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Numerous_Working_853/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 04:58 PM
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Yes I do. Everyday. But then I look at the dignity I have preserved by not having to ask my husband for money and then it becomes bearable. But I do really long for a relationship where I am the caregiver and my husband is the provider. And I know it won't happen in this lifetime
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/25 05:57 AM
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Again, you don't have to tell your husband everything about your life. He also has many secrets which he won't ever tell you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/25 05:31 PM
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Not necessary to find a man attractive to date. Like he shouldn't be repulsive, but don't expect butterflies, like you generally get with the charming guys out there. Compatibility and attraction are mutually exclusive things. Find a guy who will take care of you, will respect you, is curious enough about you, involved in your life and is fairly independent and responsible. Love will develop gradually. And the past is past. Why bring it up in conversations? If you are 100% sure you won't repeat …
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/25 08:13 PM
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Sexual preferences are not set in stone when you are virgin. If you guys are respectful, attracted to each other, compatible and open to suggestions from each other without getting defensive then you will mould your likes and dislikes around each others. Finding out what the other likes in bed is a concern for experienced couples
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 09:10 PM
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Redpill is to see the world actually as it is, not as a whitewashed version being promoted on social media or movies.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 08:53 PM
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Girl do you have ADHD? Also, Vipassana meditation helps massively, just clears the mind like wow.. Also, what's your screentime? Higher screentime= dopamine depletion= lack of motivation
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 08:50 PM
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Balance exercises- more balance = more grace. Also, unless it's your career- dancer/ model etc, there is no need to be an epitome of grace. Just a basic level will suffice.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 08:47 PM
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Yes girl, I get you. Sex can be just another chore at the end of a long day when all you want to do is mindlessly scroll while drifting asleep. Also the difference in libido is hugee. 4-5 times/week vs twice a month! One of you might be viewing sex as a release and one as another task to do. I want to ask you, are you authentic during sex? Do you fake moaning or orgasms? Or tell that something is pleasurable when it isn't? Do you do abstain from sex only while mastrubating yourself? Are there an…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 08:41 PM
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Yup lack of communication it is. He is not vulnerable and honest and when I am, he gets uncomfortable. That's why the post is so vague, because I cannot extract his point of view from him in an honest way. I don't have a problem paying. The problem is that when I pay I feel like unattracted to him and feel uncared for. And I don't know what magic wand I can hover over my head to get rid of that. It's the fucking 21st century. It is the lack of attraction that comes with paying is what is causing…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 08:35 AM
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Like I said, I don't trust him to provide. He's been in the same company for 7 years, and hasn't got any additional skill or degree. Currently my monthly expenses are almost as equal to his salary. And I have spent 10 years in medical school for a degree, and always am upskilling. I am doing an MBA, a Pediatric Endocrinology fellowship and learning to trade stocks side by side. He refuses to learn about stock trading or AI or any new information. I really wish he was more ambitious and upped his…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 07:18 AM
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How do you ensure that you don't become a burden while asking him to pay all the bills?
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 07:51 AM
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Truly masculine redpill man= secure, is comfortable with emotional depth, considerate, generous, respectful, and non shaming, has integrity, and wont need to constantly advertise himself. Toxic redpill man= builds his ego off of shaming or blaming others, insecure, opposing a group of people entirely without nuance, seeing things as either black or white, constantly bragging.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 05:54 PM
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He's got to have atleast some access to his emotions. An emotionally unaware person is a nightmare to people around them. Also he seems highly susceptible to influence- staying in a low paying gun retail job despite not liking it, seems like he is generating some kind of image of him. most likely he is a people pleaser. Guy needs to do some soulsearching
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 05:41 PM
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Sounds reasonable enough.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 05:30 PM
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He isnt ambitious thats the issue. He is a hardworker and honest person, been in his company for 7 years,, but others his age have side hustles or have switched jobs and making much more. Also he is either working or chilling. Never have I seen him learn a new skill or earn an extra degree, I am constantly learning and encourage him to do so, but no luck. What made me accept his proposal are his confidence, humility genuineness and consistency.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 05:27 PM
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Yes I do buy him gifts - lots, quite frequently, to the point where he has asked me to not worry so much about him and he will tell me if he needs something. I have added some background now in the post
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 05:22 PM
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IDK, I just feel like I cannot trust him enough to let go of control in certain things. He doesnt understand me well enough and is not very aware emotionally. We communicate mostly through texting and meeting for 1-2 days a week. He tends to avoid emotional vulnerability like all men, I have been in therapy for long and his quality of suppressing feelings and trying to erase them by positivity without addressing them really bugs me, but when i try going deep into emotional talk he just diverts t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 05:19 PM
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I know.. There is love and respect, and a sense of duty too- we are totally faithful, just that the attraction I used to feel is not there. There is no hate either- Its just- an undertone of emptiness, and suppressed feelings of mild resentment.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 05:08 PM
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I do respect him as an individual. Although I dont trust his choices completely. The other qualities I respect are consistency and ability to stay calm
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 05:01 PM
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I did tell him about not feeling attracted, and we went out for lunch, and he got flowers for me like once, but I need him to come to shop for groceries with me, plan a date by himself occasionally, take active lead in caring for me, to make some decisions etc. Honestly, him letting me make decisions at the beginning was like a breath of fresh air from my previous relationship, but now it feels like I am wearing the pants in the relationship. If there is any threatening situation/ person etc on …
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 04:41 PM
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So actually regarding attraction before marriage, I was not attracted physically to him, I myself am average. What attracted me to him was that he treated me with respect, didnt try to impose his decisions on me, was humble and genuine, was very consistent with his communication. I kind of find him not as sharp as me or my ex boyfriend (who I was in a relationship for a year). Although my ex was quite sharp and a great sense of humour, and earned thrice as much as me, there was a great deal of d…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 04:28 PM
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Yes! In fact I am 32 and I really wanted to have atleast 3 kids until before marriage. But then a few months after marriage I was like "who is going to take care of them? and if I take care of them who will provide for me?" I am kind of tearing up as I write this but currently I am giving a serious thought to staying childless for life.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 04:13 PM
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so actually we meet like once a week since he lives a walking distance from his workplace, and I stay near mine. we are like 25-30 km away from each other, and it takes 1 & 1/2 hour one way to commute. I have on multiple occasions suggested we live together midway from both workplaces but he is not willing to stay more than 2km away from his workplace.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 04:08 PM
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