Nymanator Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	Antifeminism will be censored in Canada Antifeminism ≠ anti-woman	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/07/26 03:02 PM
12	"Misogyny of male suicide" ALWAYS have to be the real victim	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/07/26 03:11 PM
12	"Believe All Women" is a ridiculous, sexist slogan. Misandry is not feminism, but some feminism has, in fact, been misandry and should be called such. Feminists get to slip out on the No True Feminist defense way too often to let "misandry is not feminism" go unaddressed this way.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/26 01:30 PM
6	Welcome to the femosphere, the latest dark, toxic corner of the internet… for women The seeds of this were planted by people like them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/07/26 11:35 AM
16	As a gay man, I really don't feel as accepted. Pride seems to be more about queer femininity than queerness in general these days to me. So I made some affirmations I thought I'd share. Hope it helps someone. That's because queer spaces have been hijacked by a population of people who would be better served by a cluster B personality diagnosis than a queer identity.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/07/26 01:53 PM
4	Men aren't actually 'allowed' to be angry It's not about patriarchy and capitalism, it's about gynocentrism. "Your emotions don't matter; get the fuck out of here with them so we can focus on the emotions of the people that do".	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/06/26 01:44 PM
16	Reddit is a hate site. Let's report it as such. Technically, their policy says identity or vulnerability, so the excuse they give is bullshit based on their own policy	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/06/26 12:44 PM
2	The Blind Spot of Systemic Oppression vs. Systemic Safety Well put; when we talk about things that are systemic (especially in regard to gender), there is never any acknowledgment of systemic good.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/05/26 02:15 PM
10	Absence of Research Papers Documenting Online Misandry That's because the predominant sociocultural narrative is ultimately one of transcendent female victimhood, because women are important and men are an afterthought at best. That's also where "patriarchy hurts men too" comes from; you'll notice that didn't become a mainstream idea until modern disparities against men became unignorable, with the "too" making it clear who still actually matters first and who only matters in addition, and even then only if you can still ultimately pin the blame on …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/05/26 02:12 PM
29	What’s behind a ‘boy crisis’ in Canadian schools And when this idea becomes properly mainstream, the usual suspects will claim that the solutions were actually part of their framework all along It's all just so tiresome	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/05/26 08:52 PM
20	What’s behind a ‘boy crisis’ in Canadian schools They say that the fire alarm was justified because Warren Farrel was a biological determinist and raging misogynist who only spoke about men's issues because he was burned on his divorce. They will always have an out to dodge accountability so they can act like the champions for the underdog or victimized martyrs, instead of admitting that by this point in the game they're part of the problem.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/05/26 08:49 PM
9	The real problem with discourse surrounding social issues. Very well articulated, excellently put	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/05/26 08:17 PM
1	How the Ruling Class Exploits Male Violence as a Systemic Resource I don't think the system is intentionally constructed to produce people willing to use violence this way, but it sure as hell will take advantage of how it produces people willing use violence this way	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/05/26 06:35 PM
5	Why is SA and rape not so traumatizing for men as it is women? Right, because we don't have the option to fall back on the support of society at large to be safe the way women do, because our victimhood and suffering matters less. Like I was saying.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/05/26 12:06 AM
31	Why is SA and rape not so traumatizing for men as it is women? We are conditioned not to see ourselves as victims because women's victimhood is treated as what actually matters, not because men aren't allowed to be weak. Our society knows already that men are victims of all kinds of things; it just doesn't care beyond lip service at best because it's busy with the victims that actually matter to it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/05/26 11:22 AM
1	At what point should we start questioning evolutionary psychology perspective on the left wing male experience? Everything you raise is part of variation that is accounted for in evolutionary psychology. Beyond that, evolutionary psychology also accounts for the enormously complex contexts in which people actually live.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/26 01:51 PM
9	Did Gregor Wake Up As A Bug Or Stop Pretending He Wasn’t Already? This is some very moving writing. Thank you for this. I feel seen here.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/04/26 10:42 AM
2	"Boys will be held accountable." I think on this issue in particular, society does not have a problem with people being unreasonably bloodthirsty for punishment. That is evidently not the kind of accountability OP is talking about, nor is it the kind of accountability anybody who discusses the issue the way OP does would be talking about.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/26 03:38 PM
-2	"Boys will be held accountable." I know. That's what I disagree with.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/26 02:19 PM
3	"Boys will be held accountable." So are people who are angry about the ways they are treated in a society that bleats about equality but doesn't practice what they preach when it comes to men not allowed to be angry or express it? I think you're misframing how people generally go about this. Accountability does not at all mean sanctioning cruelty and aggression.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/26 01:10 PM
6	Would you allow a male babysitter to babysit your child? Ah, but you see, you can only have the conversation if you frame it as women being the real victims because of the burden of being expected to be the caregiver.	/r/MensRights	25/02/26 12:47 PM
1	Western University's medical school is hiring a Canada Research Chair. In recognition of Western’s commitment to EDI, only applicants who self-identify as a woman will be considered. This includes individuals who self-identify as transgender, gender-fluid, non-binary & Two-Spirit. Equity means making up for past discrimination with current discrimination. Can't imagine how that might backfire.	/r/MensRights	01/02/26 06:32 PM
5	Why I think the traditional masculinity role is a scam. There's a place for positive elements of traditional masculinity, and there's room for outdated or toxic elements of it to be discarded or changed. "Traditional" doesn't equal "bad", and "progressive" doesn't equal "good" if it means discarding absolutely everything traditional in the name of progress.	/r/MensRights	01/02/26 06:00 PM
3	Homelessness and Men (thoughts on feminist arguments) Dang, that's a good one. I never thought of that particular dichotomy before.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/26 05:13 PM
14	Misandry on BlueSky You weren't asking for clarification, you were jumping to conclusions and passing judgment.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/01/26 10:16 PM
22	Misandry on BlueSky Not going back can just mean you're no longer aligned with the Democratic party. This kind of 'if you're not with us you're against us' logic is part of the problem.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/01/26 10:12 PM
24	Lighter charges for killing men and boys in Canada : "the killing of a woman or girl, will be considered first-degree murder even if the crime was not planned or deliberate" Speaking as a Canadian, abso-fucking-lutely not. Time to get angry and get active. I'll be writing letters and emails to whoever I have to in order to oppose this blatant discrimination.	/r/MensRights	11/12/25 05:23 PM
1	Zohran Mamdani's take on the male loneliness crisis is probably the most fair take by any Western politician so far, acknowledging systemic issues and economic pressure as the driving force. This is surprising for the Leftist misandry he's surrounded by, and hopeful. I've said this before and I'll say it again. It is, in fact, up to women, because it's up to everybody.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/11/25 01:01 PM
6	The University of Toronto invites applications for a Canada Research Chair in Quantum Computing. This job is open only to individuals who self-identify as women and/or members of gender equity seeking groups, including persons who self-identify as trans, nonbinary, gender fluid, and Two-Spirit. As a man, I identify as a member of a gender-equity seeking group.	/r/MensRights	20/11/25 06:27 PM
64	Men I need your experiences. Can't help you there, wasn't raised in a patriarchy.	/r/MensRights	11/11/25 04:47 PM
4	Virginia Advisory Commission for Men and Boys announced This is going to get turned into "blame it on the patriarchy" (maybe not directly, but perhaps couched in language of gender norms and such), and they'll implement "solutions" that will utterly fail to actually fix the problem because they will have completely misidentified it. They are going to try to treat men and boys like defective girls and women instead of meeting them as males, it's going to utterly fail and men and boys will continue slipping, and they or someone else will do the same th…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/10/25 11:42 AM
2	If men’s lives are so much worse than women’s why did my life become perfect after passing as one? Some of that could be ineffably unique to you, your circumstances, and your experience. Some of that could be testosterone acting as an anxiolytic and confidence booster by itself. Some of that effect specifically may also mean you just don't perceive equally unpleasant things as being as bothersome as you would have without it. That also contributes to how you carry yourself and move through the world, and in consequence how you are treated by others. Compounding that is also probably the incre…	/r/MensRights	15/10/25 03:33 PM
1	MeToo movement has ‘absolutely destroyed’ men MeToo was not the problem. Leave that alone; that's a strawman that people who don't give a shit about men set up so that it can be easily shot down whenever men's issues come up.	/r/MensRights	13/09/25 11:35 AM
23	Micro Influencer Here: I Was Falsely Accused of Being a PDF File By the Alt Community and Fought Back You can just say pedophile here.	/r/MensRights	25/08/25 02:19 PM
1	Mens rights activists and feminists want the same thing? My apologies for how long this took to communicate, and I don't know at this point if it has been communicated elsewhere considering how many responses you've gotten, but the core of the lengthy response I've been too busy to properly formulate boils down to gynocentrism and male disposability rooted in evolutionary biology, as pregnancy and childbirth make women the limiting factor in reproduction and therefore evolutionary success for humans as a primate species. By comparison, sperm and ejacu…	/r/MensRights	07/08/25 12:15 AM
2	UK: Young men are offered £1,000 signing bonus to work in nurseries in bid to battle toxic masculinity crisis It's not a toxic masculinity crisis, it's a male caregiver persecution crisis.	/r/MensRights	01/08/25 04:40 PM
5	Mens rights activists and feminists want the same thing? I've been formulating a response, but suffice it to say it's complicated and has been taking some time. Stay tuned because I do plan on actually responding properly.	/r/MensRights	19/07/25 12:43 AM
32	Mens rights activists and feminists want the same thing? The very idea of 'the patriarchy' as the root of all gendered issues is part of the problem, because it's not reflected in the actual lived reality for either men or women. You can't treat an illness properly without an accurate diagnosis and patriarchy ain't it.	/r/MensRights	18/07/25 09:07 PM
22	White Foster Dad Accused Of Trafficking Latina Daughters By United Airlines Crew I was publicly accused of being a predator toward my foster daughter by a random woman because I was playing with the kid at a small beach, simply on the basis that she thought I had "rapey vibes". She made a big, noisy scene about it, and she didn't back off until the kid's great aunt (who was meeting us there) arrived and vouched for me. If you're a man, the default assumption is that you're a threat to children unless you have the appropriate female supervision or approval.	/r/MensRights	09/07/25 08:42 PM
4	Increasing numbers of boys in the UK are being referred to the anti-terrorism PREVENT program for misogyny Yeah, and PREVENT is correctly saying "this isn't terrorism, get these boys some help elsewhere"	/r/MensRights	08/07/25 03:56 PM
1	Male in childcare. Vent. I've had similar (and far worse) experiences as a nursing student on a pediatric psychiatry unit, with babysitting gigs, and as a foster parent to two girls. I do this shit because I enjoy taking care of kids and I'm good at it, not because I'm a predator, and it sucks hard to be presumed a threat for being born with a Y-chromosome. It's straight injustice.	/r/MensRights	04/07/25 02:21 PM
8	It’s not your job to make someone feel safe. You are not obligated to make someone feel safe just because you are a man. If someone feels unsafe simply because you exist, that’s their problem, not yours. Yes, contributing meaningfully to the actual safety of their environment by addressing significant threats that are in their power to address, and exercising prudence to avoid becoming a threat to others. It is not the job of mature individuals to tiptoe around other people feeling unsafe around them if they have no intention of causing harm to begin with, and aren't otherwise engaging in reckless behaviour that has the possibility of endangering others. It is the job of the person perceiving po…	/r/MensRights	03/07/25 05:29 PM
3	Finland and Moldova top so called gender equality index by forcibly conscripting only men More like they're taught to not whine and be strong because they're inherently worthless (relatively speaking, anyway) and therefore undeserving of time, energy, empathy, and resources. Those need to go to the people who matter more, so suck it up, buttercup.	/r/MensRights	30/06/25 04:27 PM
1	What are your thoughts on Richard Reeves? He has denied the existence of discrimination by teachers and others staff against boys in schools despite mountains of evidence supporting that conclusion. He has proposed a 'solution' to boys lagging behind girls in educational achievement of having them held back a year by default, which is almost laughably unhelpful with how many additional problems that would create (do underachieving girls get held behind into the 'boy class' for their age; would there be opportunities for high-achieving b…	/r/MensRights	28/06/25 07:30 PM
1	Perceived victimhood is power in society so feminists will never give it up Moreover, it's the kind of power that disappears when you acknowledge you have it - because if you admit that you have power, then you're not a victim anymore. So of course, no one who wields that power will ever say so.	/r/MensRights	28/06/25 07:19 PM
1	Female prison population growing faster than male, worldwide. Since 2000, the number of women and girls in prison has surged by 57%, compared to a 22% increase in the male prison population. When you start off lower to begin with, smaller growth in absolute numbers looks bigger in terms of percentages of the initial value.	/r/MensRights	19/05/25 02:41 AM
8	“Our boys need strong, positive male role models to look up to.” "since 2010 the number of teachers in our schools has increased by 28,000 – but just 533 of those are men." Something I've come to hypothesize more recently is that the benefits of a presence of a positive male figure in a boy's life (and the more serious consequences for the absence of one for boys than for girls) isn't about role modeling at all. Rather, I think that it comes from this person being a mature, compassionate, authoritative figure who actually understands their experiences as boys and treats them accordingly. I believe the power is more in the consequent increased relative effectiveness…	/r/MensRights	03/04/25 04:19 PM
73	Group of Labour MPs seeking to steer young men away from ‘toxic influencers’ Young men don't need to be 'steered away' from toxic influencers - they need to be steered toward something concretely meaningful. Struggling young men need hope for their future, clear direction, and self-efficacious purpose. Go figure.	/r/MensRights	20/03/25 06:27 PM
7	UK: Crisis in the classroom as number of men becoming secondary teachers plummets to record 35 per cent low while boys turn to toxic male role models in their absence The problem with not having male teachers isn't role modeling, it's the fact that female teachers in particular discriminate in favor of girls in a large number of ways that male teachers don't, and the experience a lot of boys have with this turns them off of education altogether.	/r/MensRights	17/03/25 02:51 AM
1	UN: Women's and girls' rights at risk from uptick in online abuse, says new UN report OP: This article is male hate form beginning to end. This is just HeForShe all over again, because women are always victims everywhere and men always need to be better allies, until the end of time	/r/MensRights	12/03/25 04:21 PM
7	MenNeedToBeHeard: Why Are Mental Health Professionals Mocking Men? The case might not even be real; she might just be trying to smugly make a point about how women supposedly get treated when they bring up abuse - despite overwhelming evidence that authorities and professionals generally take cases of women as victims much more seriously than those of men. Still a nasty piece of work.	/r/MensRights	12/03/25 04:16 PM
5	I was SA’d by a woman and no one cares I'm sorry that this happened - both the assault and that conversation with your sister. I experienced something similar recently myself; I was sexually assaulted by a woman some years ago at a party, and my friends were laughing while it happened. I told my aunt about this recently, as a family member I felt I was close with (unfortunately in the context of an argument about men and women's overall suffering relative to each other - guess what her position was). She told me that I needed to find…	/r/MensRights	20/01/25 04:33 PM
2	Male primary school teachers I think getting men into these positions of education would be a benefit, actually, provided they're independent thinkers who aren't just operating on the terms of the education system you're talking about.	/r/MensRights	18/01/25 04:25 PM
1	Men face growing pressure to use steroids as studies show increase in male body dysmorphia Somebody better pick up that phone, because I fucking called it https://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/1f6csad/comment/ll06aa5/	/r/MensRights	15/01/25 04:46 PM
2	Domestic abuse: Half of male victims do not report incidents: United Kingdom There's also a difference between one incident of harsh words and a persistent pattern of psychological, verbal, and emotional abuse. That pattern is a lot harder for someone on the outside to tease out and even the victim themselves might not see it for what it is while they're in it. It doesn't have to land the victim in the hospital to qualify as abuse (though it still can indirectly in the form of substance use and its complications, as well as other mental health issues and their sequelae, …	/r/MensRights	23/11/24 06:30 PM
9	What are some counterarguments against "women's historical oppression"? Of course the data would suggest that when men fight for custody they have a decent shot. You have to be Father of the Year to even have a chance of winning, and lawyers heavily discourage men who aren't basically perfect from trying in the first place all the time, because they know the average man will lose 9 out of 10 times. No study addressing the issue ever controls for the fact that the sample of fathers who fight for custody is heavily biased in favor of highly exceptional fathers from th…	/r/MensRights	16/11/23 04:00 AM