NumerousImprovements Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How to converse with someone who gives short answers/replies?		NumerousImprovements	/r/seduction	08/04/19 08:24 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	The world of books is becoming an increasingly unfriendly place for men The world of books spans a large part of human history. If you can’t find more books than you could ever read that you like, you’re not looking hard enough. We’ll be okay.	/r/MensRights	28/12/25 12:03 PM
-6	In many countries retirement age is much later for men - some by 5 years, some even 10 years. Does anyone know the reasons behind this? I primarily want to know the official reasons of countries, but assumptions are also very welcome! I mean, don’t we all always talk about how there are just differences between men and women? Are we pretending we’ve never heard this before? Men live longer, and (very generally speaking), live better for longer. I disagree with it because both genders can start working at the same age, and once you’ve done your time, that shouldn’t depend on what gender you are; men give just as much of their life working for society as women do. But it’s because men are still capable of working at that age us…	/r/MensRights	19/10/25 11:04 PM
0	Ukrainian men conscripted to fight but the women not. I thought we wanted only people who were strong enough to fight in armies? Now we want the women to join us? Hell no. Don’t conscript people who don’t want to be there in the first place. If you sign up for the military, you don’t want to be next to someone forced to be there. They won’t do a good enough job.	/r/MensRights	07/10/25 07:16 AM
-4	Feminism or misandry Why I have a sense of humour? I would think you’d be the one needing help to work out why you don’t have one.	/r/MensRights	21/09/25 06:40 AM
-10	Feminism or misandry Both of which could be said in a funny way in the right contexts, yeah. Relax. Why the men in this group gotta be such pussies about so much shit?	/r/MensRights	21/09/25 05:17 AM
-11	Feminism or misandry She’s gunna fuck the guy who’s upset by the stuff in your post? Tears over words, very attractive mate.	/r/MensRights	21/09/25 03:20 AM
-15	Feminism or misandry “You’re good at that, for a man” is kinda funny actually. I can imagine some girls stirring up their mates with that one. It’s not that deep. I’m a white guy so I mainly think of white men in hypothetical situations or when thinking about something. Women doing the same thing isn’t a problem.	/r/MensRights	21/09/25 02:27 AM
4	Does James Bond have to be a man ? The Femosphere, feminist run media doesn’t seem to think so? Craig’s Bond died. That’s not an issue for the series as a whole though, they constantly restart Bond’s journey.	/r/MensRights	19/08/25 05:42 AM
4	Does James Bond have to be a man ? The Femosphere, feminist run media doesn’t seem to think so? Certain characters that they find problematic, no. There is no way this idea is new to you. Different groups have taken issue with all sorts of fictional characters in the past for myriad reasons. Nobody is saying feminists want to take ALL fiction away from men, you know that isn’t what is being said.	/r/MensRights	19/08/25 05:40 AM
3	Does James Bond have to be a man ? The Femosphere, feminist run media doesn’t seem to think so? It’s not as simple as “it’s fictional so it doesn’t matter”. They shouldn’t make Bond in the official films a woman. However a reimagining of Bond with a female agent would be great. Take Sherlock Holmes, for example. If Doyle had written a book where suddenly Holmes was a woman, it would make no sense. However there are myriad Holmes adaptations and Holmes-inspired series with plenty of changes, some of them are amazing. Leave the official thing alone, and if you want a movie franchise with a b…	/r/MensRights	19/08/25 05:39 AM
10	Does James Bond have to be a man ? The Femosphere, feminist run media doesn’t seem to think so? Sure, but it tarnishes the franchise. I’m sure it would survive, but not unscathed. Be a shame to have that black mark on its history. Also, I’d argue we’ve already seen enough evidence that people don’t, en masse, want this shit.	/r/MensRights	19/08/25 05:35 AM
10	Serious question. So, we all know about the cheating scandal that took place at a Coldplay concert. Why is the man being dragged way more harshly on social media than the female cheater? He’s the CEO and, technically, her boss, so it’s not simply “men are worse than women” here. There is an actual reason. Although tbh, I haven’t seen much dragging either of them. Just memes. And some memes about idolising him too.	/r/MensRights	20/07/25 12:37 PM
20	My best tips to get pretty girls to chase (been doing this for 15 years) If you need help at that point, I don’t know what to tell you. When’s the last time you fingered a girl and thought something like “now how do I close?”.	/r/seduction	10/06/25 10:10 AM
0	Have you ever been sexually assaulted by a woman only for it to be put off/people act like it doesn't matter? Use to bartend and while walking through the dance floor would often get felt up. I don’t mean just my arms or chest. Literally front and back slaps and grabs. I got security to get rid of one girl who cupped my balls and didn’t let go, but honestly, I just never saw the big deal with most of it. These were usually women I was flirting with, and if they weren’t, so what? It was Saturday night, packed dance floor, drinks flowing, I never saw the big deal for the most part. I also know women who s…	/r/MensRights	07/05/25 01:24 PM
0	UK: Schools to give boys anti-misogyny lessons to stop toxic masculinity in wake of Netflix hit Adolescence Looks like it’s one part of a wider initiative. Which sounds overall like a good thing. Kids shouldn’t be on social media, especially nowadays. The social media I grew up with is vastly different to what kids are exposed to nowadays, and kids are stupid. They’re impressionable, they want to copy and emulate what they see online, they have no critical thinking skills yet. They’re full of hormones and absent of common sense. Both genders are. Classes that help deal with the real world is something…	/r/MensRights	25/03/25 06:55 AM
3	ChatGPT, better than any therapist, article, or influencer I've ever seen If a woman had similar complaints, it would respond in the exact same way. ChatGPT isn’t pro-masculinity, it’s pro “telling the user what they want to hear”. Which is fine. A lot of what is in these replies is accurate, but this isn’t an “AI stands with us” moment. AI isn’t empathetic.	/r/MensRights	25/03/25 06:49 AM
-94	Female shop assistant touches young male client while we are buying swimming trunks. Why? Both sexes are quite different, even subjectively within our invented societies. Most standards should be the same, but nobody treats both sexes exactly the same all the time. We just don’t.	/r/MensRights	20/03/25 01:10 AM
7	Exotic dancer admitted that she lied about the Duke Lacrosse players raping her nearly 20 years ago. The three players lost everything, including their jobs and scholarships, and had their lives ruined-all so she could gain attention There should 100% be severe repercussions if it’s proven you intentionally lied about this shit. Imagine the 20 years of life those blokes could’ve had, if things had gone their way, if they hadn’t had everything taken from them because of this? Their lives would be insanely different. Sue this woman for everything she’s worth and more. Maybe the schools for not investigating it?	/r/MensRights	15/03/25 11:12 PM
4	Anyone else hate the term "Man up"? Feel free to voice your opinion. It’s another saying, it’s fine. The words aren’t the problem, it’s the idea being conveyed. If you have a problem with someone undervaluing what you’re going through, that’s one thing. But it’s fine.	/r/MensRights	08/03/25 03:51 AM
4	Have You Ever Dated A Girl With Lots Of Tattoos? Ehh, good advice is good advice. You just gotta know how to interpret it, but I don’t much care for the source of good advice.	/r/MensRights	04/03/25 12:24 PM
11	Have You Ever Dated A Girl With Lots Of Tattoos? Look out for tattoos? Please. OP is not someone I’m taking dating advice from.	/r/MensRights	04/03/25 11:17 AM
13	Have You Ever Dated A Girl With Lots Of Tattoos? What in the fuck does this have to do with men’s rights? Also, judging on personal appearances can sometimes be done with some accuracy, but works just as much for men as it does for women. You give real men a bad rap going around with this incel shit.	/r/MensRights	04/03/25 11:17 AM
-8	How do you feel about the "small dick energy" comments? As a guy, I genuinely don’t care. If the person saying big dick energy or small dick energy hasn’t seen what you’re working with, then the comment has nothing to do with your penis. Get over it. It just seems silly to focus on this phrase, when guys I know will use all sorts of phrases as well, they’ll refuse to just call other people the pronouns they want to be referred to with, they’ll use the word retarded, shit like this. It’s not like “small dick energy” is the last example of some bad wor…	/r/MensRights	27/02/25 11:21 PM
20	Wasn't allowed into a bar because I'm a man? Seems to be happening fairly often nowadays. Bouncers are losers, never take them seriously. They’re like the worst of why police become police, except without all that… esteem and respect. But not unheard of for bars to deny men into their venues if they don’t have women. Is it legal? Usually, yes. Is it okay? Ehh, arguments can be made on both sides. They are a private business, but then they’re discriminating on the basis of gender. Don’t take it to heart though. Night life is not where you should get any sort of indication as to your w…	/r/MensRights	27/02/25 01:33 AM
11	Not even Joey Swoll is safe from misandrist women The problem I have with it is they dress well in public with the intent of turning heads. I have no problem with this, but they do the same thing in the gym, they know they do, and there’s a tonne of female fitness influencers who dress provocatively, post innuendo-filled videos which always has the camera facing their ass, and they promote the whole “sexy girl looking sexy in the gym” to counter any work that Joey and others might be doing. If I’m in the gym, I look at girls, I look at guys. I …	/r/MensRights	02/11/24 10:03 PM
29	How to have that "he is probably incredible in bed" vibe? A balance between cocky, aggressive, and cheeky. Last year, I had this girl I flirted with a lot, everyone could see we had chemistry, but she got a boyfriend. We kept flirting for a bit until he got quite upset with her by it, and she ended up telling one of my mates that her one regret was not sleeping with me before she went official with her man. If I think back, cocky, aggressive and cheeky was how I acted with her most of the time.	/r/seduction	28/05/24 01:51 PM
5	Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details below I’ve done this before. Admittedly with a girlfriend, so I wasn’t worried at all about him being successful, but same energy. Walked up and asked her “oh is he hitting on you?” Then turning to him “let’s hear what you got” then put him on the spot. He might fuck off, stumble over his words, he might deliver a good line, but you just basically turn to her and ask her what she thought. Like you guys are judging him or toying with him together. Then tell him to enjoy his night and go back to talking…	/r/seduction	18/05/24 09:05 AM
1	Why do tickets cost more for males? You some type of thick, hey. I said they might protest, but that doesn’t make it wrong. It just means people are upset about it. Same way people are upset about men paying more in OPs post. Just because people don’t like something, doesn’t mean it’s automatically wrong. Also, when did you get told that the world is fair? Men and women are different, we each have different negatives and different benefits that the other gender doesn’t have. That’s just part of living and interacting with humans. …	/r/MensRights	09/05/24 05:24 AM
1	Why do tickets cost more for males? They might. Doesn’t mean they’d be right. You can charge whoever you want whatever you want (depending on local laws of course).	/r/MensRights	09/05/24 03:18 AM
40	Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards him Your brackets comment is great haha damn he has it hard, let me take his place	/r/seduction	08/05/24 12:21 PM
12	Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards him I knew a model who was absolutely stupid. He was a male stripper though, lived that lifestyle, cleaned up. Same way stupid women clean up. It might mean some people aren’t interested but there’s a tonne that still are.	/r/seduction	08/05/24 12:21 PM
2	Do you care if there's an age gap in dating? Consent is a tricky one. Age is one part, but clearly we just use age because it’s the easiest metric to measure. For example, no matter your age, it’s usually illegal or at least against company policies to sleep with students or employees that report to you, because there’s an unequal power balance there. I think that’s what age of consent tries to get across. If you sleep with someone by leveraging power against them in any form, that is the same sort of thing as sleeping with someone under a…	/r/seduction	08/05/24 06:20 AM
2	My girlfriend would choose the bear Idk how to quote on phone, seems fiddly but yeah You can take it however you want, but I’d base my feelings and actions off more than one response to this. Case in point, this isn’t a friend of OP’s. it’s his gf, so presumably the relationship is good. She may have said bear but she clearly feels good with op so why take offence? I didn’t see the original video, I’m not on Tik tok which I’m guessing it where it started. If someone says bear, why be insulted by it? Either this person is intellige…	/r/MensRights	07/05/24 01:05 PM
-6	My girlfriend would choose the bear What are you on about man, you drastically misunderstood some shit. I can’t quote coz I’m on the phone, but lemme give it a shot anyway. You said a joke or a thought experiment. But I’m not talking about the question itself. I’m talking about how one might respond to it. Then I gave two ways to respond to it. You saying “a joke or a thought experiment” is about the original hypothetical, not my suggestions to how to respond. OP is taking his partners response super seriously, so I’m giving advic…	/r/MensRights	07/05/24 12:40 PM
-12	My girlfriend would choose the bear Fuck this question annoys me, but not because of feminists, but because how fucking triggered guys get. There are two ways I see responding to this depending on who’s telling you they would choose a bear. Both hinge around the fact that it’s a fucking hypothetical question you guys are worried about. If they’re being legitimate and sincere, this indicates they may have had some bad experiences in their past. Forget the hypothetical and if you have a relationship with them where you guys care abo…	/r/MensRights	07/05/24 10:13 AM
-2	Does anyone feel uneasy or like they’re going to be arrested if they walk near a school as a man? Get over it until something actually happens. You sound like a woman worried that someone might rape her because she’s wearing short shorts before anyone’s even looked at her.	/r/MensRights	24/04/24 06:58 AM
3	What's the worst way you've ever fumbled a babe? For me, it’s just times when I’ve been either not shaved or masturbated earlier that day and not been ready. Had more than a few times when I’ve shut sure things down because I hadn’t worked out in a few weeks or my skin was dry or I’d masturbated that morning or I knew my room at home wasn’t clean. I do more than okay generally, so no stress, but it’s always annoying, and it’s been a good reminder to always be at my best and taking care of myself and my life, so that when things come up, I’m no…	/r/seduction	15/04/24 10:49 AM
4	Why do tickets cost more for males? Nothing about equality needs to come into the decision here. They’re a private business. They can do what they want. Like you said, this is how shit works sometimes. Especially considering people love to respond to feminists by saying “but men and women are different”. Yes they are. Here’s an example of how.	/r/MensRights	12/04/24 02:54 AM
-10	With abortion access limited, Planned Parenthood turns to offering vasectomies You needn’t get the procedure done if you don’t want? I must have missed the part about compulsory vasectomies for men, did I? You can call me a moron with as much gusto as you want. This is not a new procedure, only new to them, and nobody is shaming or pressuring anybody to do anything. This procedure already exists out there in the world.	/r/MensRights	04/03/24 08:39 AM
-33	With abortion access limited, Planned Parenthood turns to offering vasectomies Bruh they were a service that mainly focused on helping AFTER conception of a child. That is inevitably going to be a service mainly focused on women. Now they’re branching into preventative measures, which can include men more than before. How on earth do you find a way to get upset at this? Insane.	/r/MensRights	04/03/24 05:53 AM
4	Why tf are female to female compliments considered the norm, while male to male compliments are considered "gay"? Bro, you need better mates. I’m always talking up the boys and giving them compliments, and they give ‘em back. This hasn’t been a thing for like 15 years.	/r/MensRights	27/02/24 02:03 PM
1	Why is that husband being afraid of wife is taken jokingly but opposite is seen as serious issue? It’s a fucking weird thing to complain about the same jokes you make. Not you specifically, just generally. Men say this shit as a joke, so it’s tough to get mad at “society” when that same sentence isn’t taken seriously.	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 04:14 AM
0	Why is that husband being afraid of wife is taken jokingly but opposite is seen as serious issue? Your dad made a joke about this on multiple occasions, and he was joking about it, a common joke that men make, but you wonder why people don’t take men seriously when they say it? Have you ever heard of this little boy who cried wolf?	/r/MensRights	23/02/24 02:15 PM
1	Why is that husband being afraid of wife is taken jokingly but opposite is seen as serious issue? Because men and women are different. Odds that I’m scared of any given woman are low, it’s not as believable, it’s straight up not nearly as likely. I can hear people thinking “but it still happens”. Sure, it happens, but more often it’s a woman who is scared of a man, and there is a more legitimate cause for concern. Men can harm women much more easily than women can harm men. In all those woke debates and threads, trans issues, etc, there’s always comments about how men and women are different…	/r/MensRights	23/02/24 02:12 PM
2	Would you guys hook up with a toxic girl? I feel like most people don’t get your last sentence. Like all these assumptions get placed automatically on sexual relationships. Hell nah.	/r/seduction	18/02/24 11:04 AM
2	Would you guys hook up with a toxic girl? Keep your boundaries firm, don’t do anything you don’t want to do, don’t get emotionally invested, and keep it wrapped. Bon appetit.	/r/seduction	18/02/24 11:03 AM
6	Date with a Feminist Why tf are you discussing all this on a first date? Just go get laid man	/r/MensRights	17/02/24 02:08 AM
2	Am I less of a man for crying? I think it’s important to note that while crying doesn’t make you less of a man, or not one at all (that notion is ridiculous), it should be said that crying isn’t always an objectively fine thing. Do you cry at the slightest confrontation with a coworker or customer or stress in general? Are you breaking down for 6 months over the break up of a short term partner? Emotions are fine, but they can also be symptoms of greater problems. I don’t think I’ve ever been actually depressed, but I tear up…	/r/MensRights	06/02/24 05:37 AM
13	For those who were anti-MRA, then realized the truth and are now here, what's your story? Coming from a left wing, single mother home, I always thought of women as victims. Poor women, ya know. Then I started to see how many of them were exploiting the same issues I thought made them victims, such as being weaker or objectified, to their advantage. Dating more just in general helped me see more of life from their perspectives, rather than just hearing “patriarchy bad”. I’m still left leaning, I’m not very conservative or traditional, fairly progressive, but it’s clear that some areas…	/r/MensRights	05/01/24 04:22 AM
-1	Why is so much pornography emasculating towards white men? If they don’t face it because they make money off it, same can be said of the men, so no issue on either side. This post is pathetic. Men should be better than this.	/r/MensRights	02/01/24 02:21 AM
-14	Why is so much pornography emasculating towards white men? That is this sub for the most part. It’s a stones throw from MGTOW at times. Being degraded in porn is clearly an issue women face infinitely more than men, but this sub will be like “yeah white men are being degraded, something needs to be done”. Like what? My guys, we’re totally fine in this arena, fuck me.	/r/MensRights	02/01/24 01:00 AM
-17	Why is so much pornography emasculating towards white men? If you convert a straight man, he wasn’t really straight to begin with. The kids thing is fucked up. None of this content should have anything to do with what kids might want. It’s wild that they’re even considering how their content might “help” children.	/r/MensRights	02/01/24 12:58 AM
3	Why is so much pornography emasculating towards white men? Bro what the fuck, if there was ever an issue that affects women more than men, it’s certainly being degraded in porn. As for cuckold and femdom, those are genres that the viewer would want to see themself in, so not degrading plus presumably America being one of the largest markets and producers of porn, it’s going to be white centric, same as any other category in porn. It’s usually white male actors except for the specific categories about black men.	/r/MensRights	02/01/24 12:55 AM
0	Skinny faggot to jacked chad - a guide. Hard disagree. Deadlifts won’t hurt you eventually. You’re probably assuming that every deadlift needs to be close to a 1RM, or that people are doing it until failure each set. I include them at higher rep ranges, and never get close to a 10 RPE. They’re just a fantastic movement.	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/23 06:32 AM
5	Skinny faggot to jacked chad - a guide. It’s actually quite annoying. If you’re going to do shit wrong, don’t do any exercises. Stay home. But if you do it right, deadlifts are great. You don’t need to dry your CNS and do 1-3 rep ranges every 2 days. Do deadlifts with an 8-15 rep range, at a 6-8 RPE. They’re a fantastic movement that offers a tonne of benefits. It’s not just for powerlifting. I compare it to bench. Sure, you CAN do your 1RM on bench, or you can do 20 reps. Doesn’t mean that bench press is inherently risky or anything.	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/23 06:30 AM
6	Skinny faggot to jacked chad - a guide. For biceps and triceps, maybe others, I wouldn’t say you need 10-20 isolated exercises. Personally I include pull exercises in my 20 bicep sets. That being said, this workout is pretty poor. OP, if this is your personal workout, fine, but don’t go around recommending workouts if you don’t know what you’re talking about.	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/23 06:26 AM
20	New Zealand girls are sluts. Why? I love the red pill. Helped transform me into a better man after a break up some years back. But some of you fuckers need to go go touch grass.	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/23 12:22 AM
1	Woman Of 3 Kills Her Kids And Tries To Kill Herself While Husband Is Out Getting Medicine For Them She’s a monster, but what’s this got to do with men’s rights? Because the deranged bitch mentioned it was a man’s voice? That’s a thin link. Too much random bs posted here. Losing sight of the whole point of the sub.	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 07:01 AM
39	Women work harder than men worldwide, conclude two female researchers Ah yes, Tibet. A very accurate representation of the world’s population.	/r/MensRights	10/01/23 02:49 AM
2	Being fatphobic is the same as being racist and sexist Last thing they need is to be fed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 10:06 AM
2	Being fatphobic is the same as being racist and sexist If I smoke a pack a day, then get lung cancer, then while I didn’t choose to get cancer, it’s sure as shit my fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 10:06 AM
-2	Man legally changes gender to female to get custody of daughters amid outrage Languages have names, not people.	/r/MensRights	08/01/23 01:18 AM
-12	blatantly sexist rhetoric in r/FunnyandSad. Makes sense to me. If all men are gone, then the men who commit these crimes and what not are gone, so it makes sense that they’d feel safer. Feminists can say some dumb shit, but this makes sense (albeit it’s an odd hypothetical but whatever).	/r/MensRights	27/12/22 08:35 AM
2	Question for all fellow men Hardly going to let a TV show I don’t care about upset me or impact me at all tbh. I’ve heard a few things about it, but it’s just one of the many shows and movies that exist. Some are good, some are bad. I like some, I don’t like others. It really doesn’t matter.	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 08:14 AM
1	I just had a recent thought I hear what you’re saying, and agree 100%, but you’re posting in this sub where we all agree with you anyway (for the most part, at least). I’d be interested to hear what a civil discussion would look like in like a feminist group on these points. I’d love to hear their logic.	/r/MensRights	27/08/22 08:33 AM
2	What do you like the most about being male? No periods or risk of pregnancy, easily. Every time it comes up for my girlfriend, I just can not believe they go through that. Fuck that shit.	/r/MensRights	09/07/22 10:44 AM
1	What does MGTOW mean? The thing is, there are groups of women who say the same thing about MGTOW, and yet both groups can’t believe the injustice when their own is criticised in such a way. FDS women probably have their reasons, same as MGTOW/TRP men have theirs. Shitting on the other side has never helped anyone.	/r/MensRights	26/06/22 09:57 PM
0	Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to Choose That first line is pretty shitty logic to build a community around. What if women’s logic ends up being “I’ll support a man’s right to choose as much as they support my right to choose”? It pretty much is for a lot of them, and for a lot of men. And nothing happens. Neither side seems to support the other side in their right to choose. So this thinking gets neither party anywhere, which I believe is the point of what OP posted about, although I don’t want to put words in their mouth. I at least …	/r/MensRights	25/06/22 06:41 AM
5	Google portrays two very similar movements quite differently That’s the thing, you can’t draw that conclusion from Google search numbers alone. That’s far from logical. You can make assumptions and even educated guesses from step one, but we must be careful to make sure any arguments or positions we take make sense.	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 11:36 PM
5	This is the first time I've ever come across suck blatant hate. This it so depressing. Also what do you guys think of this issue? I mean, I can understand that, but it doesn’t mean we need to turn it into a circlejerk community who don’t use common sense. I was literally just scrolling, made a quick comment I thought could help, and moved on. No big deal. In any case, I feel like I and most of the people who have replied to me are just talking past each other. Have a good one man.	/r/MensRights	02/11/21 12:22 PM
-16	This is the first time I've ever come across suck blatant hate. This it so depressing. Also what do you guys think of this issue? I mean, I tried to offer some useful advice. It wasn’t like a scolding “you MUST do this”, just a comment in passing, and this sub has downvoted me quite a lot. Doesn’t seem all that different from what you’re describing there, but maybe I’m missing a difference?	/r/MensRights	02/11/21 12:12 PM
3	This is the first time I've ever come across suck blatant hate. This it so depressing. Also what do you guys think of this issue? If you read my comment properly (and understood it I suppose), you’d see I’m not blaming him. Just pointing out that if something happens once, it could be a coincidence. If it happens a few times, you might just be unlucky. But if a pattern is starting to form, maybe you want to look at your own contributions too. But hey bro, you do you. I just think it could be helpful, and if he doesn’t think so, fine.	/r/MensRights	02/11/21 12:11 PM
0	This is the first time I've ever come across suck blatant hate. This it so depressing. Also what do you guys think of this issue? Yeah I assumed you might have been just talking hyperbolically. But it’s just a friendly comment man. There’s a difference between taking blame and taking responsibility. But another commenter already “told me off” for trying to give you some advice so it’s whatever.	/r/MensRights	02/11/21 08:55 AM
-1	This is the first time I've ever come across suck blatant hate. This it so depressing. Also what do you guys think of this issue? Well why would that matter?	/r/MensRights	02/11/21 08:53 AM
-11	This is the first time I've ever come across suck blatant hate. This it so depressing. Also what do you guys think of this issue? Oh I’m not worried about who he blames, but maybe he can do something that prevents him from having to deal with these painful women in his life. Just because he doesn’t blame all women, doesn’t mean he’s actually addressed what’s happening. He might just continue on with awful relationships, still not blaming all women, but suffering nonetheless. They’re two different points.	/r/MensRights	02/11/21 08:45 AM
-49	This is the first time I've ever come across suck blatant hate. This it so depressing. Also what do you guys think of this issue? Whoa chill man, just some advice. It’s the same as women who say “all men blah blah blah”. Typically, she’s doing something that results in the men’s behaviour. Just saying, but you do you my man, take care.	/r/MensRights	02/11/21 08:39 AM
-76	This is the first time I've ever come across suck blatant hate. This it so depressing. Also what do you guys think of this issue? My man, if you’ve been abused by EVERY woman who has been a part of your life, I’d take a long look at what’s going on, because chances are, you’re responsible for something there. I know you might just be exaggerating to make a point, but if it really is 100%, just take a moment. Maybe you could improve something on your end. Solid point though about blaming the individual, not the demographic. That’s a pretty big red flag right there.	/r/MensRights	02/11/21 08:34 AM
1	So apparently just because I'm a male I have to pay more for car insurance than a female? I’m sure that’s true tbh, and I’m not from America, I don’t know how your health care system works (I know it’s not something I envy). But it’s not like one person or one group of people decide what car insurance and health insurance should cost. These are very different companies, governed by being in completely different industries with different regulations and practices. If you aren’t happy with health care costs being the same, that is a different problem to the car insurance thing. So it s…	/r/MensRights	29/10/21 11:35 PM
1	So apparently just because I'm a male I have to pay more for car insurance than a female? I wonder how much of that is child birth/pregnancy associated stuff too though. Women also have vastly different birth control methods to us men, including the rod.	/r/MensRights	29/10/21 11:32 PM
1	So apparently just because I'm a male I have to pay more for car insurance than a female? Dude that isn’t sexism anymore than any other differences between gender are sexism. Men cost insurance companies more. Same as young drivers without their full licence having to pay more. Insurance companies aren’t exactly philanthropists, but you can hardly blame them for charging their more costly drivers more on their premiums.	/r/MensRights	29/10/21 11:30 PM
4	So just speaking up for men brands me an incel 🤷‍♂️ Wait you were banned because you follow another sub? I follow plenty of subreddits of things I don’t agree with necessarily, things that have nothing to do with me or my values. It can be interesting and helps prevent me from never questioning things. But regardless, you should be allowed to follow subs from both sides of an argument.	/r/MensRights	13/09/21 08:36 AM
1	Sick and Tired of being told: As a man you can't possibly understand why women are so upset about this new abortion law in Texas The weird thing you said was about women’s shoes being too small. Completely irrelevant. Um no. Waste of both of our time continuing this conversation much longer I think you’d agree. Just my own bit of personal advice to you would be to not make everything about men’s rights. This sub loses what makes it a positive place if you do that for every hot topic that makes headlines.	/r/MensRights	04/09/21 12:24 AM
1	Sick and Tired of being told: As a man you can't possibly understand why women are so upset about this new abortion law in Texas The first person to know about a woman getting an abortion will always be the woman, and the woman herself will be the most sued person in most cases. With your logic, any law that applies to everyone is a men’s issue. That’s the ridiculously narrow minded view here. It’s also an indirect issue. The major issue is women can’t get abortions. That’s the main point of what is happening.	/r/MensRights	04/09/21 12:22 AM
1	Sick and Tired of being told: As a man you can't possibly understand why women are so upset about this new abortion law in Texas That’s a weird thing to say. Again, this has nothing to do with men. I think there are absolutely cases where men get screwed. Doesn’t mean women don’t. This is a loss for women and there’s no reason to be happy about it, and I think it’s petty to make everything that ever happens relate back to men’s rights. Every group of people have their own issues and battles at different points in time.	/r/MensRights	04/09/21 12:15 AM
1	Sick and Tired of being told: As a man you can't possibly understand why women are so upset about this new abortion law in Texas Well it’s the same as anything. We can try and put ourselves in the shoes of another person, but ultimately we can’t understand it completely. Now does that mean we can’t have an opinion? Well, I wouldn’t want to say a blanket yes or no to that, it’s too broad. However this law has nothing to do with men’s rights. We all have our own battles on both sides, but this law is a loss for Texan women, no matter how many battles we have as men.	/r/MensRights	03/09/21 11:48 AM
13	I don’t even know how to react to this Unfortunately these people exist in life. It’s important not to let their views affect us. Men like this exist with similar views of women. There are just some shitty people in life. Hope OP is doing well, as I do the rest of you kings.	/r/MensRights	03/09/21 11:39 AM
2	I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned. To add to this, I’ve recently been liking adding in a hand on the side of the face and the neck, see how she reacts to a bit of light force. This helps set the stage as not just a light make out session, but as the beginning of foreplay. It’s also not an erogenous zone so you can’t get in trouble if the girl isn’t feeling it.	/r/seduction	28/08/21 12:28 AM
-4	When a crazy young man kills Jews we blame the White supremacist group he follows (rightly so) so when a crazy young woman kills her male children because she follows feminism, shouldn't we blame feminism? I think the problem is more with white supremacy being such a huge problem. Race is at the centre of a lot, especially in America at the moment and in the last few years. That to me explains why white supremacists get the blame for a nutter going and killing people. And like you, I should say, rightly so. The difference to me is the same as when a crazy guy kills people or even just commits a crime and he happens to be Muslim, we don’t blame the whole of Islam, because Islam isn’t espousing thes…	/r/MensRights	23/06/21 02:07 AM
35	Whats ur routine for first 3 dates? Well they often give you a free coffee for every 5th or 10th coffee you get. One date is 2-4 coffees if you get two each, and there’s an older lady there who sometimes gives me an extra stamp or two if I make conversation with her. It’s just economic mate haha plus it is genuinely my local, so my housemate and I sometimes pop down there if we have a day off together	/r/askTRP	13/06/21 05:53 AM
28	Whats ur routine for first 3 dates? Date one always a coffee. Happy to pay for this myself, often the girl shouts. Feel each other out basically. I don’t like building rapport and getting to know someone over text so I try and set this up pronto. Get a loyalty card at your local cafe guys. Date two depends on the girl and how date one went, what sort of vibes I’m getting from her and what I’d want from her. If I don’t see anything resembling serious with her, I try and get her over to mine straight away. I’m a bartender and have a…	/r/askTRP	13/06/21 05:45 AM
2	Gf chick not giving in “Close her”? There’s a lot wrong with this post. Firstly, if she’s your girlfriend, you shouldn’t have to use this terminology because it’s less about running game. You don’t have to “close” a repeat customer in sales who’s subscribed. You just have to not lose them. She should be coming over regularly whenever you want her to, or you to hers. The fact she isn’t tells me you’re using the term “girlfriend” very loosely here. Secondly, if you’re on and off with a girl, that’s almost never healthy.…	/r/askTRP	08/06/21 12:07 PM
1	Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ? It highlights men admiring men, but it’s not as accurate when it implies women don’t care. They do. Build that body gents, guys will want to be you and gals will want to be with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 05:54 AM
2	Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ? Pretty sure dude was joking haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 05:53 AM
0	Magdalena Skipper (Nature EIC): what did it take for her to start caring about suicide? You’re an idiot. Not only did I already address the fact that the tweet has been misunderstood by OP, but you just called my post better than OP’s. I know that’s not what you meant, but if you can’t even get the greater than sign correct... Also white knighting? Eesh. That’s the default, go-to insult I guess. Listen, we don’t all care about every battle and problem that exists equally. The ones we do care about, we each have different associations to them. The hypocrisy here is astounding. How m…	/r/MensRights	30/05/21 06:57 AM
1	Magdalena Skipper (Nature EIC): what did it take for her to start caring about suicide? Bro nobody is saying that. This woman is trying to build mental health awareness. From the context of her tweet, it looks like she’s focused on countries that aren’t even Japan. She’s just using them as a reference point. It looks like you’ve just seen the word “women” and gone on the defensive. The short and sweet of it is, this tweet is a positive thing for the world. This subreddit has a lot of good stuff that’s also good for the world, but what is your post aiming to do? Simply bash on this …	/r/MensRights	29/05/21 01:54 PM
5	We fucked and I got ghosted I believe the “don’t double text” advice is good, but I think it’s misunderstood. From a purely game perspective, it’s actually not horrible. Like, if a chick isn’t all that interested but you could send her another message that might get her back, then why not, right? And from experience, I have done this before and it has worked. The reason I now don’t double text and would advocate men do the same is for our benefit. When you double text, you are giving in to this concept that you need her. L…	/r/askTRP	29/05/21 12:32 PM
3	Magdalena Skipper (Nature EIC): what did it take for her to start caring about suicide? To be fair, she said there had been a rise in suicide rates. Maybe that percentage of women committing suicide has risen much more comparatively than the male numbers have. That would be a noteworthy statistic, and something plenty of men would care about if this were reversed. There’s a difference between advocating for men, and bashing women (or bashing those who advocate for women). One is respectable, the other is not.	/r/MensRights	29/05/21 12:21 PM
3	Had a girl over today that was crazy about me. We started making out then she tells me we're not compatible. I’d take a serious look at how you are in the bedroom and if you’re a good kisser or not. This post to me feels like you came so close to the answer, touched on the problems, and then hamstered your way into justifying it as “she’s just hung up over her ex”. Maybe she is, but she came over intending to fuck you and you performed, it sounds like, poorly. Physical compatibility with someone can come after some time, but the first time isn’t necessarily awkward or shit either. I’d take a look at wh…	/r/askTRP	24/05/21 12:23 AM
5	How to end it decently with a woman who's beneath your SMV, without hurting your ego, leaving you without closure or making it awkward if you ever see her around? I’m not that other guy, but you’re overthinking this. For starters, you probably shouldn’t be having text conversations so much. My advice to you for your original question is to send a text. Like you, I don’t like ghosting. It’s straight up rude and I’m not that guy. However I also don’t like slowly texting less and less. That’s just playing a game and wasting your time because you’re afraid of confronting the issue. Simply send a text being clear. Then it’s over. Who cares if she doesn’t respo…	/r/askTRP	06/05/21 11:56 PM
1	CMV: The woke crowd is doing little to nothing to address the legitimate grievances of men. They can't expect acceptance and support in return. Frankly this is an immature view to hold. Men have had a much easier time historically than women. We have our issues, hundred percent. But if you gave me the choice, I’d choose being a man every day of the week. Anyway, the main problem with your line of thinking really just comes down to the base of your perspective. Forget men and women for a second, you’re saying that you can’t support a movement that doesn’t directly benefit you. What about movements such as cancer and other disease awarene…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/21 02:41 AM
1	Using a slut financially? If you are only seeing her because of the financial aspect, you are using her for money. Guys will complain when women do that to us men so I believe the respectable thing to do would not be to use her money. It’s pitiful as a man to not pay your own way in this world, especially if you follow any notion of becoming your best self in a red pill sense. A girl you’re seeing getting you gifts is fine but you’ll know deep down whether what you are doing is wrong or not. It’s odd to see so many repli…	/r/askTRP	04/04/21 11:37 PM
1	Sex toys for men seem to be rarely talked about seriously yet women who buy sex toys are “empowered”. Why? Want to change the perception of owning a sex you? Own it. I’ve got one, it’s actually quite good. It’s just another item you can use in the bedroom, and you can even use it with a partner. There’s another one I’ve been considering getting recently which like wraps around your penis and vibrates. Meant to be able to be used in a few different ways solo or with a partner. There’s no shame in owning one as a guy or a girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 05:52 AM
3	She's not yours, it's just ... I only really hear it said to guys who still pedestalise the girl. The message that needs to be driven home first is that it’s just your turn, and I think that’s probably a slightly earlier lesson most guys need to learn than “you are the prize”. Hard to consider yourself the prize while you still prize one woman.	/r/askTRP	01/04/21 11:04 PM
2	Men or women are not "privileged". There are just some advantages/disadvantages of being man/woman and they just envy each others advantages while overlooking the disadvantages. This is something I clued into myself a while ago, and now, as someone fairly left wing, I just can’t get on board with a lot of the conversations I witness	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 09:42 PM
1	Why the fuck are women so broken mentally? If his comment was to a guy about finding a high quality woman, then it would be his definition of a high quality woman, not an arbitrary amount of women.	/r/askTRP	05/03/21 10:52 PM
3	Why the fuck are women so broken mentally? Some guys and girls only care about sex and validation. Welcome to the world.	/r/askTRP	05/03/21 10:51 PM
2	The real reason they hate MGTOW Yeah this is (one of) my problem with MGTOW. The majority of their community just spends time bashing on women with incredibly toxic and illogical approaches. Nothing gets achieved, it’s just a circle jerk of men who have been hurt and have been this far unable to repair themselves. I’m red pill, and even within TRP there’s small groups of toxicity I dissociate with, but I’ve found an incredibly positive sub-community of guys and it’s worlds apart from MGTOW.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/20 07:48 AM
1	Opinions on girls who show off their bodies online Why do we think anything of this behaviour? They can do them. As a guy who hits the gym, I love an excuse to post a selfie showing off my body. In my eyes, it’s no different to wearing nice clothes out in public, or posting the new model car you bought. You’re flexing on the gram - for all intents and purposes it’s the same shit. If you are vetting for a LTR, then you can determine by your own set of values what you deem acceptable or not in your partner, but it seems disingenuous to look down o…	/r/askTRP	09/12/20 07:25 AM
11	Couples with unbalanced sexual histories. I am the man they were replying to, and can guarantee you I view women as much more than holes. This is exactly the reason that a number doesn’t concern me; because women are way more than that. I wouldn’t settle with a virgin either because they could display their own red flags for example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/20 04:06 AM
7	Couples with unbalanced sexual histories. No, there’s a level where I would not promote past a plate or FWB status, but it’s also not that big of a deal. Basically, you wouldn’t treat your LTR the same way as a one night stand, and there’s a scale. There’s also differences in what you will and won’t allow for in people, depending on your relationship with them. So for a LTR, whom I would be vetting thoroughly before committing to in any serious way, I would be making sure she hasn’t slept around too much, not so much because of the numb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/20 04:05 AM
4	Couples with unbalanced sexual histories. I used to care, now I don’t. I’m quite red pilled though, some guys from a Discord im part of set me straight and over time (as well as after increasing my number), I really don’t care anymore. It’s freeing, I’d encourage you to attempt to learn to not care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/20 02:17 AM
1	How do you explain men redpill would consider 10/10s still getting horrible results with women? RP is not anti-marriage, you should just be absolutely clear on what the point of getting married is. Some of the most red guys I’ve chatted with online are married. To be fair, actually it’s only 2 of them, but it’s not anti-marriage at all, in the same sense it’s not anti-LTR, but just make sure you’re doing both for the right reasons with the right woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 01:37 AM
5	Talk to pretty girls. “Hey how’s it going? What’s your name? ... Nice to meet you, I’m aspiretobeinspired. I’m actually just (whatever you’re doing) but I’ll kick myself later if I don’t ask you out for a coffee sometime. What do you say?” It can be less verbose than that too. “Hey what’s up, put your number in here and we’ll get drinks sometime.” It’s honestly really simple, we tend to overthink it a lot. You can analyse why this or that approach does or doesn’t work, and you can tailor your approach to suit yoursel…	/r/seduction	21/11/20 12:49 PM
1	As an average guy, when did you finally start getting girls you considered out of you leauge, and what did you do to achieve that? Like others have touched on, the best way to get better quality girls is to be a better quality guy. Once I figured this out, it wasn’t long. Working out was the biggest bang for my buck. It is the best feeling to have a girl you think is hot in bed just admiring your body. 10/10 would recommend you put in the time to achieve a quality body at some stage in your life. The other thing I wanted to say though is that I don’t think these women were actually out of my league, I think I was just under…	/r/seduction	08/11/20 08:46 PM
0	Mgtow vs redpill Very different. At least in terms of their subreddit, MGTOW is largely just bitter men complaining about “women bad men good”. Lots of incel vibes coming from there. Red pill is broader, it’s largely a sexual strategy but taking the red pill applies to many areas of life. The subreddit sidebar is a fantastic resource, and while it’s often misinterpreted, TRP has been an overwhelmingly positive influence in my life personally. As with all things though, it’s important for you to be able to make a…	/r/RedPillBooks	28/07/20 08:03 AM
4	Girlfriend is meeting up with someone she met on the subway the other day, what do? I agree. Wait it out, see what happens. If you’re asking a question like this OP, the experience will be good for you in the long run.	/r/askTRP	26/07/20 09:41 PM
1	Why is it that hardcore SJW's always have white boyfriends? Who cares.	/r/askTRP	03/07/20 09:47 AM
1	Question for Women: How does your ability to have casual sex with really attractive men affect your perception of your attractiveness and expectations for the men you can marry? ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/20 11:19 AM
12	You soon will be 'cancelled' for dating a younger woman It’s gotta be a reflection of your cool life. When you go do fun shit, build shit, achieve shit, etc, take a pic. I also like to post stories when I’m on dates that imply I’m with an unknown girl but not reveal who it is, and still maintain my single status, confirming social proof.	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/20 09:50 AM
-4	I got permabanned from r/gendercritical and called a misogynist for believing men and women should work together to help solve gender problems You can say this about many men’s groups as well, let’s not presume it’s just feminist groups that do this.	/r/MensRights	15/06/20 04:09 AM
23	Do you hold contempt against women who reject you at your worst but want you at your best? Yeah 100% and someone else mentioned that we’ve done all this work to improve ourselves, did we not expect attention that we previously didn’t get? Why would we deny ourselves exactly what we’ve working to achieve?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 08:50 PM
2	Discovering TRP is one of the the best things that can happen to a man. It’s interesting, the subreddit first TRP is a mess. There is value in the sidebar and some posts from over the years by endorsed contributors. Then there is a TRP discord that has some really insightful practitioners who have not only had success but also understand the nuances of TRP and how to apply them practically. TRP has been a massive help for me, and I believe it offers value, but because it’s not a topic like psychology or medicine which has been studied and has an agreed upon structur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/20 03:17 AM
1	Absolutely beautiful gem from /r/sex: “Overheard my girlfriend of two years saying her ex was better in bed to her friend” I think you would benefit from trying to expand your view of people and the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 09:09 PM
1	Absolutely beautiful gem from /r/sex: “Overheard my girlfriend of two years saying her ex was better in bed to her friend” You’re implying there that hook up culture is a negative thing, and if context matters then it’s not the number which means the number alone means nothing. You’re literally contradicting both yourself and other commenters here. Legitimately ridiculous view points. Whether or not a girl is mentally and maturely healthy enough to have a relationship with you is for each guy to decide based on the individual girl. The number of sexual partners she has had will not tell you this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 08:46 PM
-4	Absolutely beautiful gem from /r/sex: “Overheard my girlfriend of two years saying her ex was better in bed to her friend” And yet us guys try and sleep with as many girls as possible before we settle down, and expect our partner to have been a nun. Grow up. If we can get it, so can they. Means nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 09:04 AM
-5	Absolutely beautiful gem from /r/sex: “Overheard my girlfriend of two years saying her ex was better in bed to her friend” Are you sure? That seems awfully low.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 08:53 AM
-4	Absolutely beautiful gem from /r/sex: “Overheard my girlfriend of two years saying her ex was better in bed to her friend” That makes no sense. Fat and obese are defined words. 10 being high or not is completely relevant to context, and these days it is not hard to find people much higher than 10.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 08:53 AM
-8	Absolutely beautiful gem from /r/sex: “Overheard my girlfriend of two years saying her ex was better in bed to her friend” Bro you are insecure as fuck, double digits is nothing. 10 counts as double digits. You have a warped perspective if you think 10 is high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/20 08:37 AM
2	People using the “#killallmen”on twitter try to play it off as a joke and use false equivalency to justify it. I don’t know, I feel like a lot of people usually say that we should stop political correctness and that there are no limits when it comes to humour. Joking about killing all men is fine in my eyes. It’s the same thing as joking about many controversial topics. If you have ever rolled your eyes at someone who was complaining about a joke, then you can’t complain about women joking about killing us.	/r/MensRights	14/05/20 07:45 AM
2	Sluts mean more to men than non-sluts ever will. So it all comes down to priorities. More emotionally mature men will not place a woman/sex above more important things in life such as himself and his life. There are men who seem to be so focused on sex and nothing else, but there are also men who seem to be focused on their careers and nothing else, or even video games and nothing else, and a tonne more. Your entire premise is based on the shaky statement that men view sex as the ultimate goal above all else. This is not true, and I would retr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/20 09:58 PM
3	For those of you who used to give off a dull, boring vibe, and just had a boring personality in general, how did you fix it? It’s less about you coming up with the right thing to say, and more making what you say the right thing because you said it. So like, whatever you say is the right thing to say in that situation because you’re a confident chad-esque motherfucker and there is no universe that exists where you would say the wrong thing, ergo what you say must be the right thing to say.	/r/askTRP	26/04/20 02:13 AM
1	Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamy Idk Joe tried to explain that and she said it was more of “no please stop hitting me” type thing. I think her whole point was that the one thing he was meant to be great at, he wasn’t even doing properly with the right spirit. She said she’d date a guy who aces her at at least one thing. Presumably for this guy it was meant to be fighting and he couldn’t even do that. This is classic hypergamy for sure, but let’s not assume that this guy wasn’t just a beta.	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/20 10:47 AM
3	Elon Musk knocked up Grimes.. how long til court? Normal amount, 6-7 hours. I try and take it almost first thing after my morning routine, so it’s well before 12 when I take it.	/r/askTRP	06/03/20 02:21 AM
0	Elon Musk knocked up Grimes.. how long til court? I wouldn’t knock modafinil but that’s just what Tim said, and the guy treats himself like a lab rat.	/r/askTRP	06/03/20 12:54 AM
2	Elon Musk knocked up Grimes.. how long til court? Friend gets it online, I get him to order me some too	/r/askTRP	06/03/20 12:52 AM
3	Elon Musk knocked up Grimes.. how long til court? Friend gets it online, I give him money to buy me some from time to time	/r/askTRP	06/03/20 12:52 AM
5	Elon Musk knocked up Grimes.. how long til court? Who says I miss sleep? Take a half dose before lunch time and you’re Gucci	/r/askTRP	06/03/20 12:51 AM
4	Elon Musk knocked up Grimes.. how long til court? Not at all, at least not that I experienced. I only buy a few here and there though, so I force myself to space them out. Perhaps if I bought in bulk, I’d pop them like tic tacs but I doubt it. Building up a tolerance is possible which defeats the purpose, so its in your best interest to not take them too often.	/r/askTRP	06/03/20 12:08 AM
13	Elon Musk knocked up Grimes.. how long til court? I’ve heard Tim Ferriss say that modafinil is really a pretty basic entry level nootropic. He’s put out a fair bit of content, he’d likely have better suggestions than modafinil, although I will say it helped me so maybe it’s best to start with the entry level ones anyway.	/r/askTRP	05/03/20 11:46 PM
2	‘I need you to text me more, it makes me think you aren’t interested’ The most recent girl I’ve started sleeping with, I’ve tried to scale back my texting as I’d become aware I was replying too often. Never to a detrimental extent, but I did want to scale back and see what happened. She made a couple of remarks about me being a shit replier, joking that I’m ghosting her, etc. I think in my case, they were more likely comfort tests. I think if a girl brings this up, it usually is a comfort test. As others have said, hold frame. Nothing is going to blow up in your f…	/r/askTRP	05/03/20 10:21 AM
6	Guys who are into fitness - how good of a shape did you have to get into before you've noticed your SMV clearly increase? I don’t think what that guy is saying is true. How often will women see you with a shirt on vs shirt off? A few times in Summer compared to all year round? As long as your body fat percentage isn’t too high, build muscle before worrying about cutting, at least in terms of SMV. For me, a skinny guy, I worked out for 6 months before women noticed, and I’m 7 months in now. I’m just getting started so I haven’t “maxed out” my physical looks by any means, but already I’ve had multiple women complimen…	/r/askTRP	15/01/20 01:52 PM
1	Don't Settle. I believe you’re wrong. Women are better and more feminine/beautiful before they hit their wall, absolutely correct there. However they are never the prize. You are, always, and you get to decide who you give the prize to; a beautiful woman in her early 20’s or a woman past her prime at 35. The prizes in this world generally go to the best. What you are touching on is a genuine concept though. In the sexual market place, for the average guy, with no other considerations, women in their late teen…	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/19 10:20 PM
2	I'm a 19y/o boy with major jealousy issues when my Gf talks about other dudes. Despite me being the first guy to do anything sexual with her. How do I overcome this jealous y I used to be the same as you, I got jealous way easier than I liked. In my experience, it became better over time. Now, I could have a plate who I think is sleeping with other guys and I won’t care. I will damn sure be watching my relationship with her closely, and making sure I don’t do anything serious with her, but if the relationship is just sex, it’s just sex. I think another comment about abundance mentality is the way to go for you, pairing that with another comment about how you’re too y…	/r/askTRP	22/12/19 08:17 AM
21	Anybody else embarrassed as fuck after a night out? You know alcohol leads to all these negative consequences. What do you think you could do about it? Think about that, and then do it.	/r/askTRP	21/12/19 01:15 PM
5	Do you guys ask girls what they like during sex? and how they prefer to cum? I think sex is a little more nuanced than you’re implying here. Getting a woman to cum is one of the hottest things for me in bed. It does more for me than any position does. You don’t have to be a “subordinate” to please a woman. There’s a spectrum, and if you’re fucking a woman already, and have been for a while (which is the situation I was giving advice for), then you’ve already established the frame of the relationship and you should have a good rapport physically and sexually. The advice I…	/r/askTRP	16/12/19 08:48 AM
2	Do you guys ask girls what they like during sex? and how they prefer to cum? To start with, just do your thing and pay attention. Shouldn’t be too hard. Eventually they’ll either tell you through dirty talk what they want, or you can ask them. How do you want me, tell me what you like, do you like that, tell me what you want, etc are all good in the moment.	/r/askTRP	16/12/19 07:57 AM
1	What to do with girls who are bad in the bedroom? Curious, which fats are meant to help with T? I’ll avoid polyunsaturated.	/r/askTRP	12/12/19 11:57 PM
1	Kiss on Oprah discussing RedPill theory on an audience full of women Yeah it comes down to the underlying motivation, at least for me. I don’t blame Kiss at all, I can’t imagine they were red pilled at the start of their careers. Probably just young, horny guys with some musical talent. But yeah once you’re red pilled and you’ve been working on yourself for a while, I don’t think it’s appropriate to be deciding on career choices based on an urgent desire to sleep with women. Not saying there’s anything inherently wrong with it (although there might be), but it’s …	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/19 01:59 PM
5	Kiss on Oprah discussing RedPill theory on an audience full of women I don't think it's as simple as wanting to fuck lots of women. I wouldn't say that goes against TRP. If I chose to be a lawyer or a dentist to become rich and use that money to get women, that's very blue pilled. I mean, it's more nuanced than that. Do I like being a lawyer, what sacrifices did I make to get there, etc etc. But it doesn't exactly scream abundance mentality, and it's quite insecure to do. Choosing to read the TRP subreddit is not the same thing as choosing a career, a life, based…	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/19 07:39 AM
0	Kiss on Oprah discussing RedPill theory on an audience full of women One thing I thinks maybe disqualifies them from being RedPilled is if they chose an entire career to get women. That indicates some sort of insecurity for me, to choose what you do based on how likely you will be to get women. They clearly didn’t have an abundance mindset beforehand, and obviously they’re rock stars which they love to do too, but I think it was interesting he said the only reason (or the main reason) he did it was for women.	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/19 01:20 AM
13	Some crazy shit happened. Did I handle the situation correctly? You didn’t handle anything, she did. Nothing that happened was a result of what you wanted, it was all what she wanted. If you don’t “fw” that, why did you respond at all? You should have escalated further. Also probably don’t take women to clubs when they just wanna get fucked up. He escalated. You didn’t. Simple as that. Forget her and move on, take the lesson with you.	/r/askTRP	23/11/19 09:56 AM
4	Taking a tinder girl out for drinks tomorrow. Any tips on how I can make the conversation more sexual in a nine creepy way It’s interesting that you want to be sexual without intending to fuck. I feel like this is counter-productive. Your girl may just be like “wtf was that?” And not contact you again. Ideally, work out a way you can smash, but if you can’t, at least ensure you’ve kissed her by the end of the date. What I think you’ll be wanting then is just ways to polarise the interaction; ensure it is clear that you two are a man and a woman interested in each other sexually and you will not end up as friends. To…	/r/seduction	20/11/19 02:10 PM
5	Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bed I don’t disagree with you, but do have a suggestion to overcome LMR?	/r/askTRP	15/09/19 05:40 PM
8	I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no. It may have been a test. More than likely it was a genuine concern. Women are more likely to be worried about things like the dynamic after a relationship may end. She may have been using possible awkwardness to see how you react. Really, it’s impossible to know, which is why my personal advice would be to act congruently with what you want. You wanted to date her and so your text back about it being okay and to tell you if she changed her mind was not acting in accordance with what you wanted. …	/r/seduction	13/09/19 03:04 PM
6	I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no. Pretty much. From your post, she said she was worried. She never mentioned that she was cancelling or saying no, just that she had a concern. With dating and seduction, with women in general, you want to use comfort and reassurance sparingly. You don’t want them to feel like they don’t have to work for you, like they have you wrapped around their finger or anything. That being said, the other reason to use it sparingly is so that when you do need to use it, you can feel free to do it without ove…	/r/seduction	13/09/19 02:50 PM
3	I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no. Mm, well played	/r/seduction	13/09/19 08:15 AM
10	I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no. It’s not really open ended. He acknowledged her hesitation and moved forward with it which is essentially her frame (which may not have necessarily been exactly what she wanted. She may have just wanted some reassurance that it wouldn’t end badly; some comfort). While it is respectful, it’s not really helpful. Plus it wouldn’t have been disrespectful to essentially tell her not to worry about it. Respect was not the issue here.	/r/seduction	13/09/19 08:14 AM
2	I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no. I agree. What’s your point? I said to think of her response as a test; this just helps make the point a little easier.	/r/seduction	13/09/19 08:11 AM
64	I asked a girl I liked out and she said yes, but later she said no. This. Never tell a girl why she shouldn’t fuck you. Let her figure that out for herself. Think of her initial text as a test. You answered it. She just needed a little comfort or reassurance. Or hell, even just quickly address it and move on. You said no, bro. From here on out, it’s going to be harder. I’d soft next for now and pick up toward the end of the season like someone else mentioned, when it won’t matter anyway. Although tip for next time, don’t discuss it ending at all.	/r/seduction	13/09/19 05:06 AM
2	Brutal honesty: How many men has the avg. western women slept with at age 25? I’ve had like three or four girls in a row before tell me 20 exactly, so if you ask, expect them to round down. Girls know that we men often care, so they round down the more emotionally invested they are in the outcome of the relationship. I just don’t ask now. One of Tomassi’s Iron Rules is to never reveal your number and I just don’t care anymore unless I’m vetting for an LTR. Don’t ask. Not asking is easier said than done though. If you care, that’s a problem, especially if you’re just plati…	/r/askTRP	31/08/19 03:27 AM
4	The decline of masculinity is inevitable Yeah you’re fine, Stoicism is both a philosophy and a noun	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/19 06:18 AM
20	How do I respond to this? I did miss that	/r/seduction	23/05/19 11:03 AM
134	How do I respond to this? “Meant to swipe up?”	/r/seduction	23/05/19 04:33 AM
2	How can a single guy experience his first threesome? Single is tough. I almost had a threesome with my ex girlfriend, and that to me seems the easiest way to go, but heavily relies on your girl being open to that.	/r/seduction	16/04/19 10:42 AM
1	How to converse with someone who gives short answers/replies? Well that’s the thing; do they? 🤷🏻‍♂️ haven’t been on tinder much for 2 years	/r/seduction	08/04/19 10:40 AM
7	When a Girl says she has a boyfriend... Prefacing your insults as harsh doesn’t make them more acceptable. I read on because I was reading a topic related to a post I was interested in. I don’t mind reading something harsh, it doesn’t colour my view of anything of value in the rest of the comment, however not everyone thinks that way, and coming across that way in person will only increase the chances of getting the negative version of a response. Just letting you know how some people may perceive your comments. It’s all well and good…	/r/seduction	04/04/19 11:31 AM
12	When a Girl says she has a boyfriend... Good point, OP did say that, which does make it seem like he’s still too much in the “gaming” state of mind after the rejection, still spending too much mental real estate on this girl. However that was in his post, before any of us commented and gave our thoughts and views. I get that it’s sometimes kind of ‘cool’ or edgy to be so direct that it borders on insulting, but your comment seemed unnecessarily harsh for someone that is just asking for an opinion and thoughts on a new tactic he came a…	/r/seduction	04/04/19 11:21 AM
20	When a Girl says she has a boyfriend... The best thing to do is confidently accept it. Simple as that. Whether it’s a “game tactic” or not isn’t specified. Just that confidently accepting it with grace is the best option, which it is, for many purposes, game included, but there are others, such as maintaining your integrity and not letting that rejection hurt your game. The reason it can be a good game tactic though is because of the flow on effects. If you do anything else, you may be thrown off your game and let the rejection get to…	/r/seduction	04/04/19 11:04 AM
35	When a Girl says she has a boyfriend... Yeah you don’t really want to be that guy that’s like questioning her and interrogating her to see if she’s telling the truth or anything. There’s no other possible win-win except for acting like you described.	/r/seduction	04/04/19 11:01 AM
228	When a Girl says she has a boyfriend... I have heard and read this in a fair few places and honestly, I really like it. Worst case scenario, you act like a confident man and can be reassured that you have acted with integrity and respected their rejection. Best case, that same confidence makes her chase you and repositions the entire frame.	/r/seduction	04/04/19 10:38 AM
1	Being bad at seduction seriously affects my self esteem. Success in one area doesn’t necessary correlate to success in another. There are some areas where it may help, but you won’t be able to rely on it. From what I’ve seen, most people work on this for a while. They’re very intentional and honest with themselves. The basics are of course work on yourself; dress better, work out, take care of your skin and hair, improve your posture, verbal and non-verbal communication, etc. After that, I like the idea of failing forward for seduction; put yourself o…	/r/seduction	29/03/19 07:38 AM
1	How to respond to “hey sorry the late response” (still learning the texting game) Take it all with a grain of salt haha	/r/seduction	14/03/19 09:04 PM
2	How to respond to “hey sorry the late response” (still learning the texting game) Honestly, the whole “girls shit test you” thing is overstated. Sure, they can sometimes do things to see how you’ll respond. Is it this negative thing we all call a shit test? I don’t know, but if it is, I don’t think it happens all that often. I would say she probably was a little busy, and clearly you two don’t know each other that well, so she hasn’t had the time to get to know you enough for replying to you to be a bigger priority, so you probably did slip her mind from time to time over tho…	/r/seduction	14/03/19 11:03 AM
2	Is it cheesy or hot to say this to him? Nah not if you’re roleplaying! I like it in that case	/r/seduction	02/03/19 01:33 AM
3	Is it cheesy or hot to say this to him? Context and knowing you both personally are going to affect if it’s cheesy or hot, but your mind is definitely in the right place. My hesitation with this line is it sounds so scripted. I can imagine the femme fatale in a movie saying this to seduce the hero. If you go with something like this, try and make it as natural as possible.	/r/seduction	02/03/19 01:07 AM
2	Guys: Cute or Hot???? Another possibility is the guy wants to compliment you on your looks, but may not be too confident about being so forward. “Damn you’re hot” is really quite forward, whereas saying you’re cute is a little more ‘safe’ of a compliment if you get me.	/r/seduction	27/02/19 10:54 PM
1	Night hang out with the "Chad" gave me a better idea on how to interact with women than a lot of books I have read RSD have a fair few in field videos from what I know, should be easy to find on YouTube.	/r/seduction	26/02/19 10:13 PM
2	[Field Report] From nothing to something in 1 year Do you do 2 rotations of PPL a week, or just one?	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/19 09:54 PM
2	(18M) My acne is becoming a problem with my game - will make up help at a club? Do other guys where any to conceal acne? Preeeeeetty sure that make up can make it worse. I’m a guy so don’t take my word as gospel, but I’m pretty sure I’ve had girls complain to me in the past that it becomes an almost cyclical thing; they have acne so they have to wear make up. The make up causes worse acne, so they have to put on make up to cover it up... so on and so forth.	/r/seduction	17/02/19 12:35 PM
1	What exactly is an "intention"? Will you still be trying to get numbers? Or looking for a one night stand/same day hook up?	/r/seduction	11/02/19 05:22 AM
1	What exactly is an "intention"? What will this change about the way you approach women, or the way your day goes?	/r/seduction	11/02/19 05:18 AM
1	R/MGTOW has become such a toxic place. I was actually hoping it would become better, but this shit happens so often its repulsive. I’m pretty much the same as you. I initially came with the idea that it was all about male improvement, for males by males. That sort of thing. I’ll be honest, I didn’t really know what to expect, but a large portion of the posts are just bashing on women with poorly constructed arguments. There’s definitely some good stuff here, no doubt about it, but you’ve gotta sift through some shit first.	/r/MGTOW	20/12/18 12:10 PM
1	A reminder of who truly pays the price that is modern women, absolutely disgusting. Why would you argue that? Anecdotally, I would say drugs and socio-economic positions are two big contributors, alongside mental illnesses.	/r/MGTOW	20/12/18 12:09 PM
0	R/MGTOW has become such a toxic place. I was actually hoping it would become better, but this shit happens so often its repulsive. Honestly I’m pretty new to MGTOW, but I wasn’t aware that it had anything to do with a specific mindset on women at all, and was more about male empowerment/improvement. That’s what attracted me initially anyway, I could definitely be wrong about that though. What’s the official MGTOW opinion on women? That all of them are the same and have the same negative traits as one another? Is that right?	/r/MGTOW	20/12/18 12:07 PM
1	A reminder of who truly pays the price that is modern women, absolutely disgusting. This is sad, but what are you saying is disgusting? There could be literally hundreds, if not thousands of things to factor in to each death, and this graph shows literally none of them...	/r/MGTOW	20/12/18 11:57 AM
7	Sure you haven't, bud. To be honest, this is way more common than 3%, but it does suck when you get caught with one that doesn’t split.	/r/MGTOW	18/12/18 07:37 AM
2	Meditations I don’t want to meditate for an hour a day, but what is a good length of time to aim for? Is 10 minutes a day enough?	/r/TheRedPill	23/08/18 12:06 PM
1	A Word On AMOGs/Guys Hitting On Your Girl My issue is the mindset and beliefs that are widely spread here. You’ve got value in posts here, but they’re few and far between. That being said, we can continue taking the good from it and leave the rest. But I agree, a lot of poor advice and situations too.	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/18 03:05 AM
13	A Word On AMOGs/Guys Hitting On Your Girl Because he is probably just a guy like us who didn’t know she was with anyone. When he found out, he probably just kept making polite conversation, or he may have found out two seconds before OP came out. So he just did the normal, respectable thing of offering to shake a guy’s hand. Clearly there were no ill intentions like in the other example OP used. He made himself look completely butt hurt by not shaking his hand, like grow up. Shake the man’s hand, then walk off on him.	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/18 11:59 PM
6	What words mean: If you don’t have any friends who are girls, for the sole reason that you only want to fuck them, you need to reassess where you’re at.	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/18 10:20 PM
4	"TRP focuses too much on women" Biology tells us a whole lot more than just to get laid. Which it doesn’t actually tell us, to be honest. It says masculine energies need feminine energies. This comes in many forms and you’re doing yourself a disservice if you think otherwise. Biology though also shows us that those who pursue one single thing to the deference of all others will become unhappy. You can not put so much of your energy into obtaining one thing to become happy. This can easily lead to addictions, loss of friends, f…	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/18 07:28 AM