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| 1 | Will I ever get a girlfriend?I would just add as well from reading some other comments talking about flirting, my best piece of advice is to just ask. I used to be terrible at telling if people were interested in me and we would just flirt in circles without it going anywhere because no one was making the first move. Then I just started saying how I was feeling if I was attracted to someone, if the mood felt right asking if I could kiss people. The type of people I like responded really well to it. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Will I ever get a girlfriend?It's really difficult to believe when you're still waiting for it, but you'll know when it feels right. Think about what makes you tick, what makes you feel alive, what you like doing with your time where you want to be in life what your morals are. The person you end up with doesn't need to mirror that but it helps if there's compatibility in some ways, and if they challenge you in other ways. Don't try to pretend to be someone you're not if you're interested in someone, keeping up that false f… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/24 02:44 PM |
| 12 | Will I ever get a girlfriend?My brother is a good looking, kind, lovely guy. He had his first girlfriend at 23, got married at 30 and they're now expecting a baby. You've got so much life ahead of you my friend, don't panic. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/24 09:03 AM |
| 4 | What hard proof can I look at that disproves the black pill.That's a bizarre standard to hold yourself to. How did you form this ideal of your best self, and has it made you very happy? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 04:19 AM |
| 14 | Red pill is the same than agressive feminismThose people sound like massive hypocrites. I wouldn't worry about them too much, the stupidest one in the room is usually the loudest. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/23 06:21 AM |
| 51 | Red pill is the same than agressive feminismYour description of these "aggressive feminists" is that they demand men be tall, earn a good salary, and support them financially. That doesn't sound like feminism in the slightest, those sound like people advocating for a much more traditional view of relationships where the man is the breadwinner. Am I missing something? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/23 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Struggling with redpill againI'm sorry i haven't got more time to write more specifically but can I recommend DBT self help? There's a good website that comes up if you search that in Google. You're not alone, and life gets brighter with love and kindness x | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/23 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Young men invisible until 30?Nah... There's no point in being with someone good looking if they're a massive twat. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/23 10:08 AM |
| 2 | someone change my mind?If that's your metric of success it's a fickle one. Wealth is difficult to obtain and easily lost, beauty is fairly subjective and we all age. It's entirely possible to be happy, content and partnered without either. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/23 10:29 PM |
| 3 | someone change my mind?If you are gay or asexual, I'm mighty confused at how you ended up swallowing the red pill | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/23 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Is the Redpill completely wrong?Maybe you should start by finding the qualities about yourself that aren't average? I'm not sure I'd be attracted to someone who considers themselves average and is looking to settle. Are you only pursuing people based on your physical attraction to them? Maybe try dating people you have things in common with. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?No need to be a twat about it eh? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?Of? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 08:46 PM |
| 2 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?I think you're using your limited life experiences to make sweeping statements about how billions of people behave in a very unhealthy way | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 08:40 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?You're talking about women lasting longer in a sexual encounter, the people you're replying to are talking about single men wanting more sex than single women (on average) | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about women with BPD.It feels like you're speaking from a personal experience, not a general truth about women with BPD | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about women with BPD.You know men get BPD too right? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 09:37 PM |
| 12 | I’m so tired of hearing about how it’s impossible for women to be lonely, how women are always cared about and complimented, how easy it is for us to get attention, etc.I'm glad one of us is I guess. I hope that in time you can start engaging with life through a medium other than parroted family guy jokes. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/22 08:34 PM |
| 12 | I’m so tired of hearing about how it’s impossible for women to be lonely, how women are always cared about and complimented, how easy it is for us to get attention, etc.Yes, I have heard that bird is the word. Are you having fun? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/22 08:32 PM |
| 14 | I’m so tired of hearing about how it’s impossible for women to be lonely, how women are always cared about and complimented, how easy it is for us to get attention, etc.It doesn't seem like you're ex-red pill, or even open to the idea of changing your perspective. Why are you here? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/22 08:27 PM |
| 17 | I’m so tired of hearing about how it’s impossible for women to be lonely, how women are always cared about and complimented, how easy it is for us to get attention, etc.You're calling OP a liar and haven't even read her post? Are you aware of how you're coming across? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/22 07:58 PM |
| 3 | The wall for trans people.I don't know where you're getting this 99.99% figure from. The whole point of passing is that you don't know when someone passes. Bone structure and odd voice changes are not perfect indicators, and can be variable within cis populations too. Seeing as you're bisexual (samesies), how are you certain that some of the men you've been attracted to haven't been FtM transfolk? Through my work some FtM folk have disclosed to me and I wouldn't have had a fucking clue otherwise. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | should I(female) die once I can't reproduce anymore?It sounds like you've developed a distorted core belief. Can I advise looking into some online CBT? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 11:40 PM |
| 4 | “Why Men Can Cheat But Women Can’t”Account 1 day old, only posted this same video on multiple subs. I'm gonna assume OP is the guy in the video. My man needs better content, not better promotion | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 03:29 PM |
| 7 | What do you guys think of sexual market value?👍 | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 06:14 AM |
| 3 | So how can I recover from TRP?I'm so sorry that she assaulted you like that, and I'm so sorry that no one took it seriously or protected you. That sounds beyond vile and I'm not surprised you're still hurt emotionally from it, and anxious in situations that remind you of it. The pattern in a lot of the things you wrote is making broad generalisations about what girls are/aren't, like/dislike, do/don't do. I can understand the urge to categorise things to make them easier to understand, but most people are way more nuanced th… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | So how can I recover from TRP?I'd love to hear some examples of what you say that causes these reactions online, but no sweat if you cba. I'm sorry to hear that about IRL and your memories of bullying, I can only imagine how rough those experiences must have been to still be effecting you to this degree. Over here in the UK I cant remember the last time I saw people wielding bats in public, maybe it's different where you are? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 07:35 AM |
| 2 | So how can I recover from TRP?I'm confused, are these online interactions? Are these interactions with acquaintances? Strangers? As with most things in life, it takes pain to change and things may feel worse before they get better, I hope you find the strength to keep going. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to care so much about height? And how can I get over it?My man, I'm also 5"8 and I've dated girls over 6ft. Life is more nuanced than any broad assumption | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill is a useful temporary medicineMy dude, you're still speaking very vaguely and it's difficult to discern what you mean. What value did RP give you specifically? How was your mind changed? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/07/22 03:37 PM |
| 9 | Why do women seem to care so much about height? And how can I get over it?Yeah that would be real dumb, I've never seen 6ft boobs | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 06:12 AM |
| 9 | Why do women seem to care so much about height? And how can I get over it?Where do you hear it? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 06:10 AM |
| 4 | I don't hate women for being casual sex-havers anymore.You might not be trying to harm people, but that doesn't mean people won't feel hurt. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/22 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Why did you leave redpill?... for you And that's cool, crack on with it and I wish you happiness. But why d'ya got to be so judgey to people who' find happiness in relationships and roles that aren't rigidly adhering to your preferences? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Why did you leave redpill?What do you mean by acting like a man? What do you mean by acting like a woman? Why can't people act the way they want to? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/22 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Why did you leave redpill?I'm really not sure if you're trolling or just a very lost little boy. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Why did you leave redpill?OP linking a study of 326 German women's attitudes and thinking that's sufficient proof to make sweeping generalisations about the attitudes of all women in the world. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/22 08:08 AM |
| 13 | Since I left the redpill, it’s been extremely harder to be in a relationship.And is that similarly true before and after red-pill? What changes to make things feel terrible? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 05:49 AM |
| 15 | Since I left the redpill, it’s been extremely harder to be in a relationship.What about the quality of the relationships? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 05:39 AM |
| 25 | I would like to be used/seen as a sex objectI think fantasising about it is a fair bit nicer than the actual experience. I'm a Bi guy, and I've been in some pretty god awful Gay Bars with predatory men trying to take advantage of me. It was not a good time. On the other hand, I've heard some unconventionally attractive women say the same thing, they feel jealous of those experiences and feel like somethings wrong with them because they haven't been perved on. Rules of thumb - Everyone's different Being perved on sucks Folks tend to want w… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 04:35 PM |
| 4 | I’ll never get out the redpill.You're overwhelmed right now but your situation can improve. I think dating is the least of your concerns at the minute, a partner can't give you a life worth living. Please look for some mental health help local to you, things can get better. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Why should I exit inceldom?This is a good place to start my dude https://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/ | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 01:27 PM |
| 4 | Why I'm against men visiting sex workersI very much agree, but I think point 1 and 2 are completely insignificant compared to the others. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 09:02 AM |
| 4 | Idea: Women are uncomfortable with blackpill/redpill, but at the end of the day, they make their choice the way blackpill/redpill describes. change my mindWomen are not an amorphous hive mind | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Is this sexist?So it's more that you feel emasculated by tall women then? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 06:05 AM |
| 6 | Is this sexist?Tell that to the two >6ft goddesses I've had the pleasure of dating as a 5ft9 guy. Go ahead, tell me I'm an outlier, just like you have multiple other people in this thread. Your vague, non evidence based claims of evolutionary attraction are far more compelling I'm sure. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 06:00 AM |
| 8 | Is this sexist?Your post is in bad faith and you're just looking to confirm your bias'. Why did you bother in the first place? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 05:53 AM |
| 7 | Someone just messaged me that black women are basically argumentative and demasculating, is this true?That guy sounds like an idiot. Black women are people. People are pretty different from each other and don't rigidly conform to lazy stereotypes. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 05:22 AM |
| 11 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillThis is data about reddit threads, I don't think it's wise to extrapolate conclusions about half the world's population from it. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 07:16 PM |
| 6 | I have a fear I’ll be missing out on dating women.My dude, I think you're jumping to conclusions that you won't have time for a social life, and I worry that you'll fall into a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you want it, you can make time for it. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/05/22 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Do I need a car?Some women find men with cars attractive, others don't give a shit, others would find a car a waste of natural resources. You're overthinking it pal | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Be ConfidentI'm not sure if you sound like an ex-redpiller but you definitely sound like a twat | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 01:29 AM |
| 26 | Your real age matters more than looking a certain age.I'm so confused about the premise of this post. Why are we hypothesising comparisons between different immutable characteristics to see where attraction correlates? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Is it truly hard getting laid in the modern world for men?You don't sound so convinced | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Is it truly hard getting laid in the modern world for men?I'll let you in on a secret. Many women enjoy sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 05:42 AM |
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