifically. People do threesomes where all are involved. Or foursomes/swinging where couples swap partners. it's not all about cucking—you sure you're not projecting something?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:45 AM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:43 AM
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No one's saying it's cool. Literally no one here has said that. Like I did say, if it bothers you so much, go do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:41 AM
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Definitely not easy for most people to obtain, but not impossible. I've even seen below average looking people do it. It all depends on what you want to prioritize and value.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:40 AM
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My partner legit cut all the veggies tonight while I shredded chicken because I frequently cut my fingers when cooking. Honestly I think I enjoyed tearing apart the chicken more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:38 AM
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I get what you're saying but the thing is it's not technically AirBnB discriminating, it's the individuals putting up the listing, which may be a legal gray area since it's closer to subletting than a rental where they're the landlord. If it bothers you, file a complaint to AirBnB or look up if there's legal measures you could take. If this is a problem for you and you think it's worth fighting for, then there's avenues to do so. People are allowed to decide who gets to come on their private pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:32 AM
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Honestly I keep thinking about what I'd even say during a purge week and nothing solid comes to mind. Maybe some callouts? Eh. A lot of people here seem to use this as a place to dump bitterness and anger and it makes me want to tell them to do better but in a really sharp manner. But even then it's just funny because I watch them shoot themself in the foot again and again. Like you can take the bullets out of the gun and they will reload it and shoot just to have something to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:25 AM
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is it just that some people say "no men allowed" or something? It's just individuals putting their own properties up for nightly rentals so I don't know if there's much that can be done about it. If they were landlords that might be different. Idk about the laws regarding that, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:21 AM
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just discuss the inclusion of extras. i don't know why this is such a hard thing for people to grasp. if you can get someone else to consent to essentially being a novelty partner/toy (and people do have that kink) you can just do that. If they're the one, surely they'll love you enough to at least consider it, no? If the answer is no I'd be concerned about a misalignment of values.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:19 AM
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Showing skin. Legs, arms, chest, collarbone, etc. Showing skin is showing skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:11 AM
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Yeah. Men love "sluts" for the same reason women love "simps": potential utility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:54 AM
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Not inherently but I'd be surprised. If he was exactly the same as he is, but somehow happened to be a virgin, no. But I highly doubt he'd be who he is if he'd somehow stayed a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:38 AM
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I like the way you think ⚰️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:57 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ Anywhere from 5'5"-6' and I'm happy. Maybe it's because they reach tall shelves? Ngl I'll just climb that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:06 AM
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there is a total of one 40-year-old i thought was fine and all the rest are people my age, give or take a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:02 AM
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i fail to see how that's not pc...no one's entitled to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:01 AM
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only if u declare it such
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:00 AM
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And it's his job not to care. Same as it's a woman's job not care if she's choosing to be promiscuous. Assuming no one is outright maltreating you, shame only works if you feel it. It's everyone's job to discard opinions that don't matter to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:15 AM
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Pretty much this. The other thing is: many of the contradicting points are said by different individuals, it's not like it's one person contradicting themself all the time. This is the monolith thing everyone takes issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:13 AM
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We should make a club. We'll get socks made then leave them around, together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:05 AM
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god i do all this including the socks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:39 PM
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is this a copypasta
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:39 PM
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I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:38 PM
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A jumbo crayon/pencil eyeliner would probably work. Or an jumbo eyeshadow pencil. You can find them at target, cvs, walgreens, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:37 PM
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🤦🏻‍♀️ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:36 PM
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I stopped caring about it around age 12. I don't usually go much for it. Last time I dressed up was a couple years ago for a small party; my partner and I were Morticia and Gomez. I appreciate that I can dress a little weirder if I want and get less looks. Otherwise it's just another day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:31 PM
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I love bisexual guys. I prefer greatly over straight men. If my partner (bi male) and I split for any reason, I've likely date another queer woman or try to find another bi guy. Being bisexal doesn't make a guy more of less masculine imo. One bisexual guy I've know was in the army and a beefcake. Like very much a man's man. In both ways lol. If a guy I was with was bi but had never been with a guy and wanted to, I would 100% be down to let him explore that within reasonable boundaries we'd set a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:08 PM
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My ability to detach is considered off putting. I'm not sentimental. I suppose I have a temper and mean streak.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:53 PM
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Just have an open relationship or swing? You don't have to cheat to have an extra partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:48 PM
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Bigfoot, I guess. I want Mothman to be real though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:11 PM
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I hope you can find a style that works for you that you love! It should be fun, and don't feel bad if it takes some time to find what works. As long as you're comfortable and feel confident, that's what matters most. Some clothes do help with that, though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:10 PM
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Just let them be dumb and find someone less dumb. Solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:09 PM
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No, I'm not religious. I just think something about the universe seems to enjoy me enjoying myself. I don't believe in any gods (except maybe death, if that can count?). If anything, religious people seem to suffer far more than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:07 PM
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What SheMyHeroine said. You gotta trial and error too. Rules are good but most people are not super cut and dry with what looks good in them simply because of "rules". They're more guidelines. Personally I think shape/cut matters more than most other elements for fashion. I've also made the mistake of founded glasses (and then really angular ones) and turns out it's like somewhere in between that works for me. Depending on what you pair things with will also impact it. Clothes are in conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:04 PM
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are you sure? if they asked 3 times this might not be the case
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:55 PM
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My favorite type of dynamic ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:54 PM
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I have always been crazy lucky and am convinced that some random math in the universe just happened to align in my favor. Repeatedly. It's not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:49 PM
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This is what stylists do. Most if what they do can be learned online, ngl. Learn some color theory and about shape language/silhouette and you'll be better off than most. A lot of it is learning what suit you then embracing it even if it's not your favorite. Play to your strengths.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:28 PM
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Either way I go into trying to find a solution or do damage control right away, but if people perceive me I'm more likely to think "FUCK, no big deal, whoops, let's pretend no one saw, if you saw no you didn't". If no one sees it it's just "FUCK".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:26 PM
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Greased or not they will find a way up there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:24 PM
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Depends, does anyone know I made a mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:57 PM
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as someone who likes wwdits i vote nandor but i understand the appeal of an easy costume
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:00 PM
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Whatever works for whatever folks. If you can swing it, it's yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:56 PM
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Debating going as marceline from adventure time because I have the hair already. I just need a tank top and red boots which I could probably buy then return lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:30 PM
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Funny, I'm irish/british, latina, and native. My partner is the same, only he's russian instead of the uk mix. Something about dark eyes/hair on lightish skin seems to go over well with people of most races, for some reason. Like it has strong universal appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:25 PM
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I appreciate the convo. There's likely points I've missed that are unique to male-only socializing, but I have been yo my share of strip clubs as well and had male friends who've gone; they seem to not enjoy it as much as they'd imagine. But yeah, guess we'll see what the data says one day. Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:24 PM
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correlation is not causation but as long as you're both having fun
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:21 PM
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Everyone's body is different so it makes sense. Some can just be more sensitive than others. I've had mine thrown off by antibiotics and then because of using a diva cup. To my knowledge sex has never done anything to my pH but I have heard that it happens. It's weird how sensitive that area can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:16 PM
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I don't believe I used the term anti-social, but "undesirable" in some capacity. Like I said, they're not bad people. Many can be social, funny, or kind. Often they've got some sort of physical detriment or age factor going on. Obviously there's always been some conventionally successful and attractive men who see sex workers, but I still believe they're a smaller majority than those like them who don't. I imagine those men would be more likely to use/cheat with a plain Jane who's easy if it's j…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:13 PM
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Interesting, I've always preferred men and women who are similar to me as well: mixed with light brown skin, dark hair, slim. Idk I think it's generally a very good look and many agree. Though racial ambiguity has been trending upward in western attractiveness since the Kardashians.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:03 PM
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I feel like people ignore this point, often. Most men do not opt for sex workers for a mix of reasons, but wanting to be genuinely wanted (sexually or romantically) is a major one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:00 PM
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I've never had that tinder experience but sucks to suck no matter your sex, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:55 PM
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I don't know if that's true, but anything from antibiotics to leaving period products in too long can throw off pH. Same with wearing polyester underwear or tight leggings. Sperm could impact acidity, but I'd assume it's take quite a lot for it to throw of pH and or need to be from different men. It's probably not the best or most accurate gauge. But I don't blame anyone for not wanting to interact with rank coochie. Those smells can be strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:52 PM
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I'm not saying it's an issue. I'm saying it's still not the norn. Society heavily stigmatizes sex work and using sex workers. I've had many men, strangers and friends, be very candid with me about their escapades because they seem to think me having a history of working with dommes means I'm someone they can open up to about sexual taboos. The young men (like younger than 23ish) are not paying sex workers. They're sometimes buying nudes, but they're not seeing women like that. Some guys have act…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:44 PM
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Then men I've met who use sex workers tend to be 35+, nerdy, awkward, or unattractive. Or a mix. They're not inherently bad people, but there's a reason they see sex workers. Meanwhile, the guys I know who have sex "on tap" with a hot girlfriend(s) or even boyfriends, are not going to do that. Sex workers, despite many people trying to de stigmatize them, are often seen as "dirty" and risky because you don't know where they've been and because you know they have an incentive for sex that's not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:15 PM
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Most men I know aren't going to strip clubs. I don't keep company like that; also most of them do not have disposable income like that, either lol. Most young guys don't have the money to hire a sex worker and many I've met see it as something shameful or gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:07 PM
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You can't, but you can have a hunch. I think generally you can kinda tell. Like men who are social and good looking and have people after them will likely have never "needed" to do such a thing; why would you pay for sex if you can get it for "free" already? It is like high n women where there's no 100% certainty. But you look for things like values, behaviors, age, appearance, how much money they have, etc. Seeing sex workers if also illegal in most US places so it's heavily stigmatized and alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:55 PM
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if it means less children crying and screaming in stores or airports, well 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:35 AM
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that's disgusting, i love it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:34 AM
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Better. I would likely have been alone or miserable or even settled without "knowing" it had apps not existed. I love apps and dislike meeting people irl. Apps gave me an major edge in finding someone I was actually compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:27 AM
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Maybe it's because I grew up knowing those risks were built in, so it's never out of the realm of possibility to many of us. I will say: it think cut products tend to circulate certain communities more than others. Like most UMC types I know who do drugs wouldn't likely know where to get pills from people in the street but will know people who sell their own prescriptions. Research chems are something to be wary of, but depending on what you get they may not even do anything. There's so many of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:19 AM
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I have literally had the most polite and superficial conversations with men (like maybe 2-3 sentences) and then had them stalk me or follow me. Being polite and nice is risky and basically never worth it unless the goal is to have the person in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:06 AM
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Overblown. Every generation thinks the ones younger than them are fucked up just for being different. I think i had to due to fear of morality and realizing that the younger gens WILL control society at some point. Elderly people are usually the most vulnerable and afraid because they lack the power, physical strength, and often lack the resources to fight back. 60 year olds do not have the time nor ability to fight 30 year olds. Unless it's with whatever money/professional command they have, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:58 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:55 AM
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God I love running. It's meditative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:54 AM
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Because people are dumb and society codes partnerships as aspirational because they typically lead to reproduction
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:53 AM
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Honestly boomers are not even a concern. They'll all be dead in the next decade or three and then things will get better because they'll stop being old and afraid of everything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:51 AM
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I'm gen z and have done my fair share of drugs. Experimenting with drugs has never be "safe" and the primary thing you have to worry about fentanyl being in is pills or maybe coke. No one's putting that shit in acid, mushrooms, weed, salvia, etc. Not sure about harder things as that's not something I've experimented with. The stakes are no higher than the past imo. Dosages are more measured for things but the concern over drug purity is valid. But you can always buy test kits. People do drugs at…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:49 AM
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Yeah, it can. I never said people were single because they're "bad". The issue is ascribing to whatever moral system doesn't inherently guarantee "goodness" or success in return because the world does not function on any moral system, and has no objective reward/punishment system. It's all about how you operate and how other people respond to you that determines the situation(s). And we cannot control others, at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:42 AM
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That's probably how it should be. It two adults are consenting want to make it a transaction, let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:28 AM
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I think a handful of euro countries have it legalized, no? i'm not familiar with the systems for it but the Belgium one is what i imagine one in the US would look like. or just brothels where workers can have a room and work from there. i have no real issue with it being legalized but i would hope the starting age for it wouldn't be anything under 21, since smoking and drinking isn't allowed until then in many places. I've known too many vulnerable, barely 18 women who do sex work because they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:27 AM
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I had a feeling if it got that bad many people would not do it. The people I know who do sex work specifically do it because if the money and flexible schedule. If it was minimum wage then there's no difference working there if you can get the same at walmart or taco bell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:55 PM
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Would like to be taller at 5'7"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:53 PM
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I guess nose and legs? Nothing else, really. Female.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:42 PM
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Nah. Bad things sometimes happen to good people. Don't have to be related to lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 06:40 PM
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probably
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:05 AM
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I honestly think because only having to trust one person is less risky than having to trusting more. I do know men and women who have tried poly and honestly none of them seem to love it. It honestly reads to me as people not wanting to be alone but not having found a single person who meets enough needs, so they divide it between people and try poly because it works for their current goals. I'm sure some people could refute that, but that is what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:52 AM
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earl sweatshirt. kendrick?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:46 AM
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It's about focusing/meditating on your goals so you can slowly nudge yourself in that direction in an almost subconscious way. like keeping it in the background at all times or "recents" in ya brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:42 AM
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black nitrile gloves and a vyvanse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:36 AM
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the entire thing looks like weird bara imo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:34 AM
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While asking about it in detail may be invasive, I've always stated to people that I have no interest in kids and if they think they're changing my mind they need to move on. Kids/No kids is usually important to many people. That's a little weird to be asking about that at 24 imo. Maybe he's thinking way out in advance but the only people I know that age who are having kids/had kids are people who had "accidents" and decided to keep them much to their lack of career and empty bank account's dism…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:52 PM
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so it's a bathhouse? cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:48 PM
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BYOH
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:44 PM
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i think they used to send boys into the woods to hunt alone or to battle to "become men" more often than taking them to brothels. Could be wrong, but I don't think many rites directly included brothels. It required overcoming a fear or struggle/challenge. I'm no historian, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:43 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:38 PM
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if you're bulking don't worry. you'll be fine after you cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:06 PM
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projecting 101. they say the things they need to believe to rationalize their world views. that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:00 PM
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My mom gave me this for periods when I was a teen. It's basically like ibuprofen/acetaminophen, I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:48 PM
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I don't think they are, objectively. They're just a type that has a niche in the same way optimistic, bubbly extroverts do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:46 PM
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That would make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:18 PM
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as someone who has been looking at motorcycle riding lessons this week, i don't think it's dumb, it's just dangerous. there is a difference. some people have a higher threshold for risk than others
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:19 PM
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i would assume someone out there has or at least gotten their number wrong in the upward direction. i doubt it's the norm, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:51 PM
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Could be both. The neighborhood i grew up in basically stopped do halloween because the kids all grew up. i was out of town last week and passed through a neighborhood that was almost entirely decorated. every house had stuff. think it just depends where you live. also we're post-covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:24 PM
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why would anyone want to put their bare asscheeks on a bowling alley chair, i....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:40 PM
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i have allergies but i would expect it be the person before it gets very serious. my partner and i are actually considering if we want a dog and what breed we'd get...hypoallergenic breeds are a thing. i actually vet out people with pets because I don't want to be like, "it's me or Mr. Noodle"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:39 PM
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I used to keep track with a coded list but then the list ended up in some drawer and by the time i found it was so out of date and I realized it made no difference as long as I was healthy, clean, and emotionally well. I tried updating it then realized i kept forgetting people i'd recall for a flicker of a moment. I ballpark it now. I'd say possible to a little off but i'm confident i'm within the range. My partner is actually the exact same as me with this. He has a range but no concrete number…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:04 PM
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it's not a visual medium. i think a lot of women like the ability to design the image in their heads. it's like how people who are really into a book series will complain the actors don't look how they imagined the character. people envision differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:50 AM
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I think in survival situations people often become violent. Revenge is also a frightening concept to some. That's human-powered karma. And people can be violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:47 AM
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if it's truly that bad try to enlarge the punctuation marks one size
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:43 AM
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you have never seen the horniness of fanfiction have you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:40 AM
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Larger towns or cities tend to have local kink communities. The communities vary by region to some extent (some places have big leather groups, for example) and so do people's appearances, but most hobbyists are on the nerdy, awkward side. There are generally more men than women and sometimes entering those communities to find sex/date is frowned upon because there are some people who are very into the technical side of things, like people who work w rope. But the LA bdsm scene is different from…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:33 AM
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Safety was exactly why I was in the bdsm community. I wanted to learn the proper techniques so I didn't hurt someone in an unintended way. Handling someone's body is a responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:25 AM
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"moral cannibalism". thank you for this phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:23 AM
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okay so u got the hook of ur essay and now you need your body paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:19 AM
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I agree with this. What's crazy to me is that someone would want to be with anyone when their values are so miss aligned. Like I don't lie about my body count because there's no point imo. Relationships shouldn't be semi-founded on lies and chances are there will be personality or even libido friction. I could understand maybe not bringing it up, but the moment anyone lies about something, they start digging a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:18 AM
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Yes. But the big lie (imo) is that all/most men prefer to lead exclusively. Sometimes people want to enjoy a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:20 AM
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Dom(mes) are literally always in demand. There's a lot of people of both sexes who prefer to follow. It's exactly why pro dominants are a thing. There are literally people to who pay to submit. Supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:13 AM
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it's never out of the realm of possibility
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:08 AM
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i don't blame you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:49 AM
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i can compile things in a list for u if u want. also deep conditioning can be good depending the climate you're in
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:44 AM
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He's literally mentioned in songs from pop to rap. Just because you're not aware of him doesn't mean people who know about him are into true crime. that's all i'm saying. it's possible to be out of the loop. he's literally been mentioned in a katy perry pop song that got massive radio play lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:01 AM
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because evan peters has a massive following from american horror story and because dahmer is infamous. almost everyone has heard of him regardless of if they like true crime or not, so it almost has a built-in audience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:54 AM
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it's almost like accountability is something anyone can learn irrespective of sex and many people of both sexes never learn it...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:51 AM
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🎉 congrats! looking good!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:50 AM
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Philosophy majors actually make pretty good money, they just tend to work in non-philosophy jobs because their knowledge is very applicable in politics and business. It is actually a male-dominated field as well, though more women are showing interest in it. But that's unrelated. Being the breadwinner does not make somebody inherently "better" though. That's the issue. There's also a difference between someone just happening to make more than you vs seeking it out. For example, I made more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:49 AM
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This is like my sister. She's doing her premed right now and has also modeled. People at her college know looks and intelligence are not mutually exclusive and seem to regard her more positively for the combo. I think people knowing it's a combo is what helps though. Strangers who just see her walk by know what she looks like, but not necessarily that she's in stem and likes studying brainy subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:33 AM
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Was this the first time you did mushrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:31 AM
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no i nuked my account for privacy reasons. i did consider saying some outlandish shit to get banned tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:21 AM
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I agree with you on your take, trust me. I do think certain things you described are hard boundaries for many people though. Like someone having kids from a previous relationship; that is a whole different lifestyle depending on the child's age, if the ex is in the picture, etc. Many people I know have a hard boundary against it (granted: we are all under 25, so kids are still not the norm for most people in the dating pool). Same with sex workers: many men will not seriously date sex workers, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:20 AM
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You use it for both...do some people not flirt over text with their partner? We've literally sent racy texts to each other while at work. If it's someone new, they could just be warming up though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:11 AM
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Not all women are the same, that's the thing. I never looked for a guy "better than me". I looked for someone who met my preferences and was sexually compatible with—I give zero fucks about a guy's money as long as he can support himself. It's his money, not mine; I can take care of myself and buy myself things. I am not dating my partner because he's "better than me". I don't even think of others as "better than", just more or less compatible. People want someone who aligns with their preferenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:10 AM
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It's all going to vary person to person and by how much they like their partner and why they're with them. Some people can afford to be insanely picky and drop anyone at the drop of a hat and find someone just as good or better, then you have others who will withdraw slowly if they're unhappy and then jump ship when a better option appears, others will stay because they'd rather have anyone than be alone, and then some will leave even if it hurts over misalignments of value. All depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:51 AM
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i have never ever heard of this wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:46 AM
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I don't need nor want someone to "look up to". My partner isn't a role model to me, they're my partner and a equal, lol. Even if they defer to me, they're not genuinely "inferior" suddenly. Women who reward misogyny...hm. I suppose they just have to deal with the accompaniments of their choices like every other adult. It's unfortunate that it would make some others assume it's a blanket default for all women when it's not, but it's not like I can burst into their lives and say, "You, stop doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:45 AM
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low nutritional value and filler ingredients
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:29 PM
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I got a latte that was almost the size of my forearm for $5 yesterday. You just gotta know where to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:28 PM
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mom is older and was the breadwinner most of my childhood. they were together for like 8 years before they had a kid (me) in their middle 30s. they then finally got married after another 8 years and are still happily together. not conventional at all for their generation. also interracial? i don't know if that's common for their gen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:21 PM
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choice is literally all about power. any choice one makes is an execution of personal power. depending on what one wants, you could say it's about discipline or lack of discipline. but certainly not power.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:16 PM
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me too. an ex employee would get drunk and email threats to the company email. my boss had to have a lawyer handle the situation because he would call nonstop and was just generally weird and crazy. also believed dogecoin would make him rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:15 PM
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not to sound awful but the only women i've seen and known in abusive relationships are not very bright or have low self esteem. i have never met a smart, put together, confident woman in an abusive relationship. i'm sure it can happen but i have never, ever seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:11 PM
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basically this. big ones are really common, but you can get natural or subtle ones, trim them or cut them so they're even more subtle, and then it's just a minimal enhancement without being in-your-face windshield wipers lash extensions are also a thing and look the most natural when they're just a little longer or fuller than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:08 PM
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Prioritizing the self and balance is often the answer to many problems
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:40 PM
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