| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 52 | One of the biggest lies sold to women is the importance of upholding the relationship at any costMeanwhile if he doesn’t act perfect I’ve already got one foot out the door… I’m too ready to leave lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Avoid chasing after low effort men and wasting your energy on a one-sided relationshipI’ve been hit harder by this in the last month than I have in a while. It’s lonely out here right now 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 04:15 AM |
| 4 | A picture is worth a thousand wordsYes there sure are! She’s great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:48 AM |
| 7 | Two kids, I’m guessing around almost 20 years together, and he’s *still* like this.My mom could have written this about my Dad and my 2 younger brothers. They all live in the same city still and whenever I talk to her she tells me stories about how they never pick up after themselves (they are 28 and 25), let their dogs shit in the backyard and don’t pick it up, let their dogs fight in the house, come over to just to eat a meal and take leftovers and not stay to socialize after dinner, etc. My mom did my middle brothers laundry, cooked all of his meals up, and paid some of his… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 03:18 AM |
| 8 | Combatting touch starvationYes my 2 cats fulfill my touch starvation too!! I wouldn’t be getting through this time without them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:10 AM |
| 9 | As women, we need to start decentering men and refocusing on ourselves and the other incredible women in our lives.I wish we could have FDS meetups! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:56 AM |
| 52 | Please stop dating in reverse.I met someone at my job and he’d been having trouble figuring out what to do for a first date so I suggested doing dinner. I was annoyed at that point that he couldn’t come up with a date idea. Then he asked me what I was craving and I said sushi. He says he’s actually a very picky eater and doesn’t eat sushi. Okay dude YOU PICK THE DATE. Obviously I never went out with him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:15 AM |
| 9 | 14-16 was when I got catcalled the mostYES. I remember my friends Dad used to hit on me when I was 16 and try to touch the small of my back and always comment on how beautiful I was... it was beyond creepy and my parents never took it seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Scrote vs KingWowww... definitely a self promo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:53 AM |
| 4 | Scrote vs KingI don’t think anyone here is under that illusion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:51 AM |
| 10 | Scrote vs KingYep absolutely agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:47 PM |
| 161 | Scrote vs KingI realize 2nd guy is really just saying what all men SHOULD do. Not necessarily a king but made for an easier title 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:18 AM |
| 25 | Queens of FDS, I think I may have a HVM on my hands!Sounds amazing but I wouldn’t call him HV until at least 3-4 months in! Men can fake it for a while. But I do hope he’s the real deal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:02 AM |
| 41 | Someone posted on NextDoor about a guy masturbating at a trail in broad daylight near where I live... this scrote comments to say women shouldn’t wear tight leggings and tops outsideI’m about to say that to him thank u | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:11 AM |
| 22 | Someone posted on NextDoor about a guy masturbating at a trail in broad daylight near where I live... this scrote comments to say women shouldn’t wear tight leggings and tops outsideLmao this is my fav comment thank you for blessing this post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:08 AM |
| 33 | Someone posted on NextDoor about a guy masturbating at a trail in broad daylight near where I live... this scrote comments to say women shouldn’t wear tight leggings and tops outsideYea i wish I could file a restraining order more easily 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:11 AM |
| 20 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!I’m so sorry, what a horrible experience. I had a guy the first time do the same ramming thing and not giving a fuck if I felt good- to the point where I asked him several times to stop because I was in pain and pretty sure I was bleeding. He actually had the audacity to say “just let me get my nut” to my face. At least he was honest?? These men are less than garbage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 07:17 PM |
| 22 | That is pathetic...manchildThis was posted before and determined to be satire... making fun of that big account that makes elaborate meals for her BF. Funny! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:46 PM |
| 47 | Reason 1 out of 30,000I, for one, am here for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:38 AM |
| 81 | Reason 1 out of 30,000Thanks for posting this, as someone who used hinge up until recently I recognized this prompt instantly. I forgot that all of you (smart) ladies who haven’t used it haven’t seen this 100s of times too 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:25 AM |
| 22 | Omg Sis, you are so lucky! 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 #blessedhunI feel guilty just imagining doing this. I could never | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:15 PM |
| 37 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women hereOkay Charlize go off!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Poor girl. This is disgusting.Yea, I was thinking dump just because she thinks it COULD be him. Nobody should be with a man they think is capable of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:26 PM |
| 16 | How is #KickHimOut2020 going?Left a toxic 2 month situationship (he was cheating and telling me we were exclusive) in August. I chose to ignore the red flags- never again. Found FDS right after and changed my mindset. Started a gut healing cleanse/elimination diet, herbal teas, no drinking, acupuncture, and working on my side business, and just deleted my dating apps 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:16 AM |
| 5 | Young queens that are new to the dating scene. Learn the rules of the game before you get taken advantage of!I made this mistake once a few years ago. It ended HORRIBLY. I blocked him and learned my damn lesson. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 13 | Ad for a pickme of his very own! Don’t worry 18+ only 🤢By the way ladies, one of the comments was “I’m a hedonist too!” 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:11 AM |
| 1 | “Babe you cooked! Can we still get Chipotle?”I was not aware! Thank you for letting me know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:48 PM |
| 10 | “Babe you cooked! Can we still get Chipotle?”Oh my gosh you are right! I didn’t even realize this! Edit: also just realized they first went viral in a tik tok with her yelling at him because she cooked him every meal and did everything for the baby that day and he told her she “could have been nicer” for a tik tok trend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:34 AM |
| 119 | Found this gem on Tinder. The entitlement is real.26?? He's aging like mayo left out in the desert | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:14 AM |
| 18 | Always start as you mean to continue when it comes to dating! Don’t let men lowball you.Not trying to be snarky at all just wondering.. do you think writing your ideal first date on your profile similar to the OP in that LVM will know how to masquerade as HVM with you? since they are being told what to do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 08:39 PM |
| 106 | Yes👏🏼👏🏼 Vibrators don’t have STIs either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:54 PM |
| 3 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾Thank you so much for this advice!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:43 AM |
| 12 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾Do you still OLD? I'm back and forth on whether I should use it since I haven't had much luck with it in recent years. But it's quite hard to meet people during this pandemic! I'm good at eliminating obviously bad profiles and early red flags, but what I find is the LVM that act like HVM for about 2 months and then something goes wrong (that's most men though right?). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:45 AM |
| 2 | When they start mansplaining.A guy misunderstood me the other day when I said I bought baby books for my friend who just had a baby. He told me "oh I was just telling my friend how those are very useful for people that don't have a lot of experience with kids" and I said what how? And he then sent me I kid you not PARAGRAPHS explaining to me why and how parenting books are helpful for parents. Ummmm I bought the books for the BABY to read someday... but thanks for teaching me what books are for?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:20 AM |
| 3 | I’m not even going to bother commenting on his appearance, but why do men think we want to see their junk cars??Agghhh! We need a Denver FDS meet up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 11 | I’m not even going to bother commenting on his appearance, but why do men think we want to see their junk cars??Side note trying to date in Denver has been an absolute shit show. There's an abundance of LVM who come here to snowboard and leave their relationships behind. Eye. Roll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:36 AM |
| 3 | I don’t care, I don’t care, ✨I don’t care✨🧏🏻♀️✨Needed to read this today! Was wondering if anyone else has been applying FDS mindset to friendships too. My friends have been flakey, using me to unload emotionally, unresponsive and all around shitty. Time to take a step back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:16 PM |
| 6 | Found this on instagram.. ladies, don’t let lvm bring you down. 💋Totally. I also tend to think too much about how many amazing women there are out there that will do whatever he wants meanwhile I'm digging through the dumpsters for some salvageable scraps to call a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Please remove ALL personal information from screenshots before posting them hereWhat if the screenshot is from a viral tweet/ public twitter account? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:22 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020The handbook says to wait 2- ideally 3 months before sleeping with any man. He definitely sounds like all he's thinking about is sex now :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Another reason why you shouldn’t accept a low effort date: men benefit from being seen in the company of a womanI was offered a park date where he “brings the drinks” and I told him no thank you I don’t do park dates esp on the first date and I won’t be drinking. He said thank you for letting me know and asked would I like to do dinner, a museum, or a drive in movie. I chose dinner and (only because I’m doing a cleanse/different diet atm) I suggested a restaurant that is not fancy but mid-level. He decided to come back at me with a cheaper $9-10 meal place. Blocked!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 8 | This is why I don't even date.Harry Potter and then Audacity of this Man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Trust your gut. Get out at the first signs of gaslighting.I feel this too. I tried again a couple months ago and went against my gut and was completely WRONG. I knew he was lying and didn’t listen to myself 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 178 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂It also went viral on Twitter! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Had a man call me a “weirdo” and “silly” when I told him I would not allow him to come into my apartment on our second date. Gaslighting so soon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:52 AM |
| 15 | In Memoriam 💔😢Why does this matter? He still died of cancer and still went through having the illness through the height of his career which is all anybody is trying to say here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | All you career gals...This is my goal!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/17 01:28 AM |
| 5 | BF of 6 years doesn't prioritize me. We don't spend enough time together, and I'm considering leaving him. Any advice?This is the most truest thing to ever true | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/16 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, my girlfriend wants to know what good, red pilled books she should be reading? Can you help meThe Surrendered Wife by Laura Doyle | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/16 03:19 AM |
| 1 | I know you all are just as annoyed as I am by the new Cranberry Splash commercial!That's exactly how I feel too! I'm very new and not so good at this yet. Maybe we could link up and support each other :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/15 09:29 PM |
| 1 | [Field Report] Got Humbled by my BF during DebateWow. Thank you so much for taking the time to write that out. I'm currently trying a lot of those out with my therapist already. Wanted to get someone else's perspective and I find it really useful to be able to relate to people a bit. Thanks again! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/15 10:22 PM |
| 1 | [Field Report] Got Humbled by my BF during DebateWhat are some tips you have for fixing that tendency to go into an unnecessary downward tailspin? Therapy? Just faking it till you make it? Curious because I have that problem too sometimes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/15 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Is your wife addicted to 'The Scroll'?Great advice! Thanks | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/12/15 05:10 PM |
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