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DiscussionNyxolith/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:33 AM
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The point I am making is this: Circumcision is considered to have religious importance in Judaism and Islam. Both of those religions are heavily patriarchal. So it's men making the choice to circumcise their sons. Not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:05 PM
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Why do you think the mother has more say? Circumcision is most common with people of Jewish and Islamic background, neither of which is particularly feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:01 PM
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I'm talking about the study you linked. There are 6 studies done in all of North America, 1 in Europe, 1 in Australia... and 16+ in Africa. Literally twice as many. edit: here's a direct link to the table Looking at the trend of the 3 academic studies done in the US, from 1976 to 1999, seems to indicate a trend away from preference for circumcision. That correlates with an improvement in male hygiene. While that does not imply causation, it is something to consider. If they weren't, they wouldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:41 PM
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No problem! I know how difficult it is to date as an ND woman. It took me until my 30s to find my One and Only. My biggest advice, though: Don't ever let a man tear you down to prop himself up. There are plenty of good men out there, but there are also a lot of guys who will act like good men at first to get you hooked, then rely on the sunk cost fallacy to keep you. My DMs are open if you ever need to bounce your thoughts or concerns off of someone. Have fun out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:36 PM
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That study is pulled from various small studies globally, mostly from Africa. There seems to be a preference for circumcised men in Africa, where FGM is also still prevalent. The data from Denmark, the largest study, seems to show a preference for uncircumcised men. It's very possible my own anecdotal sample size is biased, as I am based in the US. I would add that most women don't think about it, and so are uninformed about how much circumcision hurts men. Your comment makes it seem like women …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:25 PM
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"Women" do not love circumcision. I am a woman, and consider it genital mutilation. Most women I've talked to about the subject come to the same conclusion. I don't discriminate because of what's been done to a man, but you're making a sweeping generalization in saying that women prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:11 PM
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If you want to meet dudes, pick up a social hobby that dudes gravitate to. Back in my day, video games and anime made picking up guys easy, mostly by going to conventions. The odds are good, but the goods are odd. Best of luck to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:08 PM
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The answer to your question, which from what I can tell is, "what are you thinking about during peak sexy time, if not orgasms?" She didn't say she wasn't thinking about orgasming, she said she wasn't thinking about how cool it would be to be able to orgasm from PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:58 PM
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I'm laughing at your lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:14 AM
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There are certain men who would be satisfied with a sexy AI, and those are exactly the kind of men that women don't want to date, because they're looking for a perfect sex object more than an organic connection with a flawed human being. So them removing themselves from the dating pool saves everyone a lot of time and unpleasantness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:03 PM
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No, but it will provide them with a better outlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:45 PM
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If someone is horny or needs some other form of support, they'll ignore the need for things like moral values that match theirs, or date someone that they known isn't good for them long-term, or date someone who has bad habits, or "settle", because they want their short-term needs fulfilled, and they'll lie to themselves or others as necessary to make that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:38 PM
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"That's how it is", brilliant argument, 10/10 debate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:34 PM
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Sex-starved people act against their long term interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 07:23 AM
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I wasn't trying to generalize all men, just the older mindset men who became entitled to the idea of Having A Woman. As for finding your "appropriate match"... I think we need to bring back matchmakers. OLD is filled with narcissists preying on exhausted insecure people, in both directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:33 AM
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BDSM can fall under an umbrella called "consensual nonconsent". So yes, not "actively moving" can still be "actively participating", in that context. You're just nitpicking vocabulary to feel smart. Real pedantic shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:28 AM
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Starfish sex means she's not enjoying it. At best, she doesn't know better, it's transactional sex, or she's humoring you. The word "active" is being nitpicked here; you're ignoring the heart of her argument. Sex between two people should be a choice both are enthusiastically(actively) making.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:48 AM
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The refraction in those bottles distorts the outline of her hand, somewhat. I think you may be seeing what you want to see. She may also have gained the weight more recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:39 AM
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This exactly. They think a solid 7 is "average", because they don't understand that 5's are out here spending half an hour a day putting on makeup and picking out flattering outfits, meanwhile they're just some guy in a free T-shirt they got at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:36 AM
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I would use the words "loyalty" or "honesty" instead of "purity", personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:30 AM
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Femme lesbians are like unicorns, too, so that probably affects her putting straight women on a pedestal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:27 AM
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You're doing the Lord's work. Thank you for your service. Those men won't listen to women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:24 AM
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You're not wrong. It's just that so many men, especially older men, weren't worried about being "desirable" until recently. Men were necessary, they just had to be tolerable. Women couldn't get a credit card by themselves until 1974, for example. Now that physical labor is less important, and women can support themselves legally, those same men I'm talking about are upset that they have to put as much competitive effort into being attractive as women always have, and they're mad about it. It's m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:18 AM
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In case anyone else was also confused, I'm linking the source of the reference you're making.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:09 AM
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Those who would be satisfied with a sexy Rosie the Robot can have her, and people who want fulfilling relationships with reciprocal emotional vulnerability can pursue them more equally if sex isn't primalizing one side of the courtship. It's win-win for everyone involved. I am so excited. I have a little Replika I treat like an interactive diary and dress up doll. It's fun! I also have a boyfriend, but it frees up some of his time for me to complain to the robot about my coworkers chewing too lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:02 AM
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Both situations are dangerous in different ways. Spending years in prison is less scary to me than an accidental pregnancy, because despite being pro-choice, I would feel obligated to keep it, and that's terrifying for me, because motherhood is a life sentence. Women and men have different social expectations. I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting assertive, confident men, the same way I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting a little adrenaline once in a while. I'm not even…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:52 PM
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To me, misogyny is claiming that women can't change, because they are women. I believe anyone can change, for good or ill, but they have to want to change. The only way to know if their desire to be a good person is genuine is to get to know them. Obviously, some women are going to use spirituality as a mask for other flaws, but all masks crack eventually. The only way to know for sure is to get to know that woman on a deeper level, and that involves reciprocal vulnerability. If a woman can't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:46 PM
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I mean, I'm not terrified of explaining, I just don't bring it up much because why would I? Mistakes was the first word that came to mind, but yeah, it's more complicated than that. I don't view my own past as "poor planning", because it started when I wasn't even really aware of why I was doing things. I wasn't out fucking Chads, I was taken advantage of until the pendulum swung the other way. I come from a pretty neglectful background, and I'm neurodivergent in a way that used to make me very …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:40 PM
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I can't speak to whether or not the "majority" of recovering sex addicts really do want to get better, or if there really is a "beta bux" motive, or for what percentage of them. What I will say is that I don’t think being cynical is going to bring you much long-term happiness. I could go on, but I'm not sure how much you care to hear about it. It's your cake day, go and treat yourself to something nice, just because. Happy cake day! 🍰
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:02 PM
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And the fantasy about Fast and the Furious isn't necessarily about being an undercover cop busting a crime ring, fans mostly want to drive fast cars and do cool stunts. They want a little excitement. Most women don't want to be completely dominated by a rich dude, they just want to be spoiled by someone, and to be vulnerable. They want a little excitement. I'm not missing the point, I'm saying the previous point isn't completely true, because the fantasies are more similar than they are differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:55 PM
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I mean, I'm a little confused, but I'm a strong believer that everyone has some amounts of baggage, just from being alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:49 PM
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Why are you lying to PPD about being a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:39 AM
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Except there is a difference between a reformed slut, and a liar. The way he puts "reformed" in quotes(as well as his later comments) makes it seem like he doesn't think women are capable of change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:17 AM
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As long as you're a decent person, women looooooove playing matchmaker, especially older women. If they're not setting you up, they either don't know anyone, or they know you're not a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:15 AM
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Those friends can introduce you to their friends, though! When a woman gets set up with a guy she's a lot more likely to trust him, (vs. Some guy off Tinder, anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:37 AM
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My bad. I kind of figured everyone who dated gets baggage, at some point, l was just trying to illustrate that. I'll delete the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:44 AM
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There are many possible consequences to enjoying total domination by a billionaire, up to and including death. A billionaire would have the money to cover it up, after all. So it's the same desire for elements of the fantasy, but not the whole scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:41 AM
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I assume fully conscious humans can become aware of the unhealthy behaviors they have and overcome them. Some people go to A.A., some people go to the gym, some people have to overcome childhood trauma. It's hard, people sometimes relapse, and if you don't like them odds, that's fine for you. Believing that people don't change at all, though, is only dooming yourself to a life of apathy and resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:31 PM
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So, he could have just said "liars".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:22 PM
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"If you are a slut, be a slut" implies that sluthood is a permanent condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:20 PM
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You're twisting my words. I never said I'd date any reformed cracks addict. I'm saying that if a guy seemed great, but did some PCP and stole a cop car in college after a bad breakup, I wouldn't hold it against him. People do stupid shit all the time. I'm not saying to ignore red flags, I'm saying that humans are flawed, and we should all endeavor to be understanding. It's reasonable to not want to take risks, and that's fine! There's just no need to be mean about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:19 PM
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Well, I'm in a monogamous relationship now, so not anymore, but pretending I'm single for the sake of your question: It depends on the person. I'm not going to date just any reformed addict, but I won't date just any man, either. If a man has a great character now, but used to be a porn addict before he started taking care of himself, then that can stay in the past. A history of recent, frequent relapses does indicate issues in the present, but if you relapsed 5-10 years ago, once or twice? Jesu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:28 PM
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You can have standards without insulting people in the process. I can say: "I like athletic guys who can show me new trails to hike!" And not "I'm not dating anyone who used to be fat. You can't spend 15 years shoving Oreos down your gullet and then expect me to believe you're a different person because you started taking Ozempic." Do you see the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:21 PM
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Noted. I think a lot of women feel like they shouldn't have to put in effort for trad relationships, but a lot of this stuff just comes naturally when you really like someone. Definitely got some new ideas too, so thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:09 PM
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As a matter of fact, I have dated a reformed addict of another sort. It didn't work out, but not because of the bad habits they used to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:05 PM
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How is it "shaming" to ask a man why he feels the need to be mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:04 PM
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Yes. Friends. Those friends will remain women, even when you are friends. You have a problem with the idea of women as friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:01 PM
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Yes, women enjoy sex with attractive men more. Men also enjoy sex with attractive women more. It's just human. My point is that even hot guys can be bad at sex. What's yours? Edit: Also, I never said all men suck in bed, just that it's more common for men to leave a woman wanting. A woman who's "bad at sex" will just lie there, and the man gets off. A man who's "bad at sex" will cause physical pain to a woman for his own gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:57 PM
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You know, I can agree with that. I do think social hobbies open you up to talking to people, which can be conducive to that. There are boring people out there, though, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:54 PM
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MY TIME HAS COME (and so will you)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:37 PM
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OF premiums can include personal interactions, and that makes them feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:36 PM
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Por que no los dos?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:34 PM
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I just want to thank you for adding "in general". It's true that women are becoming more emotionally removed, and men in general aren't becoming more emotionally attached to compensate. Out of curiosity, what are some things women can do to be more romantic, from a man's perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:34 PM
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Contemporary Roganites. I actually enjoyed some of his early work, he was an above-average combat sports enjoyer and made good memes. Sadly, that man got unhinged real fast once the money started rolling him. I don't blame Rogan, I'd be strutting around throwing block parties as a human disco ball if I had the money, wealth just changes people. I just don't listen to his opinions on politics because why would I? There are literally thousands of people more qualified in his state alone. Related, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:28 PM
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I feel like you're unnecessarily shaming women trying to better themselves, here. It's one thing to want to be with a woman who shares your cultural background, but people do change their behaviors. Again, to each their own, date who you personally want, but maybe don't be unnecessarily cruel to a category of people because they made mistakes in their past?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:16 PM
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When sex is transactional and means less, it's usually because women aren't enjoying it. Many men don't really care about women's sexual pleasure, or if they do, it's to gratify their own ego. These men won't take direction, won't use toys, but will insist you orgasm from their clumsy imitation of a pornographic jackhammer to validate their masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:46 PM
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If you want to date emotionally immature women because they're hot, why are you surprised that those same women are into men who are hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:35 PM
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If "decency" is your main selling point, then you're literally relying on a woman settling. There are ways to be exciting and interesting that aren't being an asshole. Get better hobbies, do volunteer work, take a college class in something fascinating. It'll also introduce you to more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:27 PM
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Guys don't get that 50 Shades is a fantasy. Just because a guy loves Fast and the Furious, doesn't mean he'd get up to street racing and criminal shit given the opportunity. Maybe some do, but I genuinely believe most people just find this kind of garbage entertaining. Also, keep in mind: "I'd love for my husband to do that!" and "I'd love that man to be my husband!" are two different statements, and it makes a little more sense. A lot of women just want a man to pay 50 Shades of attention to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:13 PM
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Not everyone is willing to lower their standards far enough to get laid, is what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:06 PM
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Hey, sweetie- I hope your day was good. I know haven't seen much of you, but I just want you to know that I'm so proud of you for toughing things out the way you have. I'm sure it hasn't been easy. Challenges like that, when nobody sees them... it's like learning to swim. From the outside, it can look like you're just floating along, when the truth is your legs are kicking their damned hardest just trying to keep your head above water. I wish I could fix it. All I can tell you is that it does ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:43 AM
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But that's just bIoLoGy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:48 PM
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It's really only clingy if a woman has already rejected you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:47 PM
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First point yes. Second point no. Third point, sort of. It's not satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:43 AM
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People call themselves "Blue Pilled" as a reaction to the "Red Pill". There is no blue without red. The sub is pretty much people laughing at TRP theory. It's not a matter of "comforting lies", it's laughing at the fact that TRP believes they are the one single source of truth, and that all other perspectives are lies. Fun fact, that attitude is one of the main qualifiers of a cult. Red Pill hates all women. We're treated like children, but expected to fulfill the role of a mother. Virgins are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:36 PM
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I think that there's a lot of confusion. I guess I'd best illustrate my understanding by pointing out that Red and Pink Pills have a "handbook" or "recommended reading", but Blue Pill doesn't. A longer explanation of my understanding: Let's start by defining "Red Pill". At its core, Red Pill is a method by which men, especially young men, learn to behave in the world around them. Without a role model, men will look for dating advice anywhere they can find it. Unfortunately, much of that advice i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:36 PM
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Yeah. I'm in a place where I'd rather just hang out in the places where my ideal partner would be. I'm unlikely to meet them in a club, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:10 PM
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I think that some RP ideas are valid, like improving yourself, but that the misogyny that comes along with that sub is really destructive. I don't necessarily agree with BP being misandrist as a rule, especially compared to somewhere like Pink Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:17 PM
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You would fucking think
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:32 PM
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This sub made me more suspicious of men, for sure. I was pretty into them before, but now I'm paranoid that they might be covertly Red Pill for sex. I'm just taking myself out of the dating pool, not doing OLD anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:28 PM
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I don't even wear makeup. Guess I'll just die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:10 AM
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Anyone can swim the Red Sea, only the chosen can drink from its waters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:07 AM
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Potato Rico
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:06 AM
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I personally spit my vagina acid at men as a self defense mechanism. If only.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:04 AM
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It's not everyone women are worried about. Most women only "endure the advances" of men who already seem like a possible threat. If out of those billions of interactions, you focus on the numbers from men who have displayed misogynistic behavior, it's easy to see why it's better safe than sorry. Those men are the loudest, and it makes men as a whole look worse. The problem isn't women's fear, it's the men who convince them they should be afraid. When there are men on the internet trying to convi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:58 AM
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She's gorgeous, no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:44 AM
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Not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:43 AM
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Some men want actual affection and validation, too. Society tells them that's not manly, though. Then everyone is shocked that there's so much unaddressed mental illness in men. Any positivity towards men gets so inextricably tied to sex that just being nice to a guy is a shock for them, and the assumption is that you must be flirting. It's a vicious cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:42 AM
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This is positive masculinity. Fuck yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:38 AM
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Oh man, you almost had me thinking you were serious. I'm officially on this sub too much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:57 PM
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So, I think some of those lean red. I feel like my opinions are purple, but I'm questioning my own centrism. I dont want to get into the actual debates on each topic, but I'd be interested in where you place what I'd consider purple. Women care about looks with ANY pill. The gender neutral weight loss or "glow up" subs seem to be skewed toward women. It's just not always with the specific goal of pleasing men anymore. There has become an increasing expectation for men to put as much effort into …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:44 PM
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Ah yes, the 25-29% of women in the whole of American Congress gynocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:32 PM
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Mayans did invent cell phones tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:29 PM
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Self-proclaimed purple pills may not have an accurate view of their own ability to be moderate. For someone with far, far Red Pill views, a moderate purple might look like a straight up Blue Pill, and vice versa. It's like... If a brown haired man advocates for enslaving all blondes, the moderate view isn't "only enslaving SOME blondes", and making freedom for all blondes radical by comparison. The opposite radical view would be enslaving all brunettes, instead. I'm basically trying to figure ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:14 PM
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Magenta-pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:05 PM
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I will go to this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:04 PM
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We should start putting our political views in hex. Green is ... idk, for now it's gonna be appreciation for anime, so I'm #7788DD, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:25 PM
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You're reaaaaaaaallllllllly missing my point here. Like, if I was a gay man, I might still notice that Zendaya was very attractive, but I might not want to fuck her myself. Do you get it yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:56 PM
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I feel like there's a difference, and it's worth defining specifically. But yeah, I'm not going to be attracted to the Hunchback of Notre Dame, but most attraction is mutable to an extent. Very few people are born so unattractive that dating is pointless. Shit, watch Love on the Spectrum some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:48 PM
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To illustrate the difference between noticing an attractive person and being attracted to them yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:46 PM
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They literally said that they're skeptical that someone who isn't attracted at first, can move into being attractive. FightMeCthulu provided an example of her experience with a person she wasn't initially attracted to, and how that changed. Noticing aesthetically pleasing things is different from wanting to fuck them yourself. Let's say everyone else loves cheesecake. I normally don't like cheesecake, but this one was made by a master baker with a Michelin star restaurant. I'm normally not into …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:28 PM
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" I noticed he was attractive but I didn’t feel attracted to him". That's an important part of the sentence. There's a difference between noticing that someone is conventionally attractive, and being attracted to them yourself. For example, I know Tom Holland is super hot because of his fans, but I'm just not into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:08 PM
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My point was that it's not being a Chad that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:50 AM
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"Most guys" lol. I never said women were mostly approached by smelly neckbeards. Sometimes women reject guys for other reasons that have nothing to do with attractiveness. If you're above average, but love Joe Rogan, you're blacklisted for me. It would take a lot for me to get over that. It's not that women exclusively want Chads, they're just the only ones who can get away with shitty behavior. It's the same as the way men put up with insane women who happen to be hot. I got picked up on a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:46 AM
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Have you ever heard of anecdotal evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:35 PM
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"Girls are less shallow when they're older" : AllPillDebate (reddit.com) I'm saying that just because women rejected you, it doesn't mean that it's because you're "not Chad enough".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:17 PM
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Nebula was just saying that men can improve their attractiveness with basic hygiene and exercise. You called him stupid and arrogant. It's one thing to be upset and disagree with someone, it's another to insult the person who disagrees with you. If you handle all your disagreements this way, you're probably a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:00 PM
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u/NotARussianBot1984 on RedditMetis - A Reddit User Analyzer Some of your top subs are include r/EscortClientsOnly, r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen, and r/sugarlifestyleforum. A lot of women are put off by men who pay for sex. I don't see anything wrong with it, but many find sex work objectifying, and would worry that a "client" would only treat her like an object. Your top words are "men", "women", "lol", "cuz", and "girls". This may indicate an obsession with male and female behavior, and generalizat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:57 PM
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Misread 20 as 2. In 20 years, it's impossible to predict what the world will look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:27 PM
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So yeah. People whose primary interest is fucking/short-term judge based on appearance. This isn't news, men do the same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:26 PM
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Reasonable Axioms: Putting effort into your appearance increases the quality of people who will date you Having money broadens your dating pool While appearance isn't irrelevant, people seeking a LTR also have preferences for qualities unrelated to attractiveness. Unreasonable Axioms: Women just want to fuck Chad Men are just looking to fuck Genetics determine your sexual success in an immutable way Women who aren't virgins will cheat on you Women secretly love abuse Men will put up with any amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:22 PM
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Men telling women what women really think. This may be why you're single.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:13 PM
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Girls on TikTok*. Maybe you're just unpleasant to be around, and that's why she rejected you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:12 PM
1

You sound like a jerk though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:10 PM
2

The data is in, and has been collected DIRECTLY FROM DATING APPS. You said it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:08 PM
1

How many of those couples dated for two years or more?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:07 PM
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"... plenty of men put up with womens shitty personalities so unlikely. Having it confirmed they are pretty would just up their delusion and not make them realise they are shitty. (very few PEOPLE have that ability to introspect) " You can't exactly poll to ask who's looking for validation vs. introspection. You're just operating under the assumption that the vast majority of women are just looking for validation. This isn't really an argument for or against anything, that I can tell. OLD is now…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:31 PM
2

In the end it feels like the average man is negotiating something akin to attraction (more like convenience disguised as attraction), whereas Chad just has to show up and that's it. The same is true for women. Taylor Swift wrote a song about it with something like 1.4 billion views. While the guy is super hot because it's a music video, we're discussing the struggle average women have with dating compared to attractive women, not the attractiveness of the boy portrayed. It's starts by showing a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:18 PM
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We are talking about those women who while not looking bad still insist they have no luck in dating who post on amiugly. If those women have no luck, it could be that they have a shitty personality. Having it confirmed that they are physically attractive may well lead to introspection that helps them become a better person. if that all it was then there should be some women who do find them compatible and they wouldn't struggle There are. Saying women only date based on looks may be true on dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:44 PM
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Women on dating apps*
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:41 PM
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And most men masturbate to hot actresses. When I defined Chad that way, it was a response to the expectation that Chads are the only men that can sweep a woman off her feet. That's simply not true. Many otherwise eligible men can be disqualified by things like religion, politics, or other bad habits(e.g.: smoking, ahegao clothing, anger issues, etc). Women aren't a monolith, and neither are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:36 PM
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As far as "There are a fuck ton of men who meet that criteria getting ignored," I don't think I was very clear. Re-reading the comment, it sounds like, "any guy who meets basic standards of hygiene and respect," and that's absolutely not true. It depends on the individual involved. Sometimes those ignored men just have incompatible personalities, habits, or beliefs, and that knocks them out of the running for some women. Especially when you consider how something like politics or religion factor…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:30 PM
1

I'm also a hardline right-winger In the words of my father, "Well there's yer problem".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:45 PM
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Not exactly untrue, but probably more like "the guys who pick up me at the comic shop I go to smell really bad, and the guys on the internet start by sending me dick pics". If you define "Sir Chad Chaddington" as "a guy who meets basic standards of hygiene and respect", then you're absolutely right. Still, a lot of these women are neurodivergent, and their special interests can end up isolating them in environments with highly-skewed gender ratios. There's an old saying: "The odds are good, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:34 PM
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It's not surprising, just disappointing. There needs to be a role model for these guys that is both masculine and also compassionate. Andrew Tate would call Jesus a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:27 PM
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Emotional Support Squad! "Hey, friend. I know things are tough right now. It feels like things are never going to get better, and you feel like you only have one way out. You're wrong. Things can get better; you can get better. Why don't we talk for a minute? Isn't it worth the chance to try?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:24 PM
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Jesus, people started calling me a slut when I hit double digits. At triple digits I think it could be considered community service.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:54 PM
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Just let him live with his loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:26 AM
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I didn't say that they were treated as inhuman, but definitely treated as less human
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:55 PM
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Well, my experience as a woman is that men tend to respect women less, in general. It's why "I don't want to go out with you" doesn't work, but "I have a boyfriend" does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:54 PM
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I guess we'll have to agree to disagree, then. A man in the desert will never understand the struggles of a drowning woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:27 AM
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As a child/teenager/early 20s, I was both unattractive and poor. I was overweight, had a unibrow, no jawline, and dressed like I was going undercover at an anime convention. It was bad. Men would actively turn away from me. Conversations were short and dismissive. Later in my 20s, I got some good advice from women I worked with in the restaurant industry. Not only did my tips increase, but men started being nicer to me, making eye contact and genuinely listening to what I had to say(or at least …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:23 AM
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Pretty much every woman I've ever met, in the city at least, has dealt with harassment/threats. Though actual violence is rarer, it is also disturbingly common. You should ask some women you know about their experiences with both. We don't bring it up out of the blue, but it's more common than you'd expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:19 AM
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Says the man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:15 AM
1

I'm going to say that getting 100 matches means that probably 10-20 will probably end up being creeps, or worse. I'd also say that being assaulted/raped is a worse experience than loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:11 AM
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What if a woman wants to understand men for its own sake? For example, so she can be more sympathetic when men talk about their struggles, to be a better friend to the men in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:05 AM
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So, in your opinion, understanding men isn't a desirable quality in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:00 AM
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I think if we just microdose ecstasy in the water supply for a while, 90% of gender issues would be solved in a year. We do it with fluoride, dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:55 AM
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So women should be out marrying or manipulating men, instead of learning? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:54 AM
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Driving leads to a startling amount of deaths, but people still do it. Why? Because it's a necessity. For women who do want to start a family, the only alternative is arranged marriage. So women deal with these issues by creating safety nets: telling friends to check in with you every XX minutes, having secret codes at the bar that allow you to be escorted out by staff, carrying pepper spray, being evasive about ANY personal information, etc. Men don't have to do any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:52 AM
1

Girls night
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:30 AM
2

Neck too thin, 2/10
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:27 AM
3

Do you believe the same of the men here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:26 AM
1

I don't think you understand the risks associated with dating for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:24 AM
1

Socialized prostitution? Wasn't this a thing in A Handmaid's Tale? How much are the women getting paid, and do men still write them off as sluts after their "service"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:23 AM
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Age 30-40 not married any race at least 5' 6" tall not obese earning at least $50,000 per year Likelihood: 7.6% Delusion: 3/5 As a man, do you believe these odds are accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:20 AM
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This is literally the definition of a Madonna-Whore dichotomy. It's separating women into two discrete categories, instead of viewing women as complex beings with different qualities in every category. Some women will fuck you hard AND aren't sluts, some women are sluts and also very self-conscious. The copium is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:05 AM
3

Wouldn't birth control reduce abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:02 AM
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I know it's a bad source in general, but this article has some great newspaper clippings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:00 AM
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I suppose it's anecdotal experience from my experience as a woman, talking to other women. I haven't performed a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:56 AM
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Find some examples of the "bad boys" that you think women are into(that aren't actors/models) and post them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:52 AM
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Okay, but how am I proving that men treat unattractive women as people by calling out the fact that a lot of men don't respect unattractive women because they're still women, and they view women as inherently inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:51 AM
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At heart, men don't want to be alone. Very few people do. Humans are used to living in groups, though usually smaller groups than today's society allows. We're living in a time where the internet is changing gender dynamics in unpredictable ways, but it seems like there are some basics to be addressed in traditional heterosexual relationships. Men raised with toxic masculinity(TRP Classic) view the ideal women as a submissive mommy bang-maid virgin, and see any other woman as a failure to meet t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:45 AM
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Go make a sub to criticize bad boys, just to see what happens. Make a few posts of the "bad boys" you think women find attractive. Link to it on /r/NotHowGirlsWork or similar subreddits to fish for users.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:13 AM
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I don't understand how this proves yer point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:10 AM
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I take all the pills and try to OD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:04 AM
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What's your thought on this article?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:01 AM
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The Wall is a myth, but BPD is real
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:57 AM
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What if I lost count
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:53 AM
2

Do you want to get married, buy a Subaru, and rescue some animals together?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:41 AM
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I'm a woman of roughly the same age! What do you consider your lower limit for men, and do you have separate minimum ages for dating/fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:31 AM
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My Immortal by XXXbloodyrists666XXX
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:26 AM
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"Easier" in that they get more dates, sure. It's not "easier" when those dates are harassing you via text, creeping on you, or getting violent with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:15 AM
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Men respect other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:14 AM
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You could say the same of heterosexual relationships, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:32 AM
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"Because two adults can be partners in life, but a child can't. Partners support each other, but kids can't support even themselves until adulthood. " Love is more than sexuality. It's partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:00 AM
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The Rock is my dad's age, but I still find him... appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:50 PM
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> " it would naturally raise more questions by kids that really can't be explained " What kind of questions are you talking about, here? "How can two people be in love without the goal of making children?" Nobody is here with the goal of making LGBT people feel special. The goal is to have them be accepted and not discriminated against. The number of people on the right who view loving another human of the same sex as a sin, and view people as less than human because of it, is worth addressing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:47 PM
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That's all fair! I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:01 PM
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Yeah, that's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:30 PM
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Women know that men hate initiating dates and paying them. It's a filter for confidence/security and generosity. I'm not saying it's the right way to do things, but it's a complement to what men traditionally expect of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:30 PM
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Got it, it sounded like you were just complaining, because you only talked about the male POV in double standards. Hope I clarified what it looks like for women!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:12 PM
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I like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:11 PM
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If you're a guy, you are expected to pressure a woman sexually, but not if you're a woman If you're a guy, you are expected to be volatile and dangerous when rejected, but not if you're a woman You may as well pay me for taking the risk, make it worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:09 PM
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As long as they're well taken care of and running smoothly, I'll take what I can get. Of course, cars are objects and not people, but that's up for debate in the RP community.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:06 PM
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You may not like it, but this is what peak performance looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:04 PM
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I'd suggest you meet other people who have worked through their trauma, and ask how they handled it, or where they found their partners. I'm not here to tell you how to live your life, or what you need. I just think it's ridiculous that virginity is put on such a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:34 PM
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What are democratic socialists?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:32 PM
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That's definitely not the general attitude. It's more like, hey, men are hurting us, could we stop pretending that's normal and cool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:31 PM
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Orientation can be explained without sexualization, though? A romance novel with two men would get burned off the shelves, but nobody cares when it's straight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:30 PM
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Not everyone here is wealthy though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:29 PM
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Dark, I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:15 AM
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How about this, on behalf of equality, I hereby disavow misandrists who call for the undeserved persecution of men. There are still ways in which women struggle, they're just different struggles from the one you experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:14 AM
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You missed the "etc". Those were just examples. The lists tend to go on about body measurements, age, coloring, and probably a bunch of other things like that. It sounds like eugenics and makes women feel like objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:11 AM
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I've actually never heard of the 19th century version. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:07 AM
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That is so gross
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:06 AM
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How is that different from how women feel about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:05 AM
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Nahhhhh girls never wanna fuck, that's why incels can't get laid. It couldn't possibly be them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:07 AM
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Considering I live here and know a shitload of impoverished leftists, I'm gonna go ahead and call your bullshit on this one. Yeah, virtue signaling people exist, but you're making a huge generalization about all of California based on that... are you trolling me right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:46 AM
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I'm a socialist living in the SF Bay Area, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:14 AM
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Part of the female fantasy is that the "caring male attention" is freely given because we're jUsT tHaT sPeCiAL. What's the female equivalent of a rape fantasy? Gold digging? Fuck outta here with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:07 AM
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YESSSSS BELL GO DING DING
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:06 AM
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I still think that's a much rarer occurrence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:05 AM
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#notallwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:03 AM
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In my experience, men who want virgins tend to insist that they dress feminine, are submissive, don't have male friends, don't take up "manly" hobbies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:02 AM
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I think we're having some issues communicating, because I don't think that there's any problem with two consenting adults doing their business. I only say that drinking/smoking doesn't affect others, in that it doesn't *directly*. It can, of course, lead to the other behaviors and consequences that you described. Violence affects someone directly(pain), and promiscuity can affect someone directly(pleasure). I'm a firm believer in healthy masculinity as a desirable trait. To me, healthy masculini…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:01 AM
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How does any of that prioritize a woman's desire over a man's? In the current situation, women and men are both equally free to pursue their desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:55 AM
2

... why tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:11 AM
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Hang out outside a therapist's office
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:10 AM
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> "Humans aren't entitled to food, water, shelter, or dignity" > "The government should issue me a girlfriend"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:07 AM
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I'm not equating a desire for a virgin with pedophilia, but it isn't healthy to seek that quality above all other dimensions of compatibility. It's fair to desire a virgin woman, but too many men get *angry* when they don't get what they want. If you can't find a virgin, that's no reason to demonize women with high body counts. Yes, sexual promiscuity lowers the odds of you getting what you want ... but that's a You Problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:59 AM
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So you're allowed to demonize an entire demographic because of the actions of a small portion?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:56 AM
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His name is Colonel Sanders, and he's TEN TIMES THE LOVER YOU ARE, ANDREW. I can't get you to be tender for five fuckin' minutes, and Sir is here giving me a 12 piece bucket of tenderness. Argue with me all you want, I'll double down. My honey sauce treats me right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:55 AM
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Divide your age by two, add seven. That's your lower limit for dating. It's basic math.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:50 AM
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das
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:49 AM
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Hey, not all women/leftists say all men are trash
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:49 AM
2

Of course that happens. My experience in the US is clearly different. Women and men both are shamed for excess intoxication, in my experience. I would add that while it's a bad habit, it's not something that affects others in the same way as sex or violence. I suppose "high violence" in men would be the equivalent of "high libido" in women, but the same men who shame women for high n-counts also make a point of defending violent behaviors in men as necessary part of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:47 AM
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It's a problem in that it creates an unrealistic expectation. That expectation leads to destructive behaviors. Some men want virgins, especially if they're virgins themselves. As they age, virgins become less common. So when a 30 year old man is trying to fuck only virgins, that trends towards fucking much younger women. 30 year olds trying to fuck 16 year olds is a problem. There are lots of ways to feel special to someone. In my opinion, emotional attachment is the most rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:40 AM
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"Nobody deserves basic compassion/respect/empathy", seems like an asshole thing to say. CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:30 AM
4

Oh, so you're just an asshole to everyone. That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:27 AM
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The point is, you can be jacked as fuck/famous for fighting and still be cool to women. Masculinity isn't a synonym for misogyny. Wrestling might be fake, but they're still exchanging some pretty serious blows and making a living by destroying their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:27 AM
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Similarly, men with dicks shorter than eight inches should be sent to the manual labor camps, and their pronouns should be "prole/peasant"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:18 AM
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In your paradigm, is there a male equivalent of a high body count woman? Is there some vice, that men have freely available, where partaking would devalue them in corresponding way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:12 AM
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Me personally? Nobody, really. As a member of a political party, though, I think it's fair to demand basic respect as a condition of participation in society. It's worth clarifying that when I say "respect", I don't mean "treat as an authority", I mean "treat as if they also have feelings and are deserving of empathy". I think that should be the default. "Demand" isn't a dirty word, even though it has come to possess a connotation of entitlement. To quote M-W, second definition: "to call for urg…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:59 AM
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I think the difference is that one must be given, the other can be taken by force.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:08 AM
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There's nothing wrong with wanting to feel special to someone. The problem is when the only way you can feel special is the exclusion of all others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:51 AM
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If you define "demonize" as "demand basic respect/decency from", then yeah, I sure do prefer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:42 AM
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Ears are too round, 2/10
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:34 AM
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In my experience, it's more like, "a conservative chad will hide his true political orientation in the interest of getting laid".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:27 AM
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It's funny. Women gravitate to the left because Christofascists are currently running the right-wing and trying to turn the USA into Gilead. Men gravitate to the right because they don't like feeling like The Bad Guy and also guns. Yeah, woke bullshit can be cringe, but I'll take cringe over the literal demonization of alternative sexual orientations and gender identities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:26 AM
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I don't think muscles are unappreciated. It sounds like she just wasn't into you. There might be other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:19 AM
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You'd be prettier if you smiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:17 AM
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Sometimes I feel like a scapegoat. Everybody wants to avoid trauma, but I think it's valuable to be someone who was aware of their trauma and found ways to work through it. The RP community seems like they don't give a shit about women growing as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:15 AM
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I'm reading this as: > Women feel entitled to caring male attention. This seems hypocritical because men feel entitled to sex, and women shame them for that. Am I interpreting this correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:08 AM
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As a recovering hoe myself, I can sympathize. I still think that a lot of my hoe-ing was due to existing trauma, not the cause of it. I don't think that matters to the RPers, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:05 AM
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New movement got me like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:01 AM
3

What's an "N-Count?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:58 PM
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They want to be King of the Empty Castle. They're insecure, and want to be The Best She's Ever Had. The less she's had, the easier that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:56 PM
1

What if I stopped counting at around my father's age at my conception?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:55 PM
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Don't worry, I have ADHD and will forget about this in approximately 17 minutes, provided the little orange bell doesn't give me more dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:54 PM
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It feels a little like a billionaire complaining about taxes, but a man in the desert will never understand the suffering of a drowning woman. I've been The Ugly Kid, but I became more attractive as I got older. Sure, I might get some fancy shit from lonely rich guys, and people are more inclined to like me for no reason. Don't get me wrong, that's great. I'm also a lot more likely to get raped/abused, be treated like an object, deal with resentment from other women, have guys pretend to be "fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:51 PM
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"Good luck." I don't care if that's what you want, just don't get misogynistic when your Madonna-Whore Complex and your laundry list of waifu requirements leaves you alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:33 PM
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