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| – | “Women date ugly guys all the time” is just not trueLol. Lmao even. "Ur gay, bro" isnt the clap back you think it is. Its actually that a lot of women take no pride in their appearance and some dudes are so thirsty that they settle for shit options. But go off projecting your desires on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 01:09 AM |
| 14 | Bieng a jerk helps a lotIf most men go that route you end up with platonic friends and not dates lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:52 AM |
| 5 | On a date, men are just trying to not mess it up. But, women enjoy dates. What does that feel like?Women are notorious for conducting dates like job interviews. There is nothing enjoyable about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:43 AM |
| – | “Women date ugly guys all the time” is just not trueYap yap yap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:40 AM |
| – | “Women date ugly guys all the time” is just not trueI can play whack a mole with you turds all day long. Bye bye alt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:10 AM |
| – | Women are more sexual than menShe looks like she just finished transitioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:07 AM |
| – | Women as a whole are more attractive than men as a whole.Objective reality is opening your eyes to the people around you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:05 AM |
| – | “Women date ugly guys all the time” is just not trueThis is a public sub. You dont get to decide who engages with you lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:05 AM |
| – | Women as a whole are more attractive than men as a whole.On average I either see couples that are equal in looks, or the woman being considerably less so. I can't count how many times I've seen tall, well built and attractive guys with women who look like they can barely make it up a flight of stairs unassisted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:03 AM |
| – | “Women date ugly guys all the time” is just not trueI see pleeeenty of perfectly attractive dudes around with out of shape, unattractive women. Way more than vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 12:01 AM |
| – | “Women date ugly guys all the time” is just not trueWhy would I gas up another dude? If a dude looks like shit I'm not going to lie and tell him he's Chad. Not that I'll insult him to his face but I'm not going to tell him he's a catch if he looks like an out of shape, greasy blob. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 11:59 PM |
| – | “Women date ugly guys all the time” is just not trueIt always makes me laugh when people bring up less than attractive men being able to get partners. They always omit the fact that the women are usually equally or even less attractive in comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 11:58 PM |
| – | Women as a whole are more attractive than men as a whole.Listen. I live in the Bible belt and the sheer amount of people (yes, men and women) that have no concept of maintaining weight or a good appearance is staggering. Like the old 'go to walmart' meme. The younger people on average look a bit better. But the vast majority of grown ass adults I see in the wild look objectively awful, like taking care of yourself is an insurmountable feat. If you're from a big metropolitan area, I agree things are more skewed towards attractive people, but most day t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 11:56 PM |
| – | Women as a whole are more attractive than men as a whole.You clearly haven't seen the women at my workplace lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 11:50 PM |
| 4 | Most men who are struggling with dating have not exhausted all optionsHow many people have you tried to meet? How many rejections have you taken? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Most men who are struggling with dating have not exhausted all optionsPeople with 'bad genes,' whatever that means, get together every day. You're just making excuses for you aversion to effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Most men who are struggling with dating have not exhausted all optionsSelf-defeating. Did you give up on riding a bike the first time you scraped a knee? You can't expect to get something from doing nothing, man. And unless you interact with literally every woman on the planet, you don't know the answer. Giving up is just shooting yourself in the foot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Most men who are struggling with dating have not exhausted all optionsHow many conventionally unattractive women have you been chatting up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 09:24 PM |
| 2 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenNot really. Just the same that all the unattractive single ladies arent all hateful femcels. Awkward people exist and shouldn't be othered by their dating status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 07:43 AM |
| 1 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenYou realize not having a flourishing dating doesnt mean you're a MAGAT incel lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 04:18 AM |
| 8 | A lot of guys here endlessly whine about dating, but only give the most lukewarm effort into actually doing itWhat are some ways they dress that you don't find appealing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 03:22 AM |
| 1 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.Sound like we're just a broken species on a base level and need to leave each other alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 03:13 AM |
| 4 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.That all hinges on if you actively enjoy the process of dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 02:40 AM |
| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionThere are perfectly respectable and pleasant people out there who still have zero luck getting dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 09:00 AM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.There are people everywhere enjoying niche things. You findingsome of those men does not negate the fact that most dudes are not into cucking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 05:56 AM |
| 3 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.You 4B people are such an insignificant minority. Go your own way. Nobody will notice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 05:54 AM |
| 4 | What justification do you have that patriarchy is good considering what's going on?OP's type can't argue in good faith. It's always just unfiltered emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 06:20 AM |
| 2 | [CMV]: The "Mating Gap" is a modern mass extinction event that society ignores by criminalizing sex work and stigmatizing male celibacy.Nice banned account, nerd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 06:19 AM |
| 4 | Most People Are Not Compatible With Most People - That’s Why Dating Is HardMen and women are both going out of their way to remain incompatible. It's not gender specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Why do many of the redpills here seem more concerned about dating and sex than issues that present actual physical dangers to men, like insufficient safety standards in male-dominant industries such as logging?Dude, this is a dating sub. I'm not a logger, and there are countless ways to get your ticket punched that don't involve a tree falling on your head, or the workplace, period. This has nothing to do with the subs premise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 06:02 AM |
| 15 | If men stopped caring so much, they would have the upper hand in the dating world.If men stop caring about dating, then they don't get dates lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 05:54 AM |
| – | Why even for straight guy more easy to find men on street attractive than for "straight" woman?Because a lot of women demanding that are the polar opposite of in-shape or fit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Every woman eventually gets to experience what’s like to be a man (if she lives long enough)Tell that to most grown ass adults in relationships and see the side eyes you get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 01:00 PM |
| 1 | A male's choice to oppress women is rooted in their fear of women's social, emotional, & intellectual power.Male and women to start your debate out? Why do people here just copy and paste incel rhetoric? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:17 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It is very wrong to trust another person making your sandwich. I dont know where the fuck your nasty fingers have been. Hands off the lunch meat, lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 12:23 PM |
| 0 | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menLol. Lmao, even. Everyone has to earn their way. If you dont attract the men you want? Well tough shit, deal with being alone or join a nunnery or something. Also, try telling your employer that and see how well you do. I'll wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 12:07 PM |
| – | Modern " average " men are just repeating the same mistakes of the previous generationThose men are desperate and have horny blinders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 11:50 AM |
| – | Modern " average " men are just repeating the same mistakes of the previous generationMost average ass women provide very, very little in the way of enrichment that is worth competing and providing for lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 11:46 AM |
| 4 | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menWhat have you done to earn a jacked comedian at your beck and call? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 11:42 AM |
| 5 | Most dating problems wouldn't exist if women were into menYou dont get to pick and choose when your biological determinism applies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 11:42 AM |
| – | Why are women so attracted to talent?That wasn't an answer, and you could give a real one by listing your own hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 11:24 AM |
| – | Why are women so attracted to talent?"Have breathtaking, mind blowing hobbies or else your a loser sex addict." That's definitely a take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 11:10 AM |
| 1 | The mistake people make when comparing male and female sexuality.Its amazing how bi and lesbians will absolutely fiend for other women visually, but straight and bi women hardly ever do the same for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 01:54 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Rejection is hotI wouldn't say that, they're just going to become more insular and out even less effort into men. The ones who are genuinely interested? They'll still fall back to ambiguous hints that leave all the onus on men to perform. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 01:47 AM |
| 2 | How hard do you think it is actually is to become a ladies man?You can value friendship while still be looking for more lmao. Maybe you just dont value dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 10:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Rejection is hotYeah, any person who thinks rejecting others is hot is unhinged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 09:51 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Rejection is hotAs soon as she says 'no' that's the end of it. Full stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 09:45 PM |
| 2 | How hard do you think it is actually is to become a ladies man?If you're trying to get a romantic partner, then getting pushed aside into platonic friend land is rejection lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 09:40 PM |
| 26 | CMV: Rejection is hotWomen by and large spoke their minds about random approaches being unwanted. Men listened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: In light of recent trending "men don't approach women anymore" content - do you have a problem with men approaching you? Do you want to be approached? Or to be left alone? Why?The men you want approaching you have been brow beaten by online discourse into not approaching. Sorry, cant have it both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 06:08 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵good tuna salad slaps. same with egg salad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 04:50 AM |
| 1 | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of societySo would you say femcels and NEET women deserve their circumstances, as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 01:46 PM |
| 5 | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of societyMost men don't blame women. A lot of men, however, are seeing that having to work a full time job along with overtime, plus a second job sometimes zaps the will to give more attention to other things. After working hours and hours, you don't really have time to focus on dating, especially in a landscape where a lot of dating feels like a job interview with minimal success. Juice and the squeeze, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 01:41 PM |
| 2 | One of the most powerful mindsets a man can adopt when approaching a woman is: “Your beauty has no effect on me.”Everything requires a mindset, and some people arent born with natural charisma and endless stories to make small talk with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Is Vetting Seen as a Red FlagWhy are you dating strangers? Do you have a social circle you can pick from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 09:20 AM |
| 5 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?I'm not sure what you're wanting to hear, then. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?I don't hate same sex marriage lmao, nor myself. I can look at another dude and think 'hey, they have a nice sense of fashion or 'they look like they've been in the gym and have plenty to show for it.' I can acknowledge someone else is conventionally attractive, I can acknowledge someone's hard work with styling or other aspects of their life. Am I going to put aside my sexuality and jump on their dick because of that? No, that's not how it works. Just like I wouldn't expect a straight women to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 08:57 AM |
| 4 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?Absolutely abysmal take. And the fact that you insist that crap while ignoring half my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 08:37 AM |
| 4 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?Have you considered that the majority of men are not attracted to other men's bodies? Are you homophobic if you don't want to sleep with other women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?No lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 08:04 AM |
| 1 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?Keep telling yourself that, buddy boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 04:10 AM |
| 2 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?"C-Communication is cringe!" Most reddit take of the day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 04:00 AM |
| 1 | To end the eternal debate over when men reach peak SMVMost of the woman my age around my area, if they arent taken and that actually seem open to approaching? Most of the time they look like barely recovered meth heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 03:35 AM |
| 0 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?My guy, every women is different. Some women might love something you do that's spontaneous while the other might fucking hate it. Dont talk about human interaction like it's always a cut and dry thing. Jesus Christ lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 03:32 AM |
| 6 | The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards.But that somehow doesnt apply to every other gender role that people in these sub want to tear down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 05:03 AM |
| 0 | What's so bad about being friends with women anyway?Don't speak for me with your bitterness, lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to "chase?"I didn't ask you what men say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to "chase?"What about you is worth pursuing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Who deserves love and chad treatment? Are they mutually exclusive?That's not hot, that's what you should be doing by default, both parties lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Who deserves love and chad treatment? Are they mutually exclusive?And that is entirely subjective. Don't speak for anyone just because you cant handle other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 01:21 AM |
| 0 | "Social skills" are defined too vaguely to be a useful conceptMen dont have to be anything. You are allowed to be adults who use your words when you want something lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How often do you have to communicate what you want during sex?So much passive aggressive tones in this sub. You all need to log off and talk to actual people instead of looking for ways to get a dig in on yhe opposite gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 12:14 AM |
| 0 | To many women, male attention is low value.Expecting every relationship you enter to be flawless from the start is a terminally online take. Especially if you're someone with little dating experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 12:05 AM |
| – | Women who hate video games and reject guys because of it aren't mature, they're just boring.And here I am, checking reddit after I just swept, vacuumed, cleaned the bathroom and started a load of laundry. If all you surround yourself with is lazy men, then you need to find better company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 12:20 AM |
| 4 | What's are alternatives to Red Pill?Treating women like individuals with agency is not mutually exclusive to having social anxiety/awkwardness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 04:29 AM |
| – | Why do men think there are so many good menThese gender war subs are so unhinged. The simple fact that you cant and haven't met all the men in the world makes this thread disingenuous. Its like me saying all women are unattractive, low value, not worth my time or whatever. A generalized statement that you just want to be true on the basis of your own grievances. Log off and touch grass lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Men, as a group, have no room to demand women respect themA load of shit. You can't write of 50 percent of the population when you only met a fraction of them. Just like all women aren't all terminally online man haters. Get a grip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 05:26 AM |
| – | Yes you do have a choice, stop acting like a helpless victim to your hormones and desires as a man and learn to process them and make decisionsYou need to log off and check out of the gender war bullshit. This stuff isn't real lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Where do women want to be hit on?It is perfectly plausible that someone can have no dating success or success just meeting others, even if they out themselves out there on the daily and put in sufficient effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Men are not more upfront than women be for realLet's be real. Ya'll need to go touch the grass before gender war horseshit compromises your entire personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:59 AM |
| – | What is the definition of a 'low-value man' from a women's POV?Not wanting to date someone isn't a critique of their human worth lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 02:14 AM |
| – | What is the definition of a 'low-value man' from a women's POV?I didn't say you did, just translating his incel obtuseness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 02:00 AM |
| – | What is the definition of a 'low-value man' from a women's POV?He's just trying to say "yes you do find some men low value" only with goofy, overly cryptic wording | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 01:58 AM |
| 0 | Women and pick and choose when the universal appropriate places are appropriate for men to approach them.They're just rage baiting, ignore them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 11:10 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach?A glance isn't an invite lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 09:53 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is driving women away from men and is central to why modern dating sucksJust block these people lol. It is so much easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:43 AM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?Because a fuckload of dudes are bitter, unfuckable, and entitled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women.Nah, I don't need a maid, thank you. That would just be weird and an invasion of my privacy. And I'm childfree anyway so I have no desire to have a kid or the costs associated with it. Again, find a good friends group offline and don't hyperfixate on ragebait and online incels. It's not healthy lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 02:01 PM |
| 4 | Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women.Where is this idea that men need maids and coddling. I clean my place daily, do all my laundry and dishes, actively decorate and rearrange things when I'm bored with my surroundings. I work full time and make plenty enough to support myself and have fun without worrying about another person's contributions and lack there of. This sub is wild, you all need to step offline and meet actual people lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?I wouldn't give them any thought outside of a "kick rocks." lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: if you refuse to approach, does that help or hurt the loneliness epidemic?Is it that horrendous to just talk to people. You know, with words? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 11:16 PM |
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