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| 119 | And y’all are still using OLD?Nah just an emoji wave 👋🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:07 AM |
| 3 | That’s what actual “Traditional” means. I think people tend to forget that.OMG ladies this is what I want! I’m about to start dating but I live in the pick me libfem capital (the UK). I’m terrified of accidentally walking into something completely the opposite 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 09:31 AM |
| 1 | 50/50 relationships will never be equalIn which is country this so I can avoid it?!😱 I work NHS midwifery (UK) and a man absolutely cannot make demands on what type do repairs he wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 05:50 PM |
| 56 | Another Valid Reason Women Are Refusing To Procreate With Pornsick Scrotes : in the U.K. there was over 9 million attempts to access photos and videos of children suffering sexual abuse in April last year alone. Britain is the THIRD largest consumer of live- streamed child abuse world wide.I’m British and currently on a dating hiatus, and for while now I have considered not dating British born men (However, I don’t mind first generation born British) as I have had the worst experience with them. They tend to be cheap, repressed, passive aggressive, arrogant and have poor hygiene, sorry not sorry. This just solidifies my decision. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 12 | It’s Astounding to Me How Little Credit Women Get For PregnancyI haven’t watched. I saw her vid in trending and was infuriated by that “We’re Pregnant” title! I froth at the mouth with rage when I hear this term (I work in maternity so hear/see a lot of peak pickmeishism and shitty relationships). YOU are pregnant! There is no WE! He put in 1% of the works. Let me find out she foots the bill for anything and does most of the domestic labour 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:32 AM |
| 6 | A post about attachment theory and why it's important for you to be aware of itFellow avoidant here! 100% agree with your post!🤚🏽 I tend to collect intelligence on men, once the negative list starts to get longer than positive list I’m out. And when I’m out, I’m out there’s no coming back. I happily discuss what they did and why I have to leave as being ghosted is not nice. In the past my tolerance was higher for bad behaviour, so the list were longer. Now I have a points system based on my turn ons and turn offs just in case my avoidant attachment style is kicking in to e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:35 PM |
| 7 | A post about attachment theory and why it's important for you to be aware of itThanks. I know avoidant attached people have a bad reputation, but I think people need to understand that it can’t be helped. Becoming avoidant attached is not a choice (it’s how we were raised in our first 4-5years of our life and is almost irreversible) or a man thing. Only 25% of population is avoidant and it’s spilt equally between men and women. Also, men of all attachments styles are typically raised to be more selfish or more likely to be encouraged to use women and discard them, so they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:03 AM |
| 8 | Carry easily accessible self-defense items sisI wish I could carry the first two things, or even carry pepper spray but it’s illegal in UK. Apparently I’m developing my nasty attitude as I had a guy approach me twice once at my front door (he’s a neighbour so it completely threw me off as I usually ignore dusties 🤢) and I kindly replied to him hello and kept it moving, then I saw him again in local area 15mins later. He said something but I didn’t hear what he said in time, before I had a chance to answer he starts yelling about how stuck u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:27 PM |
| 38 | A post about attachment theory and why it's important for you to be aware of itGreat post. I’m overall avoidant but I have been working on becoming a secure adult over that last 5yrs. When I did test in the beginning I was 70% avoidant. Now I am mostly secure. So I guess it’s working (apparently you can’t fully change but can learn technique to be aware of it and soothe it). Despite this I realised my parents did provide me some standards (no children for undeserving men as it is the ultimate trap, marriage is a must and if he stutters about this it you must walk, don’t da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:54 PM |
| 10 | Married at First Sight shows that marriage/couples counseling is a scam.I haven’t watched the show but I have watched reviews about the show by Dr Kirk Honda. He’s a Family and Marriage Therapist. His channel is called Psychology in Seattle. He’s a therapist who reviews shows and does podcasts on psychology theories and he reviews Marriage at First Sight (US) and is really critical of the therapists style and the panel in general. He said it is not a good representation of what good marriage counselling looks like as it is bias and judgemental. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:54 AM |
| 3 | FWB explained featuring Boris 🤡 🤡🤡 😂😂😂Uh... Boris... low value man AND a low value politician! 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Yes, it is violence, RUN!“Is this violence?” My God some of us are lost! I had guys so far less and I ran! Did you get her username? She needs help! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Leveled up to a Ph.D. today.Well done, hun!!! Hoping to follow in your footsteps very soon! Congratulations 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:13 AM |
| 11 | I can't even. I'm good enough to fuck but not date wtfDon’t take it personally, you could be a ten all round and dudes will try this with you! They are opportunists and will try you. If you gave him a taste and he randomly hits you up, just laugh out loud and block em! Because good chance they are looking for a booty call | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 09:43 AM |
| 10 | Love is Blind on NetflixYea I'm not keen on the show. It doesn't really align with good/safe dating practice or the principles. The lack of vetting, not taking time to get to know a potential partner, not leaving their options open (although this could be editing), and falling for someone hard within in a space of short space of time (5 days, and 2 "dates" for one couple!) made me cringe. Essentially, this felt like fast-forwarding which potentially lead someone into being tricked into a relationship or the true nature… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:52 PM |
| 15 | I’ve both been & comforted that girlYes to a union! I am in awe and in love with the Icelandic Women’s strike in 1975. It was for working rights, but 90 per cent of the women also went on strike from housework and childcare. It was only one day, but it brought men to their knees! We need to come together as women to demand better treatment from men and withhold our services. But, since we don’t have that I’m on my own personal sex strike. No man shall enter until my HV demands are met lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:29 PM |
| 11 | Airport LVM! Leave him hanging ladies!Haha! I just can’t believe that there are men that cheap and bold to do it. And that there are women, not even their girlfriend/fiancée/wife, who would jump to do this!🤣 But, I can’t front like I’ve not had many a pick-me moments in my former misguided days 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:19 PM |
| 54 | Airport LVM! Leave him hanging ladies!My God! I’d love for a dude to try this with me! I’d send him “refer a friend” link for Uber so quickly! ETA: missing word added | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 02:53 PM |
| 17 | There are so many pick me woman in r/dating advice and I wanna barf.Yes, I noticed this too. I unfollowed it and the relationship advice one. I’m very much about ensuring my energy/space remains positive and conducive to what I want to get out of life. Just seeing the titles threw my energy off lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 10:06 AM |
| 5 | These LVM can't handle meEhhhhmmm I think this isn’t genuine FDS post. It’s insulting actually. Very LVM lurker-y... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:58 PM |
| 27 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowTell him you have gain weight too and watch his reaction lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:03 PM |
| 16 | Working as a Postpartum Nurse has raised my standards tenfold. Here’s why.I have the same sentiment after working in women’s health (fertility, antenatal, intrapartum and postnatal research) for the last 6 years. I mainly spent my time working in an impoverished/deprived area. The level of uselessness from the fathers (from all classes and backgrounds) and some the extreme cases of abuse and single mothers come in with their mother and sister as birthing partners woke me the hell up. Also, we do a lot of research on the dark side of pregnancy, so seeing these women ri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 05:47 PM |
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