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Just be totally upfront and honest. I am currently seeing a girl that has circumstances that I would consider a deal-breaker for anything besides a casual relationship. However, from the outset I made it clear that I would never be willing to progress the relationship past dating and she was on board. Honesty is the best policy. One more thing, if she does agree to go along with not being serious and she develops feelings anyways, be ready to break things off. It might hurt her a little in the b…
/r/seduction12/09/15 10:03 PM
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If you like the music or it helps you then play it. I personally have never put on music before sex and I have never had a girl put on music. Just seems like to much effort to me, but if you already got a playlist that you like then it couldn't hurt I suppose.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 09:57 PM
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Some girls will never date/sleep with a ____ guy. That blank could be anything: dark, light, short, poor, bald, tall, whatever. We all just need to accept that there will be some fraction of the population that just won't find a certain type attractive. However, there are plenty of people who find whatever combination you attractive. No use spending time worrying about something you can't change. Also, girl fucking have no clue what they like. I've fucked plenty of girls who said they would neve…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:29 PM
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I'll take your word for it, I would rather not get fat! I'm a big believer in positive feedback loops in RP theory. Ex. Body might only be ~.5% but since I have a fit body, I'm more confident. I've been noticing a lot of people on asktrp are hardliners for RP being game only, but I still think making physical changes for the better can have a big boost in your confidence. This is especially true for beginners, such as the majority of the people asking for advice.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:01 PM
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This is totally true. I am 5'9" and was wrestling at 149lbs in college and doing great with girls because I was confident in my abilities. After a tough breakup in my BP days, I juiced with a buddy of mine and blew up to around 185lbs and I couldn't get a date with a girl despite having the body of Adonis. Confidence > Body. That being said, I walk around at 170lbs now with more confidence than ever and that has been the winning combo for me.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 02:55 PM
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Find more exciting date ideas. Go rock climbing or hiking. Think of cool shit that is outside the norm. I rather do day-dates and they usually end up being cheaper or better yet, free.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:08 PM
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I don't know much about electronics, but I could see that being a cool hobby for making shit. As long as you like it who cares? Anything that you actively do will have some sort of benefit. As for my hobbies: I play guitar in a local band- Gives me a reason to drink beers and have fun with close friends, also, skyrockets my SMV. Train in MMA- keeps me competitive and supplements my lifting regiment, also I made some cool friends along the way. Fishing/Hunting- Great way to relax outside and spen…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:05 PM
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Sometimes is just takes time. You mentioned lifting, eating right, and building your career, however, I didn't see anything about hobbies/interests/other girls. Fill your time with fun, interesting shit and you won't think about your ex. Go out and start talking to new girls. I guarantee that you'll forget about your ex after you pick up a shiny new toy. Bonus points if the new girl is younger than your ex. Double bonus points if she's hotter. Triple bonus points if you get with one of the other…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:56 PM
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Whenever I see threads like this, this scene always come to mind: https://www.youtube.com/attribution_link?a=dEkAlJ1mZbA&u=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DxNToJwKE4F0%26feature%3Dshare I currently compete in MMA and I have wrestled in high school and college. I'm very confident I could handle myself in a fight with just about anyone. I also have my CCW and carry because I won't fight outside the ring EVER. It doesn't matter to me what people call me, say to me, or disrespect me. I carry for the sole purpose of e…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 03:50 PM
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Too late, you just nexted yourself. I tease girls constantly, going so far as to call them ugly, bitchy, or even a straight up cunt- but they knew I was just a jerkboy teasing them. Unless you delivered that line under the obvious pretense of a joke, you're fucked. You didn't tease her, you just nuked her from orbit. I wouldn't say that to a girl unless I was HARD nexting her, so that's probably the way she took it.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 09:16 PM
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Punish immediately, reward intermittently. First, make it clear that you expect a response from her. When she doesn't do what you want, make sure to withdraw either emotionally or physically. When she displays the desired behavior, let her know you like what she is doing every once in a while, but don't overdo it. To be honest, the best way to do it is to put yourself in a situation that you won't even be able to have this problem. I hardly ever text my main/other plates unless: A) scheduling a …
/r/askTRP02/09/15 09:07 PM
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Don't even think about either. You need monk mode. -You're fat? Fix it. PM me if you need diet + fitness advice. -You're depressed? Learn to meditate. -You're unable to talk to girls? Learn to overcome approach anxiety. -You're scared of being bad at sex? Read on how to become better in bed. Sex is only a small part of TRP. The main point is improvement. Sex is just a by-product of improving yourself. Once you start having sex on the regular you'll realize how small of a matter it is. I've turne…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:56 PM
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Well of course I want to fuck her but thats my final goal not my initial. If i just start talking to a girl with the clear intention of fucking her, its going to come off as weird, desperate, or creepy. Think of it like this: lets say your long term goal is to deadlift 500lbs. You don't go crazy the first day and try to lift that much weight every time you go in the gym. People will think you're crazy and you'll get hurt. Go in an warm up with lighter weights like 225lbs. Set a goal of lifting 3…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:55 PM
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Yes its totally possible in theory, but its a terrible path you're going down. Although you say it's not oneitits, it is sounding like it to a 3rd party observer like myself. That being said, if you haven't made pretty stark mental and PHYSICAL changes in those 10 month, she will more than likely see you as beta. This reminds me of myself when I was a total beta in high school and then met up with an ex after 2 years of college. She and her friends had seen me at my most beta, but when I met up …
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:18 PM
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It may sound Laconic, but the best way to stop seeking validation from women, is to stop seeking validation from women. Go out at night with the intention of having a good time with friends or by yourself. Girls can smell thirst and desperation like a shark senses blood in the water. If you go out seeking to just have a good time, you'll be more relaxed and women will want to be a part of that. Also, consider day game. It sounds like you have some trouble with rejection (which is totally normal …
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:09 PM
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This is definitely true. I was talking to one of my plates about what the worst things to say to a girl was and saying "you look tired" is equivalent of saying "you look ugly".
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:32 PM
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Ha! I'll be sure to work that one in too.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:01 PM
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Nah that's just the nature of the game buddy. I had been in a super-similar situation in my BP days and she ended up cheating on me and being a HUGE slut after we split. I don't blame her though, it is just their nature. Best advice to keep her around is: - Be emotionally able to leave her at any time (whoever is invested least has the power) - Work on having a STRONG frame control - Keep being adventurous with sex - Subtle dread game - Make sure she ins't friends with sluts, they will shame her…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 08:41 PM
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I get this sometimes from girls (and guys) as a shit test. Usually I get this when I don't give a girl my attention or shift my attention away from her. When this is used by a guy on me, it's usually the AMOG or some uppity Beta trying to knock me down a peg. Either way I Agree&Amplify to absurdity. My go to is usually along the lines of, "Just because I had a single gay experience doesn't make me gay, I should know, I've had hundreds of them" or "Just because I sucked 20 dudes off at a truck-st…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 08:26 PM
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While I can agree that telling a 14yr old that she has "nice legs" is a bit pervy, these 3rd-wave feminists will whine at just about anything. Man that isn't attractive looks at you? Stare-rape. Man sits with his legs open? Man-spreading-rape. Your last point is most resounding to me- stupid first-word-white-women problems are a waste of time and resources that could be used to tackle actual problems.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:52 AM
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I totally agree. After I stared reading the Bible, I noticed a lot of RP truths, some amazing frame holding by Jesus. Its a real shame that there isn't strong communities based around churches in today's age. Men need to be mentored by wiser older men and women need to be mentored on how to now squander their gifts of youth on cheap thrills and think about their future. I would love to make a RP Bible study, church group, or any kind of male space that involves faith, but there just seems to be …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:43 AM
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I agree with all of your points, but it still makes me sad. I still want to have kids some day and it looks near impossible to find a good LTR that would be suitable to have kids with. I'm 24 and the dating scene is just a wasteland of partygirls or single-moms who used to be partygirls. I'm currently spinning plates just fine, but none of them would ever be suitable to have a kid with. Oh well, at least I don't have to put up with the shit my friends who are getting married have to deal with.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:16 AM
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Some times you just have to take time off man. Best thing to do is run and dial in your diet. Just bc you can't strength train, doesn't mean you can't improve. When I have injuries like that, I just decide to say "fuck it" and go on a cut.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 10:09 PM
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I wrestled in high school. I cut from 140lbs my junior year down to 125lbs. I could run a sub-6min mile and was in amazing shape- no girls were interested in me. There was a girl I had BAD oneitis for and she ended up fucking some guy she worked with. After the junior year season was over I went monk-mode(that what I call it now, I was WAYYYY Blue Pill back then) bulked up to 160lbs. My senior year I had half the gymnastic team fighting for me and was groped constantly by girls in my social circ…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 10:03 PM
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Its good you're figuring this shit out so young. High school is a good sandbox to test out the RP lifestyle. You'll be surprised that once you leave high school the girls stay at about the same maturity level. You will constantly have 4-6's talking shit to 7-9 that you are pursuing. Best advice is to keep on doing what you're doing and not give a fuck. Girls are 4-6's calling you a "Man Whore" and "Jerk"? We have a term for that here- its called pre-selection. Good Job OP.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 09:39 PM
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I really liked this guide. It has great, practical tips and it is not just another natty guy going on a rant about how, "hurr durr steroid users are such pussies". Good job OP!
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 02:27 PM
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