Ntx_skarface Archive

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1	Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone. I actually find easier to talk to a group than a girl alone (if she has not shown interest by eye contact or smiling). 1 or 2 girls are harder if you go alone cold approaching than a group of 3 or more. A girl alone may feel mothe treathened by a cold aproach and 2 girls my feel that you are inveding a private conversation. The key is to akwolege the whole group especially with guys on it. Chit chat with the most friendly ones in the group, figure what are the "public" conversations or interacti…	/r/seduction	08/12/20 01:15 PM
1	What makes or has made sexual seduction most effective for you? Fitting well in a niche, for me is the the Traveller / adventurer / laid back / easygoing / have friends and probably a lover in every city and like a ton of crazy stories about that. Is giving that vibe and living up to that life also. Weeds of al the woman looking for marriage, kids of any of that crap. Or boring film and restaurant dates, and attracts the rigth ones, wich wants a motorbike trip to the beach, laugths, wine and sex.	/r/seduction	26/06/20 01:46 AM
1	How to make the move from conversation to kissing when your alone together in the living room/ bedroom? Well i live in a country where personal space is not really a concept and people are mostly comfortable with touchin others (is basically the hell for the finnish people). Phsical escalation, like touching her arm when talking or leaning closer and tilt your head when she is speaking to you. When not sure if going for a kiss i put off a hair away of his face slithing touchin the side of her face with the back of my finger. Is she is confortable with that level of intimacy i go for it. Anyway im …	/r/seduction	14/12/19 02:42 PM
3	Tips to prepare for harsh rejection? We had a special nigth when we where like 16, 3 friends go to a club in an area of the city we usually dont go to party. And we dare each other to open girls with silly overused openers, stupid accents and all kind of crazy shit. As a reward if you do it you get a drink paid by your buddies, most stupid opener or situation the better the drink. So you get more drunk and brave and get into more crazy openers for more drinks. Like "you have to aproach those 5 hotties and you can only comunicate wi…	/r/seduction	12/12/19 05:09 PM
1	If you manage to get a girl to enter your bedroom, does that mean she wants to have sex? What means "you manage"? sounds like the ones who "manage" to get a child into his van. Like "came to my place and i help you with the math exam" "came to my bedroom to watch my hat collection". If you are already making out while you try to open the door and all the way to the beedroom you don't have to worry if she want to have sex cause she's telling you.	/r/seduction	25/09/18 02:06 PM
-5	How to recover and get back on the "good side" of dorm neighbors - drunk friend made me look bad and now they don't talk to me. Next time a friend embarass you in front of girls don't hesitate to elbow him in the face full force, nothing reminds where is your place in the hierarchy than few missing teeth.	/r/seduction	14/09/18 03:56 PM
6	Nobody Owes You Anything I don't get it. "I busted my ass at work and want a raise." "No." Ok, time to get a new job. "I went out on a date with a girl and she wasn't interested." Ok, on to the next girl. What's wrong with that, not being a doormat, if a job is not going where YOU want the best thing is to find another who does, also with relationships. In my book the rigth thing to do if a date is going nowhere is just say, "this is not working for me i wish you good luck in life" and leave even if is only 30 min on th…	/r/seduction	11/09/18 11:50 AM
5	Can you really go from not getting any girls to being a ladies man? I've seen that with my own eyes in one of my best friends. He was like a huge nerd, escared to aproach extrangers, luckily he was social and talkative to women in our or my social circle, but was unable to escalate to a sexual level and being frienzoned all the time... He get over it, from 22 to 26 step by step, he start aproaching with me, then alone, reyected, back again, start getting numers, start having his own list in clubs, start making out sometimes, start dating girls he get numbers and…	/r/seduction	11/09/18 10:37 AM
2	Why are bad boys with a soft side so seductive? Many girls dig the Tough on the outside soft in the inside type and the Bad boy with good heart cause that please two of their natures, the wild animal atraction for strong, dominant males and their affectionate side for a caring partner. Also is the Knigth prototype Brave and Thougth against enemies and kind and caring to the people he meant to protect, thats the perfect man/hero prototype displayed in all literature and history for all (or most) cultures.	/r/seduction	11/09/18 10:07 AM
7	Where can I a 19 year old go to game Illegal raves	/r/seduction	10/09/18 09:38 AM
1	What to say when a girl asks how many girls you slept with - Don't worry i'll be gentle on your first time - Sleep? Do i look like the kind of dude who sleep with girls? - 3 or 4, has been a bad month - HAHAHAHA, oh sweet summer child... - I hope you're not a virgin cause i don't have sex with virgins, you are?, bye.	/r/seduction	10/09/18 09:31 AM
2	Is there a reason why I only seem to attract virgins? Maybe you give a trustfull, caring and decent guy feel. So your friends pair you with their more innocent and "looking for a decent dude" friends and also you attract that kind of girl more than the ones who like to rub against some dudes in the dancefloor and ragefuck in a car in the parking lot of a club while high on molly.	/r/seduction	06/09/18 08:21 AM
1	Sex, Drugs & Toilets Worst toilets for drugs and sex follow one or more of the following. - Lack of latch. - Lack of toilet seat - Very little room for more than 1 ppl (handicapped toilets FTW) - Lack of a steady surface to put my phone and paint some lines - Gap under door. - Water on floor Usefull things: Some kind of shelf at chest level, if clean and made of glass or mirror better Full size door with one of those laches that say OCCUPIED - VACANT like the planes. Sturdy toilet seat for seated fucking, room for 3…	/r/seduction	05/09/18 01:27 PM
1	The Universe Doesn't Want Me to Have Sex Apparently - Date Story Depends on the girl, depends on what have you been doing before or talking about. I used to pick up in punkrock bars and talks about music and concerts, so go home blast some music and make her dance jumping on my sofa with a drink, smoke a joint and going dirty. If is a more fancy girl, put some clasic rock and open a bottle of wine, start with a relaxed massage on her neck while talking. Once i was been talking about self defence with a girl in the gym, cause she was interested but a bit worri…	/r/seduction	04/09/18 02:43 PM
3	The Universe Doesn't Want Me to Have Sex Apparently - Date Story Don't put yourself down, you're getting dates you're in the good path.Just stop thinking so much and stop having a fixed setup in your head, observe how the thing is going and make adjustments or change your plans. In this date you miss the oportunity of a fun sexy 15 minutes instadate in the sex shop, you sould take the girl inside, laugth with her and ask her what was her favourite dildo brand, or if she like flavoured or ribeted condoms best and make the escalation during that so you'll be ta…	/r/seduction	04/09/18 02:20 PM
2	How to first date? Go to a place you can talk and be close. I like those cafe-bars with more private and confortable places to seat like the kind of underground with many smaller spaces and benches or sofas. Outside terraces or nice parks. Know her, whats her history? had a nice childhood? had and edgy phase in highschool? what she enjoys doing? what she think will enjoy but never had the chance to try yet? what are her plans? Find a conection with your own life experiences and plans. Ask her about her feelings of…	/r/seduction	04/09/18 10:18 AM
7	The Universe Doesn't Want Me to Have Sex Apparently - Date Story She wanted a fast fuck date, and you didn't deliver. Sex shop was the buying-condoms stops and the pastries for after sex. You should had start kissing as soon as you arrived home. She dindn't told you directly because she don't want to be perceived as a "slut" but indirect she was clear. She is probably doing that with like 5 or more guys and selecting them purguing all the weirdoos and keeping the ones who fuck good and she can go in fast dates without problem.	/r/seduction	04/09/18 08:33 AM
1	What should I have done in this situation? Im going to tell you my move for going for the kiss, has never failed to tell me if was ok to go for a kiss. Beforehand yoou've benn getting closser if sitting in a bed make sure that your leg or your knee touched her and she is ok if she back off dont follow. when you think conversation is getting interesting or intense, lean a bit to her and make a casual move to put her hair away of her face to her ear (train that with your sister, mother or metalhead friend until you make it casual and fluid…	/r/seduction	27/08/18 07:34 PM
1	To all seddit veterans, Soloing Groups? Being naturally flirty is a feature in south europe dudes.	/r/seduction	26/08/18 02:53 PM
2	To all seddit veterans, Soloing Groups? What i've experience in a larger group the girls are more encouraging a bit indecisive girl to go with me, in a 2 or 3 group the other/s are like. "hey you're better not going with that dude and leve us/me alone". Anyway makeout+phone are good enough for me, you can always have sex in a more private date. Not that i'm fancy, im cool fucking or getting a bj in a crappy stall of a club bathroom. But women like to feel special. :P For me aproaching and talking to woman is not a big effort is how i …	/r/seduction	26/08/18 02:19 PM
2	To all seddit veterans, Soloing Groups? Depends on the situation, a big group is gonna break in smaller groups in any noisy enviroment like a club. So a group of 7 is going to be 3 girls chatting going for the drinks 2 dancing and 2 in a deep involving conversation. So you can open the 3 and ignore all the others. Or open dancing with the 2 and after meeting the other 3 and ignoring the other 2. Or in a group of 5, 2 guys are alredy opened and are talking to 2 or 3 and you can open the others. Is a changing objetive not a monolithic g…	/r/seduction	26/08/18 01:35 PM
4	To all seddit veterans, Soloing Groups? Not american so many stuff is diferent and must be taken with a grain of salt. In my country people is very friendly, social and open, also girls use to abort your aproach in the most ruthless way if they don't want to be aproched, and are hard AF, also being solo is not common at all so is always taken suspiciosly. I find easier to open a 3 or a 4-5 in your own than a 2. Read the group dinamic, who is looking around, who is laughing more who is the bitch queen, who is bored and open with a situ…	/r/seduction	26/08/18 11:19 AM
2	How are some guys able to have so many hot girls with them when they are out to places like bars and nightclubs? I used to be that way in my 20s. Basically i went to the same 3-4 clubs (more underground electronic) i ended making friends with promoters and the door dudes. So i had a me+5 list in most clubs, in my favorite club i have a me+10 vip list and a other+4 list i usually put to one of my female friends name. I use the list to me my 2 best friends and the rest for ladies at the uni o female friends of mine wich where out to party whith their friends. Is like a circle, i put many girls in the club so…	/r/seduction	24/08/18 04:28 PM
7	Isn't the "friend zone" just an imaginary cage? From my point of view friendone is in the mind of the friendzoned and his fault if hes miserable or deluded about it. When i meet a woman several thing can happens. 1. I like her sexually but nothing else, and she likes me sexually - i have casual sex with her 2. I like her sexually but nothing else, and she don't - i leave her alone forever 3. I like her sexually and have much fun as friend also, she is in the same boat - i have sex with her and also introduce her to the rest of my things, mayb…	/r/seduction	24/08/18 02:14 PM
1	I want to get laid within the next 2 weeks. Is better than not approaching or being around for a long time and then aproaching for sure. I used to be in my place with my friends dancing and doing silly stuff and aproach a girl if shemakes visual contact and smile, if she is dancing with her friends and get a bit out the circle and made a 360 turaround looking in the club, if two or 3 girls dance in a circle but facing outside (that is they are showing off and looking for r'n'r) or if two girls leave their group and make a turn around all …	/r/seduction	17/04/18 01:24 PM
2	I want to get laid within the next 2 weeks. Sorry in advance for my bad english. High energy all the time youre in the dancefloor, if youre not over the top leave the dancefloor to the bar o go outside to recover or smoke or whatever. Dancefloor is for dancing, so dance, most guys dance like shit, so what. When a group of girls are dancing usually there's a group of creeps sourronding them sort of semi-dancing. Totally ignore those creeps if you see a girl dancing, visual, smile, smile back go straigth to her and dance with her in the fuc…	/r/seduction	17/04/18 09:49 AM