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Some dudes on there are like "I have tendonitis from work so I get what means to sell my body" 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:37 PM
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We're against the industry but not the women who participate for the most part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:35 PM
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There were men on that post literally saying that because they got carpal tunnel and tendonitis from working on a computer they get what it's like to sell their bodies. Like what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:34 PM
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This quote is everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:31 PM
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TRULY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:52 AM
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Not to mention the reason behind the free drinks is nefarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:30 PM
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That's what she said jokes. If I feel like I have to alter what I'm saying to avoid sexual innuendo because I know the guy is going to make some dumb comment or joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:29 PM
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Totally agree with you. Leveling up doesn't mean be an asshole to people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:00 PM
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Truly. They always prove our point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:12 PM
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As women we have to make concessions to our individual liberty when it comes to our personal safety. Risk reduction is important but it isn't the same as actual prevention. The majority of women are assaulted by someone they know and trust. Victim blaming is one of the pillars of rape culture. Focusing on what she did to "put herself in that situation" doesn't sound any different than what a defense attorney says about a victim in a rape case. There's nothing radical about blaming women for bein…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:06 PM
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He's just a gorgeous, gorgeous man. 41 looks good on him 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:26 PM
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BAE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:46 PM
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I'm not ashamed of my argument or where it comes from lol. I've read just as much radfem work as I'm sure you have. I've never heard the term "flush out an argument." That would imply I should flush out my beliefs on this and I'm pretty strong in my convictions. But as a good feminist it's important to think of power, yes? What is the power dynamic between an older woman telling a young woman her argument is ineffective because she's too pretty to make it? That she's pandering to the male gaze? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:39 AM
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Girls and women come to feminism at different points throughout their lives. Her brain isn't fully developed. The majority of us thought the same when we were younger but then after a women's studies course or a space like FDS we learned differently. We all have unlearning to do and she's starting her journey. I just don't like shitting on young people opening their eyes to the world around them. Not trying to sound like an ass but the term is "flesh out" not "flush out."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:02 AM
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Being influenced and pandering are two different things. And I never said lesbians are immune to misogyny just that she isn't trying to attract men. She's 20. She's figuring things out and spreading an important message to young people on tik tok. We just disagree on this. Downvote the post and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:13 AM
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Right? It seems like he recognized what would be ideal for her. Kind of confused why this was posted to be dragged?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:31 PM
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Same! Not sure what the issue is here tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:04 PM
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I've said it once and I'll say it again, women having financial independence is one of the most important components of women's liberation. We want partners not providers. We want to be valued for our wit, our intelligence, our integrity, and our personalities. We don't want to exchange domestic and sexual duties for financial support. We can support our own damn selves. Men need to level up and evolve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:19 PM
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I don't think she's pandering to alternative men, pretty sure she's a femme lesbian. She's just young and figuring it all out. I thought she had a good message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:20 PM
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I see Dworkin upvoted on here all the time. It can be a both/and not an either/or
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:23 AM
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The video is popular because a lot of women resonate with it. I'm not sure why it has to be a competition? Shouldn't we listen to any women spouting radical messages? We're all in different places in our journey deprogramming patriarchal messaging. We can listen to conventionally attractive women as well as women who don't conform to beauty standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:06 AM
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THIS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:45 AM
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That's the point. No matter how we look we're called ugly to shut us up and invalidate us. We need to stop centering how men value us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:46 AM
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SAME! I was introduced to radical feminism when I was in college in 2006 and I'm beyond delighted to see so many young women use their platform to share their beliefs like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:28 AM
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❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:51 AM
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And that girls and women don't need to center the pursuit of beauty and hotness in our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:31 PM
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Just goes to show it doesn't matter if you're conventionally attractive or not. If men don't like you they'll use ugly to demean and detract from what you're saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:36 PM
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Love Joanna Russ! Highly recommend reading more of her work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:39 PM
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Bookmarking this, wow! That's why I always say women should have their own income separate from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:19 PM
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The tantrums, my god the tantrums. Men seriously throw a shit fit when they don't get their way. They really think sex is all about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:44 PM
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Something similar happened when I saw Run the Jewels a few years ago. El-P stopped the show and called these dudes out for sexually harassing women in the crowd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:01 PM
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He wants her to be effortlessly perfect, wears makeup but not too much and not makeup he dislikes meanwhile he looks like a toe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:41 PM
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They're becoming more and more obsolete and provide nothing for women. We can have our own kids if we want them. Buy our own homes. Get fulfillment outside of romantic relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:58 PM
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FACTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:52 PM
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Please do! It always makes me laugh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:49 AM
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Lol he was like "doubt it" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:46 AM
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Lol I literally said that to some dude on here who was arguing women have more privilege because OF. I was like "I'm sure you could sell someone pics of your butthole."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:39 AM
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Wow so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:41 PM
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They fetishize EVERYTHING. He literally fetishized your involvement in FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:28 PM
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Ewwwww what the actual fuck?? I'm so sorry he harassed you like that. They wonder why we don't like them 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:20 PM
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They're pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:17 PM
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Yeah and I'm not gonna excuse low value behavior at all but I appreciate that he speaks about that in a way that shows growth. He had always thought he was a "nice guy" and he uses humor and storytelling to unpack that and that he wasn't really that nice. I'm always looking for progress in people. Did they learn why what they did was fucked up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:08 PM
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Mike Birbiglia and Jen Stein too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:41 PM
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Literally calling someone a pussy is an insult but also there's a whole slew of misogynistic slurs we could fill a chalkboard with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:07 PM
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Truly! They can't handle not being the center of attention because they've grown up having every book, every movie, every tv show center the male perspective and male protagonists. Men are assumed the norm. The standard human. When looking at a skeleton people assume it's a male unless it has a bow on or some shit. They created a system they primarily benefit from in which we're relegated to fucktoys, mothers, bitches, and non-existent. Like every time anyone talks about FGM, men will always ALW…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:46 PM
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We're just trying to have nuanced conversation. You disagree with us and that's okay. Makeup is one of those feminist issues that brings up a lot for people. I appreciate you bringing up this topic. Personally I find it complex but if it's more cut and dry for you that's fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:58 PM
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I COMPLETELY agree with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:54 PM
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Wow that is grim
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:17 PM
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Those two industries are so different. Your point has been made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:20 PM
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I LOVE the focus on women being resilient. I think there are many men who want to wear makeup but since it's coded as feminine, they face a lot of social disapproval and even violence from other men. Our society hates anything deemed feminine and dismisses it as dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:27 PM
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Okay so what if they only buy women owned brands?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:20 PM
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I mean men profit from most capitalistic cultures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:09 PM
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The makeup convo is SUCH a quagmire. Women are heavily socialized to look pretty and access to being pretty is dependent on power structures related to race, class, gender identity. The cosmetics industry is multi-billion industry that preys on our insecurities plus daily makeup wearing is normalized. For instance, look at female newscasters. It becomes the price we pay to be seen. BUT I also feel a way about anything that has been coded as feminine getting completely dragged. Men also think mak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:42 PM
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Right! Like, people age. As much as I love dragging men, I'm not a big fan of making fun of people who have visibly aged. Aging is something we want to normalize. Courtney Cox has had so much filler, to say she's aged well is EXACTLY what patriarchy wants. To convince women thet the only way we can avoid "the wall" is if we spend thousands on filler, botox, and other procedures. That is not aging well. That is trying to preserve your face to look the same as it did when you were in your 20s. Let…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:30 PM
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Women who hate men avoid being around men. Men who hate women rape and murder us. Misandry is a way men gaslight us instead of taking real responsibility for the way men behave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:45 PM
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And the amount of emotional labor that goes into these conversations. As women we're so tone policed that we have to bring up things in a way that gets heard but doesn't come across as too nagging. It's literally a minefield. Men don't listen to women so I'm not sure why they think it would be any different in this context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:25 AM
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That makes me happy! He seems so nice in interviews
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:50 PM
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The bed frame 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:15 PM
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Because men are ViSuAl CrEaTuReS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:13 PM
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Ah I see, haven't read the books. That's a bummer to learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:06 PM
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The show has way too much rape in it but when does Jamie rape Claire?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:59 PM
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Agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:00 PM
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The accent. The body. The smile. Just chef's kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:46 PM
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Lol why are they obsessed with us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:30 PM
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👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:53 AM
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Truth! It's not real power at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:53 AM
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THANK YOU! Yes, exactly. They know what they're doing when they wear their hair in pigtails and wear a child's swimsuit. You can't simultaneously be an empowered conscientious creator and a victim who is forced to supply the demand because it's all men want to buy. Take a moment a critically think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:03 PM
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I totally get what you mean and agree it makes the truth of prostitution more palatable. I use SW as a term because it includes porn actresses, OF, escorts, sugaring, stripping etc. It's an umbrella term but I completely understand your point and agree with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:24 PM
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Yes to this!! I totally noticed that the response is very similar. The idea that feminism means "never judge a woman ever" is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:22 PM
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I just dislike the lie that this is the pinnacle of female empowerment. I understand why a lot of women get involved with the industry and want them to have other opportunities but I can't stand the gaslighting and the vitriol aimed at women who question it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:43 PM
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Facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:47 PM
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SW is somehow both empowering and very feminist yet when you call out the negative aspects of the industry (of which there are many) you're all of a sudden blaming the victim. How are they a victim? I thought you were ✨empowered✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:46 PM
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Right? It's the calling us ugly SWERFs while claiming they're more liberated feminists for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:43 PM
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This is everything! Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:36 AM
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And more and more women can do these things on our own. We're looking for true partnership and toxic concepts of masculinity are going more and more extinct. Patriarchy was invented to make men more relevant than they need to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:50 PM
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Women in hetero relationships. Never have an issue when dating other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:28 PM
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Yeah either a pickme or a man larping as a pickme wrote that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:31 PM
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Ugh I hate that sub. The answers are always riddled with misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:43 PM
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What is this man you speak of?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:32 PM
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🤔 now that you mention it I don't know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:22 AM
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I am in complete agreement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:15 AM
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They're not real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:56 PM
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It is 100% a made up construct by humans. Animals aren't like "ohh I lost my virginity." No one else in the animal kingdom cares. It's a patriarchal value put on women in particular so that men are relevant. Women know their babies are their own. Men invented virginity so that they could control women's fertility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:35 AM
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Younger women are more naive to how terrible men really are. Once you're in your 30s you're clued in to men's bullshit and don't put up with it. They see younger women as empty vessels they can mansplain the world to and don't really care about her personality. It's honestly pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:39 PM
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SAME! I got banned and muted immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:23 PM
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Yes! It is the ultimate green flag for me for a partner to think I'm funny. I take great pride in my sense of humor and if you don't get it you don't get me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:26 PM
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I did not change my last name when I got married which has been interesting as some people who have met me after getting married thought my family last name is my husband's. And then other people, including my own grandmother, will address things to us as Mr. and Mrs. [Husband's surname]. It wasn't worth it to me to change it. Change my signature. Change my ID. Change my social security card. Change my credit cards. It just seemed like a lot of work and I didn't get why. I wear a wedding ring. P…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:47 PM
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I think it's both. They center the opinion of other men in everything they do and think we do too AND they're entitled and think the world revolves around them and their peepees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:55 PM
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Exactly. With other men it's a human harming another human, so they can muster empathy for him because they feel a human connection to him. They don't have that for us. They see us as subhuman and that we can't be traumatized because how could an object be traumatized? They conflate sex and rape all the time when it comes to men raping women but then completely understand the difference when it comes to men raping other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:35 PM
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Exactly. They see women as objects to get "fucked" by men so they see rape as part of the natural order and somehow not as bad for women because they see us as made for it. Nothing makes me more enraged than how these men downplay the way women live their entire lives in fear of rape while simultaneously saying men are raped more often. Ask a man what he does in his day to day life to "protect himself" from rape and he'll stare blankly at you. Ask a woman and she'll fill a whole chalkboard with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:16 PM
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Anyone who utters the term "top tier young pussy" should never be around women. It's so fucking objectifying and I hate it 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:05 PM
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Oh same! For me it's always been important to date someone who's funny AND thinks you're funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:51 AM
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A woman who's funnier than they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:19 AM
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Domestic violence shelters and rape crisis hotlines came out of the feminist movement in the 60s and 70s. Prior to that, women were supposed to just shut up and deal with being beaten by their husbands. They pushed for legislation and for marital rape and domestic violence to actually be crimes, which they weren't really considered before. While men do experience violence from women, statistically women are way more likely to be killed by their intimate partners which is why domestic violence sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:39 PM
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My guy and I have a pretty even split of household chores, we switch off with most things like making dinner and doing dishes. I usually do dishes on Saturdays. I slept in a bit late and woke up to breakfast made and dishes done. I was like "hey I usually do dishes on Saturday" and he was like "you deserve to just rest and relax on the weekends." 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:27 PM
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I'm not saying we need to be more like China. Just saying the nuclear family is connected to capitalism. You're welcome to do more research on it. From the wikipedia on the nuclear family: With the emergence of proto-industrialization and early capitalism, the nuclear family became a financially viable social unit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:21 AM
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Yes to all of this. Porn is the propaganda of the patriarchy. Men either know it's violent or are so desensitized by it they don't even know what violence is anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:56 PM
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Danse macabre by camille saint-saëns
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:10 PM
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It's exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:54 PM
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They couldn't handle being women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:19 PM
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Knew the end before even getting to end. I was like "let me guess, she finally agrees to go beyond her boundaries and he won't respect her safe word." I am so tired of reading stories where men throw tantrums like children because their depraved sexual fantasies aren't being met and I'm tired of other women caving in to this bullshit instead of dumping these scrotes. NEVER EVER go beyond your sexual boundaries. If some dude tries to convince you otherwise, get the hell out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:05 PM
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Beauty and brains 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:07 PM
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^ this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:18 PM
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What about families with queer or gay parents? Edit: also the nuclear family is an invention of capitalism. Many societies, specifically indigenous, have had communal childrearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:40 PM
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SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:44 PM
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Testerical! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:05 AM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. I know it can be tough to find a good therapist but I recommend finding someone who deals with trauma to help you process. I don't want to label your experience but it would fall under the definition of sexual assault. Sending you love, light, and healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:04 AM
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This is 100% true but there is a historical dynamic in the US where white women would lie that they were raped by a black man and the black man would then be lynched. Both are true at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:41 PM
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Yes!! The whole white women's tears any time there's a conversation about race. White men will rush to her defense. It's so frustrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:39 PM
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Seriously couldn't read past the first sentence due to rage blindness of 40 year old women being referred to as "girls"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:59 PM
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Yeah it's like a weird interplay between race and gender because white women know what happens when black men are faced with white men. I just think of Amy Cooper in central park. You can see how she's trying to manipulate the police and she knows black men die when police are called. It's a way white women use white womanhood to have white men come to their defense. So yeah it's a symptom of patriarchy but white women play an important part in upholding white supremacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:50 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear someone harmed you like that. Thank you for sharing with me. Definitely not saying black men don't rape white women. Just saying race and gender in the US have a complicated relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:36 PM
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I appreciate the dialogue! We're walking around with hundreds of years of history at our backs. So when a black man passes a white woman on the street he might fear she'll falsely accuse him of something and call the police, which could end with him dying. Meanwhle she might fear he'll attack her, which could end with her dying. I don't think race trumps gender because I think they're really interconnected. During slavery times in the US white women didn't have much power, their husband's were t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:24 PM
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Because white women can have a lot of power over black men in a way they don't with white men and in a way black women don't have at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:43 PM
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When white women weaponize whiteness, they're the aggressors. Race and gender are inextricably linked. Edit: I don't want to presume your race but if you are white, you're proving my point that white women downplay race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:33 PM
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It's tough because in the US there's a whole history of white women falsely accusing black men of rape and black men being lynched because of it. It's an uncomfortable truth. Another uncomfortable truth is that black women are more likely to be harmed by black men. Both things are true at the same time. White women tend to downplay race. Black men tend to downplay gender. That's why Kimberle Crenshaw coined the term intersectionality, BIPOC women live at the crossroad of gender and race based op…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:58 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:14 PM
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Wait, I thought we all wanted balding men with "dad bods"??? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:59 PM
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Same! My husband loves skin and beard care. Major green flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:12 PM
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I've heard the saying "men use power to get sex. Women use sex to get power." So either way, men have the power. Men dole out that power if they want. They use that power to harass women. "Using sex" to get a job is way more of a tell about men than women. Men are the root of the problem, not women trying to survive in the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:37 PM
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Women's sexual "empowerment" maps directly into heteronormative and patriarchal expectations. Women "choosing" to engage in sex work focus more on pleasuring men and pleasing the male gaze. No one thinks sex workers have power, look at how men talk about them. They're treated like pieces of meat who shouldn't have thoughts and opinions. Anyone who says sex work is empowering is just experiencing some major cognitive dissonance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:30 PM
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Just to echo everyone else, women (and gender non-conforming folks) can engage in toxic and unhealthy relationship dynamics. In my experience women can be manipulative, jealous, and possessive in ways that are similar but also different from men. Like folks have said, we all have grown up in the same misogynistic soup. Just because someone is a woman doesn't mean she doesn't have internalized misogyny. Some women who are more butch or masculine have deeply internalized superiority to femmes. I l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:15 PM
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Yes to all of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:05 PM
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Yes and another woman reminded me that some women in other countries like India can't see tik tok links because it's banned there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:06 PM
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Thank you for this! I realized that right after posting but will remember next time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:28 PM
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Yes, correctile dysfunction, the real pandemic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:27 PM
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Oof tough read. Thank you for sharing though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:58 AM
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Because they don't understand what it means to engage with women as humans and not objects. Since they view us as sex objects they can't comprehend how we don't see other women as sex objects. Even women we want to have sex with 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:00 PM
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Literally was just permabanned from a feminist sub for nothing. Responded to a discussion topic and was banned within seconds. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:59 PM
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More than they already do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:29 PM
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Men always make fun of women going to pee after we have sex. Bro it's because your dick is covered in bacteria and I don't want to get a UTI from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:14 PM
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We've been called how many names throughout our entire existence and they literally lose their shit when they're called scrotes. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:10 PM
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It always just proves the point that men could not handle being women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:03 PM
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Marriage isn't going to change a guy. So many women get married thinking it will somehow fundamentally change a man. It won't. Ya have to be able to have all the convos. How do you see distribution of labor? Money? Do you both want kids? If so, how do you foresee childrearing? If you can't have those convos, you shouldn't marry the person. Marriage is primarily about partnership and shared financial resources in this day and age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:54 PM
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Could not agree more 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:12 PM
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As is said often on this sub: if he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:11 PM
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I hope you're not still seeing this guy. Choking is a huge huge red flag in the domestic/dating prevention world. I'm so sorry he did this to you. I hope you're safe and away from him. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:10 PM
2

Never understood the cat thing as an insult. Cats make better companions than men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:31 AM
10

They also lie about how violent and dehumanizing porn is. They'll say, straight to your face, that only a small subset of porn is violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:26 AM
29

No lies detected here. A good sexual partner listens to what their partner wants. Assholes tend not to listen to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:13 AM
3

Education is an investment in yourself that no one can take away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:43 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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