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If I meet her on one of the apps, I complement her on her warm smile and the sexiest outfit she’s wearing without calling out her obvious good looks. (Your warm smile and the cute yellow dress you’re wearing in your 3rd picture caught my attention. I’m glad we matched.). She posted that picture in the cute yellow dress without a bra because she wanted to be seen. See her! When we connect I ask her about how we should deal with an obvious challenge (age difference, distance, etc) and share my pre…
/r/seduction23/07/26 11:14 AM
1

In no other aspect of life do we guys cede so much power and control over everyday issues and objectives to another party as we do in the dating and relationship world. And we do so gladly. It baffles me.
/r/seduction14/07/26 09:44 AM
6

I think we men cede women way too much leeway and afford them far more options than they in actuality have.
/r/seduction13/07/26 10:02 PM
1

One fuck in 13 approaches is a pretty good ratio. Keep it up.
/r/seduction10/07/26 12:56 PM
1

To your point, how you text and talk to her matters a lot.
/r/seduction30/06/26 01:18 PM
9

And give her new experiences, in and out of the bedroom, she has never had before.
/r/seduction29/06/26 10:52 PM
0

I mention the possibility of her spending the night at my place as soon as we lock down the logistics for our first date. I caveat it and couch to allow enough wiggle room by saying assuming we jive well and both feel the requisite sexual chemistry. Being upfront and direct works a lot better for me.
/r/seduction07/06/26 10:44 PM
36

The playful read, even though you may be wrong, is a fun way to enliven any conversation.
/r/seduction27/04/26 07:54 PM
1

Girls appreciate a direct approach.
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:41 PM
6

Oh, please!
/r/seduction03/04/26 09:03 PM
3

What other people think is none of your business. Trust your gut. You made the right decision.
/r/seduction29/03/26 09:34 PM
1

That’s true. It’s all in how the experience is presented. And, as I said above, it helps if the date is on or around her birthday so I can frame the experience as a birthday gift. Just comes across as more natural. Unless something happens or our chemistry is off, I’m 100 percent certain I’m taking her new dress off and pulling her into bed with me at the end of the night.
/r/seduction23/03/26 10:31 PM
3

I’ve laid out the entire date from taking her dress shopping, then to dinner and spending the night at my place before I even asked her out. She is in for a fun evening she’ll always remember.
/r/seduction23/03/26 07:52 PM
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Because she had already agreed to spend the night at my place at the end of our evening together.
/r/seduction23/03/26 07:30 PM
-5

I just tell her I’m taking her dress shopping. No woman ever turns down an opportunity to go dress shopping! It’s even more special if your first date is on or around her birthday. You frame the experience as a birthday / first date gift. She picks out the dress she wants and I select a matching bra and pantie set she gets to wear with her new dress. The experience has a lot of fun options and possibilities depending on how playful and safe she feels.
/r/seduction23/03/26 05:54 PM
65

All four suggestions are spot on, Number 3 is key. If you aren’t an experience, create an experiential date she’ll never forget. My favorite is to taking her dress shopping before going to dinner on a first date. Chances are no other guy has ever taken her dress shopping before, certainly not on a first date, and if you play it right, you get to enjoy the sights as she tries on different dresses.
/r/seduction23/03/26 05:43 PM
2

I can’t say what is the best advice for you is any given situation. I just know how much more effective being upfront and direct about my intentions is than when I am vague and timid about what I expect. Night and day difference.
/r/seduction20/03/26 04:00 PM
1

What a Debbi-downer you are!
/r/seduction19/03/26 11:13 PM
5

This sounds kind of fun!
/r/seduction18/03/26 11:09 PM
12

I discovered telling her about a couple girls I slept with since my last breakup 3 months ago while we’re still getting to know each other via texts or video calls conveys the same message and lets her know other girls are comfortable spending the night at my place.
/r/seduction03/03/26 08:21 PM
1

Confidence and strength.
/r/seduction01/02/26 10:35 AM
48

Apologizing is almost never the right move.
/r/seduction27/01/26 06:42 PM
1

As soon as I started sharing stories about other girls I had taken to bed on a first date, the frequency of my first dates ending in bed shot way up.
/r/seduction25/01/26 09:06 PM
1

Or even before the first date while you’re getting to know each other texting or chatting. Girls don’t like the dating game BS any more than we guys do and appreciate a guy who is upfront about his intentions and expectations. If done respectfully, your honesty will be a relief to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:29 AM
5

The other aspect we guys forget, is that girls love feeling wanted and desired, but reject guys who give them what they want too early or too easily. There’s a science to telling them they’re cute and adorable that we guys get wrong most of the time.
/r/seduction23/01/26 01:19 PM
6

Not only is the dynamic not that hard to reverse, it’s a lot of fun turning the tables on a girl and letting her know you’re in charge of the dating process. Turns out, girls don’t like the dating game any more than we guys do. We both want the same thing, to be loved and cared for. She is happier ( and so am I) when a confident man comes along and establishes a new pattern she feels safe leaning into.
/r/seduction23/01/26 01:02 PM
13

I figured out that being direct and upfront with a girl about my expectation that a first date with me included her spending the night at my place at the end of our evening together worked surprisingly well. Most girls were surprised by my candor because no guy had ever been so direct with her before. But in the end it led to many wonderful conversations, first dates, and magical nights.
/r/seduction21/01/26 08:33 PM
0

Take more time to establish your connections, chemistry and expectations for the date priory to meeting in person. My expectations of a date are quite different than most and I find if I’m upfront about my expectations and give the girl a chance to express what she wants out of our time together, the date goes much smoother and ends in a much happier place.
/r/seduction08/01/26 06:32 PM
3

Great advice. The same goes for when you step out on your spouse or SO. Don’t share your business with anyone! Not your friend, not a sibling, not a colleague. No one, ever. It’s your business, keep it that way.
/r/seduction08/01/26 04:30 PM
1

Lean into the perception other may have about being creepy by being direct and candid. I’m amazed at how girls respond when I’m upfront with them about my expectations for them and our first date.
/r/seduction18/12/25 06:28 PM
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Unpopular opinion. Women never “weaponized” their liberty and equality against men. Rather men have all but surrendered to women’s drive to live lives full of potential and fulfillment. For years, for centuries really, society allowed women to become teachers, nurses and mothers. For the first time in history, women are allowed to become anything that they want and they’re reaching for that brass ring. Men on the other hand, especially young men, are refusing to launch. Instead, they spend their…
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 11:40 PM
1

Huh? Please explain what you mean.
/r/seduction04/12/25 03:14 PM
3

Read the room, guys.
/r/seduction02/12/25 12:06 AM
1

Even more powerful if you can get her to trust herself.
/r/seduction23/11/25 01:33 PM
3

Check your DMs.
/r/seduction29/10/25 12:46 PM
6

That’s so true. And even more challenging to apply their individual strengths effectively in the dating game.
/r/seduction29/10/25 11:44 AM
6

We guys spend way too much time, energy, and money luring a girl into bed, not appreciating the fact that she wants to be there as much as we want her there.
/r/seduction29/10/25 11:30 AM
16

So you save the time and money you were going to spend on her for someone who gets you.
/r/seduction29/10/25 09:59 AM
13

Or he can be more patient and less needy and insist she adapt to his game.
/r/seduction29/10/25 09:35 AM
22

Or he can shift the game to play to his strengths.
/r/seduction29/10/25 09:26 AM
2

Always after 1) we had moved off the apps and were texting and 2) she said yes to my idea to meet for drinks or dinner.
/r/seduction23/10/25 05:57 PM
4

After a divorce and a couple years on the dating scene, I told girls I met on the apps, that if our date went well and we vibed, I expected her to spend the night at my place at the end of our date. Didn’t always work but my direct approach led to a lot of fun conversations and a lot more first date sex.
/r/seduction23/10/25 05:32 PM
4

Not on the spot, but I have told many women whom I met on line that if our date goes well, I expect them to spend the night with me. It works surprisingly well.
/r/seduction21/09/25 08:52 AM
1

Personal and professional growth for sure.
/r/seduction16/07/25 02:47 PM
3

Required reading for all guys, young and old alike.
/r/seduction16/07/25 01:23 PM
3

I reread both books ever year.
/r/seduction16/07/25 01:22 PM
5

Hey, I feel your pain. Like others have said, this will pass. But that doesn’t lessen your heartbreak now. I get that. If you pick up or listen to one book, please read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover. See if you can find yourself in the books pages. I reread it every year and I’m astounded by how wide the gap is between what I believe women expect from men and the reality of what they actually want. Good luck🙏
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/25 08:07 PM
2

Older = stable, experienced, resources, secure, and confident. While every girl is different, The list of attributes that draw girls to older men is actually quite long.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 03:33 PM
9

Great story. My experience is there a lot more girls open to an experience, and maybe even a relationship, with an older man than any of us think.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 11:31 AM
8

No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/25 06:00 PM
4

The inverse is true too. It’s easier for an older man to date a girl in her twenties than it is for that same man to date a woman his own age.
/r/seduction14/05/25 06:56 PM
5

That’s great advice in real life too🙏
/r/seduction05/05/25 12:13 PM
1

The exact origin of the arbitrary guideline is unclear.
/r/seduction04/05/25 12:44 PM
2

I’m in my sixties and frequently dated girls in their 20s and early 30s. It was no big deal.
/r/seduction30/04/25 04:21 PM
10

That rule is so yesterday. Date who you want, when you want irregardless of age, race, gender, nationality, religion, etc. It’s a free world out there, go make it yours.
/r/seduction29/04/25 08:51 PM
1

But when they start telling their girlfriends (who then tell their friends) about the mind blowing sex they experienced with you, getting a girl into bed becomes easier and easier. We men miss a lot of signals and opportunities, including delivering a superior, mind-blowing experience for our lovers. What OP is saying, is when you deliver a superior, unforgettable bedroom experience, she not only wants more of the same (it being so rare that anyone fucks her properly) and, she’ll tell her friend…
/r/seduction29/04/25 04:33 PM
5

It’s one of the better pieces of advice I’ve seen in this Subreddit.
/r/seduction29/04/25 03:22 PM
16

What is an example of a subtle comment you said that seemed innocent but could also be interested as sexual?
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:43 PM
1

Frankly, I didn’t read it that closely.
/r/seduction17/04/25 10:25 PM
1

Yes. Not only girls but to talk to people in general.
/r/seduction17/04/25 07:52 PM
2

Thanks for the recommendation. I’ll download it today.
/r/seduction17/04/25 01:28 PM
2

Great list! Do you have a favorite?
/r/seduction17/04/25 01:20 PM
9

Models by Mark Manson is a must read.
/r/seduction17/04/25 01:20 PM
3

No one does (or knows) you better than you. You do you.
/r/seduction16/04/25 02:47 PM
1

Good luck, brother. The journey is tough but so worth it🙏
/r/seduction09/02/25 05:13 PM
1

I’m a lot older than OP but can relate to much of his story, including more than a few decades wallowing in the Mormon muck. After years of talk therapy with one shrink, I switched doctors on a whim. After listening to me share my story for an hour, he told me to buy The Angry Book (that’s the title!), read it, and schedule another appointment with him when I was ready to discuss the book. Read the book in a day after buying it off Amazon! It was one of those books that felt like it was written …
/r/seduction09/02/25 10:40 AM
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Manson’s Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck is a good companion book to Models.
/r/seduction30/01/25 04:01 PM
2

Most women have drama issues.
/r/seduction26/01/25 12:50 PM
0

Offer to cook her dinner.
/r/seduction18/01/25 06:02 PM
7

That’s easy! Don’t date religious girls.
/r/seduction25/12/24 10:07 PM
14

As a former religious person, I’ll tell you your only limits are in your head.
/r/seduction25/12/24 09:49 PM
10

“Lead them out of their clothes.”🙏
/r/seduction20/12/24 01:26 AM
4

Pretty simple if you don’t over think it.
/r/seduction08/12/24 08:50 AM
4

Giving her the opportunity to share herself with you if she so chooses.
/r/seduction23/10/24 02:38 PM
5

It does matter who you are with and you have 100-percent control over who you’re with.
/r/seduction16/09/24 08:14 PM
1

I make the decision to end up in bed together a mutual decision. After she had accepted my date invitation and were chatting about where we’ll meet, what she plans to wear and what kind of food she likes, I’ll tell her I don’t enjoy seducing a girl to get her out of her panties and into bed with me and, since we both want the same thing, to be loved and cared for, that if she likes me I expect her to share herself with me when she is ready. It doesn’t always work this way, but many times she wil…
/r/seduction16/09/24 07:15 PM
2

Ideally, you want her to give herself to you because she wants and enjoys sex as much as you do.
/r/seduction16/09/24 04:09 PM
2

True, but most crave a man who is confident about his sexuality and expectations.
/r/seduction16/09/24 03:07 PM
2

And create a safe space for her to express her sexual desires and wants freely.
/r/seduction16/09/24 03:04 PM
2

As are men, btw!
/r/seduction16/09/24 03:02 PM
1

Excuse me, what is wrong with being called a player? Own it! You enjoy girls! You enjoy their company and they enjoy yours!
/r/seduction16/09/24 08:44 AM
4

Except they do! OP is 100-percent correct.
/r/seduction16/09/24 08:24 AM
5

I escalate before I actually meet her for our date by telling her I don’t like seducing a girl to get her out of her panties and into bed with me and that if a girl likes me and finds me attractive, I expect her to share herself with me. I then observe her reaction. If she picks up the conversation and says something along the lines of ‘I like that’ or ‘good to know’ I ask her if she has ever given her self to a guy before or does she usually wait for him to take her to bed. Either way I draw he…
/r/seduction16/09/24 08:20 AM
74

Be direct, but be a gentleman. Express your expectations of her and your date and allow her the freedom of fulfilling your expectations or saying no thank you.
/r/seduction15/09/24 04:36 PM
4

How direct and transparent? If you want to sleep with a girl do you tell her do you trust your abduction skills that you can get her there? Personally, I’ve been more successful being upfront and direct with a girl about my expectations, especially early in our relationship.
/r/seduction14/09/24 05:40 PM
2

…Interesting and direct. What do you mean by direct in this context?
/r/seduction14/09/24 05:10 PM
6

Keep details to yourself and a trusted attorney.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 07:07 AM
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Or his shit, too!
/r/seduction30/06/24 09:23 AM
1

Exactly! I’ll take a ‘Hell yes!’ Girl every time!
/r/seduction21/06/24 09:50 PM
3

I love the concept of taking away her playbook. Chances are she has thought through her next couple of moves making certain assumptions about you and how you normally react. Flip the script on her by responding in a way she isn’t expecting. Her reaction will be worth every dollar you spend on the divorce. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 01:47 PM
3

You would certainly reshuffle her deck if all the sudden you took a I don’t give a fuck approach. Think through it, map out the consequences as best you can and think through how you’ll respond to the different scenarios.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/24 02:03 PM
5

Could it be that your wife is more in love with the concept of being married than she ever was with you?
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/24 03:37 PM
12

The ick factor of hitting on a woman’s LinkedIn profile is through the roof!
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:07 AM
1

And how would you even know what I have and haven’t done? It’s an approach that worked for me. I never enjoyed the process of seducing a girl to get her into bed with me. I found I preferred a direct approach and so did a surprising number of girls I dated.
/r/seduction27/05/24 05:44 PM
3

We both are patient - me most of the time, her always- so it’s works. The first telephone call and first date were awkward as we figured out the flow of the conversation with a smart device in the mix. She spent the night at my place following our first evening together so I must have done something right😂
/r/seduction27/05/24 05:12 PM
1

Always be your authentic self but be direct as well. I’m no dating coach, I can only share what worked for me. I have as direct but never overbearing and never made it about my way or the highway. Gauge her reaction, listen to how she responds to your direct approach and adjust accordingly. A girl has a choice. She can walk through the door you hold open or not.
/r/seduction27/05/24 03:46 PM
5

Thanks to Google Translate, I dated and eventually married my non English speaking Brazilian wife. We still use the app today to get through the finer points of a day to day conversation.
/r/seduction27/05/24 03:35 PM
1

So true. The ironic part about the entire scenario is the majority of women prefer a strong, confident man who understands the value he brings into their lives.
/r/seduction27/05/24 12:43 PM
6

I developed my own rather direct bulldozing approach late in my dating life (I’m married now). In my own direct, gentlemanly manner, I would tell the girl I expected her to spend the night at my place at the end of our evening together when I asked her out for the first time. Most girls were surprised by my candor; they had never had a guy be so upfront and direct with them. More than a few girls said thanks, but no thanks, but more of my first dates happily spent the night with me. Mission acco…
/r/seduction27/05/24 07:30 AM
34

This! A big regret from my dating life is the time I spent chasing after girls who, intentionally or unintentionally, wanted to play games. I eventually figured out if she wasn’t easy to date, she wouldn’t be easy to live with either.
/r/seduction19/05/24 08:35 AM
2

Good question. I don’t know. Ask them.😂 I just know it’s rude to ask someone you don’t even know for money. My response matches their lack of manners and usually catches them off guard.
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:30 PM
7

That, or they need gas money to drive to meet me. Another common one is their kid is sick and needs emergency medicine and she doesn’t have the money right now. For whatever reason they sense our vulnerability and neediness and figure they can scam us for a few dollars before canceling the date. Since she is asking me for money before we’ve even met and is likely running a scam on me, I’m upfront and direct with her. I tell her I’m a generous man but I never share money with a girl until I’ve fu…
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:24 PM
10

I make it a hard fast rule never to loan/give money to a girl until we’ve slept together and we’re in a relationship. This simple rule has saved me from a lot of OLD scams and set the boundaries and expectations of a relationship from the start.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:47 PM
7

This. If you get it back great. If not, you now know something about her you didn’t know before.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:45 PM
2

Explore the possibilities! Hold open the doors to the type of relationship you’re looking for and see if she walks through. Good luck! Let us know how you make out.
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:07 PM
3

You don’t know where she is and what she wants. Be upfront with her and share that with her. She may enjoy a FWB relationship.
/r/seduction17/05/24 02:43 PM
4

Assuming you’re able to walk and chew gum simultaneously, you can pick up the elements of ‘game’ as you go. You might miss an enjoyable learning experience if you keep this girl on hold.
/r/seduction17/05/24 02:07 PM
4

Good list. I would add, Be direct about your expectations. Don’t beat around the bush.
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:26 PM
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