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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 10:46 PM
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I agree , I’m a woman and I think the idea of growing together is really nice. But in certain societies marrying young isn’t good idea ( I come from very patriarchal and misogynistic society and I’m grateful that I haven’t married because when you are young , you don’t realize how toxic your society is and end up committing to and having children with someone whom is close minded , thus they hinder you from growing as a person and changing because the relationship depends on certain expectations…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:52 PM
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Yeah its misogynistic generalizations , most women around the world don’t sleep around. The ones who do are minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:21 PM
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Did I encourage these women to sleep around ? Do I have control over them to stop them from sleeping around ? The behavior disgusts me whether it comes from a man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:06 PM
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I’m not responsible for other women behaviors they can do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:56 PM
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You don’t know all women to say they live like that , there are many women who have been single for their whole lives and never slept around. Your generalization is very misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:38 AM
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It’s just paying for a cheap meal besides men always paid for the women used to court in the past even though women didn’t have sex with them until the wedding day yet they didn’t complain, yet men here complain if they paid 15$ for cheap meal and his date didn’t have sex with him on first day , as if you see women as prostitute or sex worker not someone you want to get to know with the intention on entering relationship with ! Moreover you can’t compare paying 15$ and having sex , men lives don…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:18 AM
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What are you trying to say ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:08 PM
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Yes , their obsession with sex makes them have no empathy for rape victims
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:39 PM
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Exactly, I as a woman I don’t find this to be a good thing it disguts me I’m human not sex doll or object.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:05 PM
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They act as if they will die if they paid for few dates or got a bit emotionally invested and things didn’t work out besides I don’t believe in their nonsense testing sexual compatibility as any person would feel nervous sleeping with a stranger , moreover it doesn’t justify expecting women to sleep with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:14 PM
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And women don’t owe men sex especially stranger men besides risk of getting pregnant and catching std or getting abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:06 PM
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Yeah, talking about if she’s lucky for getting raped 🤢🤮incels would envy her and say she is lucky 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:48 PM
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Agreed. but to them sleeping with anything will do and say we are picky because we aren’t as desperate as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:45 PM
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No it has nothing to do with experience, there are conservative women or women who don’t have sex outside of committed relationship or want to wait until certain time ( 3-6 months or even a year ) why should a woman have to have a reason not to have sex right away ? For a guy who isn’t committed to her or doesn’t want to commit before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 08:56 PM
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Maybe she wasn’t interested but wanted to keep you as option ( it’s different from when a girl is interested and shy ). I myself have never been in relationship or dated my whole life and honestly I wouldn’t feel comfortable kissing or hugging a guy I just met whom I don’t even know or have no feelings for. I don’t do things casually I would only do something because I love the person not because they are good looking as doing things for the sake of it would make me seem dishonest and make my ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:18 PM
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Yeah they should 😂😭 then men will stop complaining about women not having sex with them on first or second date 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 03:07 PM
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Exactly 😂😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:18 PM
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I’m sorry 🥺 that’s really sick of them 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:01 PM
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😂😂😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:58 PM
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Exactly, we aren’t animals
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:56 PM
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Exactly, desperation and entitlement to sex is big turn off 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:55 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:52 PM
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He just wants to have sex as soon as possible and doesn’t care if she likes him as a person or not 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:45 PM
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How can she likes a stranger who she just met and doesn’t know well ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:43 PM
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They don’t care all they care about is having sex as soon as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:41 PM
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Exactly, its really gross to date someone who only cares about sex without caring about our own feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:40 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:34 PM
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Exactly, yet these guys who make these assumptions are so narrow minded and seems bitter and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:34 PM
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Exactly or she could be conservative or religious or might want to wait until emotional connection gets established
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:29 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:28 PM
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I hate how they feel so entitled to our own bodies and then play the victim 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:28 PM
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Just because you find someone attractive doesn’t mean you have to have sex with them right away , maybe she prefers to take it slow or doesn’t feel ready or needs more time to feel comfortable or to develop romantic feelings. It’s dumb to men who only care about sex and would sleep with any women despite liking them as a person or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:51 AM
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Not all women want to have sex early or outside of relationship or with someone they barely know or don’t have feelings for. You assume that either women have sex right away or they aren’t interested which is wrong just because a woman finds a man attractive doesn’t mean she will sleep with him , you men don’t mind sleeping with any woman as long she is attractive but not that’s not how majority of women do or want , majority of women want to build up connection and feel safe first
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:43 AM
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Men who wants sex early usually don’t offer commitment or want relationship and even if they do , women should have sex when they feel ready and want to not because of some men insecurity or sense of entitlement over their bodies when these men wouldn’t take responsibility if they got them pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:30 AM
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They act you as if you own them sex when they will not commit first
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:08 AM
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Also , lets not forget that men prevented from working so saying that men had more inventions is not fair besides married women who have children barely have time for taking care of themselves , let alone for inventions. Its easy for men as they aren’t responsible for doing housework or looking after children only work 8 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:36 PM
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If its the easiest thing then grown adult men should stop being children and do it themselves instead of adding burden to their pregnant wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:02 AM
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Why is house work is linked to traditional women? Isnt cooking , washing clothes and cleaning one’s place something every adult should do ( whether they are male or female) or are you saying that it’s natural for a an adult man to be like children who can’t make their own food or clean after themselves ? How can a man call himself a grown man if he doesn’t have basic life skills ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 10:49 PM
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So what ? Is it crime to use a washing machine? Maybe you should stop using electrical machines as well and go back to the old times , also stop using cars and ride a horse or carriage like traditional men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 09:06 PM
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They are contradicting themselves 😆😭 even if a real trad woman who is virgin agreed to sleep right away with them ( which is unlikely and this is against traditional values ) they would call her hoe and dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:57 PM
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Men say women should act traditional and I agree women should stop having sex with these pathetic men who don’t want to commit and still want to have sex then say women are trying to use them to pay for their dinner 🤢 as if paying 15-20$ is too much and women are using them if they don’t have sex with them on first day , while trad men used pay for their fiancée and girlfriend even though they don’t sex before marriage and never complained about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:53 PM
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Exactly , besides not all women are fine with being treated as sex doll or object. I find the idea disgusting and dehumanizing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:42 PM
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Exactly, like should we accept being harassed by strangers so their feelings don’t get hurt ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:25 PM
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So women should accept being harassed so you don’t stop approaching them maybe you should direct your anger towards men who harasses women and caused women to fear men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:23 PM
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To you sex is about having fun but to me sex is something super intimate and bonding. I wouldn’t do it unless it with someone I’m in a committed relationship with and whom I’m in love with. Besides many women wasted their time , got STDs , accidentally pregnant , abused , raped or got heart broken by sleeping around. During sex woman body produces oxytocin which leads to bonding to the man she sleeps with and if a woman/ man sleep around it affects their pair bonding and they are less likely to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:46 PM
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So are you saying we are supposed to sleep with every man we go on a date with ? I find it disgusting besides having no boundaries and sleeping with a man thinking you will make them commit is delusional why would they commit when they can sleep with you for free , having boundaries will make guys who only want sex to lose interest. Moreover I find sleeping around or having sex outside of a committed relationship to be against my morals and I find it repulsive as well to sleep with someone who I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:42 AM
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Replying to Lemon_gecko... I’m woman and I agree , lowering standard and sleeping with these guys without exclusivity or commitment make them treat them like disposable. Men get emotionally invested when they spend time , money and get to know the women first before having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:22 PM
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Obesity is not something permanent one can change their diet , exercise and lose weight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:52 AM
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I agree, I believe that attractiveness is something subjective not all women get attracted to the same type of men besides there are other factors to consider like personality and values ( I wouldn’t want to be with a promiscuous guy just because he is handsome ) so yeah not everything is about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:11 AM
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Yeah your explanation make perfect sense from psychological perspective. I also find it disgusting that men don’t mind sleeping with a woman who is possibly coerced or sex trafficking victim without giving damn care and think it’s okay as they paid money , I don’t see how this is different from slavery or exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:17 AM
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Most women are forced into it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:09 AM
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I know how you feel (though I’m religious ) but even if I wasn’t, I find it disgusting to date a man who sleep around 🤢 such men see women as piece of meat and emotionally unavailable besides being players and not relationship or marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:52 AM
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Exactly I find it disgusting as well , he is talking as he is entitled to sex and is calling it “ just some sex “ well it’s because he is a man , it doesn’t cost him anything, women suffer the consequences ( pregnancy, more likely to catch STD , violence, murder, kidnapping..etc ). because of modern dating men feel entitled to have sex as soon as possible and without gaining trust or building emotional connection and they don’t want to take responsibility if pregnancy happened. Majority of Moder…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:33 PM
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Exactly and eventually they will feel that they are good only for their appearance if their relationships fails or get dumped or no one want a serious relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:58 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:52 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:05 AM
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Exactly, it’s just that some men use that analog to justify cheating and blame biology for it besides the fact that they don’t have discipline or self control
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:23 PM
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I agree with you, many are greedy even if a woman loved them and was serious about them they would leave for a hotter woman or wanting to sleep around if they had possibility to ( for example if he became rich ) or some keep the woman they are with as a placeholder ( delaying the the proposal and wasting the woman years )
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:48 PM
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IKR I don’t know what he wants to do or say 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:05 PM
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As I mentioned above I have no issue with men controlling their desires and actually I think that’s it’s amazing idea as it will benefit us and society as a whole. ( less cheating, less taking advantage of women under the name of love , less promiscuity, less sex trafficking and pornography, less objectifying women and transactional relationships. Less sexual harassments). Do you think that we enjoy creeps stalking us and catcalling us wherever we step outside the house at night ? I think that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:54 PM
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Yeah this is not healthy at all. Life is more than sex. if a man think this way what would he do if his wife got sick or gave birth would he cheat on her because he can’t control himself without sex, like it’s not water that he would die without and can’t wait until his wife gets better. I think it’s because they haven’t had it yet or lack of that’s why it’s all they think of and that with time their obsession will decrease. Life is full of fun things, traveling, sports , dancing, spending time …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:47 PM
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I agree that desire in general is the cause of suffering according to buddha quote. And yeah desire can cause ppl to be selfish. Ex. Pretend to love someone or want to marry them in order to sleep with them. Besides rape. But in the end it depends on the man, his conscience , self discipline and his maturity. It’s not impossible for man to overcome it as there are many men who became monks or priests and practices celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:44 PM
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I don’t think it should be eliminated, I think it’s best if boys and young men learned self control and discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:27 PM
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Yeah I like his idea. I don’t know why they are attacking him. There is nothing wrong with getting attracted to the opposite sex but being slave to this desire is not good as it causes problems. Ex. Cheating, leaving amazing partner because of physical attraction to other ppl, STDs and unwanted pregnancies or co-parenting with someone they don’t want to marry. I think that men who have self control and discipline are more attractive than players. I would like to be with a man whom I don’t need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:25 PM
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I understand what you are saying but one can improve their look by getting new hair cut and dressing more stylish, confidence and smiling is more important. Even handsome guys can be boring and less attractive when they don’t smile, I have seen some guys who look average but look more attractive when they smile and I’m talking from experience ( I have a crush on a guy and while he is handsome and thought so from the beginning, but I haven’t developed the crush on him until I have gotten to know …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:56 PM
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Lets be realistic physical appearance matter to both gender and even the men who are angry at women for wanting to date or marry someone handsome , they want to date a beautiful and a slim woman who dresses nicely as well. It’s normal to feel attracted to people we find attractive and there is nothing wrong with that , as physical attraction is essential in romantic relationship , no one would want to kiss someone they don’t feel attracted to and even when we meet someone the first thing that at…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:20 AM
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It’s not about you personally, but I have seen some guys who complain about struggling with dating and they clearly seem they need some improvement in appearance ( ex shaving beard or mustache, getting a better hair cut , dressing more nicely). Aside of what I mentioned , do you struggle with social anxiety ? Or are you introverted. I have mild social anxiety now but when I was younger it was worse and prevented me from making friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:29 AM
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You don’t even know where I come from to judge me and we don’t do dating in my society, I’m from middle east and ppl here get married through arranged marriage which I find to be outdated
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:50 AM
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I’m 25 and not married as men in my society are close minded and misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:46 PM
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Not necessarily I prefer men who stay single more than men who sleep around or jump from relationship to another as often as changing his clothes and don’t forget players.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:45 PM
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It’s hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:46 PM
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What is sexist about want to raise a son who respect women whom they date and take them seriously rather than seeing them as objects to have sex with then dump them when they get bored or find someone better ? Isn’t this selfish not caring about the other person feelings and just thinking about own desires ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:42 AM
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Is this your projection or something? Or are you this pessimistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:58 AM
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Sleeping around isn’t human right and not being able to sleep around is not a disease or disorder. Most ppl don’t sleep around. I would understand if a guy wanted a girlfriend or wife and would sympathize with him. However, I can’t do anything for him, the only thing I can do is give him an advice and listen to him. I can’t do anything more than that as it’s beyond my control.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:28 AM
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No it’s not , it means you have matured and grow out of the notion that meaningless sex doesn’t bring happiness or satisfaction which is pushed by media and culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:24 AM
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It’s understandable and there is nothing wrong in wanting to be with someone similar to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:21 AM
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True , many ppl drop their standards if they find the other person to be extremely attractive or fell in love with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:19 AM
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Or because they are religious or conservative. Also maybe they feel shame of their promiscuity so they direct towards the promiscuous women ( projection ) Projection is the process of displacing one's feelings onto a different person, animal, or object. The term is most commonly used to describe defensive projection—attributing one's own unacceptable urges to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:17 AM
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“ Past behavior is good indicator of future behavior “ goes both ways. No religious or conservative woman want to be with a slut man as well. How can she know if he is going back to his old habits or not ? Why take risks when there are many good men in the dating market. Who would want to risk getting cheated on ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:14 AM
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Exactly, even promiscuous men have no standards as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:58 AM
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Exactly, it’s not like I would think the female killer is admirable or her crimes are accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:56 AM
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Actually in psychology it’s called projection , they hate themselves and their promiscuity however they direct it at the women who are like them or sleep with them. Because they are not brave enough to confront themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:53 AM
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You said that women should look at other men who think they are worthwhile and consider them to be same. Like you can find someone nice but can’t force yourself to like them romantically or feel physically attracted to them. If it was this easy no one would struggle with finding a partner. Plus, using this logic will only end up in miserable relationship or marriage or even cheating or divorce. A person who doesn’t feel satisfied with their partner will look outside for what is missing. Ex a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:40 AM
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Exactly, men can control their urges and they should otherwise even rape would be justified by biological behavior and wanting to reproduce and populate the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:28 AM
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They speak from biological perspective as if men are wild animals and shouldn’t be hold to higher standard than an animal. And yet they see this undisciplined ( primitive)behavior as something to be proud of. We are living in a society not in a jungle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:21 AM
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Exactly, like just because male animals mate randomly doesn’t mean men should do that , men are humans not animals, they should do better and have discipline as no women want to be with a guy who behaves like animals or addict. They are more likely to cheat than men who have self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:12 AM
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Exactly, I as a woman I don’t want to be with a guy who sleeps around, a man who have no self discipline will likely cheat or flirt with other women or might leave because to a player long term relationship is like a prison as they are addicted to dopamine rush and novelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 12:08 AM
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Look I understand your point. However being in relationship or having sex is not a human right to be enforced. As we can’t force someone to be with someone they don’t find attractive or love. I agree that the dating site in the west is messed up because these dating a lot of young date just to have fun and jump from short flings to another and some might get heartbroken and end up leaving the dating site for good. I believe that western dating should be reformed. But even if it got improved ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:37 PM
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Exactly, like we are bad for not dating them or having sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:13 PM
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The thread says that “ 60% of men around 18-29 haven’t had sex in a year “ not they are single or not in a relationship. Like what can women do to solve this problem? Nothing , if someone is struggling they should try to improve themselves ( losing weight , dressing nicely, get to know new people and have hobbies ) instead of hating on the other gender and blaming because they refuse to date them. Everyone have the right to have specific standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:10 PM
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So you want women to be with you for pity ? for me I would rather stay single than marry someone whom I don’t find attractive or love. You can’t force yourself to find someone attractive or love them it’s beyond our control and everyone free to have specific standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:59 PM
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It’s not contradictory. What I mean by offering something is making commitment and showing effort and providing money is not for the sake of money itself it’s about showing the seriousness of the man. A man who is not looking for something serious wouldn’t make sacrifices ( spending money , making time for her). Is it wrong or selfish for a woman to expect something in return? Isn’t the man who expects women to have sex with him for free without anything in return ( commitment, love …etc ). Why …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:31 AM
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Nah I will raise a gentleman who respect women and doesn’t sleep around. A man who only date to marry. That’s my future son.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:09 AM
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Exactly 😂😭👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:04 AM
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Why do you men feel entitled to have sex for free ? Women are not prostitutes even prostitutes do it because of poverty and needing money. If a man wants sex he should enter a relationship or get married and bring something to the table because most women are not desperate enough to have sex with any random man. Most want to do it with a man whom they are in relationship with and love. We are not objects to be used and discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:02 AM
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Exactly, what does he want us to do ? Prostitute ourselves because poor men didn’t have sex in a year. Nothing is free in this world even water is not free and these guys want women to sleep with them or prostitute themselves as their bodies are charity or objects to be rented or sold. This is so disgusting we are humans not sex objects, we have the right to choose who we want to be with and choose who is the best for us. Like how these guys feel entitled to be with healthy and beautiful women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:38 AM
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Neither are good and morality should apply to both genders without double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:24 PM
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And many men don’t feel any shame of sleeping around or going to brothels or stripping clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:20 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:17 PM
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So what ? Everyone free to have whatever standards they want. Plus even men want to be with a beautiful women so what is wrong with women wanting to date a handsome guy ? Does it make you angry that you are not their type ? Why do you take it personally and hate on them for it ? Even you, you have a type and wouldn’t date a woman who you don’t find attractive at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:13 PM
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Exactly , it’s nice to find a guy who thinks this way in this generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:14 PM
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I’m not defending casual sex at all. Actually I’m against but what I’m saying is that redpill are hypocrites they want sleep around and shame women who sleep with them and then want to marry a virgin wife and call her boring. They don’t want to wait for marriage but then shame women who sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:02 PM
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Nonsense most women are not promiscuous and most require emotional connection to sleep with a guy unlike majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:22 PM
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Exactly, how disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:51 PM
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No one will die or become homeless for not being able to sleep around with bunch of women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:29 PM
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Yeah while I’m from religious and super conservative background I find it weird they talk about values and morals but don’t want to apply it to themselves how hypocrites they sleep with women then they look down on them and justify it by calling them cheap but wouldn’t accept if someone treated their daughters like that. I have heard of these stuff a lot in my society they demonize and slut shame women who work ( they are obsessed with the idea of their wives cheating on them with the manager or…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:51 PM
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Nah I wouldn’t even bother tell them what they want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:07 AM
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There is no winning with red pills if you give them what they want you are cheap and slut and if you are the pure wife you are boring and too shy. Promiscuous men in my society are like that they sleep around and then want a virgin wife but as experienced as a prostitute or promiscuous woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:21 PM
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I agree with you teenagers are not taught to have self discipline and self control. Also they are brainwashed by media to pursue their desires over meaningful relationships. And yeah they don’t talk about their dating life with adult or role model so they end up in toxic relationships and get traumatized leading them to become emotionally avoidant and stop taking relationships seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:54 PM
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So gross and disgusting 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:26 PM
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So disgusting 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:22 PM
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It is hypocrisy when he sleeps around , look down on women who do so and want a virgin if he thinks that sleeping around is bad why doesn’t he apply this rule to himself as well instead of acting holier than though 🤢 I’m from religious / conservative society I don’t want a promiscuous guy who slept with countless number of women, if a promiscuous women are not trustworthy for LTR then same rule apply to men as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 11:09 PM
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Honestly it was healthier in the past at least they know the person in deeper level unlike now , even having sex with a stranger is normalized
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:26 PM
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Same here as I’m from religious/ conservative background, honestly it is something super intimate not something you do with a stranger simply because they are attractive , actually I would not want to be with a guy who is fine with having sex with a stranger because if he doesn’t have patience or self control how am I supposed to trust that he will not cheat on me if he saw an attractive woman in bar or somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:23 PM
3

It is not that they are not attracted it is just they want to develop emotional connection first because you can’t build a relationship that is based on physical attraction only , getting to know the person, building trust , opening up and being vulnerable can make relationship stronger
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:05 PM
1

Maybe because they need to have a cause or purpose or challenge, you know they say difficult times make stronger men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:36 PM
2

Yeah it is sick , though sometimes you can see some prostitutes warn girls and women from taking this path , on the other hand so miserable ppl love company
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:18 PM
3

Exactly , as they say misery love company
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:17 PM
1

Exactly, how sick and misogynistic 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:11 PM
1

Who are you to think that you should have access for women bodies for free and without being in a relationship? Are you these women boyfriend/husband/ fiancee , for acting so entitled to their bodies 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:06 PM
3

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:50 AM
1

You mean women most women lie to sleep with men 😅😂 ? Isn’t the other way around ? some women do but it mostly men who do it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:07 PM
24

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:15 AM
5

Yeah, I wouldn’t even look down on 30 yrs guy Some ppl have circumstances social anxiety, depression , difficult life …etc I believe that guy value in his seriousness not in how many girl he dated or slept with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:13 AM
23

Yeah I saw some saying that women salaries should get reduced so they need men and get married 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:11 AM
13

Exactly, plus femcel might had traumatic experiences like being abused by father or raped by a man , while many incel are hating on us because they feel entitled to get laid or to have a girlfriend and because we don’t need them anymore as we are financially independent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:10 AM
2

You are right , you are the most decent red pill guy I have came across 😅🤭.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:28 PM
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Exactly but we criticize sexual revolution and mention its consequences we get told that we are judgmental
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:53 PM
1

Why should I care if someone didn’t get to sleep around with women ? like why do they think that they are entitled to women bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:42 PM
2

So you think it is okay to deceive someone and take advantage of them how disgusting 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:09 PM
1

Maybe majority but there are narcissistic men who see women as objects
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:47 PM
1

I have respect for you 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:41 PM
2

😂😂😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:35 PM
2

Exactly, I said the same thing in that question and I got told that I’m hating on men 🤢😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:28 PM
3

Exactly it is like we are just bodies or sex objects not human beings who have feelings and even unplanned pregnancies can happen in addition to STI but these guys don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:22 PM
3

Exactly they just want to sleep around and act entitled to stranger women bodies , if they wanted to have girlfriend I would have sympathized with them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:20 PM
2

If they wanted to have girlfriend I would feel sad for them but they are just crying because they can’t get laid like should women volunteer to sleep with them 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:17 PM
1

I respect you for that 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:08 PM
2

I respect you for that 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:04 PM
1

Yeah the problem is that western culture promotes casual sex and hookup culture and this is the result
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:03 PM
3

Yeah I understand what you are trying to say , however sometimes unplanned pregnancy happens even with using protection methods and some women are against abortion so it can happen and then being abandoned by the man who got her pregnant that’s what make single mothers , that’s why I believe that waiting for marriage is better because a husband is less likely to abandon his pregnant wife even if unplanned pregnancy happened
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:01 PM
7

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:39 PM
5

Yeah that’s what I was going to say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:38 PM
5

Yeah it is a lust , plus it depends would he stay with the girl if she got life threatening disease this decide if it was love or lust
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:37 PM
3

Exactly I never said that single men should date single mothers I was criticizing the men who abandoned these single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:31 PM
5

I didn’t mean that you should be involved with or date single mothers , what I mean is that many red pill men are angry or hateful toward single mothers and shame them yet they don’t shame the men who abandon these single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:30 PM
5

Yeah if he is depressed or lonely I would feel bad for him but I wouldn’t feel bad for man who can’t sleep around with bunch of women 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:34 AM
2

Saying the truth is male hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:32 AM
1

Not all men but many men and the evidence of this is the large number of single mothers in the west and all around the world
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:31 AM
4

What do mean by trying to control their biology ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:14 AM
1

Many men want to use women bodies to satisfy their desires but wouldn’t take responsibility, it is frustrating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:13 AM
3

They act like women are poor and they are richer simply by they are men and that single mothers target because of their money when they barely make ends meet 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:07 AM
3

Who said that men are expected to provide for another man’s child ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:03 AM
3

Exactly maybe they are angry that the single mom didn’t choose them and they are like you deserve what happened to you if you chose me this wouldn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:02 AM
3

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:00 AM
1

No one said that single guy should date single mothers , plus the single mother didn’t become one on her own , it is because of the irresponsible man who left her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:58 AM
1

I don’t agree with hook up culture however I believe those women are attracted to the chads and think that by sleeping with them they would win them over or lock them down
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:54 AM
1

Couldn’t find a fault with what I said and now looking for a grammatical mistake out of spite 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:55 PM
15

Did I ever say that single men should date a single mom ? Plus single moms phenomena is caused by men lack lack of responsibility as the single mom didn’t impregnate herself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:27 PM
11

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:23 PM
13

Yeah I haven’t heard of a single person who died because of this and they are not even looking for a relationship just using women bodies for free
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:20 PM
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Yeah they don’t care about women they see us as objects to entertain them no more and would never take responsibility or accountability if unplanned pregnancy happened, yet act like a victim ,” women will not let me use their bodies for free without being in a relationship with them or without being expected to take responsibility if I accidentally got them pregnant , women are evil 🥲🤢” When will these man children grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:17 PM
2

Yeah as if they would die if they didn’t, no one dies from not getting laid while some ppl are dying from hunger and wars and are homeless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:10 PM
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Exactly, we why would we care , why are they acting like they are entitled to stranger women bodies, so disgusting 🤢🤮 they aren’t even looking for a girlfriend or relationship yet act so entitled to women’s bodies as if we are objects to entertain them , so sick then complain that woman hate them 🤢 I don’t know what we are supposed to do with the information in the post ? She we become free prostitutes for their sake ? Or let them use our bodies to entertain them. Nothing is free , even shelter …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:59 PM
2

I believe that’s why religion is important as it supports monogamy and marriage, encourages self discipline And teaches on how it is bad to let our desires control us , unfortunately there are many single parent households or kids put into adoption …etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:11 PM
2

Not necessarily not all women are into womanizer or player guys , for me the less experienced guy is the better as I come from religious and conservative background
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:20 PM
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True I’m young women from super religious background and I don’t want to marry a promiscuous guy, some guys delude themselves saying that women don’t care about guys past , no we care and a lot , because a guy who have no self control or discipline is very likely to cheat as to him marriage is like a prison that take his freedom ( sleeping around )
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:23 PM
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They are hypocrites , they hate women and criticize them 24/7 however they will not spare any woman if they had a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:20 AM
1

Not everyone care about that , I’m from conservative and religious background so for me I wouldn’t mind marrying someone who has zero or no experience, plus I think if a woman liked the guy she wouldn’t care about that and no one is perfect from first time and different ppl like different things
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:39 PM
2

Precisely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:34 PM
1

True as each person and relationship is different so past experiences don’t help your new relationship or your marriage at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:33 PM
4

IKR 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:28 AM
1

Same here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:38 AM
1

That’s good 👍🏻Same for me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:28 AM
3

True
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:22 AM
1

Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:52 AM
1

Well for me I’m from religious society so no sex outside of marriage and honestly I think this is good as marriage protect women from guys who are not serious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:45 AM
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They are obsessed with sex to the point of being jealous of women when we are not desperate enough to have sex with any man. Just thinking of the idea is disgusting for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:05 AM
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Not all women are like this , maybe it is best to look for a girl from different culture
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:32 AM
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