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| 1 | Y'all ever turned into a food whore? | OJSimpsons | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 10:05 PM |
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| 3 | If there's no way to actually date women who aren't attracted to you; aren't incels and looksmaxxers kinda... right? :|Well of course you can't pick up a woman who isnt interested in you... but you can make them interested in you. Do you think every married couple thinks their spouse is a 10/10 on a physical level? Of course not. Thats silly. Have you never heard of the concept of "settling" for someone? Happens all the time. There's a lot more to relationships than physical attraction. I can talk to a 10/10 for 30 seconds and not be attracted to them at all. Youth and beauty fades for us. Find a person you love… | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 12:38 AM |
| 6 | how to avoid hitting on minors when running day game?Lol im too old to help you there. If they dont look at least 25, im not interested. | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 09:54 AM |
| 7 | 26M going on a date with a 32FYou dance with her. Dont worry about looking like an idiot. Its fun to be an idiot sometimes. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 12:31 PM |
| 25 | 26M going on a date with a 32FJust have fun and pretend you're not trying too hard. Having a good time is contagious. Trying too hard is infectious. | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 12:26 PM |
| 1 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?My recommended first step would be to get a job. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 07:10 AM |
| 15 | Are women after 25 harder to game?Yeah, the fuck boi tactics dont really work at that age. Theyre not looking for fuck boys anymore, theyre trying to find a husband and a father for their future kids. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How have you gotten an online dating match to come over directly to your place for a hook up?Send her pictures of my massive dong. | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Older waitress flirted with me at a salsa club, gave me her number, but our 'date' felt like I was just a ride for her — what happened?She said she had a boyfriend. Are you sure she thought it was a date? | /r/seduction | 08/08/25 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Got way more attractive -> Way harder to get girls onlinePerhaps your vanity is a turn off. | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 09:20 AM |
| 56 | What’s it like to date a woman who constantly tests a man compared to one who doesn’t?The women who constantly tests a man have very short relationships in my experience. | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 06:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you text with girls on insta?Im not sure. Probably need a profile first. | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateBring sparklers. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 01:35 PM |
| 68 | How can I seduce older women when I’m 19You don't seduce an older woman, they seduce you. | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What type of Girl do you actually want ?Nice | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl calls you bro ?I'm just here to help get my step sister unstuck. | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Do men find straightforward and assertive women seductive?Yes, if they're hot. | /r/seduction | 14/06/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Does ignoring girls work?If you're young enough, maybe. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 09:35 PM |
| 5 | Confused on how Im attracting older girls.Being tall and muscular outweighs cool cars, beards, and tattoos. Height is probably the biggest factor tbh to not automatically deny someone. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 04:30 PM |
| 5 | From a total introvert to multi champion in talking with girls & genuinely making them interested in you as a person.Who dubbed thee multi champion? Lol | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?Well some women do have sex with random people and don't need an emotional connection. But the trick is making an emotional connection quickly with women. Think of the emotional connection need as a spectrum. Some women need a lot more than others. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like it when you remember and use cute jokes with them over an extended period of time?Inside jokes are good with everybody. Shell probably think of you when she looks at the chair. But that's it. Its a good starting off point but doesn't really mean much. You can build on it though. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:26 PM |
| 13 | I f***king love rejection.We need more of this vibe in the sub, this is the goal of interacting with taken women. Good on you OP. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Some of you guys have no idea how cool or nice some of these girls are that you see on the street who you are afraid to approach!Yeah, I had a prejudice against really beautiful women. Like you expect that fit girl with a good figure that wears high end stuff, to be kind of a bitch. We're socialized to believe this (think mean girls) and have probably experienced it growing up, because they're also socialized to behave that way. A lot of beautiful women are also beautiful people. Beautiful people all around are what you want. Physical attraction isn't everything. Sometimes you can find both though. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Yeah, that would be a big turn off for me. We should both want it. I've recently had some friends approach me for fun times, but I'm not really interested tbh romantically (except physically would still be fun). I fooled around with both of them this last week, but I really like someone else. The first one, im confident will be cool about it. The second one, I may regret in upcoming weeks. It went farther than I intended and she wants more but I just gotta break it off with her and try and stay … | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps?Yes exactly, and don't ONLY flirt with girls either. Be friendly with everyone and talk to whoever. Fun people attract more people, and some will even be girls. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | What do girls want or expect out of men ?To be treated like people, honesty, passion, and a sense of humor. Good looks don't hurt either. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?Just work on improving yourself man, especially your self esteem. Think about the people you like to interact with and emulate them. Just be open and social with everyone. Guys, girls, young and old. You need to interact with people regularly to be comfortable in your own skin. Genuine compliments I like. See a random person wearing a shirt/shoes/hat whatever that you like or know about and say, "hey, I like your shirt man!" Just be open social with everyone. Women are just like men in a lot of … | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I initiate something with my boyfriend if I get nervous every time I try to?Can confirm, had mind read once. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | How do I initiate something with my boyfriend if I get nervous every time I try to?Just be honest with him about it. He probably feels the same way. I feel like its easier to relax once you get stuff like that off your chest. Take your time if you're nervous, have fun! | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 8 | You won’t get her by needing herYou can't fake it either. Be good vibes for the sake of being good vibes, everything else will follow. Good advice my dude. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:57 PM |
| 3 | So someone told me to get good with everyone to get good with girls you're interested in. Now, I'm nervous around everyone. How do I fix this?I'm honestly not 100% sure. I've been working on it (mental health stuff) since I've been an adult and I fucked up a lot in my 20s. The last year or so I've been more career focused and working more and bettering my life in general. It's really not even "seduction" advice as much as life advice. I've recently developed the mantra "Appreciate the little things. Don't sweat the small stuff." Which sounds like it means opposite things, but not for me. Appreciate the little good things, don't let th… | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:44 PM |
| 5 | So someone told me to get good with everyone to get good with girls you're interested in. Now, I'm nervous around everyone. How do I fix this?Meet enough people and you won't care. There's always more people. Don't get infatuated with people who show no interest. Just try to have fun. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 05:20 PM |
| 10 | So someone told me to get good with everyone to get good with girls you're interested in. Now, I'm nervous around everyone. How do I fix this?Just find a spot you like (I like the local dive bar), talk with everyone, and try to have good vibes. I've had random straight dudes buy me a drink the last two nights just because I was friendly talking with them and a mutual girl friend. Don't take yourself too seriously and just focus on having fun. It takes a little while to build the social momentum but once it's going, it becomes natural and you will be happier. Im 30, almost 31 and just started having a great life about a few months ago.… | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | I got rejected today and I’m proud as fThat's awesome bro, personally I would've invited her and the boyfriend. Based on your edit though I understand why you didn't. It's great to know your limits. Keep it up man. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 05:04 PM |
| 8 | a girl/my best freind said im being to clingy and she wants me to leave her alone after i told her how i feelWhy didn't you tell her the reason? That's silly. You're sending mixed signals. Do you like her? I honestly can't tell either. Is she the one you described when describing who you liked? It's not her fault you rejected her while possibly liking her. She's avoiding that awkwardness. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls come back to my place but leave instantly?So the other 20 are cool? | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 01:12 PM |
| 6 | Stop being scurrredNothing | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | "Hi, do I know you?" openerAlso, you seem like a sissy for being so upset that people don't understand a word which a niche group of people seemed to redefine. | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | "Hi, do I know you?" openerWhat does that mean? I'm familiar with setting things down but that doesn't really apply here. | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | "Hi, do I know you?" openerOk... uhm, but what does "set" mean? I apologize for not being familiar with the term. I assume it's "seduction" based, but I only look at this sub when I'm bored. I'd probably know the term if I needed seduction advice from strangers on the internet, sorry? | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | "Hi, do I know you?" openerLost me at "set" | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Any regular weed smokers here?I like it because I like smoking. But it definitely makes me more socially withdrawn. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 12:47 AM |
| 19 | Where are they?I like hiking, but I dont think most women want to be approached in the middle of the woods by a man she doesn't know, especially with spotty cell coverage. Something like a Greenway would probably be good though. | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 12:38 PM |
| 5 | How do you talk to shy girls?Are you sure they're shy? | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Some girls just flat-out suckSo you're saying conservative girls have REPULSIVE ideas about the world? I tend to agree. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 11:11 AM |
| 56 | Some girls just flat-out suckIdk, I like it when girls suck. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Why did I get more girls as a simp?Hes saying if its not broke, don't fix it. Get back to simping. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 12:42 AM |
| 0 | how do you respond when a girl says "wow you're tall"?"You only think that because you're a child. You'll probably be taller, or are at least close enough to realize I'm not actually tall." | /r/seduction | 23/04/21 11:18 PM |
| 4 | Girls don't do things by accidentYou seem like the kinda "alpha" who constantly reminds people youre the "alpha." | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Stop falling in love with people you're not datingGreat, now I'm in love with you. | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 06:30 PM |
| 2 | As long as you are not self-conscious about it, then there is nothing weird about going out alone.So, "I have no friends!" Is the incorrect response? | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 12:16 AM |
| 4 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?I suggest sitting on her lap. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 03:23 PM |
| 3 | A Girl accused me of doing Pick Up but we had a nice conversationLol I was just making a joke. I dont believe in God. Being more human-centric is good advice for those trying to improve their game. I'd prefer to avoid humans. | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 01:46 PM |
| 2 | A Girl accused me of doing Pick Up but we had a nice conversationHe's just there to level out people like me, who blame God for everything that goes wrong. Yin and yang | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 12:48 PM |
| 60 | Cold approached a police officer 😂First I said, "you look nice," then I said, "you look elegant." Thats so strange. I dont think it would be received well by most women. | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Eye contactI'm just imagining two people staring weirdly at each other lmao. Find the right person to be weird with and everything works out great! | /r/seduction | 08/10/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | I just realized how much of a fucking pussy I amDude, literally just say hi and walk away. Remember they don't owe you anything, not even a hi back, but you'll probably get some. | /r/seduction | 03/10/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How can I tell if my best friend wants to fuck?It's more about spelling than grammar. Good luck with your lady friend! | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 6 | How can I tell if my best friend wants to fuck?"out" are the letters you're looking for. It goes after "ab" and forms the word "about." | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Newly single and I want to chatOoh that is scary. I see what you mean about getting home can be scary. I still think it's a good place to meet and be sociable with people. Maybe find another friend to go with you to make leaving easier and safer. You dont have to tell them if you're single or not. Just an idea. Its someplace people are expected to socialize and be relaxed. Any place like that would be good I think. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Newly single and I want to chatGo to a sports bar. Guys will be there. See if you meet anyone nice to chat with, its public and safe to leave whenever you want. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 09:44 AM |
| 2 | How were my parents and grandparents able to meet each other at a young age and get married without ever having heard of seduction or pick up artistry?They had way less options and lived in a smaller less connected world. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 02:19 PM |
| 16 | [F28] SHY GUYS: How do I tell a potential (but extremely shy) guy that I'm in an open marriage and want to play, without scaring him away?So much this | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 10:27 AM |
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