OL_SONF_VORSG Archive

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128	Apparently not wanting to be assaulted in the bedroom is "vanilla". I think the worst part is that women are expected to be into these things and act like they enjoy them or else they’re seen as boring and vanilla. They need to be into EVERYTHING the man is into (anal, FFM threesomes, hitting, spitting, etc). But flip the script! If a woman wanted to slap her husband around and spit in his face, he would be horrified and deem it humiliating. He would be disgusted and probably scared that she’s into those things. For men, it’s completely accepted and even expecte…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/22 05:02 PM
134	Tired of the men obsessed with women “reciprocating” Not to mention they want a sugar mommy wife but still want to give themselves the title of “king of the house” and call themselves providers. Many of them want to puff out their chests and say they’re a man but are glorified children, having women clean up their messes, tend to their every need, pay for dates/bills/gifts, etc. It’s kind of ironic when you think about how these men are usually the same ones who think women are too emotional and stupidly childlike.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/22 09:48 PM
3	Do you have any male friends? When I was younger I had quite a few male friends until I realized that close friendships between men and women just can’t happen. Every single male friend I had would seem to really appreciate me and respect me…and then they would confess and ghost me once I didn’t reciprocate. Men cannot have friendships with women without seeing them as potential sexual partners. Even on the other side. The guys I dated when I was younger had close friendships with women and for the life of them could NOT est…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 02:42 PM
1	365 Days on Netflix really helped when I was feeling horny AF. I had given the show a try after I heard about how “good” it was and the punishment scene was the last straw for me. To me it doesn’t seem like a woman’s fantasy to have her choices stripped and to be reduced to some pretty faced pet who needs to learn to love her master. It perpetuates the idea that women are an object to obtain, her love is the achievement. The punishment scene was just god awful. Why would a man forcing you to watch him be pleasured by another woman make you want him? What ki…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/21 05:36 PM
4	Dating outside of your race I think each has an upside/downside. Being Hispanic, dating men outside my culture results in men finding me “exotic” and having expectations of me in regards to what I should be based off their assumptions (sassy, flirty, sensual just to name a few). But dating within my culture brings the same risk because of the expectations within my culture that the men have been indoctrinated with (submissive domestic wife, having however many kids the man wants, the man is the king of the house). I don’t …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 05:03 PM
48	Upholding boundaries around porn/sex work/strip clubs is not insecure. Actually, it’s the opposite of insecure. Not just being called insecure but any insult used on you to try and shake your ground! I’ve been called all sorts of names by men. Toxic, controlling, jealous, insecure, too much. My younger self would recoil at those names and submit to allowing men to do what they wanted, despite them crossing my very clear boundaries. But that’s what they want. Try to make you question yourself in order to get away with doing things that make you uncomfortable, make you upset. I learned to let those insults …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 03:29 AM
3	This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setup That’s embarrassing for him. I’ve seen laptops more expensive than his price range for a ring. This is the woman you want to commit your life to and who has been there for you through thick and thin for 4 years and you STILL don’t think she’s worth any real investment?? She wasn’t obligated to take care of him the way she did when he needed someone the most but she did it anyways. Speaks volumes of her character. Most people would never go that far. And yet he acts like it’s a thing of the past.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/21 03:18 AM
3	Bachelor Party And Strip Clubs Saying the friend is an amazing husband is just trying to excuse his actions that CANNOT be excused. Wife had a simple request and he lied to her, who knows what else he’s lied about. And if your fiancé knows you don’t want strippers around yet still wants to keep a groomsman who might bring them regardless, that means he expects it and wants it. He just wants to make it seem like he had nothing to do with it to play victim and avoid consequences. If your fiancé is so comfortable with excusing o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 10:56 PM
19	This is so sad and scary. We are not safe anywhere. Not even our own homes 😔. This is what I hate about apartments. Offers no real security, especially to women. I had a leak in my roof, was told someone would eventually come to fix it. Never gave me a date or time. Until suddenly one day I hear someone rummaging around in my living room. A fucking maintenance person just waltzed in without knocking and I wasn’t even fully dressed. These third party people shouldn’t have this kind of power.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 09:51 PM
6	The straw that broke the camels back for me, and what has turned me angry and bitter against men is not only the abuse they've subjected me to, but the fact that I'm 28 years old and no man has never even gifted me a bouquet. LVM do LVM things. They don’t see the value in courtship or gifting. They think giving the bare minimum will satisfy a woman because he’s gotten away with it for so long. I’ve always been vocal with my love for flowers, they’re the perfect quick gift. I’m confident in my looks. Yet I’ve never received flowers voluntarily. I’ve had to ask/demand for flowers and that’s a low point no one should reach. Sometimes it’s best to be alone to appreciate your own company and to remember self love. Because…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/21 04:10 AM
206	And y’all are still using OLD? And these are the same men who say “women get who they want, men get who they can”. Lmao they literally choose to not have standards and yet get offended when women do.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/21 12:58 AM