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That's a definite fun situation to start busting balls, "no way you can definitely lift that on your own" then when she goes "no I really can't", "well you have to try, if it falls on you I might help you up"
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:54 PM
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Yeah the article says that about not doing some of the things just to meet girls, but they come along sometimes when you're doing these things organically. I'm guessing that's how it happens at the gym, a girl can ask a question randomly
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:40 PM
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I've seen a few girls who have met boyfriends at the gym though, two fitness enthusiasts seem to be drawn to each other, so I'd think in that case it could be safe
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:25 PM
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I assume that's a typical no-no, but I was wondering if guys had tried before
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:10 PM
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The advice here is good, but as a "what not to do" make sure you don't do anything too over the top to grab attention, it comes off as tryhard and sometimes guys act silly to get attention when they can get the same amount of attention in an understated way
/r/seduction02/06/14 03:40 AM
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A festival might be a little too fast paced for traditional escalation, it might just be better to get dancing with a girl and escalate to a hook up that way
/r/seduction25/05/14 09:03 AM
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The sidebar should include website links so people starting out can find advice easier, here are some of the sites I've seen posted on here and trp: www.doctornerdlove.com www.thedatingcaptain.com www.thedatingspecialist.com www.theartofmanliness.com Hopefully the articles can help you out with self-improvement and confidence building
/r/seduction24/05/14 12:53 AM
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I also consider apps like Tinder as "online dating" and it's neither time consuming or containing more unattractive girls than attractive ones. Actually from my experience it's quite the opposite
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 04:50 AM
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Pre-selection is an extremely easy switch to flip. Especially with online dating becoming so popular you can just add women to FB where you have tons of pictures with women and right away she'll feel attraction without much work. Awesome find
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 12:59 AM
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They're probably not acting uninterested, they're actually uninterested, which is fine because you're not trying to get interest from them. They're just a part of a grouyou're using to meet a woman. I've been with girls when guys come over, I'm not overly friendly nor do I have to be, I don't know them and they should be able to handle the situation themselves without me being a wing to a random guy who's flirting with my friends. The best thing to do is realize they're just in the same space as…
/r/seduction22/05/14 08:05 PM
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Why are there so many comments on here about looks? She was clearly attracted to his confidence and didn't mention once how he looked..Also the fact he walked away seems more like a pua thing than a confident guy thing
/r/seduction22/05/14 07:00 PM
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I was friends with a guy in college who was around 5 foot and he had absolutely no problem getting women, we actually got along for that reason. I'm 5'10 and he was about a foot shorter but we had equal success with girls. The guy oozed confidence and acted like he was the biggest guy in the world. I was also in a class with some guys who I hung out with on campus and the shortest one in the group was arguably the most confident. I haven't seen anything to believe height or weight plays a part i…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:43 AM
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Sounds like a good start for a first night out, the next time you see a girl looking bored on her phone you can do a sideways opener making a joke about it/teasing her. Also if you do the line about permission make sure you take her hand if she agrees to come with you and is open to talking. Escalation right away
/r/seduction22/05/14 07:08 AM
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It would depend on the conditions of the prenup, men with a lot of assets have pre-set payment for children in the future, a man with the same assets who has a kid with a woman who might not have a lot of cash can really own the guy saying she can't provide. That's why I wanted to post, if anyone has kids I think it's more beneficial to be married and have a prenup than risk anything with no paperwork. No paperwork means an instant loss
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 04:52 AM
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A regular divorce without a prenup would be more expensive than a child out of wedlock, whether there is children or not, obviously with children a regular divorce would be even more expensive than a divorce without children involved. A divorce with a prenup though, depending on the verbiage, could result in very little for the woman, maybe even nothing. Since terms on children can also be agreed upon it will also generally be a reasonable amount or, again, nothing. If a child is had out of wedl…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 04:27 AM
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Not true, if you have a child out of wedlock with no prior paperwork the woman can take a lot more and demand everything "for a child" that she's going to use herself. From a legal perspective a marriage with a prenup with all of these conditions outlined is a safer bet for protecting assets. I know you were probably joking around, but in case someone stumbles on this down the road it's better they know a prenup is always better than just having a kid. Unless someone decides to not get married a…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 03:31 AM
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You know what makes someone alpha? If you want a tat you get one, if you don't, you don't get one. At no point in the decision making process do women factor into the decision of something a man is deciding to do for himself
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 03:06 AM
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Some of these posts are ridiculous..So "social proof" is all of a sudden a "step by step" theory? Value is step by step? His "Ghost and Flame" discussion is step by step? There was a lot more info than specific transitions, there was a lot of confidence building and male/female dynamic information as well, shiny and new doesn't necessarily mean better
/r/seduction20/05/14 07:51 PM
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Staying in frame and not being pushed out of it despite her attempts, well done, that's the best way to deal with any woman but especially when it's an ex who's used to knocking out of your frame
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 06:34 PM
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I love the part about "not being able to be rational"..So are they saying they have no control over themselves when it comes to women? Ouch, that's rough
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 12:03 AM
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This, just don't participate in this. If a woman brings up this double date thing you can make it clear you want an individual thing and if she's still not cool with it tell her to have a nice evening and maybe leave your number for when she can go on her own
/r/seduction18/05/14 11:21 PM
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I don't buy this completely, men with hot GFs will obviously be attracted to other women but that doesn't mean he'll lose interest in his gf sexually
/r/seduction18/05/14 11:17 PM
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A friend-enemy "frenemy"..Someone who disguises themselves as a friend but is really an enemy. Pretty much someone who claims to be a friend but does things a friend wouldn't do. To apply that to men it'd be like having a wing you consider a friend but he consistently DLV's you when you're out and claims he's "joking" when actually he's getting off messing with you. Think of it as a friend who really doesn't have your best interests. When I applied the term here it meant how big feminist girls a…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 08:52 PM
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I think Tyler Durden is one of the most popular PUA youtubers and I personally find him to be one of, if not the most, educational
/r/askTRP18/05/14 07:46 PM
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For fun I'd like to start one for thin acceptance, I bet it would get media coverage from outraged feminists
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 07:45 PM
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Every hot girl has a big friend and the big friend is always a loud mouth that tries to get involved with any and all relationships of her thin good looking friends, I've experienced this personally and seen this happen at least 100 times. Maybe if they went to the gym they wouldn't need to hate on attractive friends. By nature I assume all big girls are frenemies to whoever they're friends with
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 07:43 PM
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That's the other thing to take from this, if you're getting too clingy, ask for a casual hangout, then once you're out you can change that friendship mindset by letting things escalate like it didn't before. Great way to learn from mistakes
/r/seduction18/05/14 04:04 PM
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This is a good lesson for all guys starting out or guys even in the friendzone, there is always a way to fix things..Some may be harder than others and involve different methods, but overall there are ways to fix mistakes if you really want to
/r/seduction18/05/14 03:51 PM
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I enjoy watching "dating shows" and the dynamics between men/women, unfortunately this one seems to focus more on breaking men down than improving them
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 08:48 AM
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