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I'm not your onlyfans supporter or simp? Why would I cream my pants for loose god knows where it's been pussy? The reason why I'm not attracted to you is because of your narcissism. It literally says "validation seeker" on the side of your name. What else is that supposed to mean besides narcissist? What I want from women like yourself is to stop walking around like your shit doesn't stink simply because you can get filled with cum by a hot guy who doesn't care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:59 PM
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I'm not really sure what argument you're attempting to make here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:57 PM
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What is there to be bitter about exactly? Am I upset that women are constantly getting passed around on dating apps? Sometimes but it's your choice at the end of the day. I don't think it's a smart choice but you're in your right to make it. You can choose to think of me as bitter or an incel but that's kinda impossible seeing as how I've had multiple relationships in the past. I'm also not primarily out here trying to have sex. I don't use dating apps anymore. What I want is a genuine relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:40 PM
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You're a woman on reddit I know who you are. "The most I do is hope a guy I’ve been seeing misses me" This is what I was going off of. Something you said. All I'm saying is that guy has better options than you. You didn't have what those guys were looking for. High value men aren't likely to settle down with average women like yourself. Being average isn't an insult by the way. You just aren't honest with yourself. I accept myself as average on most days. Even though I'm likely still above avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:38 PM
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I didn't fucking say that did you read my comment? I'm saying that it's incredibly stupid to base someone's attractiveness on photos only because photos don't do everyone justice. Some people also look better in photos than they do in person. It's why catfishing is a thing. You don't always know what you're gonna get on these apps. I highly doubt only 5% of the male population is attractive to women. (The guys that women are matching with overwhelmingly.) What you see is mostly fed to you by the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:34 PM
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I mean you're only hurting yourself going after men who don't want to be with you. I wouldn't call it berating you just have really thin skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:09 PM
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I mean if that's what you want to believe I don't really give a fuck. Is calling people virgins your only clapback?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:00 PM
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The most I do is hope a guy I’ve been seeing misses me or maybe realized that they missed out on what we had That guy has options though you should rather date your looks match. He can do better than you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:43 PM
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But most of these women are deciding men aren't attractive based on their "dating profiles." There are plenty of decent looking guys who aren't photogenic who a girl might find attractive if she were to open up to him. Women just aren't interested getting to know a guy who's outside of their comfort zones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:33 PM
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I actually agree with you but that doesn't mean I don't like to be spoiled and cared for in the relationship too. What is women's role in romance in the modern day? I thought we were striving for equality and gender breakdown?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:30 AM
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Aren't women a much larger tax drain than men too? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:34 AM
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I think the government mandated girlfriend thing is a joke for most. But we can alleviate certain economic conditions and maybe regulate match group and other apps like them to be more fair and not profit off of keeping people single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:54 AM
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She isn't fat enough you gotta lower your standards more. I'm sure there are girls out there who eat more twinkies who might give you a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:47 AM
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I've had many work crushes but I'm kinda afraid to pursue them. Don't really want an HR visit. If they like me it would be better for them to approach. I work in a larger department store btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:26 AM
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It seems many women are choosing to just be single though as opposed to simply accepting that they may be the primary breadwinners potentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:57 PM
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Modern women don't need a man to provide for her anymore so they can demand any number of petty or unreasonable deal breakers from the guys. So now we have a situation where men are expected to be even bigger providers than they were before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:48 AM
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Why kind of guys do you surround yourself with? You could also be mistaking guys simply being nice to you as "trying to get some" possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:43 AM
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Men were the ones historically expected to ruin their bodies toiling away providing for the family. Boo hoo you have to experience your lil moment of pain giving birth to a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:05 AM
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And you think men don't understand this? It's not the men who wanted women to enter the workforce women and feminists wanted that. So why are you pointing your finger at the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:02 AM
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But most women dislike men irrationally. I sometimes get weird looks from women simply by looking at them as if I've just insulted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:58 AM
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Well modern women hate themselves more than they hate men first and foremost. Being with average men reminds them of themselves. Can't have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:56 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:10 AM
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What does she want? For men to start breast feeding the children?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/22 12:24 AM
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I'd rather have a girlfriend. I can watch porn and rub one out real quick if I'm just horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:43 AM
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That was back when we were more communal and technology didn't obliterate the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:00 PM
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Being horny doesn't mean you have to have sex with complete strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:48 AM
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I just want someone who doesn't casually fuck around and only fucks the guys she's in a relationship with. That should lower the count and chance for sexual diseases quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:00 AM
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Yeah men fair way worse when raised by dysfunctional or broken families. Women at least will get a lot more social and government support when they are put in the same family structure more than likely.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/02/22 01:06 PM
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Depends on what you're settling for and how ridiculous your standards were originally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:41 AM
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I live at home, not college educated, and I'm not very photogenic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:49 PM
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Well if I'm not inadequate the other gender can show it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:07 AM
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One option is your reality the other one is something that you tell yourself to cope with the pain of missing out. It's not about preference it's about taking what life gives you and trying to be realistic about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:59 AM
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I mean I try to and I think I'm not a bad guy and everything but it's hard to know how others perceive you if you never get any compliments or input from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:29 AM
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Sure that's what they all say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:28 AM
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Why get into a relationship with a girl who doesn't share any of your interests? Kinda pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:11 AM
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So we should artificially inflate our ego's like the women do who demand 6 figures, 6 pack, and 6+ inch dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:23 AM
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If you're only validating yourself and never get it from others then it just sounds like you're trying to delude yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:22 AM
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How long has it been since you had a hug from the opposite gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:20 AM
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Why don't you control your sex drive and stop fucking guys from tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:19 AM
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I'd rather be sexually unsuccessful than emotionally damaged from being ran through by a bunch of guys and the result of that having to raise a child alone. I don't really see how the majority of women are that much better at romantic relationships. They just have an easier time getting sex from guys who don't value them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:12 AM
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It's just that the bar women have for attractive is much higher. Explain the whole fat acceptance movement then. I always see women complimenting less attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:07 AM
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I'm sure you still get a lot of male validation that you value and would notice was gone if it suddenly vanished
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:03 AM
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We do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:00 AM
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I think you're just a victim of the women are wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:51 AM
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Women are the ones who need to lower their standards they're the more picky sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:33 AM
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Idk but I'm one of the most hopelessly romantic guys in the world but now I'm just hopeless. I hope that answers your question about how things are going. I think more and more decent men will simply checkout of the dating market completely. The uphill battle just isn't worth it anymore. If women want me they can show it to me. Otherwise I'm fully capable being alone if I have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:26 PM
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I don't need your advice and you aren't pushing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:04 PM
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Just try and take it easy in life. And you don't have to always curse or be on the defensive. Be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:35 PM
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It doesn't help I need you to simplify it further for my monkey brain. Also having your shit together usually means things like having zero debt, your own place, a car, etc so that's what I read it as. But you want a man who is equally contributing? Would you date a stay at home dad or homemaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:30 PM
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If monkey branching all the time is evolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:28 PM
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You must give a shit you were just telling us earlier to get it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:46 PM
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You're the same stinky monkey as I am you aren't special.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:44 PM
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Ok sweetie 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:43 AM
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I'll get my shit together and throw it at you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:42 AM
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Those kind of jobs only exist for women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:39 AM
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If women are going to focus on their careers then it should be more normalized for men to be homemakers if that's what makes them happy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:08 AM
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Lucky you but only a small percentage of men could afford to sponsor women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:32 AM
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If women just approached the guys they liked and relied less on shifty apps we'd get somewhere. And no the average guy making 40k or so is definitely not respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:52 AM
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If you respect all men and the work they do there is never a shortage of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:41 AM
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How many decades older is he than you? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:39 AM
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But our society is setup in a way that makes it a necessity for both genders to work. And this is what feminists worked so hard for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:36 AM
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You're welcome. Keep living your truth sweetie. 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:32 AM
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Women typically have larger social circles. People want to be around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:25 AM
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Yeah many of these man haters don't understand that they're also likely being racist as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:54 PM
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Maybe men are committing crimes because of poor economic conditions and they don't have the option to sell their bodies or move in with a man who will pay their bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:40 PM
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I just don't understand why it's so difficult for women to control their urges that they can't wait for the right guy to come along. It's funny because I grew up my entire life believing that it was the men who were the sex obsessed ones. Meanwhile modern women can't HELP but fuck the hot nazi and have a full drawer of various different sized dildo's.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:56 PM
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Yeah I think it's fine when you both come to the conclusion that you're bored and want to spice things up. For me it only becomes a problem if I feel like I have to constantly impress or entertain someone to keep their company.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:03 AM
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This all sounds nice but it doesn't sound like you get out anymore or less than the average person. I think everyone will get bored of having too much monotony in their life and would prefer some variety. Even the people who never leave their house like myself have different reasons for it. Likely depression or anxiety things like that. So for me I'd like to date someone who is a bit more outgoing and will get me out of the house a bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:39 AM
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I don't really have much of a social group for various reasons but I would love to do those things with my partner if I had the opportunity. I think it would be kind of exhausting if I felt the need to go out every weekend though. I think every other weekend would be better. Sometimes a lazy weekend just cuddling up with my partner is nice after a hard week at work. Do you never feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:07 AM
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Yeah how often do you get out and what is sufficient enough for you do you think? I'm just curious. Also what do you like to do when you go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:06 AM
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Yeah I will stay guarded but still try and stay open to the idea. Good luck with your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:57 AM
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I hope that's true because it's the only way I would ever marry someone. I want to believe that love is a real thing and relationships aren't entirely transactional even though I understand money is still important obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:42 AM
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Sort of yes but women can still get bored if they can't use a guys wealth or social power to spice up her life. A rich guy who doesn't take her girl out and just sits at home all the time watching movies probably won't excite her much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:40 AM
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Soft-harems are starting to become mainstream though and there's of course the rise is sugar babying I'm noticing. You don't cheat because it would be financially disadvantageous for you to do so. Although women will sometimes monkey branch when possible with higher status males.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:35 AM
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Yes you would it's in your nature
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:26 AM
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If he lost his job tomorrow you'd be running for the hills though. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:24 AM
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but do you expect her to deny herself what she wants just for the purpose of preventing him from feeling this gratification? I do actually! There are many other options she can take. like with the option of masturbation or only sleeping with men who respect her and that's the right decision to take for everyone involved. We can't fix things like toxic masculinity if we're rewarding it and validating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:09 AM
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At the end of the day people can do whatever they want with their bodies but if someone doesn't want to date you for the decisions you've made that's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:07 AM
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Approximately 2 people a year for the past 7 doesn't necessarily mean problems but I think it's definitely a fair point to start wanting more information. 2 people a year doesn't sound like a lot to you but if she had even a few relationships in that timeframe she wouldn't need to be with 2 people every single year. Could be with one person for 3 years for example which would bring down the average. I want to see that the girls I'm with are capable of maintaining relationships. It's okay to leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:51 AM
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but if you feel like it, just tell me what they say happened? I mean there is evidence in the DM's but basically the worst of it was a guy saying he was a convicted child rapist and being very open about it and the girls still wanted to go over to his house and have sex with him anyway. But you're missing it, still. The empowerment is in being able to choose who as well as to determine the nature of the sexual encounter without social censure or backlash. Or even to be allowed to learn from your…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:48 AM
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I'm not manipulative so never. I'm very honest with people. If I feel like the relationship is leading to a bad place I will be honest about it way before we get to the point where I'm starting to think about other women. If I wanted someone else I would simply dump that person if the feelings were to grow that strongly with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:11 PM
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Not pursuing a one on one relationship doesn't mean they're incapable of maintaining one. It only means they don't choose to start one at that time. What trend are you referring to? Their own personal trend? I'm not sure I understand that part. Yes their own personal trend of casual hookups. They say you cant make a hoe into a housewife. It's a harsh way to look at it but I kinda agree with it. I doubt someone who has had casual hookups until their early 30s is suddenly going to be prepared to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:01 PM
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But come on, Nazis? I guess, unless she's a Nazi too. :p You never heard about any of those chadfishing experiments where nazis (and sometimes outright child rapists) were pulling chicks on dating apps simply for being attractive and these women were totally okay with it? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MSq54f2JT_U There was also this which was a pretty big story at the time. https://www.dailydot.com/unclick/cameron-herrin-tiktok/ So no I don't think women should feel "sexually empowered" by hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:51 PM
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In fact it is, But my question is why you consider it a reward, rather than seeing her sexuality as a normal and enjoyable benefit to herself. I mean, what if she does it for herself, rather than a reward/payment/benefit for her partner? Because it's not just for yourself. Masturbation is for yourself. How do you not see it as rewarding if you're having sex with someone simply because they are attractive? What if they are a truly awful human being but they get to enjoy your intimacy because you …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:30 AM
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Do you think all people just naturally bond with anyone in their vicinity who's willing? Not but what I am saying is that people who have high n-counts don't have a lot of experience with the actual maintaining and building of relationships. Casual sex doesn't really teach you how to be a good partner. I'm not saying it's not possible for promiscuous people to be a good and valuable partner but there is a trend which seems to indicate they weren't very good at maintaining relationships in the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:17 AM
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Why do you base it on N-count, anyway? Because it indicates a trend. If this person was the monogamous and commitment type they would have had multiple long term relationships which would keep their N-count low. Obviously if I'm in a relationship with someone for two years I'm only having sex with them right? Why would someone who has been having fun for the better part of a decade suddenly want to focus on only one partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:25 AM
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I think relationships are a lot healthier for society than a culture of casual sex and single parenthood. I don't hate people who wish to be promiscuous but I'm not going to promote it as a healthy or good thing. You can think however you want to think but I'm not really seeing why the supposed double standard is a bad thing. Can you explain why? Sure I'm justifying it now explain why I shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:01 AM
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"Reward"? Women enjoy sex. And that's your choice. But it's also my choice to not respect you. This wouldn't be the case if women weren't expected to repress their sexuality. How are modern women repressed sexually? Just hop on a dating app and you will have dick on demand from hundreds if not thousands of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:58 AM
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How can you be worthy of commitment if you don't even want it to begin with? That's the point I was responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:56 AM
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Do you honestly believe that most women are dating the top 10? They aren't that's why there's so many bitter women out there lamenting "where are all the good men?." Because the best they can get from these men is a quick pump and dump. Men are more willing to engage in casual sex Men have less access to casual sex of course they would be more willing. Men report more hookups than women Men are more likely to lie and inflate their count while women are more likely to downplay their n-count. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:30 AM
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Unfortunately, there's very little data on the topic. That's why I avoided using words as 'most' and stuck with the experience of other women and myself. The behaviors of the top 10% of men will likely be a lot different than that of the average men. And because women often don't have eyes for the average guy it's hard to take their word very seriously. That said, data on male willingness to have sex and the judgement of women who are promiscuous reveals that many men hold double standards. Show…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:03 AM
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They push for sex early on in the hopes to get laid and get frustrated when they're told "no" or made wait by women they suspect to be promiscuous. Can we see some actual data on this? Because I often see this claimed but I don't see the actual evidence for it. Also women wouldn't have a super high n-count if they would just stick with the men they're interested in who aren't outright abusive. It's this hypergamous game women play to try and capture the higher status males that causes their n-co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:47 AM
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Maybe you're just really terrible at picking men who degrade and disrespect you. Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:06 AM
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If you're not into him then you can pay for your own fucking meal then. Bet you don't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:30 AM
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The men's sexuality understander has logged on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:14 AM
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Why do people always frame this issue as a lack of sex as opposed to a lack of family building and intimacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:27 AM
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Most men turn to porn because women don't want them. It's not really an equal trade-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:46 PM
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Yeah if women actually watched porn maybe they wouldn't have astronomically high body counts by the time they're 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:43 PM
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Maybe there's a secret society for chad's who love to be pegged so that's where they get it from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:37 PM
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Well I've always preferred homemade/couple videos primarily I'm sure I'm not the only one. We don't all watch the same junk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:34 PM
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happens to the best of us
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:25 AM
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And yet still the democratic party wanted to grill him for not giving enough lip service to identity politics. Even his fellow democratic presidential candidate elizabeth warren tried to lie her way into painting him as some type of misogynist for her own gain.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/22 03:16 AM
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I have a very physically demanding job and I'm mostly just slim fit but I don't look like any of those celebrities in that blog post you sent me. Even when I was exercising 4+ hours a week. Also I don't need a woman telling me how male fitness works. I don't try and tell you how your body works. tall doesn't automatically put you in the top 3.9 percent attraction wise but it is one of the more attractive traits desired by women. Of course if you look like a troll monster in the face like I do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 11:41 AM
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That's all good and well but remember how this discussion began in the first place. To be "fit but not too muscular" takes at least some effort beyond just being active and most of these photos used as examples are of actors, body builders, etc. One even appears to be an MMA fighter based on the gloves. Most Americans in general are overweight and don't go to the gym. There's no way that a 6'2 guy with blue eyes who's described as handsome and fit isn't top 0.5% attractive objectively. Just bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:58 PM
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And each one of these photos are of extremely fit men who likely have to go to the gym to upkeep it. The skinniest guy there I would describe as kinda ripped. This is exactly what I mean. Women have no fucking idea the kind of effort it takes for men to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:20 PM
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Show me a few photos of who you think are fit but not muscular guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:21 PM
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Yeah but most girls idea of muscular is some bodybuilder type shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:07 AM
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Objectively he is? She also described him as handsome and in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:45 AM
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Literally the top 0.5 percent of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:44 AM
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Why date a goat when you can get the goat cheese for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:15 AM
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But you're still describing someone who sounds well above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:46 PM
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I think some guys genuinely look better or worse on a dating app sometimes though. Like I looked at my fatter friends dating profile and he appeared a lot more attractive than in-person. Meanwhile I don't think I'm photogenic at all. In-person I feel like I'm probably above average even though my experience with apps has definitely lowered my confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 11:42 PM
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I'm pretty confident in my abilities actually
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:18 AM
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A lot of dudes out here are wack af in bed I'm not going down on you while you're having your hoe phase. No telling what's been in there haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:00 AM
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You must be a gorgeous chad then or in a good location. I'm an average but slim tall guy I feel like I should attract some attention but I don't really. Although I can sometimes get into a relationship. Casual sex has never really been an option for me though. Not that I would be too interested in it to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:07 AM
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Yep but the women down the road want nothing to do with me for some reason. Meanwhile I feel like if I was able to easily move and find a job in another country I would have plenty of suitors. Western women's hypergamy is just through the fucking roof. Damn. 340 women in the whole world And that doesn't include the couple hundred matches as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:32 AM
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Nah it gives the impression that you're capable of having a conversation with anyone no matter their social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:51 AM
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It also disqualifies guys who may have similar hobbies or principles. Funny to think that a college educated left wing woman who likes jazz and cycling wouldn't date a left wing man who works in construction but who also has left wing ideals, likes jazz, and goes cycling as well. All because he's not on her "level."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:22 AM
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You chat with both guys and judge them individually instead of just shutting them out from the get-go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:15 AM
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Yeah most men don't complain about the lack of casual sex. Rather the lack of matches. I'm sitting on one match on hinge. 340 likes and hundreds of matches on okcupid though after changing my radius to any girl from around the world. Filipino women really like average looking white dudes I guess. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:07 AM
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Nah it's not recommended to use the paid versions actually. These companies use shady tactics like reducing your profile visibility on the paid versions to get you to pay for boosts and things once they know you have money. I've also seen my likes on okcupid shoot up after my subscription ended probably to get me to pay again to see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:00 PM
1

Profit is theft
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 02:00 AM
6

But it's a red flag if every one of her relationships only lasts a year. Seems she will get bored and leave eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:43 PM
16

If a moderately fit and tall guy has to lower his standards to fat mentally ill single mothers something is horribly wrong somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:38 PM
11

Yeah the men who keep her toilet running so she can shit in comfort are not economically sexy enough. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:07 AM
0

Far far less than men. Women are more social than men, even when women have poor social skills. They're more social with other women maybe but obviously not with men. Do you think only people socialize with people they want to fuck?! LOL DUDE! Yeah I'm still not seeing the evidence that women are better at socializing than men necessarily. Having an easier time getting sex doesn't prove they're better at socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:05 PM
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And do you believe women aren't also severely socially inept? Maybe even more so than men? After all women are still the one's expected to be pursued by men. How do they learn proper social skills when they aren't expected to need them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:58 AM
7

Shit dude, I wish every woman would read this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:56 AM
1

If we don't get women then we get no family either. Being alone your entire life isn't ideal for anyone. It's not just about getting our dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:46 AM
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I think burning society to the ground for the fact that our chance at having a family and fulfilling future is taken away from us is justified. Women being pumped and dumped and left to being single mothers isn't a fantastic deal for them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:44 AM
6

What about octagon shaped women? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:52 PM
1

And treating men like ATM machines is treating us like people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:50 PM
4

Most men are normal people you just haven't interacted with many men in your life obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:43 PM
2

I'll gladly take both thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:22 PM
2

Ok OwOFemboyUwU
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:23 AM
3

Bet you'd like it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:09 AM
2

It's okay but I prefer my neck and ears
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:08 AM
2

Aww he's kinda cute tee hee 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:07 AM
2

Don't worry it happens to the best of us
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:28 AM
2

Probably not as gay as wishing for a meatier dick to go inside for your viewing pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:26 AM
2

Oh I know you do. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:42 PM
2

Tinder is to the left and around the corner. Instagram just down the road over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:38 PM
1

24 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:21 PM
3

Honestly you're a child you should be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:17 AM
3

Pls take me to japan
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:45 AM
1

Nah women just don't call them that but think about them constantly. The average guys are just invisible so they don't even exist in her world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:31 AM
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But she's beautiful at any size! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:01 AM
2

Well you're mentally ill and obviously dealing with some kind of trauma which is why you always sound so bitter and angry in most of your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:25 AM
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People used to talk to strangers all the time in the past. But we're living in an increasingly anti-social society. Kind of depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:20 AM
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You don't have to entertain them you just have to be polite. Did you have a poor upbringing or something? No one taught you manners? Also not every guy who talks to you casually wants to fuck you right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:06 AM
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Well you're rude and a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:16 AM
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I don't think it's so much that we want to impose anything on women. Rather we want them to make emotionally intelligent decisions for their future and their children's future on their own. So no I don't think chasing bad boys until your mid 30s is healthy. Guess that makes me a woman hating hyper conservative or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:49 AM
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I'm not really aware of this can you post an example of the things he's saying or doing? I don't generally give a fuck what bieber is up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:46 PM
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Let him get away with it? Didn't he make those insensitive jokes when he was like 13 years old or something? Are we going to vilify a kid who has since apologized ages ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:44 AM
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Well if a guy is shy and shows signs of liking you I doubt he feels this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 10:05 PM
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Maybe you're just attracted to women instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:54 PM
1

Well I know that you're a gold digger and a side piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:19 AM
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six figures is rich and you're delusional. https://igotstandardsbro.com/ You're a very very bad woman with a terrible personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:10 AM
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Being some guys side piece isn't a serious relationship. Hot and rich guys have options that's why you aren't with him anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:20 AM
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Every girl has hundreds of likes and matches on dating apps it doesn't mean anything. What matters is who wants to actually have a relationship with you. What you're experiencing is the illusion of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:19 AM
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They should work on themselves first. That's what we tell men who struggle with women. So fuck them. Maybe they can approach the guys they like and try their luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:17 AM
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There's already a gender imbalance on dating apps which gives less attractive women access to men out of their league. How much lower should I possibly lower my standards? I'm not attracted to obese women. And it's not like I'm getting likes from them on my profile anyway. Keep in mind that I'm tall and fit and average looking in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:34 AM
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Lol modern women aren't out here preparing dinner every night. Not the majority of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:23 PM
2

50s was early to mid capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:07 AM
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Then he should be pitching in more possibly. Though if he's mowing the lawn often and doing other things around the house that can still be labor intensive. Is it really that difficult to run a dishwasher?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:26 AM
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Well you said in your post that you'd be going out while he's away. Where to? Also less opportunities at work for cheating. Bathroom stall during break? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:23 AM
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Nah not really just late stage capitalism doing it's thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:21 AM
2

She'll probably have to date business owners exclusively to afford it. Maybe onlyfans on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:20 AM
3

And you can fuck the neighbor while your husband is away working.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:19 AM
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Does he do the lawn and fix things around the house though? Also does he work longer hours than his wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:16 AM
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Women don't really have a "choice" anymore unless they marry super wealthy. They'll have to work. Wages aren't paying what they used to in order to afford getting by on one income alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:11 AM
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I've chatted with women here who basically want to become full time house wives and quit their jobs as soon as they have a child though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 06:28 AM
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My reasoning for having less friends and being less sociable is mostly due to the fact that I moved a lot growing up and didn't have the most stable family life which isn't exactly a fault of my own. Although I do have friends I just don't go clubbing with them and many are online or work acquaintances. Nonetheless you seemed to have ignored my point about women being asked out more to social events which appears to be the case. Also I feel like "red flags" are usually just excuses to be judgmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:21 PM
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Not everyone has a vibrant social circle for one reason or another. Also I feel like women are probably more often to get invited to social events but I don't have any data on that right now to prove outright. I still don't understand this whole stranger danger mindset of yours. There's always risk involved. Also your husband was once a stranger too. You wouldn't be open to him if you found him in a different context? Also you married folk need to get the fuck off this subreddit already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:43 PM
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That's why you meet in a public safe space and vet correctly. How did you meet the majority of your partners or friends for that matter? People don't stay in school forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:27 PM
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What do you think the point of a date is? To get to know the person? Are you listening to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:45 PM
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I'm not joking are you going to take the conversation seriously or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:43 PM
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Every new friend was once a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:13 AM
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And eventually the people around her will start to prioritize their spouse's and children and she won't be getting the same emotional support anymore. And trips to Italy aren't sustainable. People get into relationships for security.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:12 AM
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I'm a poor and lonely young male. I didn't setup or create society as it functions now and actively wish it wasn't like this. What power do I have? Stop associating all men with rich and powerful old white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:07 AM
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Sexual tourism to Italy isn't sustainable and bad for the environment. Also it's one thing to go wgtow due to men's behavior. But choosing to br single because men back home can't satiate your hypergamous needs? Do what you want but I won't respect a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:59 PM
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I've seen the kind of crackheads bikers have on their bikes I'm good homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:02 AM
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I just live in a major city Yeah this is a huge one. You have the privilege of being surrounded by a lot of different women. It's not that you treat women any better than I do. You're probably less anxious around them though due to your experience. Though you're probably underestimating your attractiveness a little bit still if you're fucking multiple women at any given moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:08 AM
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Idk where you live or how you got in your position but if you aren't a girl then you're just the top percentage of guy who all the women are after I guess. You're probably young enough still to be surrounded by a lot of women too. College?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:05 AM
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What's the alternative? Harems for top men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:38 AM
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You're basically the side piece of various chads. There's no telling how many women these men have run through besides you. And FWB's are an inherent privilege afforded to women that average and decent guys don't get to partake in. We only get sex in the context of a relationship. And since more and more women are partaking in soft harems we're getting left in the dust. This is why male sexlessness is shooting through the roof but hasn't dented much for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:12 AM
1

Are you open to STD's too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:49 AM
3

He's waiting while you're fucking the friend with benefits. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:26 AM
1

And my reward for leaving you alone is being alone. So to stop genuine guys from being alone more women should approach the men they like. After all we still need to make relationships happen somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:56 AM
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That's fine just hit on the men you like then. I'm tired of doing all the work. Not worth it especially with the off chance that I could get #MeToo'd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:31 AM
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So men don't know how to hit on women apparently. So all women should be shooting their shot and the gender roles should be reversed. We're just too large and scary. Come on and show us how it's done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:21 AM
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Fair point. It's time for women to be the initiators of all romantic activity. I want to be wine and dine'd. No more excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:02 AM
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What if you just don't want to bother them or creep them out? Ever thought about that? A lot of girls don't exactly make it easy or give the best signals to approach either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:32 AM
1

Seems like you're jumping to conclusions a little too easily. There could be many reasons for being intimidated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:28 AM
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lol yeah fuck that noise. I don't mind waiting but I'd never be apart of that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 12:35 AM
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Absolutely. Kids learns independence and that the world doesn't revolve around them. Huh you want newborns to learn independence? what are you talking about lady. I love my SAHM friend, but her kids (all daughters) didn't know women could work because she doesn't model that for them. How old were they? Seems like something they'll learn with age and a non-issue. Statistically, kids from single parent or low income families do better behaviorally and academically when their mother works. Sounds l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:14 PM
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It's okay you just have to delete the apps and try to remember that there are other things worth living for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:37 AM
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It's not always about what you want. Once you bring a child into this world you now have the responsibility to ensure they have the best upbringing possible. Can that be facilitated while both parents are out working all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 04:38 AM
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Well this is what feminists fought for and now they can't afford to be SAHM's anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:00 AM
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From my experience most of the female cashiers are college students or grandma's. The college students are unlikely to want to date their male coworkers for long if at all. They'll date guys in their college and social circles maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:12 AM
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It might happen less often but it's still possible unlike the inverse. The reality is that a female cashier is unlikely to want to marry a male cashier. Women aren't willing to date within their class anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:10 AM
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Women don't date the regular Joe with a regular job anymore you gotta be exceptional and win at capitalism or remain single I learned. Failure is not an option for men we're still expected to be breadwinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:49 PM
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Female cashiers don't have a problem being valued as a romantic option. You're classist and also sexist against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:43 PM
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Reality is what we make it buddy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 11:31 PM
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I don't think we should be advocating for social decline to reduce our carbon emissions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/21 03:33 PM
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Man crazy to think that as early as 2008 men and women were at a similar position in the sexual marketplace. So sad what's happening. I blame dating apps partially which have algorithms in place literally designed to make hypergamy into reality whether the women want to partake in it or not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/21 03:28 PM
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Consider this sub documents "broken and desperate women" who nonetheless have delusional entitlement attitudes. It was the welfare state, chivalry and feminism that led to their predicament. But most of the examples on this sub are just women demanding things from men not the government. And as long as inequality continues to rise women will just continue to demand more and get more jaded in the process. "Far right politics" can't make their situation any worse, but it could at least change thei…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 03:25 PM
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Oh wait, that's Cuba. Yeah they did it for free visa's. Someone is going to own those robots. And if it's not the individual, then it's the State. Governments commit democide at the drop of a hat. Sure we can take the human element out of it and make the AI good enough to self manage...which means that AI eventually is going to "optimize" humans out of the system due to them being free riders. The solution is obviously to give people more control over their government not to abandon it entirely.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 03:15 PM
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It's better than the various flavors of collectivism that are effectively end up as slavery with better PR. But if the free market leads to the same or even worse standard of living is it really better? And I never said that the repairman jobs were going to make up for the job losses in peak automation. That's why I said to take off the rose colored glasses. It's going to be one heck of a dystopia if it comes to pass. Why would automation be dystopian? In a capitalist system maybe. But in theory…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 02:34 PM
1

Well I commend you anyway. Stick to your values.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 02:30 PM
1

But why would you vote for the second option. Why not vote for neither or even 3rd party?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 02:28 PM
1

So basically you want a government which only exists to protect the wealth and power of the Elon Musks and Jeff Bezos's of the world? These people have already benefited immensely from how our government currently functions. I think such a system would only work if we started from ground zero again. And I'd take off the rose colored glasses for automation. Someone is going to own all those robots, and why would they need the free riders? Better brush up on robot maintenance or subsistence farmin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 02:24 PM
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So you're some kind of weird libertarian variant? Or possibly a market socialist of some kind? I just want a system that puts as much power as possible into the hands of workers and less hierarchal. Eventually we'll get to the point where automation will eliminate enough jobs that it will be possible to deal with a certain percentage of free riders as you call them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 01:48 PM
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The police are just violent hired thugs of the state to preserve capitalism and prevent you from protesting and demanding for a fairer government. When the whole political system is corrupted with money from both parties what else are you to do?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 12:22 PM
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Ask the Bernietards how that's been working out for them. We know the DNC is fucked and the democrats aren't a true left party. Just because I've abandoned the democratic party doesn't mean I'm going over to your team. You're apart of the same duopoly superstructure of capitalism. Republicans aren't going to do anything for me besides cut social funding and claim it helps me somehow. All to save their friends some money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 12:18 PM
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So a politician who follows through with their promise to fuck you over is better than a politician who promises to uplift you but doesn't? Just sounds like they're both terrible in different but similar ways.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 12:16 PM
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You realize far right politics will just lead to more broken and desperate women right? Women aren't going to return to being homemakers. Not when both have to work for a living to make ends meet. Explain how far right economic policies is going to reverse that trend I'm waiting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 12:13 PM
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I don't befriend people on the assumption that I'm going to get some sexual or financial benefit out of it. I befriend people who I like and who understand me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:17 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:17 AM
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A FWB relationship lasting for fucking 10 years? Yeah my initial assessment of you was correct. Get some therapy or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:16 AM
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It must be interesting having access to sex your whole life even when you aren't dating. Guess it's just a privilege awarded to women as a whole and a select few men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:14 AM
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So your hypothetical lover or boyfriend in the future is going to be cool waiting around for you while you're out fucking some grandpa? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:11 AM
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Yeah can you imagine yourself at 60 years old without a family still having friends with benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:03 AM
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You're hurting yourself and wasting each other's time. This is why you're 35 and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:59 PM
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Because most guys aren't privileged enough to have multiple booty calls like women have. I've only ever had sex in the context of a relationship. I often go on dry smells with women that can last more than a year at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:54 PM
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So you're wasting time with someone who has an expiration date when you could be focusing on finding the right guy. Instead you show up to dates with guys with weak knees.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:51 PM
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Maybe you're just damaged emotionally. Stop fucking your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:46 PM
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I'd be content with a hug at this point dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 11:41 PM
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We were talking about plumbers but yeah people working for Walmart deserves a living wage and respect too. After all we saw how essential their work was during the pandemic. But if you want to own being classist and shitty go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:17 PM
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Preferences are one thing but it's definitely racist to eliminate an entire race out of your dating pool as if they're a monolith. So you're racist and classist. Sheesh woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:08 AM
3

4chan fuck outta here. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:56 AM
2

That's like saying not dating all people of a specific race has no bearing on anything. You can't say that without being at least a little bit racist. You haven't met every person of that race before to say outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:55 AM
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Lol who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:52 AM
2

And not every blue collar man is the same just as every white collar one isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:51 AM
3

So you're classist got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:50 AM
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You can fuck whoever you want but you don't know this hypothetical plumber guy and never met him so you have no reason to reject him outright when it's possible that he checks all of your other boxes. What other reason do you have other than "eww plumber" classist bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:39 AM
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I’m going to match with a teacher who makes half my salary but grew up in a MC environment much better than a guy who makes more than me owning his own plumbing business but grew up poor and didn’t go to college. How do you know? Have you dated a plumber before? Let alone one who was resourceful enough to start his own business?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:37 AM
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Looks maybe a little but I'm not really prioritizing youth in fact I'd be willing to date a woman up to a few years older than me but these women aren't willing to date a guy like me usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:34 AM
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Yeah and my job keeps me physically fit. I have a six pack and I'm not just skin and bones either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:30 AM
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All of them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 06:22 AM
2

This is your feminist capitalism. #GirlBoss because you cannot pay rent with a minimum wage job. Maybe we should work to change that instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:24 PM
0

I'll gather it later I gotta work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:35 PM
1

Okay look at the world around us and tell me we should all be happy little flawless robots. You miss me with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:25 PM
1

I don't get women. But also I want to be with someone who makes me happy. And I'm only talking about looks. Though I'm not obese or attracted to it so I won't entertain that. Would rather remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:23 PM
0

It's my experience and also supported in the data I've seen I don't want to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:21 PM
1

I've had moments where I've had a surge of confidence but it didn't seem to improve my chances. I'd just get pushed in the hole again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:01 PM
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I don't really care what other guys are doing the pressure that I'm feeling to constantly improve is mostly coming from the women and their expectations. And also it's extremely expensive to build your own family now so I need to reach that upper echelon if I want to have a chance with it. The pressure might kill me before I get there but I'm learning that I can't be content with "good enough" anymore I have to be exceptional if I want to be truly happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:51 PM
0

If women are hypergamous why would they date men on the same level as them? I'm only trying to reach a baseline level that is attractive enough to be worthy of entering the dating market again. Seeing as how it seems like women don't date men unless they've already gotten their whole life plan together already which takes years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:41 PM
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Women always want a man who is whole and complete. So what should the advice be then? Should all men put off dating until their 30s or something? What does it take to be "whole and complete"? I guess women just want to be with stoic men and the feminist narratives about wanting men to open up about their feelings are false.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:38 PM
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Not every guy is going to be at the height of his earning potential at 18-22. I'm just saying it's okay to want to grow with someone. And yeah if you're going to date someone for 5+ years there will likely be low points in the relationship where you might have to do things for the other person that you wouldn't want to do. Or do you only want to be valued for sex or something else? You don't want to offer anything else to the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:35 PM
2

Must be seeing as how so many are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:25 AM
0

I suppose so I think I'm going to just go back to school again. I think the only way I'm going to attract the kind of woman I want anyway is to try and raise my status.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:36 PM
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Men are looking for sex everywhere. Even that guy who hits on you at work. Some more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:35 PM
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Man I didn't even say I needed a woman to be happy. There's a lot of things in life that make me happy but a good woman would undoubtably make me happier and still a goal of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:52 AM
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We can pretend but no one is happy alone we evolved to be social. Our current culture isn't natural at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:29 AM
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Sure some of them aren't so bad just decent guys who are bad on their luck and need a positive light in their life. Someone who validates them and nurtures them motivating them to be better. Women used to want to uplift their men and lead them to genuine happiness. I guess not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:47 AM
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So you just find random single women walking alone at the park who are receptive to being hit on? You just bug random women on their grocery trips? Work makes sense but not really for me since I work night shift and most of the girls are cashiers. Still I feel like it could be taken up with HR if I make a wrong move. But also I was wondering if you lived in a city with a lot of young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:29 AM
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Where do you find them and more importantly where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:14 AM
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I'm already amazed at the gender gap on dating apps. If anything it suggest women are going their own way more so than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:40 AM
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That I primarily prefer to date women of a different race from mine and accepting that it's okay to have preferences not not feel guilty for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:09 PM
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It's weird every girl I've debated here would go on to mention their husbands. Real "fuck you got mine" vibes coming from them. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:04 PM
1

If I had to give a number for where I live it would be 50k. Okay here's a rough estimate So considering he's working 40 hours a week you're hoping for a man who makes 24 dollars an hour minimum. https://madamenoire.com/417738/new-report-62-americas-jobs-pay-less-20 It's probably even worse now but according to this report from 2014 62% of American workers make less than $20 an hour which doesn't even reach your minimum standard. You might have the ability to go after men of a higher status but y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:48 AM
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Uh.. Im a financially stable woman who wants a financially stable man. I believe in a capitalist economy but with a high level of welfare and high taxes to support that. So I'm going to oppose you politically then because I don't believe in a social democracy I'm a socialist. What do men not treat their time partner for years better than the girl they've met on a couple dates. Are you honestly, truly Hand on heart saying you love the woman you met three dates ago and that your level of sacrifice…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:06 AM
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You don't have to be poor to fight against inequality. I suppose but if you're poor, a socialist, and a woman. I'm not going to take you seriously if you're going after high-status men. I'm just not. Many men are with me here. Uh no. I said I wasn't willing to sacrifice for a man I just met and who I have no bond with. An existing relationship where I outearn the man (and I do!) is different because there's already love and a bond that exists. But if you're single and looking for the right kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:24 AM
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I think a lot of these standards that you have are reasonable but that doesn't mean they're necessarily realistic. It makes since that you'd want a certain level of financial security to raise children and own a home but you'd essentially have to date a capitalist to acquire it. But my career is not a direct threat to your career. In fact we can both have a career. You don't need to be a #girlboss for that. Your career isn't a threat to my career but it is a threat to our relationship. You said …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:57 AM
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Shes an urban dweller looking for an urban dweller People can move. It's too expensive to make it as a single man in the city. and unless I missed something she was looking for someone who's earnings are around hers. Men dated women who earned less than them for decades why are women so adverse to "dating down"? Why is your partners job so important to you? Aren't there other things that are more important in the relationship? Neither of these are classist in the same way having a preference for…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:28 AM
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You can't be a progressive while having classist tendencies. She wasn't a progressive. What da fak do you want? I want someone who respects me who doesn't give a fuck what my job is. Only that I can grow with them and pay my way in the relationship that is equal to them. I think that's fair. Honestly while I'm not opposed to having maybe one child I think a childfree woman is probably best until the world sorts itself out first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:51 PM
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You don't get to call me a misogynist in another post and then tell men to grow a pair. That's a sexist remark. On the same level as telling a guy to man up. And it's also sexist against women. Does not having balls make a man weaker? What because he's more like a woman? Are women weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:26 PM
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He doesn't have to be a mythical man, a lot of conservative men are interested in that sort of dynamic. Many many are interested including myself. That doesn't mean we can afford it. Wanting to get by on a modest income and give your children as much individual attention as possible has nothing to do with watching too many tv shows. It's admirable that you want these things and makes you a good potential mother. Maybe you'll get lucky but the reality is that there's a lot of women like you out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:55 PM
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I doubt you're going to be doing half of those things in your day-to-day even if you find this mythical man. And even if you find him he still might not even choose you. Nope, plenty of women do this. Exactly a lot of women are living in fantasy land that's the problem. Women are watching too many tv shows. Ah yeah, end up with severely dysfunctional children that end up being overweight because I never have time to cook them a meal and we all have to live on takeout. Lady this is what happens. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:32 PM
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Women can keep telling themselves that but it's not true. It won't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:26 PM
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i just turned 25 but ive been lurking on this sub long enough to know that’s old to some people LOL. Nah you're extremely young and accomplished that's crazy. i have a leg up, i am a nerd. i’m very modern/progressive with some conservative values. both of my parents were from the hood so i’m very much so a first generation low-middle classer. i’m not out of touch, i do recognize nobody opted into capitalism and the hustle sucks. but if you want a good woman, you gotta do good things. so not for …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:19 PM
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No, not necessarily. An average or above average salary and it's possible in my country. I'm not expecting to live in a mansion or go on luxury holidays 3 times a year. I wouldn't mind working a few days a week either. But you're expecting a man to pay for a house (probably right? lets be real), and support you, multiple animals, 2 or 3 kids, etc. What the fuck do you bring to the table to ask for that from a man? "Hopeless for wanting a family and to dedicate my life to taking care of them? Don…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:05 PM
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i agree with you. i never said it isn’t hard. we need those jobs too. i’m just saying, some men be on this internet complaining instead of leveling up. I don't really want to be in a constant state of "leveling up" for what exactly? For you? You don't seem worth it. Would you even love me? Most women don't want to support their men and help them grow. They just want to wait at the finish lines for the winners. I did serve my country, proudly like 2% of American do, and i continue to serve as a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:55 PM
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Most of the electricians, plumbers, and hvac guys will be conservatives and very favorable to capitalism since it's now benefiting them. I live in rural America. What kind of jobs do these "financially independent" men you speak of have? I'd guess the majority of them aren't progressive but rather liberal capitalists. They may be more willing to put up with your girlboss charade though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:38 PM
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The fact that you want a big family and to be a stay at home mom indicates to me that you're looking for a millionaire. It's the only way this is going to work. Have you ever ran the math on any of that? I need to invest in cat litter sheesh. You women are hopeless. ADAPT with the times. You aren't going to get the future you want with men. Not under late capitalism darling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:28 PM
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A financially independent man is more likely going to be in the trades (not educated enough for you), conservative, and have an ego about him. Progressive men are more likely to come from poverty and struggle. And because of that likely to be depressed and have trouble maintaining good relationships with friends and family. I got a cat though. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:23 PM
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enough that if you look on the internet and find a projected path, you will get there eventually if u want it imo. I'm just wondering what career paths you have in mind. Someone still has to stock the shelves over at your local petco and they deserve to be paid a living wage. Are you not at all aware that half of American workers make less than 35,000k a year? Yes it is THAT hard out there and getting worse. even join the military if it’s just SO impossible to make a decent living. Why should I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:13 PM
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I work for lowe's so checks out. I bust my ass keeping these shelves stocked so these women can upkeep all of their home improvement needs. Need some new furnishings for their studio apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:53 PM
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Lol how many 6 figure jobs do you think are out there? definitely not enough to satiate these psycho modern women. I don't really give a fuck what goes on in your upper middle class majority white neighborhood. I'll move to another country before I date someone who only see's me as an asset to their luxurious and excessive lifestyle. You women need to stop watching home improvement shows and keeping up with the kardashians it's obviously been rotting your brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:45 PM
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I literally just told you that I love strong and ambitious women. But seeing as how women aren't expected to date down it would be a threat to our relationship if her ambitions came into fruition and mine didn't. I don't want my relationship to feel like a competition to where if I lose our relationship is done for. I want to be in a relationship with someone who lifts me up and motivates me while also not threatening to up and run away if I can't provide more than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:24 PM
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Why would I care about a woman's ambitions when it's a direct threat to our future maintaining the relationship? I love strong and ambitious women but their standards are going rise too and they'll be looking for an upgrade before long.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:18 PM
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If women decided that 80% of men were unattractive due to being abusers or something else I would agree with you. When you actually look into what women are actually looking for it's obvious they're the ones who have to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:15 PM
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I think at a certain point it's just better to check out of the dating market if you're not getting what you want. I think the sexual marketplace will eventually crash and stabilize at a more realistic level. I'm not really looking for perfection when it comes to women but I still want to be with someone who's reasonably attractive and has a good personality. I don't think that's unrealistic or hard to maintain. 6 figure job and six pack abs? Definitely harder to maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:11 PM
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I don't really give a fuck just don't have STD's or be like this one girl at my work who literally fucked like half of the dudes there. I care more about the context of your past and if you're capable of making sound decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:52 AM
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Without! Awoooga!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:16 AM
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Yes kween I'm a lonely depressed male please step on me. 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:12 AM
2

Get off reddit and go hug your man or something sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:47 PM
5

It's tribal.. you wouldn't get it!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/21 09:35 AM
1

Supermodels have a specific look that not all guys are into including myself. And not every guy likes excessive makeup and filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:44 AM
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I want to be with a girl who exhausted her options and I was the one that came out on top. I don't want to just be some dude she's fucking with because it's all she knows. Kind of the hard road but I think it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:33 PM
1

I haven't seen it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:44 PM
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And most of them deserve it. Both for their choices and setting up their child for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:04 PM
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Yeah the guy not making six figures and who maybe doesn't have the best photos but otherwise looks fine in person and rather charming. That's the kind of guy who's in most women's league. Not even a bad thing to "settle" on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 09:59 PM
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I don't think men actually believe that though. They just get upset when women fuck the "chads" on the first date but not them. Like some men get to play by different rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 09:55 PM
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Dating apps push these kind of guys up in their algorithms too. Basically regular guys are pushed out of the queue so the "stack" so to speak are just guys who already have success and matches. Rich get richer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 09:48 PM
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You got the right idea! ✅
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/21 06:32 AM
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I'm a guy romance, emotional connection, and companionship are definitely more important for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:05 AM
2

And men don't buy toys at all we use our hands generally. It's functional. Women are a lot more perverted than men. It's why they have much higher n-counts than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:21 PM
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Women literally buy our parts and keep them in their drawers though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:26 PM
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Why are so many women demanding men be fit and over 6ft tall then? Women are just as superficial if not a lot more superficial than men considering all the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:54 AM
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twenty men is a lot to go on "a few dates" with while having no boyfriend to show for it imo. That's 40 dates minimum. You have to be either extremely bad at vetting or have unrealistic standards by that point. Though I don't really give a shit about n-counts anyway I care more about the context of the sex and whether or not you have any STD's.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:12 PM
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I can wait beyond a few dates but why does it take 20 dates with different guys to get a boyfriend anyway? You've already partially vetted them online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:18 AM
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Well women are incapable of love so that's why I separate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:47 PM
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I'm not saying anyone is required to love them only that being loved is something that's very important for human development. Be that romantic or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:28 PM
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Maybe we'll believe it when these mythical women come into our lives and actually give us the love we all deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 11:03 AM
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Without capitalism we wouldn't have to worry about people "pricing out" of relationships. At least not economically. There would still exist people who aren't really attractive to anyone I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:02 AM
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We're all a product of our environment so you can never solely blame an individual for their experiences in life that shaped them. Also not everyone lives in a place with a booming night life or even get along with the types of people who are about that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:10 PM
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And most of the women are fat go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:40 PM
1

I'm not paying for your meals especially if you feel entitled to it and don't offer to pay your share also.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:30 PM
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Wow you want to feel loved truly and deeply? Such male entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:19 PM
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They only allow us to have our own movement if they can control the whole narrative from the inside. Like how menslib is entirely feminist run and certain kinds of discussions being disallowed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/21 10:53 PM
15

Traditional trad trads
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:27 PM
2

But why the disparity? Men work and have facebooks and things too. So why the sausage fests everywhere you go?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:25 PM
2

I've stopped using tinder but I still give okcupid and hinge a shot every now and then but it's all the same shit really. Aren't bars and clubs usually sausage fests as well? If women aren't on dating apps where are they finding men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:11 PM
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They're attracting "plenty of men" to what purpose? Obviously not commitment if they're all sharing the same 1% of men or whatever it is. Again it's the women who need to change or admit they're all in soft-harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 12:08 PM
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It's women who are having the vast majority of casual sex though. Many men would love to find a woman to love but she's too busy being hypergamous and sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:18 AM
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No women need to lower their standards the stats are outrageous. It's getting really fucking old how it's always the men who have to be the ones to improve but women are always fine just the way they are. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jPuQ1Wjd2Rk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:16 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:18 AM
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What do you call a woman who only has sex with people who won't commit to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:58 AM
2

I'm at the point in my life where I hear gold digging code language everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:23 AM
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She looks like what an e-girl probably looks like without makeup to me. I think she's way above average but maybe she's just closer to my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:11 PM
1

Why does education matter so much to women? How often do you have discussions about calculus with your so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:07 PM
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electricians make mad bank how is that a surprise to you are you kidding? You have to be joking right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:18 AM
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Yeah I'm sure women would love a bunch of men to flood their spaces in hopes of getting with them. I'm of the opinion that men and women just have different interests most of the time which leads to many of these problems. Oh and older women don't date younger men I've tried it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:59 AM
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I've never gotten the sense that a career women would date men of a lower status in my entire life. These women don't want love they're married to their careers and "ambition."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:56 AM
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So do you like getting approached by random guys on the street trying to ask you out? Because I was always under the impression that women don't like this. Are bars and clubs the only place to meet women? I don't really like going to those kinds of places and I'm more introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:53 AM
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Strong independent women are very high maintenance and hypergamous that's why I don't like them even though I'm attracted to them. These women expect you to have a degree, live on your own, have a better job than them, etc. Fuck all that. They'll never be happy. I'm not trying to compete with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:50 AM
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I'm 6'1, skinny, don't push sex, ask about hobbies and interests, etc, and I mostly get ignored by women on online dating. And that's mostly because of how these apps are designed. There's an algorithm where only the top performing profiles are seen by women or even if I do match with a girl I'm one of probably a thousand. There's always a better match only a swipe away! Why waste your time on someone like me. I doubt you treat women any better than I do. Guys have to do a lot more to prove thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:44 AM
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Well I'm not a single mom and don't have a petri dish of STD's from sharing men so I think I'm the winner here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:35 AM
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Women get treated better and their sexualities validated a lot more often than men yes even lesbian women. Women are also a lot more likely to mess around with the same gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:32 AM
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The problem is that 99% of them don't actually do anything about it or aren't self-aware enough to fix their problems. An individual can't fix systemic problems by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:31 AM
2

I'm good homie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:35 AM
5

Or an attractive face...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 10:52 PM
2

Which low paying job primarily occupied by men is of a higher social class?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:14 AM
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The point is that those career women would never date down economically for a good guy unlike men for the most part. Women value providers it might be a biological thing or culture not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:42 PM
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This is the first generation of women that really don’t have to take shit from people because they depend on them for survival. Yet these same women are still looking for providers and men making more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:22 PM
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Casual sex isn't really for me and I prefer a loving partner but to each their own I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:03 AM
1

If sex is what you want you're more likely to get consistent sex in a relationship rather than hookups. Everyone is collectively having a lot less sex even if hookups are surging.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:43 PM
1

That could simply be the fact that men have less opportunities for sex compared to women who seem to be having more sex than men on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:27 PM
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My libido is lower than the average man's anyway so I think if someone truly loves me it wouldn't be hard to satiate me. I'm not sure if drastic differences in libido is a good match for a relationship if I'm being honest though. But if people want to make it work somehow and use things like porn in-between that's their business if both people are fine with it I don't see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:06 PM
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I don't need it if I'm in a relationship with you especially if you fuck good and often. Is that you? Are you a good fucker?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:17 AM
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Highly doubt your man wasn't watching porn when he was single though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:16 AM
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I don't know the studies but this is my experience too. I only turn to porn when I start to get horny every couple of days or so and don't have a girlfriend to release.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:07 AM
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We spend less time with our significant others than in the past because most households are becoming dual income. Also isn't the issue with pornography usually the fact that men are turning to that instead of giving attention to their wives or girlfriends? I mean I agree no man should pressure his girl for nudes but if she is willingly giving them to him I don't see the problem whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:01 AM
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I don't really feel a need to quit because I don't have an obsession and can stop once I'm in a relationship with someone and getting frequent enough sex. (few times a week). I don't see why a woman would turn me down given this context simply because I've watched porn in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:54 AM
1

Well at least your many cats will love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 12:36 PM
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Those women want the same guys you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:26 AM
3

Wish I was treated that way but cool that you think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:04 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:45 AM
6

And you only see men as walking wallets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:23 AM
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I think most men while loving sex and intimacy are probably more so bummed out about being ineligible for marriage and women therefore unable to form their own families anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:21 AM
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These men fail to consider that women gaining power and basic human rights doesn’t take away from their own. But it does though. Because women desire men with power and wealth so if less men are able to keep up with women and out earn them they will be alone. I love powerful women they just don't like me because I'm not powerful myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:41 AM
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What is your life and dream if not to be a wife and mother? Work in some shitty office the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:12 AM
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I'm sure there's plenty of men out there who would love to be stay at home dads or something else myself included. But most strong and independent women don't want to deal with a guy like that they want someone at or above their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 11:24 AM
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But women aren't increasing their standards to find a man who they don't despise. They're trying to find financially eligible men that's different. The only answer for men is to step up and earn the attraction of women they are interested in, and if fewer men can reach that bar, so be it. Exactly so be it. As will be the destruction of modern civilization as we know it if the trends continue. Why not find a man you actually love?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:32 AM
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Really? That seems unlikely what stats are you looking at?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:08 AM
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Allow me to refer back to the comment I was replying to. that's ingrained in our nature. For thousands of years women financially depended on men. They married up and passed their genes to the modern women. So the modern women with top tier careers still root for a husband who earns at least a little more than her. 50 years of Feminism is not enough to get rid of the practice that has been going on for thousands of years. Why are you replying to me and not this person? Why are women incapable of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:00 AM
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This person said it's ingrained in their nature to depend on men financially even when they're doing well themselves. It's not actually about surviving. If this is true then why shouldn't women stay out of the workplace to allow men to earn more than them and keep the illusion alive? What else should happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:41 PM
1

So I'm a sheep do I go to Alex Jones for the rest of my information or what? Help me out. What scientific papers or books do you recommend on the topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:15 PM
1

Hypergamy isn't a widely accepted belief yet I don't think. Is it inherent to women's biology or a learned trait if it's a real thing at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:40 PM
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I don’t know if you’re including women who are 30+. I’m 31 and I never really thought about a man’s finances, even when I was younger. I guess the only thing I would want is for him to be curious and intelligent even if he doesn’t have a college degree. I wouldn’t mind someone who works blue collar job. Been looking for someone like that in my life for a long time haven't found them yet but I'm holding out. I just want someone I’m attracted to physically and someone who gets along well with my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:38 PM
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This is exactly it. This SHOULD be the end of the discussion. But it isn't. You (we) are not shutting down the computer, getting of these subs and calling it a day. We keep coming back to discuss. Sure in real life it is indeed happening, but in my opinion, it would be time we also stop engaging online as well. Because deep down we want to understand and love each other all the same and want the best for each other? At least that's how I see it. Some are obviously only out for themselves and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:36 PM
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Just like how feminist sentiments seep into the female zeitgeist the same will and is happening to the men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:36 PM
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It's easy to ask for a fair deal when you seem to be on losing end of the transaction. Yep the men gave you your freedom and you repay us by essentially calling us losers for being on or below your level. Stepping down to my level huh? And what is that exactly? Why do I want to be on your level exactly? Are you actually happy up on that tower of yours? If so enjoy it I guess. I'll enjoy my little peasant farm over here with my tea and video games. And I say "seem" because you may be in your teen…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:20 PM
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If this is the reality of the situation then there's no wonder why the majority of men aren't avid supporters of feminism or women's rights at all for that matter. Sounds like a pretty bad deal to me! Men and Women have to live on this planet together wouldn't it be better to come up with a fairer deal for both genders in this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:58 PM
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I haven't heard of the mommy vlogger thing yet that's fucked. The idea of vlogging your kids entire lives kind of creeps me the fuck out and rubs me the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:51 PM
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Women, more so than men, constantly compare their lives with those they see on Instagram or Facebook. It seems women use social media in a completely different way than men in general. This isn't true for all women but I always find it interesting when you see that reddit and youtube is overwhelmingly male. The luxury trips, large houses, expensive wardrobes, etc. And women are the primary market for those home improvement shows, reality television, and sites like instagram are women. I wonder h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:07 PM
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What exactly is a shit test and do women always know that they're doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:35 AM
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I'm obviously not arguing for an unequal relationship here but we shouldn't expect men who are working longer hours or who are the only ones working in the relationship to put in an equal amount of housework either. As for stay at home dads leeching and not doing any housework whatsoever? I hope the women leave them because that's some scummy ass behavior for sure. I think another issue here is the the fact that relationship dynamics are a lot more complicated now. It's very simple to say to men…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:13 AM
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I will be able considering that I'm changing my field. Well I wish you luck in that but I just hope you aren't expecting men to facilitate that. It's a personal goal of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:09 AM
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Now you gotta cope with the current system somehow. Both men AND women will have to cope with it. The future is always going ahead and we're always progressing we can't go back. The women who are getting demanding college degrees & jobs are coping fine. Are they though? It seems women are complaining about men just as much as men are complaining about women. Why would you care how much porn and video games a man enjoys if you don't need us and are coping fine? I don't think a woman climbing the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:56 AM
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It doesn't have to be more lavish, but just more comfortable for example. I want to buy a house somewhere in the future A house isn't more lavish than an apartment? If comfort was the more important thing then buy a new couch or bedding. Also to spoil her with some good-quality items and travelling. And this isn't lavish how exactly? Also so they wouldn't feel that they're leeching. Are you able to give those things to your mother that you wanted on your own? Or did you want a man to help you fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:29 AM
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I do not think that men are more masculine than ever before Because we can't be and aren't! We have our limitations! This isn't acceptable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:22 AM
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Well if women are incapable of adapting it sounds like they need to go back to being house makers then and leave the work to us. I'm sure the wages will adjust too with the labor shortage. Can't have your cake and eat it too. Choose what you truly want!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:21 AM
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It's not a sacrifice if its ALSO his goal. And if financially comfortable is not his goal then we're obviously not compatible and I'm better off single And the juice isn't worth the squeeze for many men. We don't feel the LOVE when we feel like a utility. Love us first and then we might want to build that life with you. I don't want to own a house and have a white picket fence by myself. But I might want to build that with someone if they can convince me that it's worth the investment. Again are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:19 AM
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wanting to be financially comfortable doesn't make me a boomer. But your goals are similar if not identical to a tradcon. You're indistinguishable and want the same things. Wanting a house makes me tradcon? What? I'm socially liberal and vote left by new zealand standards. It's a nice goal to have and something to strive for but why does it have to be a necessary thing to expect? Convince men why they should sacrifice so much with you to give you this lifestyle that might not be possible in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:01 AM
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Yeah and being asked what I do for work is always one of the very first things that is asked of me. Never my hobbies, passions, what I like about them, what they like about me, political leaning, etc. I'm not saying to keep it a secret but it's kind of a sensitive question to ask when men are still expected to be utilities in a relationship. gold diggers exist why is it wrong for me to assume you're one when I don't know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:55 AM
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I think that having similar (not necessary the same) income just makes dating easier for both partners. Some difference is okay, but a huge one makes it harder to fit your lifestyles with each other. When you say fit your lifestyles together what does that mean exactly? Are you consuming more while earning more? traveling more? Taking up more space? All of these things contribute to the climate crisis don't you know? You should do more saving instead. I think it's easier to adapt to new levels o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:51 AM
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For me financial stability is means no unnecessary debt (student loans and mortgages count as necessary debt) Well the idea I get when women talk about "financial stability" is a well enough paying job that you aren't in any threat of losing in the near-future. A job that's not just hand to mouth or a career trajectory. For example of stable jobs around my circle "tradie, accountant, teacher, administrator" Well the majority of these jobs are filled by women except for maybe trades-people I supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:46 AM
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A lot of women turned me down simply by choosing not to approach me in the first place since that's apparently my job to do. But I've also been shamed and ghosted when approaching majority of the time. Although most women who actually do give me the time of day end up liking me. There's just this lack of trust and understanding. like I have an ulterior dark motive for wanting to talk to them when it could just be me being friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:30 AM
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That's cool and everything but I wouldn't consider you a person too concerned with the ideas of equality. Do you consider yourself a feminist? To what end?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:28 AM
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Ideally we both have similar lifestyle and are able to provide for themselves. A bit lower/higher income is okay, a vast difference though might make dating problematic. But there's only so many jobs out there with varying pay grades. I doubt things can be equal on both sides in the way you'd prefer. At least not for everyone. And even if it's maintained for a little while there will probably come a time where you could be making significantly more or less than your partner. Would you stick with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:25 AM
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I just care that you are financially stable Relative to what? Whether is an expectation of being a provider or not the outcome is the same and the pressure still exists. Thus toxic masculinity and competition persists too. But its not economic necessarily. Its stuff like a stable job and half the chores. I will also have a stable job and half the chores. Again I outearn my husband. Do you think our economic or political way of life is stable? Why do you think it's reasonable to expect stability …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:21 AM
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I wonder if that third of women had any stipulations in the fine details because I haven't come across many women who seemed pleased with me just having a job and being a caring partner. But I guess I'm also not around many women anymore in my daily life so I'm open to being wrong here. Personally I'm okay with my partner having similar level of income or maybe a bit lower/higher. But I wouldn't be comfortable with a partner who earns significantly less or more. I mean that seems perfectly fair …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:10 AM
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I don't want the best man. I want a good partner for me who commits to living life with me and being a good person. Why then do so many women not want to build a life with a man but rather find a man who has built everything for himself already only for you to swoop in to join him? You wouldn't date a man who has a sub-par job and prospects but has all the other things would you? If so you're in the vast minority of women. That's not a solution, that's coercing women to have sex they don't want …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:05 AM
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I do think we expect more overall though. I can provide for myself so I don't need a provider. I want a man who is compatible with me, who makes me happy and who shares my same visions and paths in life. This is how every woman rationalizes it This means that just having a "job" to provide is no longer what I want from a man. They're gonna need to be more than that to me. You have to be a net benefit or a net positive in my life. This is what drives me insane though. You're feeding into all the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:53 AM
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Did you ever think that corporations, which happen to very powerful, would be happy to have excess labor supply and low wages? I have and that's why I'm a socialist. Didn't help my love life much though. Not that romance would keep me from being a leftist or not. Women are making this sacrifice for you. Instead of being grateful, you take this as abandonment?! I mean my whole post was about men being expected to perform to a greater level of masculinity than before and women being unable to acce…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:45 AM
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Well what is women's role in romance? Because men are expected to pursue, to plan the date, and to pay for the date. Many men are choosing not to pursue though due to #metoo pushback and not wanting to be perceived as catcallers or pickup artists. Also I'm not sure if women appreciate men who express their love in different ways. I have a lot of love to give but it might not always come in the form of gift giving or a lavish wedding.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:35 AM
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If it's a small comfort, all I can say is that there are definitely women who understand. That's all I'm hoping for really and it's definitely appreciated. I just want to understand others and for others to understand me. I'm okay if women don't want to be with me I'd just hope for them to care about me on a human level and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:29 AM
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Haha preach it! The funny thing is that many of the progressive and liberal women that I've seen seem to have the same expectations of men. Feminists don't have a solution to men other than to let us go our own way and abandon them. I guess they're getting with they want after all! But is this what they actually want? I guess we'll see. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:23 AM
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We are just saying what our preferences are and hoping to meet someone who fits them, not a guy contorting himself to fit them. And that's fine but you should understand that while it's ok to have your preferences if most women are of a similar mindset to you then it unfortunately leads to a lot of the problems of "toxic masculinity" Because in order to be exceptional we need to compete with other men and beat them to live up to the standards of women like yourself who are the majority. We can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:19 AM
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However, if I am going to marry a man (or date him or sleep with him) there has to be a reason. Are men capable of giving you a reason that isn't transactional in some way though? If I provide a good life for myself I mean if women are fine finding happiness on their own that's their right to do so and you see it with many men too with the whole MGTOW movement. I just don't think that's a real solution to the whole gender issues going on. I would like to see a future where men and women can be h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:09 AM
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Well I don't really expect or want my partner to be the primary breadwinner necessarily. But wherever the cards may lay that's fine to me. But my point is that there doesn't seem to really be a proper role for men in society anymore and it seems masculinity needs to be re-defined somehow. We shouldn't shame men for failing to uphold to a rigid and outdated masculine role but it seems many women do so. It's a common trope to hear women bemoaning "where are all the good men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:04 AM
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So refuse I mean I have for the most part. It's a losing game being asked to perform to an unrealistic level when most Americans are barely making ends meet as it is. I'm defining masculinity for myself. I'd say I'm already pretty far off from the traditional ideas of masculinity. I still have my insecurities though and this bottled up feeling of emasculation and feeling like I need to perform at all times. It's a lot of pressure and I can't cope with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:54 AM
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Congrats! Wish you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:12 PM
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Guess you're gonna have to find a better way of vetting men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:34 PM
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That's fine. I like my women feminine, loyal, and with a sense of dignity and personality!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:12 PM
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Hey it was funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:09 PM
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Data refutes this completely Oh does it? Where did you hear that from? lol The algorithm is literally designed to show you the best men to keep you on the app. You're competing with all the other hoes congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:06 PM
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*The vast majority of guys you date are like that. Don't get it twisted!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:41 PM
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I dunno seems like you women are just really really extremely bad at vetting men. Maybe only showing attention to the men at the top of your stack on tinder with hundreds of matches already and opportunities isn't such a good idea! Who would have thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:24 PM
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So you don't want equality you just want to reverse the patriarchy into a matriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:48 AM
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Depressed and ill people offer nothing better than a healthy person, only down sides. I just think it's kinda toxic for you to automatically assume a depressed person is necessarily burdensome. Most depressed people experience it in waves and won't burden you constantly with it or even talk about it. Also fully healthy and happy people often lack empathy and foresight because they're only concerned for themselves and their immediate surroundings. Why would you want to be in a relationship with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:46 AM
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Yes slay kween get that generational wealth brewing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:34 AM
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She's not married but that doesn't mean she's single. I googled and it appears that she's dating lebron james agent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:32 AM
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Because all men care about is sex Women are having a lot more sex than men though so how is that true? It seems women care more about sex and enjoy getting pump and dumped constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 01:03 AM
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Women have higher rates of suicide attempts, men are simply better at killing themselves. Because women don't actually want to kill themselves! They're attention seekers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:55 PM
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I know you like to pretend this doesn't exist but actually being in a relationship with a caring and loving partner is often going to improve someone's mental health immensely. Caring for someone and being their caretaker often can lead to them scratching your back in return when you aren't doing too well. Relationships are supposed to be about working together and that includes emotional needs! Shame you don't understand this basic relationship fact. I feel sorry for anyone who has to be in a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:46 PM
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high standards 1: Don't be obese 2: Be pleasant to be around Wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:10 PM
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I guess I'm just finding it difficult understanding how it's apart of the solution. We already have all the porn you could dream of, onlyfans, VR porn, ASMR girlfriend roleplay videos, sex dolls and toys, etc and our problems and dissatisfaction persists. What kind of technology are we waiting for exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:38 AM
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No matter how sucky or satisfying a job can be it exists for a reason. Someone has to do that job and they deserve to be treated right for it. It does help if your coworkers and managers are pleasant to be around for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:34 AM
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All jobs suck under capitalism that's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:33 AM
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You probably aren't the girl for anyone. Maybe doormats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:10 AM
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Maybe if you were actually pleasant to be around coming home from work would feel like a safehaven of support and love. Instead you are someone who won't support their partners struggles and call it bitching instead. Again what are you bringing to the table. Are you working a job you're truly passionate about right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:57 AM
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Most jobs aren't enjoyable we're just out here trying to make a fucking living. I'm passionate about the things I can do outside of work. What do you bring to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:56 PM
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It won't have an impact on me because I don't worship the pussy and I want a RELATIONSHIP with someone I LOVE. That's literally it. Once that's established then if we have sex great that's a bonus but I don't want it if I don't have the other stuff. I don't see how having better masturbatory toys is the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:45 PM
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It just seems like men are crazier about sex because it's harder for them to get it compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:59 AM
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representative democracy is not real democracy though and the American model of democracy is flawed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/21 06:36 AM
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Lol what most everything in life relates to politics in some way or another that's a really ignorant statement bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:57 AM
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political differences are absolutely a big deal dude wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:47 AM
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No we just don't want to make you uncomfortable so if you aren't showing any signs of interest we're gonna leave you the fuck alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:40 AM
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We're just asking you to approach sometimes if you're interested not for you to to everything. We don't want to creep you out or make you uncomfortable so if the situation calls for it YOU approach. You don't even have to ask for a date or our numbers just make yourself available and we'll do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:22 AM
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Maybe men are tired of being the only ones to put in work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:31 PM
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Hot people male or female have a certain amount of privilege in life and that's just something you're going to have to accept and deal with I guess. I just think guys should stop pretending to care about anything else than women's looks. You just sound extremely jaded with a lot of personal issues to work through.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:29 PM
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Titty streamers? Again it's all about sex or implied sex. Media influencers are just more likely to be hot that's just how it be. Most of that is borderline sexual. Like gf experience stuff. Some of it but definitely not all of it or even the majority. Stop being a femcel and stop the weird creepy videos while you're at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:54 PM
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I mean that there are no websites where men consume content made by women that doesn't involve women taking off their clothes or being sexual in some way. Youtube, netflix, spotify, twitch? whut? There are on tube sites where men watch women knitting, cooking or gardening. There are various ASMR youtubers gaining followers brushing hair and tapping on objects so you're actually wrong on this too. lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tbmJqkiFZeU
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:40 PM
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There are no equivalent websites that focus on women's intelligence or homemaking skills. Not sure what you're looking for exactly? There's the rest of the internet where women also reside but men are the majority of both online dating and users on the internet in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:10 AM
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Men aren't a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:40 AM
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You sound like "women only like assholes and not nice guys like me" but reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 10:09 AM
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How many men are looking to marry an 18 year old tradwaifu who's all about staying in the home, keeping house, and obeying the man? Not many considering how competitive the job market is now and how hard it would be to support kids and a stay at home wife on one income.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:59 AM
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Only fans
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:45 AM
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I don't think women want to be stay at home moms anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:44 AM
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Are they making the apple pie for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:31 PM
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Obviously the men consuming it and the ones decrying it aren't he same people?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:28 PM
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Sorry I can't control the thoughts and actions of all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:25 PM
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Oh well then I agree. Lifting weights does improve your chance at casual sex and getting your foot in the door though I guess. I'd hate for someone to be interested in me primarily because of being fit or how much money I make.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:12 AM
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Same standards of a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:10 AM
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There's many ways to acquire and apply knowledge but it does seem you're well read on many things potentially. I just hate the elitism and pretentiousness common of people like you. I'm a guy who lifts heavy objects all day and you might not respect that kind of work but it's just as important if not more important than the work you do I'm sure. We all play a part. Not saying you have to be attracted to that kind of person but I hate the disrespect working class men get from modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:08 AM
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More options for getting pumped and dumped sure. How many want to actually settle down with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:00 AM
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Have fun living with your 50 cats by age 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:44 AM
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You're the one who can't get your perfect prince charming and are bitter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:40 AM
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I never really got much interest out of reading books but I read articles and ebooks sometimes because I'm more of an auditory learner. I treat reading fiction like watching movies. People pretend like they're above someone for reading harry potter or some bullshit is a joke to me. What are you actually learning from that? I bet you don't read historical or political nearly as much as that other useless shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:34 AM
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You women don't actually know what you want and when you get what you supposedly want you aren't happy. Oh boo hoo you had to make the first move? Maybe be more approachable and friendly and men will want to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:24 AM
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I rather someone who's well read on the things that actually matter. What kind of literature are we talking about? Humor about what? It's all so vague. You don't even know what you want that's the joke. Talent in what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:20 AM
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So you want a crypto nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:13 AM
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What is the other reason you might like someone? Wealth? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:05 AM
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So you went from wanting decent stable men with good jobs to wanting even hotter men with better jobs? Wow what a progression! Don't ever settle kween! Prince charming is out there! Can't believe men are giving you props on this thread just for being just as delusional as all the other princesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:00 AM
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Women just want to have their hotdog and eat it too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:56 AM
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I didn't say that you had to put up with a lay about who is unwilling to work or do anything with his life but "financial stability" can mean many things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 02:56 PM
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Whelp time to return to communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:47 PM
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I don't know what country you're from so I can't entirely relate I guess but shouldn't the government be partially responsible for people who are aging out of the workforce or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:44 AM
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If you'd refuse to date someone slightly below your income level I still consider that a form of hypergamy. And if you're always career driven and trying to climb the corporate ladder its very possible for the man to not keep up with you and you'll be looking elsewhere eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:29 AM
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If you're well off good for you but most women aren't and are still demanding high-earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:56 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:48 AM
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Stop being broke. XD Stop being fat and single mothers! XD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:48 PM
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Ok neoliberal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:28 PM
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You're making excuses for your hypergamy nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:23 PM
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Most Americans are in debt or barely making ends meet you women are living in fantasy land. Stop watching so many movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:21 PM
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She can want what she wants doesn't mean she'll get it. Simple math shows there aren't enough attractive wealthy men to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:18 PM
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Are you not at all aware of the bleak financial situations of young people surviving late capitalism today or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:06 PM
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It's not a "view" of men it's a reality of what men are going through. For every "financially stable" men there are bound to be unstable ones. For there to be winners there have to be losers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:04 PM
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You included "rent a decent apartment in a "good" part of town. That's expensive AF. Especially for someone just starting out their life. Could probably do it with multiple roommates. Isn't the idea for a guy to have his own place is so you have privacy together? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:03 PM
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So what you're saying is that both you and your future partner have to own separate houses? That doesn't seem very efficient or reasonable at all wtf. Isn't the idea that you get married, build a family with someone, and then get a home TOGETHER!? Not to mention that millennials are trailing previous generations when it comes to home ownership. There's also this. So yes by definition very unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:58 PM
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It depends on how you define financial stability. Is just having a job enough stability? How many men (or women for that matter) fit her demands for financial stability?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:39 PM
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There are only so few attractive financially well off guys to go around but you girls can keep taking your turns getting ran through by them and not getting commitment. Then you'll get to join the endless sea of undesirable single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:17 PM
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I'm just saying you're playing off her standards as if she's just looking for a kind, loving, honest man when there's much more to it. Damn right I'm sensitive to it. I have yet to meet a woman who didn't use coded language which indicated her desire to be with a financially well off man or expected me to be a high-earner in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:57 PM
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I assume if she's financially stable she has the ability to ask for the same. Wasn't really expected of men when we were the primary breadwinners you stayed home and tended to the children. Now women want to enter the workplace and compete with us for jobs and income while having their cake and eating it too. I am now in my late 20s and I actually am financially stable. I assume that if I had to go out a date again then the man also had to be financially stable. And this is why men are intimidat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:49 PM
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To me the parts of this list that would be difficult to find were the parts about art, mood and motivation Being financially stable is also on the list. Is that not difficult? Majority of jobs are low paid service jobs. Just fulfilling this one demand on the list would require you being exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:43 PM
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Women: oh I would like a boyfriend that I can live with and who I like as a person. Guess you didn't read the part where her standards included him having plans for the future and being financially stable. That doesn't sound so innocent. Just code word for being a gold digger with high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:40 PM
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Has plans for the future and works on fulfilling them Financially stable - can support their own lifestyle Seemed to have missed this part. How many millennial men actually fulfill this requirement? You're already probably cutting about 70% of young men out of your dating pool already with this one requirement alone not including the endless list of other standards she has. What happened to growing with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:35 PM
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Well from my experience you're in the minority of high-achieving high-earning women who place a higher importance on those things. I hope you find what you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:58 AM
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You're full of red flags because your standards rise when you become a "high value woman making the big bucks" and will likely be a lot more high-maintenance and hard to please. I'm a lot more attracted to high achieving intelligent women but I'm unlikely to fulfill their demands and it becomes a lot of work to try and keep up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:44 AM
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Well good for you if you feel like you're making a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:47 AM
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And what would you rather do? Sit on your ass all day watching keeping up with the kardashians? Women waste their time in different ways than men but all the same. Even the women who have degrees and a decent job have such boring personalities because they haven't done anything to develop themselves outside of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:09 AM
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But it mostly always is financial and career related when women talk about ambition. They're code words. Just like "having their shit together" is code for having high status and zero debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:47 AM
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Are any issues primarily affecting men an issue in your eyes? Doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:42 AM
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Well I would agree that there is more than 0% who would date a man who makes less than them. But usually there is an expectation for that to change at some point. It's why women rank "ambition" as one of their most beloved traits in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:35 AM
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I'm not sure who you're talking about but I'm sure they just wanted someone to care for and take care of the children which can't happen if both people are at work all the time. If women were more accepting of stay at home dads I'm sure many men wouldn't mind being one myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:32 AM
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Did you start the relationship knowing that? Regardless this isn't specifically about you I'm talking generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:30 AM
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Men don't have a problem with it it's women have have the problem. https://www.marketwatch.com/story/many-women-say-they-wont-date-a-man-over-this-one-financial-issue-2017-04-07
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:17 AM
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If you're competing with men in the workplace then you will either be ahead of or lose to them in earnings. Why do they have to even be at the same level if you're comfortable? Men weren't looking for women at the same level when they were the primary breadwinners. Why can't women be breadwinners and search for a partner who isn't defined simply by what they earn? Women are only able to settle for men who earn as much or more than them all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:14 AM
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You have no idea how many dumb and socially inept women are out there being validated and loved for who they are. That's because women have an inherent worth men have to work for theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:48 PM
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And the only reason male sexlessness and loneliness is growing is because women feel entitled to wealthier, more attractive, high-status men who are increasingly few and far between. How is that not entitlement? This is a society that has left behind men. Wanting a loving family is more than just getting your dick wet. But of course women oversimplify it to shame men further.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:45 PM
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So what if you aren't an extrovert and don't go to or like parties? Or what if you don't have any friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:20 AM
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Don't see why you couldn't paint your nails and still fight in the revolution but okay dude. If there's a gender blurring agenda it's a good thing. Let people be whoever the fuck they want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:08 AM
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Across multiple states yeah. How many die because inaction on injustices though? Protests are harm reduction and can be the only way to get anything done sometimes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/21 11:24 PM
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It just seems that to a lot of people having glasses makes you ugly? I don't get it. The guy seems pretty attractive regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:41 AM
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I'm more amazed that none of that shit says one fucking thing about her personality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 01:39 PM
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You're just describing bread and circuses. People still struggle with rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 11:13 PM
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just get on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:28 AM
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There is a social pressure to pay for the first date sure you can choose to not pay for the date or split it but you will likely be looked at more negatively for it. That being said I don't necessarily care or not if I'm expected to pay for the first date I actually think it can be a romantic gesture and I like doing it I just don't like the expectation of having to do it and prefer a girl to at least offer to pay or split the meal. Anyway I don't think you've really brought up any arguments to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:43 AM
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It takes a lot of effort to afford to take many women out on dates though and it should be appreciated more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:07 AM
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actual data or at least what you mean by effort. It's a fact that men are the ones who have to do the pursuing and paying for dates so to say that women are the ones putting in more effort would require some pretty substantial evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 06:57 AM
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and there's no such evidence that women put more "effort" into dating whatever that even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 06:23 AM
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About the same that they use for everyday use to feel good about themselves? How much money do you think men spend on gym memberships and advancing themselves to be attractive to women? Women don't have to spend money on boosts and platinum services on dating apps either they just let the men trickle in. Dating is infinitely more expensive as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:09 AM
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Women don't even pay for first dates what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:07 AM
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even the men who put little effort in their profile put way more effort than most women. I've seen so many empty profiles for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:44 AM
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I don't think anyone here is saying all of this shit is exclusive to males but it's a fact that the failure to launch syndrome is affecting men overwhelmingly more than women and women have higher standards than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:36 AM
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I wholeheartedly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:46 PM
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It's literally impossible to tell. I have dated ugly men and average men and poor men and fat men trying to avoid this. Apparently all these men are chads. Well I had a feeling you were going this direction so I edited my post to say that I understand simply dating lower status or unattractive dudes won't fix all of your dating struggles I'm just pointing out how there's only so many high status attractive dudes to go around. So sure you may get bad treatment from lower tier men but just keep in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:44 PM
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Yes. Women being mistreated by men leads to women thinking men mistreat women. If women believe being pump and dumped is "mistreatment" then they should stop engaging with men who are more likely to pump and dump them just because they're more attractive. As I said it's a pure mathematical thing. There's only so many "high-tier" men to go around they can't commit to all of you unless they start a polygamous relationship. And not it's not just about women choosing who makes them "happier" like yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:29 PM
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You may be right but i only hope to god you're wrong. I can only imagine the horror if polygamy becomes the new normal. This is one reason why I think supporters of capitalism are total cucks. Wealth inequality is only going to feed into this biological hypergamy if true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:07 PM
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Well women should have more awareness and understand how these apps work and why chad (hate using that word) won't commit. Men understand how these apps work because they fuck us over so bad. Women are at least getting reliable sex from it even if it's just a pump and dump. I think women getting pump and dumped so much is clouding their judgement of men which feeds into the whole "men are trash" mindset. Also it is women's fault that they leave us to do the pursuing alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 04:56 PM
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They aren't saying it sure but the stats are saying it. It's also how dating app algorithms work. Women only see the most swiped on and successful male profiles furthering the growth of hypergamy. I don't want to believe this red pill nonsense but they keep being right about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 04:38 PM
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Even if that were the case (serious doubts) it still doesn't change the fact that from a purely mathematical standpoint all of these women can't get the top percentage of attractive dudes to commit. Unless polygamy is the future which it might be tbh. Women delude themselves into believing everything is empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 04:31 PM
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Men have less options so who's to say our few options are with quality women? We take what we can get for the most part. Women just have higher standards for what is "quality" than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 04:23 PM
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I think we could understand each other if we talked to each other. You describing the dynamic already makes me feel more empathetic of women's struggles. But women don't usually want to hear about the man's side of the struggle so here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 02:09 PM
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Bro capitalism can't even exist without a violent police state enforcing it. Tax money generated by Capitalism, sure... Lol what a joke. I dunno man you're in too deep with this right wing libertarian propaganda there's no changing the minds of people like you I've tried many times. Capitalism is a religion to people like you. Anyway capitalism is collapsing as we speak and automation will only further it's demise so I'll just sit back and let it happen rather than waste my time with libertarian…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/20 06:56 AM
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No, but murdering people who don't conform to your ideology is the same as murder. Socialism again. ok https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-communist_mass_killings So in other words the problem is that all the insulin is controlled by 1 entity that doesn't have to compete with others. Again, sounds more like a facet of Socialism to me. Perhaps the solution would be to increase competition rather than using a system where virtually everything is controlled by 1 entity, ie Socialism. The government …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/20 05:57 AM
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I don't think anyone is counting old age deaths in the Communism death toll. They're mostly counting the murders carried out by the governemnt following Socialist ideology. The black book counts lower birth rates in it's number for deaths under communism. And mismanaged agriculture isn't the same as murder. Some of the famines are said to be intentional like the holodomor but not all. Also famines happen under capitalism too you just hear about the black book more because of cold war propaganda.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/20 01:33 AM
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Millions don't die from Capitalism. You're looking at it the wrong way. Oh how convenient! Meanwhile someone dies of old age in the USSR and it's because of communism. lmfao. Without Capitalism we wouldn't have things like advanced plumbing or insulin. The industralized governments you claim killed millions didn't have medicine or infrastructure? What? LOL It's not so much that Capitalism has killed those people who couldn't afford insulin Oh really? a 1200% increase in price for the same exact …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/20 12:34 AM
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Mismanaged agriculture led to famines sure but capitalism has been responsible for it's own set of famines, wars, and genocides. Also millions die of preventable issues like starvation, lack of cleaning drinking water, every year due to capitalism as our global system. Don't push cold war era propaganda and consider all the people who have died to preserve this system of ours. Hint it's much more than anything you can come up with for socialism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/20 12:16 AM
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Left libertarians are like the opposites of authoritarians though. I understand you're a moderator but you don't seem to understand much about leftism in general. Also the mission statement that you posted has these two bullet points on "What do we mean by left-wing?" Critical of capitalism, corporate power, and deregulation thereof Prefers public (state or community) ownership and/or regulation of economic resources
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 10:31 PM
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How do you define the "liberal left" if they're supporters of capitalism? Because from my understanding left = anarchist/socialist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 10:05 PM
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Someone else pointed out that he said in another thread that he doesn't want people to adopt children of color. And now he's deleted his account. If you're a leftist you shouldn't want people like him on the left.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 09:58 PM
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I admire you not being afraid to change your perspective a bit. Glad we could come to an understanding!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 08:21 PM
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Both political parties are supporters of capitalism and all the big media outlets are funded by big monied interests.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 08:14 PM
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democrats aren't "the left"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 08:03 PM
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Black activists exist because of injustices like police violence and receiving harsher punishments for the same crimes due to their race. Minorities advocate for their own interests because they have to.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 07:09 PM
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Well, let's see. For one they are against MENA immigration into my nation, which is already a plus on many fronts. When you support an economic system which destabilizes the 3rd world you should expect refugees. For one, the lowly proles doesn't have to compete with foreign workers and will see his salary raised. trumps administration is staunchly anti-immigrant and it hasn't led to massive wage increases. You shouldn't be angry at immigrants wanting a better life for themselves you should be an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 07:07 PM
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People shouldn't have to overcome the odds because a couple of rich assholes control the majority of the wealth.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 06:36 PM
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Great now explain how the right allies with your interests exactly? I suppose if you're wealthy and privileged they would advocate for your interests. If you're just some lowly prole working for the bare essentials I don't see how they advocate for you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 06:23 PM
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I make it no secret I advocate for me and my people's interests Who are your people? Because "my people" are just like-minded folks with similar outlooks on the world. Race has nothing to do with it. It seems my observation was correct. The sub needs to do a better job not upvoting white supremacists to the top of their sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 06:17 PM
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You should stop looking at politics as some team sports thing and just support the policies you support while pushing against aspects of the left you consider problematic or whatever. You're using big words but all you're really saying is "the left was mean to me so I became a conservative" it's just stupid. lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 06:15 PM
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the interests of the native white population. I have a feeling you're just a white supremacist trying to infiltrate this place with concern trolling the left.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 06:05 PM
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when you begin starting to question the official narrative The official narrative is pro-socialism? Then how do you explain the neoliberal media massive push against the bernie sanders flank of the democratic party? I think this is the main problem with you. Conflating neoliberals and radlib crazies with leftists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 06:02 PM
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Because I believe leftist economic policies will help everyone including men. That simple really. Do I agree with all the identity politics stuff or things like the wage gap? Not really. Doesn't mean I don't support leftist economic policies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 05:54 PM
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If you're an individualist/capitalist you're on the right imo.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 05:52 PM
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Why would anyone identify as a centrist? Take a political test and figure out where you are. Calling yourself a centrist is so lazy. Are people really that afraid of calling themselves an anarchist or socialist?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 05:48 PM
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I'm starting to feel like this sub is "left" in name only. Why is your post the most upvoted one? I'm economically on the left but I don't always agree with everything feminists peddle that's all. I don't understand how you can change your economic views based on what other leftists do on the internet.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 05:46 PM
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We could use the technology to benefit all of humanity but I guess that would be communism and you know what they say. Death is a preferable alternative to communism apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:19 AM
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She's gonna be so broken and ran through by her mid 30s that it won't matter man. You're worth more than that. Stay strong and stick it out. Focus on your mental health and find hobbies that keep you happy and preoccupied. Hopefully the world will sort itself out after the social and economic collapse and things will be fairer for all of us.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/20 07:11 AM
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Fucking liberals man
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/20 06:35 AM
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A 10% difference is still massive when we're speaking about millions of people and it's only getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:31 PM
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61% of american women are apparently feminists yet women still generally hold higher standards for men and expect them to fulfill the providing role. Most women still refuse to date unemployed or underemployed men even as they rank up in their careers. Basically they want to have their cake and eat it too economically speaking.
/r/MensRights05/08/20 04:28 PM
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Don't mention this to the feminists they will call you a misogynist for wanting equal treatment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/20 03:35 PM
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In simple terms this is what I think has happened since 2014 or whatever. Man-hating feminists turned men away from the left so the alt-right pipeline happened. Many of these men realized the stupidity of their ways and have come back to the left only to realize the man-hating aspects of the left hasn't stopped. As long as the woke-left abandons all empathy for men conservatism will never be defeated in my opinion. We need male advocates now more than ever.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/20 06:24 AM
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Looked like a really cool sub that's unfortunate. Probably some male hating feminist higher up who wanted it gone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/20 06:39 PM
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This is the 3rd time I think. Starting to deny its legitimacy at this point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/20 01:23 PM
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Well men get less government assistance and homeless shelters and are more likely to slip through the cracks in general.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/20 03:51 AM
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r/leftwingmaleadvocates is pretty damn good tho.
/r/MensRights27/07/20 11:44 PM
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Even if they never get the girl they still dilute their inboxes and attention which gets in your way. Kind of like trying to push your way to the front of the crowd at a concert.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:04 PM
1

YAY! Even more anecdotal evidence that doesn't prove anything! YAY... and guess what? It still doesn't change the fact that frequently toxic self defeating attitudes do not in fact help and do often have a negative impact on success. I mean you guys don't accept the 80/20 rule either even when we give you evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:49 PM
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That said, if you've actually looked objectively at incel selfie threads, you will be quickly astounded by how... average... they look. There was a rather infamous photo of an incel gathering recently, and they took it down because people kept commenting on how normal and fun they looked and it was destroying their narrative that they were ugly and that was why they were unsuccessful with women. Women aren't looking for normal fun average guys they're looking for Mr. Perfect. however the evidenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:42 PM
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Always laugh at "Women have a powerful sixth sense and can sniff out your misogyny without knowing a single thing about you" take.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:39 PM
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I feel like a lot of what women are attracted to or look for in a man is entirely based on the media they consume. The problem IMO is that people aren't open to all types of people and someone who might be perfect for them they just don't see because that person might not fit perfectly in that little box they've created in their head of what a partner should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:43 AM
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Not all poor people are trailer trash like you are describing I think you're only looking at the extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:52 PM
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Online dating apps have given women better opportunities to find the top tier men tho so they don't have to date poorer men in their communities as long as they take decent enough care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:35 PM
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Maybe it's just a product of where you live but most women seem to want to strike above their league and women don't like poor men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:33 PM
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Didn't say they did
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:31 PM
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It's the closest thing to finding the truth otherwise we'd need a study on the casual sex preferences of women and if it compares to this study in anyway. My guess would be that it does. Women don't usually have sex with people who they wouldn't consider getting in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:43 PM
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"The Jezebel post disputes this claim, of course. A closer look at the numbers shows that, instead of being concerned mainly with a man’s wealth, women may just want to date men who are doing something with their lives. When asked in the It’s Just Lunch survey, “Would you go out on a date with someone whom you knew was unemployed?” one-third of women responded with a flat “No.” A larger percentage (42%) gave “Maybe” as an answer with the stipulation, “I wouldn’t want to throw a lot of time into …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:32 PM
1

You are refusing to say what "removing their ability to wreck havoc" entails why? what does control/distraction mean in practice? Sometimes obviously has to be done about the massive unemployment when automation becomes an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:27 PM
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Yeah poor women have a lot of sex but we're talking about poor men. I've never once in my life heard a woman say she would date an unemployed or underemployed man and I doubt you're any different either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:24 PM
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Most of those things you mentioned affect men more than women especially considering the fact that men are willing to date and have sex with poorer women where the same can't be said vice versa. You don't have to believe in entitlement to have empathy you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:45 PM
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If society no longer has need for them then what should be done about them? Let them rot on the street? in a jail cell? Guarantee basic necessities and use the automation for good? They won't be controllable if we do nothing about to either help them or dispose of them. We need to be honest about which one of those outcomes we prefer as a society. Also automation will harm women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:38 PM
1

Large percentages of poor men without any prospects in dating or employment lead to civil unrest. And no that civil unrest is not just because of the lack of sex like someone else tried to say when this argument was brought up earlier. You don't have to care about sexless men but I think you should care about men living in precarity which lead to sexlessness and other issues too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:35 PM
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You just said it doesn't concern you but then listed a bunch of problems facing men which should concern you no? Also I think most women still want to get married so the issue is women believing their casual sex partners will marry them when that's mathematically impossible. Also I'm not saying men are entitled to sex but I will still have empathy if a large percentage of men don't get to experience something that women get to experience. And it's not just about sex either but affection in gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:31 PM
1

Well if you're in a LTR congrats to you but this discussion is not only about you. I don't believe this post is about men being unable to control heir sexual urges. It's about the rise in male sexlessness in comparison to women who are having sex at around the same rate as before. There are economic factors for this disparity in my opinion you can't just pretend it isn't a problem that will lead to more problems down the road if it continues to get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:24 PM
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So far automation is only benefiting the people who own the means of production we don't even have a basic income yet. I believe the contradictions of capitalism will continue to harm men and in turn harm the relationships between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:21 PM
1

Lol that's not what I said at all. I'm not telling women to lower their standards for me I'm telling them to do it for themselves if they want to get married. If you don't want to get married or have a LTR then continue to have casual sex I'm not even shaming you for that. You have to understand thought that what you can get for casual sex is not the same as what you can marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:18 PM
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Maybe they are batting above their league but the rise of obesity is a problem and no matter how unattractive you are as a guy you probably won't find obese women attractive that's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:03 PM
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I'm not saying men are owed sex or something but why is it not at least a little concerning to you that the percentage of male sexlessness is rising? Why is it rising? It's still fairly steady for women which gives the impression that women are sharing other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:52 PM
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Women are more likely to be pump and dumped when they only fuck the top 10-20% of them because it's mathematically impossible for every girl to tie them all down to marriage. If women don't want to be treated like sex objects then they will have to lower their standards a bit or continue to get pump and dumped or just get a house full of cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:49 PM
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Men aren't getting pussy because they're economically disadvantaged why did you refuse to comment on that part of his argument? And it should be no surprise to you that if we stop caring about 20-30% of men a decent enough percentage of those men are going to lash out in one way or another and it's not because they're entitled or "spoiled". This is not all about sex that's just a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:45 PM
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If it's possible to solve some how then 5. A large percent of radicalized sexless economically disadvantaged men is never healthy for a society and will lead to all types of problems down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:34 PM
2

hold a job, So you want guys who can succeed at capitalism a thing you supposedly hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:16 PM
5

And then the becky's go surprised pikachu face when they get pump and dumped and can't get chad to commit. They then start peddling the "all men are trash" shit thinking all men are the same but in reality they are just bitter and plenty of decent men would probably settle with them and commit. They just have to understand that what they can fuck is not the same as what they can marry and lower their standards if what they're looking for isn't casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:15 AM
2

I recommend r/leftwingmaleadvocates it's small and it's not perfect but I think it's the best place to talk about male issues imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:46 AM
1

k
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 06:23 PM
1

Well women don't have to and now with swiping apps they really don't have to. All they gotta do is learn to make the right choice for them out of their many matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 06:12 PM
1

Not our fault a woman can't cope with a single rejection. Do you expect every single guy you approach to be interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:34 PM
2

The republicans don't seem to care about much of anything besides tax cuts and bailing out their buddies I don't see how they give a damn about men? I'd say most of the judges and shit giving men longer sentences for the same crimes as women or giving women preferential treatment as far as custody and stuff goes are mostly conservative no?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/20 04:31 AM
-3

lol center right? Out of here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/20 03:38 AM
2

I would have told that dumb lady who told you off a bitch like wtf if you didn't hit her she would have killed you like what were you supposed to do?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/20 06:43 PM
0

Individually it's not a problem but it's kinda weird that most women think this way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:27 PM
1

No you didn't. You don't understand how statistics work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:57 PM
1

No ones like “oh let’s pay women 20 cents less on average because we can if they’re women.” That’s illegal. Then why did you say "but in those jobs they still only make about 80 cents on the male dollar on average for the same positions doing the same work as equally qualified males in the US"? Of course it's illegal that's why it doesn't happen. If I work less than you and therefore make less money that doesn't equal discrimination or a systemic problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 06:26 PM
1

No the wage gap doesn't take into account women's choices. The wage gap is simply the total amount of wages women earn to that of men. It doesn't say whether or not it's due to discrimination or something. It's not that women literally get paid 80 cents to the dollar for the same exact work if that were the case companies would only hire women and make massive profits.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 05:29 PM
1

Damn bro you gotta gotta be a fuckin' fascist to enforce the circumcision being banned. lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/20 04:17 PM
2

Maybe it's not so simple as to say that women are just more mature and hardworking than men? https://www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672 but in those jobs they still only make about 80 cents on the male dollar on average for the same positions doing the same work as equally qualified males in the US. No.. that's not how the gender pay gap is calculated at all. https://www.payscale.com/gender-lifetime-earnings-gap
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:01 PM
2

Now women go to college as often as men do, and while we’re not paid as much most of us do have our own jobs/can to varying degrees support ourselves. Women are graduating at higher rates than men and young women are doing better economically than young men on most levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:48 PM
4

Ahh yes the karen stage
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/20 03:09 PM
2

It means exactly what the protesters want to do with the police. It's a perfect slogan and it's good that it triggers people. Happy it does fuck them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/20 08:32 PM
2

Police need more accountability in general so if they do get more funding for things like better training or body camera equipment then we have to make sure that's where the funding is going towards.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/20 12:35 AM
1

Those changes in policies lead directly to defunding the police because you will need less of them to enforce the law. Sure we should criminalize dealers but not necessarily abusers. People who are hooked up on some drug need to be given help not punishment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/20 12:20 AM
1

Or it just puts an otherwise decent guy in the same category as said thirsty men because you're just one of many in her list of options. And since women often don't let men get but one message in before deciding if he's worth it or not you don't really get the opportunity to differentiate yourself using your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:17 AM
1

The fact people got so up in arms about "defunding" the police is part of the problem too. I think it's perfect word choice and also what the protesters want.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/20 12:00 AM
1

I agree with the part where you said women are more fickle than they were 10 years ago on the internet. Back in the myspace and early facebook days I was able to add and talk to hundreds of girls all the time. It didn't always work out but many showed interest and treated me kindly. It can't be that I got so much uglier from 16 years old to 26 but maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:39 PM
1

So we can use police for things like murders doesn't mean we can't defund the part of police that is responsible for the war on drugs? It's a shame that I'm reading so much centrist garbage here I thought the people on this sub were supposed to be actual leftists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/20 04:56 PM
2

If you end the war on drugs there won't be a need for a lot of the funding we see of police I.E defunding them would be a byproduct of that?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/20 04:54 PM
6

There's way too much resources going into policing though defunding just means treating policing the same as we do education when it comes to defunding really.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/20 04:51 PM
10

The only credence I give the pay gap is in things like teaching which is vitally important but incredibly underpaid but I'm not sure if that has anything to do with sexism. More that our country doesn't value teachers or education. The gender pay gap still isn't "women get paid less for the same job" that's not what the pay gap explains.
/r/MensRights18/06/20 04:54 AM
11

I went through a more right wing phase during all of this feminist nonsense back in like 2014-2016 and then realized it was all bullshit but even as I came along to the left liberal women never seemed to have any actual evidence on stuff like the gender pay gap. I still wouldn't trust PragerU on anything else beyond this video though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/20 04:52 AM
0

Funny that I get the most criticism from women for not finding work easily enough like they can. Clown World.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/20 10:54 PM
0

What does communism have to do with it fuck head?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/20 06:09 AM
1

I can see it happening short term but I still don't believe the entire military would be used against the American people and if our government tried that it would be dealing with a lot of armed resistance both domestically and globally likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:25 PM
2

That's the modern economy men don't have it that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:41 PM
0

That's a positive yeah. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:30 PM
2

Doesn't change the fact that you have to be above average to be cute and have a decent job. I already know women have unrealistic standards. Your "average" is likely very far from the actual average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:28 PM
1

Come on you don't want to be one of these fine young laddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:24 PM
1

I don't think you live in reality then sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:20 PM
1

A couple of tanks at some protests is a lot different from the entire military using it's force against it's own citizens. These people aren't robots I don't think all of them would be down with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:18 PM
0

Having a job and being cute isn't above average? I think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:09 PM
1

If women truly want to liberate themselves they should start polygamous relationships with attractive rich white men and stop playing games with us average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:59 PM
1

But aren't longer commutes by car bad for the environment? We should have affordable housing as close to our workplaces as possible.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/20 04:05 PM
1

Why are you slut shaming? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 01:58 PM
2

Oh wow so based and red pilled roles eyes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/20 01:08 PM
3

Idk who she is but she's got steven crowder shit and a maga hat in the background. Right wing women. lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/20 06:56 AM
1

They will hold out though for the guy who checks all those boxes but is also materialisticly successful girls don't fall in love with poor guys.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/20 10:25 PM
4

Biden doesn't want to do any of those things and will abandon all of these policies when and if he wins against trump. Also I didn't say biden was worse than trump I was responding to the baby boiling remark.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/20 06:28 PM
2

Liberals are so desperate to get rid of trump that they'd vote for someone even worse. Well in this case worse is an understatement wtf. LOL
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/20 04:17 PM
2

I believe I'm capable of loving someone so I can only assume other people are capable of the same thing. Maybe not with me though I'm not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:24 AM
0

Never said anything about basing your happiness entirely on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:52 PM
0

It's not the same but being poor is a cascading effect of depression, anxiety, lack of opportunity, etc that leads to not getting your dick wet. Also no matter how amazing your personality is you'll get no attention from girls if you're poor. Girls rank wealth and status highly in a partner. This is just fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:19 PM
1

Women will be liberated and out earn men but gender roles haven't and won't change with the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:24 PM
2

amazing ass
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/20 01:17 AM
3

The unfortunately reality. Women want to be freed of their gender norms and expectations but demand men adhere to every demand to cater to their every need. They don't want to grow with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:35 AM
1

You want low status men to get help but at the same time you decry "leftists" and "participation trophies" which doesn't even exist.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 06:42 PM
6

I know it's "just chocolate" but it's still pretty sexist. lol
/r/MensRights02/01/17 04:14 AM
3

I swear these "women days" pop up every other month or so. We need to start keeping track of them all. We must have had at least 5 or 6 already this year.
/r/MensRights12/10/16 12:50 AM
33

No, it didn't. Men's rights are some how unworthy of mainstream media endorsement.
/r/MensRights08/03/16 11:07 PM
1

Thanks I'll delete this thread. I wasn't sure how to do this.
/r/MensRights08/03/16 10:04 PM
3

There's really no way of knowing how many people are actually transgender or would be if it was more accepted. I dress up mostly as a guy so people wouldn't notice me as being trans. Even if that's really who I am at heart. So I think it's much higher than 0.3%. I mean many things aren't "normal" but that doesn't automatically make them harmful either. What is "normal" anyway? Anything that isn't the majority? 49% isn't a majority number either. At what point is it too much? We can't look at wha…
/r/MensRights18/12/15 02:51 AM
2

But he asked about transgender people not transsexual people. There is a difference.
/r/MensRights18/12/15 02:44 AM
2

So do you believe it would then be wrong to use these statistics to hint at women being more often the victims of depression? I'm always hearing this brought up every time male suicide is talked about. I think there's some kind of systematic problem which lead to such a high male suicide ratio in relation to women. Not that men are simply more successful at completing suicide.
/r/MensRights18/12/15 12:17 AM
1

Do you believe people should just be stuffed in some kind of corrective institute for liking a different kind of color or fabric? It's really not that hard to understand. Your genitals don't always determine your interests. People don't always fit in the little box that was crafted for them. How is it so hard to believe that someone with male genitals might like something from the other sex?
/r/MensRights18/12/15 12:08 AM
5

And they're protecting the woman's identity it seems. No photos of the woman?
/r/MensRights13/12/15 09:13 PM
1

Why is it that all of the "pc bro's" are men though? That's what I've been wondering all this time. Is it normally the frat boys that act like that on college campus's or something?
/r/MensRights21/11/15 01:22 AM
10

So they'll listen to the 200 people who signed that petition but ignore the nearly 3000 who came backing fighting against it? The fuck.
/r/MensRights19/11/15 03:46 AM
6

You guys should get together and protest. There's no reason you have to take this.
/r/MensRights19/11/15 03:44 AM
1

This is even worse than the time that kid got suspended for chewing out a gun in his poptart. This deserves way more attention.
/r/MensRights07/11/15 12:10 AM
1

I wouldn't be against him fighting against the men I just don't see the point. It would have been better for him to run if it was possible. No man can take on an entire mob by himself I just said that.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/11/15 08:22 AM
2

Now she knows that she can hit guys as much as she wants and if they retaliate other men will come to her aid. Opposite of a pussy pass. More like a pussy grant. There was no need for him to hit the other men. He was facing an entire mob of men. There's no winning that battle.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/11/15 07:19 AM
3

This doesn't belong here. Why? Because her pussy pass wasn't ignored. The guy got completely fucked up for simply defending himself.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/11/15 02:24 AM
1

Or you just say "no, stop please" when you don't want to have sex anymore?
/r/MensRights16/10/15 02:59 AM
-5

One thing I learned is to never discuss a subject that I obviously have done zero research in and know absolutely nothing about. You don't have a personal investment? You hate trans people. There ya go.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 07:12 PM
0

You're not actually answering my question. With science? what does that even mean? What are the steps? You people can't be bothered to spend two minutes to understand the issue. You just want to send us off to some mental ward somewhere and deny us of our treatment. Do you want to rewire the brain some how? Good luck with that. Also we don't want or need your help.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 07:01 PM
-4

One still wants to be human. And if it's possible to change ones sex and it treats the problem then where's the issue? How should you treat this "mental illness" then? The "mental illness" is the gender dysphoria itself. I know this because this is what I go through. If I got the treatment I desired then I would be cured. A fully transitioned person is just as sane as any normal woman would be. This is proof that transitioning is the real treatment.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 06:51 PM
-4

Being transgender has nothing to do with feminism. It's a whole separate issue that you people obviously could never understand.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 06:35 PM
-13

How do you "Treat" the illness then? Are we going to pray it away? Stuff them with pills? What? Also being transgender does not mean you want to cut off your dick. That's what a transsexual is.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 09:13 AM
-8

You don't even know the difference between being transgender and being transsexual... I can't even.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 09:11 AM
7

You have swarms of people with "her body her choice" signs but we can't get more than one lone man on a street corner against male circumcision? Edit: Are those protesters on the other streets protesting for the same cause?
/r/MensRights27/09/15 10:58 PM
2

Help! I'm being laped!
/r/PussyPassDenied27/09/15 09:33 PM
1

Don't you see? This is the problem. "Oh he must have liked it." Same argument people use to downplay male rape victims.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 06:13 PM
8

We shouldn't have to get 200,000 signatures every time something like this happens. There needs to be major changes in how these situations are handled. We need to distinguish real predators.
/r/MensRights10/08/15 12:34 AM
3

Why do people think this sub will get banned? I really don't think so. They have no reason to.
/r/MensRights06/08/15 01:58 AM
3

The Sex offender registry is too broad and doesn't actually protect children from harm. It should be abolished or severely limited because it's ridiculous how easy it is to ruin people's lives for petty shit.
/r/MensRights07/07/15 01:39 AM
32

Wait 2.8% of females experience sexual misconduct in juvenile facilities? Time to raise awareness and put their problems at the forefront! That's too high of a percentage!
/r/MensRights19/06/15 10:47 PM
2

I don't understand someone who can be offended by the word "slut" when they live up to that definition. And apparently it's not a derogatory term if there are "slut walks".
/r/MensRights15/06/15 09:14 AM
3

The problem is not giving children the choice to dress how they like and to have their own color preferences. Forcing a boy to dress a way he might otherwise find unappealing won't "enlighten" him.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 09:41 PM
5

Poor boy, he's having his body violated without his consent. He's 4 years old! This isn't an infant we're talking about. This is much worse. You're really going to restrain the boy and cut off bits of himself for no reason?
/r/MensRights25/05/15 01:14 AM
1

This has already been posted.
/r/MensRights21/05/15 05:58 PM
32

Hmm, well in that case I don't see how they can justify removing one gender to make room for another. It would be better to have these gender neutral bathrooms for new buildings only.
/r/MensRights21/05/15 05:57 PM
60

I thought the idea of having a gender neutral bathroom was adding a bathroom not taking away one from another gender?
/r/MensRights21/05/15 05:35 PM
2

I don't think women actually attempt more suicides. I think there are a lot of men who attempt suicide as well but aren't cared for in the same way a woman would and therefore aren't seen as a statistic. The fact that the completed suicides are so much higher for men doesn't mean men are better at it but rather they feel a stronger urge to go through with it. Much of this has to do with our issues being ignored.
/r/MensRights20/05/15 07:01 PM
3

More disgusting sexism in the courts what's new? :/
/r/MensRights20/05/15 03:21 AM
28

What happened next was a group of women all ganged up on me telling me that I was exercising my male privilege by feeling the need to comment on this and that it was not about me. You are a man right? So this shit is very much about you. If someone generalizes my entire gender with me along with it then it is DEFINITELY about me. This kind of shit really makes me angry.
/r/MensRights20/05/15 03:18 AM
1

I tried my best without pestering her. It's too late though. They nonchalantly got it cut off as if it was nothing.
/r/MensRights19/05/15 01:48 AM
2

She better fucking face further prosecution. If a guy was trying to frame a police officer for something you know DAM WELL something would happen to him.
/r/MensRights13/01/15 08:36 AM
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