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Man, they enjoy the playful dates where nothing happens. You are not getting sex, so bad business. Two dates and you said the second one you didn´t kissed. That´s it. She enjoys going out with you, the seduction and all. But I don´t think she is into you. Get out of there, it´s not worth the effort
/r/askTRP05/12/17 10:18 PM
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Agree with LordThunderbolt. I would add that in life, nowadays, we always lose someone but we make new friends, social groups etc. It´s more difficult as we get older, but anyways, is the matter of life. Attaching your happiness to 1 person is a mistake. Some friends connect us in ways that others don´t, and viceversa.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:17 AM
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I think this is the way. Learn from possible mistakes you made, but move on. Corporate world nowadays is a jungle and every worker is more or less disposable. In coding, there are not enough skilled programmers, so try to improve and become someone that companies will fight for. That's my strategy right now.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 10:56 AM
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Agree with this. If you read SJW Always Lies you would understand that betas and SJW always worry more about political correctness and feelings of minorities nad women. Just take a look at big corporations that, supposedly, should care just about business but fail at it because they care about social justice. In any case, I would prepare for the battle, document everything (as already said) and do your work trying to avoid any interactions with her as much as possible. And the ones you do, have …
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:06 PM
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2) Yes, you can send screenshots and I give my impression. Also what do you mean "get invited in the meantime?" - Based in what you said, it seems that she didn't even try to pretend to pay and was more than eager to get invited. Unless is a cultural thing in your country (in Russia, for example, is something almost assume that the guy has to pay), I would take it as a bad thing. 3) I understand what you did there. Anyway, I would say again: do not feel guilty for showing your sexual interest. I…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:26 PM
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2 dates. And did you make a move? Going well can mean a lot of different things. We don't know how the dates went to guess if she would show interest or not. If you did not make a move and just kept it nice and fun, I don't exactly know. Probably I would try to go for the third to make a move (even it could be a bit late, depending on the girl and dynamic of the dates) or just ghost for a while to increase interest (in case there is some). In some cases similar to this, third date is the friendz…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:08 PM
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This. No contact. And no, don´t go to a plan you actually don´t want to go.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 07:11 AM
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1) I think is good. Sometimes when a girl is really interested in a guy, she pretends to be a "good girl" to be able to catch him. So it seems this is the case. Anyway, more than 2 dates before sex it´s a bad signal, so go for it the second time. About breaking her heart and all. Think: do you believe they consider this angle when they use and friendzone guys? I mean, it´s not about going for that, but you are just getting to know each other and if she gets into it but you don´t... that´s life. …
/r/askTRP24/10/17 07:07 AM
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But why don´t you set a date with her? If you keep waiting she will lost interest or she will start considering you her friend. For now, based on what you said, seems to me you did good. But set a date soon. Otherwise, no point in continuing this.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 06:45 AM
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So then why would she act so positively during and after the date and agree to a second date? That's what I don't understand Having a beta orbiter, maybe validation, maybe wants to frienzone you, or just she thinks would be nice but it´s not a priority and that´s why she is keeping you in the bag. But, in either case, you should not mind very much about it. If a girl is interested in a guy, she will do whatever it takes to meet him and have more than kisses. And if she is so f*cking busy that re…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 05:22 PM
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Agree with this. The jerk may think that he was nice and that could be helpful in the social arena, if OP shares it with the jerk. Now he has an enemy who thinks they are not enemies anymore, even though OP did nothing to help him (actually, the opposite). OP did a no-favour to the jerk, and he will be grateful (maybe). I understand OP when he says he feels like a little bitch, but it was not so horrible at the end. As I said, now he has possibly a person who thinks he was trying to help, OP was…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:26 AM
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I see so many things you did wrong. First, work partner. This is an option some times, but it is dangerous. Second: movies. Why did you go to the movies in the first date? Inside cinema you can do nothing to connect, escalate or advance with the girl. And no, holding hands means nothing but whe knows she has you invested. Third: you paid. Are you her little bitch? And you are even happy that she only made you buy her drink? Really... I don´t know if you read the side bar, but in any case, give i…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 06:10 AM
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I think this pretty much summarize the thing. But I would like to add two things. First, there is usually an imbalance between social skills and abstraction skills in nerds that tends to the latter. That means that they will gravitate towards nerdy things and tend to be not so good in the social arena. This, since childhood. So positive and negative reinforcement makes the rest during his life. Second is that I believe that being socially maladjusted (due to the previous point) makes these peopl…
/r/askTRP16/08/17 01:21 PM
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Treat verbal friendzoning as shit test and escalate anyway. If it is true friendzone, just next. But at this point, based on what you already said, I would not care too much and move on.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 06:46 AM
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Agree. If you can avoid her, just next. It seems for the brief text that you already entered the friendzone and she is trying to capitalize on that. Don't waste your time. And try to learn more about non verbal communication. There are plenty of books (good ones) and they will help you in these situations.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:33 PM
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That's true. Since RP moment, I don't see the same in the movies. I also discovered how useful is to watch chick flicks to get into the minds of girls and their fantasies. For example, Brigit Jone's diary is great: a below average women, chubby and with nothing going on in his life that suddenly has two guys fighting for her. Two succesful guys. Fighting for the boring chubby girl. Also the bitchy gay friend giving shitty advice on how normal men think... XD it's hillarious. I didn't have the st…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:25 PM
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I think all the good answers were already said. Different styles though. So, as Heartiste said in one of his posts, try to imagine yourself saying it. Does it looks cool, ok, weak, try-hard? Based on that, you already have a default answer for now. In my case, the answer given by @vandaleen is the most suitable due to my personality ("Who told you that you would get that lucky?" / "Ah. So you also already thought about it."). But if you came as a chad, I would try the answers from TheRealMewt or…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:18 PM
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But it will give others the impression that you are butthurt. and if he has more leverage, at the end he will win the battle. I think the best approach is agree and aplify. I also recommend to read AMOG techniques and use them on him. BTW, it seems pretty clear to me that he feels threatened by you improving yourself and tries to put you down, Cyrvs. So it means you are in the right track.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:42 AM
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True. Sexual dynamics are always there. When you try to make friends, you just avoid touching the strings that pop up the sexual part. You just focus on the social dynamics.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 07:23 AM
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Find something that makes you happy. But do not avoid reality, in the sense that you should not avoid going to social places or interact with women. TRP is bitter and the beggining and maybe you just need time to adjust. Focus on being better psicologically first. Focus on yourself. What would you want to you? What was the things that made you enjoy life before this situation? If it continues, looking for medical help is ok too. The only thing is do not give up. Good luck, man! Keep going
/r/askTRP05/06/17 07:11 AM
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Yeah, and now you don´t know when and how she is complaining. And you also do not know if she is complaining about you, or talking shit about your job. Now, you lost information. I don´t know what you were trying to achieve calling her out, but it´s not a good move. In work environment nowadays, you are alone. It makes no sense to be faithful to your company to the point of defending it with coworkers. You have to be machiavellic. As others said, 48 laws of power are needed af. If you are happy …
/r/askTRP05/06/17 07:06 AM
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Agree with killmenow1187. Besides, to a restaurant? Worst place to start a date. Better to go to a bar where you can sit one next to the other, and talking, not eating. Anyway, be careful with work colleagues
/r/askTRP05/06/17 06:45 AM
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Totally agree. The main improve you get when losing weight is the mindset. You become really proud of yourself and more confident. Going to shopping new clothes, for example, it´s not a painful experience (will I be able to find pants that suits me? does this cool shirt looks good with my body? the answer becomes yes everytime) and that change happens in almost all the life aspects (swimming pool, for example). You feel better in your own skin.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 06:20 AM
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This book is great. I was amazed how a roman who lived thousend years ago had things to say that are valid today. Great book
/r/askTRP01/03/17 07:14 PM
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I´ll borrow this for my set lol
/r/askTRP22/02/17 07:13 AM
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hahaha brilliant response
/r/askTRP22/02/17 07:09 AM
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After this comment, I have to say again as vandaalen. Read the side bar. And practice it. There no "unique person for me", just people. No princesses. TRP is not a trick to get an ex back. It's a collection of ideas based on observation to be happier, or to be more sucessful if you apply it.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:53 PM
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What I still don't understand is how guys are recommending to wait until she decides to visit him or not. For me, after reading all the story, is almost clear that you should, at least, demote to plate. I mean, she was lying about his sexual past in a crazy manner. As someone said in other comment, she very likely was a class A slut. The big problem here is that it's really difficult to trust her. Think about the future, even in the case she finally does not meet him. The next time she will go w…
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:22 PM
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"Negging doesn't work as well as people deluded by Red Pill actually think it does." Basically, because that is not negging. As said, it is an offense. The last line is the one that surprise me and points you as a blue pill. Besides, what means being a decent human? How does it applies specifically to the dating situation the guy explained? Go to preach to other place of give a real advice. Good or bad, but real one, not just common bluepill talking points.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 11:50 AM
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I think that this is an excuse. Don´t pay attention to words, but to behaviours. How did you show your intentions? If you didn´t escalate or kino, I don´t know how you showed. Did you just said?
/r/askTRP06/11/16 11:28 AM
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I think it´s also because of the effort. Women, mainly if they are hot, just have to wait and take the opportunity. Men have to put effort, so you have to open, seduce and close. Girls just can get drunk and let the guy lead.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:32 PM
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why not? They could want to hang before you do a lame performance. After that, they will not want to be realated with you. When you are drunk, your perceptions are not good and you can be screwing things easily. Getting drunk is not manly nor useful. Could be funny with friends, but you cannot complain after that you didn´t get pussy.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:57 PM
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Well, the point is that it looks like you are butthurt due to that. If you were really doing it for fun, their reaction would be a plus, not something to complain about here. I think you was expecting some cheering from them, so that means, you tried to impress them somehow. Just my view based on the text. It´s up to you to analize it and think about it.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:54 PM
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As lanky32 and Mudpielol said, you cannot know the true person just by text. You want to believe it is true, but marriage material? just from FB posts? You are believing her words also because she told you that you are the guy she was looking for. But the actions says other thing. She is not waiting your messages to answer quickly. Maybe she is bussy, maybe not. Yo DON´T actually know. Go to meet girls in person. Forget about this for now.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:46 PM
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As others said, ii´s a bad move. You are risking 10 years of work. Also, she doesn´t feel guilty about cheating, because she does quite easily. Come on man, she´s a slut and is using the sex to have lever with you and probably others at work. Get out of there, it´s not worth the risk.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:41 PM
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Having options and girl´s contacts. Tinder helped sometimes, but be careful because depending on how you set up your profile, you could have matches or not. It can backfire. But basically, going to activities, language interchanges, social events, etc. alone or with a wingman (better alone, but at the beginning a wingman can help). In those places, you will meet a lot of new people, you will get used to start conversations with strangers and you will end up with several girl´s contacts. All that…
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:35 PM
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I agree. There is no benefits from cutting off contact or future options. Just stay cordial. If she´s really interested, she will make a move. If not, in the future something could happen.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 12:22 PM
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That explanation is really good. It´s amazing how, after some bad outcome from work, or some date that went bad or some other BS, if I go to the gym to workout, I enjoy even the short walk back to home. The attitude is different and you have clear idea of your life. And it does not matter if you lift the iron, or go to run, or do some other sport. But it is the best first start until you find some passion.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 11:23 PM
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Well. I think you will try anyway, even if we tell you just to next her and try better in the next girl. So did I when I started. But you will discover two main things: 1) It´s a waste of time, energy and focus. And maybe even money. 2)It will drain your energy and confidence when you´ll see there is no success. So, yes. You need more abundance mentality. It is surprising how it is repeated one, and again and again and people still don´t get it. More Tinder dates, more approaches, more girls and…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 11:18 PM
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When you start in TRP you will loose some "friends", because you will discover they were not real friends. Sometimes because they try to stop your improvement. Typical "you are obsessed with girls/gym/appearance..." that is caused by their insecurities. Other times because you get bored with them. Usually they are too afraid to go out of their comfort zone to do something interesting. Of course, you will discover that that "friend" who "were good with girls", in reality, was also beta as fuck an…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 11:06 PM
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Regarding some comments here: do you really think that a woman that loves a guy would not get emotional when she sees makeup in your shirt? I mean, maybe she forgets later, but no emotions? just a smile and nothing else? That sounds to me like she is not aroused or emotionally attached to you, but just she´s ok whith the agreement. Which it´s ok if you like, but I don´t know... Your thoughs?
/r/askTRP27/09/16 10:53 PM
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This. When you text during all the week the problem is that you believe she will loose interest if you don´t contact her. The point is that if you are interesting and attractive, she will not. Even if you thing you are not there yet (interesting and attractive) you have to fake it, until you make it (you should be working on it)
/r/askTRP27/09/16 10:07 PM
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Wow man! She´s basically crazy, or can be. Shit will happens and you will be in trouble, why are you even thinking about it? Crazy girls are an option when you can literally dissapear from their radar. Not the case.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:21 PM
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I guess where a guy doesn´t have game, there is "out of your ligue". I understood that way
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:41 PM
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You are failing. Basically I don´t see in your explanation the moment you try to kiss her. Did you try? What was the output? If the answer is no to the first question, it means you are not chasing nor leading. You are doing it wrong. Going for the kiss is not chasing if the things are like you told here. It´s leading the iteration. Don´t expect that she will kiss you first, or will tell you to go home with her. Sometimes happens, but you should not wait until that. You flirt with her, take her a…
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:35 PM
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I see the ratio is close to 2:1 If you write more than her, bad signal. Besides, I guess that between some comments of you a long time passed. With the timestamp this would be worst, that´s my guess. So, go for the sidebar again (if you ever did) and next her. Try again, and again. It´s the way we learn. Good luck man
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:30 PM
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You nailed it. This is the opposite of TRP. Indeed is Blue pill to the core, but trying to look cool. Just like in the Holliwood movies when the beta guy "is like a seductor". But that´s Holliwood, blue pill, so it doesn´t work on reality. Read the side bar, and start over again.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:26 PM
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Besides, I would say they don´t think that feelings could be explain, so probably don´t even try.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:05 PM
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They will be ok even if he divorces from the woman. So your comment does not apply (indeed, I agree with it in the proper situation). And probably he will be a better father for them, instead of a broken soul.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:03 PM
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AWALT is understood in the general behaviour, based on biology. Tendencies. Of course it is something you have to keep in your mind. But that does not mean that ALL the women behave and do the SAME exact way. So, yes, you can find a woman who will respect you... because you make it happens with your frame, behaviour, value... etc.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:00 PM
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I think this is a great suggestion. I was going to say similar thing: look for an opportunity inside the truck business that does not imply creating a truck company. Services. You have experience in it, so you could think about what would be needed. What would be good to have (services, solutions) when you are working as a truck driver? What would make your job easier? Otherwise, I think the audio books about finances and business are a good choice for you. I guess you can listen to them while y…
/r/askTRP16/09/16 07:10 AM
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The key here is "if you feel like you've not taken your fair share of the CC market". In that case, staying with just one option means that you are settling without trying. So the regret will come later in the form of "what if I...". If you are happy, even without tons of sex, it´s ok. About the money, the regret comes when someone feels that he could do something to earn more money but he just don´t do it or don´t try it. And probably, if you are happy you won´t care about the comment of brookl…
/r/askTRP16/09/16 07:02 AM
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fuck man. The point is that only betas get punishment. These girls will not ask for disciplinary action, but just for "action", you know? OP get the advice above about having your frame. If she is worried trying to get you, she will not have time to care about that guy. In any case, you will have options (you should)
/r/askTRP18/08/16 09:10 PM
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You don´t get the idea of awalt as I see. The point is that if your wife doesn´t respect you in the past, she will never do again. The guy is already cucked. But he can find someone who respects him.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:20 PM
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"Also, what kind of crazy bitch is engaged and wants a male friend so bad that she fucks him?" THAT is the point.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:03 PM
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So many men´s lifes ruined for the "kids shake"... did she do the same? Would you give that advice to a woman, in the opposite scenario? That would be patriarchal for the feminism...
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:57 PM
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In which different ages it happened? Your sister story. Because when they are not young anymore and cannot get hot guys, they "decide" to madurate and change priorities. Come on, man, wake up. The problem is that they feel like doing it in the moment, because you cannot change feelings easily, right? That´s why you cannot change the feelings of distrust and keeping in a relationship like that it´s bad for your selfsteem. A lot of guys these days try to rationalize as you did because they are afr…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:54 PM
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You nailed it. It's fucking lame to speak about human decency when someone has been cucked like that. This is the equivalent of rape for a man. Striping out your money to raise a kid which is not yours (genetically speaking, "decent humans") and lying to you so you can't get your own prole.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:22 PM
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No, it´s not too late. You can always make, with more or less effort, a new social network. Of course, it will get more difficult as time goes by. Anyway, it is good to make a couple of different social circles, so you have more options and you will meet more people.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 06:43 AM
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Go to meetings alone. try to find groups of people with similar interests and join them. Languages exchange, sport activities, dancing... there are plenty of groups like that in almost any place. Look for them on internet. But do not expect your friends would come, just decide to go yourself. At the beggining will be tough, or frightening. Then you will enjoy from start. Good luck out there
/r/askTRP04/08/16 08:18 AM
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Well, it could be a social decalibration, as you said. but it seems that you are able to realize when did you do off-the-mark jokes. Based on that and the people that were there, you could get an idea of which kind of jokes are too much angry and which ones hit the point. The difference would be that the latter will push forward the iteration, whilst the former will create some social tension. You could be able to recognize when to talk or to keep the harsh joke. I would say that honesty is usua…
/r/askTRP04/07/16 01:22 PM
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Yes, I get that feeling and it sucks. But you need to better your job in the short term, in order to have more time to game girls, to set dates, to hit the gym etc. Once you have that (could be in les than a year), you can relax a bit. Good luck, keep pushing and write if you want to talk.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 04:51 PM
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Nailed it. Studying abroad is usually a sex party for girls. And you said she is with her slutty friend, which will be convincing her to go down the slut path in order to feel better herself. NEXT.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 04:46 PM
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It may be the vibe. As I read your message it looks like too soft. The kino I mean. Context is king, in which context do you do the kino? rubbing the hand against the back? Should be close to the hip and/or ass.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 04:33 PM
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I would start monk mode for a while. As I see it, the most important issue is the economic independence. If you don't have it, you won't practice game, you won't make new friends nor start new hobbies, because "no money and no time". So, the free time you get, do programming. Make a portfolio of software. Small projects: calculators, text parsers, web pages, plugins... whatever you like. Put everything online, in repositories like GitHub (SJW is strong in here, though) or BitBucket. After some t…
/r/askTRP29/06/16 03:42 PM
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There are no "baby steps" here. It depends on how you were before taking the RP. Some people have it easier because they started from a better position, others don´t. The point is to advance, to get out of the comfort zone that kept you playing games and avoiding social environments and meeting girls. Now, you are taking control of your life, and that´s the point. Keep pushing. Nobody said it would be easy. Congrats man
/r/askTRP25/06/16 08:22 AM
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In my case, I still give a shit but, as cheechawcheechaw, much less than before. It´s a process. My turning point was when I moved to other country and I had to live by my own. When you are on your own, you are free to do what you fell it´s right.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 03:07 AM
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Yes, I think the worst move you did was how you got the number. You can learn from it. The next time, you have to ask her the number, instead of the stalker way. Now you know better, so next her, and good luck.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 02:47 AM
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I would say: stop getting into confrontations as much as possible and learn how to fight. When you know how to fight, when you have felt how it is to get hit in a controlled environment (like a gym or boxing classes) you lost the fear. So, yeah, learnt to fight and stop going into bad situations.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 02:35 AM
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