I'll just agree and disagree. Politicians are not your friend, I don't care if I get a "crumb" from either side. Trash talk the Republicans all you want but I'll never act like the democratic party has my interests in mind. They're all in this together.
Can you elaborate just a bit more? In regards to meeting someone else within the county wondering in what light they see me, or explaining what happened to a new relationship?
My ex has everyone in the county believing that I'm a terrible person and the sole cause of our divorce. Sometimes you just have to roll with the punches and accept that you can't change things as long as you know in your own heart that you're in the right (and of course in the court of law).