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LifestyleOGWarlock/r/seduction03/08/21 04:47 AM
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ConversationOGWarlock/r/seduction12/06/21 04:38 AM
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I know dude the ladies can't stand it
/r/seduction28/10/21 07:17 PM
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Hi
/r/seduction28/10/21 07:05 PM
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Yeah they do, but not only in a sexual way. Showing desire includes things like how you look at her when she's talking, expressing interest in what she's saying, etc.
/r/seduction25/08/21 12:55 AM
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Depends on who she is as a person honestly
/r/seduction09/08/21 08:32 PM
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Honestly, from your comment that's what it sounds like. As much as you want to attract women, first and foremost you should just be enjoying being around others and meeting interesting people. That means just being yourself, and some people will like it but others won't. That's perfectly okay and it happens to all of us. I used to be so worried about everyone liking me, but that made me a pushover and lack boundaries. Now that I'm more self-assured, sure, some people I come across will find a re…
/r/seduction03/08/21 06:26 AM
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Honestly, a lot of it for me has been social circle game and just having an interesting personality on social media, so women want to chat with me. I've had some success in online dating but not as much as the other two, and even though I hang out at bars and clubs honestly I'm still a little shy to just pull off direct approaches anywhere. I'm working on that by starting random convos and I'll occasionally approach when I'm out partying, but I haven't been able to master those aspects of game y…
/r/seduction03/08/21 06:17 AM
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Lol honestly, I'd say as much as I consider myself successful with women compared to in the past, I'm still very much an amateur when it comes to this. Women definitely notice my newfound confidence but there's a difference between getting female attention and actually being successful. A lot of this is a numbers game and since a lot of women like my personality, I've been able to pull a few but my rational of interest to closing is like 10 to 1 or even less. The secret is it's not about success…
/r/seduction03/08/21 06:08 AM
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Work on your inner game dude. I'll be honest I'm not the hottest guy. I'm short, a little chubby, and missing a tooth, but I dress well, take care of myself, and have interests that I can share with people when we're getting to know each other. I also have a very sweet personality but can turn on the teasy flirtiness when I have to (this part took practice). It's mostly about the emotions and making a woman feel good when she's around you. That's a skill that can be practiced, but it first requi…
/r/seduction03/08/21 05:18 AM
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Yeah I guess I knew that was the answer all along haha. It's just a bit of a harsh one for me right now because as much as I enjoy dates I'm mainly looking for sex, and the two women who I've been spending time with are both guarantees, we just can't meet up often because they're far. To date someone new I'll have to build back up from scratch, and I kinda don't want to go through that process if I already have two fwbs, but the logistics make it difficult to actually meet up. Since they're only…
/r/seduction03/08/21 05:12 AM
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Most people who cold approach are actually looking to connect with others from what I've seen. Even a short conversation can really brighten someone's day, or you can meet someone interesting or learn something new. Obviously don't walk up on an angry-looking woman wearing headphones and try to game her, but if a guy has to face a few rejections before he learns this that's cool too. Nobody's being hurt by going up to a woman and asking a simple question or something.
/r/seduction26/07/21 06:02 AM
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Yeah, not that being genuine is enough, but I definitely feel like it's an important part of the attraction building process, especially if you're looking for something more than a lay after clubbing or something. In situations like that, it's not really necessary but in many cases it can still give you an advantage over the others who change their personality to impress women. I agree that sometimes you have to play around with which parts of yourself you express to the person you're trying to …
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:50 PM
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Honestly, I've been considered "attractive" for most of my life. Then I gained value with a better education, good jobs, and exciting interests, but it wasn't until I really started being genuine that I started having success with women not just based on luck like in the past. Not to say that it's the only thing that matters, but even for attractive women, being genuine is necessary because anything else is just performative, done with the explicit intention of trying to secure her, and in this …
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:07 PM
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Ehh I think the commonly used way of using "alpha" leans more toward toxic masculinity than healthy, natural masculinity. The first is undoubtedly fully conditioned, the second is natural due to our predisposed tendencies, which do get influenced by our surroundings, but as we get older I feel we settle into our real selves and can strike a balance. At least those of us that are aware enough of societal conditioning to be able to overcome it. Idk, I usually see alpha attached to arrogance instea…
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:55 PM
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Ok, but masculine and feminine energies exist in each of us at different levels. In many ways I'm very masculine, but as an artist and emotional person I am very in touch with my feminine energy. Again, I'm not an "alpha" by any means other than my confidence and my dgaf attitude (at least from what I can think of on the spot right now). But then women I attract love this part of me, because a lot of men are insecure and stifle that feminine energy. Because we each exhibit aspects of both, no, a…
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:30 PM
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The only thing you can do is work on your confidence and mental state. Until that is at a healthy point, it will show in every interaction you have with others. Literally once that is in check, the rest of the things flow so easily. Besides, at the end of the day that's all that really matters anyway. Not a good job, being fit, looking good, but how you feel about yourself and whether you love yourself. This is the only path to hapiness and feeling good about life. The women will come, don't get…
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:23 PM
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I never said no girls want to, just not the ones I actually get involved with, because I'm not looking for anything serious so I obviously screen for that. Some still have caught feelings, but I tell them right away that I'm not looking for anything serious right now and we either reframe our relationship or drift apart which I'm ok with. I actually had to do this to a woman last week or so. I've only made out with her and grabbed her butt but now we're just friends and we're both ok with that. …
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:18 PM
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I'm a sensitive man who is also a feminist, and women love it. If you're not a feminist it kinda suggests you don't respect women and their autonomy. Also, "alpha" and "beta" aren't some strict categories they're more like suggestors. I'm not a typical "alpha" by any means but neither am I "beta". And I still am successful with women I go on plenty of dates, have two or three women who I have casual sexual relationships with currently, and none of them have tried to change or "leash" me. You're …
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:02 PM
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Not quite a leadership position but yesterday my boss was telling me how there's a need for people in another role at our company that pays much more and is better, but is not in any way related to what I've been doing there. He emphasized they needed an answer right away, and at first I was reluctant, but I did work a similar job to that one for 5 years. Before I would have no internalized that into my overall confidence but once I remembered my skills that hesitation completely went away and I…
/r/seduction12/07/21 05:37 PM
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Cut off contact for a while so the disaster isn't so fresh in you guys'minds. Check in a few weeks from now with a quick text, but have a reason. Can be something like telling her a story of somethings you saw that reminds you of her, or just something witty/funny to make her laugh, and then follow up asking her to hang out again, ideally use the word "date" so your intentions are explicit. If at this point she still rejects you, that ship has sailed and you'll know for sure that she just isn't …
/r/seduction12/07/21 04:10 PM
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Yeah I agree, but all I'm basically saying is for men to do this effectively we need to get out of our heads and focus on the moment. By "natural" I mean we shouldn't be working off of a script or routine, just using the concept of escalating touch to guide our actions during the date, and if done right the specifics of how we do so will change according to our chemistry with each person. Of course this still means having some personal go-tos that work for you, like how I touch their shoulders w…
/r/seduction01/07/21 12:48 AM
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I think dressing well can kinda balance out the good looks point. I'm not the most attractive facially, probably a bit above average only, but I care a lot about my outfits, haircut, and body, and this has helped me out a lot too on social media.
/r/seduction30/06/21 09:29 PM
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This is a good one. Obviously every situation is different but I'm gonna keep it in my back pocket for the future
/r/seduction30/06/21 09:17 PM
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I think he meant more like forcing touch to happen as opposed to it happening naturally. You shouldn't be stressing in your head for several minutes thinking "maybe I should grab her hand..." because even if you eventually do it it'll come off as a "move" and not a genuine simple hand-grab.
/r/seduction30/06/21 09:16 PM
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Idk why people downvoted you. I mean I'm a guy so obviously my view is skewed but it seems like, as you said, it was the intention behind the touch that made it awkward or attractive. I usually start by like touching her shoulder as I double over and laugh at something she said or did (only if we're having good chemistry of course), which is still nerve-wracking for me, but I like that it's physical without necessarily being intimate. As things progress maybe I'll guide her across a busy street …
/r/seduction30/06/21 09:13 PM
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You are though, because you're caring what they think of you a lot to the point where it affects your mental state. That's why you freeze up and go back into "niceness", because it's harmless and it seems like it'd make people like you. But really it comes off as kinda retreating into a shell and being uncomfortable being your true self. It may take a while, but get out there and meet tons of people. After a while, first, your social mental muscles will be stronger and you'll be less afraid of o…
/r/seduction30/06/21 08:55 PM
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Cycling, literature, history, and just being a foodie out here in one of the great food cities, NYC. I only connected with a few girls over books and met one or two through the bike community, but I haven't been able to pull from these social circles much yet. Most of my success comes from women outside of them. I guess it makes me interesting, since I can tell them about things they may not know too much about. I also like to go dancing to latin music like salsa and merengue, which is where I'v…
/r/seduction30/06/21 08:48 PM
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Because then you look too much like the "player" type. It depends what you're looking for from dating but what I've noticed is that most of my success comes when women see me as a guy who has an active dating life and is desired by other women, but they can see that I'm filtering out some and mostly just going for the ones there's at least some connection with. In many cases a woman will want to feel special, like you're pursuing her for a reason. Someone who just goes for whoever will give them…
/r/seduction30/06/21 08:31 PM
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Which is very true I don't think sex always has to be the end goal of dates and interactions, it's nice to just spend time with a woman you vibe with. As long as you guys have an understanding as to what this hanging out means it should go smoothly, and she sounds like the type to be cool about a tasfeful nude hanging up in your apartment too
/r/seduction30/06/21 11:33 AM
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If anything it could be an excuse for you guys to get physical before the opportunity is gone forever. Obviously don't force yourself on her, but keep an eye out for those iois that are telling you whether to escalate or not
/r/seduction30/06/21 11:11 AM
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You're thinking just in terms of looks. I don't even like the concept of a rating system because there's been "average" girls that I personally think are insanely cute, and "hot" girls that are just boring to me. You could also just be interested in meeting her, getting to know her, or getting better at approaching women in general, you don't have to just think of the end goal of sex or dates just to approach and have a nice conversation.
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:26 PM
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For number 3. I don't think it's about dressing in a certain specific style necessarily, more like just be stylish in general and taken effort with your outfits. I'm a basic colored tee, nice jeans, and nice sneakers guy who'll occasionally wear a hat or bandana. It's always worked for me. Of course if you're more specific like goth or an old-school thrasher or public you're limiting your options in some scenarios, but the confidence with which you rock your look, and some effort with making it …
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:17 PM
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I like to build a little rapport sometimes first, commenting on each other's posts and keeping it fun and flirty before one of them gives me an excuse to start the convo. But it all depends, because I genuinely add people just to like share memes and comment on them. Sometimes I'll send the message right away if I think it'll work. Polarizing like this is pretty effective though, like you said I've found hella women who are interested in me just by being more upfront with how I expect our intera…
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:13 PM
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I do to an extent but I feel like it's more of a social proof kinda thing than just based on looks. Good-looking people are expected to find a partner with certain qualities, and so they expect a partner to fit this potential threshold for looks, income, etc.
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:05 PM
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Being a feminist is a bad thing? Since when?
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:13 PM
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I don't mind. I was gonna tell her the truth anyway, that in my life right now I don't have the time or desire to devote myself to a single partner, but because of our communication she kinda already knew. I think it worked out fine actually, I didn't act in any way I wouldn't have normally and we reached a mutual understanding
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:50 AM
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This literally just happened to me recently, except it was more because she started to catch some feelings and knew I wasn't looking for a relationship, but I guess she wanted me to chase a little bit. I'm genuinely busier and less available now, but I could see how that change affected things between us, and now we're pretty good friends that go on dates sometimes. I'm ok with this for now.
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:44 AM
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Worked with a dude from Cali, Colombia. He told me he knew a guy who got caught up with a girl at a club and the cartel left him clothesless in a hotel room with no posessions and a video they could use to extort his family (he had a wife and kids). I'm still sure these are the minority of incidents but you can never bee too careful. I know it happens out here in the States too
/r/seduction19/06/21 07:06 PM
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I agree I've seen both styles work and fail in clubs. I mean I'm just starting to feel out the scene as well but as long as you at least made eye contact with her first and see that she's willing to dance, just grab her and start dancing. Don't do it from behind like creeping on her though that's sexual assault. I usually go for the second, and it's worked only like 2/10 times and only for a quick dance, so I'm trying to be more bold. Last night I literally just asked a girl to dance but she fel…
/r/seduction19/06/21 06:54 PM
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Start by learning to love and appreciate yourself bud. Then men and women will want to be around you more
/r/seduction14/06/21 11:18 PM
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Not nearly as many people as last time, and most already came in pairs so there wasn't that much of an opportunity to socialize. I still should've forced myself honestly, but I had a good time just vibing out to the music which is mostly why I go to these things anyway. I really wanted to chat with the bartender since there was so many couples and she was really nice, but I didn't do that either lol. There's a block party in my neighborhood today that brings tons of people, last week I actually …
/r/seduction13/06/21 05:43 PM
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That's exactly why I want to focus on my state more than anything. If I get in there and start chatting I won't give myself time to get inside my own head and start having those doubts. Even if I'm not the most confident, like you said, the authenticity is what's important, but if I never open up they won't see that. Thanks dude, the body language tip is something I was planning on paying attention to tomorrow too, good to hear someone reiterate its importance.
/r/seduction12/06/21 05:19 AM
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Those men made it harder for us, that's why with cold approaching you can't just be another guy trying to get in her pants, thinking of her as some one-dimensional sex object. Instead you have to show her that you're genuinely interested in her as a human and want to learn more about her. Those women might not even know it, but if they got approached in a genuine way I'm sure they'd appreciate it.
/r/seduction10/06/21 06:57 PM
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Honestly? Tell her and see if she feels the same way. If not, you're probably gonna have to pull away from her because there's no way you can be "just friends" with someone you have feelings for, it'll come back to bite you in the ass and you'll only end up more hurt. In that case it's better to pursue other options, and then when you feel more secure and don't feel like you're seeking her approval anymore maybe you guys can build a friendship again.
/r/seduction10/06/21 06:54 PM
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Ok?
/r/seduction08/06/21 02:24 AM
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Which is why you don't necessarily make that leap to trying to hook up right away. Just hang out, but don't pretend that you're not attracted to her at all, that's hiding your intentions and women can tell. You'll never get anywhere like that anyway. Grown, mature people are flirty all the time for fun. It doesn't mean we're trying to smash everyone we flirt with.
/r/seduction08/06/21 02:21 AM
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Don't be creepy, but find a reason to touch her somewhere "safe", away from the more vulnerable, private parts of our bodies. Something like grabbing her hand to look at something, or brushing something off of her shoulder. This'll help you gauge her receptiveness to touch, and if it works well you can escalate from there
/r/seduction08/06/21 02:16 AM
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Sounds like depression
/r/seduction04/06/21 03:54 PM
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Depends on the kind of game you're kicking. Your post just made me realize how much more successful I am if I hit it off with the woman's friend group at a club or events, but for certain types of day game where you're actually trying to get to know a stranger, having other people there can be a distraction or embarassing for her
/r/seduction11/03/21 04:09 PM
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As much as she was being an asshole, I too think it was a weird shit-test where she was basically saying that even though she doesn't usually go for guys like you you impressed her, and she wanted to see how you handled her bitchiness. Yeah those are signs of her being toxic but you could have probably closed too if you were looking for sex and not a real connection. Honestly, I probably would've done the same as OP. I've turned down a few attractive women who were throwing it at me because I di…
/r/seduction21/02/21 07:13 PM
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It seems like you either had bigger expectations of other people than your interactions have given you, or you were already actually pretty good at interacting just scared to approach. Maybe a bit of both. I interact with strangers daily, since I do deliveries. Usually it's just a "hey how's it going?" But sometimes it evolves into a quick convo about things going on. These kinds of interactions actually really make me feel good because they're natural, and since we both know already it's gonna …
/r/seduction21/02/21 07:01 PM
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You can choose to or not, it doesn't affect me either way. Better for you if you did though because it shows that anyone can do it as long as you are your true self and not what you think people want. I actually had an accident last month and have a scar on my lip now too that makes it look crooked good thing we wear masks haha. But where did I? Maybe a bit but it's because people are trying to help you and offer advice and all you do is try and disprove them with your biased ass thoughts instea…
/r/seduction08/12/20 05:23 PM
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Where? You just FEEL that way because you don't want to see otherwise because it'll break your reality. You don't know me, but I said a while ago that I'm a short guy. If you wana know more I have a missing front tooth, dandruff, and haven't had a haircut in months. I'm also skinny and not in the athletic way. But despite all of this, and because I own it, other people are interested in me as a person. Men AND women.
/r/seduction08/12/20 05:00 PM
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LMAOOOOOO dude I'm the farthest thing from an alpha do you even read this sub? I'm a soft, shy motherfucker who reads poetry and talk about how deep the last book I read was and how it made me cry. But the thing is that's actually the real me, and that's why women like it. I was trying to help you brother I'm sympathetic to the way you feel, but you reject my attempts at every turn. So fuck off.
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:57 PM
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So close but you missed the mark again. BOOST, when you want to feel and look EXTRA good. For normal people looking good and feeling good go hand in hand, maybe you should try it out. But I'm done. Peace.
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:55 PM
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I don't care about those shortcomings anymore lol I'm a human being who has progressed in life to where those things don't matter anymore what is there to project? I'm just trying to tell you that you're not the only person who has trouble connecting with people, but it's something you can get out of. If you weren't such a fucking pussy to make every excuse to stay in your protective shell of sadness maybe you'd actually give yourself a chance to be happy. Instead you want to do all these mental…
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:53 PM
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Now if YOU care that much about looks that you don't want to associate with "ugly" people that's on you. But one of the nicest people I've met who I feel most open around is a homeless guy in my area with shitty face tattoos and nasty ass dreadlocked hair. Does he look nice? No, but behind that shell there's a human with substance. Stop focusing on outer features and maybe you'll start getting along with other humans instead of having shallow connections. Seems like even with your "friends" it's…
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:47 PM
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Because people like to FEEL good, and it shows you care about yourself. When we feel good about our own looks we hold our heads high and people can tell. You say you know some women but clearly you don't because again, if you were to ask any woman, they don't wear makeup for men they wear it for themselves. I mean advertising has a role but that's a whole paper discussion, even advertising for makeup doesn't take the "wear this to attract men" angle.
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:44 PM
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Then it sounds like you're asking shallow women and should instead look elsewhere. Most people men and women don't care about looks so much, we care about how we connect with other people.
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:36 PM
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Even flaws are subjective....
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:35 PM
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You just proved my point, being that most guys are so preoccupied with the physical aspects of sex and attraction that they neglect the things a woman actually likes... And tbh they probably said something else and this is what you got out of it due to your negative self-image. Most women at least try and be nice even when rejecting somebody, as humans we instinctually try to keep some semblance of politeness. Another reason I don't believe a woman said exactly that phrase to you is because, aga…
/r/seduction08/12/20 04:12 PM
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"Objective" doesn't exist when it comes to humans. We're not math problems we're complex creatures with emotions and capable of creative thinking. Also, if anyone in your life talks down to themself maybe it's time to find new friends. We already get told we're not enough by TV, movies, ads, and other media, we don't need to be doing it to ourselves. When I was at my lowest and unhappy and had no real meaningful connection with other people is when I had my most negative self-speak about how nob…
/r/seduction08/12/20 02:45 PM
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Brother I had no friends throughout my pre-teen and teen years because I smelled bad and was awkwardly quiet. I'm still quiet but I'm not ashamed of it anymore and to women it makes me seem interesting like I have a lot on my mind. The ugliest people have sex too, so I don't see how you claim so adamantly that it's your looks. Again, I've had actual ugly friends that have good personalities and they get more attention than me. I keep saying "ask women" but you just tell me stories of the past. Y…
/r/seduction08/12/20 02:19 PM
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No, they don't
/r/seduction08/12/20 02:11 PM
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Never said I'm ugly, but I'm not "hot" either. I'm painfully average, but being short definitely has an additional effect. I'm not talking about marriage I'm talking about attractiveness. Related, yes, but different topics bud. You don't know that it'll be the case for each situation. Besides, sex for a woman is mostly about how you can make her feel, not how you look. It's very mental for them and that's why sometimes a woman can cum from something like sexy dirty-talk with just a tiny bit of t…
/r/seduction08/12/20 02:07 PM
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I'm flaming you because you're making excuses. Looks matter but to a woman they are lower on the list of attractive traits as it is for men, and less attractiveness can be overcome by being attractive in other areas. Have you ever talked to a woman? Ask them. Or you can just keep crying in your basement about how you don't get any. I'm short and not very traditionally attractive and I've never had a problem with women being attracted to me, because I'm interesting and lately more confident. But …
/r/seduction08/12/20 01:49 PM
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Plenty of short ugly guys get decent looking women though
/r/seduction08/12/20 01:31 PM
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Not everyone is as shallow as you. Plenty of physically disabled people have dating lives they're fulfilled by
/r/seduction08/12/20 12:41 AM
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Lmao dude I've known some ugly fuckers whose personalities have women falling all over them. Stop making excuses and being lazy and go work on yourself.
/r/seduction08/12/20 12:27 AM
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I used to feel like this. Then, after going to a few socially-distanced outdoor parties/DJ sets and meeting a few people, I learned that those are exactly the kinds of places people go to in order to meet other people, so the fear of showing up went away. Don't get me wrong, I'm still awkward and nervous around other people in social settings, especially attractive women, but at least I'm not scared to go out alone anymore. And those other things I'm making progress on as a result of that libera…
/r/seduction08/12/20 12:23 AM
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I've been thinking about taking this approach out in NYC where I just moved, and I'm sure people would be receptive because I've already met people by being honest (I was drunk though haha), but it's just a matter of getting the confidence to do it. I'm sure I'd make at least 1 or 2 friends, and I'm not as worried about how I'll come off to others by being myself anymore so rejection isn't quite as terrifying.
/r/seduction16/10/20 11:27 PM
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I think what they're saying is that if your results aren't getting better you aren't really "improving your skill" because if you were you'd be having better outcomes. At least getting more numbers, even if they don't agree to the date. From your tone it seems like your motivation is just to get women when really it should be to get to know someone interesting and THEN decide if she qualifies as someone you'd spend your time and money on to take on a date. If you're flirting with her as "random …
/r/seduction12/10/20 04:11 PM
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Cold approaching works if your intention is to meet and have conversations with interesting people, as opposed to just approaching women with the intent of bedding them. Women are very perceptive and they'll be able to tell the difference. Go into it with a mindset of having fun, being social and learning about someone new and even if you don't get numbers you will most likely meet your goal of having a good time. Having the intention of taking things further before you even know her is needy, a…
/r/seduction09/10/20 02:01 PM
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